Emotionally Focused Therapists in Colts Neck, NJ

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Sersaray S. Basarir Arslan
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
Among other modalities such as Structural and CBT, I use Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT) as my base, especially with couples that helps create stronger bonds between partners.
If we do not know who we really are, we often can find ourselves confused and lost, which can lead to depression and anxiety, which can then mislead our consciousness. Two most important keys to resolving our problems are “self-discovery” and “self-love”. Only then we may start understanding the people around us and the world we live in. I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I counsel individuals, couples, and families in dealing with depression, anxiety, relationship issues and/or life transitions such as pre-marriage, marriage, becoming a new parent, divorce, and post-divorce.
Among other modalities such as Structural and CBT, I use Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT) as my base, especially with couples that helps create stronger bonds between partners.
If we do not know who we really are, we often can find ourselves confused and lost, which can lead to depression and anxiety, which can then mislead our consciousness. Two most important keys to resolving our problems are “self-discovery” and “self-love”. Only then we may start understanding the people around us and the world we live in. I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I counsel individuals, couples, and families in dealing with depression, anxiety, relationship issues and/or life transitions such as pre-marriage, marriage, becoming a new parent, divorce, and post-divorce.
(908) 263-1187 View (908) 263-1187
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Karen Carbone
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
One of the hardest steps in the therapeutic process is this right here.. reaching out for help, for change. My role as a psychotherapist is to collectively work together to establish and meet personal goals in a safe, supportive environment that fosters healing and growth. I aim to provide clients the opportunity to explore and express their feelings to make life long changes that they ultimately feel good about. It is never too late to make a change or to begin the healing process.
One of the hardest steps in the therapeutic process is this right here.. reaching out for help, for change. My role as a psychotherapist is to collectively work together to establish and meet personal goals in a safe, supportive environment that fosters healing and growth. I aim to provide clients the opportunity to explore and express their feelings to make life long changes that they ultimately feel good about. It is never too late to make a change or to begin the healing process.
(732) 227-4196 View (732) 227-4196
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Marsha Ellias-Frankel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
I have worked with individuals, couples and groups for the past 30+ years. My interest is in being a catalyst for change - helping people find and lead more fulfilling lives - has not wavered but rather, increased. It has, and continues to be an exciting privelege for me to be invited into my clients' lives with the common goal of facilitating new personal insights and enhancing relationships both at "home" and in clients' broader social communities.
I have worked with individuals, couples and groups for the past 30+ years. My interest is in being a catalyst for change - helping people find and lead more fulfilling lives - has not wavered but rather, increased. It has, and continues to be an exciting privelege for me to be invited into my clients' lives with the common goal of facilitating new personal insights and enhancing relationships both at "home" and in clients' broader social communities.
(732) 531-5777 View (732) 531-5777
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Elena Kochanek
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
I make sure you feel supported, remembered and important. Through an eclectic approach, I help you to see yourself as you are and as who you want to be. I provide teens and adults a safe space and tools to explore their emotions, experiences and identities and improve relationships; I support parents in doing the same with their children.
I make sure you feel supported, remembered and important. Through an eclectic approach, I help you to see yourself as you are and as who you want to be. I provide teens and adults a safe space and tools to explore their emotions, experiences and identities and improve relationships; I support parents in doing the same with their children.
(732) 538-8596 View (732) 538-8596
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Platinum Counseling LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LCADC
Verified Verified
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
Reaching out for help can be difficult. Often times, we tend to neglect the need for our own self-care as we tackle the challenges of daily life and take care of the ones we love. Platinum Counseling offers a comfortable and casual environment where you can feel safe and supported. We encourage you to discuss your vulnerabilities, without judgement, with professionals who want to hear about your experiences. We can provide you with therapeutic strategies and education to understand and tackle your challenges while increasing your motivation to fulfill your own personal goals. We encourage you to contact us.
