Emotionally Focused Therapists in Salisbury, NC

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Cere Counseling and Wellness
Counselor, MABC, LCMHC, LPC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Salisbury, NC 28144
When it comes to counseling, Cere takes a person-by-person approach. Every individual is unique. Each of us comes to counseling for nuanced reasons. In order to best serve you, we will get to know each other and identify and address your specific needs. At Cere, there’s no “one-size-fits-all” approach. We work to serve you best, exactly where and as you are. Specific care emphases include: family background as personal influence in decision- making, view of self, and initial relation to others; Christian insight drawn from Scripture with application to help you heal, grow in your spiritual life.
When it comes to counseling, Cere takes a person-by-person approach. Every individual is unique. Each of us comes to counseling for nuanced reasons. In order to best serve you, we will get to know each other and identify and address your specific needs. At Cere, there’s no “one-size-fits-all” approach. We work to serve you best, exactly where and as you are. Specific care emphases include: family background as personal influence in decision- making, view of self, and initial relation to others; Christian insight drawn from Scripture with application to help you heal, grow in your spiritual life.
(980) 399-5581 View (980) 399-5581
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Pamala T Love
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, TF-CBT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Salisbury, NC 28144  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Research shows the benefits of therapy last longer than medication alone. People struggling with emotional difficulties, life challenges, and mental health concerns should look for a counselor or therapist to help them. Let's talk and see if I am a good fit for you. Locate my appointment calendars by going straight to https://headway.co/providers/pamala-love?fbclid=IwAR2wMrsWuYS7w2mMXE-dK5Q76ZKhGFH7Zdkw1hecNaX3ndL59eGQWo8QFi8 for NC and https://www.pathmentalhealth.com/providers/GA/1396892055-pamala-love for GA.
Research shows the benefits of therapy last longer than medication alone. People struggling with emotional difficulties, life challenges, and mental health concerns should look for a counselor or therapist to help them. Let's talk and see if I am a good fit for you. Locate my appointment calendars by going straight to https://headway.co/providers/pamala-love?fbclid=IwAR2wMrsWuYS7w2mMXE-dK5Q76ZKhGFH7Zdkw1hecNaX3ndL59eGQWo8QFi8 for NC and https://www.pathmentalhealth.com/providers/GA/1396892055-pamala-love for GA.
(910) 541-9114 View (910) 541-9114
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Jasmine Peebles
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSW, LCSWA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Salisbury, NC 28144
We are all inherently relational beings. But what happens when we struggle to manage these relationships effectively? What if we don’t know how to nurture the relationship with ourselves, which is crucial for building healthy connections with others? I’m here to help you navigate these complexities and restore a healthy relationship with yourself first, and then with others. With a strong focus on empowerment and goal setting, we will work together to guide you towards becoming the best version of yourself. Remember, “Every moment is a fresh beginning." (T.S. Elliott)
We are all inherently relational beings. But what happens when we struggle to manage these relationships effectively? What if we don’t know how to nurture the relationship with ourselves, which is crucial for building healthy connections with others? I’m here to help you navigate these complexities and restore a healthy relationship with yourself first, and then with others. With a strong focus on empowerment and goal setting, we will work together to guide you towards becoming the best version of yourself. Remember, “Every moment is a fresh beginning." (T.S. Elliott)
(336) 975-9144 View (336) 975-9144
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Crystal D Anderson
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, NCC, LCAS-R
Verified Verified
Salisbury, NC 28144  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Be the reflection of your inner peace. There are endless possibilities when we face the unknown. It can and will be scary for anyone, children, teens, and adults, to face the struggles. Crystal D. Anderson is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor who can help you navigate the unknown, face those struggles in a supportive environment and find relief to those symptoms that cause you to feel cloudy.
Be the reflection of your inner peace. There are endless possibilities when we face the unknown. It can and will be scary for anyone, children, teens, and adults, to face the struggles. Crystal D. Anderson is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor who can help you navigate the unknown, face those struggles in a supportive environment and find relief to those symptoms that cause you to feel cloudy.
