Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in Exeter, NH
It's ok to start therapy just because you think you need a little extra help, even if you are usure of "why". Seeking therapy is a routine and preventive form of healthcare, like going to the dentist. A therapist is like a personal trainer for your mind and your relationships. Perhaps begin by identifying broad motives, your hopes, and your dreams. Consider that your heartfelt thoughts and feelings may be "I just want to be happy." or "I feel stuck" or even "I'm tired of merely going through the motions".
It's ok to start therapy just because you think you need a little extra help, even if you are usure of "why". Seeking therapy is a routine and preventive form of healthcare, like going to the dentist. A therapist is like a personal trainer for your mind and your relationships. Perhaps begin by identifying broad motives, your hopes, and your dreams. Consider that your heartfelt thoughts and feelings may be "I just want to be happy." or "I feel stuck" or even "I'm tired of merely going through the motions".
Very experienced clinical psychologist -- recently retired from his practice of 35 years in Nashua -- now has a focused practice in Exeter, NH. He sees a small number of individuals and couples. Individual adults facing life stage transitions and changes, adjustments and challenges in life, whether health, career, family, extended families, or friendships is a major focus. Co-author of "If This Is Love, Why Do I Feel So Insecure?" Dr. Hindy also works with couples seeking to improve communications, commitment, boundaries, trust, impulse control, affection, intimacy, and other facets of satisfaction in marriage and relationships.
Very experienced clinical psychologist -- recently retired from his practice of 35 years in Nashua -- now has a focused practice in Exeter, NH. He sees a small number of individuals and couples. Individual adults facing life stage transitions and changes, adjustments and challenges in life, whether health, career, family, extended families, or friendships is a major focus. Co-author of "If This Is Love, Why Do I Feel So Insecure?" Dr. Hindy also works with couples seeking to improve communications, commitment, boundaries, trust, impulse control, affection, intimacy, and other facets of satisfaction in marriage and relationships.
Kate Vaillancourt
Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Exeter, NH 03833
Waitlist for new clients
I'm Kate Vaillancourt, licensed clinical psychologist and certified perinatal mental health specialist.
I'm Kate Vaillancourt, licensed clinical psychologist and certified perinatal mental health specialist.
I often describe dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) as “common sense therapy.” DBT helps people recognize when their behaviors are no longer serving them and teaches skills to more effectively meet their needs/goals.
I often describe dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) as “common sense therapy.” DBT helps people recognize when their behaviors are no longer serving them and teaches skills to more effectively meet their needs/goals.
Marissa Knowles
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Exeter, NH 03833 (Online Only)
Welcome! Have you noticed more feelings of sadness or irritability, worry about your future, or trouble keeping up with the demands of everyday life? Are you struggling with the stress and uncertainty you've experienced over the past few years? I would be honored to help support you through this period in your life, while offering a safe space to process your concerns and encourage emotional growth and healing. I have a special interest in working with marginalized and diverse populations, including those in the LGBTQIA+ community. I believe every client has inherent strengths and the ability to find peace and joy in their lives.
Welcome! Have you noticed more feelings of sadness or irritability, worry about your future, or trouble keeping up with the demands of everyday life? Are you struggling with the stress and uncertainty you've experienced over the past few years? I would be honored to help support you through this period in your life, while offering a safe space to process your concerns and encourage emotional growth and healing. I have a special interest in working with marginalized and diverse populations, including those in the LGBTQIA+ community. I believe every client has inherent strengths and the ability to find peace and joy in their lives.
