Infidelity Therapists in Shelby, NC
LDH Counseling and Consulting, PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Shelby, NC 28150
I look forward to assisting you with developing the skills to live a more abundant life while implementing the tools that you already have! Life can be hard at times and with the right coping skills, life can be more manageable to those experiencing depression, grief, anxiety, substance use, and other mental health issues. Working with those who have experienced relationship issues, such as infidelity, abuse (domestic, verbal and/ or physical) can learn how to become a survivor instead of a victim. I know that building a healthy therapeutic relationship is the first step in the therapy process in a non-judgmental environment.
I look forward to assisting you with developing the skills to live a more abundant life while implementing the tools that you already have! Life can be hard at times and with the right coping skills, life can be more manageable to those experiencing depression, grief, anxiety, substance use, and other mental health issues. Working with those who have experienced relationship issues, such as infidelity, abuse (domestic, verbal and/ or physical) can learn how to become a survivor instead of a victim. I know that building a healthy therapeutic relationship is the first step in the therapy process in a non-judgmental environment.
Hello and welcome. I’m Sarah, a therapist committed to guiding you through life’s challenges, be it grief, relationship issues, depression, anxiety, or life transitions. Your journey towards healing and self-discovery is a courageous step. You are ready to be curious about yourself, to cultivate self-awareness, and begin the fulfilling work of becoming more whole and healed. Together, we can unlock the freedom and new paths that await you on the other side of this process.
Hello and welcome. I’m Sarah, a therapist committed to guiding you through life’s challenges, be it grief, relationship issues, depression, anxiety, or life transitions. Your journey towards healing and self-discovery is a courageous step. You are ready to be curious about yourself, to cultivate self-awareness, and begin the fulfilling work of becoming more whole and healed. Together, we can unlock the freedom and new paths that await you on the other side of this process.
As a counselor, I love collaborating with clients to find out what their goals are and help set a course to achieve them. Whatever the presenting problem, it is my privilege to work with you to explore what solutions we can find together. We can tackle specific problems that you encounter in your relationships, workday, or social settings. We can also seek to understand the root of issues that seem to interfere in these same areas. You will be at the wheel while I help you navigate the road to improved mental health. We can start right away.
As a counselor, I love collaborating with clients to find out what their goals are and help set a course to achieve them. Whatever the presenting problem, it is my privilege to work with you to explore what solutions we can find together. We can tackle specific problems that you encounter in your relationships, workday, or social settings. We can also seek to understand the root of issues that seem to interfere in these same areas. You will be at the wheel while I help you navigate the road to improved mental health. We can start right away.
I am a sole practitioner who provides a safe, comfortable space for all individuals. I utilize a personalized approach to work with individuals, couples and families in finding their path to healthier mind, body and family dynamics. I work with individuals, couples and families suffering from depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress, postpartum depression, substance use disorders, career counseling, fertility issues, grief and loss, chronic pain and/or chronic illness like autoimmune disorders. My goal is to help all clients find their path and their voice in their lives. I can also utilize video appointments.
I am a sole practitioner who provides a safe, comfortable space for all individuals. I utilize a personalized approach to work with individuals, couples and families in finding their path to healthier mind, body and family dynamics. I work with individuals, couples and families suffering from depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress, postpartum depression, substance use disorders, career counseling, fertility issues, grief and loss, chronic pain and/or chronic illness like autoimmune disorders. My goal is to help all clients find their path and their voice in their lives. I can also utilize video appointments.
Mary Beth Johnson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Shelby, NC 28150
Do you find yourself tired of having other people's worldviews and judgments imposed upon you? Do you feel that no matter how hard you try, nothing you do is ever enough? It is my goal to provide a safe space where clients can truly be themselves without fear of judgment. As a result, I do not believe in a one size fits all approach to therapy. I work to tailor each session to fit the needs of the person/persons in front of me.
Do you find yourself tired of having other people's worldviews and judgments imposed upon you? Do you feel that no matter how hard you try, nothing you do is ever enough? It is my goal to provide a safe space where clients can truly be themselves without fear of judgment. As a result, I do not believe in a one size fits all approach to therapy. I work to tailor each session to fit the needs of the person/persons in front of me.
I enjoy helping men, women, their marriages, and their families. While I specialize in individual and marriages, I do provide counseling to all who pass through our doors. Sometimes women need a male's perspective on things, while kids may need an outside adult figure to get a different perspective or role model. I also specialize in helping men overcome masculine passivity, pornography addiction and sexual integrity.
I enjoy helping men, women, their marriages, and their families. While I specialize in individual and marriages, I do provide counseling to all who pass through our doors. Sometimes women need a male's perspective on things, while kids may need an outside adult figure to get a different perspective or role model. I also specialize in helping men overcome masculine passivity, pornography addiction and sexual integrity.
