Attachment-based Therapists in Oakland, NJ

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Dana Lustig
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Oakland, NJ 07436
Life can feel overwhelming at times. Juggling school or work, relationships, and the constant presence of social media can be a lot to manage. You may find yourself feeling anxious, sad, or stressed more frequently than you'd prefer, and it might be tough to open up about it. Perhaps you’re feeling irritable, lashing out at others, or just need support in understanding why it’s happening and how to improve. Thoughts and emotions can weigh heavily, and it’s not always easy to navigate them.
Life can feel overwhelming at times. Juggling school or work, relationships, and the constant presence of social media can be a lot to manage. You may find yourself feeling anxious, sad, or stressed more frequently than you'd prefer, and it might be tough to open up about it. Perhaps you’re feeling irritable, lashing out at others, or just need support in understanding why it’s happening and how to improve. Thoughts and emotions can weigh heavily, and it’s not always easy to navigate them.
(908) 663-5687 View (908) 663-5687
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Christine Good
Licensed Psychoanalyst, MAT, NCPsyA
Verified Verified
Oakland, NJ 07436
I work with adults and children providing a safe and supportive atmosphere to facilitate positive change and personal growth. I also welcome children or adolescents who are experiencing emotional, academic or social issues. Understanding that each person is unique, I use an approach that is best suited to one's needs.
I work with adults and children providing a safe and supportive atmosphere to facilitate positive change and personal growth. I also welcome children or adolescents who are experiencing emotional, academic or social issues. Understanding that each person is unique, I use an approach that is best suited to one's needs.
(201) 338-7795 View (201) 338-7795
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Beth La Forgia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, NJ, NY, VT
Verified Verified
Oakland, NJ 07436  (Online Only)
Feeling depressed and/or anxious? A lot of the time life is overwhelming and stressful. Let me help you build coping skills and be the best you possible for yourself and those in your life. Therapy can help build the skills you need to manage depression, anxiety and life stress. You deserve to take the time for yourself to learn more about who you are and the best ways for you to cope with things in your life. Maybe you just need somewhere to sort out all of your thoughts, therapy can help with this as well. I would be honored to help you on your journey.
Feeling depressed and/or anxious? A lot of the time life is overwhelming and stressful. Let me help you build coping skills and be the best you possible for yourself and those in your life. Therapy can help build the skills you need to manage depression, anxiety and life stress. You deserve to take the time for yourself to learn more about who you are and the best ways for you to cope with things in your life. Maybe you just need somewhere to sort out all of your thoughts, therapy can help with this as well. I would be honored to help you on your journey.
(973) 283-5164 View (973) 283-5164
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Elkind Psychotherapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Oakland, NJ 07436  (Online Only)
My ideal client is a person seeking a safe and supportive space to understand their emotions and develop healthy coping mechanisms. They may be struggling with work-life balance, life transitions, self-esteem, past trauma, or interpersonal relationship difficulties. They value a therapist who is empathetic, compassionate, and evidence-based in their approach. They are open to exploring different therapeutic techniques to find the best treatment plan for their individual needs. Ultimately, they want to work through the barriers that are holding them back, improving their mental well-being, and achieving lasting personal change.
My ideal client is a person seeking a safe and supportive space to understand their emotions and develop healthy coping mechanisms. They may be struggling with work-life balance, life transitions, self-esteem, past trauma, or interpersonal relationship difficulties. They value a therapist who is empathetic, compassionate, and evidence-based in their approach. They are open to exploring different therapeutic techniques to find the best treatment plan for their individual needs. Ultimately, they want to work through the barriers that are holding them back, improving their mental well-being, and achieving lasting personal change.
(201) 540-9693 View (201) 540-9693
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Kristy Centrelli Fernand
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Oakland, NJ 07436
Counseling services: We will assess symptoms/behavior & establish treatment goals for reaching an improved quality of life. With over 20 years expertise working with children/teens/adults, depression, anxiety, panic attacks, trauma, adhd & eating disorders are just a few of the common presenting concerns that I often treat. I enjoy working with families: women's multiple roles, parenting, behavioral problems, marital strife, physical health concerns & how to find time for one's social/emotional needs. Whether 5 yrs old or 55, let’s improve your coping skills! How can you be there for others if you don’t have an outlet for yourself?
Counseling services: We will assess symptoms/behavior & establish treatment goals for reaching an improved quality of life. With over 20 years expertise working with children/teens/adults, depression, anxiety, panic attacks, trauma, adhd & eating disorders are just a few of the common presenting concerns that I often treat. I enjoy working with families: women's multiple roles, parenting, behavioral problems, marital strife, physical health concerns & how to find time for one's social/emotional needs. Whether 5 yrs old or 55, let’s improve your coping skills! How can you be there for others if you don’t have an outlet for yourself?
