Gottman Method Therapists in Pinecrest, Raleigh, NC

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Robert B. Mitchell-Creative Solutions Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Pinecrest, Raleigh, NC 27613
As a specialist completing Level 3 Training in the Gottman Method Couples Therapy, our initial focus often revolves around the couples primary expressed concerns in light of how to build a strong interactive relationship, understanding the nature of conflict, as well as regulating and managing conflict.
Hi. I am Bob Mitchell and I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), a Certified Employee Assistance Professional (CEAP), and a Certified Life Coach (CLC). I am a graduate of Asbury College, (B.A. Biblical Studies) and East Carolina University (Ma. ed. Counselor Education) and I have worked in the mental health field for over 25 years working with individuals, couples, troubled teenagers, and adults. I am an individual practitioner in Raleigh. People who come to me are often struggling with individual life issues and/or mental health issues that require a professional touch.
As a specialist completing Level 3 Training in the Gottman Method Couples Therapy, our initial focus often revolves around the couples primary expressed concerns in light of how to build a strong interactive relationship, understanding the nature of conflict, as well as regulating and managing conflict.
Hi. I am Bob Mitchell and I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), a Certified Employee Assistance Professional (CEAP), and a Certified Life Coach (CLC). I am a graduate of Asbury College, (B.A. Biblical Studies) and East Carolina University (Ma. ed. Counselor Education) and I have worked in the mental health field for over 25 years working with individuals, couples, troubled teenagers, and adults. I am an individual practitioner in Raleigh. People who come to me are often struggling with individual life issues and/or mental health issues that require a professional touch.
(919) 514-1297 View (919) 514-1297
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Andrea Kinnaugh
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Pinecrest, Raleigh, NC 27613
I am trained in different modalities that I will pull from including Gottman Method, EFT, IFS, EMDR, Experiential, Somatic, and Mindfulness to tailor a holistic and individualized approach as we develop a plan to meet you or your relationship's desired outcomes.
Each person seeks out therapy for different reasons. As we begin our work together, my goal is that we create an authentic space for you to explore where you are, the experiences you have had, what you feel is holding you back, and what you are hoping to change.
I am trained in different modalities that I will pull from including Gottman Method, EFT, IFS, EMDR, Experiential, Somatic, and Mindfulness to tailor a holistic and individualized approach as we develop a plan to meet you or your relationship's desired outcomes.
Each person seeks out therapy for different reasons. As we begin our work together, my goal is that we create an authentic space for you to explore where you are, the experiences you have had, what you feel is holding you back, and what you are hoping to change.
(919) 263-5656 View (919) 263-5656
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Andrew Orchowsky
Counselor, MS, LCMHCA, NCC
Verified Verified
Pinecrest, Raleigh, NC 27613
I specialize in working with relationships and have completed the Levels I and II training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
My name is Andrew and I want to help you heal your relationship. I work with relationships of all kinds: romantic partners, couples, open relationships, families, siblings, etc. If you are wanting to strengthen your relationship and deepen your connection with your partner, I may be a good fit. I work with relationships that have been affected by infidelity, substance use, conflict, communication issues, and attachment concerns. While I work with all demographics, I specialize in working with LGBTQ+ relationships and individuals.
I specialize in working with relationships and have completed the Levels I and II training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
My name is Andrew and I want to help you heal your relationship. I work with relationships of all kinds: romantic partners, couples, open relationships, families, siblings, etc. If you are wanting to strengthen your relationship and deepen your connection with your partner, I may be a good fit. I work with relationships that have been affected by infidelity, substance use, conflict, communication issues, and attachment concerns. While I work with all demographics, I specialize in working with LGBTQ+ relationships and individuals.
(984) 360-7960 View (984) 360-7960
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Angeline Martin Woodson
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LCMHC-S, NCC
Verified Verified
Pinecrest, Raleigh, NC 27613
Today you are one step closer to a new you where you feel empowered and on a positive path to growth and well-being. As a solution-focused therapist, my goal is to help you uncover your true potential and lead a life that is worth celebrating. While we can't change difficult situations of the past, we can work together to better understand and resolve challenges in your life.
Today you are one step closer to a new you where you feel empowered and on a positive path to growth and well-being. As a solution-focused therapist, my goal is to help you uncover your true potential and lead a life that is worth celebrating. While we can't change difficult situations of the past, we can work together to better understand and resolve challenges in your life.
