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Melissa Kramer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Middletown, NJ 07748
You feel like something is holding you back...whether it's at work, in your relationship, as a parent, or just in where you thought your life would be by now. For the most part your life, career, or marriage is ok;but you envision better. You want to feel the depth and intimacy you once felt with your partner and stop the ongoing arguments. You want to stop holding back at work; or feeling inadequate as a parent because you just don't know what to do next about your child's behavior. You are stressed and overwhelmed, feeling like no one truly gets it. Your relationships are well enough, but you are missing depth, connection and meaning. Perhaps you are waiting for motivation to strike you? As you wait, the days, months, and years fly by and you remain stuck, vowing that next week...month...year...or time, things will be different. Why wait? You deserve NOW. You want to thrive in your life and change the way things feel at this moment. You want to stop repeating the same patterns, arguments, and situations that keep you unhappy. Perhaps you can do it alone, but what if nothing changes? There is a better solution. Seeking outside support is a sign of strength and readiness for change
You feel like something is holding you back...whether it's at work, in your relationship, as a parent, or just in where you thought your life would be by now. For the most part your life, career, or marriage is ok;but you envision better. You want to feel the depth and intimacy you once felt with your partner and stop the ongoing arguments. You want to stop holding back at work; or feeling inadequate as a parent because you just don't know what to do next about your child's behavior. You are stressed and overwhelmed, feeling like no one truly gets it. Your relationships are well enough, but you are missing depth, connection and meaning. Perhaps you are waiting for motivation to strike you? As you wait, the days, months, and years fly by and you remain stuck, vowing that next week...month...year...or time, things will be different. Why wait? You deserve NOW. You want to thrive in your life and change the way things feel at this moment. You want to stop repeating the same patterns, arguments, and situations that keep you unhappy. Perhaps you can do it alone, but what if nothing changes? There is a better solution. Seeking outside support is a sign of strength and readiness for change
(732) 443-0331 View (732) 443-0331
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Andrew McKillop
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
Middletown, NJ 07748
The biggest difference maker is the relationship that is built in sessions.
I am a licensed professional counselor with a proven track record of assisting individuals, couples and families overcome the challenges in their lives. The focus of treatment is to quickly find ways to alleviate distress and resolve the issues at hand while building strength and resilience in an environment of safety and understanding. Whatever the issue, however overwhelming the emotion there is a way forward and a path to a better experience of life.
The biggest difference maker is the relationship that is built in sessions.
I am a licensed professional counselor with a proven track record of assisting individuals, couples and families overcome the challenges in their lives. The focus of treatment is to quickly find ways to alleviate distress and resolve the issues at hand while building strength and resilience in an environment of safety and understanding. Whatever the issue, however overwhelming the emotion there is a way forward and a path to a better experience of life.
(732) 329-7502 View (732) 329-7502
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Legacy Consulting, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Middletown, NJ 07748
Legacy Consulting, LLC specializes in therapy for people struggling with relationship conflicts, grief and loss through divorce or death, depression, anxiety, alcoholism, and trauma.
Legacy Consulting, LLC is a practice providing treatment to adults, couples, adolescents and families to heal the past and create promising futures. Individual therapy focuses on the specific problems of each Client using modalities that treat unique issues. Couples therapy focuses on three key problem areas in partnerships: relationships, finances and sex. Couples work deepens the connection and creates a stronger foundation. Family therapy works with the family as a whole to develop improved communication and mutual support among family members.
Legacy Consulting, LLC specializes in therapy for people struggling with relationship conflicts, grief and loss through divorce or death, depression, anxiety, alcoholism, and trauma.
Legacy Consulting, LLC is a practice providing treatment to adults, couples, adolescents and families to heal the past and create promising futures. Individual therapy focuses on the specific problems of each Client using modalities that treat unique issues. Couples therapy focuses on three key problem areas in partnerships: relationships, finances and sex. Couples work deepens the connection and creates a stronger foundation. Family therapy works with the family as a whole to develop improved communication and mutual support among family members.
(732) 806-5139 View (732) 806-5139
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Renee Moffett
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCADC
Verified Verified
Middletown, NJ 07748  (Online Only)
Are you struggling with relationships, work stress or managing your daily life? Do you feel uncomfortable with your thoughts, feelings, moods and emotions? Are you lost on how to cope and manage life stresses? Are you struggling with alcohol or substances? Through treatment there can be inner clarity, confidence, long-lasting skills and strategies. This can improve your relationship to yourself, others, resolve career-related issues and improve your ability to cope with life stressors.
