Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists in Fairfield, NJ

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Samantha Shultz
Counselor, LAC
Verified Verified
Fairfield, NJ 07004
I have always viewed counseling as an opportunity for me to work alongside my clients to assist them in their journey toward personal discovery. I strive to ensure that each counseling session is one that will help you explore your goals and make meaningful progress. My biggest joy is helping my clients find their true aspirations and goals in life and being by their side through the process!
I have always viewed counseling as an opportunity for me to work alongside my clients to assist them in their journey toward personal discovery. I strive to ensure that each counseling session is one that will help you explore your goals and make meaningful progress. My biggest joy is helping my clients find their true aspirations and goals in life and being by their side through the process!
(732) 784-4123 View (732) 784-4123
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Paige Halverson
Counselor, LAC
Verified Verified
Fairfield, NJ 07004
Do you feel lost or stuck, unable to achieve your goals or find your way? Let's take the journey inward to find the keys to unlocking your best self. Together, we will create a safe and empathetic environment where you can share and explore your thoughts and feelings without fear of being judged. Are you ready to embark on the experience of self discovery? Every journey begins with the first step.
Do you feel lost or stuck, unable to achieve your goals or find your way? Let's take the journey inward to find the keys to unlocking your best self. Together, we will create a safe and empathetic environment where you can share and explore your thoughts and feelings without fear of being judged. Are you ready to embark on the experience of self discovery? Every journey begins with the first step.
(973) 834-5630 View (973) 834-5630
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Michelle Barber
Licensed Social Worker, LSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fairfield, NJ 07004  (Online Only)
Are you struggling to find balance in your life while dealing with anxiety, depression, or mood swings? Do you feel overwhelmed by your emotions and need guidance to regain control and peace? Or maybe your relationship with your partner is facing challenges that seem impossible to overcome and you want to improve communication and rebuild a stronger, more fulfilling connection.
Are you struggling to find balance in your life while dealing with anxiety, depression, or mood swings? Do you feel overwhelmed by your emotions and need guidance to regain control and peace? Or maybe your relationship with your partner is facing challenges that seem impossible to overcome and you want to improve communication and rebuild a stronger, more fulfilling connection.
(973) 828-0238 View (973) 828-0238
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Kathleen Shaughnessy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Fairfield, NJ 07004
I am sensitive and empathetic and value the professional relationship I can build with clients. By listening to the client tell me about their lives, I strive to help the client understand their feelings better. I feel the greatest gift a therapist can give a client is to help build self-awareness. When we understand what we are feeling it is easier to understand our goals.
I am sensitive and empathetic and value the professional relationship I can build with clients. By listening to the client tell me about their lives, I strive to help the client understand their feelings better. I feel the greatest gift a therapist can give a client is to help build self-awareness. When we understand what we are feeling it is easier to understand our goals.
(973) 791-8220 View (973) 791-8220
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Deborah New
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fairfield, NJ 07004
Clients come to me for relief of symptoms of anxiety and depression, and to learn to process how trauma or complex trauma may be impacting their lives today and how to move forward from it. They also seek to gain insight into why they do what they do, to improve their agency or control over their own lives, to learn how to recognize and deal with feelings, to build their self-esteem and to find more pleasure and serenity in their lives. As we work towards the goals clients become ready and willing to make the real behavioral changes that will make a positive difference in their lives.
Clients come to me for relief of symptoms of anxiety and depression, and to learn to process how trauma or complex trauma may be impacting their lives today and how to move forward from it. They also seek to gain insight into why they do what they do, to improve their agency or control over their own lives, to learn how to recognize and deal with feelings, to build their self-esteem and to find more pleasure and serenity in their lives. As we work towards the goals clients become ready and willing to make the real behavioral changes that will make a positive difference in their lives.
(973) 566-5880 View (973) 566-5880

