Gottman Method Therapists in Indian Trail, NC
![Photo of Kyle Heinicke, LCMHCA](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/30d30d82-3980-45a8-bbb8-359875645fdc/2/320x400.jpeg)
I strive to create a safe space that is client centered and holistic, meeting my clients where they are at. I have worked primarily with adolescents, adults and couples. I enjoy working with individuals who are struggling with anxiety and depression. People who are striving to overcome symptoms, look for self-improvement that fits their lifestyle and goals, and create meaningful positive relationships both in and outside of the session. Furthermore, couples who are struggling, have felt a growing distance, or just want to increase their communication and intimacy can work collaboratively with me to improve their relationship!
I strive to create a safe space that is client centered and holistic, meeting my clients where they are at. I have worked primarily with adolescents, adults and couples. I enjoy working with individuals who are struggling with anxiety and depression. People who are striving to overcome symptoms, look for self-improvement that fits their lifestyle and goals, and create meaningful positive relationships both in and outside of the session. Furthermore, couples who are struggling, have felt a growing distance, or just want to increase their communication and intimacy can work collaboratively with me to improve their relationship!
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Thrive Counseling Services PLLC is a group practice dedicated in providing high quality care tailored to meet your individual needs. Our goal is to provide an intimate environment that is safe, supportive and confidential.
Thrive Counseling Services PLLC is a group practice dedicated in providing high quality care tailored to meet your individual needs. Our goal is to provide an intimate environment that is safe, supportive and confidential.
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Reaching Resolution, PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LCMHCS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Indian Trail, NC 28079
Reaching Resolution is a group practice with over 25 years of experience working with children, adolescents, individuals, couples, and families to help find solutions to the problems that you or your loved ones face. We use a positive, strengths-based approach, drawing from evidence-based strategies to fit your own unique situation and needs. We use a solution-focused approach to help you find positive ways to handle situations and reach the resolution that's right for you.
Reaching Resolution is a group practice with over 25 years of experience working with children, adolescents, individuals, couples, and families to help find solutions to the problems that you or your loved ones face. We use a positive, strengths-based approach, drawing from evidence-based strategies to fit your own unique situation and needs. We use a solution-focused approach to help you find positive ways to handle situations and reach the resolution that's right for you.
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Katie Stenmark
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Indian Trail, NC 28079
Are you feeling stuck repeating the same cycle over and over again? Are your usual ways of handling stress not working anymore? Are you struggling in your relationship with your partner, family, or friends? Maybe you know something needs to change but you are feeling powerless to make that change. At some point we all encounter difficulties in our life and feel unsure of our next steps. This is common but can feel lonely and isolating.
Are you feeling stuck repeating the same cycle over and over again? Are your usual ways of handling stress not working anymore? Are you struggling in your relationship with your partner, family, or friends? Maybe you know something needs to change but you are feeling powerless to make that change. At some point we all encounter difficulties in our life and feel unsure of our next steps. This is common but can feel lonely and isolating.
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I believe the role of a therapist is to offer unconditional acceptance and walk alongside each client as they work through their issues. There are many different tools to help each client achieve their goals. Setting up a treatment plan with attainable goals with clear direction is essential in the counseling process. Each client comes with their own belief system. I am committed to helping clients find the inner peace that comes through relationships with people and a higher power. I am trained in biblical principles and a Christian, but I am committed to helping each person find their own path and their own beliefs.
I believe the role of a therapist is to offer unconditional acceptance and walk alongside each client as they work through their issues. There are many different tools to help each client achieve their goals. Setting up a treatment plan with attainable goals with clear direction is essential in the counseling process. Each client comes with their own belief system. I am committed to helping clients find the inner peace that comes through relationships with people and a higher power. I am trained in biblical principles and a Christian, but I am committed to helping each person find their own path and their own beliefs.
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Kathryn Falbo-Woodson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Indian Trail, NC 28079 (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
Stress is inevitable, it's how we respond to it that matters. While stress can be a catalyst for spiritual, physical, and emotional growth, it impacts our well-being. During stressful times, it's important to recognize emotional and physical changes. Often, we neglect our internal experiences because of the fear of pain. When we avoid the pain, we essentially shut ourselves off from growth. My goal is to support you through challenging times, allowing you to open fully to the present moment by incorporating compassion-oriented & mindfulness-based strategies to withstand the suffering and lean into a growth mindset.
