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Dr. Karen N Davis
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHCS
Verified Verified
Pittsboro, NC 27312
My approach in working with you is strengths-based and based on the laws of attraction, our power to live more intentionally and more connected with the universe to create a life that we both desire and deserve. As humans, we all share the basic desires of love, wanting to be loved and self-fulfillment. Maybe you've been feeling burned out and at the end of your rope? You may have a strong desire to realize your potential and purpose, but don't know where to start. Well, you've definitely come to the right place. I offer counseling services and life coaching that is intentional and unique to your specific needs.
My approach in working with you is strengths-based and based on the laws of attraction, our power to live more intentionally and more connected with the universe to create a life that we both desire and deserve. As humans, we all share the basic desires of love, wanting to be loved and self-fulfillment. Maybe you've been feeling burned out and at the end of your rope? You may have a strong desire to realize your potential and purpose, but don't know where to start. Well, you've definitely come to the right place. I offer counseling services and life coaching that is intentional and unique to your specific needs.
(984) 538-9620 View (984) 538-9620
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Ricki L Geiger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CGP
Verified Verified
Pittsboro, NC 27312  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Online Only. Check your insurance. I can help you unravel difficult experiences-past and present, work through bad feelings and cultivate positive change. As a process relational psychotherapist coupled with a somatic and PolyVagal Theory lens, I specialize in healing childhood abuse/neglect, and trauma related stress and symptoms: shame, depression, loss of self, numbing, anxiety, self-destructive behavior, chronic grief and pain, attachment and trust issues, feeling helpless and hopeless. Over time, you will relinquish old self-defeating internal messages, behaviors; gain confidence and skills and enjoy a fuller life.
Online Only. Check your insurance. I can help you unravel difficult experiences-past and present, work through bad feelings and cultivate positive change. As a process relational psychotherapist coupled with a somatic and PolyVagal Theory lens, I specialize in healing childhood abuse/neglect, and trauma related stress and symptoms: shame, depression, loss of self, numbing, anxiety, self-destructive behavior, chronic grief and pain, attachment and trust issues, feeling helpless and hopeless. Over time, you will relinquish old self-defeating internal messages, behaviors; gain confidence and skills and enjoy a fuller life.
(919) 642-2133 View (919) 642-2133
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Gabrielle Brooks
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Pittsboro, NC 27312
NIGHT AND WEEKEND APPOINTMENTS AVAILABLE ( 10am-8pm) . Welcome! My name is Gabrielle Brooks. I gladly welcome the opportunity to work with you on the struggles you are facing in life. I work from a collaborative and strength-based perspective. I will help you rediscover the best version of yourself. I have experience working with families, couples, and individuals of all ages. I want to ensure that we are a great fit so I provide a free 30-minute consultation.
NIGHT AND WEEKEND APPOINTMENTS AVAILABLE ( 10am-8pm) . Welcome! My name is Gabrielle Brooks. I gladly welcome the opportunity to work with you on the struggles you are facing in life. I work from a collaborative and strength-based perspective. I will help you rediscover the best version of yourself. I have experience working with families, couples, and individuals of all ages. I want to ensure that we are a great fit so I provide a free 30-minute consultation.
(984) 205-9192 View (984) 205-9192
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Trevor Thompson
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, DMin, LMFTA
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Pittsboro, NC 27312
Whether you are a couple experiencing conflict or lack of intimacy, an individual feeling overwhelmed and stuck, or a family looking to address issues of boundaries and miscommunication, I am here to help. Life is challenging, and it takes vulnerability to step into your experience and courage to be present with your own suffering. I provide a comfortable space for you to delve into the deepest parts of your experience while offering support, tools, and curiosity to make your everyday life more manageable and meaningful. Our inner lives and relationships are often our greatest teachers.
