Relationship Issues Therapists in Woodbury, MN

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David Joseph Staton
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Woodbury, MN 55125
Relationship difficulty? I am Prepare/Enrich certified for couples.
I’ve worked over 20 yrs with people of all ages from diverse backgrounds/cultures who struggle with issues across the spectrum. I’m very real, authentic, and down-to-earth in counseling and believe in the importance of warmth and humor. I am equipped to help individuals who struggle with everything from anxiety, depression, and anger to bipolar, schizophrenia, complex trauma, and even ritual abuse or other severe traumas. There is peace and calm in my presence, and I can help you grow in those qualities and find stability, even in the storms of life. I would love to help guide and support you through your current life challenges.
Relationship difficulty? I am Prepare/Enrich certified for couples.
I’ve worked over 20 yrs with people of all ages from diverse backgrounds/cultures who struggle with issues across the spectrum. I’m very real, authentic, and down-to-earth in counseling and believe in the importance of warmth and humor. I am equipped to help individuals who struggle with everything from anxiety, depression, and anger to bipolar, schizophrenia, complex trauma, and even ritual abuse or other severe traumas. There is peace and calm in my presence, and I can help you grow in those qualities and find stability, even in the storms of life. I would love to help guide and support you through your current life challenges.
(651) 299-6661 View (651) 299-6661
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Saundra Bryant-Lamb
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW, EdD
Verified Verified
Woodbury, MN 55125
of Ed & Leadership, ABD, My specialty is depression, anxiety, ( relationship, parenting, career, etc.
We believe that there is no shame in asking for help. Life is a series of challenges, difficulties and complications for everyone. We all come across complex obstacles and barriers that keep us from thriving. Acquiring a little outside help to assist you in overcoming your problems can be exactly what you need to move forward with your life. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or anything else that is holding you back; we can work with you and open your eyes to hope.
of Ed & Leadership, ABD, My specialty is depression, anxiety, ( relationship, parenting, career, etc.
We believe that there is no shame in asking for help. Life is a series of challenges, difficulties and complications for everyone. We all come across complex obstacles and barriers that keep us from thriving. Acquiring a little outside help to assist you in overcoming your problems can be exactly what you need to move forward with your life. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or anything else that is holding you back; we can work with you and open your eyes to hope.
(651) 410-1902 View (651) 410-1902
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Tia Momoh
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
Woodbury, MN 55125
As we journey through life, we carry with us experiences that shape who we are and who we become. Some of those experiences are positive and some of those experiences are negative. It can be difficult to explore our thoughts, feelings, and experiences. No matter where you are or how deep the darkness seems, you don’t have to walk through it alone. Whether addressing anxiety, depression, or relationship issues—together, we can look at the bigger picture and come up with an action plan to help you work toward your goals and prioritize what matters to you most.
As we journey through life, we carry with us experiences that shape who we are and who we become. Some of those experiences are positive and some of those experiences are negative. It can be difficult to explore our thoughts, feelings, and experiences. No matter where you are or how deep the darkness seems, you don’t have to walk through it alone. Whether addressing anxiety, depression, or relationship issues—together, we can look at the bigger picture and come up with an action plan to help you work toward your goals and prioritize what matters to you most.
(651) 877-8441 View (651) 877-8441
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Teresa Winston
Counselor, MA, LPCC, BCS, TTS
Verified Verified
Woodbury, MN 55125
I have supported patients with anxiety, depression, and relationship issues for over 10 years using evidence-based therapy such as Cognitive Behavioral and Solution Focused Therapy.
Are you anxious with shortness of breath, racing heart, and feeling like the walls are closing in? Anxiety is not your fault or caused by anything you have or haven’t done. Are you in the midst of relationship problems and do not know what direction to turn? Whether addressing small issues or potential relationship-breaking challenges, therapy can help. Does sadness have you distressed, depressed, and hopeless? There are proven steps and skills that have been shown to result in remarkable relief. I am passionate about providing quality service. It is my overall goal to empower growth and change.
I have supported patients with anxiety, depression, and relationship issues for over 10 years using evidence-based therapy such as Cognitive Behavioral and Solution Focused Therapy.
Are you anxious with shortness of breath, racing heart, and feeling like the walls are closing in? Anxiety is not your fault or caused by anything you have or haven’t done. Are you in the midst of relationship problems and do not know what direction to turn? Whether addressing small issues or potential relationship-breaking challenges, therapy can help. Does sadness have you distressed, depressed, and hopeless? There are proven steps and skills that have been shown to result in remarkable relief. I am passionate about providing quality service. It is my overall goal to empower growth and change.