Stress is inevitable, it's how we respond to it that matters. While stress can be a catalyst for spiritual, physical, and emotional growth, it impacts our well-being. During stressful times, it's important to recognize emotional and physical changes. Often, we neglect our internal experiences because of the fear of pain. When we avoid the pain, we essentially shut ourselves off from growth. My goal is to support you through challenging times, allowing you to open fully to the present moment by incorporating compassion-oriented & mindfulness-based strategies to withstand the suffering and lean into a growth mindset.
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Leah Schumacher
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Indian Trail, NC 28079
Not accepting new clients
My belief is that real change can occur in one's life when they work with a therapist who is genuine and unbiased; someone who has a desire to see others moving forward and living their lives to the fullest. It would be a true honor to be that individual for you or your loved one.
My belief is that real change can occur in one's life when they work with a therapist who is genuine and unbiased; someone who has a desire to see others moving forward and living their lives to the fullest. It would be a true honor to be that individual for you or your loved one.
More Therapists Nearby
![Photo of Lauren Deasy Blackshaw, MA, LCMHC, NCC](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/98894a19-b096-49eb-bbaf-9d9d53dbc0ca/1/320x400.jpeg)
I approach couples therapy using the Gottman method.
My ideal client wants help finding meaning and fulfillment in their lives and is pursuing personal growth. They want to put their authentic selves into the world instead of the self that is masked by anxiety and depression or their current stressors. They want to learn to connect with themself and others and feel less alone. They want to learn to manage the obstacles that life throws at them and strengthen their resilience as a result. I am licensed in both North Carolina and South Carolina and I am currently accepting new individuals and couples.
I approach couples therapy using the Gottman method.
My ideal client wants help finding meaning and fulfillment in their lives and is pursuing personal growth. They want to put their authentic selves into the world instead of the self that is masked by anxiety and depression or their current stressors. They want to learn to connect with themself and others and feel less alone. They want to learn to manage the obstacles that life throws at them and strengthen their resilience as a result. I am licensed in both North Carolina and South Carolina and I am currently accepting new individuals and couples.
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Abbey Vann
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFT-A
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Stallings, NC 28104
Do you ever find yourself saying "It is not supposed to be this way"? At times we have all felt lost in life, or found ourselves in a place we do not wish to be. Whether it be at the hands of trauma, loss of self-esteem, familial discord, or failed relationships, sometimes we all need some guidance getting back to our best version of ourselves.
Do you ever find yourself saying "It is not supposed to be this way"? At times we have all felt lost in life, or found ourselves in a place we do not wish to be. Whether it be at the hands of trauma, loss of self-esteem, familial discord, or failed relationships, sometimes we all need some guidance getting back to our best version of ourselves.
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Kristy Yetman
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Matthews, NC 28104
I am passionate about helping people get to know themselves more deeply and to find opportunities for growth in all circumstances. I believe deeply in the process of therapy and feel strongly that all of our experiences hold potential for growth and insight. I offer a compassionate and understanding perspective in an environment that values your confidentiality.
I am passionate about helping people get to know themselves more deeply and to find opportunities for growth in all circumstances. I believe deeply in the process of therapy and feel strongly that all of our experiences hold potential for growth and insight. I offer a compassionate and understanding perspective in an environment that values your confidentiality.
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Lola Sanford
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Matthews, NC 28104
Ideally, you would like to live a life that is fulfilling and authentic. Maybe there have been roadblocks that have slowed you down or perhaps brought you to a dead stop. I am committed to seeing people move from emotional limitations into freedom, able to maximize potential and walk in their full destiny. You are not a victim! Be brave and address anger, self-esteem, grief, emptiness. It is important to deal with painful issues of the past. We will work creatively to address the distinct areas of your life that may be hurting.
Ideally, you would like to live a life that is fulfilling and authentic. Maybe there have been roadblocks that have slowed you down or perhaps brought you to a dead stop. I am committed to seeing people move from emotional limitations into freedom, able to maximize potential and walk in their full destiny. You are not a victim! Be brave and address anger, self-esteem, grief, emptiness. It is important to deal with painful issues of the past. We will work creatively to address the distinct areas of your life that may be hurting.
