Sex Therapists in Mebane, NC

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Jan Tate
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MEd, CSOTP
Verified Verified
Mebane, NC 27302
I am psychotherapist, sex therapist, couples therapist, and forensic psychosexual evaluator.
People often seek therapy to resolve past experiences and life complexities and the decision to enter therapy may carry feelings of ambivalence and uncertainty. I believe that therapy is most effective when persons are offered an environment that is inviting, attentive, collaborative, affirming, and safe. Subsequently, my goal is to provide a challenging, but non-judgmental and encouraging atmosphere for persons to explore concerns and difficulties as a means of achieving desired change.
I am psychotherapist, sex therapist, couples therapist, and forensic psychosexual evaluator.
People often seek therapy to resolve past experiences and life complexities and the decision to enter therapy may carry feelings of ambivalence and uncertainty. I believe that therapy is most effective when persons are offered an environment that is inviting, attentive, collaborative, affirming, and safe. Subsequently, my goal is to provide a challenging, but non-judgmental and encouraging atmosphere for persons to explore concerns and difficulties as a means of achieving desired change.
(984) 203-6492 View (984) 203-6492
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Bridges to Hope Counseling, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mebane, NC 27302
Waitlist for new clients
I am Licensed Clinical Social Worker practicing in the therapy community for the past 10+ years. I create a safe, comfortable environment to share and explore the thoughts and areas of your life you want to change. My goal is to help you identify the challenges in your life and guide you through the necessary steps with appropriate therapeutic modalities to improve your situation, give you a better quality of life, and foster hope. I am a dedicated therapist and social worker who treats each individual client with care, respect, and very specific treatment approaches in order to suit your particular needs.
I am Licensed Clinical Social Worker practicing in the therapy community for the past 10+ years. I create a safe, comfortable environment to share and explore the thoughts and areas of your life you want to change. My goal is to help you identify the challenges in your life and guide you through the necessary steps with appropriate therapeutic modalities to improve your situation, give you a better quality of life, and foster hope. I am a dedicated therapist and social worker who treats each individual client with care, respect, and very specific treatment approaches in order to suit your particular needs.
(919) 725-8950 View (919) 725-8950
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Jessica Jeremiah
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCAS, CCS
Verified Verified
Mebane, NC 27302
Every person I serve has a unique story. While some clients experience challenges in just one area, most experience difficulty multiple areas (mental health, trauma, loss, addiction), creating a complex, vicious cycle if not all parts are addressed. The circumstances that bring someone to therapy do not come in 'neat little packages.' I enjoy sorting out the pieces with each client, getting to the root of the issue, and offering a combination of evidence-based therapeutic interventions that help clients finally begin to experience relief, and start living a happier, more fulfilled life.
Every person I serve has a unique story. While some clients experience challenges in just one area, most experience difficulty multiple areas (mental health, trauma, loss, addiction), creating a complex, vicious cycle if not all parts are addressed. The circumstances that bring someone to therapy do not come in 'neat little packages.' I enjoy sorting out the pieces with each client, getting to the root of the issue, and offering a combination of evidence-based therapeutic interventions that help clients finally begin to experience relief, and start living a happier, more fulfilled life.
(919) 585-5163 View (919) 585-5163
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Karen Canada
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHCS, MS
Verified Verified
Mebane, NC 27302
Stress, anxiety and other difficult emotions may be a normal part of life, but they don't have to be in the driver's seat on life's journey. Through my 25+ years of experience as a counselor and my personal experience of having to reclaim the driver's seat from debilitating anxiety/depression, I have learned the truth behind Marcel Proust's claim that "The voyage of discovery is not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes". It is my goal to help people gain new "eyes" through which to view current or past experiences.
Stress, anxiety and other difficult emotions may be a normal part of life, but they don't have to be in the driver's seat on life's journey. Through my 25+ years of experience as a counselor and my personal experience of having to reclaim the driver's seat from debilitating anxiety/depression, I have learned the truth behind Marcel Proust's claim that "The voyage of discovery is not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes". It is my goal to help people gain new "eyes" through which to view current or past experiences.
