Attachment-based Therapists in Tenafly, NJ

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Nicole Mendicino
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CCTP, LMSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Tenafly, NJ 07670  (Online Only)
It's nice to meet you! Does your mind ever get the better of you? Are your thoughts so consuming that you can't seem to slow them down? Are you feeling unsettled, tense, or like you've lost yourself? You may be experiencing the unwanted effects of anxiety, chronic pain, or ongoing distress. These can feel debilitating when we do not know what to do with it all. Collaboratively, let's work towards reclaiming the life you truly deserve! To learn more about my practice, please view my website at wholeheartedcnslng.com
It's nice to meet you! Does your mind ever get the better of you? Are your thoughts so consuming that you can't seem to slow them down? Are you feeling unsettled, tense, or like you've lost yourself? You may be experiencing the unwanted effects of anxiety, chronic pain, or ongoing distress. These can feel debilitating when we do not know what to do with it all. Collaboratively, let's work towards reclaiming the life you truly deserve! To learn more about my practice, please view my website at wholeheartedcnslng.com
(973) 671-3048 View (973) 671-3048
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Alicia Nashel- Watts
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tenafly, NJ 07670
Waitlist for new clients
I subscribe to the belief that the unexamined life is not conducive to living your best life. I am a psychodynamic, eclectic and holistic psychotherapist working with adults, adolescents and couples whom experience symptoms of depression, anxiety or interpersonal conflict, and often those working through deep existential crisis. With my guidance and empathetic stance, I will help you explore and challenge old beliefs and current behaviors so that you may gain insight and deep understanding into how some past events, (even those which are seemingly insignificant) are having an effect on your current functioning.
I subscribe to the belief that the unexamined life is not conducive to living your best life. I am a psychodynamic, eclectic and holistic psychotherapist working with adults, adolescents and couples whom experience symptoms of depression, anxiety or interpersonal conflict, and often those working through deep existential crisis. With my guidance and empathetic stance, I will help you explore and challenge old beliefs and current behaviors so that you may gain insight and deep understanding into how some past events, (even those which are seemingly insignificant) are having an effect on your current functioning.
(551) 404-7730 View (551) 404-7730
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Cayley Kasten
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Tenafly, NJ 07670  (Online Only)
Chronic pain and illness can have a significant impact on the lives of those living with it. They can take a toll on mental and emotional wellbeing, relationships, and the way we feel about ourselves. People often describe feeling frustrated with their body, unable to keep up with day to day tasks, or anxious for when they may feel unwell again. Interactions with the medical system and insurance companies can be exhausting and traumatic. Pain and illness can play a big part in our relationship dynamics; creating challenges with the people we care about most who want to help but don't seem to understand or know how.
Chronic pain and illness can have a significant impact on the lives of those living with it. They can take a toll on mental and emotional wellbeing, relationships, and the way we feel about ourselves. People often describe feeling frustrated with their body, unable to keep up with day to day tasks, or anxious for when they may feel unwell again. Interactions with the medical system and insurance companies can be exhausting and traumatic. Pain and illness can play a big part in our relationship dynamics; creating challenges with the people we care about most who want to help but don't seem to understand or know how.
(201) 383-6279 View (201) 383-6279
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Felice Toonkel
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LMHC, SEP, NCPsyA
Verified Verified
Tenafly, NJ 07670
I am a licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and have been in private practice for over 30 years. The eclectic nature of my training and practice allows me to tailor therapy to your unique treatment needs. As we think about the nature of experiences such as trauma (both old and new), grief, loss, depression, and anxiety, it is clear they affect us through the mind, emotions, and the physical sensations. The mind-body connection treats the whole person in the service of health and well-being.
I am a licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and have been in private practice for over 30 years. The eclectic nature of my training and practice allows me to tailor therapy to your unique treatment needs. As we think about the nature of experiences such as trauma (both old and new), grief, loss, depression, and anxiety, it is clear they affect us through the mind, emotions, and the physical sensations. The mind-body connection treats the whole person in the service of health and well-being.
(201) 543-1902 View (201) 543-1902
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Randi Linick
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCADC
Verified Verified
Tenafly, NJ 07670
I am a licensed professional counselor (LPC), as well as a licensed certified alcohol and drug counselor (LCADC). For over a decade I have been working with adolescents, adults, and families utilizing an eclectic, holistic approach. I work with clients helping to foster the mind/body connection. Together we nurture this connection in order to promote balanced, well-rounded mental health. I received my Bachelor's Degree from Washington University in St. Louis and my Master's in Mental Health Counseling from Long Island University.
I am a licensed professional counselor (LPC), as well as a licensed certified alcohol and drug counselor (LCADC). For over a decade I have been working with adolescents, adults, and families utilizing an eclectic, holistic approach. I work with clients helping to foster the mind/body connection. Together we nurture this connection in order to promote balanced, well-rounded mental health. I received my Bachelor's Degree from Washington University in St. Louis and my Master's in Mental Health Counseling from Long Island University.
