Emotionally Focused Therapists in Lexington, NC

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Michelle S. Libby
Counselor, MEd, LCMHC, CTP
Verified Verified
Lexington, NC 27292
I am a licensed clinical mental health counselor with a background in treating teens and adults with anxiety disorders, obsessive-compulsive disorders, trauma and stress-related disorders, depressive disorders, and various other concerns. Additionally, I have experience working with children, adolescents, and teens with neurodevelopment disorders.
I am a licensed clinical mental health counselor with a background in treating teens and adults with anxiety disorders, obsessive-compulsive disorders, trauma and stress-related disorders, depressive disorders, and various other concerns. Additionally, I have experience working with children, adolescents, and teens with neurodevelopment disorders.
(704) 286-1845 View (704) 286-1845
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Fortitude Counseling and Wellness Services
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lexington, NC 27292  (Online Only)
Are you looking to find more happiness in your life? I help my clients learn coping skills, improve communication, set boundaries for better self-care, increase self-worth, and find themselves again! We work through a variety of life issues, family/relationship issues, and symptoms from mental or substance abuse problems. It is my job to help you define your goals rather than make goals for you to help you obtain the life you are looking for. You are the expert on your life; I am just here to help you map out the journey and navigate the difficult roads.
Are you looking to find more happiness in your life? I help my clients learn coping skills, improve communication, set boundaries for better self-care, increase self-worth, and find themselves again! We work through a variety of life issues, family/relationship issues, and symptoms from mental or substance abuse problems. It is my job to help you define your goals rather than make goals for you to help you obtain the life you are looking for. You are the expert on your life; I am just here to help you map out the journey and navigate the difficult roads.
(336) 892-9922 View (336) 892-9922
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Kristy Needham
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lexington, NC 27295  (Online Only)
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over a decade of experience in the mental health field, I'm proud to have earned my degree from the Joint Master's in Social Work (J.M.S.W.) program at N.C. A&T State University and UNCG. This unique program prepared me for working with diverse populations and providing culturally competent care
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over a decade of experience in the mental health field, I'm proud to have earned my degree from the Joint Master's in Social Work (J.M.S.W.) program at N.C. A&T State University and UNCG. This unique program prepared me for working with diverse populations and providing culturally competent care
(336) 677-0261 View (336) 677-0261
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Dr. Heather Dancy Morgan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DBH, LCSW, CFMHE, CCCE, CCAPT
Verified Verified
Lexington, NC 27292
Do you feel on overload from anxiety or a deep sadness that won't just go away? Sometimes we reach a point where we feel we need a little extra help to get through a situation we are facing, or sometimes just life in general. I offer a warm, nonjudgmental approach to counseling and welcome those experiencing life's challenges. I have dedicated my life to behavioral health and wellness and specialize in working with those experiencing anxiety, panic attacks, depression, mood disorders, thought disorders and PTSD, among many others. I also offer Mental Health Assessments, Parenting Capacity Assessments and Child Custody Evaluations.
Do you feel on overload from anxiety or a deep sadness that won't just go away? Sometimes we reach a point where we feel we need a little extra help to get through a situation we are facing, or sometimes just life in general. I offer a warm, nonjudgmental approach to counseling and welcome those experiencing life's challenges. I have dedicated my life to behavioral health and wellness and specialize in working with those experiencing anxiety, panic attacks, depression, mood disorders, thought disorders and PTSD, among many others. I also offer Mental Health Assessments, Parenting Capacity Assessments and Child Custody Evaluations.
(336) 447-1661 View (336) 447-1661
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R. Mark Adams
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC, LCAS-A
Verified Verified
Lexington, NC 27292
Are you feeling like you are overwhelmed? Do you feel like there is a number of unresolved issues in your life? Do you have a history of trauma that you feel is affecting your life today? Have you noticed that you are withdrawing from others and maybe even isolating yourself? Do you lack the tools to live in society? Is there a lack of supportive people in your life? Do you have a substance issue? Are you self-medicating? Do you find that it is hard to express yourself in social settings? Has someone told you that you have "anger mgmt. issues?" Do you lack healthy coping skills and outlets? Are you constantly negative?