Whether you are a couple experiencing conflict or lack of intimacy, an individual feeling overwhelmed and stuck, or a family looking to address issues of boundaries and miscommunication, I am here to help. Life is challenging, and it takes vulnerability to step into your experience and courage to be present with your own suffering. I provide a comfortable space for you to delve into the deepest parts of your experience while offering support, tools, and curiosity to make your everyday life more manageable and meaningful. Our inner lives and relationships are often our greatest teachers.
(919) 298-8669 View (919) 298-8669
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Sharon Tyler McGee
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Pittsboro, NC 27312  (Online Only)
It's okay to not be okay. Learning to manage mental health symptoms and issues can be a difficult challenge. Deciding to get help is an important decision and I am so glad you are here. If you are on my page, you are taking the first step in trying to change your life. Learning to change patterns and seek support can be a scary thing, but the first step is finding a therapist who is a good fit for you.
It's okay to not be okay. Learning to manage mental health symptoms and issues can be a difficult challenge. Deciding to get help is an important decision and I am so glad you are here. If you are on my page, you are taking the first step in trying to change your life. Learning to change patterns and seek support can be a scary thing, but the first step is finding a therapist who is a good fit for you.
(919) 892-6318 View (919) 892-6318
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Beth F Flack
Psychological Associate, MA, LPA, LCAS
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Pittsboro, NC 27312
As a therapist and human being, I believe understanding our emotions is important in all aspects of our lives. I truly enjoy getting to know how others experience emotions and can help in the identification and regulation of hurtful and unwanted emotions. I feel grateful to be able to offer you a therapeutic environment wherein you can discuss painful experiences, thoughts and emotions and learn to cope and resolve those experiences in safe space. I will help you learn and cope with difficult, intense emotions, grief, mood symptoms, and ineffective behaviors through warmth, acceptance, and gentle nudging towards change.
As a therapist and human being, I believe understanding our emotions is important in all aspects of our lives. I truly enjoy getting to know how others experience emotions and can help in the identification and regulation of hurtful and unwanted emotions. I feel grateful to be able to offer you a therapeutic environment wherein you can discuss painful experiences, thoughts and emotions and learn to cope and resolve those experiences in safe space. I will help you learn and cope with difficult, intense emotions, grief, mood symptoms, and ineffective behaviors through warmth, acceptance, and gentle nudging towards change.
(984) 223-8101 View (984) 223-8101
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Clare R Brown
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Pittsboro, NC 27312
What is it that brings vitality? What gets you stuck? Often times we don't realize, we are not taught, that the key to well being is our relationship with self and with what is actually happening, not what we think should happen. As we learn to trust what is arising rather than believe it is bad, and we learn to value and process emotions and experiences, we start to relate to our self and to life differently. Setting limits, bold choices, passion and clarity become more possible and natural. And so we find: our suffering, our symptoms turn out not to be a problem to be fixed, but a gateway to our freedom.
What is it that brings vitality? What gets you stuck? Often times we don't realize, we are not taught, that the key to well being is our relationship with self and with what is actually happening, not what we think should happen. As we learn to trust what is arising rather than believe it is bad, and we learn to value and process emotions and experiences, we start to relate to our self and to life differently. Setting limits, bold choices, passion and clarity become more possible and natural. And so we find: our suffering, our symptoms turn out not to be a problem to be fixed, but a gateway to our freedom.
(919) 344-0148 View (919) 344-0148
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Gail Gustafson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Pittsboro, NC 27312
Everyone needs help along the way..... One of the greatest signs of strength is asking for the help you need. Life can be complicated, stressful and sometimes even traumatic - but it is also beautiful, joyful, and filled with possibilities. What is keeping you from moving toward the life you want? Whether struggling with depression, anxiety, unresolved trauma, relationship issues, or whatever is getting in your way, my goal is to help you help yourself. Things can get better. Take that first step toward healing.
