Dialectical Behavior (DBT) Therapists in Stillwater, MN

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Beth Hamer
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Stillwater, MN 55082
My approach is eclectic, however I am trained mostly in CBT, DBT, and ACT.
Life can be hard - you don’t have to struggle alone! The decision to be open to begin therapy is a major step forward. If you're experiencing low self-confidence, doubt, grief, anxiety, shame, or stress, there is a path to help you create a more fulfilling life in the present. I provide a safe nonjudgmental space where you can feel supported, and empowered as you go on this journey.
My approach is eclectic, however I am trained mostly in CBT, DBT, and ACT.
Life can be hard - you don’t have to struggle alone! The decision to be open to begin therapy is a major step forward. If you're experiencing low self-confidence, doubt, grief, anxiety, shame, or stress, there is a path to help you create a more fulfilling life in the present. I provide a safe nonjudgmental space where you can feel supported, and empowered as you go on this journey.
(651) 359-9345 View (651) 359-9345
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Katie Engh
Counselor, MA, LPCC, DBTC
Verified Verified
Stillwater, MN 55082
I integrate a variety of therapy approaches and techniques based on each client’s needs including Dialectical Behavior Therapy ( DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), and Solution-Focused Therapy.
Starting out with a new therapist or beginning therapy for the first time can feel scary, maybe even downright terrifying. I offer a laid-back place to show up as you are without judgement, talk about the hard stuff that we inevitably experience through life, and maybe have a laugh or two in the process. I approach therapy as a collaboration. We are a team. You set the destination you want to get to, and I’m here to help you navigate.
I integrate a variety of therapy approaches and techniques based on each client’s needs including Dialectical Behavior Therapy ( DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), and Solution-Focused Therapy.
Starting out with a new therapist or beginning therapy for the first time can feel scary, maybe even downright terrifying. I offer a laid-back place to show up as you are without judgement, talk about the hard stuff that we inevitably experience through life, and maybe have a laugh or two in the process. I approach therapy as a collaboration. We are a team. You set the destination you want to get to, and I’m here to help you navigate.
(651) 390-1908 View (651) 390-1908
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FamilyMeans
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LICSW, LPCC
Verified Verified
Stillwater, MN 55082
Many of our clinicians have specialized in additional areas such as: EMDR, TFCBT, DBT, Somatic Therapy, Gottman Couples Therapy, and Play Therapy.
FamilyMeans Counseling & Therapy programs have been providing care to adults, adolescents, children, families, and couples for many years. Our counselors are highly trained and experienced in their areas of expertise and truly enjoy helping people through the struggles they bring to counseling. Counselors provide a safe and open environment to make changes within areas of concern. Counseling experiences are unique to each person as are their situations. There is no “one fits all” in counseling and our skilled clinicians work with you to reach your goals.
Many of our clinicians have specialized in additional areas such as: EMDR, TFCBT, DBT, Somatic Therapy, Gottman Couples Therapy, and Play Therapy.
FamilyMeans Counseling & Therapy programs have been providing care to adults, adolescents, children, families, and couples for many years. Our counselors are highly trained and experienced in their areas of expertise and truly enjoy helping people through the struggles they bring to counseling. Counselors provide a safe and open environment to make changes within areas of concern. Counseling experiences are unique to each person as are their situations. There is no “one fits all” in counseling and our skilled clinicians work with you to reach your goals.
(833) 624-0402 View (833) 624-0402
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Kaytie Kocon
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Stillwater, MN 55082
My approach is rooted in cognitive-behavioral therapy, dialectical behavioral therapy, and narrative therapy, all designed to leverage your unique strengths.
Life is not easy, but you also do not have to do it alone. If you're an adolescent navigating the complexities of growing up or someone in transition facing new challenges, let's embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth together. In therapy with me, we'll create a safe space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. We will collaborate and move towards understanding your unique strengths, coping mechanisms, and goals. My approach is client-centered, your needs and preferences guide our sessions. Whether you're seeking support for mental health concerns or simply need someone to talk, I am here for you.