(201) 383-5716 View (201) 383-5716
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Danielle Schwartz
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, EdS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Oakland, NJ 07436
Do you want something different out of your life but don't know how to go about getting it? Have you been struggling with navigating changes and relationships? Is there a distance between you and your partner and you can't seem to meet in the middle? Does it feel like something holds you back from making connections with people you care about? Make sense of what you are experiencing through therapy so that you can feel confident in making the changes you want. I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist with 10 years experience working with individuals, families and couples.
Do you want something different out of your life but don't know how to go about getting it? Have you been struggling with navigating changes and relationships? Is there a distance between you and your partner and you can't seem to meet in the middle? Does it feel like something holds you back from making connections with people you care about? Make sense of what you are experiencing through therapy so that you can feel confident in making the changes you want. I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist with 10 years experience working with individuals, families and couples.
(908) 386-4194 View (908) 386-4194
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Sherry Katz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oakland, NJ 07436
My focus is on the problem(s) YOU identify which need work. We'll talk about the obstacles to reaching your goal and then discuss ways to move beyond these blockages. Our sessions will address the trials, surprises and errors you find along the way to establish the confidence and peace of living one's truth.
My focus is on the problem(s) YOU identify which need work. We'll talk about the obstacles to reaching your goal and then discuss ways to move beyond these blockages. Our sessions will address the trials, surprises and errors you find along the way to establish the confidence and peace of living one's truth.
(201) 875-1136 View (201) 875-1136
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Karen Mellozzo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Oakland, NJ 07436  (Online Only)
Finding help in the face of emotional pain is an act of courage. A chronic storm of emotions may leave you bouncing between panic, fear, shame, and self-doubt. It is exhausting and can leave you feeling hopeless and afraid. Trying everything you can think of but still not feeling the happiness, confidence and life satisfaction that you long for. Still, somehow a felt sense inside reveals glimmers of the more healed, happier person you know you can be. Like something that you cannot quite grasp, but sense its authentic presence. A call inward. A call to heal.
Finding help in the face of emotional pain is an act of courage. A chronic storm of emotions may leave you bouncing between panic, fear, shame, and self-doubt. It is exhausting and can leave you feeling hopeless and afraid. Trying everything you can think of but still not feeling the happiness, confidence and life satisfaction that you long for. Still, somehow a felt sense inside reveals glimmers of the more healed, happier person you know you can be. Like something that you cannot quite grasp, but sense its authentic presence. A call inward. A call to heal.
(973) 791-9063 View (973) 791-9063
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Seed to Tree Counseling Services, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCADC, NCC, CCTP, CCS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oakland, NJ 07436  (Online Only)
Hello! My name is Carlee Marcinkowski. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and a Licensed Clinical Alcohol and Drug Counselor (LCADC) specializing in working with adults and adolescents with anxiety, depression, acute and chronic trauma, life stressors, self-esteem, and substance use disorders.
Hello! My name is Carlee Marcinkowski. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and a Licensed Clinical Alcohol and Drug Counselor (LCADC) specializing in working with adults and adolescents with anxiety, depression, acute and chronic trauma, life stressors, self-esteem, and substance use disorders.
(201) 552-4861 View (201) 552-4861
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Jamie Coyne
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Oakland, NJ 07436  (Online Only)
Do you feel anxious, overwhelmed, stressed out and doubtful? I partner with individuals and new (or experienced!) parents who feel anxious, overwhelmed or uncertain and bring them to calm, confident and hopeful. I work with men and women using empathy and listening. I will work alongside you, empower you and guide you toward freedom. With specialized training in peripartum mental health I can support you as you explore parenting and recognize when the "baby blues" have become more than you can handle. If worry, fear and stress are consuming, I have tools to offer to support you as you explore hope. Are you ready to gain freedom?
Do you feel anxious, overwhelmed, stressed out and doubtful? I partner with individuals and new (or experienced!) parents who feel anxious, overwhelmed or uncertain and bring them to calm, confident and hopeful. I work with men and women using empathy and listening. I will work alongside you, empower you and guide you toward freedom. With specialized training in peripartum mental health I can support you as you explore parenting and recognize when the "baby blues" have become more than you can handle. If worry, fear and stress are consuming, I have tools to offer to support you as you explore hope. Are you ready to gain freedom?
(201) 419-6865 View (201) 419-6865