Are you struggling with relationships, work stress or managing your daily life? Do you feel uncomfortable with your thoughts, feelings, moods and emotions? Are you lost on how to cope and manage life stresses? Are you struggling with alcohol or substances? Through treatment there can be inner clarity, confidence, long-lasting skills and strategies. This can improve your relationship to yourself, others, resolve career-related issues and improve your ability to cope with life stressors.
(732) 538-8082 View (732) 538-8082
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Vanessa Marcantuono, PhD, LLC
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Middletown, NJ 07748  (Online Only)
I specialize in working with the elderly, their caregivers, and individuals with physical illness or disability, as well as helping individuals facing challenges or emotional struggles common at pivotal times in life such as marriage, job change/retirement, having/raising children, relationship stress, divorce, death of a loved one, or balancing multiple roles.
I'm a Counseling Psychologist with over 20 years experience working with adults struggling with a broad range of issues including anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, life transitions, low self-esteem and adjustment to life's stressors. My goal is to help you cope with the stressors you are facing, and to gradually help you gain insight and understanding regarding them, so that together, we may resolve your issues and identify possible avenues for growth and change. I offer a personalized and collaborative approach to treatment that is tailored to the specific needs of each of my clients.
I specialize in working with the elderly, their caregivers, and individuals with physical illness or disability, as well as helping individuals facing challenges or emotional struggles common at pivotal times in life such as marriage, job change/retirement, having/raising children, relationship stress, divorce, death of a loved one, or balancing multiple roles.
I'm a Counseling Psychologist with over 20 years experience working with adults struggling with a broad range of issues including anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, life transitions, low self-esteem and adjustment to life's stressors. My goal is to help you cope with the stressors you are facing, and to gradually help you gain insight and understanding regarding them, so that together, we may resolve your issues and identify possible avenues for growth and change. I offer a personalized and collaborative approach to treatment that is tailored to the specific needs of each of my clients.
(973) 933-4861 View (973) 933-4861
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Destiny Sharack
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Middletown, NJ 07748
I specialize in treating anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship conflict, grief/loss and self-esteem.
Does stress and uncertainty in your life have you feeling stuck? Have you found yourself second guessing decisions or held back by that annoying voice in your head of self-doubt? Taking back control of your life isn’t a solo mission. Sometimes we need a listening ear, a sounding board, a space to understand ourselves better, and a nudge in the right direction. With a compassionate, honest, and curious approach I can help you to feel confident and ready to tackle life’s challenges.
I specialize in treating anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship conflict, grief/loss and self-esteem.
Does stress and uncertainty in your life have you feeling stuck? Have you found yourself second guessing decisions or held back by that annoying voice in your head of self-doubt? Taking back control of your life isn’t a solo mission. Sometimes we need a listening ear, a sounding board, a space to understand ourselves better, and a nudge in the right direction. With a compassionate, honest, and curious approach I can help you to feel confident and ready to tackle life’s challenges.
(732) 631-8159 View (732) 631-8159
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Nicole Dericks
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
Middletown, NJ 07748
I work from a holistic, person centered, trauma informed approach to care to meet clients where they are right now. I have experience working with clients of all ages, and difficulties including but not limited to stress management, codependency, boundary setting, relationship concerns, self-esteem/identity, emotion regulation, anxiety, depression, OCD, and eating disorders.
I work from a holistic, person centered, trauma informed approach to care to meet clients where they are right now. I have experience working with clients of all ages, and difficulties including but not limited to stress management, codependency, boundary setting, relationship concerns, self-esteem/identity, emotion regulation, anxiety, depression, OCD, and eating disorders.
(908) 503-5108 View (908) 503-5108
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Joseph Zdeb
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Middletown, NJ 07748
If you’re reading this congratulations on taking the first step towards achieving your goals. You’ve decided to reach out and sometimes that is the hardest part. For over 15 years I’ve enjoyed helping those navigate the path to healing. I believe a safe and empathic environment is the foundation to this path. My practice works with those facing trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, performance issues, adoption, and relationship conflict. After many years behind the athletic bench I also have a passion for working with athletes and performers seeking to enhance the mental side of their game or barriers that impact their performance.
If you’re reading this congratulations on taking the first step towards achieving your goals. You’ve decided to reach out and sometimes that is the hardest part. For over 15 years I’ve enjoyed helping those navigate the path to healing. I believe a safe and empathic environment is the foundation to this path. My practice works with those facing trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, performance issues, adoption, and relationship conflict. After many years behind the athletic bench I also have a passion for working with athletes and performers seeking to enhance the mental side of their game or barriers that impact their performance.