I believe we all find ourselves struggling at times in our lives and it’s helpful to be seen, heard and understood during these times. It is also my belief, in our current fast-paced society, that we are often conflicted with competing values and expectations, which tends to exacerbate our anxiety, sadness and frustration. In my practice with adolescents and adults, I have been privileged to witness amazing courage and vulnerability, as those who are in pain seek to better understand themselves and ultimately take better care of themselves. Although we cannot control many of the problems we face, or trauma we have endured,
I believe we all find ourselves struggling at times in our lives and it’s helpful to be seen, heard and understood during these times. It is also my belief, in our current fast-paced society, that we are often conflicted with competing values and expectations, which tends to exacerbate our anxiety, sadness and frustration. In my practice with adolescents and adults, I have been privileged to witness amazing courage and vulnerability, as those who are in pain seek to better understand themselves and ultimately take better care of themselves. Although we cannot control many of the problems we face, or trauma we have endured,
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Welcome to my practice. With over 18 years as a practitioner in the mental health field, I have learned that at the heart of every successful clinical relationship is a strong therapeutic connection between the therapist and client. I consider it my responsibility to create a safe and nonjudgmental space that allows you to openly explore your thoughts and feelings. My approach is collaborative, present-focused, and solution-oriented. I also believe strongly in the connection between the mind and body and support a holistic approach to emotional health and wellness.
Welcome to my practice. With over 18 years as a practitioner in the mental health field, I have learned that at the heart of every successful clinical relationship is a strong therapeutic connection between the therapist and client. I consider it my responsibility to create a safe and nonjudgmental space that allows you to openly explore your thoughts and feelings. My approach is collaborative, present-focused, and solution-oriented. I also believe strongly in the connection between the mind and body and support a holistic approach to emotional health and wellness.
Timisha Malone
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Epping, NH 03042 (Online Only)
Accepting new clients! My name is Timisha Malone. I am a Licensed Therapist located in New Hampshire, serving clients virtually. My education and life experiences stem from Child and adolescent work, Grief/Hospice, Eating Disorders, Bariatrics, and more! I pride myself on meeting you where you are at in all walks of life. I look forward to the chance to chat with you!
Accepting new clients! My name is Timisha Malone. I am a Licensed Therapist located in New Hampshire, serving clients virtually. My education and life experiences stem from Child and adolescent work, Grief/Hospice, Eating Disorders, Bariatrics, and more! I pride myself on meeting you where you are at in all walks of life. I look forward to the chance to chat with you!
Seacoast Therapy Associates
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, MLADC
Verified Verified
Hampton, NH 03842
We work with individuals through the lifespan. We have several therapists who utilize evidence based treatment modalities including EMDR, Cognitive behavior therapy, DBT, and internal family systems.
We work with individuals through the lifespan. We have several therapists who utilize evidence based treatment modalities including EMDR, Cognitive behavior therapy, DBT, and internal family systems.
William Roy Newman Licensed Psychologist 40 Years
Psychologist, MDiv, LCSW, DMin, psychol
Verified Verified
Rye, NH 03870
Dr. William R. Newman, a licensed psychologist for years, specializes in the treatment of complex developmental trauma with dissociation. Dr. Newman's treatment of anxiety, depression, and trauma, will help you alleviate your symptoms and causes of your distress. Couples and families will improve their relationships by effectively communicating and increasing their understanding of each other's needs. You will learn to communicate from your true/highest/spirit/soul SELF with LOVE, and compassion. Dr. Newman helps you help yourself with self-leadership to increase your consciousness/awareness to make the best and healthiest choices for all parts of you and your relationships.
Dr. William R. Newman, a licensed psychologist for years, specializes in the treatment of complex developmental trauma with dissociation. Dr. Newman's treatment of anxiety, depression, and trauma, will help you alleviate your symptoms and causes of your distress. Couples and families will improve their relationships by effectively communicating and increasing their understanding of each other's needs. You will learn to communicate from your true/highest/spirit/soul SELF with LOVE, and compassion. Dr. Newman helps you help yourself with self-leadership to increase your consciousness/awareness to make the best and healthiest choices for all parts of you and your relationships.
I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor who works with adolescents, and adults from ages 13 through adulthood. LGBTQIA, trauma, and mood disorders are some of my favorite issues to help with. I believe that everyone already has the tools they need within themselves to overcome life's challenges and I can be there to support you in developing and maintaining healthy, positive coping skills.
