Couples Counseling Therapists in Durham, NC

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Kati Burkhart
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27713
I also enjoy helping couples better understand each other’s desires and needs.
I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC) with over 4 years of experience working with adults and seniors seeking help with anxiety, stress, ADHD, depression, dysfunctional relationships, life transitions, and sexual dysfunction. While I work with a variety of people, my main focus is sex therapy. I earned my Master’s degree in Clinical Psychology with a concentration in Sex Therapy from Capella University. I tend to think outside the box and often incorporate coping skills or techniques that may differ from traditional methods.
I also enjoy helping couples better understand each other’s desires and needs.
I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC) with over 4 years of experience working with adults and seniors seeking help with anxiety, stress, ADHD, depression, dysfunctional relationships, life transitions, and sexual dysfunction. While I work with a variety of people, my main focus is sex therapy. I earned my Master’s degree in Clinical Psychology with a concentration in Sex Therapy from Capella University. I tend to think outside the box and often incorporate coping skills or techniques that may differ from traditional methods.
(919) 804-0592 View (919) 804-0592
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Kylie Stahl
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHCQS
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27713
I strive to create an affirming therapeutic space, and believe that the client-therapist relationship is the most important aspect in anyones therapeutic journey.
Life has it’s share of challenges, whether you are a new mom, starting college for the first time, or navigating & exploring your identity. Showing up to your first therapy session, you may feel as though you are alone & drowning in a sea of emotions. The most helpful thing that I can do is get in & swim with you. There are two ways of swimming, on the surface, which may look like getting through the day with coping skills, venting, & exploring day to day stressors. The second way of swimming is to dive deep & explore some dark emotional caves that they may be avoiding. Both ways can be challenging & both ways are moving forward.
I strive to create an affirming therapeutic space, and believe that the client-therapist relationship is the most important aspect in anyones therapeutic journey.
Life has it’s share of challenges, whether you are a new mom, starting college for the first time, or navigating & exploring your identity. Showing up to your first therapy session, you may feel as though you are alone & drowning in a sea of emotions. The most helpful thing that I can do is get in & swim with you. There are two ways of swimming, on the surface, which may look like getting through the day with coping skills, venting, & exploring day to day stressors. The second way of swimming is to dive deep & explore some dark emotional caves that they may be avoiding. Both ways can be challenging & both ways are moving forward.
(984) 400-8394 View (984) 400-8394
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Orlando Dowdy
Pastoral Counselor, DMin, MDiv
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27704
Of particular interest are, cultural, family and systemic concerns, those suffering with depression, anxiety, grief, relationship crisis, changes in life, anger management, crossroads in one's faith and clergy in crisis.
I am a therapist who believes in the authenticity of each person's struggles as they encounter them in their journey through life. I seek to help others in the curing of their souls through psychotherapy. I make every effort to provide a therapeutic environment that is non-judgmental, supportive, safe, nurturing and empathic. Making the decision to come to counseling can be difficult and overwhelming. It's a privilege for me to be present with you in this process. If you have any questions please don't hesitate to email or call.
Of particular interest are, cultural, family and systemic concerns, those suffering with depression, anxiety, grief, relationship crisis, changes in life, anger management, crossroads in one's faith and clergy in crisis.
I am a therapist who believes in the authenticity of each person's struggles as they encounter them in their journey through life. I seek to help others in the curing of their souls through psychotherapy. I make every effort to provide a therapeutic environment that is non-judgmental, supportive, safe, nurturing and empathic. Making the decision to come to counseling can be difficult and overwhelming. It's a privilege for me to be present with you in this process. If you have any questions please don't hesitate to email or call.
(919) 975-5892 View (919) 975-5892
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Timothy H Brooks
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27705
I would love to hear from you so that we can start a collaborative relationship based on openness and mutual respect.
My goal is to help individuals and couples to create effective, satisfying transitions in their lives. I believe we all have inherent strengths that we can tap into to meet our goals and get through the difficult times we experience. It can be helpful to work with someone to identify and work through the barriers that exist between our current situation and where we would like to end up in life.
I would love to hear from you so that we can start a collaborative relationship based on openness and mutual respect.