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Ariel Meltzer
Licensed Social Worker, LSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042  (Online Only)
A beautiful thing about our bodies is that our bodies can talk to us. Our bodies can provide us with data that can be beneficial to our mental and physical state of being. Breaking down and analyzing that data can be key to understanding what we might need to help ourselves. We can discuss trauma recovery, life transitions, relationship challenges (monogamy, polyamory, and open relationships), sex positivity, BDSM and kink, body image, anxiety, stress, depression, and self growth.
A beautiful thing about our bodies is that our bodies can talk to us. Our bodies can provide us with data that can be beneficial to our mental and physical state of being. Breaking down and analyzing that data can be key to understanding what we might need to help ourselves. We can discuss trauma recovery, life transitions, relationship challenges (monogamy, polyamory, and open relationships), sex positivity, BDSM and kink, body image, anxiety, stress, depression, and self growth.
(609) 989-5601 View (609) 989-5601
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Minimah Rush: Couples, Adults, Teens, and Kids
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified Verified
Bloomfield, NJ 07003
I am an African American therapist who loves working with high conflict couples and families as well as teens and adults. My clients come to me for help with things like: relationship and family issues, infidelity, nonmonagamy/ polyamory, anxiety, trauma/ PTSD, sexual abuse and assault, grief, and anger/stress management. When I work with teens, I make sure to involve the family. With my couples, I draw on the Gottman Method which promotes healthy communication, builds trust and increases emotional connection. See if I'm accepting new clients and book online at www.resolutioncc.com/team
I am an African American therapist who loves working with high conflict couples and families as well as teens and adults. My clients come to me for help with things like: relationship and family issues, infidelity, nonmonagamy/ polyamory, anxiety, trauma/ PTSD, sexual abuse and assault, grief, and anger/stress management. When I work with teens, I make sure to involve the family. With my couples, I draw on the Gottman Method which promotes healthy communication, builds trust and increases emotional connection. See if I'm accepting new clients and book online at www.resolutioncc.com/team
(973) 218-4641 View (973) 218-4641
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Amanda Hager
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07043
The therapeutic environment I provide is an open, judgment free space where clients can talk about issues they may not be able to in their daily lives including kink culture, polyamory, impact of cisheteronormative ideals on relationships and life trajectories, and sexual health.
I view therapy as an active and collaborative process that allows for flexibility and fluidity based on your individual needs over time. I take time to get to know you as an individual and how your lived experiences, including the influence of oppressive systems, transgenerational narratives, culture, community, family, and societal norms have had an impact on your holistic well-being. I stray away from Eurocentric practices that view people as a collection of symptoms that need to be 'fixed'. I view each client as a whole person with strengths they can utilize to build emotional foundations and achieve wellness.
The therapeutic environment I provide is an open, judgment free space where clients can talk about issues they may not be able to in their daily lives including kink culture, polyamory, impact of cisheteronormative ideals on relationships and life trajectories, and sexual health.
I view therapy as an active and collaborative process that allows for flexibility and fluidity based on your individual needs over time. I take time to get to know you as an individual and how your lived experiences, including the influence of oppressive systems, transgenerational narratives, culture, community, family, and societal norms have had an impact on your holistic well-being. I stray away from Eurocentric practices that view people as a collection of symptoms that need to be 'fixed'. I view each client as a whole person with strengths they can utilize to build emotional foundations and achieve wellness.
(973) 834-0038 View (973) 834-0038
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Rosaria Matos
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07043
Practice Specialties Include: LGBTQIA+ Topics, Transgender Healthcare, Gender Identity, Gender Transition, Gender Dysphoria, Support for Trans Individuals and their Families, Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM), Open Relationships.
EMDR trained and pursuing EMDRIA certification at this time. I am only taking on adult (18+) clients for regular ongoing sessions. My name is Ro. I’m a trans genderfluid therapist specializing in inclusive, affirming care for LGBTQIA+ individuals and their loved ones. I utilize a person-centered approach that is non-blaming, collaborative, and empowering. You have a right to exist exactly as you are. My goal is to help you tap into your natural strengths and resources, allowing you to better cope with your traumas and circumstances.
Practice Specialties Include: LGBTQIA+ Topics, Transgender Healthcare, Gender Identity, Gender Transition, Gender Dysphoria, Support for Trans Individuals and their Families, Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM), Open Relationships.
EMDR trained and pursuing EMDRIA certification at this time. I am only taking on adult (18+) clients for regular ongoing sessions. My name is Ro. I’m a trans genderfluid therapist specializing in inclusive, affirming care for LGBTQIA+ individuals and their loved ones. I utilize a person-centered approach that is non-blaming, collaborative, and empowering. You have a right to exist exactly as you are. My goal is to help you tap into your natural strengths and resources, allowing you to better cope with your traumas and circumstances.
(973) 381-2151 View (973) 381-2151
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Rachel Altounian
MS, LAC
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07043
You already have everything within you to meet your goals. I am here to help quiet the noise, focus your energy, and support you through the challenges and celebrations that lie ahead. I work collaboratively with my clients to improve self-acceptance, clarify the path you are walking, and cope with the unique difficulties you experience. You deserve to heal and you are not only your pain. We will look at your many parts to empower you to level up and move forward with confidence.