Reaching out for help can be difficult. Often times, we tend to neglect the need for our own self-care as we tackle the challenges of daily life and take care of the ones we love. Platinum Counseling offers a comfortable and casual environment where you can feel safe and supported. We encourage you to discuss your vulnerabilities, without judgement, with professionals who want to hear about your experiences. We can provide you with therapeutic strategies and education to understand and tackle your challenges while increasing your motivation to fulfill your own personal goals. We encourage you to contact us.
(732) 355-8273 View (732) 355-8273
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Stefanie Mastbeth Trento
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC, ACS, CYT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
I am passionate about helping individuals identify and implement coping strategies to assist in handling stressors and challenges they may face in their day-to-day life. I am dedicated to helping individuals achieve a sense of peace and serenity in today’s hectic world and help navigate through life's transitions. I utilize my knowledge of yoga to teach relaxation poses and mindfulness to my clients. Additionally, I have been trained to utilize yoga to help increase attention, manage sensory input, manage anxiety, and increase focus.
I am passionate about helping individuals identify and implement coping strategies to assist in handling stressors and challenges they may face in their day-to-day life. I am dedicated to helping individuals achieve a sense of peace and serenity in today’s hectic world and help navigate through life's transitions. I utilize my knowledge of yoga to teach relaxation poses and mindfulness to my clients. Additionally, I have been trained to utilize yoga to help increase attention, manage sensory input, manage anxiety, and increase focus.
(848) 216-0858 View (848) 216-0858
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Jess Cronin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
Welcome to my page. I first want to congratulate you on the initial step to achieving your goals! Taking this step can feel scary and uncomfortable, but I am here to help you work through this part of the process and beyond. I work collaboratively with my clients to address the root causes of their distress and to develop effective coping strategies. Whether you’re dealing with childhood abuse, a traumatic event, or ongoing stress, I’m here to help you navigate the journey toward healing and empowerment. Together, we can unlock the resilience within you and create a path toward a brighter future.
Welcome to my page. I first want to congratulate you on the initial step to achieving your goals! Taking this step can feel scary and uncomfortable, but I am here to help you work through this part of the process and beyond. I work collaboratively with my clients to address the root causes of their distress and to develop effective coping strategies. Whether you’re dealing with childhood abuse, a traumatic event, or ongoing stress, I’m here to help you navigate the journey toward healing and empowerment. Together, we can unlock the resilience within you and create a path toward a brighter future.
(732) 654-0975 View (732) 654-0975
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Jennifer Ashley Flatley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
Specializing in overcoming trauma and managing anxiety, depression, and automatic responses! If you are going through a painful experience or dealing with difficult life issues, therapy works! Relief is possible. Changing your life is possible! The relationship you build with yourself can set the tone for everything around you. Things can seem hopeless, and perhaps you feel that the closest people in your life don't understand. Maybe you've suffered a loss, and it’s taking a toll. Maybe things have been rough for a long time now. Maybe there’s a pattern you’re trying to break. I can help!
Specializing in overcoming trauma and managing anxiety, depression, and automatic responses! If you are going through a painful experience or dealing with difficult life issues, therapy works! Relief is possible. Changing your life is possible! The relationship you build with yourself can set the tone for everything around you. Things can seem hopeless, and perhaps you feel that the closest people in your life don't understand. Maybe you've suffered a loss, and it’s taking a toll. Maybe things have been rough for a long time now. Maybe there’s a pattern you’re trying to break. I can help!
(848) 248-4392 View (848) 248-4392
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Larissa Borchard (Guided Path Counseling)
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCADC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
Something may be weighing heavy on your heart or your mind; or maybe you're just feeling stuck at the crossroads of life. Whatever it is, wherever you "are," I will meet you there. Let's take this journey together. With over 10 years of experience working in the mental health and addictions field, I've had the opportunity of guiding individuals, couples, and families on a path to optimal wellness. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Licensed Clinical Alcohol and Drug Counselor specializing in depression, anxiety, anger management, trauma, LGBQT, and the emotional, physical, and familial distress caused by addiction.
