Gottman Method Therapists in Madison, NJ

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Hope Eliasof
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LMFT
Verified Verified
Madison, NJ 07940  (Online Only)
Do you and your partner argue all the time? Do you feel a growing distance from one another? Is there a lack of trust because of cheating or not living up to commitments? For more than 30 years I've helped hundreds of couples and individuals build stronger and healthier relationships. As a licensed couples therapist and certified sex therapist I use a variety of proven techniques to help people solve conflicts, improve communication and ignite a spark in their sex lives. Together, we'll work to decrease anger, blame and defensiveness, replacing them with assertiveness, compassion and mindfulness. I work with diverse couples.
Do you and your partner argue all the time? Do you feel a growing distance from one another? Is there a lack of trust because of cheating or not living up to commitments? For more than 30 years I've helped hundreds of couples and individuals build stronger and healthier relationships. As a licensed couples therapist and certified sex therapist I use a variety of proven techniques to help people solve conflicts, improve communication and ignite a spark in their sex lives. Together, we'll work to decrease anger, blame and defensiveness, replacing them with assertiveness, compassion and mindfulness. I work with diverse couples.
(201) 389-8259 View (201) 389-8259
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Magdalena Brown
Licensed Professional Counselor, MSc , LPC, CTP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Madison, NJ 07940  (Online Only)
Are you struggling with anxiety, OCD, depression, relationship issues or a difficult life transition? Have you been affected by trauma or multiple traumatic experiences? Would you like to regain control of your thoughts, emotions and begins to live a meaningful and enjoyable life? I can help you heal by providing research based coping skills, supporting you in cultivating feelings of healthy connection with yourself and others, and offering a safe space to explore, process and overcome difficult issues and past traumas.
Are you struggling with anxiety, OCD, depression, relationship issues or a difficult life transition? Have you been affected by trauma or multiple traumatic experiences? Would you like to regain control of your thoughts, emotions and begins to live a meaningful and enjoyable life? I can help you heal by providing research based coping skills, supporting you in cultivating feelings of healthy connection with yourself and others, and offering a safe space to explore, process and overcome difficult issues and past traumas.
(973) 657-5664 View (973) 657-5664
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David Dressler
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Madison, NJ 07940
If you're looking for someone who will actively listen to your concerns and provide insightful feedback that is compassionately helpful to your concerns, you have come to the right place. I provide my clients a safe place to work through their frustrations often related to relationships that seem overwhelming to them. My clients find practical solutions that help them grow as individuals in the midst of such relationships. It is a great joy of mine to see how clients grow through the process of therapy.
If you're looking for someone who will actively listen to your concerns and provide insightful feedback that is compassionately helpful to your concerns, you have come to the right place. I provide my clients a safe place to work through their frustrations often related to relationships that seem overwhelming to them. My clients find practical solutions that help them grow as individuals in the midst of such relationships. It is a great joy of mine to see how clients grow through the process of therapy.
(973) 318-3886 View (973) 318-3886
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Melissa Berschauer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Madison, NJ 07940
Anxiety, Depression and Relationships: These are my top three specialties because when you think about it, most other issues have one of these at the root. The clients I work with come from all walks of life, each bringing their own unique set of experiences and needs. I love working with individuals and couples who are open to working as a team, enjoy a good sense of humor, and are open minded about the work we are doing together. I believe that these components are important aspects of what makes our therapeutic relationship successful, so I ensure I bring them into every session and encourage my clients to do the same!
Anxiety, Depression and Relationships: These are my top three specialties because when you think about it, most other issues have one of these at the root. The clients I work with come from all walks of life, each bringing their own unique set of experiences and needs. I love working with individuals and couples who are open to working as a team, enjoy a good sense of humor, and are open minded about the work we are doing together. I believe that these components are important aspects of what makes our therapeutic relationship successful, so I ensure I bring them into every session and encourage my clients to do the same!
