Relationship Issues Therapists in SouthPark, Charlotte, NC

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The Virtue Place, PLLC
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, CCTSI
Verified Verified
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28210
Relationships can provide the greatest joy yet create emotional pain in our lives. Anxiety, depression, shame, and trauma can be traced to a current or past relationship. Maybe you are in an unhealthy or unfulfilling relationship. Perhaps, you are experiencing a relationship loss due to a divorce or a breakup. Or you may be living with the impact of early childhood trauma/neglect. You also may be single with a longing to be in a relationship. Despite the cause of emotional pain, I believe you can heal and grow. I offer a safe environment where we work collaboratively toward a fulfilling relationship with yourself and others.
Relationships can provide the greatest joy yet create emotional pain in our lives. Anxiety, depression, shame, and trauma can be traced to a current or past relationship. Maybe you are in an unhealthy or unfulfilling relationship. Perhaps, you are experiencing a relationship loss due to a divorce or a breakup. Or you may be living with the impact of early childhood trauma/neglect. You also may be single with a longing to be in a relationship. Despite the cause of emotional pain, I believe you can heal and grow. I offer a safe environment where we work collaboratively toward a fulfilling relationship with yourself and others.
(980) 430-4083 View (980) 430-4083
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Anne Burkart
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LCASA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28210
Life is challenging at times. Maintaining healthy relationships may feel the like the greatest challenge of all! Our relationships are influenced by our childhood, family, & life experiences. Relationships take work! They can be overwhelming with the intensity of different emotions we experience, and sometimes this leads to make choices that can be unhealthy for us. Isolation, infidelity, & substance use hold us back from having a fulfilling relationship with ourselves & with others. Through exploring our challenges, accepting who we are in this moment, & leaning into the opportunity for growth we can Embrace all life has to offer!
Life is challenging at times. Maintaining healthy relationships may feel the like the greatest challenge of all! Our relationships are influenced by our childhood, family, & life experiences. Relationships take work! They can be overwhelming with the intensity of different emotions we experience, and sometimes this leads to make choices that can be unhealthy for us. Isolation, infidelity, & substance use hold us back from having a fulfilling relationship with ourselves & with others. Through exploring our challenges, accepting who we are in this moment, & leaning into the opportunity for growth we can Embrace all life has to offer!
(704) 237-6703 View (704) 237-6703
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David E Mermelstein
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28211  (Online Only)
I have worked for several decades with individuals, couple's and families who have struggled with personal, relational, marital and family issues. I guess that qualifies me as a "seasoned" therapist. Among the many issues that clients have brought to their work with me are acute and chronic anxiety, depression, grief and loss, relationship issues and longing for personal growth. I have extensive experience in dealing with marital and couple's problems. As a survivor or child loss, I have particular expertise is working with bereaved parents.
I have worked for several decades with individuals, couple's and families who have struggled with personal, relational, marital and family issues. I guess that qualifies me as a "seasoned" therapist. Among the many issues that clients have brought to their work with me are acute and chronic anxiety, depression, grief and loss, relationship issues and longing for personal growth. I have extensive experience in dealing with marital and couple's problems. As a survivor or child loss, I have particular expertise is working with bereaved parents.
(803) 676-1607 View (803) 676-1607
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Sherry B. Stacks
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LCMHC
Verified Verified
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28210
"When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn."-Harriet Beecher Stowe. I encourage you in the healing process as you discover your innate strengths and develop them. My extensive training in relationship and various modes of individual therapy prepare me to work with individuals, couples, and families. With an emphasis on interpersonal relationships and their impact on thinking, emotions and behavior, I address the whole person emphasizing the ever-changing life cycle.
"When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn."-Harriet Beecher Stowe. I encourage you in the healing process as you discover your innate strengths and develop them. My extensive training in relationship and various modes of individual therapy prepare me to work with individuals, couples, and families. With an emphasis on interpersonal relationships and their impact on thinking, emotions and behavior, I address the whole person emphasizing the ever-changing life cycle.
(704) 908-0317 x323 View (704) 908-0317 x323
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Sharonda Ravenell
Counselor, MEd, NCC, LCMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28210  (Online Only)
I address many different concerns with my clients such as trauma, self-esteem, time management, grief, relationship issues, problem solving, and depression. I currently work with adolescents starting at age 16 and adults. I help my clients to process their thoughts and feeling to overcome many obstacles. I am here to be a source of additional support when you may be feeling alone, invisible, or unheard.