(910) 713-1413 View (910) 713-1413
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Sommer Ewing
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Salisbury, NC 28144
Are you experiencing overwhelming emotions, persistent anxiety, or depression? Are you encountering difficulties in your relationships or wrestling with unresolved trauma? I am here to assist you in navigating these challenges. In our sessions, we will explore intergenerational patterns that may be influencing your life and relationships. By Understanding these patterns, you can break free from detrimental cycles and establish healthier, more fulfilling connections. I will support you in processing and healing from past traumas, while also addressing attachment issues to cultivate secure and healthy relationships.
Are you experiencing overwhelming emotions, persistent anxiety, or depression? Are you encountering difficulties in your relationships or wrestling with unresolved trauma? I am here to assist you in navigating these challenges. In our sessions, we will explore intergenerational patterns that may be influencing your life and relationships. By Understanding these patterns, you can break free from detrimental cycles and establish healthier, more fulfilling connections. I will support you in processing and healing from past traumas, while also addressing attachment issues to cultivate secure and healthy relationships.
(980) 351-5192 View (980) 351-5192
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B's Effort Changing Counseling, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CSOTP, TFCBT-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Salisbury, NC 28144
When life has gotten you down and you feel the weight of life on your shoulders know there is someone to assist you. B's has a wide array of therapist currently accepting new clients to help with struggles to help with depression, anxiety, behavioral, parental/child relationships, marital, self-esteem, past trauma, etc. Our goal is to help enhance coping skills you already have to be the best YOU! We value a collaborative approach and want to provide the support you need to grow in a safe space. We are passionate about educating about symptoms and assisting individuals and families with the skills to promote healthy coping skills.
When life has gotten you down and you feel the weight of life on your shoulders know there is someone to assist you. B's has a wide array of therapist currently accepting new clients to help with struggles to help with depression, anxiety, behavioral, parental/child relationships, marital, self-esteem, past trauma, etc. Our goal is to help enhance coping skills you already have to be the best YOU! We value a collaborative approach and want to provide the support you need to grow in a safe space. We are passionate about educating about symptoms and assisting individuals and families with the skills to promote healthy coping skills.
(704) 870-4987 View (704) 870-4987
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Sherille Denise Barber
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Salisbury, NC 28144
Hello, my name is Dr. Sherille Barber, and I am a licensed clinical counselor in the states of North and South Carolina. I have worked in the mental health field for over 35 years and primarily utilize Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to aid clients in reaching their optimum potential in life. I primarily work with those battling depression and anxiety as well as those dealing with trauma-related issues.
Hello, my name is Dr. Sherille Barber, and I am a licensed clinical counselor in the states of North and South Carolina. I have worked in the mental health field for over 35 years and primarily utilize Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to aid clients in reaching their optimum potential in life. I primarily work with those battling depression and anxiety as well as those dealing with trauma-related issues.
(704) 389-9716 View (704) 389-9716
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Tyonna Butler-Foster
LCSW Associate , LCSWA
Verified Verified
Salisbury, NC 28144
Waitlist for new clients
I am compassionate and dedicated to creating change, and working closely with youth and families has always been a passion of mine for as long as I can remember. Helping adolescents build confidence, manage stages of development, and becoming more self independent or goal driven. I’ve worked in various settings over the past 8 years with families, but specifically in foster care focusing on behavioral conditions, trauma, anger management, parenting conflicts, anxiety, depression, PTSD and self esteem. Including training new skills with parents in the Teaching Family Model to improve familial relations, stress, and crisis management.
I am compassionate and dedicated to creating change, and working closely with youth and families has always been a passion of mine for as long as I can remember. Helping adolescents build confidence, manage stages of development, and becoming more self independent or goal driven. I’ve worked in various settings over the past 8 years with families, but specifically in foster care focusing on behavioral conditions, trauma, anger management, parenting conflicts, anxiety, depression, PTSD and self esteem. Including training new skills with parents in the Teaching Family Model to improve familial relations, stress, and crisis management.
(980) 485-4656 View (980) 485-4656
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Marydale M Worboys
Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Salisbury, NC 28147
RedBud Legacy offers refuge for anyone seeking to find healing and comfort in a setting of nature and quiet farm surroundings. I am a licensed professional counselor with 25+ years of experience in the mental health field. As a retired Military spouse I am using my experience and farm to help others find peace, acceptance, change, and a place to strengthen their mind, body and spirit as well as their legacy. I offer faith based counseling but always seek to meet my clients wherever they may be on their spiritual journey.