(949) 613-0899 View (949) 613-0899
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Diane Uhler
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NBCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Madison, NJ 07940
As a professional helper, my goals is to walk alongside you and help you find your solutions to problem situations. I believe that the solution to problem situations in life are within you and I will strive with you to find an effective solution to your life struggles whether they be relationships, family, marriage, parenting, work and your overall sense of well-being. I use a blend of therapeutic approaches personalized to the specific needs of each individual. These approaches include Psychodynamic and Person Centered Therapy, CBT, Gestalt, REBT, Family Systems, Play Therapy as well as others.
As a professional helper, my goals is to walk alongside you and help you find your solutions to problem situations. I believe that the solution to problem situations in life are within you and I will strive with you to find an effective solution to your life struggles whether they be relationships, family, marriage, parenting, work and your overall sense of well-being. I use a blend of therapeutic approaches personalized to the specific needs of each individual. These approaches include Psychodynamic and Person Centered Therapy, CBT, Gestalt, REBT, Family Systems, Play Therapy as well as others.
(973) 822-0707 View (973) 822-0707
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Tamsen Thorpe
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Madison, NJ 07940
Does it seem like anxiety rules your life? Are you and your partner constantly fighting? Have there been broken promises? Do you feel lonely, more like roommates than partners? If so, you’ve come to the right place. My two areas of expertise are anxiety counseling and couples therapy/marriage counseling. I have more than 20 years of experience helping hundreds of individuals and couples lead happier, more fulfilling lives. Currently I’m conducting sessions online via Zoom and in person.
Does it seem like anxiety rules your life? Are you and your partner constantly fighting? Have there been broken promises? Do you feel lonely, more like roommates than partners? If so, you’ve come to the right place. My two areas of expertise are anxiety counseling and couples therapy/marriage counseling. I have more than 20 years of experience helping hundreds of individuals and couples lead happier, more fulfilling lives. Currently I’m conducting sessions online via Zoom and in person.
(973) 317-8022 View (973) 317-8022
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Daniel C. Linehan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Madison, NJ 07940
In my 19 years as a therapist, I have worked with a range of clients, such as co-dependency, anger, OCD, phobias, panic disorders, and PTSD & trauma with individuals, couples, and families, and I have learned every client is vastly different. One thing that is the same is that the goal for the client is always moving towards living kind of the life they want to live. What that looks like is different for everyone because we all have our own set of values. But the stronger our values, the harder it can be to accept ourselves and others in the world. I help clients find that balance for themselves!
In my 19 years as a therapist, I have worked with a range of clients, such as co-dependency, anger, OCD, phobias, panic disorders, and PTSD & trauma with individuals, couples, and families, and I have learned every client is vastly different. One thing that is the same is that the goal for the client is always moving towards living kind of the life they want to live. What that looks like is different for everyone because we all have our own set of values. But the stronger our values, the harder it can be to accept ourselves and others in the world. I help clients find that balance for themselves!
(973) 577-6845 View (973) 577-6845

More Therapists Nearby

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Kathleen Silver
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Chatham, NJ 07928
In helping my clients explore their issues and find solutions, I pull from different theories and approaches, including Psychodynamic, Internal Family Systems (IFS), the Gottman Method (for couples), DBT and CBT.
One thing we are all guaranteed to experience in life is CHANGE! Our families, friends, finances, intimate relationships, our health and careers can be counted on to consistently serve up both welcome, sought-after changes, and at other times bewildering, overwhelming new issues. My goal as a therapist is to help my clients clarify those changes in their lives that have become most challenging. I seek to create the kind of warm, trusting, engaged relationship that enables my clients to explore and develop the personal insights, coping skills, and self-awareness to allow them to cope with existing and future life changes.
In helping my clients explore their issues and find solutions, I pull from different theories and approaches, including Psychodynamic, Internal Family Systems (IFS), the Gottman Method (for couples), DBT and CBT.