Are you feeling like you are overwhelmed? Do you feel like there is a number of unresolved issues in your life? Do you have a history of trauma that you feel is affecting your life today? Have you noticed that you are withdrawing from others and maybe even isolating yourself? Do you lack the tools to live in society? Is there a lack of supportive people in your life? Do you have a substance issue? Are you self-medicating? Do you find that it is hard to express yourself in social settings? Has someone told you that you have "anger mgmt. issues?" Do you lack healthy coping skills and outlets? Are you constantly negative?
(336) 489-4791 View (336) 489-4791
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Connie Louise Dinkler
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Lexington, NC 27293
I specialize in couples counseling. If you feel unheard, misunderstood or unappreciated in your relationship I can help. By teaching the two of you how to communicate in an effective way, giving you tools to navigate conflict and guiding you to overcome roadblocks to intimacy, I can help you create a more satisfying connection. I am here to listen to you and understand your unique situation and help you identify the negative patterns you are in and help you to escape from them. Together we can make your relationship a happy and long-lasting one.
I specialize in couples counseling. If you feel unheard, misunderstood or unappreciated in your relationship I can help. By teaching the two of you how to communicate in an effective way, giving you tools to navigate conflict and guiding you to overcome roadblocks to intimacy, I can help you create a more satisfying connection. I am here to listen to you and understand your unique situation and help you identify the negative patterns you are in and help you to escape from them. Together we can make your relationship a happy and long-lasting one.
(336) 203-8156 View (336) 203-8156
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B's Effort Changing Counseling, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CSOTP, TFCBT-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lexington, NC 27292
When life has gotten you down and you feel the weight of life on your shoulders know there is someone to assist you. B's has a wide array of therapist currently accepting new clients to help with struggles to help with depression, anxiety, behavioral, parental/child relationships, marital, self-esteem, past trauma, etc. Our goal is to help enhance coping skills you already have to be the best YOU! We value a collaborative approach and want to provide the support you need to grow in a safe space. We are passionate about educating about symptoms and assisting individuals and families with the skills to promote healthy coping skills.
When life has gotten you down and you feel the weight of life on your shoulders know there is someone to assist you. B's has a wide array of therapist currently accepting new clients to help with struggles to help with depression, anxiety, behavioral, parental/child relationships, marital, self-esteem, past trauma, etc. Our goal is to help enhance coping skills you already have to be the best YOU! We value a collaborative approach and want to provide the support you need to grow in a safe space. We are passionate about educating about symptoms and assisting individuals and families with the skills to promote healthy coping skills.
(704) 870-4987 View (704) 870-4987
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Ellen E Elliott
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCAS, LPC, CSAT, CCS
Verified Verified
Lexington, NC 27292
(336) 939-0674 View (336) 939-0674

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Tamika Wright
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Thomasville, NC 27360
As your counselor, I am here to support you in making meaning, creating comfort, and uncovering resources to help you be your best self. Taking an evidenced-based, client centered, and existentially informed approach, I aim to provide a safe and supportive space where we can collaborate and work at your own pace to help you reach your goals.
As your counselor, I am here to support you in making meaning, creating comfort, and uncovering resources to help you be your best self. Taking an evidenced-based, client centered, and existentially informed approach, I aim to provide a safe and supportive space where we can collaborate and work at your own pace to help you reach your goals.
(704) 459-8953 View (704) 459-8953
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Trindale Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Thomasville, NC 27360
Finding a therapist that you feel like you can click with and understands you or your child can be an overwhelming route in the sea of mental health. Sometimes a major life event happens that shakes us to our core. Or we discover that we are starting to lose the tolerance we used to have to manage the twists and turns of this unpredictable life. Or maybe, we just need an objective person to listen and truly hear us. I ensure to provide a safe and open environment to process internal and external challenges. Let's get to a place where you and/or your child feel more confident in overcoming obstacles and finding joy in daily life.