RedBud Legacy offers refuge for anyone seeking to find healing and comfort in a setting of nature and quiet farm surroundings. I am a licensed professional counselor with 25+ years of experience in the mental health field. As a retired Military spouse I am using my experience and farm to help others find peace, acceptance, change, and a place to strengthen their mind, body and spirit as well as their legacy. I offer faith based counseling but always seek to meet my clients wherever they may be on their spiritual journey.
(336) 656-2160 View (336) 656-2160
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Peaceful Places, Inc.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LCMHC, LCMHCQS
Verified Verified
Salisbury, NC 28146  (Online Only)
Welcome to Peaceful Places Inc., where healing and growth flourish in a supportive community. At Peaceful Places, we believe in the power of connection, understanding, and empowerment. Our group practice is founded on the principle that everyone deserves access to high-quality mental health care in a safe and nurturing environment. Our approach to therapy is holistic, addressing the unique needs of each client while honoring the interconnectedness of mind, body, and spirit. Through evidence-based practices, we empower our clients to overcome obstacles, tap into their inner strengths, and create meaningful change in their lives.
Welcome to Peaceful Places Inc., where healing and growth flourish in a supportive community. At Peaceful Places, we believe in the power of connection, understanding, and empowerment. Our group practice is founded on the principle that everyone deserves access to high-quality mental health care in a safe and nurturing environment. Our approach to therapy is holistic, addressing the unique needs of each client while honoring the interconnectedness of mind, body, and spirit. Through evidence-based practices, we empower our clients to overcome obstacles, tap into their inner strengths, and create meaningful change in their lives.
(704) 612-0848 View (704) 612-0848
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Elizabeth Ritter
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervisor, LCMHCS
Verified Verified
Salisbury, NC 28144  (Online Only)
Struggling with work/life balance, relationship issues, or parenting? I fully understand the unique challenges of trying to find balance. I can offer support and real life skills to learn better ways to manage these struggles. I know that life can be difficult at times and you need a relatable, real-life person to work through these struggles with you. I am here to listen, support, and validate you, focus on your needs and encourage you to use the skills and talents you already have to live your BEST life!
Struggling with work/life balance, relationship issues, or parenting? I fully understand the unique challenges of trying to find balance. I can offer support and real life skills to learn better ways to manage these struggles. I know that life can be difficult at times and you need a relatable, real-life person to work through these struggles with you. I am here to listen, support, and validate you, focus on your needs and encourage you to use the skills and talents you already have to live your BEST life!
(704) 459-2028 View (704) 459-2028
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R. Mark Adams
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC, LCAS-A
Verified Verified
Salisbury, NC 28144
Are you feeling like you are overwhelmed? Do you feel like there is a number of unresolved issues in your life? Do you have a history of trauma that you feel is affecting your life today? Have you noticed that you are withdrawing from others and maybe even isolating yourself? Do you lack the tools to live in society? Is there a lack of supportive people in your life? Do you have a substance issue? Are you self-medicating? Do you find that it is hard to express yourself in social settings? Has someone told you that you have "anger mgmt. issues?" Do you lack healthy coping skills and outlets? Are you constantly negative?
Are you feeling like you are overwhelmed? Do you feel like there is a number of unresolved issues in your life? Do you have a history of trauma that you feel is affecting your life today? Have you noticed that you are withdrawing from others and maybe even isolating yourself? Do you lack the tools to live in society? Is there a lack of supportive people in your life? Do you have a substance issue? Are you self-medicating? Do you find that it is hard to express yourself in social settings? Has someone told you that you have "anger mgmt. issues?" Do you lack healthy coping skills and outlets? Are you constantly negative?
(336) 489-4791 View (336) 489-4791
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Michelle S. Libby
Counselor, MEd, LCMHC, CTP
Verified Verified
Salisbury, NC 28144
I am a licensed clinical mental health counselor with a background in treating teens and adults with anxiety disorders, obsessive-compulsive disorders, trauma and stress-related disorders, depressive disorders, and various other concerns. Additionally, I have experience working with children, adolescents, and teens with neurodevelopment disorders.
