Gottman Method Therapists in Bayside, NY

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Chelsea Calello
Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bayside, NY 11361  (Online Only)
Stress is a part of life, and learning to manage it can make a world of difference. My open and empathetic approach aims to foster a sense of connection and collaboration, reassuring you that you're not alone in your struggles. As a solution-focused therapist, we'll identify practical solutions for issues within our control, empowering you to take meaningful steps forward. For issues outside of our control, you’ll learn techniques to cultivate acceptance and develop a more positive perspective, alleviating their impact on your overall well-being.
Stress is a part of life, and learning to manage it can make a world of difference. My open and empathetic approach aims to foster a sense of connection and collaboration, reassuring you that you're not alone in your struggles. As a solution-focused therapist, we'll identify practical solutions for issues within our control, empowering you to take meaningful steps forward. For issues outside of our control, you’ll learn techniques to cultivate acceptance and develop a more positive perspective, alleviating their impact on your overall well-being.
(646) 687-3169 View (646) 687-3169
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Dr. Mitch PsyD and Lisa Life Coaching Specialists
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Bayside, NY 11360
Dr. Mitch PsyD & Lisa Life Coach for Private Marriage/Couples & Anxiety, have had 35 Years of Co-Leading our Workshops (having a Male and Female Perspective). Our Private Workshops are Not Traditional Counseling. We Provide Two Professionals that Specialize in the Treatment of Relationships and/or Anxiety. We are Opened: Days, Eve's, Weekends & Same Day Appt's Available. These Workshops are Designed for a Rapid Recovery and are very Powerful & Comprehensive. Our Marriages/Couples & Anxiety Workshops have an 85% Rate of Success when you Complete our Program. In Addition, we have a After-Care Program (monthly) for Tune-Ups for Life.
Dr. Mitch PsyD & Lisa Life Coach for Private Marriage/Couples & Anxiety, have had 35 Years of Co-Leading our Workshops (having a Male and Female Perspective). Our Private Workshops are Not Traditional Counseling. We Provide Two Professionals that Specialize in the Treatment of Relationships and/or Anxiety. We are Opened: Days, Eve's, Weekends & Same Day Appt's Available. These Workshops are Designed for a Rapid Recovery and are very Powerful & Comprehensive. Our Marriages/Couples & Anxiety Workshops have an 85% Rate of Success when you Complete our Program. In Addition, we have a After-Care Program (monthly) for Tune-Ups for Life.
(332) 330-3361 View (332) 330-3361
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Lauren Melzer
EdD, MS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bayside, NY 11360
From a therapeutic perspective, I believe in "meeting people where they’re at." I also consider therapy a great way of finding what a beautiful life looks like for each and every person, with an understanding that we’re all different, but with some commonalities amongst us. I find that we can all find pockets of peace no matter how chaotic our lives are, and I love to help others find that too. I believe in combatting the “perfect” world social media has created by offering a real person to help support you, not a textbook robot.
From a therapeutic perspective, I believe in "meeting people where they’re at." I also consider therapy a great way of finding what a beautiful life looks like for each and every person, with an understanding that we’re all different, but with some commonalities amongst us. I find that we can all find pockets of peace no matter how chaotic our lives are, and I love to help others find that too. I believe in combatting the “perfect” world social media has created by offering a real person to help support you, not a textbook robot.