(336) 505-4554 View (336) 505-4554

More Therapists Nearby

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Frank Overton
Counselor, ThM, NCLCMHC, NCLMFT
Verified Verified
Hillsborough, NC 27278  (Online Only)
Hi Thanks for taking a look at my profile- Reach out if it seems we might be able to work together in a way that would be helpful to you...I'm working only via telehealth which reduces your commute time. My clients tend to be working on being awake and aware of and attuned to and stressed by the complexity of our culture today. I work with issues of alternative sexuality, gender dysphoria, relationships in all forms including relationships that are kink friendly and/or poly. I come from an eclectic training background but use RLT and IFS more often than other modalities.
Hi Thanks for taking a look at my profile- Reach out if it seems we might be able to work together in a way that would be helpful to you...I'm working only via telehealth which reduces your commute time. My clients tend to be working on being awake and aware of and attuned to and stressed by the complexity of our culture today. I work with issues of alternative sexuality, gender dysphoria, relationships in all forms including relationships that are kink friendly and/or poly. I come from an eclectic training background but use RLT and IFS more often than other modalities.
(919) 443-6303 View (919) 443-6303
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Comprehensive Community Supportive Services PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ACSW, CSOTS, CJSOTS, MAC
Verified Verified
Graham, NC 27253
I am certified to assess and treat sex offenders both adults and juveniles.
Welcome! My name is Jennifer Wilson and I am a licensed clinical social worker providing quality supportive services. I am motivated to provide quality care to children, adolescents, and adults. I continue to work tirelessly to stay abreast of current trends as an out-patient therapist. I earned my Master's in Social Work at Fayetteville State University with a concentration in mental health and substance abuse. I have experience with working with a variety of addictions including but not limited to: sex, gambling, workaholics, substance abuse, and love/relationship.
I am certified to assess and treat sex offenders both adults and juveniles.
Welcome! My name is Jennifer Wilson and I am a licensed clinical social worker providing quality supportive services. I am motivated to provide quality care to children, adolescents, and adults. I continue to work tirelessly to stay abreast of current trends as an out-patient therapist. I earned my Master's in Social Work at Fayetteville State University with a concentration in mental health and substance abuse. I have experience with working with a variety of addictions including but not limited to: sex, gambling, workaholics, substance abuse, and love/relationship.
(844) 562-2777 View (844) 562-2777
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James C. Carpenter
Psychologist, PhD, ABPP
Verified Verified
Hillsborough, NC 27278
Suffering draws us to consider therapy, much as it sends us to any doctor. The suffering therapy focuses on is emotional and existential (a LIFE that is out of whack). If you are considering therapy it means that you take your suffering seriously and wish to seek a more fulfilling life. You know instinctively that more is possible. I have many years of experience in helping people to develop greater strength and more fulfilling relationships.
Suffering draws us to consider therapy, much as it sends us to any doctor. The suffering therapy focuses on is emotional and existential (a LIFE that is out of whack). If you are considering therapy it means that you take your suffering seriously and wish to seek a more fulfilling life. You know instinctively that more is possible. I have many years of experience in helping people to develop greater strength and more fulfilling relationships.
(919) 234-5209 View (919) 234-5209
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Mark P Eades
PhD, LCMHCS
Verified Verified
Efland, NC 27243  (Online Only)
Hello, and welcome to my page! As a mental health counselor and supervisor with over a decade of clinical practice, I bring a wealth and knowledge and experience into my counseling sessions. While I welcome anyone to my private practice who is seeking to improve their life or themselves, I primarily focus my clinical work on anxiety, couples therapy, and men's issues. My small teletherapy practice allows me to focus my time and attention on each of my clients to build a specialized therapeutic approach specifically designed to improve my clients' health, happiness and overall wellbeing.
Hello, and welcome to my page! As a mental health counselor and supervisor with over a decade of clinical practice, I bring a wealth and knowledge and experience into my counseling sessions. While I welcome anyone to my private practice who is seeking to improve their life or themselves, I primarily focus my clinical work on anxiety, couples therapy, and men's issues. My small teletherapy practice allows me to focus my time and attention on each of my clients to build a specialized therapeutic approach specifically designed to improve my clients' health, happiness and overall wellbeing.
(919) 666-3108 View (919) 666-3108
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Miriam Lieberman
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCMHC, LCMHCS, HTCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Graham, NC 27253
Not accepting new clients
Are you looking for a safe place to discuss what matters most to you? Family, work, relationships, health, transitions, grief, loss, children, trauma, life purpose, letting go of past hurts. I love assisting individuals and couples with relationship skills, communication issues, changing self defeating patterns, healing pain (physical and emotional), and learning to be one's best self across settings. I work with children and families in our ever changing world to improve relationships, performance, self awareness, mood, behavior. I bring my many years of experience working with young and old alike to this passionate pursuit of balanced living.
