Spirituality Therapists in Old Tappan, NJ

I am deeply committed to supporting individuals who want to understand and change the patterns that hold them back. Together, we will develop a plan and strategies for reaching your full potential and improving your quality of life. I am here to stand by your side offering unwavering support as you journey toward your life aspirations at your own pace. My expertise lies in addressing complex trauma and its manifestations, including chemical and behavioral compulsions, work-life imbalances, existential crises, relationship challenges, and problematic financial beliefs and behaviors.

If you have wondered how to access your inate intuition and spirituality to clarify your life's direction, to enhance your good judgement, and to learn life enriching techniques, then our work together can provide a personalized pathway. We can examine behaviors and life patterns, learn to redirect thoughts and actions, and improve life choices, while releasing negative, recurring thoughts. Sadness, loss, and depression as well as grief, trauma, and anxiety can be addressed in a supportive and private environment. Sessions are designed to meet your individual and unique needs..

I serve practitioners and leaders in the helping professions prevent burnout through work-life integration and practical self-care and lifestyle strategies. (Social work, psychology, mental health, social services, allied health, healthcare, coaching, non-profit leadership, purpose-driven entrepreneurship.) You've spent your career supporting others, now it’s time to take care of yourself and focus on your needs. Many people know that lifestyle is important to achieving optimal physical, mental, and emotional wellbeing, but often don’t know how to make these changes sustainable, or where to start.

In our work together, we will approach every situation you bring into session from a holistic perspective. I understand that every human being is unique, so I aim to find creative ways to assist you in navigating the journey of finding your bliss through trusting in your own intuition. We will collaborate in discovering how to reach your goals using an eclectic integration of many therapeutic modalities, which may include meditation and mindfulness-based practice, CBT, DBT and nature-based therapy. I approach each of the people I work with from a place of deep appreciation for human relationships and their dynamics.

I bring over 25 years of experience as a clinical social worker and decades of life experience to my practice as a psychotherapist. The most important factor in successful therapy is the relationship between client and therapist. I provide a safe and welcoming environment in which to explore the issues that are challenging you today. I invite you to make an appointment in order to determine whether you would like to work together. Your level of safety and comfort is key to your ability to make deep and lasting changes. There is no charge for an initial phone consultation.

For more than twenty years I have been guiding souls toward health and hope. I'm a licensed counselor in both New York and New Jersey. The people who most benefit from my practice are those dealing with past issues of abuse or trauma and those who have sustained losses. Those who are ready to move toward new insight are those who will benefit the most.

We live in a technologically charged time, which can make it difficult to connect to one another, and sometimes even ourselves. My style is warm, humorous, laid back, and very much solution oriented. I integrate elements of different therapeutic modalities that cater to specific preferences and therapeutic needs, including CBT, DBT, Motivational Interviewing, Mindfulness, and Executive Function Coaching to support clients in structuring value driven lives, habits, and routines around what works and feels best for them so that personal and professional goals can achieved.

Asking for help is not a weakness, it is the recognition of self awareness to grow and heal. Do you struggle to manage daily stressors or life quakes from past trauma? Do you need additional tools to navigate uncharted territory? I will honor your space while you bridge the old into the new. We all experience life events differently and individually, so my approach will fit your specific needs. Your story is very personal to you and we can use this to empower your process. Focusing on the things we can change are essential to those we cannot. Let us begin to explore and learn more.

It may feel like it, but you are not alone! We will work together to effectively understand and naturally navigate your bereavement process. I remain the therapist on Staten Island that utilizes restorative therapies such as biofeedback, applied mindfulness and creative art therapies to bring hope, recovery and renewal to help you through your grief. You’re invited to join our online grief community, Together Thru Grief” at no cost to you. No one has to walk alone on their journey through bereavement. For full information, go to the website and follow the link to find friendship and hope through the togetherness of our community.

The reality is that everyone should have someone to talk to. Unfortunately, a lot of people are struggling with pain, loss, anxiety, depression and relationship issues. I believe in the importance of genuine conversation and communication. I am of the mind that most of us just want to be heard, without judgement. My focus in therapy is trust, compassion and empathy. I am confident of my ability to "meet you where you are" and support my clients in making changes. After all, "...nothing changes, if NOTHING changes." I can help you to identify areas that may need adjustment and modification and encourage you to live your best life.

I work with children, adolescents, and adults with a wide range of psychological and interpersonal challenges in life, such as mood disorders, anxiety disorders, trauma, life transition, relationship problems, and developmental disorders. I believe that psychotherapy is a process in which client and therapist collaborate in order to help client to improve self-understanding, overcome painful emotions, and discover new and widened perspectives about himself/herself, others, and life. I facilitate client's discovery and development of balanced and integrated personality so that he/she can transcend his/her psychological conflicts.

I integrate the most effective approaches to mental health, marital/family, and addiction challenges. I blend traditional with cutting edge and provide concrete tools, practical advice, and spiritual guidance while effecting lasting change and healing. For 27 years, I have helped countless people struggling with depression, anxiety, ADD, trauma, low self-esteem, anger and management, and with marital, sexuality, family, and parenting challenges. In testimonials I have been described as "having vast knowledge"; "a very down to earth guy who puts you at ease almost instantly; as having "laser-sharp" perceptions; & "an old soul ."

REGARDING COVID 19: We have to find ways to cope without lots of the things we normally rely on (going out with friends, going to the gym, 12-step meetings, religious services, etc.). Tele-therapy can really help you to cope while you’re social-distancing in your home. If you don’t have insurance, we can discuss a reasonable fee you can afford, based on a sliding scale.

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with advanced training in Internal Family Systems, EMDR, and Trauma and Stress Reduction. I provide trauma-informed, general psychotherapy for adults experiencing anxiety, depression, stress, family, work, and academic problems, and those who wish to resolve traumatic events, sexual abuse, and/or domestic abuse. People have varying reasons to seek therapy, but generally they are experiencing discomfort in one or more areas of their everyday life. This discomfort may be experienced as depression, anxiety, anger, sleeping and eating problems, compulsive behaviors, and/or relationship issues.