(201) 771-8167 View (201) 771-8167
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Gregory Kushnick
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Tenafly, NJ 07670  (Online Only)
I want to help you gain a greater sense of control over difficult thoughts and feelings. Clients often begin therapy requesting concrete tools to walk away with from each session. This is something I offer through my enhanced cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) approach, with a dual focus on techniques for altering unhealthy thoughts and behavior, and for improving insight, awareness, and mindfulness. I have a long track record of creating powerful results for my clients. Please note that I offer in-person CBT therapy in Manhattan.
I want to help you gain a greater sense of control over difficult thoughts and feelings. Clients often begin therapy requesting concrete tools to walk away with from each session. This is something I offer through my enhanced cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) approach, with a dual focus on techniques for altering unhealthy thoughts and behavior, and for improving insight, awareness, and mindfulness. I have a long track record of creating powerful results for my clients. Please note that I offer in-person CBT therapy in Manhattan.
(551) 382-4349 View (551) 382-4349
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Jennifer Kim
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Tenafly, NJ 07670
I am Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I have been working along side many clients since 2016. I have experience working with children, adolescents, adults, and families with a variety of challenges ranging from anxiety, depression, school related issues, social issues and more. I value the therapeutic relationship with each of my clients and utilize a mixture of theoretical approaches based on each clients’ needs.
I am Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I have been working along side many clients since 2016. I have experience working with children, adolescents, adults, and families with a variety of challenges ranging from anxiety, depression, school related issues, social issues and more. I value the therapeutic relationship with each of my clients and utilize a mixture of theoretical approaches based on each clients’ needs.
(551) 209-3869 View (551) 209-3869
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Stacey Stetson Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Tenafly, NJ 07670  (Online Only)
www.staceystetsontherapy.com I have been trained in applied behavioral analysis, internal family systems, cognitive behavioral therapy which provides a safe and secure environment to create insight, awareness and growth. By gaining awareness into automatic thoughts and feelings we can gain insights into our behaviors and create space for our choices. My practice is a confidential and judgement free setting where you can have a selfish hour to focus on yourself and care for yourself. Mental health is the best form of self care you can practice.
www.staceystetsontherapy.com I have been trained in applied behavioral analysis, internal family systems, cognitive behavioral therapy which provides a safe and secure environment to create insight, awareness and growth. By gaining awareness into automatic thoughts and feelings we can gain insights into our behaviors and create space for our choices. My practice is a confidential and judgement free setting where you can have a selfish hour to focus on yourself and care for yourself. Mental health is the best form of self care you can practice.
(201) 654-6308 View (201) 654-6308
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Stephanie Omens, Psychotherapist
LCAT, LMHC, LPC, RDT-BCT, CCLS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tenafly, NJ 07670
I work with individuals dealing with life challenges. Issues related to grief, illness, divorce, and its impact on the family system. In addition, concurrent anxieties, and doubts and challenges coping with family loss and trauma. At times of stress, we will work to support your daily interactions and your inner thoughts to become easier. I have worked with people of all ages, helping them to find greater understanding and alleviate burdens in daily life. My goal is to support the issues you share with me and help you get back to regular life, outside of therapy.
I work with individuals dealing with life challenges. Issues related to grief, illness, divorce, and its impact on the family system. In addition, concurrent anxieties, and doubts and challenges coping with family loss and trauma. At times of stress, we will work to support your daily interactions and your inner thoughts to become easier. I have worked with people of all ages, helping them to find greater understanding and alleviate burdens in daily life. My goal is to support the issues you share with me and help you get back to regular life, outside of therapy.
(332) 378-5580 View (332) 378-5580
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Dr. Paul Groenewal (Inspire Wellness)
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tenafly, NJ 07670
I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and one of the owners of a group practice called Inspire Wellness. Inspire Wellness is made up of 25 clinicians with various specialties. We have offices throughout Bergen County offering therapy, Sport Psychology, Neuropsychological Testing, and Forensic Psychology. Working in a group decreases the likelihood that we run a waiting list and allows clients to find a clinician with the specialty and approach that fits their specific need. We have a full office staff that are able and willing to answer your questions and will assist you in dealing with your insurance needs.
I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and one of the owners of a group practice called Inspire Wellness. Inspire Wellness is made up of 25 clinicians with various specialties. We have offices throughout Bergen County offering therapy, Sport Psychology, Neuropsychological Testing, and Forensic Psychology. Working in a group decreases the likelihood that we run a waiting list and allows clients to find a clinician with the specialty and approach that fits their specific need. We have a full office staff that are able and willing to answer your questions and will assist you in dealing with your insurance needs.
