Therapists in Accord, NY

Everyone deserves to be seen, heard, and valued. I collaborate with families, couples, and individuals to unpack and work through challenges and struggles from a strengths-based perspective. I work with clients to understand the larger cultural systems around all of us and how they impact our relationships and identities. I work from an anti-oppression, anti-diet, neurodiversity- affirming, disability justice, and Covid-conscious lens.

My work is focused very much on personal development and introspection. With workshops that involve deep inner personal work, it is important to me that you are willing to commit to therapy and truly prepared to dedicate time to experiencing your life in a new way. It is often very rewarding but can also be a challenging experience to have real change in your life. My work is for those who are ready to grow, learn and are open to the experience of transformation.

You worry all the time about being judged by other people. You feel disconnected from your body and, at the same time, feel like it’s all you think about. You question what you say, how your body looks, if you’re doing things “right,” and there are so many times where your mind feels like it’s on a hamster wheel that you can’t stop. You feel on edge all day and sometimes even feel like you may be having a heart attack. You don’t feel like you fit in anywhere. You’ve been made fun of before for so many different parts of who you are. You’ve been called weird or have been misunderstood at work, in your family, and even in some of your dating relationships. You’ve struggled to find someone who feels like a good fit romantically, and you’re worried there’s something wrong with you. You want to feel more connected to yourself again…

I hesitate to describe an ideal client. Any client who wants to explore their current situation with commitment to positive change is welcome.

Who you share your stories with matters. This is one of the reasons why choosing a therapist is so personal and important. There are many connections that shape your life. However, life doesn’t have to be dictated by previous experiences or fate. You have the capacity to make choices with the stories you're born into, and live these stories forward in new ways. The understanding that occurs in therapy creates the freedom to live meaningfully, especially when shared with a therapist who has broad experience and intuitive sensitivity to your concerns.

Have you ever been in a therapy session where the therapist sits quietly, listens attentively, nods politely an when you leave you're wondering what you got out of the session. You will find me to be highly engaged in your session offering ongoing feedback and dialog as well as positive responses and support to your therapy process. I offer an integrative strength based approach to develop the tools you need to find inner peace and calm in this stressful world we share. I specialize in the areas of anxiety, depression, PTSD, living with chronic illness attachment issues and supporting college students cope with stress and anxieties.

The past is never dead; it's not even past." - William Faulkner For individuals who may experience trauma or are going through difficult transitions, therapy experience can offer the opportunity to heal painful wounds of the past or of the present as well as the opportunity to learn to communicate feelings and emotions effectively. Individuals begin to improve relationships because of deeper understandings of their inner conflicts. By exploring reasons for conflicts, one gains insight into repetitive patterns of anger, suffering and destructive behavior, choosing instead enlightened behaviors that encourage positive self-development and happiness.

Developmental and life transitions can often cause anxiety, depression or lead to feelings of hopelessness and confusion. However crisis can also be an opportunity for growth and healing, a catalyst for positive change in our lives. By creating a space for self-exploration, free from judgment and pressure, I can help you to discover and develop your strengths, develop advanced coping skills to manage conflicts and develop a compassionate understanding of your vulnerabilities. We will work together to identify and change self-defeating patterns helping you to feel more productive in your life and satisfied with your relationships.

My name is Alyssa Angelillo and I am a licensed clinical social worker. I have been in the field of addiction working with a variety of client needs for 13 years, including but not limited to depression, anxiety, codependency, setting boundaries, and self-esteem. I have also worked with families and couples. I use a person-centered approach to work with you to meet your identified goals. I have worked in the addiction field for 13 years with a variety of client needs including but not limited to depression, anxiety, codependency, setting boundaries, and self-esteem.

There is something so valuable about every person having a space that is their own, and to feel safe enough to say and feel whatever comes up for them in that space. I work from these core beliefs: That curiosity leads to understanding, creativity + play can heal, and comfort is something many of us could use more of these days.

I know it can be difficult sometimes to reach out, but if you’re reading this, you may be looking for a therapist to help you (or someone you care about) with grief, trauma, anxiety, depression, and/or career & relationship issues. Or maybe you just need to talk confidentially to an objective party, to someone with a different perspective. Have a look at my website: https://adaptivehealing.org to get a better sense of what I do.