(908) 287-1025 View (908) 287-1025
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Pauline L. Bailo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Middletown, NJ 07748
I elicit hope when the world seems hopeless. My approach is to develop a therapeutic relationship where authenticity is encouraged in a compassionate, judgement free space. Majority of the children I work with simply want to just be kids, but there is a concern or barrier that needs to be addressed or removed first. Majority of the youth I work with are trying to figure out their purpose and how to focus on the future. The families I work with want to reduce stress and be cohesive. The couples I work with want to be unified and feel like they are together in their relationship. The adults want to be happy and content.
I elicit hope when the world seems hopeless. My approach is to develop a therapeutic relationship where authenticity is encouraged in a compassionate, judgement free space. Majority of the children I work with simply want to just be kids, but there is a concern or barrier that needs to be addressed or removed first. Majority of the youth I work with are trying to figure out their purpose and how to focus on the future. The families I work with want to reduce stress and be cohesive. The couples I work with want to be unified and feel like they are together in their relationship. The adults want to be happy and content.
(732) 605-4285 View (732) 605-4285
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Robert Misurell
Marriage & Family Therapist, EdD
Verified Verified
Middletown, NJ 07748  (Online Only)
There is one Self and a shared consciousness deep within. At the same time, we live in a world of diversity and individual uniqueness. Psychotherapy now has the tools to assist in the journey to uncover the genuine “you”,that is, the person you have been looking to be all your life. Layers of conditioning have separated you from the self within. Mindfulness, trauma work and self-compassion provide the support and pathways to clear out wasteful thinking, worries, depression, obsessions and addictions which keep you unbalanced and discontent. Additionally, relational communication skills will build your connectedness and boundaries.
There is one Self and a shared consciousness deep within. At the same time, we live in a world of diversity and individual uniqueness. Psychotherapy now has the tools to assist in the journey to uncover the genuine “you”,that is, the person you have been looking to be all your life. Layers of conditioning have separated you from the self within. Mindfulness, trauma work and self-compassion provide the support and pathways to clear out wasteful thinking, worries, depression, obsessions and addictions which keep you unbalanced and discontent. Additionally, relational communication skills will build your connectedness and boundaries.
(732) 733-6795 View (732) 733-6795
Photo of Jan Waters, MA, LPC, RPT, Licensed Professional Counselor
Jan Waters
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, RPT
Verified Verified
Middletown, NJ 07748
Are you worried about your child and struggling to find ways to help him/her? Does your son or daughter seem unusually sad, angry, have trouble making and keeping friends, or following rules? Sometimes after a change or trauma children express their difficulties through negative behaviors. As parents, we all want our kids to feel good about themselves and be successful. Sometimes its easy to lose sight of a child's strengths and positive attributes. I'm passionate about helping struggling kids and families get back on a positive track in a fun and engaging way.
Are you worried about your child and struggling to find ways to help him/her? Does your son or daughter seem unusually sad, angry, have trouble making and keeping friends, or following rules? Sometimes after a change or trauma children express their difficulties through negative behaviors. As parents, we all want our kids to feel good about themselves and be successful. Sometimes its easy to lose sight of a child's strengths and positive attributes. I'm passionate about helping struggling kids and families get back on a positive track in a fun and engaging way.
(732) 733-4920 View (732) 733-4920
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Dawn Marie Campagnola
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MACP, CDWF, CYT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Middletown, NJ 07748  (Online Only)
I am committed to providing a safe and hope-filled space for my clients to explore their experiences and move towards healing and transformation. I provide compassionate care in a non-judgmental environment and consider myself open minded and informed. Being a yoga instructor, I bring a rich understanding of the body-mind-spirit connection to my practice. I have experience with individuals, families & couples facing a variety of issues. Issues include women's issues, struggles with self-esteem, confidence, empowerment, substance abuse, codependency, anxiety, stress, depression, grief & loss, sexual abuse, and sexual identity.
I am committed to providing a safe and hope-filled space for my clients to explore their experiences and move towards healing and transformation. I provide compassionate care in a non-judgmental environment and consider myself open minded and informed. Being a yoga instructor, I bring a rich understanding of the body-mind-spirit connection to my practice. I have experience with individuals, families & couples facing a variety of issues. Issues include women's issues, struggles with self-esteem, confidence, empowerment, substance abuse, codependency, anxiety, stress, depression, grief & loss, sexual abuse, and sexual identity.