(201) 591-1085 View (201) 591-1085
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Dalia Lightman
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Tenafly, NJ 07670
As life continues to be challenging and stressful, you often wonder if it is possible to feel better. You may feel like you have tried everything or this may be your first time reaching out. You can feel better. Life doesn't have to be so painful. Imagine what it will be like to discover yourself and find new ways to manage your stressors and struggles. In my practice, issues of interpersonal distress will be discussed in a relaxed and nurturing manner in order to help you find the answers that will lead you to a more fulfilling life. Ultimately, the relationship that we build will be based on listening, empathy and understanding.
As life continues to be challenging and stressful, you often wonder if it is possible to feel better. You may feel like you have tried everything or this may be your first time reaching out. You can feel better. Life doesn't have to be so painful. Imagine what it will be like to discover yourself and find new ways to manage your stressors and struggles. In my practice, issues of interpersonal distress will be discussed in a relaxed and nurturing manner in order to help you find the answers that will lead you to a more fulfilling life. Ultimately, the relationship that we build will be based on listening, empathy and understanding.
(201) 730-4093 View (201) 730-4093
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Susan L Goldman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PsyA
Verified Verified
Tenafly, NJ 07670
You are seeking help from an experienced therapist and that is the first step toward feeling better! Whether worried, overwhelmed, resentful, and/or "down-in-the dumps," you are reaching out to a professional, with whom you can feel safe to be yourself and tell your story. Sometimes it is difficult to say out loud what you have not wanted to articulate; however healing takes place when you begin to share, feel understood and problem-solve. We may discover patterns of behavior that are not in your best interest, and explore ways to affect change toward a more satisfying life.
You are seeking help from an experienced therapist and that is the first step toward feeling better! Whether worried, overwhelmed, resentful, and/or "down-in-the dumps," you are reaching out to a professional, with whom you can feel safe to be yourself and tell your story. Sometimes it is difficult to say out loud what you have not wanted to articulate; however healing takes place when you begin to share, feel understood and problem-solve. We may discover patterns of behavior that are not in your best interest, and explore ways to affect change toward a more satisfying life.
(201) 688-7198 View (201) 688-7198
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Temima Danzig, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tenafly, NJ 07670  (Online Only)
Does it feel like you've become an expert at reading therapists' profiles by now, but are still having trouble deciding who would be a good fit for you and your situation? You want someone knowledgeable and skilled, who is compassionate, but has a sense of humor. You need to feel comfortable talking about your private life, not to feel like you're in an uncomfortable stare-down. And most importantly, you need someone who will help you feel better, cope better, and understand yourself better.
Does it feel like you've become an expert at reading therapists' profiles by now, but are still having trouble deciding who would be a good fit for you and your situation? You want someone knowledgeable and skilled, who is compassionate, but has a sense of humor. You need to feel comfortable talking about your private life, not to feel like you're in an uncomfortable stare-down. And most importantly, you need someone who will help you feel better, cope better, and understand yourself better.
(201) 514-2518 View (201) 514-2518
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Caaron Willinger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MEd, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Tenafly, NJ 07670
Do you feel "stuck?" In your current life situation? Are you in an unhappy relationship or job? Or are you searching for a partner? I specialize in transitions, life stage issues, and the stress or anxiety that often accompany these. I also have experience with mood issues that interfere with finding peace in life.Finally I also help with body image and food issues that overwhelm and frustrate many clients.
Do you feel "stuck?" In your current life situation? Are you in an unhappy relationship or job? Or are you searching for a partner? I specialize in transitions, life stage issues, and the stress or anxiety that often accompany these. I also have experience with mood issues that interfere with finding peace in life.Finally I also help with body image and food issues that overwhelm and frustrate many clients.
(201) 625-1152 View (201) 625-1152
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Merav Gur
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Tenafly, NJ 07670
I have extensive experience providing psychotherapy, supervising (Columbia & CUNY) and teaching graduate students . I specialize in treating anxiety (panic, social), depression, low self worth, attachment difficulties, perinatal depression/anxiety, and adjustment to parenting. I provide psychotherapy to those who are dissatisfied with their interpersonal relationships or with their career and who aspire to lead a meaningful life. Psychotherapy leads to greater self-knowledge, to making healthier life choices, to improving relationships and to greater self acceptance and confidence. Ineffective coping are replaced by healthier ones.
I have extensive experience providing psychotherapy, supervising (Columbia & CUNY) and teaching graduate students . I specialize in treating anxiety (panic, social), depression, low self worth, attachment difficulties, perinatal depression/anxiety, and adjustment to parenting. I provide psychotherapy to those who are dissatisfied with their interpersonal relationships or with their career and who aspire to lead a meaningful life. Psychotherapy leads to greater self-knowledge, to making healthier life choices, to improving relationships and to greater self acceptance and confidence. Ineffective coping are replaced by healthier ones.
