Emotionally Focused Therapists in Winston Salem, NC

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Paiga Brown
Pre-Licensed Professional, LCSW-A
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Winston Salem, NC 27103  (Online Only)
Everything begins with your mindset. First, I would like to congratulate you on making the right decision to take action over your life. My name is Paiga Brown, and I am here to support you as you take this journey! I have experience supporting individuals who face the challenges of dealing with anxiety and mood disorders, anxiety, trauma, depression, and relationship issues. I specialize in working with both adults and adolescents through Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Emotionally Focused Expressive Arts Mindfulness-Based (MBCT) Music Therapy Play Therapy and Art Therapy.
Everything begins with your mindset. First, I would like to congratulate you on making the right decision to take action over your life. My name is Paiga Brown, and I am here to support you as you take this journey! I have experience supporting individuals who face the challenges of dealing with anxiety and mood disorders, anxiety, trauma, depression, and relationship issues. I specialize in working with both adults and adolescents through Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Emotionally Focused Expressive Arts Mindfulness-Based (MBCT) Music Therapy Play Therapy and Art Therapy.
(336) 933-6531 View (336) 933-6531
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Thriveworks Counseling & Psychiatry Winston-Salem
Counselor
Verified Verified
Winston Salem, NC 27104
Popular approaches include CBT, DBT, EMDR, Christian Counseling, PCT, Motivational Interviewing, EFT, Positive Psychology, Psychodynamic therapy, Relational therapy, Narrative therapy, and more.
At Thriveworks, we're dedicated to providing top-tier mental health services that are easily accessible to everyone. With over 340 locations nationwide and flexible online therapy options, our professional therapists are equipped to assist you through any stress, life transitions, or ongoing mental health concerns. We prioritize your convenience and needs by offering flexible scheduling, including evening and weekend appointments, ensuring that you can start your therapy journey as early as this week. Plus, we accept most major insurance plans, making your path to mental health support smoother and more affordable.
Popular approaches include CBT, DBT, EMDR, Christian Counseling, PCT, Motivational Interviewing, EFT, Positive Psychology, Psychodynamic therapy, Relational therapy, Narrative therapy, and more.
At Thriveworks, we're dedicated to providing top-tier mental health services that are easily accessible to everyone. With over 340 locations nationwide and flexible online therapy options, our professional therapists are equipped to assist you through any stress, life transitions, or ongoing mental health concerns. We prioritize your convenience and needs by offering flexible scheduling, including evening and weekend appointments, ensuring that you can start your therapy journey as early as this week. Plus, we accept most major insurance plans, making your path to mental health support smoother and more affordable.
(336) 537-1362 View (336) 537-1362
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Dogwood Counseling Services
Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Winston Salem, NC 27101
Waitlist for new clients
Additionally, I am working to obtain certification in the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy, to assist couples in better understanding one another, in both communication and intimacy.
I enjoy the opportunity to offer clients a trusting and safe environment to process thoughts, recent life events and changes as well as more specific interpersonal challenges and concerns. Additionally, I can provide a non-judgmental and compassionate approach for clients that are seeking a warm, yet goal-directed, therapeutic experience. I work with partners wanting support around communication, premarital work, intimacy, and staying connected through difficult emotional seasons and transitions.
Additionally, I am working to obtain certification in the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy, to assist couples in better understanding one another, in both communication and intimacy.
I enjoy the opportunity to offer clients a trusting and safe environment to process thoughts, recent life events and changes as well as more specific interpersonal challenges and concerns. Additionally, I can provide a non-judgmental and compassionate approach for clients that are seeking a warm, yet goal-directed, therapeutic experience. I work with partners wanting support around communication, premarital work, intimacy, and staying connected through difficult emotional seasons and transitions.
(336) 920-8024 View (336) 920-8024
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Safe Haven Lighthouse Counseling, PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Winston Salem, NC 27127  (Online Only)
My areas of competence include: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy(CBT),Compassion Focused, Culturally Sensitive, Eclectic Approach, Emotionally Focused, Interpersonal, Interventions, Motivational Interviewing, Solution Focused, Multicultural Informed/Focused, Strength Based, Trauma Informed and Person-Centered.
It is my ethical and moral duty to provide you with services that are person centered and goal oriented. We work as a team together. Therefore, fostering a positive and thriving therapeutic relationship. I received my MS in Rehabilitation Counseling, in May 2007, from Winston-Salem State University in North Carolina and my BA degree in Psychology in May 2004 from Bennett College for Women. I am a fully Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC). I have over 19 years of experience in mental health and have been licensed as a mental health counselor for 10 years.
