Sex Therapists in Wake Forest, NC
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Cree Jones
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFTA, MA, BA
Verified Verified
Wake Forest, NC 27587
I specialize in working with individuals, families, and couples with issues ranging from anxiety, communication, sex therapy, couples therapy, conflict, kink, LGBTQ+ issues, work stress, school stress, trauma, addiction, premarital counseling, intimacy issues, life transitions, depression, sexual issues, building trust, self-esteem/growth, and infidelity.
Accepting New Clients! Welcome! My name is Cree Jones and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate (LMFTA). I would love to become a part of your journey to be the best you that you can be. Life is not easy and it sometimes requires someone who can support you with your needs and wants and I can be that person. I strive to offer guidance and understanding to couples, families, and individuals and vows to create a safe environment for my clients that will allow them to identify their strengths in their individual and/or relational conflicts.
I specialize in working with individuals, families, and couples with issues ranging from anxiety, communication, sex therapy, couples therapy, conflict, kink, LGBTQ+ issues, work stress, school stress, trauma, addiction, premarital counseling, intimacy issues, life transitions, depression, sexual issues, building trust, self-esteem/growth, and infidelity.
Accepting New Clients! Welcome! My name is Cree Jones and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate (LMFTA). I would love to become a part of your journey to be the best you that you can be. Life is not easy and it sometimes requires someone who can support you with your needs and wants and I can be that person. I strive to offer guidance and understanding to couples, families, and individuals and vows to create a safe environment for my clients that will allow them to identify their strengths in their individual and/or relational conflicts.
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Bethany Dement
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Wake Forest, NC 27587
Feeling lost, overwhelmed by anxiety, or struggling with depression, ADHD, or trauma? Are social interactions tough, behaviors out of control, or is sexual content affecting your child or relationship? If emotional pain, connection issues, or intimacy challenges are creating tension or anxiety, know you're not alone. I'm Beth, a mental health counselor and ASSECT certified sex therapist with nearly four years of experience. I hold a master’s in counseling from Capella University (2021) and specialize in these areas to support your journey.
Feeling lost, overwhelmed by anxiety, or struggling with depression, ADHD, or trauma? Are social interactions tough, behaviors out of control, or is sexual content affecting your child or relationship? If emotional pain, connection issues, or intimacy challenges are creating tension or anxiety, know you're not alone. I'm Beth, a mental health counselor and ASSECT certified sex therapist with nearly four years of experience. I hold a master’s in counseling from Capella University (2021) and specialize in these areas to support your journey.
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Kyra Roberts
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
Wake Forest, NC 27587 (Online Only)
Embracing diversity and inclusivity, I wholeheartedly affirm and support clients of all sexual orientations and relationship types, creating a sex-positive environment that fosters growth and self-acceptance.
No matter how hard you try, you just can’t seem to get on the same page in your relationships and communication breaks down. That Spark has dwindled or an erosion of trust has occurred due to past hurts. Perhaps a pattern of unhealthy relationships has left you feeling confused and defeated. Whatever the cause, you feel a sense of disconnection either from yourself or your relationship. Together, we will untangle the knots of miscommunication, confront these relationship patterns, and work towards the fulfilling relationship and life you want and deserve, whatever that may look like for you.
Embracing diversity and inclusivity, I wholeheartedly affirm and support clients of all sexual orientations and relationship types, creating a sex-positive environment that fosters growth and self-acceptance.
No matter how hard you try, you just can’t seem to get on the same page in your relationships and communication breaks down. That Spark has dwindled or an erosion of trust has occurred due to past hurts. Perhaps a pattern of unhealthy relationships has left you feeling confused and defeated. Whatever the cause, you feel a sense of disconnection either from yourself or your relationship. Together, we will untangle the knots of miscommunication, confront these relationship patterns, and work towards the fulfilling relationship and life you want and deserve, whatever that may look like for you.
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Carole Cullen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Wake Forest, NC 27587
I know that you want to have an amazing love story. In order to do that, you need to have a great connection with your partner. The problem is that years of ups and downs can take its toll on relationships and maybe your relationship just isn’t working, which often leaves you feeling frustrated and disconnected.
I know that you want to have an amazing love story. In order to do that, you need to have a great connection with your partner. The problem is that years of ups and downs can take its toll on relationships and maybe your relationship just isn’t working, which often leaves you feeling frustrated and disconnected.
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Katherine E. Walker
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, PhD, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Wake Forest, NC 27587
Combining a number of evidenced-based and complementary therapeutic approaches, I work with clients to achieve a greater sense of awareness, empowerment, and develop better solutions and strategies to resolve their intrapersonal and interpersonal issues and problems. I believe that, as people become more aware and accepting of themselves, they are more capable of finding peace and contentment in their lives. Together we will work to identify goals, explore areas where you feel stuck or lost, approach it in a way that feels safe and manageable, and strive to improve resiliency, adaptability, assertiveness, and empowerment.