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Lizandra Portalatin
Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Watchung, NJ 07069  (Online Only)
Our approach is eclectic, utilizing trauma-informed CBT, DBT, EMDR, ACT, Mindfulness and Attachment-based modalities.
I specialize in the treatment of Anxiety, Depression, Trauma and PTSD. I offer treatment using CBT, EMDR and DBT for these issues. Sometimes in life we find ourselves in a place where we need to talk with someone else about the burdens that we are carrying in our hearts and our minds. We know that we can't continue to go on this way but we don't know what to do to get out of it. At Grace Space Counseling, you will find the support and help that you need to bridge the gap from existing to thriving in your life.
Our approach is eclectic, utilizing trauma-informed CBT, DBT, EMDR, ACT, Mindfulness and Attachment-based modalities.
I specialize in the treatment of Anxiety, Depression, Trauma and PTSD. I offer treatment using CBT, EMDR and DBT for these issues. Sometimes in life we find ourselves in a place where we need to talk with someone else about the burdens that we are carrying in our hearts and our minds. We know that we can't continue to go on this way but we don't know what to do to get out of it. At Grace Space Counseling, you will find the support and help that you need to bridge the gap from existing to thriving in your life.
(908) 332-8739 View (908) 332-8739
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Jamie LaRusso
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, EDm, LPC, ACS, NCC
Verified Verified
Franklin Lakes, NJ 07417  (Online Only)
Life is very much like driving a car. We can't only focus on the destination, and we can't stare into the rearview mirror. Either of these actions would cause an accident, and most certainly distract us from our main goal - keeping our eyes on the road! In my practice, I take on the GPS role. The driver and the GPS are a team. The relationship between the client and the therapist is powerful one, involving trust and collaboration. I use a trauma- informed approach and have over 20 years of experience in various therapeutic settings. I provide parent coaching and have also worked in school settings for almost a decade.
Life is very much like driving a car. We can't only focus on the destination, and we can't stare into the rearview mirror. Either of these actions would cause an accident, and most certainly distract us from our main goal - keeping our eyes on the road! In my practice, I take on the GPS role. The driver and the GPS are a team. The relationship between the client and the therapist is powerful one, involving trust and collaboration. I use a trauma- informed approach and have over 20 years of experience in various therapeutic settings. I provide parent coaching and have also worked in school settings for almost a decade.
(973) 310-6650 View (973) 310-6650
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Erica Dietsche
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Franklin Lakes, NJ 07417
As a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), I take a cognitive and holistic approach to help people of all ages identify and work toward realistic, achievable solutions in all areas of their lives—including those related to anxiety, relationships, transitions, parenting, health, careers, school, and many other issues. My goal in a counseling journey is to help you understand yourself, and set and accomplish your goals.
As a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), I take a cognitive and holistic approach to help people of all ages identify and work toward realistic, achievable solutions in all areas of their lives—including those related to anxiety, relationships, transitions, parenting, health, careers, school, and many other issues. My goal in a counseling journey is to help you understand yourself, and set and accomplish your goals.
(862) 212-0482 View (862) 212-0482
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Katherine Acosta
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Franklin Lakes, NJ 07417
Finding the right therapist can feel like an overwhelming task, especially when you have concerns about speaking openly about personal matters. At HERO, we recognize how hard this can be and will dedicate ourselves to providing you with the appropriate therapy designed for your specific needs. Our aim is to assist you in identifying and attaining the goals that you would like to achieve while helping you gain insight and self-awareness. We provide help to individuals and families who struggle with life changes, anxiety, grief, or depression.
Finding the right therapist can feel like an overwhelming task, especially when you have concerns about speaking openly about personal matters. At HERO, we recognize how hard this can be and will dedicate ourselves to providing you with the appropriate therapy designed for your specific needs. Our aim is to assist you in identifying and attaining the goals that you would like to achieve while helping you gain insight and self-awareness. We provide help to individuals and families who struggle with life changes, anxiety, grief, or depression.
(551) 292-7523 View (551) 292-7523
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Nicole Mendicino
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CCTP, LMSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Franklin Lakes, NJ 07417  (Online Only)
It's nice to meet you! Does your mind ever get the better of you? Are your thoughts so consuming that you can't seem to slow them down? Are you feeling unsettled, tense, or like you've lost yourself? You may be experiencing the unwanted effects of anxiety, chronic pain, or ongoing distress. These can feel debilitating when we do not know what to do with it all. Collaboratively, let's work towards reclaiming the life you truly deserve! To learn more about my practice, please view my website at wholeheartedcnslng.com
It's nice to meet you! Does your mind ever get the better of you? Are your thoughts so consuming that you can't seem to slow them down? Are you feeling unsettled, tense, or like you've lost yourself? You may be experiencing the unwanted effects of anxiety, chronic pain, or ongoing distress. These can feel debilitating when we do not know what to do with it all. Collaboratively, let's work towards reclaiming the life you truly deserve! To learn more about my practice, please view my website at wholeheartedcnslng.com