Are you looking for a safe place to discuss what matters most to you? Family, work, relationships, health, transitions, grief, loss, children, trauma, life purpose, letting go of past hurts. I love assisting individuals and couples with relationship skills, communication issues, changing self defeating patterns, healing pain (physical and emotional), and learning to be one's best self across settings. I work with children and families in our ever changing world to improve relationships, performance, self awareness, mood, behavior. I bring my many years of experience working with young and old alike to this passionate pursuit of balanced living.
(919) 335-6347 View (919) 335-6347

Online Therapists

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Helena Alexis Johnson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27616  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I offer a collaborative approach to foster healing from depression, anxiety, relationship issues, sex disorders (male and female), and trauma.
Do you struggle with low libido, sexual dysfunction, depression/anxiety, or the stress of everyday life? Are you struggling to connect physically/emotionally/sexually with your partner? Is communication strained? If so, I am here to help you develop the skills you need to get through life's most challenging moments. Daily, people are searching for relief from internal struggles, personal hardships, and sexual challenges. I want to be the one to help you with any of these issues. Additionally, as a black therapist, I am aware of the struggles people and women of color face on a daily basis. I take pride in helping all heal.
I offer a collaborative approach to foster healing from depression, anxiety, relationship issues, sex disorders (male and female), and trauma.
Do you struggle with low libido, sexual dysfunction, depression/anxiety, or the stress of everyday life? Are you struggling to connect physically/emotionally/sexually with your partner? Is communication strained? If so, I am here to help you develop the skills you need to get through life's most challenging moments. Daily, people are searching for relief from internal struggles, personal hardships, and sexual challenges. I want to be the one to help you with any of these issues. Additionally, as a black therapist, I am aware of the struggles people and women of color face on a daily basis. I take pride in helping all heal.
(984) 239-5876 View (984) 239-5876
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Kati Burkhart
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27713
Kat Burkhart is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC) with over 4 years of experience working with adults and seniors who are seeking assistance in coping with anxiety, stress, ADHD, depression, dysfunctional relationships, life transitions, and sexual dysfunction. Kat works with many different kinds of people, but her main focus revolves around sex therapy. Kat earned her Master's degree in Clinical Psychology with a concentration in Sex Therapy from Capella University. She tends to think outside the box and come up with coping skills, or techniques that may be outside of traditional methods.
Kat Burkhart is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC) with over 4 years of experience working with adults and seniors who are seeking assistance in coping with anxiety, stress, ADHD, depression, dysfunctional relationships, life transitions, and sexual dysfunction. Kat works with many different kinds of people, but her main focus revolves around sex therapy. Kat earned her Master's degree in Clinical Psychology with a concentration in Sex Therapy from Capella University. She tends to think outside the box and come up with coping skills, or techniques that may be outside of traditional methods.
(919) 804-0592 View (919) 804-0592
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Danielle Minges
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CCS
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Cary, NC 27511
Struggling with sex? Fighting with your partner? Hoping to heal from infidelity? Feeling broken or damaged from trauma? Difficulty with substance recovery? I see individuals and couples who are struggling with sex/intimacy, addiction, or trauma. I might be a good fit for you if: Sex is painful, frustrating or boring. You're tired of having the same argument with your partner. You want to heal from an affair. You're ready for recovery but need help with accountability. Maybe you're exploring parts of your sexual identity for the first time, or want to learn something new. You’re ready to heal from frustration, shame, or hopelessness.
Struggling with sex? Fighting with your partner? Hoping to heal from infidelity? Feeling broken or damaged from trauma? Difficulty with substance recovery? I see individuals and couples who are struggling with sex/intimacy, addiction, or trauma. I might be a good fit for you if: Sex is painful, frustrating or boring. You're tired of having the same argument with your partner. You want to heal from an affair. You're ready for recovery but need help with accountability. Maybe you're exploring parts of your sexual identity for the first time, or want to learn something new. You’re ready to heal from frustration, shame, or hopelessness.
(984) 265-8838 View (984) 265-8838
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Bethany Dement
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Wake Forest, NC 27587
Feeling lost, overwhelmed by anxiety, or struggling with depression, ADHD, or trauma? Are social interactions tough, behaviors out of control, or is sexual content affecting your child or relationship? If emotional pain, connection issues, or intimacy challenges are creating tension or anxiety, know you're not alone. I'm Beth, a mental health counselor and ASSECT certified sex therapist with nearly four years of experience. I hold a master’s in counseling from Capella University (2021) and specialize in these areas to support your journey.