(929) 930-4540 View (929) 930-4540
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Evan Lance Styron
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bayside, NY 11359
Do you often play REMs soundtrack: “It’s the end of the world as we know it” in your head constantly? I get it… life is scary now and it feels unpredictable, chaotic, and you despair. Keeping all this bottled up isn’t serving you well though. There is no gold medal for doing it on your own. Whether you are struggling with constant racing thoughts, feelings of sadness, parent/child dynamics, marriage difficulties, flashbacks, triggers, depressive symptoms caused by trauma, you deserve to be SEEN and HEARD. I have a nifty toolbox and I blend a variety of proven techniques to get you off the merry-go-round,
Do you often play REMs soundtrack: “It’s the end of the world as we know it” in your head constantly? I get it… life is scary now and it feels unpredictable, chaotic, and you despair. Keeping all this bottled up isn’t serving you well though. There is no gold medal for doing it on your own. Whether you are struggling with constant racing thoughts, feelings of sadness, parent/child dynamics, marriage difficulties, flashbacks, triggers, depressive symptoms caused by trauma, you deserve to be SEEN and HEARD. I have a nifty toolbox and I blend a variety of proven techniques to get you off the merry-go-round,
(516) 363-0784 View (516) 363-0784
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Anderson S Yoon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DSW, LCSW-R, MSt, RPT-S
Verified Verified
Bayside, NY 11361  (Online Only)
Every human being has the right to pursue happiness without being inundated with emotional and behavioral problems. Happiness is not optional but mandatory. Everyone deserves a fulfilling life. To achieve optimal success and happiness, we must maintain emotional health as well as physical health. If we lose this emotional component, physical health is not achievable, and vice versa.
Every human being has the right to pursue happiness without being inundated with emotional and behavioral problems. Happiness is not optional but mandatory. Everyone deserves a fulfilling life. To achieve optimal success and happiness, we must maintain emotional health as well as physical health. If we lose this emotional component, physical health is not achievable, and vice versa.
(917) 905-2917 View (917) 905-2917
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Emily Wong
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CMHS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bayside, NY 11360  (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
It is always a vulnerable choice we make when we decide to attend therapy. Therefore, it is only natural to look for a safe place to be ourselves. To speak, be heard/validated, and to feel secure. Most importantly, to feel listened to without the fear of judgement. I understand. I aim to provide such a place for you where we can also collaborate, help promote self-growth, and self-exploration within your relationship with yourself or with others. Those are difficult situations to navigate and to find yourselves in and the therapeutic process is a personal journey, so seeking the right kind of therapist is important.
It is always a vulnerable choice we make when we decide to attend therapy. Therefore, it is only natural to look for a safe place to be ourselves. To speak, be heard/validated, and to feel secure. Most importantly, to feel listened to without the fear of judgement. I understand. I aim to provide such a place for you where we can also collaborate, help promote self-growth, and self-exploration within your relationship with yourself or with others. Those are difficult situations to navigate and to find yourselves in and the therapeutic process is a personal journey, so seeking the right kind of therapist is important.
(516) 550-4862 View (516) 550-4862

More Therapists Nearby

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Liz Zhao
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Flushing, NY 11354  (Online Only)
I also utilize Gottman Method to help couples to navigate different relationship issues.
I believe that everyone has the inner ability to learn and grow even though they may feel stuck at some point of their life. I provide a warm, safe, supportive and collaborative environment for clients to develop a better understanding their thoughts and feeling, improve coping strategies and achieve the goals they want.
I also utilize Gottman Method to help couples to navigate different relationship issues.
I believe that everyone has the inner ability to learn and grow even though they may feel stuck at some point of their life. I provide a warm, safe, supportive and collaborative environment for clients to develop a better understanding their thoughts and feeling, improve coping strategies and achieve the goals they want.
(929) 429-2215 View (929) 429-2215
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Wildilisa M Silverman
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Fresh Meadows, NY 11365  (Online Only)
I am a sex therapist and I have achieved Level 1 and 2 of the Gottman Method.
Hi! I am a sex and relationship therapist providing support to individuals and couples, predominately the Latino/a/x/e, BIPOC and LGBTQIA+ communities. I am passionate about helping clients who wish to understand and transform patterns that are negatively impacting their self-esteem, relationships, work and/or parenting. The clients I work with are motivated and proactive towards making positive changes, improve their communication skills, overcome sexual trauma and shame, work through unhelpful patterns, and learn new ways of coping and relating.
I am a sex therapist and I have achieved Level 1 and 2 of the Gottman Method.
Hi! I am a sex and relationship therapist providing support to individuals and couples, predominately the Latino/a/x/e, BIPOC and LGBTQIA+ communities. I am passionate about helping clients who wish to understand and transform patterns that are negatively impacting their self-esteem, relationships, work and/or parenting. The clients I work with are motivated and proactive towards making positive changes, improve their communication skills, overcome sexual trauma and shame, work through unhelpful patterns, and learn new ways of coping and relating.
