Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists in California

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Melissa Willard
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fresno, CA 93730  (Online Only)
A therapist that understands the dynamics of a Toxic/Narcissistic relationship is essential in breaking free from the chains you may feel while in this relationship.
Welcome! I am a Certified Narcissistic Abuse Clinician. I understand that Seeking out therapy can be a bit overwhelming and intimidating at times, you are making a powerful step in the right direction. Do you find yourself struggling with anxiety, depression or life stressors? Are you ready to break free from negative thoughts or set backs with anxiety that could be holding you back from your full potential? Do you have relationship issues that leave you feeling stuck? Have you found yourself in a toxic relationship one to many times and are ready to stop the cycle? I would love to support you
A therapist that understands the dynamics of a Toxic/Narcissistic relationship is essential in breaking free from the chains you may feel while in this relationship.
Welcome! I am a Certified Narcissistic Abuse Clinician. I understand that Seeking out therapy can be a bit overwhelming and intimidating at times, you are making a powerful step in the right direction. Do you find yourself struggling with anxiety, depression or life stressors? Are you ready to break free from negative thoughts or set backs with anxiety that could be holding you back from your full potential? Do you have relationship issues that leave you feeling stuck? Have you found yourself in a toxic relationship one to many times and are ready to stop the cycle? I would love to support you
(559) 245-3239 View (559) 245-3239
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Barry C Ross
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92606
I have particular interest in Borderline and Narcissistic conditions.
I am currently taking new patients. The difficulties, pain, and sometimes confusion that arises in trying to meet emotional needs may lead to seeking help. I am a psychologist, marriage family therapist, and psychoanalyst with more than 25 years of experience treating adolescents, adults, and couples. My approach connects to my patients with empathy and insight beyond basic support. This is a collaborative approach to therapy.
I have particular interest in Borderline and Narcissistic conditions.
I am currently taking new patients. The difficulties, pain, and sometimes confusion that arises in trying to meet emotional needs may lead to seeking help. I am a psychologist, marriage family therapist, and psychoanalyst with more than 25 years of experience treating adolescents, adults, and couples. My approach connects to my patients with empathy and insight beyond basic support. This is a collaborative approach to therapy.
(949) 391-2538 View (949) 391-2538
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Carol Olmos Crawley
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Morgan Hill, CA 95037  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
My focus is working with survivors of narcissistic abuse, first responders, and couples looking to recover from infidelity. I see individuals as well as couples and if appropriate, will alternate seeing a couple together and then separately for individual sessions. I use an integrative approach that combines evidence-based practices with a personalized, holistic perspective. Whether you are struggling with infidelity, trauma, anxiety, depression, or other challenges, I am here to provide a compassionate and non-judgmental space where you can explore your experiences and develop the skills and tools you need to achieve your goals.
My focus is working with survivors of narcissistic abuse, first responders, and couples looking to recover from infidelity. I see individuals as well as couples and if appropriate, will alternate seeing a couple together and then separately for individual sessions. I use an integrative approach that combines evidence-based practices with a personalized, holistic perspective. Whether you are struggling with infidelity, trauma, anxiety, depression, or other challenges, I am here to provide a compassionate and non-judgmental space where you can explore your experiences and develop the skills and tools you need to achieve your goals.
(669) 322-3302 View (669) 322-3302
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Ricci Elliott
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Los Gatos, CA 95032  (Online Only)
I have experience in treating depression, anxiety, self-esteem/body image issues, grief/loss, trauma, sexual abuse, attachment issues, narcissistic abuse, and more.
Seeking and getting support isn't always easy, but we aren't meant to endure life's challenges alone. Reaching out for support is itself a brave act of self love, and in doing so you will prove to yourself the depth of your abilities and the unlimited potential for growth with which you possess. I believe people are capable of so much, and my goal is to work collaboratively with you to help you achieve what you want to get out of your life and your relationships with others.
I have experience in treating depression, anxiety, self-esteem/body image issues, grief/loss, trauma, sexual abuse, attachment issues, narcissistic abuse, and more.