Rauch Mind Body Therapy
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, Stephanie Rauch, PhD, , LPC, Trager
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Shelby, NC 28150
You do not have to be sick to get better. I believe in paying attention to experience not what is bad or wrong. We can all learn skills to improve. My past experience as a world ranked professional tennis player gives me insight to work with high school, collegiate and professional athletes or anyone in this age. I work from a depth model, which encourages self-exploration to improve skills. The exploration helps one become conscious of long standing coping mechanisms that may no longer be as valuable as they once were. Learning what you do that blocks happiness empowers you to make choices that lead to a satisfying life.
You do not have to be sick to get better. I believe in paying attention to experience not what is bad or wrong. We can all learn skills to improve. My past experience as a world ranked professional tennis player gives me insight to work with high school, collegiate and professional athletes or anyone in this age. I work from a depth model, which encourages self-exploration to improve skills. The exploration helps one become conscious of long standing coping mechanisms that may no longer be as valuable as they once were. Learning what you do that blocks happiness empowers you to make choices that lead to a satisfying life.
More Therapists Nearby
Hi, I'm so happy you're here! My name is Lori Brinkley and I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 23 years of clinical experience. I treat a wide range of areas including trauma, abuse, depression, anxiety, postpartum, adult children of alcoholics, co-dependency, parenting/co-parenting, boundaries, divorce, caretaking, work-life balance, adoptees, and couples feeling disconnected and isolated. I also provide "couple's counseling for one" which is when one partner is not ready for therapy, where I meet with the willing participant to learn new tools, coping skills, & boundaries to implement in their relationship.
Hi, I'm so happy you're here! My name is Lori Brinkley and I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 23 years of clinical experience. I treat a wide range of areas including trauma, abuse, depression, anxiety, postpartum, adult children of alcoholics, co-dependency, parenting/co-parenting, boundaries, divorce, caretaking, work-life balance, adoptees, and couples feeling disconnected and isolated. I also provide "couple's counseling for one" which is when one partner is not ready for therapy, where I meet with the willing participant to learn new tools, coping skills, & boundaries to implement in their relationship.
Online Therapists
Marinela Eriksson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, NC LMFT, EMDR
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28226
Waitlist for new clients
Marinela specializes in working with trauma, marital distress, infidelity, and anxiety.
Marinela’s mission is to guide her clients in the direction of health and balance. Whether you’re facing marital distress, personal struggles, seeking to heal from trauma, or entering into a new phase of life, Marinela will walk alongside to help you navigate and understand your experiences.
Marinela specializes in working with trauma, marital distress, infidelity, and anxiety.
Marinela’s mission is to guide her clients in the direction of health and balance. Whether you’re facing marital distress, personal struggles, seeking to heal from trauma, or entering into a new phase of life, Marinela will walk alongside to help you navigate and understand your experiences.
Michelle Holleman
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, MS, LCAS, CSAT, CPTT, CMAT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28226
Sex/love/pornography addiction often includes an element of betrayal and the trauma accompanying this is real and significant.
It is my honor to be a part of your healing journey and recovery. Nothing is really a problem, until it becomes a problem. My mission is to guide people to heal and find their authentic selves via an exceptional therapeutic process and experience. As a Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, I specialize in supporting teens, adults, and their loved ones recover from sex/love, pornography, internet/gaming, mental health issues, and drug and alcohol addiction/dependency. There is no judgement and I welcome all. This is a safe place to heal.
Sex/love/pornography addiction often includes an element of betrayal and the trauma accompanying this is real and significant.
It is my honor to be a part of your healing journey and recovery. Nothing is really a problem, until it becomes a problem. My mission is to guide people to heal and find their authentic selves via an exceptional therapeutic process and experience. As a Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, I specialize in supporting teens, adults, and their loved ones recover from sex/love, pornography, internet/gaming, mental health issues, and drug and alcohol addiction/dependency. There is no judgement and I welcome all. This is a safe place to heal.
Scott Alan Smith
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCMHC, CSAT, CPTT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28226
Hello! I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and a Certified Partner Trauma Therapist. I am also a Licensed Professional Counselor in the STate of South Carolina. I have a master's degree in Christian counseling from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary. I have been working as a therapist since 2012, specializing in helping couples and individuals with sex addiction, betrayal trauma, relationships, and mental health problems, including anxiety, depression, grief and loss.
Hello! I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and a Certified Partner Trauma Therapist. I am also a Licensed Professional Counselor in the STate of South Carolina. I have a master's degree in Christian counseling from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary. I have been working as a therapist since 2012, specializing in helping couples and individuals with sex addiction, betrayal trauma, relationships, and mental health problems, including anxiety, depression, grief and loss.