(732) 743-7115 View (732) 743-7115
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Chece Psychological, LLC
Psychologist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
Middletown, NJ 07748
Congratulations! You have taken the first brave step to feeling better. Chece Psychological, LLC provides therapy and psychological evaluations for children, adolescents, adults, families, and couples. Having over 40 years of combined experience, our top specialties include treatment of substance abuse/addiction, couples/marriage conflicts, child/adolescents, behavior/academic problems, anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, trauma (abuse, neglect, combat), and life-change stress. We also specialize in forensic and general psychological evaluations, including assessment of emotional intelligence.
Congratulations! You have taken the first brave step to feeling better. Chece Psychological, LLC provides therapy and psychological evaluations for children, adolescents, adults, families, and couples. Having over 40 years of combined experience, our top specialties include treatment of substance abuse/addiction, couples/marriage conflicts, child/adolescents, behavior/academic problems, anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, trauma (abuse, neglect, combat), and life-change stress. We also specialize in forensic and general psychological evaluations, including assessment of emotional intelligence.
(732) 603-1225 View (732) 603-1225
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Megan Delaney
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Middletown, NJ 07748
I work in Middletown area in New Jersey. My clinical experience has been working with women, adults and couples with adjustment, anxiety, and depression, and/or self-compassion. I utilize an ecopsychological and relational-cultural lens to make aware of multiple influences on our mental health. I work with clients in identifying their own strengths and coping skills to work through stress, depression and/or anxiety and find self-compassion and improve interpersonal relationships. I offer walk-and-talk sessions at local parks and in-person. Please see my website for more information: www.megandelaneyphd.com
I work in Middletown area in New Jersey. My clinical experience has been working with women, adults and couples with adjustment, anxiety, and depression, and/or self-compassion. I utilize an ecopsychological and relational-cultural lens to make aware of multiple influences on our mental health. I work with clients in identifying their own strengths and coping skills to work through stress, depression and/or anxiety and find self-compassion and improve interpersonal relationships. I offer walk-and-talk sessions at local parks and in-person. Please see my website for more information: www.megandelaneyphd.com
(908) 279-0460 View (908) 279-0460
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Stephen D Chece Ph.d.
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Middletown, NJ 07748
I am a licensed psychologist in NJ, NY & PA for over 35 years. I incorporate a holistic approach, emphasizing mind, body, spirit and emotion. I am passionate about our work together & I still approach each person enthusiastically & with great respect. My work increases your ability to feel, to love, to hope, to heal, and to succeed. Clients are helped to problem solve and live in joy and peace rather than in pain and fear. This process involves in depth explorations of understanding purpose in life via prayer, mindfulness meditation, exploring and understanding thoughts, emotions, behaviors & the importance of true spirituality.
I am a licensed psychologist in NJ, NY & PA for over 35 years. I incorporate a holistic approach, emphasizing mind, body, spirit and emotion. I am passionate about our work together & I still approach each person enthusiastically & with great respect. My work increases your ability to feel, to love, to hope, to heal, and to succeed. Clients are helped to problem solve and live in joy and peace rather than in pain and fear. This process involves in depth explorations of understanding purpose in life via prayer, mindfulness meditation, exploring and understanding thoughts, emotions, behaviors & the importance of true spirituality.
(732) 481-0415 View (732) 481-0415
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Deidra Kozlowski
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC, BC-TMH
Verified Verified
Middletown, NJ 07748
My practice specializes in helping children, teens, adults, couples, and families to grow mentally and emotionally through increasing insight, resilience, and general wellbeing. Typically, I work with people who are looking for 1. personal growth: people who are looking to grow personally, maximize on their potential, and improve themselves and their relationships. 2. challenges & transitions: people going through transitions or challenges in their life. These challenges could include but are not limited to substance abuse/addictions, family problems, behavioral problems, anger management, trauma, loss and grief, infertility, sexual problems, divorce, job stress, etc.
My practice specializes in helping children, teens, adults, couples, and families to grow mentally and emotionally through increasing insight, resilience, and general wellbeing. Typically, I work with people who are looking for 1. personal growth: people who are looking to grow personally, maximize on their potential, and improve themselves and their relationships. 2. challenges & transitions: people going through transitions or challenges in their life. These challenges could include but are not limited to substance abuse/addictions, family problems, behavioral problems, anger management, trauma, loss and grief, infertility, sexual problems, divorce, job stress, etc.