Seeking and getting support isn't always easy, but we aren't meant to endure life's challenges alone. Reaching out for support is itself a brave act of self love, and in doing so you will prove to yourself the depth of your abilities and the unlimited potential for growth with which you possess. I believe people are capable of so much, and my goal is to work collaboratively with you to help you achieve what you want to get out of your life and your relationships with others.
(510) 661-3402 View (510) 661-3402
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Dr. Lori L. Collins- The Narcissism Effect
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Newport Beach, CA 92660
Are you done being a member of the '4-F' club? Fight, Flight, Freeze or Fawn. These are physiological reactions when your emotional and/or physical safety is threatened and can deplete you to exhaustion. In practicing psychotherapy for 20+ years, I've become well-learned of all that exists in the narcissistic realm. The imprint of narcissistic abuse - self-abandonment, depletion of your soul, and fracturing your sense of self to an unrecognizable state - this can all be recovered. Let me help in the healing of your authentic self.
Are you done being a member of the '4-F' club? Fight, Flight, Freeze or Fawn. These are physiological reactions when your emotional and/or physical safety is threatened and can deplete you to exhaustion. In practicing psychotherapy for 20+ years, I've become well-learned of all that exists in the narcissistic realm. The imprint of narcissistic abuse - self-abandonment, depletion of your soul, and fracturing your sense of self to an unrecognizable state - this can all be recovered. Let me help in the healing of your authentic self.
(949) 407-6528 View (949) 407-6528
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Emma Nelson
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90004
I work with individuals/families that have experienced emotional and physical abandonment and/or are healing from narcissistic abuse in either parental/romantic/sibling relationships.
We all have the capacity and right to have a fulfilling life however, many barriers interfere with our current sense of satisfaction and our ability to achieve our dreams. I hope to be able to help you explore what barriers are getting in the way by focusing on, recognizing and reinforcing your innate strengths, and exploring where blockages within your life manifested, and how they may be shifted so that you are able to transform.
I work with individuals/families that have experienced emotional and physical abandonment and/or are healing from narcissistic abuse in either parental/romantic/sibling relationships.
We all have the capacity and right to have a fulfilling life however, many barriers interfere with our current sense of satisfaction and our ability to achieve our dreams. I hope to be able to help you explore what barriers are getting in the way by focusing on, recognizing and reinforcing your innate strengths, and exploring where blockages within your life manifested, and how they may be shifted so that you are able to transform.
(424) 391-3296 View (424) 391-3296
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Dr. Sarwat Waraich Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Brea, CA 92821  (Online Only)
You are a victim of narcissistic abuse.
You're entirely powerless. You've begun isolating from your family. The shame is so deep that you're afraid to look them in the eye. They'll surely see the heavy secret you've been carrying. You've tried to be "good enough" for him, but the cycle of emotional abuse and manipulation is never-ending. You've begun to question your sanity. You made excuses for their behavior, his "moods". You've changed yourself to appease him and lost yourself in the process. You no longer recognize the woman in the mirror with her sad and tired eyes. You've disconnected from you friends and the things you once loved. You've lost who you are.
You are a victim of narcissistic abuse.
You're entirely powerless. You've begun isolating from your family. The shame is so deep that you're afraid to look them in the eye. They'll surely see the heavy secret you've been carrying. You've tried to be "good enough" for him, but the cycle of emotional abuse and manipulation is never-ending. You've begun to question your sanity. You made excuses for their behavior, his "moods". You've changed yourself to appease him and lost yourself in the process. You no longer recognize the woman in the mirror with her sad and tired eyes. You've disconnected from you friends and the things you once loved. You've lost who you are.
(626) 283-5852 View (626) 283-5852
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Thrive Well Trauma Center
LMFT, LCSW, LPCC
Verified Verified
Temecula, CA 92590
Our specializes include but are not limited to EMDR, Trauma, Anxiety/Panic, Depression, Sex / Porn Addiction Recovery, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery, and Substance Addiction & Recovery.
Trauma is often the result of an overwhelming amount of stress that exceeds one's ability to cope, or integrate the emotions involved with that experience- We work to relieve symptoms of trauma from a difficult childhood, challenging relationships or events that have contributed to anxiety, depression, addiction and more.