(919) 328-2317 View (919) 328-2317
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Erik D Potter
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MATL, MA, LCMHCS
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Pinecrest, Raleigh, NC 27613
Are you experiencing difficulties in your life related to anxiety, depression, communication with your partner, or the long-term impact of trauma? I am a bilingual (English/Spanish) Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervisor (LCMHCS) with over 17 years of experience helping Children, Adults, Couples and Families. I have extensive expertise in treating traumatic stress, anxiety, depression, oppositional behaviors, relational issues, and couples issues. I founded Potter Counseling & Consulting in 2016 and devote much of my time to training and supervising our team of clinicians.
Are you experiencing difficulties in your life related to anxiety, depression, communication with your partner, or the long-term impact of trauma? I am a bilingual (English/Spanish) Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervisor (LCMHCS) with over 17 years of experience helping Children, Adults, Couples and Families. I have extensive expertise in treating traumatic stress, anxiety, depression, oppositional behaviors, relational issues, and couples issues. I founded Potter Counseling & Consulting in 2016 and devote much of my time to training and supervising our team of clinicians.
(919) 752-4847 View (919) 752-4847
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Kristin Snyder Brandon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LCAC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Pinecrest, Raleigh, NC 27613
"Growth is painful. Change is painful. But, nothing is as painful as staying stuck where you don't belong." Life is an amazing and very personal journey that at times feels manageable and at other times, maybe not,. These shifts are normal & reflective of our powerful drive towards wholeness. While ebbs and flows are a necessary part of living, the changes can be unsettling. At those times it is helpful to partner with a skilled & empathetic therapist to regain equilibrium. Perhaps you are seeking transformation or the skills to get through the day. With Kristin, you will find a safe place in which to travel the path to wholeness.
"Growth is painful. Change is painful. But, nothing is as painful as staying stuck where you don't belong." Life is an amazing and very personal journey that at times feels manageable and at other times, maybe not,. These shifts are normal & reflective of our powerful drive towards wholeness. While ebbs and flows are a necessary part of living, the changes can be unsettling. At those times it is helpful to partner with a skilled & empathetic therapist to regain equilibrium. Perhaps you are seeking transformation or the skills to get through the day. With Kristin, you will find a safe place in which to travel the path to wholeness.
(984) 985-2099 View (984) 985-2099
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Geoffrey Zeger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, ACSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Pinecrest, Raleigh, NC 27613
I provide individual, couples and family therapy to children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families. I began working in Group Homes in 1986, received my Masters of Social Work in 1990, and became Licensed to Practice in 1992. I employ multiple strategies and interventions to assist clients to reduce disruptive thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, and move towards productive life goals. ​I specialize in work with children (tantrums, anxiety, hyperactivity), adolescents (oppositional, self-harm, seeking independence from parents but making choices causing dependence), and adults (depression, anxiety, worry, stress, addictions).
I provide individual, couples and family therapy to children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families. I began working in Group Homes in 1986, received my Masters of Social Work in 1990, and became Licensed to Practice in 1992. I employ multiple strategies and interventions to assist clients to reduce disruptive thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, and move towards productive life goals. ​I specialize in work with children (tantrums, anxiety, hyperactivity), adolescents (oppositional, self-harm, seeking independence from parents but making choices causing dependence), and adults (depression, anxiety, worry, stress, addictions).
(919) 429-7068 View (919) 429-7068
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Yolanda N McLemore
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, BSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Pinecrest, Raleigh, NC 27613  (Online Only)
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 20 years of experience. I believe that everyone has the ability to change and improve themselves and their circumstances given the right opportunity and the right support. My goal is to provide a safe and trusting environment for my clients to grow while at the same time improving their mental health and their relationships with the people around them.
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 20 years of experience. I believe that everyone has the ability to change and improve themselves and their circumstances given the right opportunity and the right support. My goal is to provide a safe and trusting environment for my clients to grow while at the same time improving their mental health and their relationships with the people around them.
(984) 231-9312 View (984) 231-9312
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Janice Cuaresma
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, MA, LCMHCA, NCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Pinecrest, Raleigh, NC 27613
Do you feel frustrated by the difficulty of getting through daily tasks? Gen Z + Millennials are feeling anxious about maintaining meaningful relationships, leveling up in their careers, and living full lives. I believe motivated adults and couples can meaningfully change when they are empowered. I start by listening to your story, including your needs and present challenges. I help by creating a specialized approach that is unique to you. Your plan gets you anchored and moving with purpose, clarity, and confidence. For eager adults, intensives (longer sessions) get you in the therapeutic process faster to jump start your healing.