Everyone needs help along the way..... One of the greatest signs of strength is asking for the help you need. Life can be complicated, stressful and sometimes even traumatic - but it is also beautiful, joyful, and filled with possibilities. What is keeping you from moving toward the life you want? Whether struggling with depression, anxiety, unresolved trauma, relationship issues, or whatever is getting in your way, my goal is to help you help yourself. Things can get better. Take that first step toward healing.
(919) 759-6226 View (919) 759-6226
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Lynda Heymen, Psy.D., P.A.
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Pittsboro, NC 27312
After working with patients for over 30 years, I have come to believe that setting clear therapeutic goals and establishing a working partnership of trust and commitment are keys to success. My aim is to balance acceptance, compassion, and validation with the need to make sustainable changes. Learning self-regulation and life skills are priorities. Developing effective action plans in a safe and non-judgmental environment also facilitate positive outcomes. I look for every opportunity to collaborate with other providers if my patients request this and are seeking a team approach.
After working with patients for over 30 years, I have come to believe that setting clear therapeutic goals and establishing a working partnership of trust and commitment are keys to success. My aim is to balance acceptance, compassion, and validation with the need to make sustainable changes. Learning self-regulation and life skills are priorities. Developing effective action plans in a safe and non-judgmental environment also facilitate positive outcomes. I look for every opportunity to collaborate with other providers if my patients request this and are seeking a team approach.
(984) 214-4067 View (984) 214-4067
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Kirsten Figaro
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Pittsboro, NC 27312
My mission in therapy is to hold space where positive change can happen, hope can flourish, and relationships can thrive. I encourage clients to explore their roots and worldview and identify areas for growth and healing. Clients can expect that each of their sessions with me will be an experience where they can safely share and edit their story so that they can find the freedom to live the life they truly want. I am passionate about assisting clients with: anxiety, attachment wounds, trauma, sex & intimacy, depression, relationship issues, infidelity & affairs, pre-marital counseling, and family functioning & dynamics.
My mission in therapy is to hold space where positive change can happen, hope can flourish, and relationships can thrive. I encourage clients to explore their roots and worldview and identify areas for growth and healing. Clients can expect that each of their sessions with me will be an experience where they can safely share and edit their story so that they can find the freedom to live the life they truly want. I am passionate about assisting clients with: anxiety, attachment wounds, trauma, sex & intimacy, depression, relationship issues, infidelity & affairs, pre-marital counseling, and family functioning & dynamics.
(919) 343-5380 View (919) 343-5380
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Ruth Morgans
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Pittsboro, NC 27312
Not accepting new clients
Feeling stressed? Overwhelmed? Stuck? Trouble communicating with others in your life or navigating life's ups and downs? Wondering if therapy might help? Human interactions sometimes cause misunderstandings and conflicts. Whether working with children, adolescents, adults, couples or families, I believe that the idea of fairness and responsibility within our relationships is important. Problems arise when we are not treated fairly or do not take responsibility for our own actions. Psychotherapy is a unique collaboration between psychotherapist and client. It can vary depending on the personalities of the psychotherapist and the client and the particular issues you bring forward.
Feeling stressed? Overwhelmed? Stuck? Trouble communicating with others in your life or navigating life's ups and downs? Wondering if therapy might help? Human interactions sometimes cause misunderstandings and conflicts. Whether working with children, adolescents, adults, couples or families, I believe that the idea of fairness and responsibility within our relationships is important. Problems arise when we are not treated fairly or do not take responsibility for our own actions. Psychotherapy is a unique collaboration between psychotherapist and client. It can vary depending on the personalities of the psychotherapist and the client and the particular issues you bring forward.
(919) 295-3962 View (919) 295-3962