One thing we are all guaranteed to experience in life is CHANGE! Our families, friends, finances, intimate relationships, our health and careers can be counted on to consistently serve up both welcome, sought-after changes, and at other times bewildering, overwhelming new issues. My goal as a therapist is to help my clients clarify those changes in their lives that have become most challenging. I seek to create the kind of warm, trusting, engaged relationship that enables my clients to explore and develop the personal insights, coping skills, and self-awareness to allow them to cope with existing and future life changes.
(908) 516-3852 View (908) 516-3852
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Shana Spier
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Florham Park, NJ 07932
Do you often feel overwhelmed, misunderstood, anxious, frustrated, helpless? Are you struggling with emotional and physical intimacy in your relationships? Do you struggle to feel close to others and to yourself? Have you experienced sexual assault or trauma? Do you wish you could feel less afraid to express what you need and how you feel? Struggling with these feelings often leaves us feeling stuck, exhausted, unfulfilled. They can also accompany more serious emotional or behavioral symptoms. Therapy can help you cope with and resolve the disturbing experiences and pain that are causing you distress.
Do you often feel overwhelmed, misunderstood, anxious, frustrated, helpless? Are you struggling with emotional and physical intimacy in your relationships? Do you struggle to feel close to others and to yourself? Have you experienced sexual assault or trauma? Do you wish you could feel less afraid to express what you need and how you feel? Struggling with these feelings often leaves us feeling stuck, exhausted, unfulfilled. They can also accompany more serious emotional or behavioral symptoms. Therapy can help you cope with and resolve the disturbing experiences and pain that are causing you distress.
(973) 629-8854 View (973) 629-8854
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Sachristy Arakelian
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified Verified
Florham Park, NJ 07932
Welcome! I am Sachristy and I have a background in psychology and a masters in social work from Simmons University in Boston, Massachusetts. I have clinical experience working in a private practice setting with several individuals and couples to facilitate growth, empowerment, and healing. I specialize in couples work with areas of specialty including infidelity, communication conflict, balance, intimacy, and boundaries.
Welcome! I am Sachristy and I have a background in psychology and a masters in social work from Simmons University in Boston, Massachusetts. I have clinical experience working in a private practice setting with several individuals and couples to facilitate growth, empowerment, and healing. I specialize in couples work with areas of specialty including infidelity, communication conflict, balance, intimacy, and boundaries.
(973) 240-5847 View (973) 240-5847
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Debbi Schachtel
Counselor, LAC, MA, JD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Chatham, NJ 07928
Do you feel lonely even though you are in a committed relationship? Does it seem like you and your partner speak different languages and live different realities? Do you have the same fights over and over again and nothing ever gets resolved? These feelings can be overwhelming and scary. I want to help you begin to change your relationship so it can be a source of nurturing and support instead of a cause of stress and anxiety. I work with individuals and couples using a flexible, collaborative and strengths-based approach to help my clients build connection, resolve conflicts, develop trust, and find happiness in their lives.
Do you feel lonely even though you are in a committed relationship? Does it seem like you and your partner speak different languages and live different realities? Do you have the same fights over and over again and nothing ever gets resolved? These feelings can be overwhelming and scary. I want to help you begin to change your relationship so it can be a source of nurturing and support instead of a cause of stress and anxiety. I work with individuals and couples using a flexible, collaborative and strengths-based approach to help my clients build connection, resolve conflicts, develop trust, and find happiness in their lives.
(862) 259-7646 View (862) 259-7646
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Sonia Singh
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Florham Park, NJ 07932  (Online Only)
I help hardworking professionals who are struggling with past trauma to overcome their symptoms and improve their personal relationships. A traumatic experience takes many forms, including but not limited to: a move to a new country, a break-up, an abusive work environment, or a crime related trauma including domestic violence, sexual assault, and neglect. These traumatic experiences can feel like they're happening over and over even when you're not currently in them, leading to fear and lack of trust. You deserve better than that.