Our specializes include but are not limited to EMDR, Trauma, Anxiety/Panic, Depression, Sex / Porn Addiction Recovery, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery, and Substance Addiction & Recovery.
Trauma is often the result of an overwhelming amount of stress that exceeds one's ability to cope, or integrate the emotions involved with that experience- We work to relieve symptoms of trauma from a difficult childhood, challenging relationships or events that have contributed to anxiety, depression, addiction and more.
(951) 227-7681 View (951) 227-7681
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Ariana Ashley Mahban
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Redondo Beach, CA 90277
Hello, I’m Ariana! I am passionate about empowering young adult women and couples to move through life's challenges with more confidence and clarity. My areas of focus include eating disorders, relational issues, and relational trauma. In my practice, I offer support to those on a healing journey from narcissistic abuse, seeking self-identity, facing career challenges, or dealing with body image concerns. My therapeutic approach is grounded in psychodynamic, relational, person-centered, and evidence-based modalities—striving to blend depth psychology with solution-focused strategies.
Hello, I’m Ariana! I am passionate about empowering young adult women and couples to move through life's challenges with more confidence and clarity. My areas of focus include eating disorders, relational issues, and relational trauma. In my practice, I offer support to those on a healing journey from narcissistic abuse, seeking self-identity, facing career challenges, or dealing with body image concerns. My therapeutic approach is grounded in psychodynamic, relational, person-centered, and evidence-based modalities—striving to blend depth psychology with solution-focused strategies.
(310) 982-7438 View (310) 982-7438
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Lara (Jeanne) Jackson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, RYT-200
Verified Verified
Carlsbad, CA 92008  (Online Only)
Looking to make meaningful changes in your life or make sense of difficult past experiences? Are you struggling with PTSD, trauma, anxiety, depression, narcissistic abuse recovery, low self esteem, and loneliness? I am here to help! I provide a warm, welcoming, safe space for you to feel validated and heard. I work to help my diverse clients acquire the tools and support needed to help reduce their anxiety and depression while increasing their self esteem, self worth, and relationship connectivity so they can live more satisfying lives. I use a trauma informed lens and strength based approach.
Looking to make meaningful changes in your life or make sense of difficult past experiences? Are you struggling with PTSD, trauma, anxiety, depression, narcissistic abuse recovery, low self esteem, and loneliness? I am here to help! I provide a warm, welcoming, safe space for you to feel validated and heard. I work to help my diverse clients acquire the tools and support needed to help reduce their anxiety and depression while increasing their self esteem, self worth, and relationship connectivity so they can live more satisfying lives. I use a trauma informed lens and strength based approach.
(619) 404-3323 View (619) 404-3323
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Tracy Santomarco
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, #118841
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90048  (Online Only)
Are you beginning your path of healing after discovering you have been entwined in a narcissistic relationship? Whether it was with a romantic partner, family member, boss, or friend, the wounds left behind can run deep. Let's work together to rebuild your sense of self so you can emerge feeling stronger and more connected to who you are meant to be. I offer interactive and supportive sessions where open, honest communication thrive. Laughter and tears also find their place in our sessions as humor can offer perspective alongside compassion and healing.
Are you beginning your path of healing after discovering you have been entwined in a narcissistic relationship? Whether it was with a romantic partner, family member, boss, or friend, the wounds left behind can run deep. Let's work together to rebuild your sense of self so you can emerge feeling stronger and more connected to who you are meant to be. I offer interactive and supportive sessions where open, honest communication thrive. Laughter and tears also find their place in our sessions as humor can offer perspective alongside compassion and healing.
(424) 302-5444 View (424) 302-5444
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Jessica McGowen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, MFT
Verified Verified
San Francisco, CA 94104  (Online Only)
If you’re in or have been in a narcissistic relationship, I understand exactly what you have experienced.
I have 20 years of experience but I don't believe that says anything unless I can relate, connect and feel with my clients. I can be professional when necessary but I am better at just being real. I am not everyones therapist and I am okay with it. I engage in the conversation with respect and authenticity. I'm direct with the intention to help and shift the issues in a place for change . I am good at what I do and passionate about helping people through pain.