Feeling lost, overwhelmed by anxiety, or struggling with depression, ADHD, or trauma? Are social interactions tough, behaviors out of control, or is sexual content affecting your child or relationship? If emotional pain, connection issues, or intimacy challenges are creating tension or anxiety, know you're not alone. I'm Beth, a mental health counselor and ASSECT certified sex therapist with nearly four years of experience. I hold a master’s in counseling from Capella University (2021) and specialize in these areas to support your journey.
(919) 276-8537 View (919) 276-8537
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Mike Tanis
Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, CSAT, CMAT-ED, NCC
Verified Verified
18 Endorsed
Cornelius, NC 28031
Waitlist for new clients
I’m intensively trained in sex therapy, trauma, sexual addictions, LGBTQ population.
Currently have a waitlist for evening clients.I enjoy working with and have extensive training in working with persons experiencing a variety of life's challenges. I tend to see a lot of adolescents, couples and families, as well as individuals that are having challenges in the following areas: anxiety, depression, separation/divorce, trauma and abuse, infidelity, spiritual concerns, career challenges, sexual addictions, sexual intimacy issues, loss and grief, blended family issues, issues of sexuality, parenting, ADHD & focus challenges, oppositional and/or entitled adolescents and overall relationship challenges within families.
I’m intensively trained in sex therapy, trauma, sexual addictions, LGBTQ population.
Currently have a waitlist for evening clients.I enjoy working with and have extensive training in working with persons experiencing a variety of life's challenges. I tend to see a lot of adolescents, couples and families, as well as individuals that are having challenges in the following areas: anxiety, depression, separation/divorce, trauma and abuse, infidelity, spiritual concerns, career challenges, sexual addictions, sexual intimacy issues, loss and grief, blended family issues, issues of sexuality, parenting, ADHD & focus challenges, oppositional and/or entitled adolescents and overall relationship challenges within families.
(704) 751-0173 View (704) 751-0173
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April Reeves
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27605
As well as those who are looking for support from sex therapy, have depression, anxiety, a life transitions and relationship issues.
I offer a safe and non-judgmental space where all parts of you are welcomed to come forward, and will be met with curiosity, empathy and some humor. I am drawn to, and inspired by, the power of human resiliency. I believe we naturally have information, experiences, and tools inside of us, to guide us to a deeper sense of ourselves. I am passionate about helping you discover, explore, and connect to all parts of you, in order to live a more full and embodied life.
As well as those who are looking for support from sex therapy, have depression, anxiety, a life transitions and relationship issues.
I offer a safe and non-judgmental space where all parts of you are welcomed to come forward, and will be met with curiosity, empathy and some humor. I am drawn to, and inspired by, the power of human resiliency. I believe we naturally have information, experiences, and tools inside of us, to guide us to a deeper sense of ourselves. I am passionate about helping you discover, explore, and connect to all parts of you, in order to live a more full and embodied life.
(984) 214-8827 View (984) 214-8827
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Gabriela Magallanes
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSWA, LCASA
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27617
Gabriela operates from a person-centered approach and a strengths-based perspective to help individuals become the best versions of themselves. Every individual is unique. Every individual has strengths. Together through this lens, Gabriela works with her clients to explore the impact of anxiety disorders, substance use, gender and sexuality identity exploration, and trauma. Her goal is to provide a genuine and grounding space for individuals, couples, and families. Gabriela is LGBTQ+ affirming and has a passion for working with non-dominant populations.
Gabriela operates from a person-centered approach and a strengths-based perspective to help individuals become the best versions of themselves. Every individual is unique. Every individual has strengths. Together through this lens, Gabriela works with her clients to explore the impact of anxiety disorders, substance use, gender and sexuality identity exploration, and trauma. Her goal is to provide a genuine and grounding space for individuals, couples, and families. Gabriela is LGBTQ+ affirming and has a passion for working with non-dominant populations.
(919) 899-2960 View (919) 899-2960
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Luree with Counseling Professionals PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27607  (Online Only)
Accepting New Clients - Asking for help is not easy, opening yourself up to a stranger can be uncomfortable, and speaking openly about sex can be difficult, but remaining stuck, is no longer a doable option. Stepping outside your comfort zone symbolizes your desire for change and growth. I want you to know that you are not alone, and you do not have to take this journey to wholeness and sexual wellness by yourself. I applaud you for seeking help and you are worth the change you seek.