Do you feel frustrated by the difficulty of getting through daily tasks? Gen Z + Millennials are feeling anxious about maintaining meaningful relationships, leveling up in their careers, and living full lives. I believe motivated adults and couples can meaningfully change when they are empowered. I start by listening to your story, including your needs and present challenges. I help by creating a specialized approach that is unique to you. Your plan gets you anchored and moving with purpose, clarity, and confidence. For eager adults, intensives (longer sessions) get you in the therapeutic process faster to jump start your healing.
(919) 737-2682 View (919) 737-2682
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Katherine Jackson
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Pinecrest, Raleigh, NC 27613
Maybe you're feeling really overwhelmed and exhausted by life. Maybe your anxiety has really altered your day to day life. Maybe you feel stuck and want life to be different. You want to love the life you have been given but every day just feels so hard. You keep trying different things in hopes that you will feel better, but it seems to never change. You want to feel understood, heard, and valued. You want to live your life well.
Maybe you're feeling really overwhelmed and exhausted by life. Maybe your anxiety has really altered your day to day life. Maybe you feel stuck and want life to be different. You want to love the life you have been given but every day just feels so hard. You keep trying different things in hopes that you will feel better, but it seems to never change. You want to feel understood, heard, and valued. You want to live your life well.
(919) 629-1695 View (919) 629-1695
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Gina D Eddy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC, MEd
Verified Verified
Pinecrest, Raleigh, NC 27613
I became interested in helping individuals and couples attain their dreams at a very early age. In my therapy, I accept and appreciate your uniqueness and am personally encouraged by the discoveries you make during your time in therapy. I provide compassion, empathy, and a down-to-earth approach to ease any discomfort you may have about therapy. Through our work together, I become sensitive to your needs and your readiness for change and will encourage you to discover your full potential. Schedule your session today!‍. Click Here
I became interested in helping individuals and couples attain their dreams at a very early age. In my therapy, I accept and appreciate your uniqueness and am personally encouraged by the discoveries you make during your time in therapy. I provide compassion, empathy, and a down-to-earth approach to ease any discomfort you may have about therapy. Through our work together, I become sensitive to your needs and your readiness for change and will encourage you to discover your full potential. Schedule your session today!‍. Click Here
(843) 920-5078 View (843) 920-5078
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Lisa J Ficker
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Pinecrest, Raleigh, NC 27613  (Online Only)
I deliver evidence-based interventions with compassion, genuineness, humor, empathy, and professionalism. You can’t surprise me and I won’t judge you. My goal is to help you heal and develop self-compassion with the skills you need to cope. Every individual is unique and I believe there is no “one size fits all” when it comes to psychological care because you are not your diagnosis. I will draw on your strengths to decrease distress, improve resilience, and work through barriers to experiencing whole-hearted well-being.
I deliver evidence-based interventions with compassion, genuineness, humor, empathy, and professionalism. You can’t surprise me and I won’t judge you. My goal is to help you heal and develop self-compassion with the skills you need to cope. Every individual is unique and I believe there is no “one size fits all” when it comes to psychological care because you are not your diagnosis. I will draw on your strengths to decrease distress, improve resilience, and work through barriers to experiencing whole-hearted well-being.
(984) 229-8053 View (984) 229-8053
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Dr. Barbara Jean Lowe Sauvé
Psychologist, PhD, LP, BCC, CCTP-II, SEP
Verified Verified
Pinecrest, Raleigh, NC 27613
Are you hurting, frustrated, or feel stuck? I honor your courage to seek wholeness & growth. I know you want relief. Enduring change through therapy can happen for you. Trauma, relationship challenges, family struggles & internal pain can be shifted! I welcome you into a space of honor, hope, safety, & power to change. I partner w/ you to achieve your goals for skillful living, belonging, & wholeness. I artfully employ therapeutic & scientific techniques that bring wellness to the heart & mind (SE, DBT, ART, CBT, IFS, EMDR, Gottman, EFT). Ages 5-75. I also offer faith integration upon request. I offer hourly sessions & intensives.