My goal is to help individuals and couples to create effective, satisfying transitions in their lives. I believe we all have inherent strengths that we can tap into to meet our goals and get through the difficult times we experience. It can be helpful to work with someone to identify and work through the barriers that exist between our current situation and where we would like to end up in life.
(919) 551-3831 View (919) 551-3831
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Rachel Posner
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27701  (Online Only)
Using a combination of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, I help adults who are struggling with relationship difficulties, life transitions, anxiety, and spiritual concerns.
Psychotherapy is about making meaningful changes. I work to help people become unstuck, overcome anxiety and learn about who they are and who they want to be. People who work with me describe me as accepting, interactive and authentic. I will listen to you closely and ask questions that make you think. In addition, I will challenge you to actively make changes in order to live a life more closely in line with your personal values. Therapy helps people gain clarity, manage difficult situations and emotions, and feel more connected to themselves and to others.
Using a combination of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, I help adults who are struggling with relationship difficulties, life transitions, anxiety, and spiritual concerns.
Psychotherapy is about making meaningful changes. I work to help people become unstuck, overcome anxiety and learn about who they are and who they want to be. People who work with me describe me as accepting, interactive and authentic. I will listen to you closely and ask questions that make you think. In addition, I will challenge you to actively make changes in order to live a life more closely in line with your personal values. Therapy helps people gain clarity, manage difficult situations and emotions, and feel more connected to themselves and to others.
(919) 343-9070 View (919) 343-9070
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Michele Price
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PLLC
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27707
Waitlist for new clients
My approach to therapy is warm, nonjudgmental, compassionate, and collaborative. I believe a safe therapeutic relationship is essential in providing effective, transformative therapy. I honor the individuality of my clients and know the courage it takes to come to therapy, and I firmly believe that it’s in our deepest struggles that we have the most potential for learning and growth. I am guided by the belief that everyone holds the ability within themselves to heal, and that together through a trusting therapeutic relationship, I can assist clients in their journeys towards being more deeply connected to themselves and others.
My approach to therapy is warm, nonjudgmental, compassionate, and collaborative. I believe a safe therapeutic relationship is essential in providing effective, transformative therapy. I honor the individuality of my clients and know the courage it takes to come to therapy, and I firmly believe that it’s in our deepest struggles that we have the most potential for learning and growth. I am guided by the belief that everyone holds the ability within themselves to heal, and that together through a trusting therapeutic relationship, I can assist clients in their journeys towards being more deeply connected to themselves and others.
(984) 230-4645 View (984) 230-4645
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Ariel Rogers
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27707  (Online Only)
I work with individuals and couples to enhance their ability to cope in times of hardship, transitional periods and to problem solve life's many nuanced experiences. We collaborate and explore how the dynamic of engagement with self and others are connected to the most pressing issues.
I work with individuals and couples to enhance their ability to cope in times of hardship, transitional periods and to problem solve life's many nuanced experiences. We collaborate and explore how the dynamic of engagement with self and others are connected to the most pressing issues.
(984) 205-7570 x703 View (984) 205-7570 x703
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Gabrielle Johnson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27713  (Online Only)
My specialties include anxiety, depression, panic attack disorder, relationship issues, relationship anxiety, trauma, and grief/loss through a strength-based lens using CBT, DBT, and SFT creatively tailored to fit your needs.
You made it! You may not feel like you’re making it right now-and that’s totally okay. However, take a moment to reflect that you’ve made it to THIS moment in search for hope, understanding, growth, and relief. You’ve already made it through frustration (scrolling through hundreds of strangers faces to find a therapist), hopelessness, sadness, anxiety, trauma, and much more. I want to walk beside you through the difficult feelings you’ve been experiencing to help you create a life that you don’t just make it through, but actually ENJOY!
My specialties include anxiety, depression, panic attack disorder, relationship issues, relationship anxiety, trauma, and grief/loss through a strength-based lens using CBT, DBT, and SFT creatively tailored to fit your needs.