Combining a number of evidenced-based and complementary therapeutic approaches, I work with clients to achieve a greater sense of awareness, empowerment, and develop better solutions and strategies to resolve their intrapersonal and interpersonal issues and problems. I believe that, as people become more aware and accepting of themselves, they are more capable of finding peace and contentment in their lives. Together we will work to identify goals, explore areas where you feel stuck or lost, approach it in a way that feels safe and manageable, and strive to improve resiliency, adaptability, assertiveness, and empowerment.
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At My-Therapist, we are a compassionate and dedicated team of licensed therapists with years of experience in the field of mental health. We are committed to helping individuals and couples achieve their emotional well-being through evidence-based therapeutic approaches. We can help couples & families in the greater Raleigh area of North Carolina and online in North Carolina, Georgia, and Virginia.
At My-Therapist, we are a compassionate and dedicated team of licensed therapists with years of experience in the field of mental health. We are committed to helping individuals and couples achieve their emotional well-being through evidence-based therapeutic approaches. We can help couples & families in the greater Raleigh area of North Carolina and online in North Carolina, Georgia, and Virginia.
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Andrea Kinnaugh
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Wake Forest, NC 27587
Each person seeks out therapy for different reasons. As we begin our work together, my goal is that we create an authentic space for you to explore where you are, the experiences you have had, what you feel is holding you back, and what you are hoping to change.
Each person seeks out therapy for different reasons. As we begin our work together, my goal is that we create an authentic space for you to explore where you are, the experiences you have had, what you feel is holding you back, and what you are hoping to change.
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LifeCare Counseling and Coaching, PC
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervisor, LCMHCs, LMFTs, LCSWs, MD, PA, NPs
Verified Verified
13 Endorsed
Wake Forest, NC 27587
At LifeCare Counseling & Coaching, we are passionate about serving others by integrating the best psychiatric and mental health practices as well as spiritual care for the soul. Our team of licensed practitioners provide therapeutic services to individuals, couples, and families of all kinds. We are a multi-site practice located at the Raleigh/Cary border, Wake Forest, Brier Creek, Holly Springs, Chapel Hill and the Triad area. In addition, many of our providers offer online therapy and we have interns who offer counseling on a sliding scale.
At LifeCare Counseling & Coaching, we are passionate about serving others by integrating the best psychiatric and mental health practices as well as spiritual care for the soul. Our team of licensed practitioners provide therapeutic services to individuals, couples, and families of all kinds. We are a multi-site practice located at the Raleigh/Cary border, Wake Forest, Brier Creek, Holly Springs, Chapel Hill and the Triad area. In addition, many of our providers offer online therapy and we have interns who offer counseling on a sliding scale.
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Christian Counseling Associates Raleigh
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, DMin, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wake Forest, NC 27587
Dr. Mike and Rhonda Garrett provide trusted Christian counseling and life coaching for individuals and couples in North Raleigh, NC. We specialize in marriages, communication, conflict resolution, infidelity, sexual addiction, trauma (EMDR), spiritual issues, anxiety, depression, grief and repairing and restoring relationships. We also offer adolescent and adult individual therapy and cover a broad range of needs and requests. Over 35 years of marriage, counseling, and ministry experience.
Dr. Mike and Rhonda Garrett provide trusted Christian counseling and life coaching for individuals and couples in North Raleigh, NC. We specialize in marriages, communication, conflict resolution, infidelity, sexual addiction, trauma (EMDR), spiritual issues, anxiety, depression, grief and repairing and restoring relationships. We also offer adolescent and adult individual therapy and cover a broad range of needs and requests. Over 35 years of marriage, counseling, and ministry experience.
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The process of working with a new client is to gather pertinent information about the client's psychosocial, environment, and past family history to help accurately diagnose the client. Once a diagnosis is made then a treatment plan would be developed conjointly between the client and me utilizing S.M.A.R.T. goals. S.M.A.R.T. goals are specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-based goals that would help the client be successful in treatment. If you are looking for a counselor who is genuine, compassionate, authentic, and who will listen and care about your concerns. Then I am here to help you restore your self-worth.
The process of working with a new client is to gather pertinent information about the client's psychosocial, environment, and past family history to help accurately diagnose the client. Once a diagnosis is made then a treatment plan would be developed conjointly between the client and me utilizing S.M.A.R.T. goals. S.M.A.R.T. goals are specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-based goals that would help the client be successful in treatment. If you are looking for a counselor who is genuine, compassionate, authentic, and who will listen and care about your concerns. Then I am here to help you restore your self-worth.
