Gottman Method Therapists in Monroe, NC

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Thrive Counseling Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
Monroe, NC 28112
Thrive Counseling Services PLLC is a group practice dedicated in providing high quality care tailored to meet your individual needs. Our goal is to provide an intimate environment that is safe, supportive and confidential.
Thrive Counseling Services PLLC is a group practice dedicated in providing high quality care tailored to meet your individual needs. Our goal is to provide an intimate environment that is safe, supportive and confidential.
(704) 817-2527 View (704) 817-2527
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Mijin Gina Wall
Counselor, MACC, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Monroe, NC 28110
As your counselor, I am here to support you and collaborate with you in making meaning, experiencing growth and healing and uncovering resources to help you be your best self. Taking an evidenced-based, client-centered, trauma-informed, attachment based approach. I provide a safe and supportive space where we can collaborate and work at your own pace to help you reach your goals. I am an English-Korean bilingual with rich lived experiences in both cultures.
As your counselor, I am here to support you and collaborate with you in making meaning, experiencing growth and healing and uncovering resources to help you be your best self. Taking an evidenced-based, client-centered, trauma-informed, attachment based approach. I provide a safe and supportive space where we can collaborate and work at your own pace to help you reach your goals. I am an English-Korean bilingual with rich lived experiences in both cultures.
(704) 397-4616 View (704) 397-4616
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Meg Telfer
Counselor, LCMHC, LCASA, EMDR
Verified Verified
Monroe, NC 28112
I believe the role of a therapist is to offer unconditional acceptance and walk alongside each client as they work through their issues. There are many different tools to help each client achieve their goals. Setting up a treatment plan with attainable goals with clear direction is essential in the counseling process. Each client comes with their own belief system. I am committed to helping clients find the inner peace that comes through relationships with people and a higher power. I am trained in biblical principles and a Christian, but I am committed to helping each person find their own path and their own beliefs.
I believe the role of a therapist is to offer unconditional acceptance and walk alongside each client as they work through their issues. There are many different tools to help each client achieve their goals. Setting up a treatment plan with attainable goals with clear direction is essential in the counseling process. Each client comes with their own belief system. I am committed to helping clients find the inner peace that comes through relationships with people and a higher power. I am trained in biblical principles and a Christian, but I am committed to helping each person find their own path and their own beliefs.
(704) 703-2770 View (704) 703-2770
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Carolyn J Henderson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCMHC, QS, NCC, BCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Monroe, NC 28110
I am an interactive, cognitive behavioral client-centered therapist who focuses on the development of healthy relationships that have been impacted by trauma, grief and loss, infidelity, life transitions, depression, domestic and substance abuse. My empathetic and compassionate approach provides support and practical feedback while building on client's strengths using an empowerment model and the development of deeper self-discovery and awareness. The goal is to identify effective coping strategies to manage what clients are currently experiencing. I endeavor to walk alongside of clients in the midst of their pain and their joy.
I am an interactive, cognitive behavioral client-centered therapist who focuses on the development of healthy relationships that have been impacted by trauma, grief and loss, infidelity, life transitions, depression, domestic and substance abuse. My empathetic and compassionate approach provides support and practical feedback while building on client's strengths using an empowerment model and the development of deeper self-discovery and awareness. The goal is to identify effective coping strategies to manage what clients are currently experiencing. I endeavor to walk alongside of clients in the midst of their pain and their joy.
(704) 946-5674 View (704) 946-5674
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Brenda Louise Puckett
Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Monroe, NC 28112
I am a Generalist, working with children adolescents, individuals, couples and families. I use a CBT approach, with Christ-centered focus with scripture and prayer. Trauma healing and transformation are essential in my practice.
I am a Generalist, working with children adolescents, individuals, couples and families. I use a CBT approach, with Christ-centered focus with scripture and prayer. Trauma healing and transformation are essential in my practice.