(612) 888-8169 View (612) 888-8169
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Xin Yueh Choo
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
Woodbury, MN 55125
My current work uses DBT/CBT-informed, person-centered approaches to help manage depression, anxiety, challenges faced by immigrants/refugees, life transition/adjustment issues, relationship conflict, stress management and relaxation, trauma and loss.
I love working with individuals who are going through life transitions and enjoy being an anchor that people can hold onto when the waves of change pull a little harder. Whether you are making meaningful career decisions or navigating unfamiliar systems as you enter new cultural experiences, I would love to assist in the process and support you as you find your way.
My current work uses DBT/CBT-informed, person-centered approaches to help manage depression, anxiety, challenges faced by immigrants/refugees, life transition/adjustment issues, relationship conflict, stress management and relaxation, trauma and loss.
I love working with individuals who are going through life transitions and enjoy being an anchor that people can hold onto when the waves of change pull a little harder. Whether you are making meaningful career decisions or navigating unfamiliar systems as you enter new cultural experiences, I would love to assist in the process and support you as you find your way.
(651) 615-9840 View (651) 615-9840
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Hina Siddiqui, PsyD, ABPP
Psychologist, PsyD, ABPP, LP
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Woodbury, MN 55125
I believe that the therapeutic relationship and the right "fit" with a therapist is key for therapy to be successful.
People who see me for individual therapy are usually facing turmoil either due to current stressors or past issues that keep surfacing and prevent them from moving forward in their lives. Often, people tell me that they feel "stuck" and need direction/guidance. By working with me they identify their inner strengths and capabilities; they feel confident in themselves to take on challenges that come their way. In therapy we identify things that should change because what clients are doing currently is not helping. I problem solve and discuss ways to make their present meaningful. My strength based approach resonates with clients.
I believe that the therapeutic relationship and the right "fit" with a therapist is key for therapy to be successful.
People who see me for individual therapy are usually facing turmoil either due to current stressors or past issues that keep surfacing and prevent them from moving forward in their lives. Often, people tell me that they feel "stuck" and need direction/guidance. By working with me they identify their inner strengths and capabilities; they feel confident in themselves to take on challenges that come their way. In therapy we identify things that should change because what clients are doing currently is not helping. I problem solve and discuss ways to make their present meaningful. My strength based approach resonates with clients.
(651) 273-0179 View (651) 273-0179
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Brian Burns - Relationship Repair
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Woodbury, MN 55125
I help couples in conflict who want to get to a better place. I enjoy working with spouses and parents in challenging family situations to help them find clarity and resolution. I offer a practical approach with usable feedback and guidance. We spend less time talking about the past or who is to blame, and more time talking about what you can do about it, now. My work with clients is compassionate and direct. I’m not afraid to call out behaviors that are harming the relationship. You will learn how to quickly move back into connection.
I help couples in conflict who want to get to a better place. I enjoy working with spouses and parents in challenging family situations to help them find clarity and resolution. I offer a practical approach with usable feedback and guidance. We spend less time talking about the past or who is to blame, and more time talking about what you can do about it, now. My work with clients is compassionate and direct. I’m not afraid to call out behaviors that are harming the relationship. You will learn how to quickly move back into connection.
(715) 203-4021 View (715) 203-4021
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Winston Behavioral Healthcare, PSC.
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, BCS, LPCC
Verified Verified
Woodbury, MN 55125
We are a team of professionals who specialize in helping reduce anxiety, understanding depression and its core root, maintaining sobriety, parents with EBD children or adolescents, relationship issues, and dealing with disordered eating.
We believe that there is no shame in asking for help. Life is a series of challenges, difficulties and complications for everyone. We all come across complex obstacles and barriers that keep us from thriving. Acquiring a little outside help to assist you in overcoming your problems can be exactly what you need to move forward with your life. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or anything else that is holding you back; we can work with you and open your eyes to hope.
We are a team of professionals who specialize in helping reduce anxiety, understanding depression and its core root, maintaining sobriety, parents with EBD children or adolescents, relationship issues, and dealing with disordered eating.
We believe that there is no shame in asking for help. Life is a series of challenges, difficulties and complications for everyone. We all come across complex obstacles and barriers that keep us from thriving. Acquiring a little outside help to assist you in overcoming your problems can be exactly what you need to move forward with your life. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or anything else that is holding you back; we can work with you and open your eyes to hope.