Are you hurting, frustrated, or feel stuck? I honor your courage to seek wholeness & growth. I know you want relief. Enduring change through therapy can happen for you. Trauma, relationship challenges, family struggles & internal pain can be shifted! I welcome you into a space of honor, hope, safety, & power to change. I partner w/ you to achieve your goals for skillful living, belonging, & wholeness. I artfully employ therapeutic & scientific techniques that bring wellness to the heart & mind (SE, DBT, ART, CBT, IFS, EMDR, Gottman, EFT). Ages 5-75. I also offer faith integration upon request. I offer hourly sessions & intensives.
(919) 585-1575 View (919) 585-1575

Online Therapists

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Valerie Giannavola
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCAS
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27615
These efforts are guided by my training in the Gottman Method.
Psychotherapist with 15 years experience specializing in couples therapy, trauma, all anxiety related disorders, depression and burnout. Perhaps you're unsure about the future of your relationship, are feeling deeply depressed or anxious, aren't satisfied with how you're managing stressors, feeling burned out, or feel worn out by past experiences and difficult to bear emotions. Whatever your needs may be, I am here to offer support and guidance from a well versed, compassionate and non-judgmental perspective. Couples, individual and group therapy offerings guided by the Gottman Method, CBT, DBT, ACT, and trauma therapies.
These efforts are guided by my training in the Gottman Method.
Psychotherapist with 15 years experience specializing in couples therapy, trauma, all anxiety related disorders, depression and burnout. Perhaps you're unsure about the future of your relationship, are feeling deeply depressed or anxious, aren't satisfied with how you're managing stressors, feeling burned out, or feel worn out by past experiences and difficult to bear emotions. Whatever your needs may be, I am here to offer support and guidance from a well versed, compassionate and non-judgmental perspective. Couples, individual and group therapy offerings guided by the Gottman Method, CBT, DBT, ACT, and trauma therapies.
(919) 980-9196 View (919) 980-9196
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Dr. Mandy F Mitchell
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LISW-CP, CGT
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27610
I am a certified Gottman therapist specializing in the evidence-based Gottman method for couples counseling.
Are you tired of fighting? Do you feel more like roommates than life partners? Do you feel as if you go round and round about the same issues with no resolve? I can help. As a Certified Gottman Therapist and Clinician for more than 10 years, I can teach you the skills needed to stop those conflicts in their tracks. Imagine your spouse as your best friend and confidante, deeply connected. Let's get started.
I am a certified Gottman therapist specializing in the evidence-based Gottman method for couples counseling.
Are you tired of fighting? Do you feel more like roommates than life partners? Do you feel as if you go round and round about the same issues with no resolve? I can help. As a Certified Gottman Therapist and Clinician for more than 10 years, I can teach you the skills needed to stop those conflicts in their tracks. Imagine your spouse as your best friend and confidante, deeply connected. Let's get started.
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Mary Brannan Gubitz
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27615
I am a facilitator for the SYMBIS assessment and have completed Level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
I believe that there is hope no matter your struggle. Whether you are processing grief or navigating relational conflict, looking at your struggles through a systematic lens allows for a fuller and deeper healing for every individual and ultimately every relationship. My main areas of focus are pre-martial, martial issues, communication, conflict resolution, anxiety, depression, adult ADHD, postpartum depression/anxiety, pregnancy loss, life transitions, and grief. I believe that when we work to be healthier individuals we create healthier marriages, families, and communities!
I am a facilitator for the SYMBIS assessment and have completed Level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
I believe that there is hope no matter your struggle. Whether you are processing grief or navigating relational conflict, looking at your struggles through a systematic lens allows for a fuller and deeper healing for every individual and ultimately every relationship. My main areas of focus are pre-martial, martial issues, communication, conflict resolution, anxiety, depression, adult ADHD, postpartum depression/anxiety, pregnancy loss, life transitions, and grief. I believe that when we work to be healthier individuals we create healthier marriages, families, and communities!
(984) 201-7932 View (984) 201-7932
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Brady Yocom
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27603  (Online Only)
I'm a psychologist trained in evidence-based methods (ACT, CBT, Gottman Method Couples Therapy).
I view clients as whole people in the context of their lives. You are more than a diagnosis. It's important to me to collaborate in setting goals, selecting an approach to therapy, and checking in along the way. I've worked with people from a broad range of backgrounds on anxiety, relationships, stress, depression, life transitions, and LGBTQ+ issues. I also specialize in couples counseling for smart, committed partners who want to improve communication, feel more loved, work as a team instead of against each other, or just get unstuck from an old issue or pattern.