You made it! You may not feel like you’re making it right now-and that’s totally okay. However, take a moment to reflect that you’ve made it to THIS moment in search for hope, understanding, growth, and relief. You’ve already made it through frustration (scrolling through hundreds of strangers faces to find a therapist), hopelessness, sadness, anxiety, trauma, and much more. I want to walk beside you through the difficult feelings you’ve been experiencing to help you create a life that you don’t just make it through, but actually ENJOY!
(984) 214-8867 View (984) 214-8867
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Anna Hix Rodenfels
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27707
I understand the strength it takes to start therapy and believe in meeting clients where they are. I am passionate about helping individuals and couples learn how to identify and tolerate difficult emotions, how to set individual and relationship boundaries, and how to grow toward creating the relationship you want with yourself and/or your partner. I create a space for clients to feel supported, heard, and empowered as they move toward healing and change. I am LGBTQIA+ and friendly and approach all clients with empathy and compassion.
I understand the strength it takes to start therapy and believe in meeting clients where they are. I am passionate about helping individuals and couples learn how to identify and tolerate difficult emotions, how to set individual and relationship boundaries, and how to grow toward creating the relationship you want with yourself and/or your partner. I create a space for clients to feel supported, heard, and empowered as they move toward healing and change. I am LGBTQIA+ and friendly and approach all clients with empathy and compassion.
(919) 246-9444 View (919) 246-9444
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J Revels Counseling
Counselor, MEd , MA, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27707
Feeling hopeless? Avoiding your partner? Pretending everything is fine? I specialize in couples counseling, sex therapy, partnership therapy, and individual counseling. I help partners work through conflict and relational patterns in order to increase intimacy and trust. I help individuals work through depression, anxiety, and life transitions. Whether you need depression support, help getting out of a relationship crisis, navigating a divorce, or just working on your partnership early, therapy is worth the investment.
Feeling hopeless? Avoiding your partner? Pretending everything is fine? I specialize in couples counseling, sex therapy, partnership therapy, and individual counseling. I help partners work through conflict and relational patterns in order to increase intimacy and trust. I help individuals work through depression, anxiety, and life transitions. Whether you need depression support, help getting out of a relationship crisis, navigating a divorce, or just working on your partnership early, therapy is worth the investment.
(984) 229-8095 View (984) 229-8095
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James McCracken
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, DCSW
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27707
Waitlist for new clients
Therapy with a partner, family members or by yourself can be immensely rewarding, and I enjoy working with all sorts of people and issues.
I work with couples, families and adults who are seeking support and guidance with relationship issues and healing from painful childhoods and traumatic experiences. Many people I treat present with relationship distress, adjustment problems, symptoms of depression, anxiety and PTSD. I have been in practice for more than 20 years, have completed multiple post-graduate certifications (ie. AEDP; EFT with couples, families and individuals; Discernment Counseling), and am passionate about providing effective psychotherapy. Additionally, I enjoy providing therapy and consultation to therapists with similar interests.
Therapy with a partner, family members or by yourself can be immensely rewarding, and I enjoy working with all sorts of people and issues.
I work with couples, families and adults who are seeking support and guidance with relationship issues and healing from painful childhoods and traumatic experiences. Many people I treat present with relationship distress, adjustment problems, symptoms of depression, anxiety and PTSD. I have been in practice for more than 20 years, have completed multiple post-graduate certifications (ie. AEDP; EFT with couples, families and individuals; Discernment Counseling), and am passionate about providing effective psychotherapy. Additionally, I enjoy providing therapy and consultation to therapists with similar interests.
(919) 883-5637 x101 View (919) 883-5637 x101
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Ellis J Graham
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27713  (Online Only)
I work with couples who are striving to rebuild their connection, improve their communication, and manage conflict.
As a neurodivergent, queer, non-binary therapist, I understand the importance of a therapist who understands an intersectional experience of life. My practice is dedicated to providing a safe space, particularly for marginalized communities. In addition to neurodivergent and LGBTQIA communities, I also provide a safe space to explore kink, sexuality, and non-monogamy.
I work with couples who are striving to rebuild their connection, improve their communication, and manage conflict.
As a neurodivergent, queer, non-binary therapist, I understand the importance of a therapist who understands an intersectional experience of life. My practice is dedicated to providing a safe space, particularly for marginalized communities. In addition to neurodivergent and LGBTQIA communities, I also provide a safe space to explore kink, sexuality, and non-monogamy.