(704) 385-4121 View (704) 385-4121
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Leah Schumacher
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Monroe, NC 28112
Not accepting new clients
My belief is that real change can occur in one's life when they work with a therapist who is genuine and unbiased; someone who has a desire to see others moving forward and living their lives to the fullest. It would be a true honor to be that individual for you or your loved one.
My belief is that real change can occur in one's life when they work with a therapist who is genuine and unbiased; someone who has a desire to see others moving forward and living their lives to the fullest. It would be a true honor to be that individual for you or your loved one.
(704) 879-2628 View (704) 879-2628

More Therapists Nearby

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Alma Williams Burch
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, PhD, LCMHC, CCMC
Verified Verified
Matthews, NC 28104  (Online Only)
People come to counseling because they want to change their personal or family situation, solve a particular problem, or simply bring a healthier balance to their lives. My role as your counselor is to support, encourage and assist you in doing the necessary work to discover, understand, heal and move forward. I use particular concepts and techniques selected from a broad range of therapies. I primarily draw from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Solutions Focused, Behavior Therapy, Talk Therapy, and Mindfulness. I integrate these and other therapies with Biblical principles and a Christian worldview.
People come to counseling because they want to change their personal or family situation, solve a particular problem, or simply bring a healthier balance to their lives. My role as your counselor is to support, encourage and assist you in doing the necessary work to discover, understand, heal and move forward. I use particular concepts and techniques selected from a broad range of therapies. I primarily draw from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Solutions Focused, Behavior Therapy, Talk Therapy, and Mindfulness. I integrate these and other therapies with Biblical principles and a Christian worldview.
(704) 228-9263 View (704) 228-9263
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Bright View Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Indian Trail, NC 28079
At Bright View Counseling we are breaking the traditional mold of talk therapy and counseling and bringing a new, brighter idea of what therapy could and should look like with our ‘Therapy With A Twist!’ approach. Our therapy approach is holistic, humanistic, and person-focused. We bring the power of the natural world into the therapeutic process. We take walks outside, participate in outdoor activities with clients, and integrate activities and games. We also get a helping paw from our office dog, Charlotte, who comes into sessions to provide a furry friend to hug, pet, and receive emotional support from.
At Bright View Counseling we are breaking the traditional mold of talk therapy and counseling and bringing a new, brighter idea of what therapy could and should look like with our ‘Therapy With A Twist!’ approach. Our therapy approach is holistic, humanistic, and person-focused. We bring the power of the natural world into the therapeutic process. We take walks outside, participate in outdoor activities with clients, and integrate activities and games. We also get a helping paw from our office dog, Charlotte, who comes into sessions to provide a furry friend to hug, pet, and receive emotional support from.
(980) 549-3989 View (980) 549-3989
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Kyle Heinicke
LCMHC Associate, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
Indian Trail, NC 28079
I strive to create a safe space that is client centered and holistic, meeting my clients where they are at. I have worked primarily with adolescents, adults and couples. I enjoy working with individuals who are struggling with anxiety and depression. People who are striving to overcome symptoms, look for self-improvement that fits their lifestyle and goals, and create meaningful positive relationships both in and outside of the session. Furthermore, couples who are struggling, have felt a growing distance, or just want to increase their communication and intimacy can work collaboratively with me to improve their relationship!
I strive to create a safe space that is client centered and holistic, meeting my clients where they are at. I have worked primarily with adolescents, adults and couples. I enjoy working with individuals who are struggling with anxiety and depression. People who are striving to overcome symptoms, look for self-improvement that fits their lifestyle and goals, and create meaningful positive relationships both in and outside of the session. Furthermore, couples who are struggling, have felt a growing distance, or just want to increase their communication and intimacy can work collaboratively with me to improve their relationship!