(917) 582-2018 View (917) 582-2018
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Dr. Pam Pater-Ennis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, MDiv
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Tenafly, NJ 07670
I work well with a client who has experienced some type of sexual, psychological, or religious or spiritual trauma in their lives. In my sessions with this client, first I assess the level of trauma, help the client to build rapport with me, as well as trust. Secondly, I work to rebuild the client's life in terms of symptom management. Thirdly, the client and I form a partnership to improve relationship skills, thereby enabling the client to re-establish a sense of community. Finally, I value helping the client to rebalance his or her life in mind, body, and spirit.
I work well with a client who has experienced some type of sexual, psychological, or religious or spiritual trauma in their lives. In my sessions with this client, first I assess the level of trauma, help the client to build rapport with me, as well as trust. Secondly, I work to rebuild the client's life in terms of symptom management. Thirdly, the client and I form a partnership to improve relationship skills, thereby enabling the client to re-establish a sense of community. Finally, I value helping the client to rebalance his or her life in mind, body, and spirit.
(551) 231-7639 View (551) 231-7639
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Maria Stone
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tenafly, NJ 07670
Therapy can open the door to so many positive changes in our lives. Working together we can discover new ways to create a healthy mind, body and spirit, and move forward on our personal pathway to growth. My services include psychotherapy for children, adolescents and young adults, as well as working with families, couples and individuals. My goal with each client is to develop a collaborative and trusting relationship. Through therapeutic techniques we can ease stress, depression and anxiety, work to resolve conflict, build self-esteem, and address other concerns that are interfering with day-to-day life.
Therapy can open the door to so many positive changes in our lives. Working together we can discover new ways to create a healthy mind, body and spirit, and move forward on our personal pathway to growth. My services include psychotherapy for children, adolescents and young adults, as well as working with families, couples and individuals. My goal with each client is to develop a collaborative and trusting relationship. Through therapeutic techniques we can ease stress, depression and anxiety, work to resolve conflict, build self-esteem, and address other concerns that are interfering with day-to-day life.
(201) 478-8284 View (201) 478-8284
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Lyn Leeds
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, LCSW, -R
Verified Verified
Tenafly, NJ 07670
The therapeutic process has the ability to transform. This happens through partnering together within a caring and empathic environment. We will then fully explore your thoughts, feelings and behavioral patterns that may not be serving you well. This results in new ways of thinking, feeling and being. We will work towards illuminating your understanding of what you truly want to create for your life.
The therapeutic process has the ability to transform. This happens through partnering together within a caring and empathic environment. We will then fully explore your thoughts, feelings and behavioral patterns that may not be serving you well. This results in new ways of thinking, feeling and being. We will work towards illuminating your understanding of what you truly want to create for your life.
(646) 392-7924 View (646) 392-7924
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The Koch Center
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Tenafly, NJ 07670
The Koch Center (located in Montclair, Waldwick, Morristown, & Englewood) specializes in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Therapy and Programs for Adults, Adolescents, Middle Schoolers, and Families. Our Intensive DBT Programs offer an opportunity to receive extensive support and expert treatment in an outpatient setting. We treat the full range of psychological issues (including Mood Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Impulse Control Disorders, Eating Disorders, Trauma, Relationship Problems, Personality Disorders). We have a Trauma Program for adults. We also offer individual therapy from varying theoretical orientations.
The Koch Center (located in Montclair, Waldwick, Morristown, & Englewood) specializes in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Therapy and Programs for Adults, Adolescents, Middle Schoolers, and Families. Our Intensive DBT Programs offer an opportunity to receive extensive support and expert treatment in an outpatient setting. We treat the full range of psychological issues (including Mood Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Impulse Control Disorders, Eating Disorders, Trauma, Relationship Problems, Personality Disorders). We have a Trauma Program for adults. We also offer individual therapy from varying theoretical orientations.
(201) 730-1280 View (201) 730-1280
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Eve Yudelson, LCSW, PsyA, CGP
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PsyA, CGP
Verified Verified
Tenafly, NJ 07670
You have the possibility of healing: of doing better and being more. Perhaps you would like to feel more comfortable in your own skin, or require better coping skills for stress. Together we can address issues of depression, anxiety, grief, and difficult transitions. We can work towards connecting better to yourself and to others.
You have the possibility of healing: of doing better and being more. Perhaps you would like to feel more comfortable in your own skin, or require better coping skills for stress. Together we can address issues of depression, anxiety, grief, and difficult transitions. We can work towards connecting better to yourself and to others.
(201) 778-6267 View (201) 778-6267
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Attachment-based Therapists