(973) 671-3048 View (973) 671-3048
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Irina Bronstein
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Franklin Lakes, NJ 07417
As a licensed psychotherapist in New York and New Jersey, I offer in-person and virtual sessions to individuals, couples, and families. If you and your partner are constantly arguing or not communicating at all, a 4-session discernment therapy may be the best starting point to address issues in a supportive, conflict-free zone. If you are separated or divorced, please reach out for more information on a weekly support group.
As a licensed psychotherapist in New York and New Jersey, I offer in-person and virtual sessions to individuals, couples, and families. If you and your partner are constantly arguing or not communicating at all, a 4-session discernment therapy may be the best starting point to address issues in a supportive, conflict-free zone. If you are separated or divorced, please reach out for more information on a weekly support group.
(551) 227-9818 View (551) 227-9818
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Ellen Usatin
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LMHC, RN
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wyckoff, NJ 07481
Are you experiencing a life transition or a personal crisis ? Have you always been self-reliant, but now feel overwhelmed and unable to tackle life's challenges? Are you an individual encountering difficulties in your relationships? Are you a couple looking to gain insight , change your communication pattern and establish deeper connection? Are you an adult with special needs or a parent of a special needs child dealing with anxiety and decision fatigue ? Regardless of what brings you here, I recognize that life can be challenging and complex.
Are you experiencing a life transition or a personal crisis ? Have you always been self-reliant, but now feel overwhelmed and unable to tackle life's challenges? Are you an individual encountering difficulties in your relationships? Are you a couple looking to gain insight , change your communication pattern and establish deeper connection? Are you an adult with special needs or a parent of a special needs child dealing with anxiety and decision fatigue ? Regardless of what brings you here, I recognize that life can be challenging and complex.
(201) 669-4490 View (201) 669-4490
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Kaitlyn Personette
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wyckoff, NJ 07481
Seeking adults and young adults with daytime availability! Have you ever felt depressed? Anxious? Possibly feeling "stuck" during a life transition? Questioning your relationship or mourning the loss of one? Need help finding healthy coping skills? Perhaps you are in need of assistance with parenting or co-parenting? Or maybe you are having issues with your parents ? You have come to the right place ! My approach depends on the reason for service. I will tailor your treatment plan and our dialog to meet your specific needs.
Seeking adults and young adults with daytime availability! Have you ever felt depressed? Anxious? Possibly feeling "stuck" during a life transition? Questioning your relationship or mourning the loss of one? Need help finding healthy coping skills? Perhaps you are in need of assistance with parenting or co-parenting? Or maybe you are having issues with your parents ? You have come to the right place ! My approach depends on the reason for service. I will tailor your treatment plan and our dialog to meet your specific needs.
(551) 296-7863 View (551) 296-7863
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Inspired Talk Therapy - Elisabeth Keeney, LPC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Franklin Lakes, NJ 07417  (Online Only)
Like many of you, I find the roles I fill within my own family (wife, mother, daughter, in-law, and sister) to be challenging. The family I grew up in didn’t solve problems. We shouted about them, ignored them, ignored each other, and then repeated these patterns over and over again under different circumstances. I was actually relieved when my parents eventually divorced, because I was hopeful that our home life would be happier. Changing the living situations didn’t change our interaction patterns. Seemingly simple disagreements escalated quickly, we ended up saying hurtful things which we later regretted.
Like many of you, I find the roles I fill within my own family (wife, mother, daughter, in-law, and sister) to be challenging. The family I grew up in didn’t solve problems. We shouted about them, ignored them, ignored each other, and then repeated these patterns over and over again under different circumstances. I was actually relieved when my parents eventually divorced, because I was hopeful that our home life would be happier. Changing the living situations didn’t change our interaction patterns. Seemingly simple disagreements escalated quickly, we ended up saying hurtful things which we later regretted.
(833) 994-2744 View (833) 994-2744
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Virginia C Bailey
Licensed Professional Counselor, MSMFT, LPC, CGT
Verified Verified
Franklin Lakes, NJ 07417
If you are ready for change, and committed to reaching out for it, I can help you accomplish it! I am a Licensed Professional Counselor, working with Children, Adolescents, Individuals, Couples and Families. I am passionate in helping you create the vibrant and wholesome life you long for. My style is warm, accepting and caring, while holding the utmost belief in your potential to heal from your wounds and create a full, healthy and rewarding life. My specialty is Gestalt Therapy, an experiential modality that helps us go deeply into the core issues, heal hurts and access the most resourceful aspects of Yourself.
If you are ready for change, and committed to reaching out for it, I can help you accomplish it! I am a Licensed Professional Counselor, working with Children, Adolescents, Individuals, Couples and Families. I am passionate in helping you create the vibrant and wholesome life you long for. My style is warm, accepting and caring, while holding the utmost belief in your potential to heal from your wounds and create a full, healthy and rewarding life. My specialty is Gestalt Therapy, an experiential modality that helps us go deeply into the core issues, heal hurts and access the most resourceful aspects of Yourself.
(551) 999-6127 View (551) 999-6127

