Attachment-based Therapists in Fair Lawn, NJ

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Dodi L Lamm
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
I've always believed that the person who enters therapy is a brave soul. Coming to therapy means taking a leap of faith that the therapist will hear you and respond with empathy and connect in a way that makes the experience comforting in an environment of acceptance with purpose and growth. The impetus that compels someone to come to therapy may be depression, anxiety, relationship issues, or a general lack of fulfillment in life. You may want to be compassionate to your thriving inner critic. All are a genesis to a new beginning that we will work on together.
I've always believed that the person who enters therapy is a brave soul. Coming to therapy means taking a leap of faith that the therapist will hear you and respond with empathy and connect in a way that makes the experience comforting in an environment of acceptance with purpose and growth. The impetus that compels someone to come to therapy may be depression, anxiety, relationship issues, or a general lack of fulfillment in life. You may want to be compassionate to your thriving inner critic. All are a genesis to a new beginning that we will work on together.
(516) 543-3607 View (516) 543-3607
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Shelby Tortorello
Counselor, MS, LAC, MHC, NCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
Shelby Tortorello holds a BS in Psychology from Liberty University and a MS in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Monmouth University. She is a Licensed Associate Counselor (#37AC00631700) in New Jersey, and a Mental Health Counselor – Limited Permit (#113033-01) in New York. She is working under the supervision of Stephanie Lawrence, Licensed Professional Counselor in New Jersey (#37PC00623400) and Licensed Mental Health Counselor in New York (#007696).
Shelby Tortorello holds a BS in Psychology from Liberty University and a MS in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Monmouth University. She is a Licensed Associate Counselor (#37AC00631700) in New Jersey, and a Mental Health Counselor – Limited Permit (#113033-01) in New York. She is working under the supervision of Stephanie Lawrence, Licensed Professional Counselor in New Jersey (#37PC00623400) and Licensed Mental Health Counselor in New York (#007696).
(862) 292-2639 View (862) 292-2639
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Sarah Mandelbaum
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410  (Online Only)
Feeling overwhelmed or stuck? You’re not alone. If you're battling anxiety, depression, or that constant inner voice telling you that you're not enough, I'm here to help. I bring empathy and openness to our sessions, creating a space where you can feel safe and be yourself. My clients— from preteens to adults—often describe me as relatable and easy to talk to. Whether you're facing communication hurdles, navigating life transitions, or seeking neurodivergent-affirming support for ADHD and executive functioning, I can guide you through it. If you're ready for a change, let's take the first step together.
Feeling overwhelmed or stuck? You’re not alone. If you're battling anxiety, depression, or that constant inner voice telling you that you're not enough, I'm here to help. I bring empathy and openness to our sessions, creating a space where you can feel safe and be yourself. My clients— from preteens to adults—often describe me as relatable and easy to talk to. Whether you're facing communication hurdles, navigating life transitions, or seeking neurodivergent-affirming support for ADHD and executive functioning, I can guide you through it. If you're ready for a change, let's take the first step together.
(551) 230-6879 View (551) 230-6879
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Donna Hong
Counselor, MA, MHC, LAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
Donna is passionate about providing a safe, nonjudgmental space to help her clients process and progress through life's joys and challenges and find hope and meaning in their journeys. She works with adults, women, couples, and adolescents, and believes in a holistic approach toward healthier living.
Donna is passionate about providing a safe, nonjudgmental space to help her clients process and progress through life's joys and challenges and find hope and meaning in their journeys. She works with adults, women, couples, and adolescents, and believes in a holistic approach toward healthier living.
(862) 407-3664 x10 View (862) 407-3664 x10
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Jeremiah Garcia
MSW, CASAC-T
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410  (Online Only)
I am passionate about working with people dealing with a range of issues; including, anxiety, depression, stress management, relationship anxiety, depression, relationship problems, or the aftermath of trauma. Regardless of your specific struggles, I am here to offer assistance and commitment toward your personal growth. I have experience offering a safe, non-judgmental space where you can share your thoughts and feelings, as well as develop the practice strategies and tools to manage your symptoms, improve your relationships, and enhance your overall quality of life.
I am passionate about working with people dealing with a range of issues; including, anxiety, depression, stress management, relationship anxiety, depression, relationship problems, or the aftermath of trauma. Regardless of your specific struggles, I am here to offer assistance and commitment toward your personal growth. I have experience offering a safe, non-judgmental space where you can share your thoughts and feelings, as well as develop the practice strategies and tools to manage your symptoms, improve your relationships, and enhance your overall quality of life.
(914) 685-5903 View (914) 685-5903
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Michael Pagana
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CSAT, CCPS, BCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
