Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists in Orange County, CA

If you’ve experienced the pain of narcissistic abuse, you may be struggling with feelings of confusion, self-doubt, and emotional distress. I am dedicated to helping individuals heal from the profound impact of narcissistic abuse and regain their sense of self-worth and empowerment. My therapeutic approach is integrative and trauma-informed, focusing on creating a safe, validating space where you can process your experiences and begin the healing journey. I use evidence-based techniques and a compassionate, person-centered approach to help you understand and overcome the impacts of narcissistic abuse.

You're entirely powerless. You've begun isolating from your family. The shame is so deep that you're afraid to look them in the eye. They'll surely see the heavy secret you've been carrying. You've tried to be "good enough" for him, but the cycle of emotional abuse and manipulation is never-ending. You've begun to question your sanity. You made excuses for their behavior, his "moods". You've changed yourself to appease him and lost yourself in the process. You no longer recognize the woman in the mirror with her sad and tired eyes. You've disconnected from you friends and the things you once loved. You've lost who you are.

Are you done being a member of the '4-F' club? Fight, Flight, Freeze or Fawn. These are physiological reactions when your emotional and/or physical safety is threatened and can deplete you to exhaustion. In practicing psychotherapy for 20+ years, I've become well-learned of all that exists in the narcissistic realm. The imprint of narcissistic abuse - self-abandonment, depletion of your soul, and fracturing your sense of self to an unrecognizable state - this can all be recovered. Let me help in the healing of your authentic self.

Life can be hard, and that doesn't mean you're weak, it means you're human. If your struggle is with identity, trauma, PTSD, depression, anxiety, relationship problems, managing emotions, addiction or other compulsivity, I am here to help. I want to help you not just manage your life, but love your life. I specialize in working with the LGBTQ Community, with men, recovery from narcissistic abuse, addictions and recovery from trauma. I want to help you integrate the various parts of your life and develop a mindful approach to your life. I work with adults, and adolescents, couples and families seeking healing.

I am currently taking new patients. The difficulties, pain, and sometimes confusion that arises in trying to meet emotional needs may lead to seeking help. I am a psychologist, marriage family therapist, and psychoanalyst with more than 25 years of experience treating adolescents, adults, and couples. My approach connects to my patients with empathy and insight beyond basic support. This is a collaborative approach to therapy.

BRINK OF BREAKUP OR DIVORCE; INFIDELITY; PARTNER BETRAYAL; DECEPTION, LIES, SECRECY; GASLIGHTING; CODEPENDENCY; TRAUMA BONDING ATTACHMENT: Struggling with the aftermath of infidelity, betrayal, relational safety violations, gaslighting or narcissistic abuse? Feeling trapped in toxic bonding, attachment issues, or navigating turbulent waters of a hi-conflict relationship? Whether you’re an individual grappling with inner turmoil or part of a couple ambivalent about staying together, I’m here to help you find clarity, healing, and a path forward.

Looking to make meaningful changes in your life or make sense of difficult past experiences? Are you struggling with PTSD, trauma, anxiety, depression, narcissistic abuse recovery, low self esteem, and loneliness? I am here to help! I provide a warm, welcoming, safe space for you to feel validated and heard. I work to help my diverse clients acquire the tools and support needed to help reduce their anxiety and depression while increasing their self esteem, self worth, and relationship connectivity so they can live more satisfying lives. I use a trauma informed lens and strength based approach.

​I’m Jamie Gillette, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who has been working in the mental health field for over 10 years.  I give feedback, information and practical tools, that make a fast impact, so you can begin to see progress rapidly.  I have a great deal of experience and training working with all types of trauma (i.e. sexual abuse, domestic violence etc.), as well as more common struggles like anxiety, depression and low self-esteem.

I provide individual psychotherapy for adolescents and adults as well as couple therapy. I also lead three psychoeducational groups (Men's Group; Relationship Group; and Parenting Group) and facilitate a dynamic psychotherapy process group. Romantic relationship difficulties (including narcissistic and codependent styles), life transition issues, chronic self-sabotaging patterns, low self-esteem, sexual compulsivity, adolescent development, and parent-teen conflict are my main areas of expertise.