My areas of competence include: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy(CBT),Compassion Focused, Culturally Sensitive, Eclectic Approach, Emotionally Focused, Interpersonal, Interventions, Motivational Interviewing, Solution Focused, Multicultural Informed/Focused, Strength Based, Trauma Informed and Person-Centered.
It is my ethical and moral duty to provide you with services that are person centered and goal oriented. We work as a team together. Therefore, fostering a positive and thriving therapeutic relationship. I received my MS in Rehabilitation Counseling, in May 2007, from Winston-Salem State University in North Carolina and my BA degree in Psychology in May 2004 from Bennett College for Women. I am a fully Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC). I have over 19 years of experience in mental health and have been licensed as a mental health counselor for 10 years.
(336) 850-6401 View (336) 850-6401
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H. M. Humphrey
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Winston Salem, NC 27104  (Online Only)
I provide Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, an attachment-based therapy that helps partners to create corrective emotional experiences in session.
I help couples make sense of how they are getting stuck in conflict. I help them organize their experience, and clarify the good emotional reasons for why they are stuck. Together we identify unmet needs and longings, and work to develop understanding and responsiveness. With greater closeness and trust, partners are able to find solutions to life’s challenges, heal from relationship wounds, and experience love again. I have experience helping couples recover from infidelity/betrayals. When counseling individual clients, I work from a trauma-informed, attachment lens. I help individuals clarify what they need to heal and grow.
I provide Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, an attachment-based therapy that helps partners to create corrective emotional experiences in session.
I help couples make sense of how they are getting stuck in conflict. I help them organize their experience, and clarify the good emotional reasons for why they are stuck. Together we identify unmet needs and longings, and work to develop understanding and responsiveness. With greater closeness and trust, partners are able to find solutions to life’s challenges, heal from relationship wounds, and experience love again. I have experience helping couples recover from infidelity/betrayals. When counseling individual clients, I work from a trauma-informed, attachment lens. I help individuals clarify what they need to heal and grow.
(336) 606-3861 View (336) 606-3861
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Mary Katherine Burbach
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Winston Salem, NC 27103
I am an EMDR & Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) trained therapist & also draw from Internal Family Systems & Attachment Theory.
The core of all my work with clients centers around connection. Whether you are an individual who has experienced trauma or is feeling constantly worn out and discouraged, a couple lacking emotional connection or walking through difficult times, I am here to help you. I work with individuals with a wide variety of struggles, including those experiencing stress, trauma, mood disorders, &/or life transitions, as well as couples who are in distress or seeking to rekindle their connection.
I am an EMDR & Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) trained therapist & also draw from Internal Family Systems & Attachment Theory.
The core of all my work with clients centers around connection. Whether you are an individual who has experienced trauma or is feeling constantly worn out and discouraged, a couple lacking emotional connection or walking through difficult times, I am here to help you. I work with individuals with a wide variety of struggles, including those experiencing stress, trauma, mood disorders, &/or life transitions, as well as couples who are in distress or seeking to rekindle their connection.
(336) 863-9358 View (336) 863-9358
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Nicole Powell
Counselor, MEd, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
Winston Salem, NC 27101
Because everyone has unique challenges and goals, I also utilize evidence-based techniques from other frameworks such as cognitive behavioral therapy, motivational interviewing, emotionally focused therapy and parent child interaction therapy to best fit my clients' needs.
I believe that every person has the ability to grow, heal and change. As a counselor, I provide a space of nonjudgmental acceptance and authenticity which invites clients to show up exactly as they are and to be valued and supported in all aspects of their identity. I aim to partner with and empower my clients, utilizing the strengths and skills they already possess, to work toward their goals for healing and growth. My counseling orientation is grounded in a family systems approach, though I also draw significantly from attachment theory and person-centered counseling.
Because everyone has unique challenges and goals, I also utilize evidence-based techniques from other frameworks such as cognitive behavioral therapy, motivational interviewing, emotionally focused therapy and parent child interaction therapy to best fit my clients' needs.
I believe that every person has the ability to grow, heal and change. As a counselor, I provide a space of nonjudgmental acceptance and authenticity which invites clients to show up exactly as they are and to be valued and supported in all aspects of their identity. I aim to partner with and empower my clients, utilizing the strengths and skills they already possess, to work toward their goals for healing and growth. My counseling orientation is grounded in a family systems approach, though I also draw significantly from attachment theory and person-centered counseling.