I offer affordable & knowledgeable sexual addiction recovery care that is Biblically centered, and clinically sound. I'm a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) trained thru IITAP. I'm also a trained thru APSATS in the multidimensional Partner Trauma Model. I work as a Marriage & Family Therapist, and Board Certified Coach. I provide pastoral counseling if desired, and I have experience supporting a variety of faiths. I will utilize an individual's faith perspective to their desire or comfort. I help men and their partners, heal and grow, from unwanted sexual behaviors, infidelity & partner betrayal. Affair recovery is possible.
I offer affordable & knowledgeable sexual addiction recovery care that is Biblically centered, and clinically sound. I'm a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) trained thru IITAP. I'm also a trained thru APSATS in the multidimensional Partner Trauma Model. I work as a Marriage & Family Therapist, and Board Certified Coach. I provide pastoral counseling if desired, and I have experience supporting a variety of faiths. I will utilize an individual's faith perspective to their desire or comfort. I help men and their partners, heal and grow, from unwanted sexual behaviors, infidelity & partner betrayal. Affair recovery is possible.
(845) 867-2405 View (845) 867-2405
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New Hope Psychotherapy LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW, SIFI, CSAT-C
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410  (Online Only)
Hi, I'm Genesis Urena, founder of New Hope Psychotherapy. We are dedicated to working with clients seeking healing transformative experiences. We are committed to supporting individuals, families and couples struggling with relationship conflicts, generational trauma, work/life balance issues, depression, anxiety, and traumatic experiences. It’s hard to feel motivated when you’re feeling stuck at work, uncertain about your relationships, or trapped in the spirals of worry and lack of motivation. We are dedicated to helping you reach your goals with a relationship built on compassion and real-life tools.
Hi, I'm Genesis Urena, founder of New Hope Psychotherapy. We are dedicated to working with clients seeking healing transformative experiences. We are committed to supporting individuals, families and couples struggling with relationship conflicts, generational trauma, work/life balance issues, depression, anxiety, and traumatic experiences. It’s hard to feel motivated when you’re feeling stuck at work, uncertain about your relationships, or trapped in the spirals of worry and lack of motivation. We are dedicated to helping you reach your goals with a relationship built on compassion and real-life tools.
(929) 374-2370 View (929) 374-2370
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Michelle Chu
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410  (Online Only)
I'm a Licensed Psychologist in NY and NJ. As a therapist of color and child of immigrant parents, I deeply respect and honor the intersectionality of my client's identities. I understand the unique challenges and complexities that arise from multicultural experiences and am committed to providing a space where every aspect of who you are is valued and embraced. My approach is warm, compassionate, and rooted in evidence-based practices. Whether you are seeking clarity in your life, emotional healing, or simply a space to feel heard and supported, we will work together to find the tools and strategies that resonate with you.
I'm a Licensed Psychologist in NY and NJ. As a therapist of color and child of immigrant parents, I deeply respect and honor the intersectionality of my client's identities. I understand the unique challenges and complexities that arise from multicultural experiences and am committed to providing a space where every aspect of who you are is valued and embraced. My approach is warm, compassionate, and rooted in evidence-based practices. Whether you are seeking clarity in your life, emotional healing, or simply a space to feel heard and supported, we will work together to find the tools and strategies that resonate with you.
(646) 762-9028 View (646) 762-9028
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Ben LaMendola
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410  (Online Only)
Thank you for exploring my profile. It can be challenging to find the right therapist, or even to know if you need one. Therapy can help when you're feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, sadness, anger, or guilt. It can help if you are having trouble thinking clearly or quieting your mind. When important relationships feel confusing or frustrating, an outside perspective is often helpful. At it's core, therapy helps you know yourself. This clarity about why you act and feel the way you do can lead to growth, healing, and positive emotion. I work with both adolescents and adults facing a range of issues.
Thank you for exploring my profile. It can be challenging to find the right therapist, or even to know if you need one. Therapy can help when you're feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, sadness, anger, or guilt. It can help if you are having trouble thinking clearly or quieting your mind. When important relationships feel confusing or frustrating, an outside perspective is often helpful. At it's core, therapy helps you know yourself. This clarity about why you act and feel the way you do can lead to growth, healing, and positive emotion. I work with both adolescents and adults facing a range of issues.
(551) 363-4417 View (551) 363-4417
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Susie Wilson
Counselor, MA, LPC, LMHC, LCPC, CCPS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410  (Online Only)
You are not defined by your story! If you're feeling alone, unnoticed, or invisible, believing that there's something wrong with you, that you're not good enough - I want to provide a safe and supportive space where you can be truly seen and heard. My goal is to help you process the events, emotions, and family of origin issues that have brought you to this point, to develop insight, self-awareness, and a stronger sense of self. As a trauma-focused therapist, I offer virtual sessions for clients in NJ, NY, FL, and MD, and I am dedicated to helping my clients achieve freedom, healing, and self-compassion through our work together.