I address many different concerns with my clients such as trauma, self-esteem, time management, grief, relationship issues, problem solving, and depression. I currently work with adolescents starting at age 16 and adults. I help my clients to process their thoughts and feeling to overcome many obstacles. I am here to be a source of additional support when you may be feeling alone, invisible, or unheard.
(980) 533-0856 View (980) 533-0856
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Audrey A. File
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28210
Emotional health and relationship difficulties can lead to a ripple effect of stress throughout all components of life. My goal is to provide a comfortable environment to build a collaborative and supportive therapeutic relationship. The focus of my work is addressing symptoms while exploring other important aspects of your life such as your values, goals, relationships, and how and where you invest your time and resources. Expanding your understanding of how all of these factors interact to affect your emotional and physical health can lead to a treatment plan that helps you discover the path to the life you want.
Emotional health and relationship difficulties can lead to a ripple effect of stress throughout all components of life. My goal is to provide a comfortable environment to build a collaborative and supportive therapeutic relationship. The focus of my work is addressing symptoms while exploring other important aspects of your life such as your values, goals, relationships, and how and where you invest your time and resources. Expanding your understanding of how all of these factors interact to affect your emotional and physical health can lead to a treatment plan that helps you discover the path to the life you want.
(704) 870-3686 View (704) 870-3686
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Frances Jacobs Smith
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MEd, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28210
Areas of experience include: depression, bipolar disorder, anxiety, grief/loss, life transitions, healing childhood wounds and relationship issues both past and present.
I earned my masters in counseling from the University of New Orleans in 1987. I earned my masters in social work from the University of South Carolina in 1994. I have worked for over 12 years as a clinical therapist/professional counselor. My clinical and counseling experiences have been in a variety of settings to include private practice, mental health agencies, foster care, department of social services and community outreach. I have had the opportunity to work with children 11+, teens and adults. I believe that therapy has the ability to promote hope, growth and change.
Areas of experience include: depression, bipolar disorder, anxiety, grief/loss, life transitions, healing childhood wounds and relationship issues both past and present.
I earned my masters in counseling from the University of New Orleans in 1987. I earned my masters in social work from the University of South Carolina in 1994. I have worked for over 12 years as a clinical therapist/professional counselor. My clinical and counseling experiences have been in a variety of settings to include private practice, mental health agencies, foster care, department of social services and community outreach. I have had the opportunity to work with children 11+, teens and adults. I believe that therapy has the ability to promote hope, growth and change.
(704) 326-4088 View (704) 326-4088
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Patricia Butler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LMFT
Verified Verified
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28210
I have been a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in North Carolina for over 25 years. I take seriously the trust that clients place in me when choosing to work with me in psychotherapy and as a result I create a safe, non-judgmental space where life's challenges can be examined and explored and where a sense of health and well being can be found or reestablished. My specialties include relationship/couples counseling, trauma resolution, and the integration of spirituality and psychotherapy using the spiritual framework of my clients.
I have been a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in North Carolina for over 25 years. I take seriously the trust that clients place in me when choosing to work with me in psychotherapy and as a result I create a safe, non-judgmental space where life's challenges can be examined and explored and where a sense of health and well being can be found or reestablished. My specialties include relationship/couples counseling, trauma resolution, and the integration of spirituality and psychotherapy using the spiritual framework of my clients.
(704) 897-6006 View (704) 897-6006
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Alyse Bone
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, CRC, LCMHCQS, RYT, RPT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28210
I prioritize the client-therapist relationship as integral to the healing process.
I am here to support you on your life journey, through its ups and downs. My name is Alyse and I specialize in helping women, parents, and minorities heal from perfectionism, inner child wounds, and dysregulated nervous systems. I also work with those who are neurodivergent (ADHD, ASD, OCD, Gifted, Learning differences) helping them thrive in their uniqueness. Self pay only, superbills can be provided.
I prioritize the client-therapist relationship as integral to the healing process.