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Attachment-based Therapists

Is attachment-based therapy the same as attachment therapy?

Attachment-based therapy may be confused with what is called “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy”), a discredited and dangerous approach to treating children with attachment disorders, autism, or other mental health concerns. Attachment therapy—not attachment-based therapy—may involve restraining a child, forcing eye contact, and other coercive or abusive techniques. None of these practices are used in attachment-based therapy and the two modalities are in no way related.

What should I expect from attachment-based therapy?

Attachment-based therapy is based on attachment theory, which posits that children’s early relationships with their caregivers strongly influence their ability to navigate the world later in life. Thus, adults who seek attachment-based therapy should expect to deeply explore their childhood, identifying the dynamics or experiences that disrupted their attachment and the steps necessary to overcome challenges that arose as a result. Parents and children should expect to explore the possible factors that disrupted the parent-child relationship and work toward restoring trust and connection.

How long does attachment-based therapy last?

Certain forms of attachment-based therapy, especially those designed for parents and children, last for a set number of sessions; for example, Attachment and Biobehavioral Catch-Up, a specific attachment-based approach for young children who have undergone early adversity, unfolds over 10 one-hour sessions. When attachment-based therapy is practiced on adults or combined with other modalities, it may not last a specific length of time; clients may wish to ask prospective therapists how long they expect treatment to take.

Does attachment-based therapy work?

Most of the research on attachment-based therapy focuses on children and adolescents. Some of this research shows a positive effect, especially for attachment-based family therapy (ABFT). Other studies, however, have found that attachment-based therapy is no more effective than other approaches to childhood depression, anxiety, or suicidality. Less is known about the therapy’s efficacy on adult populations.