![Photo of Aundrea deJonge (Longleaf Counseling), MA, LCMHC-A, Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/19c688a1-9bd5-4be0-a346-88c3b0cccc59/5/320x400.jpeg)
Are you feeling overwhelmed in the place you find yourself? Does life often feel out of control? Have you worked hard to keep it together so that it looks good on the outside, but on the inside, your gut is telling you otherwise? Or, maybe you're not even sure why you feel the way you do. You are not alone! Trying to "do it all" can certainly take a toll. You likely desire to better understand yourself and your relationships in this current season. Coming alongside you, meeting you where you are, and collaborating with you as you clarify what it is that you want for yourself is the approach I'll take.
Are you feeling overwhelmed in the place you find yourself? Does life often feel out of control? Have you worked hard to keep it together so that it looks good on the outside, but on the inside, your gut is telling you otherwise? Or, maybe you're not even sure why you feel the way you do. You are not alone! Trying to "do it all" can certainly take a toll. You likely desire to better understand yourself and your relationships in this current season. Coming alongside you, meeting you where you are, and collaborating with you as you clarify what it is that you want for yourself is the approach I'll take.
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Devon Quinn
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFTA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Stallings, NC 28104
Are you looking to strengthen and improve your relationships? I believe that the quality of our relationships directly impacts the quality of our lives. My goal as a therapist is to help my clients increase their awareness of themselves and their relationships while providing skills to help them improve areas of their life.
Are you looking to strengthen and improve your relationships? I believe that the quality of our relationships directly impacts the quality of our lives. My goal as a therapist is to help my clients increase their awareness of themselves and their relationships while providing skills to help them improve areas of their life.
![Photo of Chris A. Matthews, LMFT-S, LCAS, SAP, CCS, Marriage & Family Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/c9c36e76-4d93-42cd-9b89-83fae858a2b6/2/320x400.jpeg)
Chris A. Matthews
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT-S, LCAS, SAP, CCS
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Weddington, NC 28104
I do not take insurance, I work with couples and individuals who are willing to do whatever it takes to save their marriage or relationship. It is my job to be a co-pilot to help guide you and your partner through the storms of conflict, infidelity, grief, trauma, and life’s transitions such as parenting, employment, and blended family issues. As a fellow relationship partner who has been married for 17 years (and counting) with three kids, I personally can relate to the ups and downs of making a relationship work.
I do not take insurance, I work with couples and individuals who are willing to do whatever it takes to save their marriage or relationship. It is my job to be a co-pilot to help guide you and your partner through the storms of conflict, infidelity, grief, trauma, and life’s transitions such as parenting, employment, and blended family issues. As a fellow relationship partner who has been married for 17 years (and counting) with three kids, I personally can relate to the ups and downs of making a relationship work.
![Photo of Michelle McDevitt-Askew, MA, LMFT, LCMHCS, Marriage & Family Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/e2256082-13a6-47ff-9b10-15c0b32ccc86/2/320x400.jpeg)
Michelle McDevitt-Askew
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LCMHCS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Weddington, NC 28104
There are seasons in life when the opportunity to grow can come from both joyful and challenging circumstances or complicated issues and relationships. It is my hope that in the safe,non-judgmental space of therapy we can begin to discover your core resiliency, strengths and create awareness for integrating healthy coping and communication skills for healing. I enjoy helping couples discover relational dynamics and patterns that keep them from enjoying a safe, close and vibrant relationship. I am well suited to work with families and individuals who are struggling with anxiety, depression, chronic illness, grief and life stage transitioning.
There are seasons in life when the opportunity to grow can come from both joyful and challenging circumstances or complicated issues and relationships. It is my hope that in the safe,non-judgmental space of therapy we can begin to discover your core resiliency, strengths and create awareness for integrating healthy coping and communication skills for healing. I enjoy helping couples discover relational dynamics and patterns that keep them from enjoying a safe, close and vibrant relationship. I am well suited to work with families and individuals who are struggling with anxiety, depression, chronic illness, grief and life stage transitioning.
![Photo of Alison Bellows, MEd, LCMHCA, NCC, Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/37a7b346-ee8b-49ea-abac-954b258ecf94/2/320x400.jpeg)
You are tired of feeling stuck in patterns of self doubt, overthinking, and anxiety. You are yearning for deeper connections with both yourself and those around you. You want to process past emotional wounds, improve the relationships in your life, and feel more empowered. If this sounds like you, I'm so glad you're here. I specialize in supporting individuals just like you who are seeking to cultivate a more harmonious relationship with themselves and the people in their lives. I work with adults and couples experiencing relationship issues, anxiety, and trauma.