Finding a therapist that you feel like you can click with and understands you or your child can be an overwhelming route in the sea of mental health. Sometimes a major life event happens that shakes us to our core. Or we discover that we are starting to lose the tolerance we used to have to manage the twists and turns of this unpredictable life. Or maybe, we just need an objective person to listen and truly hear us. I ensure to provide a safe and open environment to process internal and external challenges. Let's get to a place where you and/or your child feel more confident in overcoming obstacles and finding joy in daily life.
(336) 892-9765 View (336) 892-9765
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Claire Aft
Counselor, NCC, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Thomasville, NC 27360
Looking for a safe and trauma-informed space to share what's been weighing on you? Hi I'm Claire, and I am committed to providing compassionate, culturally competent, and evidence-based care for individuals facing a variety of mental health challenges. I am dedicated to creating a trauma-informed and safe space for you to find your strengths and grow. I am looking forward to meeting you and working with you to reach your personal goals, whether that be reducing anxiety, working through depression or mood disorders, life transitions, or other difficult experiences. I will work to find the best approaches for your individual needs.
Looking for a safe and trauma-informed space to share what's been weighing on you? Hi I'm Claire, and I am committed to providing compassionate, culturally competent, and evidence-based care for individuals facing a variety of mental health challenges. I am dedicated to creating a trauma-informed and safe space for you to find your strengths and grow. I am looking forward to meeting you and working with you to reach your personal goals, whether that be reducing anxiety, working through depression or mood disorders, life transitions, or other difficult experiences. I will work to find the best approaches for your individual needs.
(336) 523-0909 View (336) 523-0909

Online Therapists

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Anne Burkart
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LCASA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28210
My training in Gottman Therapy and EFT support strengthening couples working through infidelity & marital distress.
Life is challenging at times. Maintaining healthy relationships may feel the like the greatest challenge of all! Our relationships are influenced by our childhood, family, & life experiences. Relationships take work! They can be overwhelming with the intensity of different emotions we experience, and sometimes this leads to make choices that can be unhealthy for us. Isolation, infidelity, & substance use hold us back from having a fulfilling relationship with ourselves & with others. Through exploring our challenges, accepting who we are in this moment, & leaning into the opportunity for growth we can Embrace all life has to offer!
My training in Gottman Therapy and EFT support strengthening couples working through infidelity & marital distress.
Life is challenging at times. Maintaining healthy relationships may feel the like the greatest challenge of all! Our relationships are influenced by our childhood, family, & life experiences. Relationships take work! They can be overwhelming with the intensity of different emotions we experience, and sometimes this leads to make choices that can be unhealthy for us. Isolation, infidelity, & substance use hold us back from having a fulfilling relationship with ourselves & with others. Through exploring our challenges, accepting who we are in this moment, & leaning into the opportunity for growth we can Embrace all life has to offer!
(704) 237-6703 View (704) 237-6703
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Christopher Bordelon
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSW, LCSWA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28210
I am a board-certified Licensed Clinical Social Work Associate (LCSWA), Internal Family Systems (IFS) trained, Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT) trained, trauma-informed, and a NASW member.
Clients I often see grapple with anxiety or depression, seeking coping strategies. Their needs include a safe space for self-expression, validation, and practical tools to improve emotional well-being. Goals involve fostering resilience, improving interpersonal relationships, and cultivating a positive mindset. Motivated by a desire for personal growth, they value introspection and aspire to develop a deeper understanding of themselves, fostering lasting positive change.
I am a board-certified Licensed Clinical Social Work Associate (LCSWA), Internal Family Systems (IFS) trained, Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT) trained, trauma-informed, and a NASW member.
Clients I often see grapple with anxiety or depression, seeking coping strategies. Their needs include a safe space for self-expression, validation, and practical tools to improve emotional well-being. Goals involve fostering resilience, improving interpersonal relationships, and cultivating a positive mindset. Motivated by a desire for personal growth, they value introspection and aspire to develop a deeper understanding of themselves, fostering lasting positive change.
(704) 762-1361 View (704) 762-1361
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Dr. Whitney Strugatsky
Psychologist, PhD, MPH, HSP-P
Verified Verified
Cary, NC 27518  (Online Only)
I incorporate various best practice tools into my work including Gottman Method techniques and Emotion Focused Therapy ( EFT) and I have received formal training in both approaches.