Something may be weighing heavy on your heart or your mind; or maybe you're just feeling stuck at the crossroads of life. Whatever it is, wherever you "are," I will meet you there. Let's take this journey together. With over 10 years of experience working in the mental health and addictions field, I've had the opportunity of guiding individuals, couples, and families on a path to optimal wellness. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Licensed Clinical Alcohol and Drug Counselor specializing in depression, anxiety, anger management, trauma, LGBQT, and the emotional, physical, and familial distress caused by addiction.
(732) 561-1846 View (732) 561-1846
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Lisa F. Ligammari Lcsw
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
Lisa F. Ligammari, LCSW, Counseling Services & Associates is a group practice which includes 7 therapists. We work with a diversity of clients and enjoy both play therapy for little ones and talk therapy for adolescents and adults. We can tailor interventions and techniques to help assist you with your goals. With over 20 years of experience and certified in psychodynamic analysis and a certified clinical supervisor, my goal is to offer everyone the best care with the right therapist for you! We all have our specialties and our modalities of treatment techniques! Feel free to call or email for your first appointment!
Lisa F. Ligammari, LCSW, Counseling Services & Associates is a group practice which includes 7 therapists. We work with a diversity of clients and enjoy both play therapy for little ones and talk therapy for adolescents and adults. We can tailor interventions and techniques to help assist you with your goals. With over 20 years of experience and certified in psychodynamic analysis and a certified clinical supervisor, my goal is to offer everyone the best care with the right therapist for you! We all have our specialties and our modalities of treatment techniques! Feel free to call or email for your first appointment!
(732) 372-4318 View (732) 372-4318
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Jennifer Flatley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CSSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
Specializing in overcoming trauma and managing anxiety, depression, and automatic responses! If you are going through a painful experience or dealing with difficult life issues, therapy works! Relief is possible. Changing your life is possible! The relationship you build with yourself can set the tone for everything around you. Things can feel hopeless, and perhaps you feel that the closest people in your life don't understand. Maybe you've suffered a loss, and it’s taking a toll. Maybe things have been rough for a long time now. Maybe there’s a pattern you’re trying to break. I can help!
Specializing in overcoming trauma and managing anxiety, depression, and automatic responses! If you are going through a painful experience or dealing with difficult life issues, therapy works! Relief is possible. Changing your life is possible! The relationship you build with yourself can set the tone for everything around you. Things can feel hopeless, and perhaps you feel that the closest people in your life don't understand. Maybe you've suffered a loss, and it’s taking a toll. Maybe things have been rough for a long time now. Maybe there’s a pattern you’re trying to break. I can help!
(732) 649-8787 View (732) 649-8787
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Samantha Campanella
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, OSW-C
Verified Verified
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
You are not alone! If you are searching for help managing feelings of anxiety, depression, or if you have been through trauma or even managing chronic illness, help is available! Together, we can get through it and reach your goals! Many changes come with the onset of these issues, and it can be debilitating to a person's lifestyle, self-esteem, relationships, and mental health. Together, we can process these changes, address fears, and collaborate to work as a team. I am certified in working with mood disorders as well as adjustment and chronic illness. I'm happy to help, and excited to help bring healing to your life!
You are not alone! If you are searching for help managing feelings of anxiety, depression, or if you have been through trauma or even managing chronic illness, help is available! Together, we can get through it and reach your goals! Many changes come with the onset of these issues, and it can be debilitating to a person's lifestyle, self-esteem, relationships, and mental health. Together, we can process these changes, address fears, and collaborate to work as a team. I am certified in working with mood disorders as well as adjustment and chronic illness. I'm happy to help, and excited to help bring healing to your life!