You are not defined by your story! If you're feeling alone, unnoticed, or invisible, believing that there's something wrong with you, that you're not good enough - I want to provide a safe and supportive space where you can be truly seen and heard. My goal is to help you process the events, emotions, and family of origin issues that have brought you to this point, to develop insight, self-awareness, and a stronger sense of self. As a trauma-focused therapist, I offer virtual sessions for clients in NJ, NY, FL, and MD, and I am dedicated to helping my clients achieve freedom, healing, and self-compassion through our work together.
(845) 237-5049 x10 View (845) 237-5049 x10
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Erica Dietsche
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
As a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), I take a cognitive and holistic approach to help people of all ages identify and work toward realistic, achievable solutions in all areas of their lives—including those related to anxiety, relationships, transitions, parenting, health, careers, school, and many other issues. My goal in a counseling journey is to help you understand yourself, and set and accomplish your goals.
As a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), I take a cognitive and holistic approach to help people of all ages identify and work toward realistic, achievable solutions in all areas of their lives—including those related to anxiety, relationships, transitions, parenting, health, careers, school, and many other issues. My goal in a counseling journey is to help you understand yourself, and set and accomplish your goals.
(862) 212-0482 View (862) 212-0482
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Lana Grintsvayg
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
I am a compassionate, experienced (more then 20 years of practice), positive therapist. I will help and support you while you are dealing with problems, burdens, or fears that come your way. I work with children and adults, who experience difficulties coping with challenges of daily living, adjusting to situation change or struggling with relationship problems. My approach has a collaborative, integrative perspective, deeply rooted in humanistic and person-centered values.
I am a compassionate, experienced (more then 20 years of practice), positive therapist. I will help and support you while you are dealing with problems, burdens, or fears that come your way. I work with children and adults, who experience difficulties coping with challenges of daily living, adjusting to situation change or struggling with relationship problems. My approach has a collaborative, integrative perspective, deeply rooted in humanistic and person-centered values.
(201) 345-1309 View (201) 345-1309
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Tracy Hans
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, ACS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
I bring both understanding and caring to the therapeutic relationship. I’ve been a therapist and supervisor for over 25 years and have specialties in working with people who struggle with depression, learning differences and attentional difficulties that result in performance anxiety. I help with ADD self-management. I am also a Lyme Literate counselor and as such work with folks with chronic complex illness. In the work that I do, I have found it key to highlight and appreciate differences in perception so we can explore how they might lead to communication barriers. Celebrating diversity and uniqueness is important to healing.
I bring both understanding and caring to the therapeutic relationship. I’ve been a therapist and supervisor for over 25 years and have specialties in working with people who struggle with depression, learning differences and attentional difficulties that result in performance anxiety. I help with ADD self-management. I am also a Lyme Literate counselor and as such work with folks with chronic complex illness. In the work that I do, I have found it key to highlight and appreciate differences in perception so we can explore how they might lead to communication barriers. Celebrating diversity and uniqueness is important to healing.
(551) 497-4982 View (551) 497-4982
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Paula Metzger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
I bring 22 years of clinical practice with adults, children, couples and families along with 17 years of pastoral counseling experience. My clinical and pastoral background gives me the opportunity to provide a gentle calming presence and a compassionate understanding to my work with individuals and families who struggle with managing life challenges related to anxiety, depression and resolving conflict. I also provide life coaching to help individuals navigate life transitions due to separation, divorce, loss and grief.
I bring 22 years of clinical practice with adults, children, couples and families along with 17 years of pastoral counseling experience. My clinical and pastoral background gives me the opportunity to provide a gentle calming presence and a compassionate understanding to my work with individuals and families who struggle with managing life challenges related to anxiety, depression and resolving conflict. I also provide life coaching to help individuals navigate life transitions due to separation, divorce, loss and grief.
(201) 389-5839 View (201) 389-5839
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Deborah R Wagner
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
In understanding that individuals in pain or having a particular challenge in life may make only one attempt at reaching out for help, I strive to welcome and set at ease every one who contacts me. Most therapy patients are ordinary people that have hit a bump in the road of life and cannot get past it on their own. My commitment, through goal directed therapy, is to help those people return to their optimal level of coping with the sometimes mild, sometimes severe challenges that life brings their way and guide them back to a sense of well being.