I specialize in couples and relationship counseling and offer therapy services through a confidential telehealth platform. I believe that everyone is capable and deserving of love and connection, despite our imperfections, and I strive to provide a safe and nonjudgmental space for you to work on your relationship. I take an interpersonal process approach to couples/relationship counseling which focuses on here and now experiencing. While discussing past events is often necessary, I work to bring the focus back to the present moment and explore what’s happening right now.
I incorporate various best practice tools into my work including Gottman Method techniques and Emotion Focused Therapy ( EFT) and I have received formal training in both approaches.
I specialize in couples and relationship counseling and offer therapy services through a confidential telehealth platform. I believe that everyone is capable and deserving of love and connection, despite our imperfections, and I strive to provide a safe and nonjudgmental space for you to work on your relationship. I take an interpersonal process approach to couples/relationship counseling which focuses on here and now experiencing. While discussing past events is often necessary, I work to bring the focus back to the present moment and explore what’s happening right now.
(984) 265-8564 View (984) 265-8564
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Marc Hardy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHCS, LCMHC, NCC, MEd
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27610
I am a Black, male therapist originally from Columbus, OH. and now living in Raleigh, NC. I find it a great honor counseling with clients who are just dealing with life's many transitions to doing therapy with those clients that are facing challenging diagnosable mental health issues. I mainly utilize therapeutic techniques from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (e.g. Ellis’s ABC model, thought journaling, cognitive restructuring, etc.) but I also use techniques from Solution Focused Therapy, EFT, DBT and Multisystemic Therapy. I have found that I prefer a person-centered approach, though I will still use goals, contracts and homework.
I am a Black, male therapist originally from Columbus, OH. and now living in Raleigh, NC. I find it a great honor counseling with clients who are just dealing with life's many transitions to doing therapy with those clients that are facing challenging diagnosable mental health issues. I mainly utilize therapeutic techniques from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (e.g. Ellis’s ABC model, thought journaling, cognitive restructuring, etc.) but I also use techniques from Solution Focused Therapy, EFT, DBT and Multisystemic Therapy. I have found that I prefer a person-centered approach, though I will still use goals, contracts and homework.
(984) 205-4884 View (984) 205-4884
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Anthony David Kelley
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, BCCI
Verified Verified
Lillington, NC 27546
Anthony Kelley, LMFT has been in the caregiving profession for over 30 years as a pastoral counselor. He is an ordained minister, Army chaplain, and licensed marriage and family therapist. He is trained and certified in EMDR trauma therapy and emotionally focused therapy for individuals, couples, and families. Anthony's expertise and training are with the military veteran population.
Anthony Kelley, LMFT has been in the caregiving profession for over 30 years as a pastoral counselor. He is an ordained minister, Army chaplain, and licensed marriage and family therapist. He is trained and certified in EMDR trauma therapy and emotionally focused therapy for individuals, couples, and families. Anthony's expertise and training are with the military veteran population.
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Thriveworks Counseling & Child Therapy Charlotte
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
Charlotte, NC 28209
Popular approaches include CBT, DBT, EMDR, Christian Counseling, PCT, Motivational Interviewing, EFT, Positive Psychology, Psychodynamic therapy, Relational therapy, Narrative therapy, and more.
At Thriveworks, we're dedicated to providing top-tier mental health services that are easily accessible to everyone. With over 340 locations nationwide and flexible online therapy options, our professional therapists are equipped to assist you through any stress, life transitions, or ongoing mental health concerns. We prioritize your convenience and needs by offering flexible scheduling, including evening and weekend appointments, ensuring that you can start your therapy journey as early as this week. Plus, we accept most major insurance plans, making your path to mental health support smoother and more affordable.
Popular approaches include CBT, DBT, EMDR, Christian Counseling, PCT, Motivational Interviewing, EFT, Positive Psychology, Psychodynamic therapy, Relational therapy, Narrative therapy, and more.
At Thriveworks, we're dedicated to providing top-tier mental health services that are easily accessible to everyone. With over 340 locations nationwide and flexible online therapy options, our professional therapists are equipped to assist you through any stress, life transitions, or ongoing mental health concerns. We prioritize your convenience and needs by offering flexible scheduling, including evening and weekend appointments, ensuring that you can start your therapy journey as early as this week. Plus, we accept most major insurance plans, making your path to mental health support smoother and more affordable.
(704) 459-3783 View (704) 459-3783
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Michelle L Parrom
Marriage & Family Therapist, MBA, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Concord, NC 28025  (Online Only)
Emotional Focused Therapy ( EFT) Training.
Working with complex couples, those dealing with major relationship issues like infidelity, infertility, illness, grief, family conflict, parenting issues, or contemplating divorce, are my passion. I take a non-judgmental stance that allows me to focus on the relationship as my client, while not taking sides. Whether you are struggling with depression, anxiety, stress, addiction, trauma, or other mental health conditions, I can help support you, while teaching coping mechanisms to create a healthy balance in your life. I apply a systemic approach when working with couples, families and individuals.
Emotional Focused Therapy ( EFT) Training.
Working with complex couples, those dealing with major relationship issues like infidelity, infertility, illness, grief, family conflict, parenting issues, or contemplating divorce, are my passion. I take a non-judgmental stance that allows me to focus on the relationship as my client, while not taking sides. Whether you are struggling with depression, anxiety, stress, addiction, trauma, or other mental health conditions, I can help support you, while teaching coping mechanisms to create a healthy balance in your life. I apply a systemic approach when working with couples, families and individuals.
(704) 209-7532 View (704) 209-7532
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Elizabeth Hoose
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27615
Hoose incorporates skills from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Emotion Focused Therapy ( EFT), Existential Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, and Humanistic Therapy.
Elizabeth Hoose, PsyD. is a licensed clinical psychologist in North Carolina and Utah who specializes in working with adults and couples who have experienced complex trauma, relationship difficulties, or who have undergone significant life changes. She also excels at therapeutic assessment, providing diagnostic clarification to patients who are unsure of their diagnosis. Dr. Hoose has been trained to work with a large variety of presenting problems including mood disorders, anxiety, LGBTQ issues, burnout and chronic stress, family of origin issues, identity issues, complex trauma and PTSD, ADHD, and adjustment concerns.
Hoose incorporates skills from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Emotion Focused Therapy ( EFT), Existential Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, and Humanistic Therapy.
Elizabeth Hoose, PsyD. is a licensed clinical psychologist in North Carolina and Utah who specializes in working with adults and couples who have experienced complex trauma, relationship difficulties, or who have undergone significant life changes. She also excels at therapeutic assessment, providing diagnostic clarification to patients who are unsure of their diagnosis. Dr. Hoose has been trained to work with a large variety of presenting problems including mood disorders, anxiety, LGBTQ issues, burnout and chronic stress, family of origin issues, identity issues, complex trauma and PTSD, ADHD, and adjustment concerns.
(919) 261-7079 x5 View (919) 261-7079 x5
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Yuri Sklad
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, RPT, CSOTP, CSAT-C
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27609  (Online Only)
I am PREPARE/ENRICH certified and received Emotionally Focused Therapy training.
If you are struggling with anxiety, depression, compulsive behavior, wish to overcome the consequences of traumatic experiences, or feel stuck in your life journey, I invite you to contact me. As a therapist, I strive to provide a non-judgmental and supportive environment for individuals to gain greater self-awareness and self-regulation. In our work together, we will hold space for difficult emotions, identify patterns that have helped you in the past and may not be serving you now, and develop new skills so that you are able to gently move toward living a more fulfilling life aligned with your values.
I am PREPARE/ENRICH certified and received Emotionally Focused Therapy training.
If you are struggling with anxiety, depression, compulsive behavior, wish to overcome the consequences of traumatic experiences, or feel stuck in your life journey, I invite you to contact me. As a therapist, I strive to provide a non-judgmental and supportive environment for individuals to gain greater self-awareness and self-regulation. In our work together, we will hold space for difficult emotions, identify patterns that have helped you in the past and may not be serving you now, and develop new skills so that you are able to gently move toward living a more fulfilling life aligned with your values.
(984) 464-6110 View (984) 464-6110

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Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.