I am a licensed clinical mental health counselor with a background in treating teens and adults with anxiety disorders, obsessive-compulsive disorders, trauma and stress-related disorders, depressive disorders, and various other concerns. Additionally, I have experience working with children, adolescents, and teens with neurodevelopment disorders.
(704) 286-1845 View (704) 286-1845
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Caitlyn Lear
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LPC
Verified Verified
Salisbury, NC 28144
Waitlist for new clients
How often do you find yourself struggling to spend time with friends, engage in activities you used to enjoy, or even leave your room? Do you find yourself thinking in circles, or fighting to fall asleep due to never ending thoughts? What about not recognizing yourself in the mirror, looking over your shoulder in fear? Depression, anxiety, ruminating thoughts, insomnia, hypervigilance, stress, low self-esteem. It's easy to feel overwhelmed with these experiences, thoughts, and emotions and not know where to look or turn for help.
How often do you find yourself struggling to spend time with friends, engage in activities you used to enjoy, or even leave your room? Do you find yourself thinking in circles, or fighting to fall asleep due to never ending thoughts? What about not recognizing yourself in the mirror, looking over your shoulder in fear? Depression, anxiety, ruminating thoughts, insomnia, hypervigilance, stress, low self-esteem. It's easy to feel overwhelmed with these experiences, thoughts, and emotions and not know where to look or turn for help.
(980) 294-3125 View (980) 294-3125
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Dr. Tierini D. Hodges-Murad
EdD, CPC, MSEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Salisbury, NC 28144
Level Up! Life Coaching: If you are feeling Overwhelmed, Stressed, Stuck, Confused, or Frustrated, and if you are you ready to Level Up but not sure where to start, let me help you reach your next level of success! A certified professional coach with over 18 years of coaching experience, I assist you in the clarification of your goals and objectives, as well as the development of sustainable strategies, that move you from where you are to where you want to be.
Level Up! Life Coaching: If you are feeling Overwhelmed, Stressed, Stuck, Confused, or Frustrated, and if you are you ready to Level Up but not sure where to start, let me help you reach your next level of success! A certified professional coach with over 18 years of coaching experience, I assist you in the clarification of your goals and objectives, as well as the development of sustainable strategies, that move you from where you are to where you want to be.
(984) 203-6662 View (984) 203-6662
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Kristy Needham
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Salisbury, NC 28144  (Online Only)
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over a decade of experience in the mental health field, I'm proud to have earned my degree from the Joint Master's in Social Work (J.M.S.W.) program at N.C. A&T State University and UNCG. This unique program prepared me for working with diverse populations and providing culturally competent care
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over a decade of experience in the mental health field, I'm proud to have earned my degree from the Joint Master's in Social Work (J.M.S.W.) program at N.C. A&T State University and UNCG. This unique program prepared me for working with diverse populations and providing culturally competent care
(336) 677-0261 View (336) 677-0261
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Kathryn Grimsley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Salisbury, NC 28144
I’m SO glad you're here, you are very brave for taking this step! I have 12 years of experience providing individual, couples, & family therapies. My ideal clients are those who realize their capability for change & who are willing to do the work necessary for change. I ask also for willingness - therapy does not work without it. I want to develop a partnership with you, one based on trust, boundaries, mutual respect, and validation. Please be encouraged that you don't have to "do life" alone. It's time to do something different & that time is now! It's time to stop simply surviving & time to start thriving. Let's do this together!
I’m SO glad you're here, you are very brave for taking this step! I have 12 years of experience providing individual, couples, & family therapies. My ideal clients are those who realize their capability for change & who are willing to do the work necessary for change. I ask also for willingness - therapy does not work without it. I want to develop a partnership with you, one based on trust, boundaries, mutual respect, and validation. Please be encouraged that you don't have to "do life" alone. It's time to do something different & that time is now! It's time to stop simply surviving & time to start thriving. Let's do this together!
(704) 703-2640 View (704) 703-2640

More Therapists Nearby

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Beth Swiatek
Counselor, MEd, LCMHCA, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rockwell, NC 28138
My clients have diversity in their backgrounds, identities, and stories. Most have a background in family dysfunction, emotional neglect/abuse, physical abuse, narcissism/gaslighting, religious trauma, sexual abuse/assault, emotionally immature caregiver(s), abandonment, household dysfunction, or any combination of things. They reach out to gain insight, support, and skills on navigating the healing process. I have 3 years of experience in mental health with a focus on trauma and LGBTQIA+ identities. I work with adult populations.