I help hardworking professionals who are struggling with past trauma to overcome their symptoms and improve their personal relationships. A traumatic experience takes many forms, including but not limited to: a move to a new country, a break-up, an abusive work environment, or a crime related trauma including domestic violence, sexual assault, and neglect. These traumatic experiences can feel like they're happening over and over even when you're not currently in them, leading to fear and lack of trust. You deserve better than that.
(732) 217-7956 View (732) 217-7956
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All is Well Counseling Services LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD-ABD, LPC, CMHC
Verified Verified
Chatham, NJ 07928
I am interested in a transformative process that focuses on what interests you. I operate based on a wellness model; seeing clients as human beings who walk in seeking help, as opposed to a diagnosis needing fixing. This is all simply a human journey and we can all use a little guidance from time to time.
I am interested in a transformative process that focuses on what interests you. I operate based on a wellness model; seeing clients as human beings who walk in seeking help, as opposed to a diagnosis needing fixing. This is all simply a human journey and we can all use a little guidance from time to time.
(973) 310-5594 View (973) 310-5594
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Daphne Shalita
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Florham Park, NJ 07932  (Online Only)
My ideal client is YOU. It would be my honor and privilege to help you align your life with your intentions and values. I love people, and I love what I do! I am genuinely interested in getting to know what you are about, and would do my best to help you figure out the most effective strategies to cope with your situation/s. I will offer you cutting edge treatment modalities delivered in a supportIve and compassionately honest manner.
My ideal client is YOU. It would be my honor and privilege to help you align your life with your intentions and values. I love people, and I love what I do! I am genuinely interested in getting to know what you are about, and would do my best to help you figure out the most effective strategies to cope with your situation/s. I will offer you cutting edge treatment modalities delivered in a supportIve and compassionately honest manner.
(862) 217-5257 View (862) 217-5257
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Miranda Aaron
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Chatham, NJ 07928
Relationships are complicated and often very stressful and upsetting. I work with people who are grappling to communicate better with the most important people in their lives. Wanting to be heard, understood, supported and loved is human nature. This can sometimes be a challenge without outside, neutral help. Misunderstandings often can get in the way of intimate relationships, leaving each person feeling alone, disillusioned and their actions misconstrued. I see my job as someone who can help navigate these confusing dynamics and openly talk about the possible underlying feelings that led to these behaviors in the first place.
Relationships are complicated and often very stressful and upsetting. I work with people who are grappling to communicate better with the most important people in their lives. Wanting to be heard, understood, supported and loved is human nature. This can sometimes be a challenge without outside, neutral help. Misunderstandings often can get in the way of intimate relationships, leaving each person feeling alone, disillusioned and their actions misconstrued. I see my job as someone who can help navigate these confusing dynamics and openly talk about the possible underlying feelings that led to these behaviors in the first place.
(973) 637-0988 View (973) 637-0988
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Stuart M Cohen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Morristown, NJ 07961
My name is Stuart Cohen, for the past 30+ years I’ve worked to be a skillful, effective and compassionate therapist for children, adolescents and adults. I’ve participated in advanced training and use a variety of evidence based techniques to help clients. These methods include: Family Therapy, Beck Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, David Burns TEAM Cognitive Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Gottman Marital Therapy, Gottman Emotion Coaching, CAMS suicide assessment, Michenbaum’s trauma informed CBT. I’ve also completed the Rutgers Advanced Certificate in Social Work for People With Developmental Disabilities.
My name is Stuart Cohen, for the past 30+ years I’ve worked to be a skillful, effective and compassionate therapist for children, adolescents and adults. I’ve participated in advanced training and use a variety of evidence based techniques to help clients. These methods include: Family Therapy, Beck Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, David Burns TEAM Cognitive Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Gottman Marital Therapy, Gottman Emotion Coaching, CAMS suicide assessment, Michenbaum’s trauma informed CBT. I’ve also completed the Rutgers Advanced Certificate in Social Work for People With Developmental Disabilities.