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Caitlin Kline Lindsey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wake Forest, NC 27587
When I was a defiant and moody adolescent, my parents sought therapy for me. The therapy room was place in which I felt understood. I was able to learn great insight into how I think and understanding others' perspectives. It was through that experience that I was inspired to create an environment for others that was both validating and encouraging. I try to establish a therapeutic relationship that enables each person to make progress with their goals, whether it be their self-esteem, interpersonal relationships, managing challenging emotions, or getting through an especially challenging life event.
When I was a defiant and moody adolescent, my parents sought therapy for me. The therapy room was place in which I felt understood. I was able to learn great insight into how I think and understanding others' perspectives. It was through that experience that I was inspired to create an environment for others that was both validating and encouraging. I try to establish a therapeutic relationship that enables each person to make progress with their goals, whether it be their self-esteem, interpersonal relationships, managing challenging emotions, or getting through an especially challenging life event.
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At Insight Family Center, LLC we provide premium psychiatry,mental health and substance abuse services. Our priority is to provide our clients with techniques that will assist them in obtaining their desired outcomes to reach their personal goals.
At Insight Family Center, LLC we provide premium psychiatry,mental health and substance abuse services. Our priority is to provide our clients with techniques that will assist them in obtaining their desired outcomes to reach their personal goals.
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Sometimes the strongest thing you can do is ask for help. Are you hurting, feeling anxious or depressed? Seeking EMDR therapy? Do you have a secret that is crushing you? I am here to help. With over 25 years experience helping people work through a variety of issues, I believe I can help you find hope and experience courage to overcome your challenges. Whatever you are experiencing and feeling, I believe that the therapeutic relationship is a wonderful place of safety and acceptance where you can process your thoughts and feelings, whatever they may be. Life is a struggle, but I will help you struggle in the right direction.
Sometimes the strongest thing you can do is ask for help. Are you hurting, feeling anxious or depressed? Seeking EMDR therapy? Do you have a secret that is crushing you? I am here to help. With over 25 years experience helping people work through a variety of issues, I believe I can help you find hope and experience courage to overcome your challenges. Whatever you are experiencing and feeling, I believe that the therapeutic relationship is a wonderful place of safety and acceptance where you can process your thoughts and feelings, whatever they may be. Life is a struggle, but I will help you struggle in the right direction.
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As a Baltimore native and veteran, I am committed to serving my community. I graduated from Brescia University with my BSW (2016) and MSW (2019). I also received a Certificate in Sports Social Work from Michigan State University. If you are an athlete, an individual, couple, or family, I can assist you with life difficulties, stress, anxiety, trauma, depression, mood disorders, and eating disorders. If your goals are to increase your self esteem, decrease stress, anxiety, or depression, or overcome childhood trauma I can assist with meeting your goals. I offer modalities such as EMDR, CBT, DBT, Etc.
As a Baltimore native and veteran, I am committed to serving my community. I graduated from Brescia University with my BSW (2016) and MSW (2019). I also received a Certificate in Sports Social Work from Michigan State University. If you are an athlete, an individual, couple, or family, I can assist you with life difficulties, stress, anxiety, trauma, depression, mood disorders, and eating disorders. If your goals are to increase your self esteem, decrease stress, anxiety, or depression, or overcome childhood trauma I can assist with meeting your goals. I offer modalities such as EMDR, CBT, DBT, Etc.
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Alyssa Doberstein
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27616
I am trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples, and hold a Sex Therapy Certificate from the California Institute of Integral Studies.
Finding a therapist that you connect with and feel understood by is an integral part of therapy. I help people work towards improved connection within themselves, their relationships, and their sexuality. At times we may struggle to communicate and connect with our partners, experience a lack of passion and romance, or have difficulty managing life struggles, distressing events, or conflict in our relationships. Therapy can be a chance to rediscover yourself, your relationships, and heal from painful life experiences while exploring new skills and resources to grow and develop increased relationship and life satisfaction.
I am trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples, and hold a Sex Therapy Certificate from the California Institute of Integral Studies.
Finding a therapist that you connect with and feel understood by is an integral part of therapy. I help people work towards improved connection within themselves, their relationships, and their sexuality. At times we may struggle to communicate and connect with our partners, experience a lack of passion and romance, or have difficulty managing life struggles, distressing events, or conflict in our relationships. Therapy can be a chance to rediscover yourself, your relationships, and heal from painful life experiences while exploring new skills and resources to grow and develop increased relationship and life satisfaction.
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I am a Licensed Psychologist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and I specialize in couples & sex therapy, affairs, trauma recovery, as well as depression, anxiety, bipolar, & other mental health issues.
I delight in working with couples to repair troubled relationships & find a deeper, more secure connection with one another by helping partners bring their needs into awareness, share those unmasked parts, and transform old patterns of communication & interaction. I strive to create a safe, non-judgmental space, whatever your orientation, identity, ethnicity, or sexual preference. I meet my clients where they are & am open, compassionate, and curious, whether we are discussing interpersonal conflicts, relationship issues, or other stressors. I am honored by the individuals & couples who have let me join them in those places.