My clients have diversity in their backgrounds, identities, and stories. Most have a background in family dysfunction, emotional neglect/abuse, physical abuse, narcissism/gaslighting, religious trauma, sexual abuse/assault, emotionally immature caregiver(s), abandonment, household dysfunction, or any combination of things. They reach out to gain insight, support, and skills on navigating the healing process. I have 3 years of experience in mental health with a focus on trauma and LGBTQIA+ identities. I work with adult populations.
(336) 962-6713 View (336) 962-6713

Online Therapists

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Awakenings Counseling for Couples and Sex Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, LCMHC, AASECT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Greensboro, NC 27408
Online or in-person, Awakenings' therapists use the scientifically-researched attachment theory with EFT (emotionally-focused therapy) and Gottman& Imago techniques, to help you improve or find relationship happiness.
Do you need online couples counseling, online sex therapy or online marriage counseling near me? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Are you missing appreciation? Fighting over sexual frequency? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues because of infidelity? Relationships need both emotional connection, intimacy and sex to be happy. We help repair affairs. Stop the fighting. Stop the criticism and withdrawing. Build a deeper connection, trust, & better communication. Feel love again. We treat erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, anorgasmia, low libido, frequency discrepancy.
Online or in-person, Awakenings' therapists use the scientifically-researched attachment theory with EFT (emotionally-focused therapy) and Gottman& Imago techniques, to help you improve or find relationship happiness.
Do you need online couples counseling, online sex therapy or online marriage counseling near me? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Are you missing appreciation? Fighting over sexual frequency? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues because of infidelity? Relationships need both emotional connection, intimacy and sex to be happy. We help repair affairs. Stop the fighting. Stop the criticism and withdrawing. Build a deeper connection, trust, & better communication. Feel love again. We treat erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, anorgasmia, low libido, frequency discrepancy.
(984) 205-4614 View (984) 205-4614
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Patti Stapleton Bock
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LCAS, TF-CBT
Verified Verified
Boone, NC 28607  (Online Only)
Expert level in therapies and modalities: Cognitive-Behavioral (CBT), Mindfulness & Meditation, Spiritual journey, Behavioral, Effective Parenting 123, Adlerian, ACT, Neuroplasticity Enhancement, Emotion Freedom ( EFT), Trauma-Focused (TF-CBT), Family Systems, Gestalt, Solution-focused, Dialectic Behavioral (DBT), Art, Play, & Motivational Interviewing.
I invite you to utilize my over 30 years of mental health/addictions education and experience, empowering you with highly effective and enduring therapy, resolving long term and recent issues that block your happiness and success. Adults, youths, couples and whole families are carefully taught needed skills and facilitated actual healing processes, step by step, to remedy thought distortions, repressed feelings and dysfunctional behaviors and attitudes that impair your relationships, socialization, work or school success. Treatment is customized in consideration of individual schedules, preferences, strengths, obstacles and goals for lasting growth and change. Christian counseling is available upon request.
Expert level in therapies and modalities: Cognitive-Behavioral (CBT), Mindfulness & Meditation, Spiritual journey, Behavioral, Effective Parenting 123, Adlerian, ACT, Neuroplasticity Enhancement, Emotion Freedom ( EFT), Trauma-Focused (TF-CBT), Family Systems, Gestalt, Solution-focused, Dialectic Behavioral (DBT), Art, Play, & Motivational Interviewing.
I invite you to utilize my over 30 years of mental health/addictions education and experience, empowering you with highly effective and enduring therapy, resolving long term and recent issues that block your happiness and success. Adults, youths, couples and whole families are carefully taught needed skills and facilitated actual healing processes, step by step, to remedy thought distortions, repressed feelings and dysfunctional behaviors and attitudes that impair your relationships, socialization, work or school success. Treatment is customized in consideration of individual schedules, preferences, strengths, obstacles and goals for lasting growth and change. Christian counseling is available upon request.
(919) 249-7169 View (919) 249-7169
Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.