In understanding that individuals in pain or having a particular challenge in life may make only one attempt at reaching out for help, I strive to welcome and set at ease every one who contacts me. Most therapy patients are ordinary people that have hit a bump in the road of life and cannot get past it on their own. My commitment, through goal directed therapy, is to help those people return to their optimal level of coping with the sometimes mild, sometimes severe challenges that life brings their way and guide them back to a sense of well being.
(201) 875-3109 View (201) 875-3109
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Holistic Naturopathic Healing & Energy Psychology
PhD, ND
Verified Verified
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
Do You Want Improvement In Your Emotional/Mental Issues and Change Habits in 1 to 3 Sessions? .. Want To Move Forward From The Past Quickly and Easily? .. Find out how, in just 1 to 3 sessions, you could be much better, healhier, happier and accomplishing your goals, thanks to Dr. Robert's Energy Psychology & Mindy/Body Therapies. Dr. Robert has already helped hundreds of people accomplish what they desire and can help you in a short amount of time! .... It doesn't matter if you have trauma, PTSD, anxiety, want to lose weight, stop smoking, etc, I can Help You!
Do You Want Improvement In Your Emotional/Mental Issues and Change Habits in 1 to 3 Sessions? .. Want To Move Forward From The Past Quickly and Easily? .. Find out how, in just 1 to 3 sessions, you could be much better, healhier, happier and accomplishing your goals, thanks to Dr. Robert's Energy Psychology & Mindy/Body Therapies. Dr. Robert has already helped hundreds of people accomplish what they desire and can help you in a short amount of time! .... It doesn't matter if you have trauma, PTSD, anxiety, want to lose weight, stop smoking, etc, I can Help You!
(201) 257-5689 View (201) 257-5689
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Jacqueline Gill Pucci
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
I have been a mental health treatment provider for over 20 years working with clients affected by various issues including anxiety, depression and trauma.
I have been a mental health treatment provider for over 20 years working with clients affected by various issues including anxiety, depression and trauma.
(201) 884-1188 View (201) 884-1188
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Todd J. Eckert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
An essential component of therapeutic success is forming a safe and trusting therapeutic relationship. I engage with my clients through active listening, conversations, and with a sense of humor, providing a comfortable and collaborative space for them to work towards implementing change. In order to assist my clients in meeting their goals, I am both compassionate and straightforward in order to provide encouragement, support and direction.
An essential component of therapeutic success is forming a safe and trusting therapeutic relationship. I engage with my clients through active listening, conversations, and with a sense of humor, providing a comfortable and collaborative space for them to work towards implementing change. In order to assist my clients in meeting their goals, I am both compassionate and straightforward in order to provide encouragement, support and direction.
(201) 298-0371 View (201) 298-0371
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Associates for Counseling & Therapy, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCADC, MAC, ACS, NCC
Verified Verified
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
We understand that addiction, trauma, and mental health challenges can be very difficult and can leave you feeling alone and hopeless. We're here to support you in any way we can. Our mission is to provide compassionate care and evidence-based treatment to help you overcome your struggles and live a fulfilling life. We offer one-on-one and group therapy, education about addiction, and personalized support to help you stay committed to your recovery journey. Our goal is to help you find hope, healing, and empowerment through effective treatment. Remember, you're not alone. We're here to help you every step of the way toward recovery
We understand that addiction, trauma, and mental health challenges can be very difficult and can leave you feeling alone and hopeless. We're here to support you in any way we can. Our mission is to provide compassionate care and evidence-based treatment to help you overcome your struggles and live a fulfilling life. We offer one-on-one and group therapy, education about addiction, and personalized support to help you stay committed to your recovery journey. Our goal is to help you find hope, healing, and empowerment through effective treatment. Remember, you're not alone. We're here to help you every step of the way toward recovery
(201) 254-3668 View (201) 254-3668
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Mia S. Howard, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MS Ed, MA, CAGCS, CCTP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Fair Lawn, NJ 07410
Hello, thank you for reaching out for emotional support and health. I have over 20 years of experience in mental health, 3 masters degrees, 6 years of psychoanalytic training, and 3 specialized certifications. I provide compassionate and grounded care to people of all ages and backgrounds. My extensive training and life experiences enable me to treat many different mental health challenges. I listen carefully to you, and offer my informed guidance to help you to grow at your own pace. I can empower you to heal and progress in your life, and in your self.
Hello, thank you for reaching out for emotional support and health. I have over 20 years of experience in mental health, 3 masters degrees, 6 years of psychoanalytic training, and 3 specialized certifications. I provide compassionate and grounded care to people of all ages and backgrounds. My extensive training and life experiences enable me to treat many different mental health challenges. I listen carefully to you, and offer my informed guidance to help you to grow at your own pace. I can empower you to heal and progress in your life, and in your self.
(201) 584-6690 View (201) 584-6690
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Attachment-based Therapists