I'm a psychologist trained in evidence-based methods (ACT, CBT, Gottman Method Couples Therapy).
I view clients as whole people in the context of their lives. You are more than a diagnosis. It's important to me to collaborate in setting goals, selecting an approach to therapy, and checking in along the way. I've worked with people from a broad range of backgrounds on anxiety, relationships, stress, depression, life transitions, and LGBTQ+ issues. I also specialize in couples counseling for smart, committed partners who want to improve communication, feel more loved, work as a team instead of against each other, or just get unstuck from an old issue or pattern.
(828) 202-8605 View (828) 202-8605
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Autumn Cooper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27615
Our therapists have a variety of skills and use different modalities to meet clients where they are including IFS, EMDR, Gottman Method, DBT, CBT, CPT, ACT and art therapy.
We have 3 clinicians with immediate openings! Trauma, anxiety, and depression affect all areas of our lives and impact our ability to feel safe and secure. When experiencing hardships it can feel like negative feelings and thoughts just won't stop. These emotions can also become so overwhelming that they begin to interfere with our happiness, relationships, and ability to take control of our life. At Regrowth Counseling we will work collaboratively to process and endure intense emotions, overcome challenges and fill your toolbox with techniques to help you move forward in your life.
Our therapists have a variety of skills and use different modalities to meet clients where they are including IFS, EMDR, Gottman Method, DBT, CBT, CPT, ACT and art therapy.
We have 3 clinicians with immediate openings! Trauma, anxiety, and depression affect all areas of our lives and impact our ability to feel safe and secure. When experiencing hardships it can feel like negative feelings and thoughts just won't stop. These emotions can also become so overwhelming that they begin to interfere with our happiness, relationships, and ability to take control of our life. At Regrowth Counseling we will work collaboratively to process and endure intense emotions, overcome challenges and fill your toolbox with techniques to help you move forward in your life.
(919) 351-6374 View (919) 351-6374
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Erica Blystone/Wake Adult Counseling, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27607
I am trained through Level 2 in the Gottman Method and have served as a PC for NC Family Courts.
The past 20 years of partnering with a wide range of people through times of struggle has taught me we often underestimate our own resilience, or our resilience as a couple. It leads to worry, anger, depression, suspicion, guilt, frustration, loneliness, resentment, shame, panic... all the emotions we try so hard to avoid. Consider a teammate for this part of the journey to help you take greater control of your own growth. A partner who can listen intently, offer perspective, brainstorm with you, help you develop new insights and skills, and support you in making changes to create a life - or relationship - you love.
I am trained through Level 2 in the Gottman Method and have served as a PC for NC Family Courts.
The past 20 years of partnering with a wide range of people through times of struggle has taught me we often underestimate our own resilience, or our resilience as a couple. It leads to worry, anger, depression, suspicion, guilt, frustration, loneliness, resentment, shame, panic... all the emotions we try so hard to avoid. Consider a teammate for this part of the journey to help you take greater control of your own growth. A partner who can listen intently, offer perspective, brainstorm with you, help you develop new insights and skills, and support you in making changes to create a life - or relationship - you love.
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Julie Daniel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCMHCQS, PMH-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27609
I am Level I clinically trained in the Gottman Method and am a certified Perinatal Mental health clinician.
Feeling stuck or held back by your mental health symptoms? Knowing when and how to start therapy can be scary and difficult, especially if you are experiencing trauma symptoms, pre/postnatal anxiety or depression, tough life trials/transitions, or difficulties in relationships. I am here to help you through it all. I am very passionate about using a trauma-informed lens in my practice and looking at the whole person. My goal is to help you feel empowered in your own decision-making and feeling in control of your own life.
I am Level I clinically trained in the Gottman Method and am a certified Perinatal Mental health clinician.
Feeling stuck or held back by your mental health symptoms? Knowing when and how to start therapy can be scary and difficult, especially if you are experiencing trauma symptoms, pre/postnatal anxiety or depression, tough life trials/transitions, or difficulties in relationships. I am here to help you through it all. I am very passionate about using a trauma-informed lens in my practice and looking at the whole person. My goal is to help you feel empowered in your own decision-making and feeling in control of your own life.
(984) 538-7581 View (984) 538-7581

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Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.