(336) 594-2301 View (336) 594-2301
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Ryan MacLeod
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Winston Salem, NC 27101
I have received advanced training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, and am pursuing certification.
At Bloom Couples Counseling, I offer a comprehensive, scientifically-based approach to relationship counseling in a supportive and appropriately challenging setting. I help you unravel the mystery of the cyclical nature of relationship problems, reducing frustration and restoring connection. Using evidence-based tools and approaches, my goal is to help you and your partner move from distance to addressing the problems as a team, leaving you both with a sense of pride in each other's core needs and dreams for the relationship.
I have received advanced training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, and am pursuing certification.
At Bloom Couples Counseling, I offer a comprehensive, scientifically-based approach to relationship counseling in a supportive and appropriately challenging setting. I help you unravel the mystery of the cyclical nature of relationship problems, reducing frustration and restoring connection. Using evidence-based tools and approaches, my goal is to help you and your partner move from distance to addressing the problems as a team, leaving you both with a sense of pride in each other's core needs and dreams for the relationship.
(336) 276-1424 View (336) 276-1424
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Amy Holland
Counselor, MA, LCMHCA, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Winston Salem, NC 27106  (Online Only)
For couples, I am trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy and the Gottman method.
Few of us are lucky enough to go through life without challenges or suffering. This is true for me personally. Like me, you may need help from a therapist during life’s harder moments, someone you can trust who is compassionate, nonjudgemental, and empathetic. I specialize in helping people process and heal from the difficult situations that can come up in life. I also enjoying helping people recover from upsetting or traumatic experiences in the past that may be keeping them from feeling their best now.
For couples, I am trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy and the Gottman method.
Few of us are lucky enough to go through life without challenges or suffering. This is true for me personally. Like me, you may need help from a therapist during life’s harder moments, someone you can trust who is compassionate, nonjudgemental, and empathetic. I specialize in helping people process and heal from the difficult situations that can come up in life. I also enjoying helping people recover from upsetting or traumatic experiences in the past that may be keeping them from feeling their best now.
(336) 895-1857 View (336) 895-1857
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Kalyn Hamilton
Counselor, MS/EdS, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Winston Salem, NC 27109
Waitlist for new clients
I am also pursuing more couples/relational work (EFT).
Please allow me to commend you for seeking out therapy: I am very glad that you are recognizing a personal need to find support in a mental health professional. Whether or not you decide that I am a good therapeutic fit for you and your needs, I believe wholeheartedly that every person can benefit from therapy at some point in their lives. It can be supremely beneficial to have a caring but impartial perspective in your life to help you heal, grow, and fulfill your own personal needs/goals.
I am also pursuing more couples/relational work (EFT).
Please allow me to commend you for seeking out therapy: I am very glad that you are recognizing a personal need to find support in a mental health professional. Whether or not you decide that I am a good therapeutic fit for you and your needs, I believe wholeheartedly that every person can benefit from therapy at some point in their lives. It can be supremely beneficial to have a caring but impartial perspective in your life to help you heal, grow, and fulfill your own personal needs/goals.
(336) 891-9762 View (336) 891-9762
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Jessie Deussing
Counselor, MACC, LCMHC
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Winston Salem, NC 27103
For more information about EFT, please visit www.
Jessie is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (#12789) who completed her graduate education at Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary, earning an M.A. in Christian Counseling. She is a Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist (EFT). She specializes in counseling couples and individuals (18+) surrounding marital distress, attachment injuries, past harm (abuse, neglect, trauma, self-harm), pre-marital counseling, anxiety, and depression.
For more information about EFT, please visit www.
Jessie is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (#12789) who completed her graduate education at Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary, earning an M.A. in Christian Counseling. She is a Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist (EFT). She specializes in counseling couples and individuals (18+) surrounding marital distress, attachment injuries, past harm (abuse, neglect, trauma, self-harm), pre-marital counseling, anxiety, and depression.
(336) 864-9727 View (336) 864-9727
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Thriveworks Counseling & Psychiatry Chapel Hill
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor
Verified Verified
Winston Salem, NC 27102
Popular approaches include CBT, DBT, EMDR, Christian Counseling, PCT, Motivational Interviewing, EFT, Positive Psychology, Psychodynamic therapy, Relational therapy, Narrative therapy, and more.