I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor who works with adolescents, and adults from ages 13 through adulthood. LGBTQIA, trauma, and mood disorders are some of my favorite issues to help with. I believe that everyone already has the tools they need within themselves to overcome life's challenges and I can be there to support you in developing and maintaining healthy, positive coping skills.
Align Counseling Associates PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Epping, NH 03042
Now offering medication management services and we are accepting new clients! Align Counseling is located in Manchester, NH for in person appointments or telehealth for any person/s residing in NH. We offer individual therapy and medication management services. We specialize in EMDR treatment as well as other evidenced based practices such as DBT,CBT and ERP. We work with children ages 13+ and adults of all ages.
Now offering medication management services and we are accepting new clients! Align Counseling is located in Manchester, NH for in person appointments or telehealth for any person/s residing in NH. We offer individual therapy and medication management services. We specialize in EMDR treatment as well as other evidenced based practices such as DBT,CBT and ERP. We work with children ages 13+ and adults of all ages.
Now offering our PHP both in-person and online! Feeling overwhelmed? Struggling to get through the day? Out-of-control? In these uncertain times, you don't have to go it alone. Let us support you as you work on regaining safety and stability in your life. Our partial hospital program (PHP) welcomes teens ages 13-20 who may be experiencing significant mental health concerns (e.g., self-harm, suicidal thinking, OCD, anxiety), struggling to attend or engage in school, stepping down from residential or inpatient treatment, and/or looking to avoid future hospitalization.
Now offering our PHP both in-person and online! Feeling overwhelmed? Struggling to get through the day? Out-of-control? In these uncertain times, you don't have to go it alone. Let us support you as you work on regaining safety and stability in your life. Our partial hospital program (PHP) welcomes teens ages 13-20 who may be experiencing significant mental health concerns (e.g., self-harm, suicidal thinking, OCD, anxiety), struggling to attend or engage in school, stepping down from residential or inpatient treatment, and/or looking to avoid future hospitalization.
As a dual licensed therapist I partner, with children, parents, adolescents/teens, adults of all ages who are struggling with anxiety, depression, grief and big life transitions, adjustment to change, addiction, and relationship problems. I offer the soft landing of a supportive, trusting, compassionate, and nonjudgmental environment that is grounded in empathetic listening and innovative therapies beyond the traditional “talk therapy.” Most clients begin to notice improvement within 2 to 5 sessions.
As a dual licensed therapist I partner, with children, parents, adolescents/teens, adults of all ages who are struggling with anxiety, depression, grief and big life transitions, adjustment to change, addiction, and relationship problems. I offer the soft landing of a supportive, trusting, compassionate, and nonjudgmental environment that is grounded in empathetic listening and innovative therapies beyond the traditional “talk therapy.” Most clients begin to notice improvement within 2 to 5 sessions.
Feeling unbalanced, like you’ve lost motivation, or overwhelmed by relationship stress? Therapy can offer a space to calm the emotional storm and reconnect with yourself. I help individuals find inner stability to live their lives with confidence and meaning. I support couples in finding connection and intimacy. Through compassion and connection, we can help you reach your potential.
Feeling unbalanced, like you’ve lost motivation, or overwhelmed by relationship stress? Therapy can offer a space to calm the emotional storm and reconnect with yourself. I help individuals find inner stability to live their lives with confidence and meaning. I support couples in finding connection and intimacy. Through compassion and connection, we can help you reach your potential.
As a licensed clinical mental health counselor, I use a variety of methods to meet the needs of those I work with. While my approach varies based on individual needs and preferences, I primarily utilize a skills-based approach grounded in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). I provide solution-focused, trauma-informed psychotherapy to adolescents and adults struggling with emotion dysregulation, interpersonal conflict, and low self-esteem. During individual sessions, you can expect to focus on your specific needs, and together we will develop treatment goals to work toward.