(929) 612-3597 View (929) 612-3597
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Nazalene Alli
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Flushing, NY 11354  (Online Only)
Nazalene (they/them/theirs), LMSW, is a non-binary psychotherapist who practices from a place of empathy. Nazalene is creative, compassionate, intuitive, intersectional, & holistic in their work with clients to improve confidence & create safety. Nazalene will honor your self-determination, integrating therapeutic frameworks that resonate with you. This can include approaches like mindfulness practices, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), and meditative interventions.
Nazalene (they/them/theirs), LMSW, is a non-binary psychotherapist who practices from a place of empathy. Nazalene is creative, compassionate, intuitive, intersectional, & holistic in their work with clients to improve confidence & create safety. Nazalene will honor your self-determination, integrating therapeutic frameworks that resonate with you. This can include approaches like mindfulness practices, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), and meditative interventions.
(929) 493-4686 View (929) 493-4686
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Hal Brickman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSW, MSW, CHT, BA
Verified Verified
Great Neck, NY 11021
Mentoring couples counselors and practicing as a couples counselor himself since 1978, Hal firmly believes that trust is the bedrock of a successful relationship. It fosters effective communication and resolves conflicts. Leveraging his decades of experience, Hal cultivates strategies and techniques to help couples rebuild trust and fortify their connection. One of his fundamental teachings centers around the significance of vulnerability in a relationship. He encourages couples to share their deepest fears and insecurities, creating a safe environment where both partners feel heard and understood.
Mentoring couples counselors and practicing as a couples counselor himself since 1978, Hal firmly believes that trust is the bedrock of a successful relationship. It fosters effective communication and resolves conflicts. Leveraging his decades of experience, Hal cultivates strategies and techniques to help couples rebuild trust and fortify their connection. One of his fundamental teachings centers around the significance of vulnerability in a relationship. He encourages couples to share their deepest fears and insecurities, creating a safe environment where both partners feel heard and understood.
(929) 822-6493 View (929) 822-6493
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Allia Brickman
Counselor, LMHC, CGT, CCAT, CHT
Verified Verified
Great Neck, NY 11021  (Online Only)
Do you and your partner have a lot of love but find yourselves struggling with communication? Do unresolved issues feel like roadblocks in your relationship? Do you want to regain intimacy and closeness with one another?
Do you and your partner have a lot of love but find yourselves struggling with communication? Do unresolved issues feel like roadblocks in your relationship? Do you want to regain intimacy and closeness with one another?
(516) 265-7069 View (516) 265-7069
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Vibrant Women Wellness Counseling, LCSW, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
Fresh Meadows, NY 11366  (Online Only)
As a woman tending to multiple roles and responsibilities, it can be easy to lose sight of caring for your own needs. You may feel overwhelmed by your responsibilities, feel anxious, depressed, and even experience physical and spiritual burnout related to issues you are struggling with. You may also be experiencing difficulty maintaining relationships with others including those closest to you- partners, children, and or other family members. Your reality can be hard to deal with because it is very different than the life you envisioned for yourself. Though is difficult to have hope amidst your situation, all hope is not lost.
As a woman tending to multiple roles and responsibilities, it can be easy to lose sight of caring for your own needs. You may feel overwhelmed by your responsibilities, feel anxious, depressed, and even experience physical and spiritual burnout related to issues you are struggling with. You may also be experiencing difficulty maintaining relationships with others including those closest to you- partners, children, and or other family members. Your reality can be hard to deal with because it is very different than the life you envisioned for yourself. Though is difficult to have hope amidst your situation, all hope is not lost.
(718) 957-1283 View (718) 957-1283
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Thrive Mental Health Holistic Wellness Counseling
Counselor
Verified Verified
Fresh Meadows, NY 11365  (Online Only)
Thrive is a multicultural practice with clients from all ethnicities and sexual orientations. Our clients come to us for culturally relevant & generationally inclusive individual counseling to positively adjust to changes in their lives, better navigate anxiety, cope with depression, heal from grief, explore their identities, resolve interpersonal conflicts, and to unpack trauma/racial trauma so that they can live optimally happy lives. Our clients seek to heal from their pasts by learning healthy ways to change the connectivity of their thoughts, emotions & behaviors and to develop positive coping skills.