Accepting New Clients - Asking for help is not easy, opening yourself up to a stranger can be uncomfortable, and speaking openly about sex can be difficult, but remaining stuck, is no longer a doable option. Stepping outside your comfort zone symbolizes your desire for change and growth. I want you to know that you are not alone, and you do not have to take this journey to wholeness and sexual wellness by yourself. I applaud you for seeking help and you are worth the change you seek.
(984) 273-3727 View (984) 273-3727
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Basil Guyer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27705  (Online Only)
Hello! My name is Basil. I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Pennsylvania and North Carolina. I've been providing psychotherapy since 2017, and have a long career history in disability work. Overall I have 17 years experience in Carework. I work primarily with individuals & couples with marginalized identities (in gender, sexuality, ability, neuro type, race, etc). I am also very interested in working with more cis men on the precipice of liberating themselves from toxic masculinity, particularly Dads, who want to be more conscious / intentional parents and partners. I also work with families.
Hello! My name is Basil. I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Pennsylvania and North Carolina. I've been providing psychotherapy since 2017, and have a long career history in disability work. Overall I have 17 years experience in Carework. I work primarily with individuals & couples with marginalized identities (in gender, sexuality, ability, neuro type, race, etc). I am also very interested in working with more cis men on the precipice of liberating themselves from toxic masculinity, particularly Dads, who want to be more conscious / intentional parents and partners. I also work with families.
(919) 289-8164 View (919) 289-8164
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Tracey R Frink
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT-S, CST, EMDR, EAMH
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Fayetteville, NC 28306
Tracey is a trained holistic sex therapist; offering an affirming, safe space for individual, couples and youth seeking acceptance and healing.
Tracey is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with additional training in trauma recovery, post-traumatic stress disorder/symptoms (PTSD), Sensory Processing Disorders, Equine Assisted Mental Health (EAMH), and Sex Therapy. Her unique experience embodies a holistic approach. She combines traditional talk therapy, eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), equine therapy, and somatic techniques for effective symptom relief and client empowerment. Tracey works with military personnel and their families, couples, and the LGBTQIA community. Tracey is knowledgeable of world religions, Native American spirituality and Christian faiths; she is understanding of individuals who consider themselves atheist, humanist, agnostic, seeker, or other.
Tracey is a trained holistic sex therapist; offering an affirming, safe space for individual, couples and youth seeking acceptance and healing.
Tracey is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with additional training in trauma recovery, post-traumatic stress disorder/symptoms (PTSD), Sensory Processing Disorders, Equine Assisted Mental Health (EAMH), and Sex Therapy. Her unique experience embodies a holistic approach. She combines traditional talk therapy, eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), equine therapy, and somatic techniques for effective symptom relief and client empowerment. Tracey works with military personnel and their families, couples, and the LGBTQIA community. Tracey is knowledgeable of world religions, Native American spirituality and Christian faiths; she is understanding of individuals who consider themselves atheist, humanist, agnostic, seeker, or other.
(910) 479-4710 View (910) 479-4710
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Jadelynn St Dre
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27701  (Online Only)
In addition, I am a sex therapist, focused on boundary development, pleasure, intimacy and desire.
During times of struggle, you have an absolute right to support from an attentive, warm, trustworthy witness - someone who believes in your strength and brilliance when you can no longer see it, and who stands by your side as you emerge as the architect of your own healing. My work and my passion is to be that witness. I entered into the field of mental health to uplift the experiences of those who often struggle to find responsive and attuned care. As a queer, biracial, Latine therapist and advocate, I am wholly dedicated to opening a space with you through which you can experience repair, discovery, growth and transformation.
In addition, I am a sex therapist, focused on boundary development, pleasure, intimacy and desire.
During times of struggle, you have an absolute right to support from an attentive, warm, trustworthy witness - someone who believes in your strength and brilliance when you can no longer see it, and who stands by your side as you emerge as the architect of your own healing. My work and my passion is to be that witness. I entered into the field of mental health to uplift the experiences of those who often struggle to find responsive and attuned care. As a queer, biracial, Latine therapist and advocate, I am wholly dedicated to opening a space with you through which you can experience repair, discovery, growth and transformation.
(510) 944-1268 View (510) 944-1268
Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.