If you’re in or have been in a narcissistic relationship, I understand exactly what you have experienced.
I have 20 years of experience but I don't believe that says anything unless I can relate, connect and feel with my clients. I can be professional when necessary but I am better at just being real. I am not everyones therapist and I am okay with it. I engage in the conversation with respect and authenticity. I'm direct with the intention to help and shift the issues in a place for change . I am good at what I do and passionate about helping people through pain.
(415) 529-8891 View (415) 529-8891
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Maja Wood Radevich Psychotherapy And Coaching
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Santa Rosa, CA 95403
My areas of focus include narcissistic abuse, life transitions (midlife "crisis," empty nest, divorce, career change) depression, anxiety, creativity, finding meaning and purpose. I am currently working on a research project on using the flow state (being in the zone) in psychotherapy.
My areas of focus include narcissistic abuse, life transitions (midlife "crisis," empty nest, divorce, career change) depression, anxiety, creativity, finding meaning and purpose. I am currently working on a research project on using the flow state (being in the zone) in psychotherapy.
(707) 388-3658 View (707) 388-3658
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Diana Hamawi
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, MSc, AMFT
Verified Verified
Tustin, CA 92780  (Online Only)
If you’ve experienced the pain of narcissistic abuse, you may be struggling with feelings of confusion, self-doubt, and emotional distress. I am dedicated to helping individuals heal from the profound impact of narcissistic abuse and regain their sense of self-worth and empowerment. My therapeutic approach is integrative and trauma-informed, focusing on creating a safe, validating space where you can process your experiences and begin the healing journey. I use evidence-based techniques and a compassionate, person-centered approach to help you understand and overcome the impacts of narcissistic abuse.
If you’ve experienced the pain of narcissistic abuse, you may be struggling with feelings of confusion, self-doubt, and emotional distress. I am dedicated to helping individuals heal from the profound impact of narcissistic abuse and regain their sense of self-worth and empowerment. My therapeutic approach is integrative and trauma-informed, focusing on creating a safe, validating space where you can process your experiences and begin the healing journey. I use evidence-based techniques and a compassionate, person-centered approach to help you understand and overcome the impacts of narcissistic abuse.
(714) 912-1441 View (714) 912-1441
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Maria Holden
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
San Francisco, CA 94115  (Online Only)
Are you working through trauma or a difficult life transition? Are you in relationship with a toxic or narcissistic person? Are you facing painful loss? Do you want to use principles of spirituality to strengthen you and answer life's deepest questions? Do you suffer from DID or dissociative disorder? For 30 years, I have guided people toward authentic ways of living and relating. Through many types of treatment, I help people to understand how traumatic life events change us and how to transform thoughts, feelings, and relationships. We focus on real actions you can take to find the power to reverse the effects of pain and trauma.
Are you working through trauma or a difficult life transition? Are you in relationship with a toxic or narcissistic person? Are you facing painful loss? Do you want to use principles of spirituality to strengthen you and answer life's deepest questions? Do you suffer from DID or dissociative disorder? For 30 years, I have guided people toward authentic ways of living and relating. Through many types of treatment, I help people to understand how traumatic life events change us and how to transform thoughts, feelings, and relationships. We focus on real actions you can take to find the power to reverse the effects of pain and trauma.
(510) 216-1317 View (510) 216-1317
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Dr. Susie King
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Santa Barbara, CA 93101  (Online Only)
My main areas of focus are on women's issues, those recovering from emotional abuse and narcissistic relationships, ADHD, and problems with addiction and alcoholism.
My name is Dr. Susie King and I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist in California. I provide online psychotherapy (telehealth) to adults living anywhere within the state. To schedule an appointment with me, please visit my website (see link on this page). You will book your first session yourself and then you'll receive a confirmation email from me with next steps.
My main areas of focus are on women's issues, those recovering from emotional abuse and narcissistic relationships, ADHD, and problems with addiction and alcoholism.
My name is Dr. Susie King and I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist in California. I provide online psychotherapy (telehealth) to adults living anywhere within the state. To schedule an appointment with me, please visit my website (see link on this page). You will book your first session yourself and then you'll receive a confirmation email from me with next steps.