Thrive is a multicultural practice with clients from all ethnicities and sexual orientations. Our clients come to us for culturally relevant & generationally inclusive individual counseling to positively adjust to changes in their lives, better navigate anxiety, cope with depression, heal from grief, explore their identities, resolve interpersonal conflicts, and to unpack trauma/racial trauma so that they can live optimally happy lives. Our clients seek to heal from their pasts by learning healthy ways to change the connectivity of their thoughts, emotions & behaviors and to develop positive coping skills.
(646) 681-7170 View (646) 681-7170
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Life in Progress Mental Health Counseling Center
LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Flushing, NY 11366
Life can be an incredible ride with ups and downs that may be difficult to deal with. If you've hit a roadblock or feel like life is getting to be too much to handle, we are here to help. Our goal is to help you live your life to its fullest potential. Interested in diversifying your experiences to ones that support growth and accomplishment as well as achieving greater consciousness and clarity in your life? Looking for help with managing and overcoming life stressors, emotional disturbances, behavioral problems and relationship issues? Our clinicians can assist you in finding ways to move towards your goals.
Life can be an incredible ride with ups and downs that may be difficult to deal with. If you've hit a roadblock or feel like life is getting to be too much to handle, we are here to help. Our goal is to help you live your life to its fullest potential. Interested in diversifying your experiences to ones that support growth and accomplishment as well as achieving greater consciousness and clarity in your life? Looking for help with managing and overcoming life stressors, emotional disturbances, behavioral problems and relationship issues? Our clinicians can assist you in finding ways to move towards your goals.
(929) 201-0192 View (929) 201-0192
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Dr. Mitch PsyD and Lisa Life Coaching Specialists
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Great Neck Plaza, NY 11021
Dr. Mitch PsyD & Lisa Life Coach for Private Marriage/Couples & Anxiety, have had 35 Years of Co-Leading our Workshops (having a Male and Female Perspective). Our Private Workshops are Not Traditional Counseling. We Provide Two Professionals that Specialize in the Treatment of Relationships and/or Anxiety. We are Opened: Days, Eve's, Weekends & Same Day Appt's Available. These Workshops are Designed for a Rapid Recovery and are very Powerful & Comprehensive. Our Marriages/Couples & Anxiety Workshops have an 85% Rate of Success when you Complete our Program. In Addition, we have a After-Care Program (monthly) for Tune-Ups for Life.
Dr. Mitch PsyD & Lisa Life Coach for Private Marriage/Couples & Anxiety, have had 35 Years of Co-Leading our Workshops (having a Male and Female Perspective). Our Private Workshops are Not Traditional Counseling. We Provide Two Professionals that Specialize in the Treatment of Relationships and/or Anxiety. We are Opened: Days, Eve's, Weekends & Same Day Appt's Available. These Workshops are Designed for a Rapid Recovery and are very Powerful & Comprehensive. Our Marriages/Couples & Anxiety Workshops have an 85% Rate of Success when you Complete our Program. In Addition, we have a After-Care Program (monthly) for Tune-Ups for Life.
(516) 212-7330 View (516) 212-7330
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Jacqueline Valencia Rodriguez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, LCSW-R, CAP
Verified Verified
Whitestone, NY 11357
Awareness precedes change every time! As a trained couples and family therapist, I facilitate holistic and natural dialogue to adjust faulty communication patterns that have taken shape in your world over time and, perhaps, simply do not work anymore. In our process together, we will enhance your awareness in life to decrease anxiety and increase your ability to make the organic, positive change you crave individually or as a family. I will help you break free from the use of unhealthy dependency habits that have led to you're feeling joyless. We will journey together, in empowering yourself and developing healthier connections.
Awareness precedes change every time! As a trained couples and family therapist, I facilitate holistic and natural dialogue to adjust faulty communication patterns that have taken shape in your world over time and, perhaps, simply do not work anymore. In our process together, we will enhance your awareness in life to decrease anxiety and increase your ability to make the organic, positive change you crave individually or as a family. I will help you break free from the use of unhealthy dependency habits that have led to you're feeling joyless. We will journey together, in empowering yourself and developing healthier connections.
