Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in Caldwell, NJ

Starting therapy can feel daunting, and my goal is to provide a safe and comfortable space in which to begin the process. My clients tend to be introspective people with loud inner critics who seek relief from anxiety, shame and relational trauma. Many are helpers and artists who place great value on how they show up in the world but struggle internally with low self-esteem, maintaining boundaries and making decisions. Using a collaborative, curious and nonjudgmental approach, I assist my clients in clarifying their values and goals, resolving ambivalence and building deeper connections.

Are you a woman who grew up in a challenging or even unsafe family environment? Do you struggle with self-judgement, self-doubt, or self-sabotage? Do you find yourself confused in personal/professional relationships? If so, you may believe your difficulties are your own fault, and that if only you could be better or stronger, things would be easier. In truth, you may be dealing with unhealed trauma. Unsteady attachment to one or both parents can be the unrecognized source of a lot of adult suffering, Understanding its impact and learning to care for yourself instead of judging yourself is the path to freedom.

My practice is centered on helping my clients achieve an improved quality of life. If you are seeking therapy because something in your life has become seemingly unmanageable, we will develop the necessary communication and coping skills to address the issue. I specialize in relationships, marital issues, female/male sexual functioning, parenting issues, maternal and paternal health, trauma, and addiction issues. Psychotherapy with me can provide a safe, honest space to explore anxieties and fears while focusing on behavioral patterns, creating self awareness and applying mindfulness to facilitate growth and promote resiliency.

Consider the messages you learned from your family growing up, and how those life lessons found their way into the way you view the world. How do they inform the way you see yourself? What is their impact on how you connect to others in relationships? In our work together we uncover deeply held beliefs about others and the world that may be causing us to repeat unhelpful patterns of behavior. Repeating these patterns can cause us to feel a myriad of negative feelings- confusion, frustration and loneliness. I aim to create a warm, empathic and caring relationship that allows you to feel heard and understood.

Specializing with adults, Men/women teens and athletes. Many people have mental health, substance use, learning disorders, anger, grief and stress related characteristics that continually get us sidetracked. These patterns/habits/choices require adjustments and re-setting our goals to achieve a healthy and happy lifestyle. I have worked in many different modalities 40 +yrs. outpatient, hospitals, schools and drug alcohol rehabilitation with adults and teens. Working with individuals, families and couples. Using mindfulness/ mind/body techniques, has created a total awareness and balance in my practice. Limited days and hours

As a licensed clinical social worker, I strive to create a comfortable and safe environment for you.  A space that is judgement free and where you have the ability to truly express yourself.
 Since opening my practice in 2018, my therapeutic services have helped people get through stressful times through challenging negative thoughts and understanding the source of specific behaviors and emotional patterns. With the right tools and a better approach to situations, I will help encourage a better outlook on any issues that life brings your way.

I have found that providing a warm and nurturing environment has helped my clients explore areas of their lives that they were previously unwilling to look at. The therapeutic relationship that develops between us, can lead to both introspection and healing. I am a licensed psychologist specializing predominantly in the well being of women across a range of issues including eating disorders, relationship struggles, infertility, anxiety, and post-partum depression. I am also interested in helping people through life transitions, such as entering a new relationship or becoming single again, beginning college, entering the "real world", and becoming a mother.

Are you experiencing sadness, anxiety, in a challenging relationship, facing a transitions or just feeling overwhelmed with life? Then therapy at Roseland Psychotherapy Associates can help you feel and get better. We can match your needs with a therapist who specializes in your area of concern. We understand that the therapist-client relationship is important in the process of change and growth. Starting therapy is not easy and feeling at ease is essential. All of the therapists in our group are interactive and will utilize different approaches depending on your specific needs and goals.

Change, stress, transition, relationship struggles, self-doubt, fear, anger, loneliness, loss...these are some of the issues I help my clients to navigate successfully. Maybe there is a problem you've tried to resolve on your own and you've reached an impasse. Or you have a teen whose behavior is worrisome, and you're not sure whether it's "just adolescence" or something of greater concern. With over 20 years of experience, dedication and compassion, I will work with you to uncover obstacles and find solutions.

Hana N. Shiloach, MA, LPC, is a licensed professional Counselor by the State Board of Marriage and Family Therapy Examiners of the State of New Jersey. I hold a Master degree in Clinical Counseling from Fairleigh Dickinson University, and a Master in MPA from Harvard University. For th last 20 years, working both in hospital and private settings, I have been providing clients with safe, caring, supportive and a non-judgmental environment. I worked with a variety of clientele, including, individuals, couples, families and groups, from a diverse cultural, ethnic, faith, and sexual orientation backgrounds.

I view counseling as an opportunity to come alongside my clients and partner with them as they journey toward discovering a life of meaning and purpose. Through empathy, humor, and warmth, I aim to create and hold a safe space for my clients to begin the journey inward. My biggest joy is walking alongside my clients as they begin to realize their strength and resilience to find solutions to the issues they are facing.