Relationship Issues Therapists in Nashua, NH
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Whether you are starting over or starting out, feeling overwhelmed can stop you from moving forward. Relationship issues causing you anxiety or depression? Sometimes you just need someone to talk to that can be objective. In todays world, stress has become the norm at the expense of our peace and contentment. It does not have to be that way. Let me help you get to a better place where you can enjoy a fulfilling life and the happiness everyone deserves.
Whether you are starting over or starting out, feeling overwhelmed can stop you from moving forward. Relationship issues causing you anxiety or depression? Sometimes you just need someone to talk to that can be objective. In todays world, stress has become the norm at the expense of our peace and contentment. It does not have to be that way. Let me help you get to a better place where you can enjoy a fulfilling life and the happiness everyone deserves.
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Jenev Caddell
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Nashua, NH 03060
Waitlist for new clients
Do you get into the same circular fights with your spouse or significant other and just can't find your way out? Questioning your relationship in general? Ready to make it work but not sure what to do? I can help.
Do you get into the same circular fights with your spouse or significant other and just can't find your way out? Questioning your relationship in general? Ready to make it work but not sure what to do? I can help.
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Dr. Mitch-Lisa Marriage/Couples Workshops/Seminars
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Nashua, NH 03062
Mitch PsyD & Lisa Relationship Coach (30 Years) are truly very Caring Professional's having a Male/Female Perspective on your Relationship.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Seminars, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session (Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops/Seminars are Designed to be Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate Your Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
Mitch PsyD & Lisa Relationship Coach (30 Years) are truly very Caring Professional's having a Male/Female Perspective on your Relationship.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Seminars, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session (Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops/Seminars are Designed to be Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate Your Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
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Erin K Crail
Counselor, MA, LMHC, LCMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Nashua, NH 03060
Waitlist for new clients
Specializing in issues related to depression, relationship issues, women's issues, anxiety and life transitions.
I believe there is a lot of pressure in today's world which can create a sense of imbalance in one's life. I strive to help clients to find balance in their lives and feel more fulfilled. I also work with clients to overcome chronic anxiety, depression and move through the stages of grief with the support they need. In my work with families, I have helped couples who are suffering from breakdowns in communication to reconnect and enjoy one another again.
Specializing in issues related to depression, relationship issues, women's issues, anxiety and life transitions.
I believe there is a lot of pressure in today's world which can create a sense of imbalance in one's life. I strive to help clients to find balance in their lives and feel more fulfilled. I also work with clients to overcome chronic anxiety, depression and move through the stages of grief with the support they need. In my work with families, I have helped couples who are suffering from breakdowns in communication to reconnect and enjoy one another again.
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Donna B. Lennon
Counselor, MA, LCMHC, MLADC, CADC-ll
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Nashua, NH 03064
Waitlist for new clients
I invite you to learn new ways to approach your relationship with yourself & others as you discover solutions, restore hope and identify your own innate strengths.
As a dually licensed & seasoned therapist, I will partner with you to help you find solutions. Do you frequently worry, neglect your own needs or struggle to “let go?” Any concerns about your relationship with alcohol, drugs or food? Are you “sober” yet restless or irritable? Or a personal or professional caretaker who lost sight of who you are? If any of these questions resonate with you, it’s time to reach out. Our work together will be genuine & focused on your individual needs. While some therapies can focus on pathology & take years of exploration, our primary focus is on how your life circumstances affect you here & now.
I invite you to learn new ways to approach your relationship with yourself & others as you discover solutions, restore hope and identify your own innate strengths.
As a dually licensed & seasoned therapist, I will partner with you to help you find solutions. Do you frequently worry, neglect your own needs or struggle to “let go?” Any concerns about your relationship with alcohol, drugs or food? Are you “sober” yet restless or irritable? Or a personal or professional caretaker who lost sight of who you are? If any of these questions resonate with you, it’s time to reach out. Our work together will be genuine & focused on your individual needs. While some therapies can focus on pathology & take years of exploration, our primary focus is on how your life circumstances affect you here & now.
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Congratulations on taking the first step on your journey to better yourself and your relationship with others.
FAQs: Only telehealth sessions offered in New Hampshire. In person AND virtual in New York. I do not accept insurance. / Holistic health emphasizes the connection of mind, body, and spirit. This is the essence from which I work. In doing so, my goal is to provide a safe environment while assisting you (or you and your partner) to evolve and create sustainable change.
Congratulations on taking the first step on your journey to better yourself and your relationship with others.
FAQs: Only telehealth sessions offered in New Hampshire. In person AND virtual in New York. I do not accept insurance. / Holistic health emphasizes the connection of mind, body, and spirit. This is the essence from which I work. In doing so, my goal is to provide a safe environment while assisting you (or you and your partner) to evolve and create sustainable change.