I am here to support you on your life journey, through its ups and downs. My name is Alyse and I specialize in helping women, parents, and minorities heal from perfectionism, inner child wounds, and dysregulated nervous systems. I also work with those who are neurodivergent (ADHD, ASD, OCD, Gifted, Learning differences) helping them thrive in their uniqueness. Self pay only, superbills can be provided.
(919) 251-5617 View (919) 251-5617
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Nona Patterson
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28210
Waitlist for new clients
I am a clinical psychologist with over 30 years experience helping adults and adolescents resolve problems, improve relationships and achieve important life goals. I have worked with a wide range of issues. My areas of special interest include working with individuals undergoing emotional distress (depression, anxiety, fear and anger), relationship difficulties (getting along with spouse, family, friends or co-workers), adjustment to a change in one's life (loss of a loved one, separation/divorce, change in health status or work).
I am a clinical psychologist with over 30 years experience helping adults and adolescents resolve problems, improve relationships and achieve important life goals. I have worked with a wide range of issues. My areas of special interest include working with individuals undergoing emotional distress (depression, anxiety, fear and anger), relationship difficulties (getting along with spouse, family, friends or co-workers), adjustment to a change in one's life (loss of a loved one, separation/divorce, change in health status or work).
(704) 380-9180 View (704) 380-9180
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Caroline Bundesman
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28211
When our relationships shift towards dysfunctional, they can become more stressful than comforting. I work with adults in individual, couple, and family therapy to create more comforting relationships with themselves and others. Together we explore issues related to intergenerational trauma, dysfunctional relationship patterns, family issues, and attachment. This often looks like exploring disconnection, unresolvable issues, work-life balance, and setting boundaries. My clients often identify has Highly Sensitive People (HSP) or as therapists and healers. If this sounds like you, let's chat!
When our relationships shift towards dysfunctional, they can become more stressful than comforting. I work with adults in individual, couple, and family therapy to create more comforting relationships with themselves and others. Together we explore issues related to intergenerational trauma, dysfunctional relationship patterns, family issues, and attachment. This often looks like exploring disconnection, unresolvable issues, work-life balance, and setting boundaries. My clients often identify has Highly Sensitive People (HSP) or as therapists and healers. If this sounds like you, let's chat!
(704) 736-3329 View (704) 736-3329
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Jennifer Kolb
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, NCC, SEP
Verified Verified
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28210
I work with highly motivated adults who are dealing with concerns including anxiety and depression, self-esteem and identity issues, life transitions, grief and loss, and relationship stress.
Maybe you've been listening to podcasts, been in masterclasses, and reading self-help books thinking about your emotions so much that you haven't been feeling them. Or maybe you feel as though you are experiencing your emotions "too much." Either way, if you could do this by yourself (whatever the "this" is for you), you would have done it by now! It takes strength and courage to start therapy, and I applaud you for exploring your options. As a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, I offer resilience informed therapy for emotional wellness, mental health, and trauma recovery.
I work with highly motivated adults who are dealing with concerns including anxiety and depression, self-esteem and identity issues, life transitions, grief and loss, and relationship stress.
Maybe you've been listening to podcasts, been in masterclasses, and reading self-help books thinking about your emotions so much that you haven't been feeling them. Or maybe you feel as though you are experiencing your emotions "too much." Either way, if you could do this by yourself (whatever the "this" is for you), you would have done it by now! It takes strength and courage to start therapy, and I applaud you for exploring your options. As a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, I offer resilience informed therapy for emotional wellness, mental health, and trauma recovery.
(704) 879-3064 View (704) 879-3064
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Daniel Miles
Counselor, MA, MDiv, LCMHC
Verified Verified
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28210
Waitlist for new clients
I work with adults and couples dealing with anxiety and depression; grief and loss; relationship struggles; life transitions; spirituality and faith concerns; and issues related to sexuality and identity.
It has been a trying few years, and it just seems to get worse. The world is still filled with anxiety, uncertainty, and confusion. If you need some human connection in these frightening times, I am available to you. Whether you're anxious about the country and world, struggling to maintain relationships, or feeling lonely and isolated, I can help you.
I work with adults and couples dealing with anxiety and depression; grief and loss; relationship struggles; life transitions; spirituality and faith concerns; and issues related to sexuality and identity.