(732) 978-9520 View (732) 978-9520
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Carolyn D'Amico
Licensed Professional Counselor
Verified Verified
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
Hello there! My name is Carolyn, and my life's work is helping my clients work through difficult issues, manage symptoms of mental illness, and reach all of their goals. For over 20 years, I have helped clients achieve learn techniques to manage anxiety and depression, achieve balance and improve function in all areas of life. I particularly like working with individuals who are experiencing conflict in the family or relationship realm, and I have worked with any and all issues one could think of in these areas. My interventions are practical, realistic, and you are the most important team member in your treatment!
Hello there! My name is Carolyn, and my life's work is helping my clients work through difficult issues, manage symptoms of mental illness, and reach all of their goals. For over 20 years, I have helped clients achieve learn techniques to manage anxiety and depression, achieve balance and improve function in all areas of life. I particularly like working with individuals who are experiencing conflict in the family or relationship realm, and I have worked with any and all issues one could think of in these areas. My interventions are practical, realistic, and you are the most important team member in your treatment!
(732) 624-6270 View (732) 624-6270
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James Fennessy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, MSW, JD, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
I have a background which includes many years of Post-Graduate education, knowledge and experience providing mental health care to those who need help dealing with a wide range of mental health issues or concerns. Whether you desire improved and better quality relationships, need help with feelings, with issues of daily life, or with reaching your goals, I can help you gain emotional health - the ability to love, work and play as you wish.
I have a background which includes many years of Post-Graduate education, knowledge and experience providing mental health care to those who need help dealing with a wide range of mental health issues or concerns. Whether you desire improved and better quality relationships, need help with feelings, with issues of daily life, or with reaching your goals, I can help you gain emotional health - the ability to love, work and play as you wish.
(732) 733-4938 View (732) 733-4938
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Comprehensive Counseling Center
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
At Comprehensive Counseling Center, our team of experienced and compassionate psychotherapists is dedicated to helping individuals thrive in a supportive, confidential environment. We are committed to making a positive impact on the emotional well-being of our community. Whether you're an individual, couple, or family, we welcome you to embark on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and personal growth. Our highly skilled therapists provide personalized care, offering guidance and support tailored to your unique needs. With us, you'll receive a treatment plan designed to empower you and help you achieve your goals.
At Comprehensive Counseling Center, our team of experienced and compassionate psychotherapists is dedicated to helping individuals thrive in a supportive, confidential environment. We are committed to making a positive impact on the emotional well-being of our community. Whether you're an individual, couple, or family, we welcome you to embark on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and personal growth. Our highly skilled therapists provide personalized care, offering guidance and support tailored to your unique needs. With us, you'll receive a treatment plan designed to empower you and help you achieve your goals.
(732) 412-6393 View (732) 412-6393
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Dr. Margo Rappaport
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
I have over 25 years experience helping people cope with difficult life transitions and heal from loss, weight and self-image issues, anxiety, depression, chronic pain and sexual dysfunctions. I use an integrative functional approach by looking into a root cause of the problem and relate in a non-judgmental way. Together, I'll work with you to build coping strategies, strength and courage to move forward to in the presence of loss, pain and change. Whatever your circumstances, if you're struggling to cope and manage painful feelings, I'd like to help you find your way.
I have over 25 years experience helping people cope with difficult life transitions and heal from loss, weight and self-image issues, anxiety, depression, chronic pain and sexual dysfunctions. I use an integrative functional approach by looking into a root cause of the problem and relate in a non-judgmental way. Together, I'll work with you to build coping strategies, strength and courage to move forward to in the presence of loss, pain and change. Whatever your circumstances, if you're struggling to cope and manage painful feelings, I'd like to help you find your way.
(732) 658-4491 View (732) 658-4491
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Matthew Berman
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, ACS
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
When you think about a better future for yourself, what do you envision? Are you feeling less stressed? Are you more confident? Is your relationship thriving? Are you getting more time to do the things you love? Therapy is a journey to find a path towards those goals. Therapy is an individualized process. Sometimes, we aren’t always aware of the thoughts, beliefs, and situations that prevent us from feeling better or getting our needs met. Other times, we are aware of these things but unsure on how to limit how much they impact us and how we can manage them.