As a licensed clinical mental health counselor, I use a variety of methods to meet the needs of those I work with. While my approach varies based on individual needs and preferences, I primarily utilize a skills-based approach grounded in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). I provide solution-focused, trauma-informed psychotherapy to adolescents and adults struggling with emotion dysregulation, interpersonal conflict, and low self-esteem. During individual sessions, you can expect to focus on your specific needs, and together we will develop treatment goals to work toward.
Welcome! I am a licensed clinical psychologist with 17+ years of experience providing assessment and therapy to adolescents, young adults, and families who are seeking to process and heal from a variety of issues including: depression, anxiety, anger, suicide/self-harm, trauma, impulsivity, gender identity issues, and problematic sexual behavior. Adolescence is a period of significant development that presents major social and emotional challenges. My goal is to provide a nurturing and accepting environment where clients can grow to appreciate the therapeutic process and learn new skills necessary to reach their identified goals.
Welcome! I am a licensed clinical psychologist with 17+ years of experience providing assessment and therapy to adolescents, young adults, and families who are seeking to process and heal from a variety of issues including: depression, anxiety, anger, suicide/self-harm, trauma, impulsivity, gender identity issues, and problematic sexual behavior. Adolescence is a period of significant development that presents major social and emotional challenges. My goal is to provide a nurturing and accepting environment where clients can grow to appreciate the therapeutic process and learn new skills necessary to reach their identified goals.
Aviva Abeshaus
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, SAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hampton, NH 03842
Not accepting new clients
Our thoughts, feelings and behaviors create our experiences. As a psychotherapist with over 25 years of experience, I feel that therapy is a process of creating change in those repetitive and maladaptive patterns leading to a better, more satisfying life. Therapy allows a person to explore and develop skills to effectively cope with personal and growth's transitions and challenges. I work with each individual on finding the right balance of mind, body, spirit connection that gives a person the ability to better assess for personal goals and plan for a more satisfying future.
Our thoughts, feelings and behaviors create our experiences. As a psychotherapist with over 25 years of experience, I feel that therapy is a process of creating change in those repetitive and maladaptive patterns leading to a better, more satisfying life. Therapy allows a person to explore and develop skills to effectively cope with personal and growth's transitions and challenges. I work with each individual on finding the right balance of mind, body, spirit connection that gives a person the ability to better assess for personal goals and plan for a more satisfying future.
Camber Olsen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Stratham, NH 03885
Not accepting new clients
Many of the individuals I work with find themselves feeling overwhelmed or trapped in self-defeating habit loops, hold negative beliefs about themselves, are experiencing post-traumatic stress, trouble coping with life's stressors and transitional phases, and issues of identity. Some have reached a point in which they can no longer accept life as it is and have decided that they want to make a change. Many others find that it is helpful to confide in someone regarding things they may have never before uttered out loud. My goal is to help my clients identify and achieve their goals and to be of service in any way that I can.
Many of the individuals I work with find themselves feeling overwhelmed or trapped in self-defeating habit loops, hold negative beliefs about themselves, are experiencing post-traumatic stress, trouble coping with life's stressors and transitional phases, and issues of identity. Some have reached a point in which they can no longer accept life as it is and have decided that they want to make a change. Many others find that it is helpful to confide in someone regarding things they may have never before uttered out loud. My goal is to help my clients identify and achieve their goals and to be of service in any way that I can.
Nichole Terhune
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, MLADC , LCMHC, M Ed
Verified Verified
Stratham, NH 03885 (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
I use a strengths-based approach to guide and challenge you through growth and healing. I offer a safe space for individuals to share and explore their journey. I empower people to trust themselves and learn to ride the waves of life with more confidence and strength. My approach provides individuals with healing through memories and experiences at their own pace. I also facilitate young and adolescent support groups.
I use a strengths-based approach to guide and challenge you through growth and healing. I offer a safe space for individuals to share and explore their journey. I empower people to trust themselves and learn to ride the waves of life with more confidence and strength. My approach provides individuals with healing through memories and experiences at their own pace. I also facilitate young and adolescent support groups.
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What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?
Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.
What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?
Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.
What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?
DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.
What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?
The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.