You already have everything within you to meet your goals. I am here to help quiet the noise, focus your energy, and support you through the challenges and celebrations that lie ahead. I work collaboratively with my clients to improve self-acceptance, clarify the path you are walking, and cope with the unique difficulties you experience. You deserve to heal and you are not only your pain. We will look at your many parts to empower you to level up and move forward with confidence.
(973) 553-4259 View (973) 553-4259
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Margaret Bolanos: Adults, Couples, Teens
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Passaic, NJ 07055
I am a queer Latina therapist and I love to support teens, couples, and adults navigating anxiety, trauma, interpersonal violence, first-generation experiences, sexual orientation, sexual relationships, and gender identity. I use cognitive behavioral therapy and trauma-focused techniques with teens and adults and Gottman Method couples counseling. I care about creating a safe space to explore strengths and challenges, set goals, and walk through the healing journey. I can work in English or Spanish and offer in-person and telehealth sessions. See if I'm accepting new clients and book online at www.resolutioncc.com/team
I am a queer Latina therapist and I love to support teens, couples, and adults navigating anxiety, trauma, interpersonal violence, first-generation experiences, sexual orientation, sexual relationships, and gender identity. I use cognitive behavioral therapy and trauma-focused techniques with teens and adults and Gottman Method couples counseling. I care about creating a safe space to explore strengths and challenges, set goals, and walk through the healing journey. I can work in English or Spanish and offer in-person and telehealth sessions. See if I'm accepting new clients and book online at www.resolutioncc.com/team
(862) 701-0967 View (862) 701-0967
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Lashauna Cutts
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Clifton, NJ 07011  (Online Only)
You've come to the right place! I am a seasoned LCSW psychotherapist with over a decade of experience delivering evidenced-based psychotherapies to individuals with mental illness. I have expertise in Cognitive Processing Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, and Prolonged Exposure. I’m Clinical Director at Nema Health, a telehealth practice that offers effective and research-backed care for trauma survivors. We currently offer Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), the gold star treatment for PTSD that is endorsed by the National Center for PTSD. 90% of our patients experience clinically improvement in PTSD symptoms.
You've come to the right place! I am a seasoned LCSW psychotherapist with over a decade of experience delivering evidenced-based psychotherapies to individuals with mental illness. I have expertise in Cognitive Processing Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, and Prolonged Exposure. I’m Clinical Director at Nema Health, a telehealth practice that offers effective and research-backed care for trauma survivors. We currently offer Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), the gold star treatment for PTSD that is endorsed by the National Center for PTSD. 90% of our patients experience clinically improvement in PTSD symptoms.
(203) 457-8223 View (203) 457-8223
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Daniella Delgado-Ginyard: Lgbt Specialized Spanish Speaking
LSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
My strengths-based approach combines cognitive and dialectical behavioral therapy, solution-focused techniques and holistic ways to treat your entire being including mind, body, and spirit. My approach also embraces a positive view of queer identities and relationships while addressing the negative influences that homophobia, transphobia, and heterosexism have on the lives of the LGBTQ community. I personally understand there can be complicated feelings towards your own sexuality/gender identity along with the struggles of being a queer person of color, and can help you navigate these adversities.
My strengths-based approach combines cognitive and dialectical behavioral therapy, solution-focused techniques and holistic ways to treat your entire being including mind, body, and spirit. My approach also embraces a positive view of queer identities and relationships while addressing the negative influences that homophobia, transphobia, and heterosexism have on the lives of the LGBTQ community. I personally understand there can be complicated feelings towards your own sexuality/gender identity along with the struggles of being a queer person of color, and can help you navigate these adversities.
(609) 201-1072 View (609) 201-1072
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Krystle M Davis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
Changes and transitions are the only constant in life often creating feelings of confusion, lack of motivation, and worthlessness. Are you a struggling with the newness of a different environment? Are you having difficulties coping through life changes? Or unsure how to take the first step in your journey? Together we can create a safe space to explore and process what you are feeling while learning and implementing new coping skills.
Changes and transitions are the only constant in life often creating feelings of confusion, lack of motivation, and worthlessness. Are you a struggling with the newness of a different environment? Are you having difficulties coping through life changes? Or unsure how to take the first step in your journey? Together we can create a safe space to explore and process what you are feeling while learning and implementing new coping skills.
(973) 453-0454 View (973) 453-0454
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Ace Wilson: Lgbt Teens And Adults Offering Hrt Evals
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW, MSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
Discovering who we are is a process that can begin at any stage of life. I’ve made it my mission to work with people of all ages to navigate the complicated course of discovering who they are. My passion is to help people navigate the often intimidating waters of gender identity, sexuality, relationships, self-esteem, and other matters that are a part of our lives. I specialize in LGBTQ+ related matters, and work with queer individuals and their allies in order to make sure they can have fulfilling relationships and experiences.
Discovering who we are is a process that can begin at any stage of life. I’ve made it my mission to work with people of all ages to navigate the complicated course of discovering who they are. My passion is to help people navigate the often intimidating waters of gender identity, sexuality, relationships, self-esteem, and other matters that are a part of our lives. I specialize in LGBTQ+ related matters, and work with queer individuals and their allies in order to make sure they can have fulfilling relationships and experiences.
(610) 463-0162 View (610) 463-0162
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Edward H Callaghan
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