Carmella S. Whitehead
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28210
I work with men who are experiencing challenges such as anxiety, issues in sex and relationships, divorce, infidelity, financial and work-related stress, and trauma. Finding the right therapist can feel both overwhelming and essential. The genuineness of the relationship you have with your therapist plays a significant role in your therapeutic success. Our work together will be grounded in respect, trust, curiosity, and security, fostering deep self-exploration and understanding. We'll address your concerns and develop practical solutions to help you lead a more fulfilling and empowered life.
I work with men who are experiencing challenges such as anxiety, issues in sex and relationships, divorce, infidelity, financial and work-related stress, and trauma. Finding the right therapist can feel both overwhelming and essential. The genuineness of the relationship you have with your therapist plays a significant role in your therapeutic success. Our work together will be grounded in respect, trust, curiosity, and security, fostering deep self-exploration and understanding. We'll address your concerns and develop practical solutions to help you lead a more fulfilling and empowered life.
Whether it’s communication, sex, parenting, or infidelity, I appreciate the vulnerability, grit and surrender involved in the process of growth.
•••Immediate Openings Available••• You promise yourself you won’t get into the same fight again, but then you inevitably do. It just happens so fast, and now the two of you are going in familiar circles. Maybe one of you gets walled off and seems to just…disappear. Or maybe one of you starts to fight harder, increasing the emotional intensity just to get through. There was once so much love here, but it’s hard to feel it when you’re caught up in a vicious cycle. These experiences can be downright excruciating, and counseling can help you navigate.
Whether it’s communication, sex, parenting, or infidelity, I appreciate the vulnerability, grit and surrender involved in the process of growth.
•••Immediate Openings Available••• You promise yourself you won’t get into the same fight again, but then you inevitably do. It just happens so fast, and now the two of you are going in familiar circles. Maybe one of you gets walled off and seems to just…disappear. Or maybe one of you starts to fight harder, increasing the emotional intensity just to get through. There was once so much love here, but it’s hard to feel it when you’re caught up in a vicious cycle. These experiences can be downright excruciating, and counseling can help you navigate.
I treat depression, anxiety, anger, infidelity, abuse, AD/HD, divorce adjustment, grief, adoption, PTSD, parenting and behavioral issues.
Transitions can be difficult. The decision to change is both challenging and rewarding. I provide an atmosphere of confidentiality, warmth and respect where you can ask questions and explore solutions. I will listen and provide tools to help you. We can address difficulties in your work, home and social settings. Therapy offers you a supportive place where you can process your experiences, gain perspective and make decisions that help you move forward.
I treat depression, anxiety, anger, infidelity, abuse, AD/HD, divorce adjustment, grief, adoption, PTSD, parenting and behavioral issues.
Transitions can be difficult. The decision to change is both challenging and rewarding. I provide an atmosphere of confidentiality, warmth and respect where you can ask questions and explore solutions. I will listen and provide tools to help you. We can address difficulties in your work, home and social settings. Therapy offers you a supportive place where you can process your experiences, gain perspective and make decisions that help you move forward.
Sheila Maitland Relationship Enrichment Center
Counselor, LCMHCS, LCMHCA, LCSW, CSAT, CPTT
Verified Verified
25 Endorsed
Matthews, NC 28105
Many of our clients look good on the outside, yet feel mildly miserable on the inside. Pain is motivating and when clients are hurting, they call to schedule an appointment. It takes more than intellect to change behavior. Most of our clients are intelligent and know what they "should" do, yet struggle to take action. Our team works with people (and/or partners) who struggle with substances and behavioral medicators such as alcohol, porn, perfection and codependency. We treat individuals, couples and families that need help with addiction, mental illness, infidelity or simply feeling stuck. It is a relief to not have to do it alone.
Many of our clients look good on the outside, yet feel mildly miserable on the inside. Pain is motivating and when clients are hurting, they call to schedule an appointment. It takes more than intellect to change behavior. Most of our clients are intelligent and know what they "should" do, yet struggle to take action. Our team works with people (and/or partners) who struggle with substances and behavioral medicators such as alcohol, porn, perfection and codependency. We treat individuals, couples and families that need help with addiction, mental illness, infidelity or simply feeling stuck. It is a relief to not have to do it alone.
Leon Matthews
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, NC LMFT, SC, LMFTA
Verified Verified
Charlotte, NC 28210
In this busy and sometimes difficult life, you may find yourself in need of support. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), I provide specialized support to individuals, couples, and families. Whether you are struggling with work life balance, life's disappointments, grief, relationship issues, infertility, infidelity, self-esteem, or simply becoming the person you want to be, I am able to support you. I am committed to helping you build a healthy life and better relationships. I will help you become the best version of you.