(908) 660-0786 View (908) 660-0786
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Susan Ciardiello
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
Middletown, NJ 07748
I provide ADHD coaching and psychotherapy to youth (grades 6 and up), college students, adults, couples, and families. I believe one of the greatest gifts you can give to yourself is self-awareness through therapy or coaching. This involves a great deal of self-care and acceptance while you honor your strengths, identify and accept the things you need to work on, and learn strategies and coping skills. Some issues I can provide coaching or therapeutic support for are: ADHD, executive functioning challenges, depression, anxiety, grief and loss, infertility, social, interpersonal and/or parenting difficulties.
I provide ADHD coaching and psychotherapy to youth (grades 6 and up), college students, adults, couples, and families. I believe one of the greatest gifts you can give to yourself is self-awareness through therapy or coaching. This involves a great deal of self-care and acceptance while you honor your strengths, identify and accept the things you need to work on, and learn strategies and coping skills. Some issues I can provide coaching or therapeutic support for are: ADHD, executive functioning challenges, depression, anxiety, grief and loss, infertility, social, interpersonal and/or parenting difficulties.
(646) 681-7366 View (646) 681-7366
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Harry Levin
Licensed Professional Counselor, MCMHW, LPC, NCC, MHL, DD
Verified Verified
Middletown, NJ 07748  (Online Only)
It won’t take long: You’ve found strong insightful support in tough times. We’ll focus on your progress, gentle and real. Expert working within families, bringing peace to unsettled relationships, peace within oneself. Sweeten parent-child life (and parent-to-parent partnership). Come benefit from practical strategies which quickly ease an upset mind. Come for wisdom uplifting each heart in distress. Clarity, enlivening of free will, thoughtful direction in achieving what you want to achieve. We’ll laugh together more than you might expect.
It won’t take long: You’ve found strong insightful support in tough times. We’ll focus on your progress, gentle and real. Expert working within families, bringing peace to unsettled relationships, peace within oneself. Sweeten parent-child life (and parent-to-parent partnership). Come benefit from practical strategies which quickly ease an upset mind. Come for wisdom uplifting each heart in distress. Clarity, enlivening of free will, thoughtful direction in achieving what you want to achieve. We’ll laugh together more than you might expect.
(732) 638-4197 View (732) 638-4197
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Cristie Ritz-King
Licensed Professional Counselor, PsyD, LPC, PMH-C, RYT
Verified Verified
Middletown, NJ 07748
Being an adult is hard. Feeling all your feelings and carrying everyone else's while keeping all the family/work obligation balls in the air can leave you overwhelmed and under-appreciated. Are you struggling with your relationships at home or work or even with yourself? You're in the right place. Using a trauma-sensitive, integrated mind-body approach, you and I will uncover the inner strengths that help to heal wounds and move into a life with more peace and calm. Feel safe enough to tell your whole story and redefine yourself through weekly or Intensive sessions. Every human experience is unique. Your therapy should be too.
Being an adult is hard. Feeling all your feelings and carrying everyone else's while keeping all the family/work obligation balls in the air can leave you overwhelmed and under-appreciated. Are you struggling with your relationships at home or work or even with yourself? You're in the right place. Using a trauma-sensitive, integrated mind-body approach, you and I will uncover the inner strengths that help to heal wounds and move into a life with more peace and calm. Feel safe enough to tell your whole story and redefine yourself through weekly or Intensive sessions. Every human experience is unique. Your therapy should be too.
(848) 253-6257 View (848) 253-6257
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Nicole Tierney
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCADC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Middletown, NJ 07748
Engaging in therapy and self discovery may seem overwhelming at first, but the result, living one's optimal life is worth the investment. Based on my lived and professional experience, I firmly believe in self-actualization-that everyone can attain the complete realization of their potential. Self-actualization can usually best be achieved by person centered therapy which is premised on the notion that everyone is an "expert" in their own life, can identify areas of their life they would like to change, and with the support of a nonjudgmental and empathetic therapist they can make those changes.
Engaging in therapy and self discovery may seem overwhelming at first, but the result, living one's optimal life is worth the investment. Based on my lived and professional experience, I firmly believe in self-actualization-that everyone can attain the complete realization of their potential. Self-actualization can usually best be achieved by person centered therapy which is premised on the notion that everyone is an "expert" in their own life, can identify areas of their life they would like to change, and with the support of a nonjudgmental and empathetic therapist they can make those changes.
(732) 564-4842 View (732) 564-4842
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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.