You are tired of feeling stuck in patterns of self doubt, overthinking, and anxiety. You are yearning for deeper connections with both yourself and those around you. You want to process past emotional wounds, improve the relationships in your life, and feel more empowered. If this sounds like you, I'm so glad you're here. I specialize in supporting individuals just like you who are seeking to cultivate a more harmonious relationship with themselves and the people in their lives. I work with adults and couples experiencing relationship issues, anxiety, and trauma.
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Tiffany Cook
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, LCMHC, LCAS
Verified Verified
Matthews, NC 28104 (Online Only)
Having been counseling for over 20 years, I know that things can get out of control. We're told that we must pull ourselves up by our bootstraps and handle anything that comes our way, but we struggle to do it on our own. Many of us have been impacted by addictions, tragedy, narcissism, depression, anxiety, things under our control and things out of our control. We start to question ourselves and wonder what’s healthy even look like? I focus on helping people heal, bringing health back into their life, and then find their best path forward.
Having been counseling for over 20 years, I know that things can get out of control. We're told that we must pull ourselves up by our bootstraps and handle anything that comes our way, but we struggle to do it on our own. Many of us have been impacted by addictions, tragedy, narcissism, depression, anxiety, things under our control and things out of our control. We start to question ourselves and wonder what’s healthy even look like? I focus on helping people heal, bringing health back into their life, and then find their best path forward.
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Many of us are navigating change beyond what we prepared for. When our relationships become a source of stress, rather than the calming connection we seek out, our nervous systems protest, using coping styles designed for combat, not for love. We can push our partner away at the very same moment we need them the most. Are you worn from repeating negative patterns, longing for a clearer map to communicating needs? Marriages are healthiest when couples become shelter for each other, removing blocks to a satisfying bond. Using 30 years experience, I provide couples with personalized tools for more effective, satisfyiing relationships.
Many of us are navigating change beyond what we prepared for. When our relationships become a source of stress, rather than the calming connection we seek out, our nervous systems protest, using coping styles designed for combat, not for love. We can push our partner away at the very same moment we need them the most. Are you worn from repeating negative patterns, longing for a clearer map to communicating needs? Marriages are healthiest when couples become shelter for each other, removing blocks to a satisfying bond. Using 30 years experience, I provide couples with personalized tools for more effective, satisfyiing relationships.
![Photo of Cyd McDaniel, LCSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/c1285693-d91b-4f48-96f1-6a1e8140b048/2/320x400.jpeg)
Are you ready to take a deep dive into your life and address what's holding you back from living your whole life? Does it seem like something is missing? Do you feel depressed, anxious or just numb? What do you believe about your life and the people in your life? If you are ready to lean in and feel better, consider psychotherapy. These sessions are custom designed based on your goals. If what you're doing isn't working and you're ready to try something different, let's get started. Immediate opening for Monday's & Friday's
Are you ready to take a deep dive into your life and address what's holding you back from living your whole life? Does it seem like something is missing? Do you feel depressed, anxious or just numb? What do you believe about your life and the people in your life? If you are ready to lean in and feel better, consider psychotherapy. These sessions are custom designed based on your goals. If what you're doing isn't working and you're ready to try something different, let's get started. Immediate opening for Monday's & Friday's
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Jim Cress
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, CSAT, CMAT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Matthews, NC 28104
Waitlist for new clients
"We have more help than you have problems." I have been walking with people in their life stories for many years. My office is a shame-free, safe place for my clients to be vulnerable, open, and to take a deeper look at what is hindering them from being the best version of themselves. Counseling is an important investment of a person's time and money. I listen actively and work hard for my clients in their sessions to help them experience the life change and healing they are looking for. Most of my therapy work is done in 3 day Counseling Intensives for individuals and couples. My Intensive fee is $7500 for 3 days.
"We have more help than you have problems." I have been walking with people in their life stories for many years. My office is a shame-free, safe place for my clients to be vulnerable, open, and to take a deeper look at what is hindering them from being the best version of themselves. Counseling is an important investment of a person's time and money. I listen actively and work hard for my clients in their sessions to help them experience the life change and healing they are looking for. Most of my therapy work is done in 3 day Counseling Intensives for individuals and couples. My Intensive fee is $7500 for 3 days.
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Gottman Method Therapists
How does the Gottman method work?
One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.
Is the Gottman method evidence-based?
Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.
How long does the Gottman method take?
The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.
Is the Gottman method effective?
Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.