(502) 469-5341 View (502) 469-5341
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Living Room Therapy, Virtual Couples Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27707  (Online Only)
Contact me today to set up a free 15 minute phone consultation to see if In-Home Couples Therapy would be a good fit for you.
Feeling unhappy and unfulfilled in your relationship? Worried that your relationship is actually harming your children? Does finding a couples' therapist seem overwhelming? Living Room Therapy is uniquely created with you in mind. I serve busy couples who don't have the time and money for traditional couples' therapy. In-Home Couples Therapy saves you time and money by removing the need for you to take off work, hire a babysitter, and commute to and from a therapist's office!
Contact me today to set up a free 15 minute phone consultation to see if In-Home Couples Therapy would be a good fit for you.
Feeling unhappy and unfulfilled in your relationship? Worried that your relationship is actually harming your children? Does finding a couples' therapist seem overwhelming? Living Room Therapy is uniquely created with you in mind. I serve busy couples who don't have the time and money for traditional couples' therapy. In-Home Couples Therapy saves you time and money by removing the need for you to take off work, hire a babysitter, and commute to and from a therapist's office!
(919) 351-8537 View (919) 351-8537
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Mahkal Mathews
Counselor, MS, LCMHCA, LCASA
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27712
My background encompasses working with adolescents, adults, women issues, families, and couples.
You are important and your life is important as well! Life happens to us all, so the question is what are you going to do about those moments? Having therapeutic support can make the difference in how you approach any circumstance. More significantly is the personal connection you have with another person who you can share your thoughts and emotional being with comfortably. Too often in mental health just like medically we can wait too late and suffer needlessly from issues. Confide in someone who will take their time to get to know you personally and assist you in finding the best part of you. EVENING hour availability only.
My background encompasses working with adolescents, adults, women issues, families, and couples.
You are important and your life is important as well! Life happens to us all, so the question is what are you going to do about those moments? Having therapeutic support can make the difference in how you approach any circumstance. More significantly is the personal connection you have with another person who you can share your thoughts and emotional being with comfortably. Too often in mental health just like medically we can wait too late and suffer needlessly from issues. Confide in someone who will take their time to get to know you personally and assist you in finding the best part of you. EVENING hour availability only.
(984) 355-9720 View (984) 355-9720
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Charles Mitchell
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, PhD, LCAS
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27703  (Online Only)
Start. Restore. Heal. I would like to assist you with gaining control over your life through building positive coping strategies to help you address current psychosocial adaptations and poor coping skills. My focus will help you to reduce your mental health symptoms by developing healthy life choices, positive coping skills, and improved self image. I can assist you in building positive relationships and connections. I am currently providing Telehealth therapeutic services for individuals, couples and families, seeking therapeutic support.
Start. Restore. Heal. I would like to assist you with gaining control over your life through building positive coping strategies to help you address current psychosocial adaptations and poor coping skills. My focus will help you to reduce your mental health symptoms by developing healthy life choices, positive coping skills, and improved self image. I can assist you in building positive relationships and connections. I am currently providing Telehealth therapeutic services for individuals, couples and families, seeking therapeutic support.
(919) 551-6460 View (919) 551-6460
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Cameron Wade
MA, RDT
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27712
Cameron has worked with clients all over the US to harness the power of embodiment, mindfulness, authentic spirituality and creativity in their journeys of healing and wellness. Working with Cameron means moving beyond simply sitting and talking through problems to playing with and through them in the body, in the imagination, in nature, in narrative and in real relationship to Self and Others. Many of Cameron's clients identify as survivors of trauma (big T and little t) and partner with her to access greater safety and freedom in their body-minds through creative and somatic-based processes.
Cameron has worked with clients all over the US to harness the power of embodiment, mindfulness, authentic spirituality and creativity in their journeys of healing and wellness. Working with Cameron means moving beyond simply sitting and talking through problems to playing with and through them in the body, in the imagination, in nature, in narrative and in real relationship to Self and Others. Many of Cameron's clients identify as survivors of trauma (big T and little t) and partner with her to access greater safety and freedom in their body-minds through creative and somatic-based processes.