(707) 414-3954 View (707) 414-3954
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Ronald Bauer
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Santa Rosa, CA 95405  (Online Only)
Whether you are struggling with, anxiety,narcissistic abuse,depression, or self image, there is one common denominator-YOU! In our work together you will learn to discover yourself, challenge and overcome dysfunctional behaviors, develop effective tools and coping strategies,set boundaries,recognize your triggers,become more self aware and learn to take responsibility for your part in developing healthy relationships. As we work together we will create challenge false realities and create new map.
Whether you are struggling with, anxiety,narcissistic abuse,depression, or self image, there is one common denominator-YOU! In our work together you will learn to discover yourself, challenge and overcome dysfunctional behaviors, develop effective tools and coping strategies,set boundaries,recognize your triggers,become more self aware and learn to take responsibility for your part in developing healthy relationships. As we work together we will create challenge false realities and create new map.
(707) 595-9717 View (707) 595-9717
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Carrie Ann Cleveland
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Woodland Hills, CA 91364  (Online Only)
Most people come to me to feel comfortable within themselves so that they can be unapologetically, authentically, vibrantly, and joyously themselves. You can learn to set boundaries, speak your truth, and ask for what you need. I maintain a central focus on the experiences of trauma, especially within the domain of narcissistic abuse, high conflict divorce, trauma & Borderline Personality Disorder. I specialize in therapy for those impacted by interpersonal trauma and adverse childhood experiences, as well as supporting individuals from all walks of life to navigate the full range experiences you have encountered on your journey.
Most people come to me to feel comfortable within themselves so that they can be unapologetically, authentically, vibrantly, and joyously themselves. You can learn to set boundaries, speak your truth, and ask for what you need. I maintain a central focus on the experiences of trauma, especially within the domain of narcissistic abuse, high conflict divorce, trauma & Borderline Personality Disorder. I specialize in therapy for those impacted by interpersonal trauma and adverse childhood experiences, as well as supporting individuals from all walks of life to navigate the full range experiences you have encountered on your journey.
(818) 350-5223 View (818) 350-5223
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Chiara Franco
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Carlsbad, CA 92008
Are you feeling emotionally suffocated, confused and trapped into the invisible chain of a narcissistic relationship? You are not alone! My ultimate goal is to empower you to take control of your life, set boundaries, and embrace your true self.
Are you feeling emotionally suffocated, confused and trapped into the invisible chain of a narcissistic relationship? You are not alone! My ultimate goal is to empower you to take control of your life, set boundaries, and embrace your true self.
(442) 233-3136 View (442) 233-3136
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Bea Armstrong
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95117
Hi! Thanks for considering me as your therapist. Whether you are struggling with a past trauma or current relationship, I have more than 30 years of helping people learn to live the best life possible. Areas of expertise: cult recovery (religious, other); ACA, PTSD, addictions, and narcissistic relationships, grief and loss. All of us hit speed bumps -- sometimes mountains -- that keep us from moving forward. Our beliefs about how life works can block happiness. We can't always change what's happening, but we can change our perception of it. I work exclusively online. See my web site: www.beaarmstrong.com
Hi! Thanks for considering me as your therapist. Whether you are struggling with a past trauma or current relationship, I have more than 30 years of helping people learn to live the best life possible. Areas of expertise: cult recovery (religious, other); ACA, PTSD, addictions, and narcissistic relationships, grief and loss. All of us hit speed bumps -- sometimes mountains -- that keep us from moving forward. Our beliefs about how life works can block happiness. We can't always change what's happening, but we can change our perception of it. I work exclusively online. See my web site: www.beaarmstrong.com
(408) 351-1879 View (408) 351-1879
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Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists

What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?

Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.

How do therapists treat NPD?

By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.

Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?

Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.

How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?

It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.