Online Therapists

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Anne Storelli
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chapel Hill, NC 27517
Waitlist for new clients
I work with people who are struggling with depression, anxiety, PTSD, ADHD, personality disorders, adjustment disorders, anger management, codependency, recovery from past abuse, life transitions and spiritual concerns.
Life can be challenging, and most of us need help at one time or another. I offer a safe place to process thoughts and feelings, a place to be heard and understood - an experience that is increasingly rare in our modern, fast paced lives. Taking time to explore your interior world can be a tremendous opportunity for growth in your own sense of well-being and in your relationships with others. I enjoy working with adults and children, couples and families, focusing on your personal challenges and empowering you to find a way to meet your goals.
I work with people who are struggling with depression, anxiety, PTSD, ADHD, personality disorders, adjustment disorders, anger management, codependency, recovery from past abuse, life transitions and spiritual concerns.
Life can be challenging, and most of us need help at one time or another. I offer a safe place to process thoughts and feelings, a place to be heard and understood - an experience that is increasingly rare in our modern, fast paced lives. Taking time to explore your interior world can be a tremendous opportunity for growth in your own sense of well-being and in your relationships with others. I enjoy working with adults and children, couples and families, focusing on your personal challenges and empowering you to find a way to meet your goals.
(919) 587-8073 View (919) 587-8073
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Jennifer Brigman
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS/EdS, BSN, LCMHC, RN
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27615
I am an expert in narcissistic abuse recovery and codependency.
Hello and welcome! I'm a licensed mental health counselor and registered nurse with over 17 years of experience helping people and couples (ages 18-103) navigate the complexities of their lives. I have advanced training in multiple and diverse relationship trauma treatment modalities, including somatic experiencing, polyvagal theory, family systems, CPT, parts and shadow work, and EMDR.
I am an expert in narcissistic abuse recovery and codependency.
Hello and welcome! I'm a licensed mental health counselor and registered nurse with over 17 years of experience helping people and couples (ages 18-103) navigate the complexities of their lives. I have advanced training in multiple and diverse relationship trauma treatment modalities, including somatic experiencing, polyvagal theory, family systems, CPT, parts and shadow work, and EMDR.
(984) 265-8522 View (984) 265-8522
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Chelsey Farmer
Counselor, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28262
I have worked in the behavioral health field for 10 years supporting families, children and adolescents, and adults in various capacities. I work primarily with children and adolescents, adult females, and elders working to address women's issues (self-esteem/self-worth, codependency), racial & historical trauma, behavioral concerns (ODD & antisocial behaviors) amongst children and adolescents, parent-child conflict, anxiety, and depression. I also have interest in providing an avenue for psychoeducation within religious settings.
I have worked in the behavioral health field for 10 years supporting families, children and adolescents, and adults in various capacities. I work primarily with children and adolescents, adult females, and elders working to address women's issues (self-esteem/self-worth, codependency), racial & historical trauma, behavioral concerns (ODD & antisocial behaviors) amongst children and adolescents, parent-child conflict, anxiety, and depression. I also have interest in providing an avenue for psychoeducation within religious settings.
(704) 741-7944 View (704) 741-7944
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Meg Barry
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LCMHC
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27712
Waitlist for new clients
Approximate 10-12 Month Waitlist: You are inherently good! I am a trauma therapist whose approach is integrative and honors each client’s unique emotional system. I believe that creating safety in client-counselor relationship is at the heart of effective therapy. I greet each client with warmth, understanding, and non-judgement, drawing mindfulness and somatic approaches to bring more authenticity and wholeness in my clients' lives. I am passionate about working with adults with a history of trauma, attachment trauma, codependency, relationship issues, C-PTSD and auto-immune/chronic pain.
Approximate 10-12 Month Waitlist: You are inherently good! I am a trauma therapist whose approach is integrative and honors each client’s unique emotional system. I believe that creating safety in client-counselor relationship is at the heart of effective therapy. I greet each client with warmth, understanding, and non-judgement, drawing mindfulness and somatic approaches to bring more authenticity and wholeness in my clients' lives. I am passionate about working with adults with a history of trauma, attachment trauma, codependency, relationship issues, C-PTSD and auto-immune/chronic pain.
(919) 726-0565 View (919) 726-0565
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Nancy J Smith
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27615  (Online Only)
She works well with clients who struggle with codependency, self esteem issues, experienced trauma, domestic violence and relational issues, pet grief and in the past has practiced equine therapy.
Nancy J. Smith, MSW, LCSW is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker that has been providing mental health services for over 17 years. She earned a Bachelor of Social Work Degree from NC State University in 2000, a Master of Social Work Degree from East Carolina University in 2004 and is a long-standing member of the National Association of Social Workers. Nancy works with clients ages 16 and older. Her approach to counseling is straight forward , meeting clients where they are with no judgment and a goal to collaborate with and support every client.
She works well with clients who struggle with codependency, self esteem issues, experienced trauma, domestic violence and relational issues, pet grief and in the past has practiced equine therapy.