Is attachment-based therapy the same as attachment therapy?

Attachment-based therapy may be confused with what is called “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy”), a discredited and dangerous approach to treating children with attachment disorders, autism, or other mental health concerns. Attachment therapy—not attachment-based therapy—may involve restraining a child, forcing eye contact, and other coercive or abusive techniques. None of these practices are used in attachment-based therapy and the two modalities are in no way related.

What should I expect from attachment-based therapy?

Attachment-based therapy is based on attachment theory, which posits that children’s early relationships with their caregivers strongly influence their ability to navigate the world later in life. Thus, adults who seek attachment-based therapy should expect to deeply explore their childhood, identifying the dynamics or experiences that disrupted their attachment and the steps necessary to overcome challenges that arose as a result. Parents and children should expect to explore the possible factors that disrupted the parent-child relationship and work toward restoring trust and connection.

How long does attachment-based therapy last?

Certain forms of attachment-based therapy, especially those designed for parents and children, last for a set number of sessions; for example, Attachment and Biobehavioral Catch-Up, a specific attachment-based approach for young children who have undergone early adversity, unfolds over 10 one-hour sessions. When attachment-based therapy is practiced on adults or combined with other modalities, it may not last a specific length of time; clients may wish to ask prospective therapists how long they expect treatment to take.

Does attachment-based therapy work?

Most of the research on attachment-based therapy focuses on children and adolescents. Some of this research shows a positive effect, especially for attachment-based family therapy (ABFT). Other studies, however, have found that attachment-based therapy is no more effective than other approaches to childhood depression, anxiety, or suicidality. Less is known about the therapy’s efficacy on adult populations.