(984) 309-4335 View (984) 309-4335
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Sandra Painter
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27704
After 15 years of working in a public health center's women's health clinic, I especially enjoy working with women and couples dealing with relationship challenges and life transitions.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, confused, down, or struggling in relationships with family, friends or significant others? Are you experiencing loss or dealing with chronic illness in you or a family member? We all face a variety of challenging situations, emotions relationships and events. I believe there are times people may want to clarify their thinking about a problem or take their management of a life challenge up a notch. I believe my job is to support people’s efforts to do that by listening and assisting people in leveraging their strengths.
After 15 years of working in a public health center's women's health clinic, I especially enjoy working with women and couples dealing with relationship challenges and life transitions.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, confused, down, or struggling in relationships with family, friends or significant others? Are you experiencing loss or dealing with chronic illness in you or a family member? We all face a variety of challenging situations, emotions relationships and events. I believe there are times people may want to clarify their thinking about a problem or take their management of a life challenge up a notch. I believe my job is to support people’s efforts to do that by listening and assisting people in leveraging their strengths.
(919) 766-2706 x24 View (919) 766-2706 x24
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Taylor Gabriel
Counselor, MA, NCC, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27701  (Online Only)
I truly enjoy working with a range of clients. Some of my specialties include ADHD management, anxiety, grief, improving self-esteem, increasing self compassion, working with those wanting practical tools to apply to their life, and working with those wanting to shift out of unhealthy beliefs and patterns. I use several types a therapy to process and resolve trauma, past relationships, difficult life events, ect. I am not a couples therapist but I enjoy working on the individual level to create healthy relationships, learning communication tools, healing attachment wounds and developing secure attachments.
I truly enjoy working with a range of clients. Some of my specialties include ADHD management, anxiety, grief, improving self-esteem, increasing self compassion, working with those wanting practical tools to apply to their life, and working with those wanting to shift out of unhealthy beliefs and patterns. I use several types a therapy to process and resolve trauma, past relationships, difficult life events, ect. I am not a couples therapist but I enjoy working on the individual level to create healthy relationships, learning communication tools, healing attachment wounds and developing secure attachments.
(828) 818-8430 View (828) 818-8430
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Matthew Varley
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27705
I enjoy meeting diverse individuals, couples, and groups who are working on personal and relational challenges in psychotherapy.
People often consult with me to cope with challenges, gain insights, and make meaningful changes in their personal lives and relationships. Forming a collaborative relationship with every client is central to my work. Grounded in person-centered, existential, and mindfulness-based practice, I am especially interested in the feelings and values influencing human behavior and the ongoing process of finding meaning in life. Most of my clients prefer longer-term, depth-oriented work.
I enjoy meeting diverse individuals, couples, and groups who are working on personal and relational challenges in psychotherapy.
People often consult with me to cope with challenges, gain insights, and make meaningful changes in their personal lives and relationships. Forming a collaborative relationship with every client is central to my work. Grounded in person-centered, existential, and mindfulness-based practice, I am especially interested in the feelings and values influencing human behavior and the ongoing process of finding meaning in life. Most of my clients prefer longer-term, depth-oriented work.
(919) 646-9663 View (919) 646-9663
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InBloom Relationship Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27703
{{{{ ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS }}}} Good therapy begins with a strong relationship between therapist and client, and I believe that creating this empathic connection is one of my greatest strengths. I provide a client-centered, strength-based, affirmative approach that is warm and welcoming — a safe space where clients can share, process, and experience their thoughts and emotions. I am committed to meeting clients where they would like to begin their journey, working collaboratively toward healing, acceptance, purpose, well-being, and fulfillment.
{{{{ ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS }}}} Good therapy begins with a strong relationship between therapist and client, and I believe that creating this empathic connection is one of my greatest strengths. I provide a client-centered, strength-based, affirmative approach that is warm and welcoming — a safe space where clients can share, process, and experience their thoughts and emotions. I am committed to meeting clients where they would like to begin their journey, working collaboratively toward healing, acceptance, purpose, well-being, and fulfillment.
(919) 582-5999 View (919) 582-5999
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Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.