Nancy J. Smith, MSW, LCSW is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker that has been providing mental health services for over 17 years. She earned a Bachelor of Social Work Degree from NC State University in 2000, a Master of Social Work Degree from East Carolina University in 2004 and is a long-standing member of the National Association of Social Workers. Nancy works with clients ages 16 and older. Her approach to counseling is straight forward , meeting clients where they are with no judgment and a goal to collaborate with and support every client.
(984) 224-7271 View (984) 224-7271
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Adrianne Robinson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCAS, RYT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27609
I am a solution-focused therapist, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Licensed Clinical Addiction Specialist and a Registered Yoga Teacher offering therapy and coaching for individuals and families in a warm and welcoming environment. I specialize in anxiety disorders, mindfulness, trauma, PTSD, codependency, adult children of alcoholic issues, life coaching and addiction recovery with clients just like you throughout Raleigh and Wake County.
I am a solution-focused therapist, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Licensed Clinical Addiction Specialist and a Registered Yoga Teacher offering therapy and coaching for individuals and families in a warm and welcoming environment. I specialize in anxiety disorders, mindfulness, trauma, PTSD, codependency, adult children of alcoholic issues, life coaching and addiction recovery with clients just like you throughout Raleigh and Wake County.
(919) 344-0972 View (919) 344-0972
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Carol Zordano
EdS, LCMHC, LCAS
Verified Verified
Winston Salem, NC 27106
Areas of interest include depression, anxiety, codependency, trauma recovery, self-esteem, grief, substance abuse, life transitions, parenting, burn-out, job stress & compassion fatigue.
Accepting new clients. We all face difficulties that can impact our happiness and quality of life. I invite you to join with me in learning new ways to battle life’s obstacles. I prefer working with individual adults and adolescents, both males and females.. As both a licensed mental health counselor and addiction specialist, I bring 13 years of experience and tools to assist you in building understanding and coping strategies.
Areas of interest include depression, anxiety, codependency, trauma recovery, self-esteem, grief, substance abuse, life transitions, parenting, burn-out, job stress & compassion fatigue.
Accepting new clients. We all face difficulties that can impact our happiness and quality of life. I invite you to join with me in learning new ways to battle life’s obstacles. I prefer working with individual adults and adolescents, both males and females.. As both a licensed mental health counselor and addiction specialist, I bring 13 years of experience and tools to assist you in building understanding and coping strategies.
(336) 283-7070 View (336) 283-7070
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Aghashiyah Wilson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CCTP, TLS-CP
Verified Verified
Charlotte, NC 28215  (Online Only)
I am passionate towards working with those who are struggling with women’s issues, anxiety, life transitions, stress, overcoming difficult past experiences and trauma, self-esteem issues, codependency, relationship issues, and mood disorders such as bi-polar and depression.
First, I want to commend you on taking the step towards creating a more meaningful relationship with yourself through therapy. Understanding ourselves more deeply can feel scary but developing the awareness and skills on how to move forward with any of life’s challenges can feel empowering. I pride myself on creating a safe and inviting space to help you explore and make the best decisions for you. I also understand that no two people are the same and for this reason, I tailor my skills to meet your specific needs. As a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, I take a trauma and resilience-informed approach.
I am passionate towards working with those who are struggling with women’s issues, anxiety, life transitions, stress, overcoming difficult past experiences and trauma, self-esteem issues, codependency, relationship issues, and mood disorders such as bi-polar and depression.
First, I want to commend you on taking the step towards creating a more meaningful relationship with yourself through therapy. Understanding ourselves more deeply can feel scary but developing the awareness and skills on how to move forward with any of life’s challenges can feel empowering. I pride myself on creating a safe and inviting space to help you explore and make the best decisions for you. I also understand that no two people are the same and for this reason, I tailor my skills to meet your specific needs. As a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, I take a trauma and resilience-informed approach.
(704) 318-2806 View (704) 318-2806
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Lily Mudry
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervisor, LCMHCS, LCAS, CCS, MAC, NCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Matthews, NC 28105
I provide counseling to address relational trauma, parenting, adoption, complicated grief, performance-related stress and codependency.
I am a highly skilled and compassionate Trauma Therapist dedicated to providing exceptional care within a holistic framework. I have 30 years of professional counseling experience and have implemented effective treatment for adolescents and adults enduring a variety of mental health and/or substance use disorders. As a Counselor in the healing profession, my emphasis is on furthering your Wellness and Growth. At Eagle Eye Counseling the focus is on a Keeness for Excellence through Healing, Stability and Empowerment. I am also certified as a Master Addictions Counselor and provide Clinical Supervision for both Mental Health Counselors and Addiction Counselors who are seeking licensure.
I provide counseling to address relational trauma, parenting, adoption, complicated grief, performance-related stress and codependency.
I am a highly skilled and compassionate Trauma Therapist dedicated to providing exceptional care within a holistic framework. I have 30 years of professional counseling experience and have implemented effective treatment for adolescents and adults enduring a variety of mental health and/or substance use disorders. As a Counselor in the healing profession, my emphasis is on furthering your Wellness and Growth. At Eagle Eye Counseling the focus is on a Keeness for Excellence through Healing, Stability and Empowerment. I am also certified as a Master Addictions Counselor and provide Clinical Supervision for both Mental Health Counselors and Addiction Counselors who are seeking licensure.
(704) 594-8230 View (704) 594-8230