It has been a trying few years, and it just seems to get worse. The world is still filled with anxiety, uncertainty, and confusion. If you need some human connection in these frightening times, I am available to you. Whether you're anxious about the country and world, struggling to maintain relationships, or feeling lonely and isolated, I can help you.
(704) 586-9363 View (704) 586-9363
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Cara Lima
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28210
Waitlist for new clients
With specialized training in relationship, gender, & sex therapy, I use a modern, evidence-based, & person-centered approach to heal both the individual & their relationships.
Feeling disconnected from yourself, friends, family? Experiencing a life transition? Struggling with depression or anxiety? Do you feel like something is missing from your sex life? Are you longing to re-ignite your intimacy and/or sexuality? Would you like to repair or strengthen your relationship? Are you single & looking to discover your potential for pleasure? I believe people have the desire & capacity to heal & grow, & that our quality of life is impacted by our relationship with others. I help clients increase intimacy, passion, sexual satisfaction, & pleasure so they can develop a deeper connection with Self & others.
With specialized training in relationship, gender, & sex therapy, I use a modern, evidence-based, & person-centered approach to heal both the individual & their relationships.
Feeling disconnected from yourself, friends, family? Experiencing a life transition? Struggling with depression or anxiety? Do you feel like something is missing from your sex life? Are you longing to re-ignite your intimacy and/or sexuality? Would you like to repair or strengthen your relationship? Are you single & looking to discover your potential for pleasure? I believe people have the desire & capacity to heal & grow, & that our quality of life is impacted by our relationship with others. I help clients increase intimacy, passion, sexual satisfaction, & pleasure so they can develop a deeper connection with Self & others.
(704) 327-0308 View (704) 327-0308
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Catherine Naylor
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28210  (Online Only)
A similar relationship exists between our thoughts, emotions and actions.
Have you been feeling unheard, confused, overwhelmed? Does life feel like A LOT? Do you find yourself questioning what’s next? Perhaps it feels like something is missing or not quite right. You might even feel trapped in a constant state of anxiety! We all go through periods of uncertainty and doubt, but sometimes we need help finding our way through these times. Whatever you’re hoping to get out of therapy, you’re going to have to work! I’m here to help you figure out what that looks like. If you let me, I’ll guide you through the discomfort of growth.
A similar relationship exists between our thoughts, emotions and actions.
Have you been feeling unheard, confused, overwhelmed? Does life feel like A LOT? Do you find yourself questioning what’s next? Perhaps it feels like something is missing or not quite right. You might even feel trapped in a constant state of anxiety! We all go through periods of uncertainty and doubt, but sometimes we need help finding our way through these times. Whatever you’re hoping to get out of therapy, you’re going to have to work! I’m here to help you figure out what that looks like. If you let me, I’ll guide you through the discomfort of growth.
(980) 372-6329 View (980) 372-6329
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Restoration Counseling Center
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CCTP
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28211
Each of us have encountered circumstances that have tested us and, possibly, led us to question past decisions and/or our ability to navigate difficulty situations. RCC works with individuals who are struggling to identify or renew their purpose in life, develop and utilize coping skills, or want to improve the quality of their relationships. We also work with couples who want to heal their relationship and restore trust. This can include couples who have experienced infidelity or couples who want to improve the quality of their communication and identify ways to navigate common issues (i.e. arguing fair, parenting).
Each of us have encountered circumstances that have tested us and, possibly, led us to question past decisions and/or our ability to navigate difficulty situations. RCC works with individuals who are struggling to identify or renew their purpose in life, develop and utilize coping skills, or want to improve the quality of their relationships. We also work with couples who want to heal their relationship and restore trust. This can include couples who have experienced infidelity or couples who want to improve the quality of their communication and identify ways to navigate common issues (i.e. arguing fair, parenting).
(980) 292-8238 x2 View (980) 292-8238 x2
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Clara Irwin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCAS
Verified Verified
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28210
I have worked with individuals, couples, and families for over 25 years as they seek help for challenges that bring them to therapy. I have trained extensively in the treatment of anxiety, depression, grief, addiction, codependency, relationship issues, and trauma. Mindfulness is an integral part of my personal life and therapy practice. My intention is to be a compassionate and wise guide as my clients engage in the work needed to heal.