(651) 419-3085 View (651) 419-3085
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Sheila Dwyer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Woodbury, MN 55125  (Online Only)
I value the client/therapist relationship.
Happiness is a feeling that comes and goes. Joy is a settled conviction that lasts. I would be honored to help you on your journey to experiencing Joy. I am a licensed marriage and family therapist with 17 years of experience working with individuals, couples, and families. I have a passion of helping others build healthy connections in their life. I am a relational therapist, exploring how past experiences shape current patterns of how we relate to others in our life. I invite you on a journey of self-discovery & creating the experience of healthy, loving relationships
I value the client/therapist relationship.
Happiness is a feeling that comes and goes. Joy is a settled conviction that lasts. I would be honored to help you on your journey to experiencing Joy. I am a licensed marriage and family therapist with 17 years of experience working with individuals, couples, and families. I have a passion of helping others build healthy connections in their life. I am a relational therapist, exploring how past experiences shape current patterns of how we relate to others in our life. I invite you on a journey of self-discovery & creating the experience of healthy, loving relationships
(651) 661-4898 View (651) 661-4898
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Valentine Counseling Services, LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MEd, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Woodbury, MN 55125
I specialize in the areas of Empowerment and Esteem, Positive Parenting, Stress Management, Relationship Issues.
I provide a warm and supportive atmosphere where individuals can express their feelings, communicate their problems, and feel understood. I emphasize that when a client is living in a secure state of mind, they will be able to locate solutions to any problem. I recognize and encourage each individual to understand their innate potential for change and growth. The therapeutic process can be challenging and at times uncomfortable, but I will walk this journey with you, asking the hard questions, listening intently, and exploring perspectives. I hope that you will contact me when you are ready to venture into this wonderful new place.
I specialize in the areas of Empowerment and Esteem, Positive Parenting, Stress Management, Relationship Issues.
I provide a warm and supportive atmosphere where individuals can express their feelings, communicate their problems, and feel understood. I emphasize that when a client is living in a secure state of mind, they will be able to locate solutions to any problem. I recognize and encourage each individual to understand their innate potential for change and growth. The therapeutic process can be challenging and at times uncomfortable, but I will walk this journey with you, asking the hard questions, listening intently, and exploring perspectives. I hope that you will contact me when you are ready to venture into this wonderful new place.
(651) 212-4638 View (651) 212-4638
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Michael Proebstle
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Woodbury, MN 55125
As a Certified Marriage Facilitator, I am skilled at helping couples identify your relationship’s unique strengths and weaknesses, and gently guide partners to build and hone new communication patterns and techniques to improve the quality of your relationship.
Confused, worried, hurting, sad, broken trust, feeling lost? Not feeling okay? Find HOPE here for your life and struggles with anger, depression, anxiety, relationship problems, or other problems we all face from time to time. Hope, peace, and healing in the midst of your pain can be found through a compassionate experience in therapy. Working on my own hurts including loss and attachment issues, I know that there is hope for peace, recovery and healing despite deep wounds from the past. I love watching people's lives transition from hurt to hope. Regardless of your struggles, abundant peace is awaiting you.
As a Certified Marriage Facilitator, I am skilled at helping couples identify your relationship’s unique strengths and weaknesses, and gently guide partners to build and hone new communication patterns and techniques to improve the quality of your relationship.
Confused, worried, hurting, sad, broken trust, feeling lost? Not feeling okay? Find HOPE here for your life and struggles with anger, depression, anxiety, relationship problems, or other problems we all face from time to time. Hope, peace, and healing in the midst of your pain can be found through a compassionate experience in therapy. Working on my own hurts including loss and attachment issues, I know that there is hope for peace, recovery and healing despite deep wounds from the past. I love watching people's lives transition from hurt to hope. Regardless of your struggles, abundant peace is awaiting you.
(612) 712-6967 View (612) 712-6967
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Kristen Brechler
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, LAMFT, MDiv
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Woodbury, MN 55125
I specialize in areas of play therapy, parent/child relationship, ADHD, Developmental disorders, Special Needs, Spirituality, Grief/loss, and pre-marriage counseling.
My practice is a collaborative healing process where you can be your authentic self in a trusting, respectful environment. My priority is to build a safe, caring, validating space where you can be known and understood. It’s a privilege to build strong relationships and notice the positive effects that therapy can have on their lives. I use a systemic, collaborative, strengths-based therapeutic approach to help you through the challenges of life, connecting with your strengths to help learn new ways to live in wholeness.