(973) 668-4692 View (973) 668-4692
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Shannon Theobald
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, EMDR *
Verified Verified
Florham Park, NJ 07932
Shannon Theobald is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and trained EMDR Therapist in New Jersey at Thrively Co. Shannon has experience working with individuals, families, and couples dealing with a wide range of issues including: mental illness, co-occurring disorders, trauma, eating disorders, career counseling, grief & loss, and relationship/marital challenges. Shannon is dedicated to helping others find purpose and meaning in who they are and what they do. She uses a variety of approaches & techniques to facilitate this process, accommodating each client’s needs in an effective tailored manner.
Shannon Theobald is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and trained EMDR Therapist in New Jersey at Thrively Co. Shannon has experience working with individuals, families, and couples dealing with a wide range of issues including: mental illness, co-occurring disorders, trauma, eating disorders, career counseling, grief & loss, and relationship/marital challenges. Shannon is dedicated to helping others find purpose and meaning in who they are and what they do. She uses a variety of approaches & techniques to facilitate this process, accommodating each client’s needs in an effective tailored manner.
(973) 240-5164 View (973) 240-5164
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Lindsay Hafner
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, ACS
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Florham Park, NJ 07932
Are you feeling isolated or having trouble adjusting after a significant life change or having difficulty connecting with loved ones? Is a traumatic event plaguing you? I have specialized training in working with couples, relationship issues, first responders, teachers, people with disabilities, and new or expecting mothers. People are not "one size fits all," which is why I use several modalities during therapy to customize treatment for every client. Clients can begin to look at things from a new perspective and create lasting change. Let's get "unstuck" by working together!
Are you feeling isolated or having trouble adjusting after a significant life change or having difficulty connecting with loved ones? Is a traumatic event plaguing you? I have specialized training in working with couples, relationship issues, first responders, teachers, people with disabilities, and new or expecting mothers. People are not "one size fits all," which is why I use several modalities during therapy to customize treatment for every client. Clients can begin to look at things from a new perspective and create lasting change. Let's get "unstuck" by working together!
(862) 314-6706 View (862) 314-6706
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Tiffany Sandoval
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Chatham, NJ 07928
I appreciate the uniqueness of every individual and situation and can adapt my approach to what will be most effective in treating the underlying issue causing distress. I am passionate and enthusiastic about helping clients to move out of what isn't working for them and empower them to reach their goals. I love watching clients learn skills to help them move out of depression and anxiety to higher levels of functioning. I especially enjoy working with couples in distress and help them get to a place where their relationship is a source of comfort rather than stress.
I appreciate the uniqueness of every individual and situation and can adapt my approach to what will be most effective in treating the underlying issue causing distress. I am passionate and enthusiastic about helping clients to move out of what isn't working for them and empower them to reach their goals. I love watching clients learn skills to help them move out of depression and anxiety to higher levels of functioning. I especially enjoy working with couples in distress and help them get to a place where their relationship is a source of comfort rather than stress.
(808) 707-7510 View (808) 707-7510
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Cognitive Change
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LPC, LCSW, LCADC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Florham Park, NJ 07932
Cognitive Change has been providing excellent service to each individual, couple, and family for over 12 years through the use of Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for all ages. Our clients include all cultural, racial, gender, and economic backgrounds. All our therapists are either certified in CBT, TEAM-CBT, or DBT and are supervised by a certified CBT therapist. We work with co-dependency, anger, OCD, phobias, panic disorders, PTSD & trauma. Our goal with all clients is to learn how to move toward the life the client wants to live while accepting themselves and the world around them.
Cognitive Change has been providing excellent service to each individual, couple, and family for over 12 years through the use of Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for all ages. Our clients include all cultural, racial, gender, and economic backgrounds. All our therapists are either certified in CBT, TEAM-CBT, or DBT and are supervised by a certified CBT therapist. We work with co-dependency, anger, OCD, phobias, panic disorders, PTSD & trauma. Our goal with all clients is to learn how to move toward the life the client wants to live while accepting themselves and the world around them.
(862) 289-7894 View (862) 289-7894
Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.