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Amy Mercier
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, MSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Nashua, NH 03062
I specialize in trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship problems/marital work, anger/behavioral issues, substance abuse, low self-esteem, eating disorders, binge eating disorder, infertility/post-partum, self-harm, grief/loss, adjustment disorders, and stress management.
**Availability may be limited** Most people experience challenges in life and painful moments that can seem difficult to understand and get through. However, I believe with the right supports, we are capable and worthy of healing and resiliency. I knew from an early age I was passionate about helping people find ways to recover from adversity and develop a stronger sense of self, meaning, and happiness. I firmly believe feeling comfortable and understood is essential to the outcome of therapy. I take a compassionate yet direct stance, and strive to act as a coach and active partner in helping individuals reach their goals.
I specialize in trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship problems/marital work, anger/behavioral issues, substance abuse, low self-esteem, eating disorders, binge eating disorder, infertility/post-partum, self-harm, grief/loss, adjustment disorders, and stress management.
**Availability may be limited** Most people experience challenges in life and painful moments that can seem difficult to understand and get through. However, I believe with the right supports, we are capable and worthy of healing and resiliency. I knew from an early age I was passionate about helping people find ways to recover from adversity and develop a stronger sense of self, meaning, and happiness. I firmly believe feeling comfortable and understood is essential to the outcome of therapy. I take a compassionate yet direct stance, and strive to act as a coach and active partner in helping individuals reach their goals.
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Relationship/Couples/Family Coaching and Mediation
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Nashua, NH 03060
Individuals and couples find my blend of demonstrations, communication coaching, and relationship coaching offers effective results that go beyond traditional "therapy".
Your relationships are important. While you don't expect to agree 100% of the time, you desire more harmony. You want to work together and may not know how to begin. I create a safe space to explore what's going on, and discover ways to make it better. I teach communication techniques that help you understand and stay connected through challenging times. Couples report I have helped them: argue less, recapture intimacy, resolve sex issues, resolve money issues, recover from affairs, decide the status of their relationship, establish parenting and visitation plans, mediate separation agreements and more.
Individuals and couples find my blend of demonstrations, communication coaching, and relationship coaching offers effective results that go beyond traditional "therapy".
Your relationships are important. While you don't expect to agree 100% of the time, you desire more harmony. You want to work together and may not know how to begin. I create a safe space to explore what's going on, and discover ways to make it better. I teach communication techniques that help you understand and stay connected through challenging times. Couples report I have helped them: argue less, recapture intimacy, resolve sex issues, resolve money issues, recover from affairs, decide the status of their relationship, establish parenting and visitation plans, mediate separation agreements and more.
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I have a passion for helping couples heal from hurts, build emotional and physical connection, and improve communication to move beyond infidelity, emotional disconnect, ineffective communication, intimacy issues, and conflict. I welcome the opportunity to work with you to improve your emotional well-being, your sense of self, and your relationships. Looking for individual therapy? Let's work together to have a positive impact on anxiety, life transitions, job stress, relationship issues, low self esteem, and burnout. ***Providing in person sessions in North Kingstown and teletherapy to NH residents***
I have a passion for helping couples heal from hurts, build emotional and physical connection, and improve communication to move beyond infidelity, emotional disconnect, ineffective communication, intimacy issues, and conflict. I welcome the opportunity to work with you to improve your emotional well-being, your sense of self, and your relationships. Looking for individual therapy? Let's work together to have a positive impact on anxiety, life transitions, job stress, relationship issues, low self esteem, and burnout. ***Providing in person sessions in North Kingstown and teletherapy to NH residents***
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Are you a high achiever struggling with anxiety, relationship issues, and stress? Do you secretly feel as if you are living in a house of cards that might soon come crashing down? Is the pressure beginning to impact your relationships? If so, know that there is help and hope! My clients are the brilliant humans who have high level responsibilities at work and at home. They are also the ones who tend to prioritize the needs of others instead of their own. They have put themselves last for so long, they don’t even recognize themselves. Therapy helps them reconnect to their inner wisdom so they can create the lives they want.
Are you a high achiever struggling with anxiety, relationship issues, and stress? Do you secretly feel as if you are living in a house of cards that might soon come crashing down? Is the pressure beginning to impact your relationships? If so, know that there is help and hope! My clients are the brilliant humans who have high level responsibilities at work and at home. They are also the ones who tend to prioritize the needs of others instead of their own. They have put themselves last for so long, they don’t even recognize themselves. Therapy helps them reconnect to their inner wisdom so they can create the lives they want.