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Codependency Therapists

What therapy types help with codependency problems?

Both couples and family therapy and cognitive and behavioral therapy (CBT) can help with the relationship difficulties referred to as codependency. Such problems typically include inappropriate feelings of responsibility for a loved one’s destructive behavior, irrational patterns of thinking about such behavior, and family interaction patterns in which the needs of one troubled member override the needs of others in a household.

What happens in therapy for codependency?

Spouses and family members learn and practice how to interact and support each other in a healthy way without sacrificing their own needs or well-being. They learn the limits of their responsibility for their loved ones and correct faulty patterns of thinking and feeling that underlie codependent behavior. Individuals may be encouraged to nurture an array of social relationships and to cultivate their own talents and interests so that they develop a healthy sense of self outside the family.

How does therapy help a person or couple overcome codependency?

Therapy helps people establish healthy ways of being in a relationship. Spouses and family members learn how to nurture and support one another without sacrificing their own needs or allowing the needs of one person to dominate the dynamic. Individuals learn how to say no and set boundaries, and how to maintain their own identity and self-esteem. Therapy helps people understand that they are not responsible for the feelings and actions of others. It also helps individuals deal with the turbulence that can come from living with a person suffering from such conditions as substance abuse and mental illness.

What is the goal of therapy for codependency?

One goal of therapy for codependency is to alleviate feelings of responsibility for and correct irrational patterns of thinking about loved ones whose behavioral problems override the needs of others in a household. Therapy helps people establish healthy boundaries of behavior and speak up for their own needs in a relationship. In addition, people learn how to maintain a healthy relationship, one in which both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity.