Divorce Therapists in Whispering Pines, NC
![Photo of Devon Burnore, MS, LCMHC, LCAS, Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/5e8431f2-dadc-41c0-a5b6-6c9e4247de90/1/320x400.png)
My name is Devon Burnore, I am a licensed professional counselor and a licensed clinical addictions specialist. My counseling style is client centered and works to empower and create internal growth, strength and resiliency. I am open and accepting and have experience with a variety of clients including military, couples, families and medically compromised. I have over 15 years of experience working in the field of mental health in a variety of settings and enjoy helping others. My goal is for you to leave the session feeling supported and armed with the tools to begin improving your over all well-being.
My name is Devon Burnore, I am a licensed professional counselor and a licensed clinical addictions specialist. My counseling style is client centered and works to empower and create internal growth, strength and resiliency. I am open and accepting and have experience with a variety of clients including military, couples, families and medically compromised. I have over 15 years of experience working in the field of mental health in a variety of settings and enjoy helping others. My goal is for you to leave the session feeling supported and armed with the tools to begin improving your over all well-being.
![Photo of Jessica Parfitt - Lotus Counseling Center, MSW, LCSW, LCAS, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/51e62fdd-f08c-40f5-aa11-76a43d3fe51b/3/320x400.jpeg)
Lotus Counseling Center
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LCAS
Verified Verified
Whispering Pines, NC 28327
I enjoy working with teens and adults on issues related to anger, ADHD, adjustments, depression, anxiety, PTSD and self-esteem. Teaching teens how to cope in this often times chaotic world is a passion of mine, but I also enjoy working with adults and teaching them how to decrease distorted thinking and create a life they love living. Self-awareness, self-regulation, self-soothing, and self-determination are fundamentally important for healing and I ask the questions that will help you understand your own barriers and teach you the skills that will empower you to change.
I enjoy working with teens and adults on issues related to anger, ADHD, adjustments, depression, anxiety, PTSD and self-esteem. Teaching teens how to cope in this often times chaotic world is a passion of mine, but I also enjoy working with adults and teaching them how to decrease distorted thinking and create a life they love living. Self-awareness, self-regulation, self-soothing, and self-determination are fundamentally important for healing and I ask the questions that will help you understand your own barriers and teach you the skills that will empower you to change.
![Photo of Ebone Rocker - Carolina Counseling Services - Southern Pines, NC, LCMHCS, Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/6ccca005-9bec-4a64-b708-165a89a59f28/1/320x400.jpeg)
Carolina Counseling Services - Southern Pines, NC
Counselor, LCMHCS
Verified Verified
Whispering Pines, NC 28327
Life can be challenging, therapy can help. Our independently contracted therapists work with couples, adults, teens and children to get to where they want to be. We contract with friendly, experienced, licensed clinicians with different specialties who are able to help. Our Southern Pines and Pinehurst offices are warm and welcoming, allowing you to feel at home when meeting with your therapist. Please visit the website for detailed information on how we may assist you: www.CarolinaCounselingServices.com.
Life can be challenging, therapy can help. Our independently contracted therapists work with couples, adults, teens and children to get to where they want to be. We contract with friendly, experienced, licensed clinicians with different specialties who are able to help. Our Southern Pines and Pinehurst offices are warm and welcoming, allowing you to feel at home when meeting with your therapist. Please visit the website for detailed information on how we may assist you: www.CarolinaCounselingServices.com.
![Photo of Sandra Sargent, LCSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/83652ee8-890e-43ca-aea0-012a21aee473/1/320x400.jpeg)
Life can be challenging at times. Fortunately, you don’t have to struggle alone. It is often helpful to speak with an objective, compassionate, caring therapist who can help you increase your self-awareness and help you to see things from other perspectives. I believe that asking for help is a sign of strength. It’s the first step towards taking control of your life and making the changes needed to improve your emotional health and quality of life. Whether you’re feeling anxious, depressed, or confused, I can help you identify and clarify your thoughts and feelings and process them.
Life can be challenging at times. Fortunately, you don’t have to struggle alone. It is often helpful to speak with an objective, compassionate, caring therapist who can help you increase your self-awareness and help you to see things from other perspectives. I believe that asking for help is a sign of strength. It’s the first step towards taking control of your life and making the changes needed to improve your emotional health and quality of life. Whether you’re feeling anxious, depressed, or confused, I can help you identify and clarify your thoughts and feelings and process them.
![Photo of Amy Phariss, MS, LCMHCA, Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/ba862cd7-f027-4cd6-b5de-b6b18bdf2e97/1/320x400.jpeg)
Are you feeling anxious and overwhelmed? Do you wonder where your energy has gone? Is it difficult to make decisions or plan for future goals? Are your relationships suffering? I work with clients every day who answer yes to these questions. They are anxious and overwhelmed. They are living with grief and sadness. They struggle with relationships (parenting, marriage, partners, friendships, work). Some live with chronic pain; many are burned out.
Are you feeling anxious and overwhelmed? Do you wonder where your energy has gone? Is it difficult to make decisions or plan for future goals? Are your relationships suffering? I work with clients every day who answer yes to these questions. They are anxious and overwhelmed. They are living with grief and sadness. They struggle with relationships (parenting, marriage, partners, friendships, work). Some live with chronic pain; many are burned out.
![Photo of Kim Edmister - Possibilities Therapy, PLLC - Kim Edmister, LMFT, MA, MSEd, Marriage & Family Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/b302c164-f000-4957-9be0-8bd9b5709a3a/1/320x400.jpeg)
Possibilities Therapy, PLLC - Kim Edmister
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA, MSEd
Verified Verified
Whispering Pines, NC 28327
COUPLES: I get it. You are hurting, frustrated, worried, or maybe just plain stuck. You've been putting off going to therapy, hoping that things would get better on their own. But the same issues keep coming up and you worry about the direction you are heading. Perhaps you are questioning what you even want - and need help figuring it out. If you are looking for a professional who won't just sit back and listen, but will HELP; someone with experience, who really "gets" you and will offer a lovely combination of hope, compassion, insight and straight-forward feedback - you're in the right place!
COUPLES: I get it. You are hurting, frustrated, worried, or maybe just plain stuck. You've been putting off going to therapy, hoping that things would get better on their own. But the same issues keep coming up and you worry about the direction you are heading. Perhaps you are questioning what you even want - and need help figuring it out. If you are looking for a professional who won't just sit back and listen, but will HELP; someone with experience, who really "gets" you and will offer a lovely combination of hope, compassion, insight and straight-forward feedback - you're in the right place!
More Therapists Nearby
![Photo of Kim Mason, MEd, LCMHC, NCC, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/0885e1db-f977-49db-bf79-3ad044847d0b/2/320x400.jpeg)
Life can be challenging at times. Some situations in life can cause you to feel anxious, depressed, or maybe worried about someone in your family who is dealing with emotional distress. When transitioning through different phases in your life such as a new job, relocating, parenting, divorce, aging, loss, or retirement you may experience some significant challenges. Any of these situations in life may bring you to seek someone to help you gain perspective and coping skills for navigating through.
Life can be challenging at times. Some situations in life can cause you to feel anxious, depressed, or maybe worried about someone in your family who is dealing with emotional distress. When transitioning through different phases in your life such as a new job, relocating, parenting, divorce, aging, loss, or retirement you may experience some significant challenges. Any of these situations in life may bring you to seek someone to help you gain perspective and coping skills for navigating through.
![Photo of Felicity L. Sanders, PhD, HSP-P, Psychologist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/5328cde1-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/1/320x400.jpeg)
I have previous experience as a parenting coordinator and can assist individuals and families in navigating separation/ divorce in ways that are healthier, though I do not currently offer services to be used in court.
I enjoy working with a variety of clients to overcome obstacles and challenges and increase happiness and satisfaction in multiple areas of life. My primary treatment approach is cognitive-behavioral therapy, meaning we work on changing thoughts and behaviors in order to change feelings, but I do incorporate other approaches when they would be beneficial. If you are seeking to improve your self-esteem, relationships, work, or school performance, I may be able to assist. Also, as an Army veteran and the spouse of a retired veteran, I understand the issues our military and families face.
I have previous experience as a parenting coordinator and can assist individuals and families in navigating separation/ divorce in ways that are healthier, though I do not currently offer services to be used in court.
I enjoy working with a variety of clients to overcome obstacles and challenges and increase happiness and satisfaction in multiple areas of life. My primary treatment approach is cognitive-behavioral therapy, meaning we work on changing thoughts and behaviors in order to change feelings, but I do incorporate other approaches when they would be beneficial. If you are seeking to improve your self-esteem, relationships, work, or school performance, I may be able to assist. Also, as an Army veteran and the spouse of a retired veteran, I understand the issues our military and families face.
![Photo of Kathleen Karr Mallow, LCMHC, LCAS, NCC, CCMHC](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/a6ab2426-dafd-49ee-aa7d-fd68a733fbf6/2/320x400.jpeg)
Kathleen Karr Mallow
Licensed clinical mental health counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, NCC, CCMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Pinehurst, NC 28374
Every human being faces struggles in life; and making the decision to seek professional help can be a difficult choice. I have been working in the field of mental health for twenty-nine years and have experience working with individuals, couples, families, and groups. My focus, primarily, is in dealing with depression, anxiety, grief, situational stress, divorce, PTSD, and alcohol and drug abuse/addiction. I believe that the therapeutic process thrives when there is a collaborative effort between the therapist and the client. Respect and unconditional positive regard are paramount in my private practice.
Every human being faces struggles in life; and making the decision to seek professional help can be a difficult choice. I have been working in the field of mental health for twenty-nine years and have experience working with individuals, couples, families, and groups. My focus, primarily, is in dealing with depression, anxiety, grief, situational stress, divorce, PTSD, and alcohol and drug abuse/addiction. I believe that the therapeutic process thrives when there is a collaborative effort between the therapist and the client. Respect and unconditional positive regard are paramount in my private practice.
![Photo of Dr. Megan Numbers - Play Therapy of the Pines, PLLC, PhD, LCMHC, RPT-S™, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/be55bfba-a4ff-48ad-a33a-31c5170886fd/1/320x400.jpeg)
Play Therapy of the Pines, PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LCMHC, RPT-S™
Verified Verified
Southern Pines, NC 28387
We like to consider ourselves play connoisseurs! Dr. Megan (owner) is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and a Registered Play Therapist, and Kayla is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. Both Dr. Megan and Kayla have advanced training in different play therapy modalities and truly specialize in working with children. They believe in empowering children to make their own choices, take responsibility, and assert their autonomy by engaging in an accepting, safe, and trusting therapeutic relationship. Our office is designed for kids with adults in mind! :)
We like to consider ourselves play connoisseurs! Dr. Megan (owner) is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and a Registered Play Therapist, and Kayla is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. Both Dr. Megan and Kayla have advanced training in different play therapy modalities and truly specialize in working with children. They believe in empowering children to make their own choices, take responsibility, and assert their autonomy by engaging in an accepting, safe, and trusting therapeutic relationship. Our office is designed for kids with adults in mind! :)
![Photo of John Lawson, MSW, LCSW, RPT, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/463ce826-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/2/320x400.jpeg)
John Lawson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, RPT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cameron, NC 28326
I am a Registered Play Therapist working with children who are hard to reach either because they are angry, anxious, or depressed. Children don't express themselves the same way that adults do, rather, they express themselves more naturally through play. Play is a child's natural way of relieving stress and play therapy is the best practice for working with children. Using Play Therapy most children are able to work through issues in a much shorter amount of time. For more information Call today (910) 407-0052 and check us out at www.AtlasChildCounseling.com
I am a Registered Play Therapist working with children who are hard to reach either because they are angry, anxious, or depressed. Children don't express themselves the same way that adults do, rather, they express themselves more naturally through play. Play is a child's natural way of relieving stress and play therapy is the best practice for working with children. Using Play Therapy most children are able to work through issues in a much shorter amount of time. For more information Call today (910) 407-0052 and check us out at www.AtlasChildCounseling.com
![Photo of Tracy Goldberg, MSW, LCSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/42ac68df-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/2/320x400.jpeg)
If you are looking for someone who can help you resolve concerns in a nonjudgmental environment, I am available to assist you! I enjoy working with children, adolescents and their families. I also enjoy working with adults and couples. I like to help examine your difficulties and provide new insight into situations that may assist you or your family member (s) in making changes.
If you are looking for someone who can help you resolve concerns in a nonjudgmental environment, I am available to assist you! I enjoy working with children, adolescents and their families. I also enjoy working with adults and couples. I like to help examine your difficulties and provide new insight into situations that may assist you or your family member (s) in making changes.
![Photo of Nicole L. Davis, LCMHC, LCAS, CSI](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/dbf0fed5-ca90-4aa6-832c-88bf64e9a3a2/1/320x400.jpeg)
Nicole L. Davis
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CSI
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Pinehurst, NC 28370
I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and a Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist. I provide individual, couples, and family therapy to people experiencing a variety of mental health, substance use, or relationship concerns. I utilize a combination of cognitive behavioral therapy, motivational interviewing, and other modalities to assist clients in addressing concerns including, but not limited to, addiction, depression, anxiety, personality issues, domestic violence, and trauma. I am also certified as a Clinical Supervisor Intern through the NCASPPB. I provide ongoing supervision to other addictions professionals.
I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and a Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist. I provide individual, couples, and family therapy to people experiencing a variety of mental health, substance use, or relationship concerns. I utilize a combination of cognitive behavioral therapy, motivational interviewing, and other modalities to assist clients in addressing concerns including, but not limited to, addiction, depression, anxiety, personality issues, domestic violence, and trauma. I am also certified as a Clinical Supervisor Intern through the NCASPPB. I provide ongoing supervision to other addictions professionals.
![Photo of Traci Lee Kaiser, LCSW, BCD, Veteran, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/ce73fead-0fcb-44ac-9ed3-f11cf058b238/1/320x400.jpeg)
Traci Lee Kaiser
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BCD, Veteran
Verified Verified
Southern Pines, NC 28387 (Online Only)
Change is hard, but worth it. Clients can expect an empathic and caring, but no-nonsense, approach to tackling issues. I specialize in Military/Veteran issues, anxiety and trauma treatment to clients residing anywhere in TX, NC & AK. No travel required! I provide a non-judgmental atmosphere that enables frank, honest discussions that promote change. I have a good history with clients seeking out initial care as well as those who have been unsuccessful with other therapists. I do not accept insurance, as I believe care should be authentic and person-centered without coding or billing guidelines dictating care.
Change is hard, but worth it. Clients can expect an empathic and caring, but no-nonsense, approach to tackling issues. I specialize in Military/Veteran issues, anxiety and trauma treatment to clients residing anywhere in TX, NC & AK. No travel required! I provide a non-judgmental atmosphere that enables frank, honest discussions that promote change. I have a good history with clients seeking out initial care as well as those who have been unsuccessful with other therapists. I do not accept insurance, as I believe care should be authentic and person-centered without coding or billing guidelines dictating care.
![Photo of Debra Bergman, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/999a6bce-a933-460f-b5ce-72c2af2e0a05/1/320x400.png)
I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 30 years of clinical experience. I have extensive experience working with individuals with issues like anxiety, depression, impulse control, addiction, chronic and life-threatening illness, life transitions, grief and loss, relationship/family problems, stress management, and job stress. I combine a variety of modalities, perspectives, and techniques including client-centered, cognitive behavioral, existential, humanistic, mindfulness, solution-focused, somatic, and trauma-informed care. My mission is to help you manage stress and find more balance in your life.
I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 30 years of clinical experience. I have extensive experience working with individuals with issues like anxiety, depression, impulse control, addiction, chronic and life-threatening illness, life transitions, grief and loss, relationship/family problems, stress management, and job stress. I combine a variety of modalities, perspectives, and techniques including client-centered, cognitive behavioral, existential, humanistic, mindfulness, solution-focused, somatic, and trauma-informed care. My mission is to help you manage stress and find more balance in your life.
![Photo of Jill Yang - Jill Yang, LCMHC, NCC, PLLC, MA, LCMHC, NCC, PLLC, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/3d355149-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/1/320x400.jpeg)
Jill Yang, LCMHC, NCC, PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCMHC, NCC, PLLC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southern Pines, NC 28387 (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Are you having issues with a difficult person? Are you tired of fighting and endless discussions? Do you have difficulty communicating your feelings. Do you suffer from anxiety or depression and it's impacting your relationships. Do you lack the motivation to make real changes in your life? Are you an empty nester and unsure how to move forward? Is your work and leisure time out of balance? Then let's talk because I can help.
Are you having issues with a difficult person? Are you tired of fighting and endless discussions? Do you have difficulty communicating your feelings. Do you suffer from anxiety or depression and it's impacting your relationships. Do you lack the motivation to make real changes in your life? Are you an empty nester and unsure how to move forward? Is your work and leisure time out of balance? Then let's talk because I can help.
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Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed with sadness or worry? Do you find yourself reliving past painful events? Are you struggling with life changes, grief, or relationship conflicts? Do you want to make changes, but just can’t seem to do it on your own? When faced with painful events in life, or struggle with difficult emotions, life can seem out of balance. You may become so overwhelmed that sometimes you may shut down or act out. These are all normal and common responses when under stress. Unfortunately, when you’re in a chronic state of stress, this may affect the way you relate to others and yourself.
Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed with sadness or worry? Do you find yourself reliving past painful events? Are you struggling with life changes, grief, or relationship conflicts? Do you want to make changes, but just can’t seem to do it on your own? When faced with painful events in life, or struggle with difficult emotions, life can seem out of balance. You may become so overwhelmed that sometimes you may shut down or act out. These are all normal and common responses when under stress. Unfortunately, when you’re in a chronic state of stress, this may affect the way you relate to others and yourself.
![Photo of Cindy W Hickman, MA, LCMHC, NCC](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/52372c38-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/2/320x400.jpeg)
Cindy W Hickman
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Southern Pines, NC 28387
Are you feeling stressed, overwhelmed with life, exhausted, anxious, or depressed? Have you experienced a stressful or traumatic life event? Perhaps you struggle with a chronic illness. Maybe you struggle with a difficult child or teen. Or maybe your partner has been unfaithful. Are you tired of feeling isolated and hopeless? You want- no, you need- things to change, but you don’t where to begin. Asking for help can be one of the most difficulty things to do, but I would be honored to help you discover your inner strength and begin your journey to healing and being who you are meant to be.
Are you feeling stressed, overwhelmed with life, exhausted, anxious, or depressed? Have you experienced a stressful or traumatic life event? Perhaps you struggle with a chronic illness. Maybe you struggle with a difficult child or teen. Or maybe your partner has been unfaithful. Are you tired of feeling isolated and hopeless? You want- no, you need- things to change, but you don’t where to begin. Asking for help can be one of the most difficulty things to do, but I would be honored to help you discover your inner strength and begin your journey to healing and being who you are meant to be.
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Katie Zale
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Pinehurst, NC 28374 (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Hi! I am thrilled you have taken the first step towards a more peaceful existence. I primarily work with adolescents through adulthood, with a special focus on young adults. Topics we can work on include feelings of depression, anxiety, disordered eating, perfectionism, people pleasing and life adjustments
Hi! I am thrilled you have taken the first step towards a more peaceful existence. I primarily work with adolescents through adulthood, with a special focus on young adults. Topics we can work on include feelings of depression, anxiety, disordered eating, perfectionism, people pleasing and life adjustments
![Photo of Nicole Sutton - Nicole Sutton LCSW, LCAS, PLLC, MSW, LCSW, LCAS, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/d31b70a8-1bc5-4e73-8640-dcaa9a1cd214/1/320x400.jpeg)
Nicole Sutton LCSW, LCAS, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LCAS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southern Pines, NC 28387
Stressors come in many forms: family issues, relationship struggles, grief and loss, addiction, health problems, just to name a few. Often, these create conflicts – internal and external – and confusion about who we are, what we stand for, and what our life priorities are. My approach is designed to help clients disentangle these conflicts and to make sense of the confusion. During this process, clients learn about self-validation, finding a stable sense of identity and self, effective communication in relationships with others and oneself, creating healthy boundaries, and reducing stress.
Stressors come in many forms: family issues, relationship struggles, grief and loss, addiction, health problems, just to name a few. Often, these create conflicts – internal and external – and confusion about who we are, what we stand for, and what our life priorities are. My approach is designed to help clients disentangle these conflicts and to make sense of the confusion. During this process, clients learn about self-validation, finding a stable sense of identity and self, effective communication in relationships with others and oneself, creating healthy boundaries, and reducing stress.
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Divorce Therapists
How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?
Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.
What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?
There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioral, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioral therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.
When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?
When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.
How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?
It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.