I specialize in areas of play therapy, parent/child relationship, ADHD, Developmental disorders, Special Needs, Spirituality, Grief/loss, and pre-marriage counseling.
My practice is a collaborative healing process where you can be your authentic self in a trusting, respectful environment. My priority is to build a safe, caring, validating space where you can be known and understood. It’s a privilege to build strong relationships and notice the positive effects that therapy can have on their lives. I use a systemic, collaborative, strengths-based therapeutic approach to help you through the challenges of life, connecting with your strengths to help learn new ways to live in wholeness.
(651) 360-1420 View (651) 360-1420
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Brian Stoessel
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Verified Verified
Woodbury, MN 55125
Are you wanting to feel more in control and less overwhelmed? Sometimes feelings like guilt, depression, loneliness, shame, and fear can be painful and debilitating. As a therapist, I provide a safe, authentic, and nonjudgmental relationship in which people can address and resolve problems they are experiencing. I listen carefully and strive to be attentive, compassionate, and respectful. I partner with people collaboratively to better understand the sources of their problems so that together, we can find solutions and new possibilities for growth.
Are you wanting to feel more in control and less overwhelmed? Sometimes feelings like guilt, depression, loneliness, shame, and fear can be painful and debilitating. As a therapist, I provide a safe, authentic, and nonjudgmental relationship in which people can address and resolve problems they are experiencing. I listen carefully and strive to be attentive, compassionate, and respectful. I partner with people collaboratively to better understand the sources of their problems so that together, we can find solutions and new possibilities for growth.
(651) 433-6336 View (651) 433-6336
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Twin Cities Mental Health & Couples Center
Marriage & Family Therapist, MAT, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Woodbury, MN 55125
My systemic, non-judgmental, holistic and integrative process integrates family structure, relationship dynamics, specific cognitive- behavioral, experiential, Internal family systems, EMDR and spirituality/mindfulness approaches.
I work collaboratively with individuals, couples, & families to help them cultivate a deeper self-awareness, discover new ways of expression, transform dysfunctional patterns, have more satisfying relationships and ensue a more meaningful life. Research has shown having purpose and meaning in life increases overall wellbeing and life satisfaction, improves mental and physical health, enhances resiliency and self-esteem, and decreases the chances of depression.
My systemic, non-judgmental, holistic and integrative process integrates family structure, relationship dynamics, specific cognitive- behavioral, experiential, Internal family systems, EMDR and spirituality/mindfulness approaches.
I work collaboratively with individuals, couples, & families to help them cultivate a deeper self-awareness, discover new ways of expression, transform dysfunctional patterns, have more satisfying relationships and ensue a more meaningful life. Research has shown having purpose and meaning in life increases overall wellbeing and life satisfaction, improves mental and physical health, enhances resiliency and self-esteem, and decreases the chances of depression.
(612) 279-8054 View (612) 279-8054
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Karen Wright
Counselor, MA, LPCC, LADC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Woodbury, MN 55125
If you're like most people who seek help, you've already tried everything. You've come to the end of your rope, and you're afraid that even therapy won't work. I know - I've been there. Perhaps the source of your pain is a relationship with a family member, partner, or spouse. Maybe it's long-standing general anxiety or depression. Perhaps you're grappling with an addiction that's truly ruining your life. Or, perhaps you're recovering from an addiction, but anxiety and self-doubt are preventing you from moving forward with basic life goals.
If you're like most people who seek help, you've already tried everything. You've come to the end of your rope, and you're afraid that even therapy won't work. I know - I've been there. Perhaps the source of your pain is a relationship with a family member, partner, or spouse. Maybe it's long-standing general anxiety or depression. Perhaps you're grappling with an addiction that's truly ruining your life. Or, perhaps you're recovering from an addiction, but anxiety and self-doubt are preventing you from moving forward with basic life goals.
(651) 321-2697 View (651) 321-2697
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Adam Chase
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Woodbury, MN 55125
Hi, I'm Adam. Therapist shopping can be difficult! Some general info about me: I have a psychodynamic orientation (which means I believe that the relationship between the therapist and you is an important part of the process). My work is informed by buddhist ideas (i.e., most suffering comes from attachment to something). I like to use humor and poetry in therapy. In the end, I believe we need to feel some sense of connection with the person we are working with, so I encourage you to "shop" until you find the person who feels right to you.