Dr. Tobi specializes in working with young adults presenting with concerns including anxiety, family or relationship issues, relational trauma (including narcissistic abuse), codependency, self-esteem issues, and depression. She also provides psychological testing, including ADHD testing. Her approach to therapy involves a holistic and collaborative process; she will work together with you on your personal journey of growth, change, & empowerment. She integrates multiple therapeutic modalities to best fit your individual needs, including CBT, DBT, internal family systems, psychodynamic, attachment, and mindfulness-based approaches.

“The challenging birth of my twins, marked by 23 hours of labor and subsequent colic issues that required expensive specialized formula, inspired my career as a DONA-certified postpartum doula and perinatal therapist. Through supporting mothers with breastfeeding, baby schedules, and sleep training, I encountered numerous cases of postpartum depression, prompting me to specialize in helping mothers through various perinatal challenges, including depression, anxiety, high-risk pregnancies, and traumatic births. Helping mothers extended out into all stages of children fostering positive emotional attachments from birth into adulthood

Perhaps you're down or anxious - maybe you're unsure about the future of a relationship, or just feel that you aren't living the life you were meant to lead. Whatever your needs may be, I am here to offer support. To foster a warm, comfortable setting for you, I employ a compassionate, non-judgmental approach that offers a safe space for healing. Issues addressed in individual therapy may include: anxiety, depression, goal setting, personal growth plans, self-confidence building, emotional and binge eating, body image, codependency, narcissistic abuse, time management, and self-care.

Is it time to reclaim your life? I would love to help you on your journey of personal recovery.. Do you struggle with hurts caused by interpersonal emotional abuse, including narcissistic abuse, domestic violence, addictions, and other traumatizing interactions? Are you trapped in a trauma bond? Let me help you become free. I specialize in helping people who struggle with addictions, anxiety, depression, and ongoing relationship issues. Healing from toxic relationship trauma can be much easier to accomplish with professional assistance. I would love to partner with you to help you overcome hurts resulting from toxic relationships.

I have been helping men and women deal with their depression and anxiety for over 20 years, and am also experienced with crisis intervention and stress management, as well as those working on relationship issues. Those suffering from grief issues and symptoms of PTSD also find my therapy helpful,

Inevitably, we all experience some type of life transition at one time or another. Whether they are unexpected or by choice, life transitions can feel scary and sometimes isolating. I do not work with couples; however, my primary focus is on strengthening and building relationships. I love helping my clients get to a place in their life where they feel more confident and free, whether they want to focus on self-work, current relationships, or dealing with grief and loss of a person or a relationship.

Are you struggling in your relationship or wanting a deeper level of connection overall? Talking to someone to help better understand & identify the signals your body is giving you as well as your patterns & tendencies, can create positive and lasting change. I also enjoy working with couples - helping partners to understand the underlying dynamics at play in relationships & supporting conscious transformation. I love doing this work, believe it is both beautiful and empowering, and view it as a privilege to work with you. Life is a journey and it can be comforting to know that support is available.

If you are seeking an authentic healing and reconciliation process in which connections with God, oneself, and others are reset into a life of authenticity and true freedom then you may want to give me a call. My approach to treating mental health symptoms involves novel relationship technologies in which healthy and beneficial exchangers are made, curses broken and captives set free from all forms of enslavement. It is a great privilege to see my clientele move from a sense of painful constriction and despair into a state of sovereignty and joy. Prior to being a psychologist, I worked as master’s level therapist for over 30 years.

Have you experienced trauma, anxiety, depression, or negative self-worth? Have you become stuck in negative patterns of poor self-care, disordered eating, or interpersonal relationships that are draining or even abusive? I have dedicated my practice to helping others heal and break free from negative cycles of abuse - both within and outside oneself.

Hello and welcome! You’ve taken a courageous step in looking for help. If you are frustrated in your relationships therapy may help you understand the story behind your challenges. Psychotherapy is a place where you can unpack the relational roots of why you are struggling. Whether it be depression, anxiety or deep regret there is hope. Intimate relationship can bring out our assets as well as our liabilities. From codependency to heightened impatience we will figure “it” out together.