I have worked with individuals, couples, and families for over 25 years as they seek help for challenges that bring them to therapy. I have trained extensively in the treatment of anxiety, depression, grief, addiction, codependency, relationship issues, and trauma. Mindfulness is an integral part of my personal life and therapy practice. My intention is to be a compassionate and wise guide as my clients engage in the work needed to heal.
(704) 326-9013 View (704) 326-9013
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Samantha Atkinson-Lorenz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28210
I work with adults who want help addressing anxiety, depression, parenting, relationship and marital issues, premarital counseling, life transitions, stress, and more.
“Healing doesn’t mean the hurt never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives.” Hello and welcome! I’m Samantha. I enjoy working with people of all ages and I see children, teens and adults. I also have specific experience working in maternal mental health and specifically with clients who are experiencing perinatal mood and anxiety disorders. Additionally, I have experience working with parents who are learning to juggle this role, but who also want to stay true to who they are as an individual.
I work with adults who want help addressing anxiety, depression, parenting, relationship and marital issues, premarital counseling, life transitions, stress, and more.
“Healing doesn’t mean the hurt never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives.” Hello and welcome! I’m Samantha. I enjoy working with people of all ages and I see children, teens and adults. I also have specific experience working in maternal mental health and specifically with clients who are experiencing perinatal mood and anxiety disorders. Additionally, I have experience working with parents who are learning to juggle this role, but who also want to stay true to who they are as an individual.
(704) 666-4809 View (704) 666-4809
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Kristina Murphy Peck
Psychologist, PsyD, HSP-P
Verified Verified
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28210
I have been practicing for over 18 years and specialize in working with individuals with a wide variety of concerns, including: ADHD, anxiety, depression, self-esteem problems, interpersonal problems, adjustment/coping issues, relationship issues, life-work balance, body image disturbance, weight loss, major life transitions, stress, and parenting.
I believe clients have the right to be heard and listened to in a non-judgmental, warm, and open environment. I incorporate large doses of humor and compassion within each session, helping to give you the most beneficial and comfortable experience. I would value the opportunity to explore the life issues that have brought you to this site. Making the first call is extremely difficult; yet the most important step towards finding a meaningful partnership with a therapist that can help guide you. I specialize in mindful and value based approaches to help move towards a life filled with vitality.
I have been practicing for over 18 years and specialize in working with individuals with a wide variety of concerns, including: ADHD, anxiety, depression, self-esteem problems, interpersonal problems, adjustment/coping issues, relationship issues, life-work balance, body image disturbance, weight loss, major life transitions, stress, and parenting.
I believe clients have the right to be heard and listened to in a non-judgmental, warm, and open environment. I incorporate large doses of humor and compassion within each session, helping to give you the most beneficial and comfortable experience. I would value the opportunity to explore the life issues that have brought you to this site. Making the first call is extremely difficult; yet the most important step towards finding a meaningful partnership with a therapist that can help guide you. I specialize in mindful and value based approaches to help move towards a life filled with vitality.
(704) 751-5051 View (704) 751-5051
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Amy S Combs
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
SouthPark, Charlotte, NC 28210
Waitlist for new clients
Combs very much enjoys helping couples find empathy, compassion, and understanding within their relationship.
Dr. Amy Combs is a licensed psychologist practicing in Charlotte since 2004. Her practice is primarily guided by the principles of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy with the goal of helping clients craft a way of living intentionally that is values-driven and fulfilling. Her practice focuses on difficulties in relationships, struggles stemming from depression and/or anxiety, and disordered eating. Dr. Combs primarily sees adults in her practice. She also works with adolescents who are open to therapy. She enjoys working with clients of all races, genders, and sexual orientations.
Combs very much enjoys helping couples find empathy, compassion, and understanding within their relationship.
Dr. Amy Combs is a licensed psychologist practicing in Charlotte since 2004. Her practice is primarily guided by the principles of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy with the goal of helping clients craft a way of living intentionally that is values-driven and fulfilling. Her practice focuses on difficulties in relationships, struggles stemming from depression and/or anxiety, and disordered eating. Dr. Combs primarily sees adults in her practice. She also works with adolescents who are open to therapy. She enjoys working with clients of all races, genders, and sexual orientations.
(704) 817-7643 View (704) 817-7643
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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.