I am a Licensed Psychologist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and I specialize in couples & sex therapy, affairs, trauma recovery, as well as depression, anxiety, bipolar, & other mental health issues.
I delight in working with couples to repair troubled relationships & find a deeper, more secure connection with one another by helping partners bring their needs into awareness, share those unmasked parts, and transform old patterns of communication & interaction. I strive to create a safe, non-judgmental space, whatever your orientation, identity, ethnicity, or sexual preference. I meet my clients where they are & am open, compassionate, and curious, whether we are discussing interpersonal conflicts, relationship issues, or other stressors. I am honored by the individuals & couples who have let me join them in those places.
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Helena Alexis Johnson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27616 (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I offer a collaborative approach to foster healing from depression, anxiety, relationship issues, sex disorders (male and female), and trauma.
Do you struggle with low libido, sexual dysfunction, depression/anxiety, or the stress of everyday life? Are you struggling to connect physically/emotionally/sexually with your partner? Is communication strained? If so, I am here to help you develop the skills you need to get through life's most challenging moments. Daily, people are searching for relief from internal struggles, personal hardships, and sexual challenges. I want to be the one to help you with any of these issues. Additionally, as a black therapist, I am aware of the struggles people and women of color face on a daily basis. I take pride in helping all heal.
I offer a collaborative approach to foster healing from depression, anxiety, relationship issues, sex disorders (male and female), and trauma.
Do you struggle with low libido, sexual dysfunction, depression/anxiety, or the stress of everyday life? Are you struggling to connect physically/emotionally/sexually with your partner? Is communication strained? If so, I am here to help you develop the skills you need to get through life's most challenging moments. Daily, people are searching for relief from internal struggles, personal hardships, and sexual challenges. I want to be the one to help you with any of these issues. Additionally, as a black therapist, I am aware of the struggles people and women of color face on a daily basis. I take pride in helping all heal.
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Lauren Campbell, LCSW, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, PLLC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27616
Specializing in sex therapy and relationship issues, I work with individuals and couples to improve relational and sexual intimacy. Areas of treatment include sexual or performance anxiety, pain issues, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, difficulty with orgasms, differing levels of desire/libido, attachment issues and past trauma, and relational/communication issues. So many feel helpless, that there is no hope that their lives can improve. I help to awaken and restore wellness in body and mind when you are unsure of how to move forward. All you need is to be open to the possibility than things can change.
Specializing in sex therapy and relationship issues, I work with individuals and couples to improve relational and sexual intimacy. Areas of treatment include sexual or performance anxiety, pain issues, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, difficulty with orgasms, differing levels of desire/libido, attachment issues and past trauma, and relational/communication issues. So many feel helpless, that there is no hope that their lives can improve. I help to awaken and restore wellness in body and mind when you are unsure of how to move forward. All you need is to be open to the possibility than things can change.
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Kandice Van Beerschoten Sex Therapist
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27614 (Online Only)
As a Certified Sex Therapist, my specialties are BDSM and ethical non-monogamy - NO JUDGMENT.
Have you lost control? Do you put the needs of others first? Is it hard for you to say "no" to people? Do you feel disconnected? Are your relationships suffering? Your sex life? You're exhausted, ready for something to change, but need to feel confident that your therapist will understand not only your issues, but your lifestyle. If this sounds familiar, then I would love to help you. For two decades, I've worked with people just like you, helping them sort through the intricacies of life and relationships. It's easy to get stuck when you start making changes, but therapy is a great way to move forward.
As a Certified Sex Therapist, my specialties are BDSM and ethical non-monogamy - NO JUDGMENT.
Have you lost control? Do you put the needs of others first? Is it hard for you to say "no" to people? Do you feel disconnected? Are your relationships suffering? Your sex life? You're exhausted, ready for something to change, but need to feel confident that your therapist will understand not only your issues, but your lifestyle. If this sounds familiar, then I would love to help you. For two decades, I've worked with people just like you, helping them sort through the intricacies of life and relationships. It's easy to get stuck when you start making changes, but therapy is a great way to move forward.
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Corrine Shuster
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27609 (Online Only)
I use an integrative approach to help address your specific needs and concerns with sex, intimacy and self.
Growth is possible. If you are struggling to find answers, then I am here to help. I have extensive knowledge about a variety of mental health, relationship, and sexual issues. I am trauma informed and believe healing is possible. I offer telehealth therapy across North Carolina.
I use an integrative approach to help address your specific needs and concerns with sex, intimacy and self.
Growth is possible. If you are struggling to find answers, then I am here to help. I have extensive knowledge about a variety of mental health, relationship, and sexual issues. I am trauma informed and believe healing is possible. I offer telehealth therapy across North Carolina.
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Sex Therapy
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.