(646) 872-8144 View (646) 872-8144
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Michelle Silver Lining Mental Health Counseling
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Great Neck Plaza, NY 11021
Our clinical areas of expertise include anxiety, depression, martial issues, codependency, self-esteem, women’s issues, substance abuse, harm reduction, grief, and transitional concerns. Through evidenced based approaches, we aim to tailor our treatment approach specific to the needs of each individual. We believe in helping individuals build on their strengths, gain insight, and develop effective coping skills.
Our clinical areas of expertise include anxiety, depression, martial issues, codependency, self-esteem, women’s issues, substance abuse, harm reduction, grief, and transitional concerns. Through evidenced based approaches, we aim to tailor our treatment approach specific to the needs of each individual. We believe in helping individuals build on their strengths, gain insight, and develop effective coping skills.
(929) 348-2707 View (929) 348-2707
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Dr. Mitch PsyD and Lisa Life Coaching Specialists
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Douglaston, NY 11362
Dr. Mitch PsyD & Lisa Life Coach for Private Marriage/Couples & Anxiety, have had 35 Years of Co-Leading our Workshops (having a Male and Female Perspective). Our Private Workshops are Not Traditional Counseling. We Provide Two Professionals that Specialize in the Treatment of Relationships and/or Anxiety. We are Opened: Days, Eve's, Weekends & Same Day Appt's Available. These Workshops are Designed for a Rapid Recovery and are very Powerful & Comprehensive. Our Marriages/Couples & Anxiety Workshops have an 85% Rate of Success when you Complete our Program. In Addition, we have a After-Care Program (monthly) for Tune-Ups for Life.
Dr. Mitch PsyD & Lisa Life Coach for Private Marriage/Couples & Anxiety, have had 35 Years of Co-Leading our Workshops (having a Male and Female Perspective). Our Private Workshops are Not Traditional Counseling. We Provide Two Professionals that Specialize in the Treatment of Relationships and/or Anxiety. We are Opened: Days, Eve's, Weekends & Same Day Appt's Available. These Workshops are Designed for a Rapid Recovery and are very Powerful & Comprehensive. Our Marriages/Couples & Anxiety Workshops have an 85% Rate of Success when you Complete our Program. In Addition, we have a After-Care Program (monthly) for Tune-Ups for Life.
(347) 697-4159 View (347) 697-4159
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Lauren Staley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFTA
Verified Verified
Flushing, NY 11358  (Online Only)
You want a change but don’t even know where to start. You might be overwhelmed by exhaustion, feeling disconnected or alone, and struggling to recall a time when things were different. But one thing is for sure: you’re ready for some relief. You’re ready to feel empowered. You’re ready to connect in your relationships . Most of all, you’re ready to feel better for real this time!
You want a change but don’t even know where to start. You might be overwhelmed by exhaustion, feeling disconnected or alone, and struggling to recall a time when things were different. But one thing is for sure: you’re ready for some relief. You’re ready to feel empowered. You’re ready to connect in your relationships . Most of all, you’re ready to feel better for real this time!
(929) 421-1279 View (929) 421-1279
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Rachel Du
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Flushing, NY 11355  (Online Only)
Are you feeling trapped in the relentless grip of anxiety or depression, struggling to find a way out of the darkness that envelops you? Do your relationships, once a source of joy and support, now feel like a source of frustration or disconnection? These questions resonate with the very heart of my work as a therapist. I specialize in helping individuals navigate the intricate landscapes of anxiety, depression, and complex relationship dynamics.
Are you feeling trapped in the relentless grip of anxiety or depression, struggling to find a way out of the darkness that envelops you? Do your relationships, once a source of joy and support, now feel like a source of frustration or disconnection? These questions resonate with the very heart of my work as a therapist. I specialize in helping individuals navigate the intricate landscapes of anxiety, depression, and complex relationship dynamics.
(862) 358-8211 View (862) 358-8211
Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.