At Thriveworks, we're dedicated to providing top-tier mental health services that are easily accessible to everyone. With over 340 locations nationwide and flexible online therapy options, our professional therapists are equipped to assist you through any stress, life transitions, or ongoing mental health concerns. We prioritize your convenience and needs by offering flexible scheduling, including evening and weekend appointments, ensuring that you can start your therapy journey as early as this week. Plus, we accept most major insurance plans, making your path to mental health support smoother and more affordable.
Popular approaches include CBT, DBT, EMDR, Christian Counseling, PCT, Motivational Interviewing, EFT, Positive Psychology, Psychodynamic therapy, Relational therapy, Narrative therapy, and more.
At Thriveworks, we're dedicated to providing top-tier mental health services that are easily accessible to everyone. With over 340 locations nationwide and flexible online therapy options, our professional therapists are equipped to assist you through any stress, life transitions, or ongoing mental health concerns. We prioritize your convenience and needs by offering flexible scheduling, including evening and weekend appointments, ensuring that you can start your therapy journey as early as this week. Plus, we accept most major insurance plans, making your path to mental health support smoother and more affordable.
(919) 373-6068 View (919) 373-6068
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Jake Ottman
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, MA, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Winston Salem, NC 27101
My work is supported by my training in the Gottman and EFT models.
I specialize in helping individuals and couples improve their relationship by facilitating crucial conversations and developing healthy ways of communicating that are vulnerable, respectful, and supportive. I help people understand how their habits, beliefs, and expectations affect their individual and relational health. Through this process, clients develop the skills and implement the tools needed to live a fulfilling life and have satisfying relationships.
My work is supported by my training in the Gottman and EFT models.
I specialize in helping individuals and couples improve their relationship by facilitating crucial conversations and developing healthy ways of communicating that are vulnerable, respectful, and supportive. I help people understand how their habits, beliefs, and expectations affect their individual and relational health. Through this process, clients develop the skills and implement the tools needed to live a fulfilling life and have satisfying relationships.
(336) 933-6371 View (336) 933-6371
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Megan Anderson
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, LCMHC, QS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Winston Salem, NC 27103
I have extensive experience working with individuals, couples, and families with a history of trauma, anxiety, and depression. I am able to support both incorporating a client's faith into sessions and issues related to religious trauma. I enjoy working with neurodivergent clients and strive to always create an accepting, strengths-focused therapeutic space. As a member of the community, I love serving LGBTQIA clients. I also work with friends and family members actively working on their own ability to provide an accepting and affirming space for their LGBTQIA loved ones. Additionally, I love being a therapist to other therapists!
I have extensive experience working with individuals, couples, and families with a history of trauma, anxiety, and depression. I am able to support both incorporating a client's faith into sessions and issues related to religious trauma. I enjoy working with neurodivergent clients and strive to always create an accepting, strengths-focused therapeutic space. As a member of the community, I love serving LGBTQIA clients. I also work with friends and family members actively working on their own ability to provide an accepting and affirming space for their LGBTQIA loved ones. Additionally, I love being a therapist to other therapists!
(336) 933-6989 View (336) 933-6989
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Lisa Carpenter
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Winston Salem, NC 27103
Are you lonely and hurt? Are you struggling to find connection? Are you and your partner arguing and blaming one another? You may even be considering separation or divorce. Sometimes we get stuck in relationships and just don’t know how to move forward. Oftentimes, we get caught in the same repetitive patterns. Everyone has the capacity for change. It’s time to get un-stuck, realize there is hope, and find healing.
Are you lonely and hurt? Are you struggling to find connection? Are you and your partner arguing and blaming one another? You may even be considering separation or divorce. Sometimes we get stuck in relationships and just don’t know how to move forward. Oftentimes, we get caught in the same repetitive patterns. Everyone has the capacity for change. It’s time to get un-stuck, realize there is hope, and find healing.
(336) 810-0730 View (336) 810-0730
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Larry LaMont Joe Jr
Counselor, MA, LCMHC-A, LCAS, CCS, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Winston Salem, NC 27101
To provide services in the Mental Health and Substance Use field that will assist diverse populations with obtaining goals they have set for themselves in life. I’d like to do this while interacting with them in a group and/or individual setting. I feel that based on my educational experience, work experience and personal background, I could help individuals in the mental health and substances use concerns and want to achieve the success they desire for their lives.
To provide services in the Mental Health and Substance Use field that will assist diverse populations with obtaining goals they have set for themselves in life. I’d like to do this while interacting with them in a group and/or individual setting. I feel that based on my educational experience, work experience and personal background, I could help individuals in the mental health and substances use concerns and want to achieve the success they desire for their lives.