Hi! My name is Dr. Ed Callaghan. I have a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology and am fully licensed in the state of New Jersey. I am the co-founder of the Integrative Therapy Institute of NJ and it’s Director of Child Services. I specialize in working with preschool and school-age children as well as adolescents and adults. I am especially proficient at working with children with ADHD, behavioral problems, and school-related difficulties--especially problems related to poor school performance, distractibility, and motivation/drive. I am also VERY SUCCESSFUL at bridging conflictual relationships between teens and their parents.
Hi! My name is Dr. Ed Callaghan. I have a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology and am fully licensed in the state of New Jersey. I am the co-founder of the Integrative Therapy Institute of NJ and it’s Director of Child Services. I specialize in working with preschool and school-age children as well as adolescents and adults. I am especially proficient at working with children with ADHD, behavioral problems, and school-related difficulties--especially problems related to poor school performance, distractibility, and motivation/drive. I am also VERY SUCCESSFUL at bridging conflictual relationships between teens and their parents.
(201) 831-7666 View (201) 831-7666
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Dr. Jessica Tasca
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
As humans, we tend to avoid our more difficult and complex emotions in hopes that they will disappear. However, it is more often the case that the feelings we turn inward find their way out, and sometimes in a less-than-ideal way. Therapy is a unique space to explore the parts of you that tend to stay hidden. It is a space to “look beneath the hood” to understand more fully who you are and "why" you are. With this newfound insight, we can explore ways for you to engage more fully in your life and relationships, dig into your sense of purpose, and reconnect with (or discover for the first time) feelings of stillness and joy.
As humans, we tend to avoid our more difficult and complex emotions in hopes that they will disappear. However, it is more often the case that the feelings we turn inward find their way out, and sometimes in a less-than-ideal way. Therapy is a unique space to explore the parts of you that tend to stay hidden. It is a space to “look beneath the hood” to understand more fully who you are and "why" you are. With this newfound insight, we can explore ways for you to engage more fully in your life and relationships, dig into your sense of purpose, and reconnect with (or discover for the first time) feelings of stillness and joy.
(347) 754-3962 View (347) 754-3962
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Heather Herz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Short Hills, NJ 07078
Thank you for viewing my page and I hope I can help you on the path towards healing and personal growth. I strive to create a safe, genuine, and empathic space for clients to explore their inner experiences. I have expertise in working with issues of depression, anxiety, trauma/post-traumatic stress including complex trauma, relationship issues, reproductive health and infertility, life cycle changes including college transitions, new motherhood, and grief and loss. I have postgraduate certification in integrative trauma studies and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing).
Thank you for viewing my page and I hope I can help you on the path towards healing and personal growth. I strive to create a safe, genuine, and empathic space for clients to explore their inner experiences. I have expertise in working with issues of depression, anxiety, trauma/post-traumatic stress including complex trauma, relationship issues, reproductive health and infertility, life cycle changes including college transitions, new motherhood, and grief and loss. I have postgraduate certification in integrative trauma studies and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing).
(201) 351-2816 View (201) 351-2816
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Kamesha Walkins: Couples, Adults, LGBTQ+
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Bloomfield, NJ 07003
Do you want to connect better with a teen or partner, heal from anxiety, depression, or trauma, cope with grief, or change your relationship with alcohol or opiates? I am a queer therapist with more than 10 years of experience working with teens, couples, and adults. With clients of color, we can work to make sense of your experiences and process community trauma. I specialize in Gottman Method couples work, Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT), affirming and restorative therapy with the LGBTQ+ community, and adult recovery journeys. See if I'm accepting new clients and book online at www.resolutioncc.com/team
Do you want to connect better with a teen or partner, heal from anxiety, depression, or trauma, cope with grief, or change your relationship with alcohol or opiates? I am a queer therapist with more than 10 years of experience working with teens, couples, and adults. With clients of color, we can work to make sense of your experiences and process community trauma. I specialize in Gottman Method couples work, Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT), affirming and restorative therapy with the LGBTQ+ community, and adult recovery journeys. See if I'm accepting new clients and book online at www.resolutioncc.com/team
(973) 281-4846 View (973) 281-4846
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The Koch Center
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
The Koch Center (located in Montclair, Morristown, Waldwick, & Englewood) specializes in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Therapy and Programs for Adults, Adolescents, Children, and Families. Our DBT Programs offer an opportunity to receive extensive support and expert treatment in an outpatient setting. We treat the full range of psychological issues (including Mood Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Impulse Control disorders, Eating Disorders, Trauma, Relationship Problems, Personality Disorders). We have an outpatient Trauma Program for Adults. We also offer individual therapy from varying theoretical orientations.
The Koch Center (located in Montclair, Morristown, Waldwick, & Englewood) specializes in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Therapy and Programs for Adults, Adolescents, Children, and Families. Our DBT Programs offer an opportunity to receive extensive support and expert treatment in an outpatient setting. We treat the full range of psychological issues (including Mood Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Impulse Control disorders, Eating Disorders, Trauma, Relationship Problems, Personality Disorders). We have an outpatient Trauma Program for Adults. We also offer individual therapy from varying theoretical orientations.
(201) 439-8093 View (201) 439-8093
Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists

Why might an individual want to see a therapist specializing in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?

A client seeking help with an open or consensually non-monogamous relationship will prefer to talk with a professional whom they can count on to be nonjudgmental. Talking with a supportive therapist may on its own help relieve some of the stigma and challenges partners face. That said, the most important factor in the success of any type of therapy is the ability of the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond. For this reason, an individual or couple could find success with a therapist who does not specialize in non-monogamous relationships but with whom they can build trust.

When should open or consensually non-monogamous partners seek counseling?

Like other couples, polyamorous partners typically seek counseling when they face relationship challenges they can’t solve themselves. In non-monogamous relationships, this could include breaches of trust, including infidelity; unclear rules or violations of boundaries; jealousy of outside partners; the stress of juggling the needs of multiple partners; or the effect of high partner turnover on children. Like those of other couples, polyamorous bonds can be threatened by increasingly frequent arguments, poor or dysfunctional communication, diminished emotional or physical intimacy, or the feeling that something is wrong, even if they don’t know what it is.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?

No, but individuals seeking help with non-monogamous relationships would most likely consult a licensed professional with specific training in couples counseling or couples therapy. Couples counseling and couples therapy both involve teaching concrete strategies to navigate conflict in relationships. A good therapist can engage both partners as they explain these approaches but can also work with a single partner.

How long does therapy for consensually non-monogamous couples typically last?

Couples therapy for any type of couple, tends to be relatively time-limited, lasting around 12 weeks on average. A good therapist will tailor sessions to the individual partners’ emotions and sometimes their past, along with patterns found to be repeating in the relationship. In many cases, clients should expect their therapist to assign “homework” between weekly sessions.