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No Telehealth. Due to the increase in demand in therapy and time I am available, email is preferred to get back to you in the most timely manner. I work with individuals and couples from a systemic, client focused and strength-based perspective. I have worked with individuals with an array of issues as well including life transitions, anxiety, relationship conflict, grief and loss, as well as trauma. I particularly enjoy assisting clients on the autism spectrum, people with their anxiety, and couples with sexual intimacy issues. I utilize CBT, narrative therapy and solution focused aspects. I also offer supervision for MFTs.
No Telehealth. Due to the increase in demand in therapy and time I am available, email is preferred to get back to you in the most timely manner. I work with individuals and couples from a systemic, client focused and strength-based perspective. I have worked with individuals with an array of issues as well including life transitions, anxiety, relationship conflict, grief and loss, as well as trauma. I particularly enjoy assisting clients on the autism spectrum, people with their anxiety, and couples with sexual intimacy issues. I utilize CBT, narrative therapy and solution focused aspects. I also offer supervision for MFTs.
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My approach is rooted in empathy, collaboration, and evidence-based practices. I am a dedicated and compassionate therapist focusing on helping individuals and couples navigate life's challenges. I come from client-focused and strength-based perspectives, empowering you to harness your innate abilities to overcome obstacles and achieve your goals. Whether you're seeking support for anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or personal growth, I'm here to provide a safe and non-judgmental space for exploration and healing.
My approach is rooted in empathy, collaboration, and evidence-based practices. I am a dedicated and compassionate therapist focusing on helping individuals and couples navigate life's challenges. I come from client-focused and strength-based perspectives, empowering you to harness your innate abilities to overcome obstacles and achieve your goals. Whether you're seeking support for anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or personal growth, I'm here to provide a safe and non-judgmental space for exploration and healing.
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Women's Counseling of Nashua, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Nashua, NH 03060 (Online Only)
At this time (November, 2023), we have openings for specialized medication management focusing on women's health. Our practice specializes in working with women coping with a variety of issues including postpartum depression, anxiety and adjustment, infertility, pregnancy loss, unresolved trauma, relationship issues, parenting concerns, life transitions, disordered eating. We are an LGBTQ+ allied practice. For more information, please see our website: www.WomensCounselingofNashua.com
At this time (November, 2023), we have openings for specialized medication management focusing on women's health. Our practice specializes in working with women coping with a variety of issues including postpartum depression, anxiety and adjustment, infertility, pregnancy loss, unresolved trauma, relationship issues, parenting concerns, life transitions, disordered eating. We are an LGBTQ+ allied practice. For more information, please see our website: www.WomensCounselingofNashua.com
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If you're overwhelmed, exhausted, or feeling stuck and wondering how you will ever feel better... If you're discouraged by what feels like a lack of progress toward your goals despite what feels like a huge effort on your part to change... I can help you move forward. I offer strength-based psychotherapy using a client-centered, compassionate approach. Make sense of your feelings. Improve your relationship with yourself and with those you love. Feel better in your daily life, at home, at work... Everywhere.
If you're overwhelmed, exhausted, or feeling stuck and wondering how you will ever feel better... If you're discouraged by what feels like a lack of progress toward your goals despite what feels like a huge effort on your part to change... I can help you move forward. I offer strength-based psychotherapy using a client-centered, compassionate approach. Make sense of your feelings. Improve your relationship with yourself and with those you love. Feel better in your daily life, at home, at work... Everywhere.
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Waiting list for new clients. I believe there are many pressures in today's world, especially for teens and young adults. This can cause many stressors and an imbalance in one's life. I strive to help clients find balance in their lives by providing support and overcoming chronic anxiety, depression, and trauma. It is important to build and have a safe, professional therapeutic relationship to assist clients through their processes. I also believe in meeting the client where they are currently in their lives and creating individualized goals to make them successful in their journey.
Waiting list for new clients. I believe there are many pressures in today's world, especially for teens and young adults. This can cause many stressors and an imbalance in one's life. I strive to help clients find balance in their lives by providing support and overcoming chronic anxiety, depression, and trauma. It is important to build and have a safe, professional therapeutic relationship to assist clients through their processes. I also believe in meeting the client where they are currently in their lives and creating individualized goals to make them successful in their journey.
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Accepting clients as of 9/1/24 from both NH and MA! When working with clients of all backgrounds, I strive to foster a warm, collaborative therapeutic relationship. My goal is to work together as a team where my role is to empower you and hold space for life’s challenging moments. As a queer identifying and affirming therapist, I have a special interest in working with LGBTQIA+-identifying clients as well as those experiencing challenges related to eating disorders and neurodiversity. Addressing the unique needs of women, adolescent girls, and gender-expansive individuals has become a core value in my clinical practice.