(336) 697-6240 View (336) 697-6240
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George Campbell Hage
Licensed Professional Counselor, EdD, PhD, LCMHC, LCMHCS
Verified Verified
Winston Salem, NC 27106
I work with adult men and women(ages16-99)struggling with sues such as anxiety, depression, and relationship issues, as well as those who have attention deficits. I also work with individuals struggling to find the big picture of their life, struggling to identify core values, and are “failing to launch,” having a mid-life crisis, struggling to adapt to retirement, or are having a crisis of faith. I work with older teens (16+) who are having school related problems, suffering from anxiety or depression, or have attention deficit disorder. I consider counseling a ministry to your needs above your ability to pay. My rates are low.
I work with adult men and women(ages16-99)struggling with sues such as anxiety, depression, and relationship issues, as well as those who have attention deficits. I also work with individuals struggling to find the big picture of their life, struggling to identify core values, and are “failing to launch,” having a mid-life crisis, struggling to adapt to retirement, or are having a crisis of faith. I work with older teens (16+) who are having school related problems, suffering from anxiety or depression, or have attention deficit disorder. I consider counseling a ministry to your needs above your ability to pay. My rates are low.
(336) 967-1931 View (336) 967-1931
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Redfish Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Winston Salem, NC 27101
You're tired of feeling stuck, hurt, confused, and lost. Life has stalled out because of relationship static, family stress, anxiety, career crisis, addiction, lost hope, or past events that keep you running in circles. Each day feels like you're walking on eggshells. Sometimes you feel so cut off from yourself and those you love that you’re not sure who you are anymore, or if it's possible to figure it out. You wonder if things will ever get better and if living life with peace, joy, and renewed energy can really happen.
You're tired of feeling stuck, hurt, confused, and lost. Life has stalled out because of relationship static, family stress, anxiety, career crisis, addiction, lost hope, or past events that keep you running in circles. Each day feels like you're walking on eggshells. Sometimes you feel so cut off from yourself and those you love that you’re not sure who you are anymore, or if it's possible to figure it out. You wonder if things will ever get better and if living life with peace, joy, and renewed energy can really happen.
(336) 276-1471 x1 View (336) 276-1471 x1
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Juliana Blanton
Counselor, LCMHC, NCC, MA
Verified Verified
Winston Salem, NC 27103  (Online Only)
Life can throw us some major challenges and often people can end up in survival mode, panic mode, or just struggling to get out of bed in the morning. Counseling provides resources and support for moving out of these modes into well-being, health, and joy. Each person comes to counseling with their own strengths and challenges. My job as a therapist is to support each person as they move towards their goals such as decreasing anxiety and depression, healing from old wounds or trauma, learning skills to manage emotions or experiences, exploring themes such as identity and self-esteem, working through relationship conflicts, and more.
Life can throw us some major challenges and often people can end up in survival mode, panic mode, or just struggling to get out of bed in the morning. Counseling provides resources and support for moving out of these modes into well-being, health, and joy. Each person comes to counseling with their own strengths and challenges. My job as a therapist is to support each person as they move towards their goals such as decreasing anxiety and depression, healing from old wounds or trauma, learning skills to manage emotions or experiences, exploring themes such as identity and self-esteem, working through relationship conflicts, and more.
(336) 560-9055 View (336) 560-9055
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Banyan Tree Counseling & Wellness
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LCMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Winston Salem, NC 27103
Seeking help is a sign of strength and health, not weakness or shame. You have a story and it matters. As an experienced mental health therapist, I feel honored to listen to your story and work together toward change and healing. My style is warm, supportive, emotions-focused and collaborative. I place the utmost importance on developing a strong, trusting therapeutic relationship. You deserve to live a full, complete life. Make an investment to improve the most influential relationships of your life. I can help. I am grounded in person-centered counseling, which emphasizes empathy, authenticity, and acceptance in relationship.
Seeking help is a sign of strength and health, not weakness or shame. You have a story and it matters. As an experienced mental health therapist, I feel honored to listen to your story and work together toward change and healing. My style is warm, supportive, emotions-focused and collaborative. I place the utmost importance on developing a strong, trusting therapeutic relationship. You deserve to live a full, complete life. Make an investment to improve the most influential relationships of your life. I can help. I am grounded in person-centered counseling, which emphasizes empathy, authenticity, and acceptance in relationship.
(336) 742-0779 View (336) 742-0779

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Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.