(980) 372-5941 View (980) 372-5941

Online Therapists

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Diana Collins
Counselor, MA, LCMHC-A
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28204
We're all on a journey and I'm honored to help you make sense of it. I work with adults navigating the challenges of life and death, of being human. I see individuals for various issues and welcome you to contact me for an initial conversation. I enjoy working with couples, because relationships can be so challenging. I use assessments, the Gottman Method, and attachment theory to help build relationship satisfaction and intimacy. Some couples only need coaching, some need more. But we live in difficult times, and we all need someone we can talk to, someone who will walk beside us on this journey, offering comfort and support.
We're all on a journey and I'm honored to help you make sense of it. I work with adults navigating the challenges of life and death, of being human. I see individuals for various issues and welcome you to contact me for an initial conversation. I enjoy working with couples, because relationships can be so challenging. I use assessments, the Gottman Method, and attachment theory to help build relationship satisfaction and intimacy. Some couples only need coaching, some need more. But we live in difficult times, and we all need someone we can talk to, someone who will walk beside us on this journey, offering comfort and support.
(704) 389-2650 View (704) 389-2650
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Breta M. Collins
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28203
I have completed Level 3 training in the Gottman Method of Relationship Therapy.
Life and love can be messy. Our 24/7 world can make otherwise successful people get out of balance in their lives and in their relationships. The good news is: quality, research-based counseling works for couples and individuals. Together, we can help you and/or your relationship feel better.
I have completed Level 3 training in the Gottman Method of Relationship Therapy.
Life and love can be messy. Our 24/7 world can make otherwise successful people get out of balance in their lives and in their relationships. The good news is: quality, research-based counseling works for couples and individuals. Together, we can help you and/or your relationship feel better.
(704) 276-6626 View (704) 276-6626
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Nancy Conrad Ball Counseling & Consulting PLLC
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MEd, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Greensboro, NC 27408
My therapeutic approach reflects influences derived from my training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), family systems therapy, cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness based therapy and energy psychology.
Selecting a therapist is an important decision. Creating a therapeutic rapport with a perfect stranger and discussing very personal issues can be intimidating. I'd like to help make this process more comfortable. I have been working with individuals, couples, and families for 28 years. My integrative approach helps you utilize your skills and strengths to identify and solve current problems. It also affords you the opportunity to resolve long standing issues by learning new skills, tapping into your own inner resources and recognizing the body, mind and spirit connection.
My therapeutic approach reflects influences derived from my training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), family systems therapy, cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness based therapy and energy psychology.
Selecting a therapist is an important decision. Creating a therapeutic rapport with a perfect stranger and discussing very personal issues can be intimidating. I'd like to help make this process more comfortable. I have been working with individuals, couples, and families for 28 years. My integrative approach helps you utilize your skills and strengths to identify and solve current problems. It also affords you the opportunity to resolve long standing issues by learning new skills, tapping into your own inner resources and recognizing the body, mind and spirit connection.
(336) 268-8029 View (336) 268-8029
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Timothy Spitzhoff
Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS-A
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Huntersville, NC 28078
I use techniques from Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Cognitive Behaviors Therapy, Gottman Method, and Brainspotting.
I work with individuals who have trouble with managing stress and relationships. I specifically work with clients who experience Borderline Personality Disorder, Bipolar Disorder, and Anxiety. It can be hard to manage symptoms in these areas without effective coping skills and someone to help. I do my best to listen to my client's needs and help them get to where they want to go.
I use techniques from Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Cognitive Behaviors Therapy, Gottman Method, and Brainspotting.
I work with individuals who have trouble with managing stress and relationships. I specifically work with clients who experience Borderline Personality Disorder, Bipolar Disorder, and Anxiety. It can be hard to manage symptoms in these areas without effective coping skills and someone to help. I do my best to listen to my client's needs and help them get to where they want to go.
(704) 842-9199 View (704) 842-9199
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Justin J Barnes
Counselor, MA, LCMHC, LCASA, NCC
Verified Verified
Huntersville, NC 28078
I earned my graduate degree from the University of North Carolina at Charlotte in Counseling with a concentration in addictions. I obtained my undergraduate degree from Charlotte Christian College and Theological Seminary in Urban Christian Ministries, where I graduated Summa Cum Laude. Areas of treatment include anxiety, stress, addiction, depression, grief & loss, and life challenges. My treatment approaches are evidence-based and include Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), Person-centered therapy, and Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing (EMDR). I have completed Level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
I earned my graduate degree from the University of North Carolina at Charlotte in Counseling with a concentration in addictions. I obtained my undergraduate degree from Charlotte Christian College and Theological Seminary in Urban Christian Ministries, where I graduated Summa Cum Laude. Areas of treatment include anxiety, stress, addiction, depression, grief & loss, and life challenges. My treatment approaches are evidence-based and include Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), Person-centered therapy, and Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing (EMDR). I have completed Level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
(980) 291-4986 x704 View (980) 291-4986 x704
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Darryl Brown Jr.
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CCS
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Huntersville, NC 28078
I am proud to have received advanced training through the Gottman Institute and utilize the Gottman Method in my couples work.
Life is not always easy. Sometimes life is challenging because of circumstances related to our actions; sometimes these challenges are a result of circumstances beyond our control. Regardless, these circumstances do not define us. It is, instead, our response to these circumstances that determines our course. My passion is working with individuals and families who are facing these storms. I love walking with my clients through these storms and into a bright new day. It is my hope that each of my clients will learn not just to weather and survive these storms but rather to conquer and overcome them.
I am proud to have received advanced training through the Gottman Institute and utilize the Gottman Method in my couples work.
Life is not always easy. Sometimes life is challenging because of circumstances related to our actions; sometimes these challenges are a result of circumstances beyond our control. Regardless, these circumstances do not define us. It is, instead, our response to these circumstances that determines our course. My passion is working with individuals and families who are facing these storms. I love walking with my clients through these storms and into a bright new day. It is my hope that each of my clients will learn not just to weather and survive these storms but rather to conquer and overcome them.
(704) 209-4623 x2 View (704) 209-4623 x2
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Dr. Galina Olivera-Celdran
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LCMHC-S
Verified Verified
Charlotte, NC 28270
I am trained in Gottman Method to Couples Counseling, Prepare-Enrich, EMDR (trauma counseling), CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy), DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy), IFS (Internal Family Systems) and EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy for marriage counseling).
I offer counseling for PTSD, trauma, anxiety, depression, OCD and relationship difficulties. If you experienced trauma in your adulthood or childhood, I will teach you how to use relaxation and grounding to manage distress, process and make sense of traumatic events and equip you to respond rather than react in triggering situations. If you need counseling for anxiety and depression, we will work on skills to regulate your emotions, bring your anxiety to a healthy level, experience joy, purpose and connection with others. If you seek counseling for OCD, I can help you tolerate uncertainty and fears to improve your quality of life.
I am trained in Gottman Method to Couples Counseling, Prepare-Enrich, EMDR (trauma counseling), CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy), DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy), IFS (Internal Family Systems) and EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy for marriage counseling).
I offer counseling for PTSD, trauma, anxiety, depression, OCD and relationship difficulties. If you experienced trauma in your adulthood or childhood, I will teach you how to use relaxation and grounding to manage distress, process and make sense of traumatic events and equip you to respond rather than react in triggering situations. If you need counseling for anxiety and depression, we will work on skills to regulate your emotions, bring your anxiety to a healthy level, experience joy, purpose and connection with others. If you seek counseling for OCD, I can help you tolerate uncertainty and fears to improve your quality of life.
(704) 327-0383 View (704) 327-0383
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Ria Crissinger
Counselor, MA, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
Charlotte, NC 28204
I incorporate the Gottman Method in couples counseling and Prepare and Enrich curriculum in premarital work.
I approach counseling with compassion and curiosity, with the goal of offering space for others to work through difficult emotions and experiences. I encourage those I work with to show the same curiosity and compassion toward themselves as I know this work can be challenging at times, but also exceptionally rewarding. I utilize psychodynamic techniques in therapy, which are targeted toward helping people understand how their unique history affects their present lives and relationships. Through this insight individuals can find healing and become more equipped to make the lasting changes they want to see in their life.