Hi, I'm Adam. Therapist shopping can be difficult! Some general info about me: I have a psychodynamic orientation (which means I believe that the relationship between the therapist and you is an important part of the process). My work is informed by buddhist ideas (i.e., most suffering comes from attachment to something). I like to use humor and poetry in therapy. In the end, I believe we need to feel some sense of connection with the person we are working with, so I encourage you to "shop" until you find the person who feels right to you.
(651) 968-2243 View (651) 968-2243
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Suzanne Rabuse
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Woodbury, MN 55125
I help couples, individuals and employees who want change to start today! Relationships go through ups and downs as does our work satisfaction, and our personal wellness can make a difference. If you want renewed hope and a better feeling in all your relationships and endeavors, I can help you regain everything you need to be happy again. You're not alone. You can recognize the source of your happiness, realign and get back on track. Rekindle your good feelings, enjoy life, and experience relationship success and personal satisfaction at home and work.
I help couples, individuals and employees who want change to start today! Relationships go through ups and downs as does our work satisfaction, and our personal wellness can make a difference. If you want renewed hope and a better feeling in all your relationships and endeavors, I can help you regain everything you need to be happy again. You're not alone. You can recognize the source of your happiness, realign and get back on track. Rekindle your good feelings, enjoy life, and experience relationship success and personal satisfaction at home and work.
(651) 314-1890 View (651) 314-1890
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Couples & Family Therapy Center, LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified Verified
Woodbury, MN 55129
Stress is building and you're becoming overwhelmed, you're feeling on the edge of burnout. It's getting hard to face the day, and when you do get through it, you're so exhausted you have nothing left to give. Trust us...life doesn't have to be like this. Maybe you're worried about your kids, you see them struggling and anxious and you don't know how to help. Or your relationship is strained and you try to connect, but it's just not working. You're worried about your family, and your future. We are here to help. We know with some support, you can feel better, get back on track, and enjoy your life and relationships again.
Stress is building and you're becoming overwhelmed, you're feeling on the edge of burnout. It's getting hard to face the day, and when you do get through it, you're so exhausted you have nothing left to give. Trust us...life doesn't have to be like this. Maybe you're worried about your kids, you see them struggling and anxious and you don't know how to help. Or your relationship is strained and you try to connect, but it's just not working. You're worried about your family, and your future. We are here to help. We know with some support, you can feel better, get back on track, and enjoy your life and relationships again.
(715) 503-4887 View (715) 503-4887
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Dona G Lofland Psy.D.L.P.
Psychologist, PsyD, LP
Verified Verified
Woodbury, MN 55125
My goal is to provide a comfortable relationship where people can share with confidence that they will be heard and validated while being given tools to cope.
I provide a safe place for individuals and couples to work through feelings about relationships, life transitions and adjustments, grief and loss, health problems, workplace challenges, spirituality and recovery issues. I help people cultivate insight and coping tools to navigate life's struggles with more confidence and grace.
My goal is to provide a comfortable relationship where people can share with confidence that they will be heard and validated while being given tools to cope.
I provide a safe place for individuals and couples to work through feelings about relationships, life transitions and adjustments, grief and loss, health problems, workplace challenges, spirituality and recovery issues. I help people cultivate insight and coping tools to navigate life's struggles with more confidence and grace.
(612) 800-0431 View (612) 800-0431
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Jill M. Ellingson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Woodbury, MN 55125
I bring an experienced, passionate approach to helping couples work through relationship challenges such as emotional disconnection, sexual issues, communication struggles, “roommate syndrome," and infidelity to name a few.
It takes a lot of courage to come to counseling and work through life's challenges. My first priority in working with you is to build a genuine and safe relationship that encourages sharing, connection and authenticity. My combined education and background in corporate leadership and counseling psychology results in a therapeutic atmosphere that is affirming and encouraging but also holds you accountable for the changes you wish to see in your life. I look forward to walking alongside of you on this journey, encouraging you, helping you re-discover your strengths and having some fun along the way!
I bring an experienced, passionate approach to helping couples work through relationship challenges such as emotional disconnection, sexual issues, communication struggles, “roommate syndrome," and infidelity to name a few.
It takes a lot of courage to come to counseling and work through life's challenges. My first priority in working with you is to build a genuine and safe relationship that encourages sharing, connection and authenticity. My combined education and background in corporate leadership and counseling psychology results in a therapeutic atmosphere that is affirming and encouraging but also holds you accountable for the changes you wish to see in your life. I look forward to walking alongside of you on this journey, encouraging you, helping you re-discover your strengths and having some fun along the way!
(612) 293-4364 View (612) 293-4364
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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.