In this busy and sometimes difficult life, you may find yourself in need of support. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), I provide specialized support to individuals, couples, and families. Whether you are struggling with work life balance, life's disappointments, grief, relationship issues, infertility, infidelity, self-esteem, or simply becoming the person you want to be, I am able to support you. I am committed to helping you build a healthy life and better relationships. I will help you become the best version of you.
Anna Taylor Boulware
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, MA, NCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Cornelius, NC 28031
I see infidelity as trauma in relationships, and use my certified partner trauma training to help you find emotional safety and self-compassion.
I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in North Carolina, an Associate Partner Trauma Therapist, and a Nationally Certified Counselor. I am also trained as a child-centered play therapist. I work with children who struggle with anxiety, difficulty in family or school situations, depression, behavioral concerns, trauma, or grief and loss. With adults, I have extensive background in betrayal, anxiety, trauma, and depression. My priority is to help you find a sense of safety within yourself & relationships. I also specialize in couples therapy working on communication skills, trust, infidelity, and conflict.
I see infidelity as trauma in relationships, and use my certified partner trauma training to help you find emotional safety and self-compassion.
I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in North Carolina, an Associate Partner Trauma Therapist, and a Nationally Certified Counselor. I am also trained as a child-centered play therapist. I work with children who struggle with anxiety, difficulty in family or school situations, depression, behavioral concerns, trauma, or grief and loss. With adults, I have extensive background in betrayal, anxiety, trauma, and depression. My priority is to help you find a sense of safety within yourself & relationships. I also specialize in couples therapy working on communication skills, trust, infidelity, and conflict.
Hopeful Expectations Counseling & Consulting Group
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCMHC-S
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28262
I use an assessment tool which was founded on 40+ years of research to help couples successfully manage conflict, overcome infidelity and learn to communicate effectively.
*******NOW ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS***Has arguing with your mate become your new normal? Are you having a difficult time effectively communicating with your mate? Has the lack of intimacy in your relationship caused you to feel stressed and hopeless? If you answered yes to at least one of the aforementioned questions, I am here to help. Using evidence based practices, I help committed couples work through the difficulties that they face within their relationships.
I use an assessment tool which was founded on 40+ years of research to help couples successfully manage conflict, overcome infidelity and learn to communicate effectively.
*******NOW ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS***Has arguing with your mate become your new normal? Are you having a difficult time effectively communicating with your mate? Has the lack of intimacy in your relationship caused you to feel stressed and hopeless? If you answered yes to at least one of the aforementioned questions, I am here to help. Using evidence based practices, I help committed couples work through the difficulties that they face within their relationships.
My clinical experience includes, but is not limited to, working with issues of anxiety and OCD; relationship struggles; life transitions; pre-marital stress; divorce and discernment; infidelity and sexual dysfunction.
Are you looking to strengthen and improve your relationships? I believe that the quality of our relationships directly impacts the quality of our lives. My goal as a therapist is to help my clients increase their awareness of themselves and their relationships while providing skills to help them improve areas of their life.
My clinical experience includes, but is not limited to, working with issues of anxiety and OCD; relationship struggles; life transitions; pre-marital stress; divorce and discernment; infidelity and sexual dysfunction.
Are you looking to strengthen and improve your relationships? I believe that the quality of our relationships directly impacts the quality of our lives. My goal as a therapist is to help my clients increase their awareness of themselves and their relationships while providing skills to help them improve areas of their life.
Jessica McCall
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT-S, CSAT, CPTT, EMDR
Verified Verified
12 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28210
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Supervisor (LMFT-S), Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), Certified Partner Trauma Therapist (CPTT), and trauma therapist (EMDR). I walk with clients through emotional healing, addiction recovery, and relationship repair. I help individuals and couples struggling with infidelity, betrayal, trust, intimacy, sex, process addictions (sex/porn, love, work, etc.), communication, and complex or attachment-oriented trauma. I am also Certified to work with premarital couples as a Prepare/Enrich Facilitator and I am trained in Discernment Counseling to help couples considering divorce.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Supervisor (LMFT-S), Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), Certified Partner Trauma Therapist (CPTT), and trauma therapist (EMDR). I walk with clients through emotional healing, addiction recovery, and relationship repair. I help individuals and couples struggling with infidelity, betrayal, trust, intimacy, sex, process addictions (sex/porn, love, work, etc.), communication, and complex or attachment-oriented trauma. I am also Certified to work with premarital couples as a Prepare/Enrich Facilitator and I am trained in Discernment Counseling to help couples considering divorce.
See more therapy options for Shelby
Nearby Infidelity Therapists Searches for Shelby
- Belmont
- Conover
- Cramerton
- Denver
- Gastonia
- Hickory
- Kings Mountain
- Morganton
- Mount Holly
- Newton
- Rutherfordton
- Sherrills Ford
Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.