Accepting clients as of 9/1/24 from both NH and MA! When working with clients of all backgrounds, I strive to foster a warm, collaborative therapeutic relationship. My goal is to work together as a team where my role is to empower you and hold space for life’s challenging moments. As a queer identifying and affirming therapist, I have a special interest in working with LGBTQIA+-identifying clients as well as those experiencing challenges related to eating disorders and neurodiversity. Addressing the unique needs of women, adolescent girls, and gender-expansive individuals has become a core value in my clinical practice.
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Current openings as of August, 2024. I believe creating a safe and comfortable environment is key in the therapeutic experience. I use a variety of interventions and can tailor my approach to the specific needs of each client. Therapy is not a “one size fits all” and you should be treated as an individual when you come in for therapy. I enjoy working and young adult women who may be dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, disordered eating, relationship problems and identity issues that can occur with life transitions. I connect well with this age group and provide helpful tools and strategies to assist in times of need.
Current openings as of August, 2024. I believe creating a safe and comfortable environment is key in the therapeutic experience. I use a variety of interventions and can tailor my approach to the specific needs of each client. Therapy is not a “one size fits all” and you should be treated as an individual when you come in for therapy. I enjoy working and young adult women who may be dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, disordered eating, relationship problems and identity issues that can occur with life transitions. I connect well with this age group and provide helpful tools and strategies to assist in times of need.
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The core of my approach to therapy starts with the therapeutic relationship where I will meet you where are without judgement.
I have current openings (as of 8/24). I really enjoy working with young women (18-30) who are navigating life transitions, whether you are a new high school grad or starting your first "professional" job after college. This stage of life is hard! You may face various obstacles as you enter the world of adulthood. You deserve to thrive in your life and not just survive. In a world that is consumed with comparison, it’s easy to lose esteem and doubt how special you are. If you are feeling stressed, down, overwhelmed with emotions, or anxious you are not alone, and it doesn’t have to be that way forever.
The core of my approach to therapy starts with the therapeutic relationship where I will meet you where are without judgement.
I have current openings (as of 8/24). I really enjoy working with young women (18-30) who are navigating life transitions, whether you are a new high school grad or starting your first "professional" job after college. This stage of life is hard! You may face various obstacles as you enter the world of adulthood. You deserve to thrive in your life and not just survive. In a world that is consumed with comparison, it’s easy to lose esteem and doubt how special you are. If you are feeling stressed, down, overwhelmed with emotions, or anxious you are not alone, and it doesn’t have to be that way forever.
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Katie Hynes
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Nashua, NH 03060 (Online Only)
Looking for support, personal exploration, to improve mental health? Counseling can be a great tool for self-improvement. Many of us may find ourselves faced with overwhelming stress, anxiety, depression, and relationship issues in these challenging times. Counseling can be a safe place to process this and a way to discover inner resilience. I especially enjoy working with creative, artistic, intuitive and spiritual individuals. My style is highly interactive and conversational where we will help to identify underlying issues, determine where these originated and help to improve your level of functioning.
Looking for support, personal exploration, to improve mental health? Counseling can be a great tool for self-improvement. Many of us may find ourselves faced with overwhelming stress, anxiety, depression, and relationship issues in these challenging times. Counseling can be a safe place to process this and a way to discover inner resilience. I especially enjoy working with creative, artistic, intuitive and spiritual individuals. My style is highly interactive and conversational where we will help to identify underlying issues, determine where these originated and help to improve your level of functioning.
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Alcohol Dependence, Adult Recovery/ Childhood Trauma and Relationship/Narcissistic Abuse, Marriage/Couples, Divorce, Parent Coaching/IEP, Parent Alienation/Estrangement, Consultation, and Legal Supports.
Two Board Certifications in Psychiatry, Medication as needed and Counseling, Holistic and Integrated Approaches, Expert Behavioral Health, ADHD Focused Treatment, Trauma and Relationship Recovery. Quick Appointments, Active Therapeutic Engagement, Effective Couples Counseling- Evenings and some Saturday appointments available. Faith Based Clinician.
Alcohol Dependence, Adult Recovery/ Childhood Trauma and Relationship/Narcissistic Abuse, Marriage/Couples, Divorce, Parent Coaching/IEP, Parent Alienation/Estrangement, Consultation, and Legal Supports.
Two Board Certifications in Psychiatry, Medication as needed and Counseling, Holistic and Integrated Approaches, Expert Behavioral Health, ADHD Focused Treatment, Trauma and Relationship Recovery. Quick Appointments, Active Therapeutic Engagement, Effective Couples Counseling- Evenings and some Saturday appointments available. Faith Based Clinician.
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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.