When you think about a better future for yourself, what do you envision? Are you feeling less stressed? Are you more confident? Is your relationship thriving? Are you getting more time to do the things you love? Therapy is a journey to find a path towards those goals. Therapy is an individualized process. Sometimes, we aren’t always aware of the thoughts, beliefs, and situations that prevent us from feeling better or getting our needs met. Other times, we are aware of these things but unsure on how to limit how much they impact us and how we can manage them.
(848) 276-7662 View (848) 276-7662
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Frank Thewes
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
Colts Neck, NJ 07722  (Online Only)
Are you experiencing anxiety, depression, life transitions, relationship issues, or feeling held back by past experiences? Do you feel like something is missing in your life or that you need to make important connections or breakthroughs to live your life more fully? Do you feel stuck in the past, afraid to live your life, or lack of motivation? Do you feel like low self esteem or insecurity are holding you back? Are there unresolved issues in your relationships with your parents or your partner? We can focus on what you need to break the patterns and move forward. Featured in Newsweek, HuffPost, FOX News, and Men’s Health.
Are you experiencing anxiety, depression, life transitions, relationship issues, or feeling held back by past experiences? Do you feel like something is missing in your life or that you need to make important connections or breakthroughs to live your life more fully? Do you feel stuck in the past, afraid to live your life, or lack of motivation? Do you feel like low self esteem or insecurity are holding you back? Are there unresolved issues in your relationships with your parents or your partner? We can focus on what you need to break the patterns and move forward. Featured in Newsweek, HuffPost, FOX News, and Men’s Health.
(848) 420-9806 View (848) 420-9806
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Elissa Arbeitman
Art Therapist, MA, ATR-BC, LPAT, LCAT, ATCS
Verified Verified
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
I am passionate about working with women who are navigating a major life transition but are finding themselves exhausted by their inner critic, judging themselves to the point of being stuck and shut down from their creative expression. I value your internal sense of self as a significant resource to help alleviate your symptoms. Many women I see are looking for an alternative to traditional talk therapy. My comprehensive training in psychotherapy and art therapy brings a unique element to my sessions in which we access and utilize your creativity to help problem solve and gain a fresh, new perspective.
I am passionate about working with women who are navigating a major life transition but are finding themselves exhausted by their inner critic, judging themselves to the point of being stuck and shut down from their creative expression. I value your internal sense of self as a significant resource to help alleviate your symptoms. Many women I see are looking for an alternative to traditional talk therapy. My comprehensive training in psychotherapy and art therapy brings a unique element to my sessions in which we access and utilize your creativity to help problem solve and gain a fresh, new perspective.
(908) 402-0166 View (908) 402-0166
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Angelique Zaks
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW, LCADC
Verified Verified
Colts Neck, NJ 07722  (Online Only)
I truly believe anyone can benefit from therapy at any time of their lives – whether that is processing important emotions and experiences, working through change, or learning new skills that may assist you in your journey towards self-improvement. My approach involves incorporating an individualized, goal-oriented approach in helping you achieve growth, while also providing a space conducive to safe, non-judgmental exploration of self, learning, and connection. I am incredibly passionate that change is possible, even if at times it feels impossible. Together, lets embark on a journey of healing, empathy, and growth.
I truly believe anyone can benefit from therapy at any time of their lives – whether that is processing important emotions and experiences, working through change, or learning new skills that may assist you in your journey towards self-improvement. My approach involves incorporating an individualized, goal-oriented approach in helping you achieve growth, while also providing a space conducive to safe, non-judgmental exploration of self, learning, and connection. I am incredibly passionate that change is possible, even if at times it feels impossible. Together, lets embark on a journey of healing, empathy, and growth.
(732) 724-1161 View (732) 724-1161
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Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.