Is attachment-based therapy the same as attachment therapy?

Attachment-based therapy may be confused with what is called “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy”), a discredited and dangerous approach to treating children with attachment disorders, autism, or other mental health concerns. Attachment therapy—not attachment-based therapy—may involve restraining a child, forcing eye contact, and other coercive or abusive techniques. None of these practices are used in attachment-based therapy and the two modalities are in no way related.

What should I expect from attachment-based therapy?

Attachment-based therapy is based on attachment theory, which posits that children’s early relationships with their caregivers strongly influence their ability to navigate the world later in life. Thus, adults who seek attachment-based therapy should expect to deeply explore their childhood, identifying the dynamics or experiences that disrupted their attachment and the steps necessary to overcome challenges that arose as a result. Parents and children should expect to explore the possible factors that disrupted the parent-child relationship and work toward restoring trust and connection.

How long does attachment-based therapy last?

Certain forms of attachment-based therapy, especially those designed for parents and children, last for a set number of sessions; for example, Attachment and Biobehavioral Catch-Up, a specific attachment-based approach for young children who have undergone early adversity, unfolds over 10 one-hour sessions. When attachment-based therapy is practiced on adults or combined with other modalities, it may not last a specific length of time; clients may wish to ask prospective therapists how long they expect treatment to take.

Does attachment-based therapy work?

Most of the research on attachment-based therapy focuses on children and adolescents. Some of this research shows a positive effect, especially for attachment-based family therapy (ABFT). Other studies, however, have found that attachment-based therapy is no more effective than other approaches to childhood depression, anxiety, or suicidality. Less is known about the therapy’s efficacy on adult populations.