Compassion Focused Therapists in New Bern, NC

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Alex Bonicelli Taylor
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
New Bern, NC 28562
Finding a therapist you can trust is key when pursuing mental health services. I believe that all aspects of a client's life are relevant and contribute to their overall mental health. I work with individuals/ families experiencing symptoms of depression, anxiety, irregular mood, stress, trauma, and behavioral issues. I also work with clients who are having a hard time adjusting to life changes, grief, and loss. I utilize a variety of interventions in order to provide the best quality of treatment for each client.
Finding a therapist you can trust is key when pursuing mental health services. I believe that all aspects of a client's life are relevant and contribute to their overall mental health. I work with individuals/ families experiencing symptoms of depression, anxiety, irregular mood, stress, trauma, and behavioral issues. I also work with clients who are having a hard time adjusting to life changes, grief, and loss. I utilize a variety of interventions in order to provide the best quality of treatment for each client.
(252) 254-2444 View (252) 254-2444
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Stephanie W Bratton LCSW, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PLLC
Verified Verified
New Bern, NC 28562
I have been a practicing therapist in New Bern NC for over 15 years. My goal is to provide you with compassionate evidenced based therapy that will help you live your best life. I will work with each client to help them find their own strengths and develop new skills to empower change and growth. My areas of interest and specialty include working with individuals that struggle with depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, grief, relationship issues and those coping with chronic mental and physical illness.
I have been a practicing therapist in New Bern NC for over 15 years. My goal is to provide you with compassionate evidenced based therapy that will help you live your best life. I will work with each client to help them find their own strengths and develop new skills to empower change and growth. My areas of interest and specialty include working with individuals that struggle with depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, grief, relationship issues and those coping with chronic mental and physical illness.
(252) 888-2406 View (252) 888-2406
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Michele Ruhmann
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
New Bern, NC 28560
Waitlist for new clients
Are you feeling overwhelmed, physically and emotionally drained, stuck and you don’t know what to do or where to turn next? Moving forward can sometimes feel daunting but you can do it. Begin to take back your power today! You can learn to manage the chaos, calm those defeating thoughts, ease the tension in your body and begin to feel positive. Your story has a purpose and is as unique as you are, we will work together to create a tailored therapy experience to meet your goals incorporating parts work (IFS-informed), EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing), somatic bodywork, and traditional talk therapy.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, physically and emotionally drained, stuck and you don’t know what to do or where to turn next? Moving forward can sometimes feel daunting but you can do it. Begin to take back your power today! You can learn to manage the chaos, calm those defeating thoughts, ease the tension in your body and begin to feel positive. Your story has a purpose and is as unique as you are, we will work together to create a tailored therapy experience to meet your goals incorporating parts work (IFS-informed), EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing), somatic bodywork, and traditional talk therapy.
(252) 379-5081 View (252) 379-5081
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Casey Richardson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSWA
Verified Verified
New Bern, NC 28562
My goal is to offer you compassion, acceptance and unconditional positive regard. I strive to create an environment that is safe and non-judgmental in order to build a strong therapeutic alliance. I believe this is key for successful therapy. I use a blend of interventions to help you identify your personal strengths, gain insight and awareness of thoughts and emotions, and heal from previous life experiences. Collaboratively, we will work toward setting goals and identifying realistic solutions to support positive change in your life.
My goal is to offer you compassion, acceptance and unconditional positive regard. I strive to create an environment that is safe and non-judgmental in order to build a strong therapeutic alliance. I believe this is key for successful therapy. I use a blend of interventions to help you identify your personal strengths, gain insight and awareness of thoughts and emotions, and heal from previous life experiences. Collaboratively, we will work toward setting goals and identifying realistic solutions to support positive change in your life.
(252) 595-5417 View (252) 595-5417
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Butterfly Wishes Therapy PLLC (Stacy Connor LCSW)
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCAS, CCS
Verified Verified
New Bern, NC 28560  (Online Only)
Stacy Connor; Executive/Clinical Director employs 6 clinicians, ready to serve you; days, evenings & weekends. This is Stacy's profile: Everyone should know what it's like to feel Lovable, Capable, and Worthwhile. Instead of narrowing in on individual problems, psychotherapy considers overall patterns, chronic issues, and recurrent feelings. This requires an openness to exploring the past and its impact on the present. Psychotherapy resolves the underlying issues which fuel ongoing complaint/distress. I will work to get you on your way to wellness. Serving all of NC. I also offer clinical supervision for LCSW-A & LCAS-A & CSI.
Stacy Connor; Executive/Clinical Director employs 6 clinicians, ready to serve you; days, evenings & weekends. This is Stacy's profile: Everyone should know what it's like to feel Lovable, Capable, and Worthwhile. Instead of narrowing in on individual problems, psychotherapy considers overall patterns, chronic issues, and recurrent feelings. This requires an openness to exploring the past and its impact on the present. Psychotherapy resolves the underlying issues which fuel ongoing complaint/distress. I will work to get you on your way to wellness. Serving all of NC. I also offer clinical supervision for LCSW-A & LCAS-A & CSI.
(252) 229-9665 View (252) 229-9665
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Patricia A Toth
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Bern, NC 28560  (Online Only)
I bring a unique perspective to my counseling practice. It is a gift to be able to point my clients towards their innate inner health via three Principles (Mind, Consciousness, and Thought) that, when understood, taps into our natural wisdom and common sense. This is an inside out process that heightens awareness to bring forth new insightful thinking. This inside-out understanding, fresh in the moment, bubbles up creativity to solve problems, enhance relationships, & brings good feelings for a meaningful, satisfying life. This is an experiential, not an intellectual process that is rich, fresh, and rewarding because it is the genuine self.
I bring a unique perspective to my counseling practice. It is a gift to be able to point my clients towards their innate inner health via three Principles (Mind, Consciousness, and Thought) that, when understood, taps into our natural wisdom and common sense. This is an inside out process that heightens awareness to bring forth new insightful thinking. This inside-out understanding, fresh in the moment, bubbles up creativity to solve problems, enhance relationships, & brings good feelings for a meaningful, satisfying life. This is an experiential, not an intellectual process that is rich, fresh, and rewarding because it is the genuine self.
(252) 392-4371 View (252) 392-4371
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Roots to Blooms Counseling PLLC
Counselor, LCMHCS , LCAS, CCS, LPC
Verified Verified
New Bern, NC 28562  (Online Only)
I HAVE OPENINGS FOR NEW CLIENTS!! Are you feeling stuck? Do you feel trapped by your strong emotional reactions? Are you feeling alone and disconnected in your relationship? Anxious or not good enough? We all have moments in our lives when we need support, and we are not meant to suffer alone. There is no shame in reaching out for help. I help clients work through current struggles & emotional pain by so they can experience calm, self-compassion, freedom and meaning in their lives.
I HAVE OPENINGS FOR NEW CLIENTS!! Are you feeling stuck? Do you feel trapped by your strong emotional reactions? Are you feeling alone and disconnected in your relationship? Anxious or not good enough? We all have moments in our lives when we need support, and we are not meant to suffer alone. There is no shame in reaching out for help. I help clients work through current struggles & emotional pain by so they can experience calm, self-compassion, freedom and meaning in their lives.
(252) 336-9687 View (252) 336-9687
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Jessica Fuller Therapy, PLLC.
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CCTP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Bern, NC 28562
I am a licensed clinical social worker and trauma specialist who works with adults and adolescence (16+) with trauma (PTSD), addiction, depression, anxiety, and other diagnosis. I am trained in providing brainspotting as a progressive form of therapy intervention to treat all things from PTSD to mental blocks with sports. I integrate other trauma informed approaches as each individual has unique goals and complex needs. I use the best training to provide the highest quality of therapy possible to my clients in a calming and relaxed atmosphere.
I am a licensed clinical social worker and trauma specialist who works with adults and adolescence (16+) with trauma (PTSD), addiction, depression, anxiety, and other diagnosis. I am trained in providing brainspotting as a progressive form of therapy intervention to treat all things from PTSD to mental blocks with sports. I integrate other trauma informed approaches as each individual has unique goals and complex needs. I use the best training to provide the highest quality of therapy possible to my clients in a calming and relaxed atmosphere.
(252) 336-9692 View (252) 336-9692
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Olinda Davidson
LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
New Bern, NC 28562  (Online Only)
You may be feeling overwhelmed, exhausted and anxious from trying to hold it all together for everyone and everything. You put on a “happy” face and push through the day only to wonder if you will ever feel better. Until now, you’ve been able to manage it on your own, but it’s starting to affect other areas of your life and you can’t pretend everything is ok anymore. Maybe you’re struggling with anxiety, stress, a relationship or health concerns but wherever the pain is coming from you are tired of feeling alone and stuck. You want to make lasting changes, but deciding where to start feels impossible. I’m here and I get it.
You may be feeling overwhelmed, exhausted and anxious from trying to hold it all together for everyone and everything. You put on a “happy” face and push through the day only to wonder if you will ever feel better. Until now, you’ve been able to manage it on your own, but it’s starting to affect other areas of your life and you can’t pretend everything is ok anymore. Maybe you’re struggling with anxiety, stress, a relationship or health concerns but wherever the pain is coming from you are tired of feeling alone and stuck. You want to make lasting changes, but deciding where to start feels impossible. I’m here and I get it.
(252) 582-6024 View (252) 582-6024
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Destiny Kutkuhn
LCSW Associate, MSW, LCSW-A
Verified Verified
New Bern, NC 28562
I am a dedicated mental health professional committed to supporting you through your struggles. I understand that facing challenges related to mood disorders, anxiety, depression, or other mental health diagnoses can be an overwhelming and isolating experience. I want you to know that you don't have to navigate this journey alone.
I am a dedicated mental health professional committed to supporting you through your struggles. I understand that facing challenges related to mood disorders, anxiety, depression, or other mental health diagnoses can be an overwhelming and isolating experience. I want you to know that you don't have to navigate this journey alone.
(252) 675-6616 View (252) 675-6616
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Johanna Bennett
Counselor, LCAS, LCMHC, LPC, CCS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Bern, NC 28560  (Online Only)
How many times have you told yourself, 'this year it will be different' abut you might find yourself in the same loop of unhappiness and low motivation to change anything. You give and give, trying to make everyone happy around you, and it sometimes works and sometimes not. Now you feel drained, exhausted and a big depressing feeling has settled in your chest, making it hard to breathe. There is a way out! Whatever coping mechanism you have tried has not worked, and it might have become a problem of its own (Substance Use). It is time to try something different! It is time to give yourself a chance on happiness!
How many times have you told yourself, 'this year it will be different' abut you might find yourself in the same loop of unhappiness and low motivation to change anything. You give and give, trying to make everyone happy around you, and it sometimes works and sometimes not. Now you feel drained, exhausted and a big depressing feeling has settled in your chest, making it hard to breathe. There is a way out! Whatever coping mechanism you have tried has not worked, and it might have become a problem of its own (Substance Use). It is time to try something different! It is time to give yourself a chance on happiness!
(704) 275-6169 View (704) 275-6169
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Jenna Gray
LCMHC, LPC, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Bern, NC 28562  (Online Only)
I’m Jenna Gray, LCMHC, LPC, MA. I have a Master's Degree in Professional Counseling from Liberty University (May 2019). I’m a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in North Carolina and a Licensed Professional Counselor in Virginia. I offer individual telehealth services to a variety of clients and insurances. I have a heart for helping others because we all need extra support sometimes. My approach is meeting clients where they are in the moment. My focus is providing therapeutic support to my clients while they grow and make progress toward their goals.
I’m Jenna Gray, LCMHC, LPC, MA. I have a Master's Degree in Professional Counseling from Liberty University (May 2019). I’m a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in North Carolina and a Licensed Professional Counselor in Virginia. I offer individual telehealth services to a variety of clients and insurances. I have a heart for helping others because we all need extra support sometimes. My approach is meeting clients where they are in the moment. My focus is providing therapeutic support to my clients while they grow and make progress toward their goals.
(252) 514-9888 View (252) 514-9888
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Meaghan Gregg
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
New Bern, NC 28561  (Online Only)
Your marriage stopped meeting your needs a while ago. You’re not sure when, but it isn’t what you wanted. You don’t know what to do – your girlfriends are tired of hearing it, your sister is pressuring you, you can't even tell your mom and dad, they love your spouse. But this isn’t working and you need space to talk about it. After years of being together, you’re realizing you need more from your relationship. It’s turning into something you don’t want – suffocating, loveless, resentful, we could go on. Your spouse is no longer your person, and although you don’t know if you can stay, you don’t know if you’re ready to go.
Your marriage stopped meeting your needs a while ago. You’re not sure when, but it isn’t what you wanted. You don’t know what to do – your girlfriends are tired of hearing it, your sister is pressuring you, you can't even tell your mom and dad, they love your spouse. But this isn’t working and you need space to talk about it. After years of being together, you’re realizing you need more from your relationship. It’s turning into something you don’t want – suffocating, loveless, resentful, we could go on. Your spouse is no longer your person, and although you don’t know if you can stay, you don’t know if you’re ready to go.
(252) 512-5098 View (252) 512-5098
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Caroline Connor
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LCAS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Bern, NC 28560  (Online Only)
“Success as a therapist is not found in doing something for the patient but rather in being someone for the patient.” Ili Rivera Walter. This quote is a great way to describe who I am as a person and my style of therapy. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, a Licensed Clinical Addiction Specialist, and a EMDR Trained Clinician. I have worked in several different settings and levels of care within the mental health field. I enjoy being myself to be able to connect with my patients on a real level. I am the same person in session as I am in real life. I am very down to earth, calm, positive, and empathetic.
“Success as a therapist is not found in doing something for the patient but rather in being someone for the patient.” Ili Rivera Walter. This quote is a great way to describe who I am as a person and my style of therapy. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, a Licensed Clinical Addiction Specialist, and a EMDR Trained Clinician. I have worked in several different settings and levels of care within the mental health field. I enjoy being myself to be able to connect with my patients on a real level. I am the same person in session as I am in real life. I am very down to earth, calm, positive, and empathetic.
(252) 542-2745 View (252) 542-2745
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Jill Toncer
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
New Bern, NC 28560
I view everyone from a “whole person” perspective and attend to their needs in various areas to increase self-awareness and capability. Each person has a unique history that plays a role in their beliefs and how they engage in the world around them. I believe the therapeutic relationship is an essential part of helping my clients reach their goals. I provide a safe and comfortable atmosphere and would love to help you unload your backpack of stress and challenges so that you may enjoy your journey through life.
I view everyone from a “whole person” perspective and attend to their needs in various areas to increase self-awareness and capability. Each person has a unique history that plays a role in their beliefs and how they engage in the world around them. I believe the therapeutic relationship is an essential part of helping my clients reach their goals. I provide a safe and comfortable atmosphere and would love to help you unload your backpack of stress and challenges so that you may enjoy your journey through life.
(910) 684-4516 View (910) 684-4516
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Maria Donaty-Gurba
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCAS, RN
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Bern, NC 28560
Reaching out & asking for help can be really hard. If you are struggling with Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, Medical issues, Relationship/Marital Issues, problem behaviors, maintaining sobriety, unwanted change or navigating & adjusting to difficult decisions it is important to seek help. Whether you're going through a painful transition like divorce, having difficulty in your relationships, self-medicating with substances, or have debilitating anxiety or depression- guidance from a qualified, objective person is necessary. I will help you gain insight into the root cause of what is keeping you stuck.
Reaching out & asking for help can be really hard. If you are struggling with Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, Medical issues, Relationship/Marital Issues, problem behaviors, maintaining sobriety, unwanted change or navigating & adjusting to difficult decisions it is important to seek help. Whether you're going through a painful transition like divorce, having difficulty in your relationships, self-medicating with substances, or have debilitating anxiety or depression- guidance from a qualified, objective person is necessary. I will help you gain insight into the root cause of what is keeping you stuck.
(910) 684-4626 View (910) 684-4626
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Ashley J. Britton
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New Bern, NC 28560  (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
I'm a licensed clinical health psychologist specializing in the treatment of persons with co-occurring medical conditions and mental health problems. These issues are typically related to and separate from various traumas, pre-/post-surgery adjustment or complications, new medical diagnoses or treatment (cancer, chemo, amputation), a complex medical course, displacement, &/or prolonged hospitalization. I specialize in anxiety/mood issues, insomnia, stress management, acute trauma, health behavior change and weight loss, chronic pain, smoking cessation & relapse prevention.
I'm a licensed clinical health psychologist specializing in the treatment of persons with co-occurring medical conditions and mental health problems. These issues are typically related to and separate from various traumas, pre-/post-surgery adjustment or complications, new medical diagnoses or treatment (cancer, chemo, amputation), a complex medical course, displacement, &/or prolonged hospitalization. I specialize in anxiety/mood issues, insomnia, stress management, acute trauma, health behavior change and weight loss, chronic pain, smoking cessation & relapse prevention.
(252) 254-2472 View (252) 254-2472
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Nicole Schnarrs
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSTIP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Bern, NC 28560
Not accepting new clients
My approach to therapy is person-centered, holistic, strength, and mindfulness-based. My role is to provide non-judgmental support for you in reaching your goals, feeling empowered, and helping you expand healthy awareness by using various forms of expression, talk, and alternative therapy.
My approach to therapy is person-centered, holistic, strength, and mindfulness-based. My role is to provide non-judgmental support for you in reaching your goals, feeling empowered, and helping you expand healthy awareness by using various forms of expression, talk, and alternative therapy.
(252) 378-2691 View (252) 378-2691
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Molly Stuelke
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFTA
Verified Verified
New Bern, NC 28562
Not accepting new clients
Hello! My background is in marriage and family therapy, which means I use a systemic lens in my therapeutic approach. I am passionate about adapting therapeutic care to the unique needs of every individual while placing an emphasis on seeing the whole person. I specialize in trauma informed care and am certified through the Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association (EAGALA) model as a military designated mental health professional and equine specialist. I am also trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). I find that many folks benefit from being able to address the past to move forward effectively.
Hello! My background is in marriage and family therapy, which means I use a systemic lens in my therapeutic approach. I am passionate about adapting therapeutic care to the unique needs of every individual while placing an emphasis on seeing the whole person. I specialize in trauma informed care and am certified through the Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association (EAGALA) model as a military designated mental health professional and equine specialist. I am also trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). I find that many folks benefit from being able to address the past to move forward effectively.
(252) 494-5452 View (252) 494-5452
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Karen Tompkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Bern, NC 28560  (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
Over 30 years' experience helping people with emotional pain, trauma, fear, anxiety, depression, confusion, grief, esteem, stress, and life changes including heart break and narcissistic abuse. I can assist you in using your personal strengths, develop new coping skills and strategies that you can, immediately use to feel better and live fully.
Over 30 years' experience helping people with emotional pain, trauma, fear, anxiety, depression, confusion, grief, esteem, stress, and life changes including heart break and narcissistic abuse. I can assist you in using your personal strengths, develop new coping skills and strategies that you can, immediately use to feel better and live fully.
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Compassion Focused Therapists

How does compassion-focused therapy work?

Compassion-Focused Therapy is based on the idea that humans have at least three emotion regulation systems, including one that responds to threats and another that allows us to self-soothe. Those who experienced serious childhood adversity, the theory goes, have a hyperactive threat system and an underperforming self-soothing system, leaving them vulnerable to shame and a hypercritical mindset. CFT focuses on bringing these systems back into balance, helping the client be kinder to themselves and better able to accept kindness from others.

Is compassion-focused therapy a type of CBT?

Compassion-focused therapy is closely related to cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and employs many of its techniques. In addition to CBT, CFT also draws from the fields of biology, evolutionary psychology, neuroscience, developmental psychology, and Buddhism. It also has similarities to some types of trauma-focused therapies.

Is compassion-focused therapy evidence based?

Evidence suggests that CFT can be helpful in the treatment of anxiety, mood disorders, eating disorders, personality disorders, psychosis, and other mental illnesses. It has also been shown to be beneficial for individuals who may not have diagnosable psychiatric disorders but who still struggle with persistent self-criticism and feelings of shame.

What are the limitations of compassion-focused therapy?

Compassion-focused therapy is still a relatively new therapy, and research on its efficacy is still in its early stages; while some studies have found positive results, many have suffered from quality issues or small sample sizes. And while most CFT clients find it difficult to practice self-compassion at first, some—especially those who actively fear compassion or are deeply uncomfortable being cared for—may not be fully open to the tenets of CFT, potentially limiting the therapy’s long-term effectiveness.