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Nicole L Thomte
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, She, Her (they, them)
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
3 Endorsed
Rochester, MN 55904
Let's Connect (507) 260-3990
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My focus in my practice is to serve those individuals, couples, and families who live outside the confines of dominant society's expectations. I offer affirmative therapy for LGBTQIA+/kink/CNM/polyam/etc persons, using a largely solution-focused approach from an intersectional feminist lens. I know that these populations are underserved in current society, and my goal is for you to have the inclusive support you deserve to improve your life the way you want. I am also interested in sex-positive therapy and sex therapy, while still recognizing the validity of asexuality in its own spectrum.
My therapeutic style is non-directive, exploratory, accepting, and acknowledging the humor that often leavens the stress of life. You're the expert in your life, and I'm here to provide support and an outside perspective to help find patterns and connections that may not be visible to you in the midst of your troubles.
What you bring to the session is what interests me, rather than relying on labeling and constraints of diagnoses. I am a compassionate, driven, tireless advocate for those who are forced into the margins of society. See: https://www.betterhelp.com/nicole-thomte/#testimonials https://www.inclusivetherapists.com/united-states/rochester/therapy/nicole-thomte
Take the first step to help. Call or Email Nicole L Thomte now - (507) 260-3990
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $150
- Pay by ACH Bank transfer, American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa
Insurance
- Aetna
- HealthPartners of MN and WI
- Medica
- Medicaid
- Medicare
- Optum
- UCare
- United Medical Resources (UMR)
- UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
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Nicole L Thomte
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, She, Her
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Minnesota / 3853 Nicole L Thomte
- In Practice for 13 Years
- License: Iowa Board of Behavioral Science Marital and Family Therapist 126567 / 2024
- Certificate from Minnesota Board of Marriage and Family Therapy 3853 / 2019
- Attended UNLV, Graduated 2012
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Transgender
- Bisexual
- Women's Issues
Expertise
- ADHD
- Anxiety
- Bipolar Disorder
- Body Positivity
- Career Counseling
- Chronic Illness
- Chronic Pain
- Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM)
- Coping Skills
- Depression
- Domestic Violence
- Family Conflict
- Grief
- Kink
- Lesbian
- LGBTQ+
- Life Coaching
- Life Transitions
- Marital and Premarital
- Mood Disorders
- Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
- Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
- Peer Relationships
- Relationship Issues
- Self Esteem
- Sex Therapy
- Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
- Sexual Abuse
- Stress
- Suicidal Ideation
- Trauma and PTSD
3 Endorsements
Client Focus
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Religion
Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Religion
Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Coaching
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Compassion Focused
- Culturally Sensitive
- Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
- EMDR
- Feminist
- Motivational Interviewing
- Multicultural
- Positive Psychology
- Strength-Based
Location
Nearby Areas
Take the first step to help. Call now - (507) 260-3990
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Nicole L Thomte
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, She, Her