I incorporate the Gottman Method in couples counseling and Prepare and Enrich curriculum in premarital work.
I approach counseling with compassion and curiosity, with the goal of offering space for others to work through difficult emotions and experiences. I encourage those I work with to show the same curiosity and compassion toward themselves as I know this work can be challenging at times, but also exceptionally rewarding. I utilize psychodynamic techniques in therapy, which are targeted toward helping people understand how their unique history affects their present lives and relationships. Through this insight individuals can find healing and become more equipped to make the lasting changes they want to see in their life.
(704) 981-8973 View (704) 981-8973
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Amber K Lynn
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Huntersville, NC 28078
These may include CBT, DBT, EMDR, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, IFS and parts work, and animal assisted therapy in counseling.
My passion for counseling developed from my own journey with chronic migraines, anxiety, and relationships. I enjoy working with couples and adults on a wide range of issues impacting well-being including, but not limited to, stress, trauma, communication and relationships, anxiety, depression, chronic pain, identity, mild disordered eating, confidence, or just feeling “stuck” and dissatisfied with one’s direction in life.
These may include CBT, DBT, EMDR, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, IFS and parts work, and animal assisted therapy in counseling.
My passion for counseling developed from my own journey with chronic migraines, anxiety, and relationships. I enjoy working with couples and adults on a wide range of issues impacting well-being including, but not limited to, stress, trauma, communication and relationships, anxiety, depression, chronic pain, identity, mild disordered eating, confidence, or just feeling “stuck” and dissatisfied with one’s direction in life.
(704) 237-6560 View (704) 237-6560
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Ashley Malone
Pre-Licensed Professional, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
Fayetteville, NC 28305
I specialize in couples counseling using the Gottman Method.
I understand that therapy may be a big step for many and emotions may even be a bit scary. That’s why I make it my responsibility to create a safe and trusting, collaborative environment. I want the people that I work with to feel comfortable sharing their stories while also not shying away from exploring the scary parts as well. I like to approach these issues using acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT). This approach highlights compassion and mindfulness to help individuals accept their emotions without judgment, notice and disengage with unhelpful thoughts, and learn to commit to their values by confronting avoidance.
I specialize in couples counseling using the Gottman Method.
I understand that therapy may be a big step for many and emotions may even be a bit scary. That’s why I make it my responsibility to create a safe and trusting, collaborative environment. I want the people that I work with to feel comfortable sharing their stories while also not shying away from exploring the scary parts as well. I like to approach these issues using acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT). This approach highlights compassion and mindfulness to help individuals accept their emotions without judgment, notice and disengage with unhelpful thoughts, and learn to commit to their values by confronting avoidance.
(919) 759-6876 View (919) 759-6876
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Camille Briggs Individuals And Couples
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, MS, NCC, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Greensboro, NC 27410
My clinical approach pulls from the Person-Centered, the Gottman Method, and a trauma-informed framework.
I work with struggling couples, anxious parents, and adults who want to heal and navigate emotional and life difficulties. Take the first step and contact me – Text me at 336-663-6570 with your counseling questions. People come to me for support to manage depression, relationship issues, anxiety, or trauma. I prioritize meeting you where you are and collaborating to discover where you want to go while on your therapeutic journey.
My clinical approach pulls from the Person-Centered, the Gottman Method, and a trauma-informed framework.
I work with struggling couples, anxious parents, and adults who want to heal and navigate emotional and life difficulties. Take the first step and contact me – Text me at 336-663-6570 with your counseling questions. People come to me for support to manage depression, relationship issues, anxiety, or trauma. I prioritize meeting you where you are and collaborating to discover where you want to go while on your therapeutic journey.
(336) 753-2773 View (336) 753-2773
Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.