My approach is rooted in cognitive-behavioral therapy, dialectical behavioral therapy, and narrative therapy, all designed to leverage your unique strengths.
Life is not easy, but you also do not have to do it alone. If you're an adolescent navigating the complexities of growing up or someone in transition facing new challenges, let's embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth together. In therapy with me, we'll create a safe space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. We will collaborate and move towards understanding your unique strengths, coping mechanisms, and goals. My approach is client-centered, your needs and preferences guide our sessions. Whether you're seeking support for mental health concerns or simply need someone to talk, I am here for you.
(763) 363-4579 View (763) 363-4579
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Emily A Stevenson
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LPCC
Verified Verified
Stillwater, MN 55082
Waitlist for new clients
In my practice I utilize evidence-based approaches such as CBT, DBT, ACT, IFS, Adlerian techniques and psychedelic assisted psychotherapy.
Are you feeling a sense of dis-ease, dis-stress, or are out of balance and are ready to move toward a more healthful and vibrant life? I believe in fostering holistic healing by integrating mind, body, and spirit practices. By addressing mental, physical, and spiritual well-being, we can unlock profound avenues for personal growth, healing, and lasting emotional balance.
In my practice I utilize evidence-based approaches such as CBT, DBT, ACT, IFS, Adlerian techniques and psychedelic assisted psychotherapy.
Are you feeling a sense of dis-ease, dis-stress, or are out of balance and are ready to move toward a more healthful and vibrant life? I believe in fostering holistic healing by integrating mind, body, and spirit practices. By addressing mental, physical, and spiritual well-being, we can unlock profound avenues for personal growth, healing, and lasting emotional balance.
(715) 245-2065 View (715) 245-2065
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Dr. Margit Swanson
Psychologist, PsyD, LP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Stillwater, MN 55082
I then offer you science based treatment options- cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy ( DBT), motivational interviewing, and trauma therapies (i.
I believe that growth and change are always possible, and I am here to help guide clients in their unique journey. Whether you are struggling with issues related to trauma, addiction, feelings of sadness, self-doubt, shame, guilt, or any other life/situational stress, recovery is ALWAYS possible and there is ALWAYS hope. I use science based treatments and assessments tailored to your individual needs so you can heal and learn to reclaim your life in a safe, non-judgmental, supportive therapy environment.
I then offer you science based treatment options- cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy ( DBT), motivational interviewing, and trauma therapies (i.
I believe that growth and change are always possible, and I am here to help guide clients in their unique journey. Whether you are struggling with issues related to trauma, addiction, feelings of sadness, self-doubt, shame, guilt, or any other life/situational stress, recovery is ALWAYS possible and there is ALWAYS hope. I use science based treatments and assessments tailored to your individual needs so you can heal and learn to reclaim your life in a safe, non-judgmental, supportive therapy environment.
(651) 478-2159 View (651) 478-2159
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Paul L Paladie
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW, LADC, CCTP, Veteran
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Stillwater, MN 55083
I use Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills, Mindfulness, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Motivational Interviewing and Trauma based work in various forms with clients to help better understand thoughts and behaviors.
I am committed to providing strength-focused, client-centered therapy to individuals who are looking for strategies or ways to work with the challenges they have been carrying. My mission is to meet each person, wherever they are in life, and to provide effective mental health intervention that builds on the strengths of the individual and the environment in which that person lives. I believe the most successful outcomes, often start with challenging beginnings. (Challenges are defined by negative influences, thoughts, behaviors, or actions- including MH concerns,
I use Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills, Mindfulness, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Motivational Interviewing and Trauma based work in various forms with clients to help better understand thoughts and behaviors.
I am committed to providing strength-focused, client-centered therapy to individuals who are looking for strategies or ways to work with the challenges they have been carrying. My mission is to meet each person, wherever they are in life, and to provide effective mental health intervention that builds on the strengths of the individual and the environment in which that person lives. I believe the most successful outcomes, often start with challenging beginnings. (Challenges are defined by negative influences, thoughts, behaviors, or actions- including MH concerns,
(651) 877-8343 View (651) 877-8343
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Jenna Amundson
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
Stillwater, MN 55082
To you who are seeking, searching, stuck, full of sorrow, confusion, doubt, or furious despair, welcome. There is a place for you here. A belonging within the sea of humanity that cradles and arrests, over and over and over. Let the painful, glorious, fractured light that led you here, be the same light inside that ultimately blesses and frees you, even if you wouldn't have chosen this path on your own. I'll hold the door as you make this first (or fortieth) step. Be gentle. You have already come so far...
To you who are seeking, searching, stuck, full of sorrow, confusion, doubt, or furious despair, welcome. There is a place for you here. A belonging within the sea of humanity that cradles and arrests, over and over and over. Let the painful, glorious, fractured light that led you here, be the same light inside that ultimately blesses and frees you, even if you wouldn't have chosen this path on your own. I'll hold the door as you make this first (or fortieth) step. Be gentle. You have already come so far...
(651) 409-4089 View (651) 409-4089
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Wholehearted Healing LLC
DMFT, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Stillwater, MN 55082
“Wholehearted living is about engaging with our lives from a place of worthiness. It means cultivating the courage, compassion, and connection to wake up in the morning and think, ‘No matter what gets done and how much is left undone, I am enough.’” -Brene Brown
“Wholehearted living is about engaging with our lives from a place of worthiness. It means cultivating the courage, compassion, and connection to wake up in the morning and think, ‘No matter what gets done and how much is left undone, I am enough.’” -Brene Brown
(651) 571-8129 View (651) 571-8129
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Stephanie Kalliman
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Stillwater, MN 55082
I am a human first and a therapist second, which means I will meet you where you are at and I will not judge you for the things you might be judging yourself for. I'm not afraid to use humor and have a passion for helping build stronger connections in your relationships, including the relationship you have with yourself. I offer an encouraging, warm, and collaborative approach to healing and welcome couples, families, adolescents, and adults.
I am a human first and a therapist second, which means I will meet you where you are at and I will not judge you for the things you might be judging yourself for. I'm not afraid to use humor and have a passion for helping build stronger connections in your relationships, including the relationship you have with yourself. I offer an encouraging, warm, and collaborative approach to healing and welcome couples, families, adolescents, and adults.
(651) 998-7525 View (651) 998-7525
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Youth Service Bureau, Inc
Verified Verified
Stillwater, MN 55082
Do you want to help your child learn the skills needed to make healthier and smarter choices? What about improving positive relationships with peers or family? Is it important for your child to have the guidance to learn healthy communication and coping skills? Or are you a young adult looking for services? We would love to work with you!
Do you want to help your child learn the skills needed to make healthier and smarter choices? What about improving positive relationships with peers or family? Is it important for your child to have the guidance to learn healthy communication and coping skills? Or are you a young adult looking for services? We would love to work with you!
(651) 360-1175 View (651) 360-1175
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David J Carroll
Psychologist, PsyD, LP
Verified Verified
Stillwater, MN 55082
Disruptions in relationships regularly occur in life and the experience of feeling disconnected is not uncommon. Many of us have experienced children growing older and leaving home, job loss, retirement, frequent arguments with those closest to us, divorce, separation, and death of loved ones. Some of us have experienced life threatening events, serious illnesses and physical losses that result in a dramatic shift on how we fit into the world and in the lives of others. These events can result in a loss of satisfaction in life or at times a loss of hope in having a life worth living.
Disruptions in relationships regularly occur in life and the experience of feeling disconnected is not uncommon. Many of us have experienced children growing older and leaving home, job loss, retirement, frequent arguments with those closest to us, divorce, separation, and death of loved ones. Some of us have experienced life threatening events, serious illnesses and physical losses that result in a dramatic shift on how we fit into the world and in the lives of others. These events can result in a loss of satisfaction in life or at times a loss of hope in having a life worth living.
(651) 439-2059 View (651) 439-2059
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Jessica Rachelle Nadeau
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Stillwater, MN 55082
As the founder of Uplift Youth and Family Counseling Services, I am dedicated to providing high quality care to adolescents and have created a place specifically designed to meet their unique needs, along with the needs of their families.
As the founder of Uplift Youth and Family Counseling Services, I am dedicated to providing high quality care to adolescents and have created a place specifically designed to meet their unique needs, along with the needs of their families.
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Malinda Sarbacker
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LGSW
Verified Verified
Stillwater, MN 55082  (Online Only)
We don't have to look far in our modern world to feel overwhelmed. We're often faced with ethical challenges before we get out the door in the morning! Sometimes life gives us more than we feel we can handle. Sometimes our pain stems from loss of a loved one, a beloved pet, or difficulty navigating life transitions. Sometimes we get stuck in unhelpful patterns and can't seem to make the changes we want. Therapy can be a helpful tool to explore the places we get stuck and find new ways of moving forward.
We don't have to look far in our modern world to feel overwhelmed. We're often faced with ethical challenges before we get out the door in the morning! Sometimes life gives us more than we feel we can handle. Sometimes our pain stems from loss of a loved one, a beloved pet, or difficulty navigating life transitions. Sometimes we get stuck in unhelpful patterns and can't seem to make the changes we want. Therapy can be a helpful tool to explore the places we get stuck and find new ways of moving forward.
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Kelli Howard
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Stillwater, MN 55082
Waitlist for new clients
I am a Stillwater-based psychologist who provides individual therapy and psychological testing to teens and adults ages 16 and up. Using a relaxed and non-judgmental style, I help people struggling with mood concerns, relationships, work/school stress, life transitions, and trauma. I provide both traditional talk therapy and more specific trauma therapies, such as Brainspotting and EMDR. I also offer supervision and consultation for pre-licensed counselors and psychologists, as well as psychological testing for ADHD and related concerns.
I am a Stillwater-based psychologist who provides individual therapy and psychological testing to teens and adults ages 16 and up. Using a relaxed and non-judgmental style, I help people struggling with mood concerns, relationships, work/school stress, life transitions, and trauma. I provide both traditional talk therapy and more specific trauma therapies, such as Brainspotting and EMDR. I also offer supervision and consultation for pre-licensed counselors and psychologists, as well as psychological testing for ADHD and related concerns.
(651) 321-5815 View (651) 321-5815
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Clare Beardsley
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, MA
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Stillwater, MN 55082
I focus on meeting clients where they are at, offering a safe and supported space to express the past and present challenges that can disrupt and occupy areas of their lives. I also highlight accountability and appropriately challenging clients to apply the things processed and discovered in therapy into their daily lives. I work with clients using a strength based, client-centered, and collaborative approach. I also assist individuals in creating and maintaining lifelong skills to better manage challenges and current symptoms.
I focus on meeting clients where they are at, offering a safe and supported space to express the past and present challenges that can disrupt and occupy areas of their lives. I also highlight accountability and appropriately challenging clients to apply the things processed and discovered in therapy into their daily lives. I work with clients using a strength based, client-centered, and collaborative approach. I also assist individuals in creating and maintaining lifelong skills to better manage challenges and current symptoms.
(651) 877-6479 View (651) 877-6479
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Sara Hart Schultz
Counselor, MS, LPCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Stillwater, MN 55082
Wait list at this time - Hi there! You're here because you found the strength and courage to look for a therapist! Perhaps you are looking to better understand yourself, or you are ready for change, or both. Whatever your unique challenges may be, and wherever your unique journey may have taken you so far, you get to determine the path forward. You can heal yourself, no matter how dark it seems. You can gain confidence, you can accept and love yourself, and you can change your life. I am here to guide you, encourage you, and teach you skills/tools that you need to overcome challenges, hardships, stressors, and trauma.
Wait list at this time - Hi there! You're here because you found the strength and courage to look for a therapist! Perhaps you are looking to better understand yourself, or you are ready for change, or both. Whatever your unique challenges may be, and wherever your unique journey may have taken you so far, you get to determine the path forward. You can heal yourself, no matter how dark it seems. You can gain confidence, you can accept and love yourself, and you can change your life. I am here to guide you, encourage you, and teach you skills/tools that you need to overcome challenges, hardships, stressors, and trauma.
(651) 383-8957 View (651) 383-8957
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Coleen Groen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
Stillwater, MN 55082
I have been a therapist for twenty years and have helped individuals recover from trauma. I have worked to help people navigate their journey in the aftermath of trauma and work to foster a sense of resiliency. My work is compassion focused, culturally aware and works to build ones empowerment.
I have been a therapist for twenty years and have helped individuals recover from trauma. I have worked to help people navigate their journey in the aftermath of trauma and work to foster a sense of resiliency. My work is compassion focused, culturally aware and works to build ones empowerment.
(651) 564-7192 View (651) 564-7192
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Melissa Urbanek Therapy PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Stillwater, MN 55082  (Online Only)
Ugh, there is nothing worse than worrying about your child! If it's anxiety, a phobia, depression, difficulty in school or with peers...whatever it is.... I know it is hard. Looking for help can be hard too. My name is Melissa Urbanek. I really LOVE what I do. I get to work with young people to support them and help them through whatever it is that is getting in their way. I am a telehealth therapist that serves clients in Minnesota & Wisconsin. I specialize in working with children, teens, college age and young adults. I love to be playful and make therapy a good experience for all of my clients!
Ugh, there is nothing worse than worrying about your child! If it's anxiety, a phobia, depression, difficulty in school or with peers...whatever it is.... I know it is hard. Looking for help can be hard too. My name is Melissa Urbanek. I really LOVE what I do. I get to work with young people to support them and help them through whatever it is that is getting in their way. I am a telehealth therapist that serves clients in Minnesota & Wisconsin. I specialize in working with children, teens, college age and young adults. I love to be playful and make therapy a good experience for all of my clients!
(651) 358-2150 View (651) 358-2150
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Kate Auge (Current Openings)
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW, CCTP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Stillwater, MN 55082
A quote that resonates with the journey into therapy states, "in any given moment, we have two options: to step forward into growth, or to step back into safety." Whether this is your first time in therapy or you are taking that step forward again, welcome!
A quote that resonates with the journey into therapy states, "in any given moment, we have two options: to step forward into growth, or to step back into safety." Whether this is your first time in therapy or you are taking that step forward again, welcome!
(651) 661-5430 View (651) 661-5430
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Dialectical Behavior (DBT) Therapists

Who is DBT for?

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is designed for people who experience extreme emotional suffering because they lack the skills of emotion regulation and distress tolerance. The basic affliction can underlie a wide range of conditions, from borderline and other personality disorders to PTSD and treatment-resistant anxiety and depression. The therapy is helpful to those whose emotional reactivity is so intense it is disruptive to everyday functioning and leads to frequent crises.

Why do people need DBT?

The ability to regulate emotions is a core psychological skill that enables people to function in life and pay attention to the world outside themselves; it is consistently associated with well-being. DBT is designed to help people learn how to manage and regulate their emotions. Originally developed to treat people with borderline personality disorder whose extreme emotional suffering led to self-harming behavior and suicide attempts, the therapy is now applied to other conditions involving emotion dysregulation, particularly when other treatments have failed.

What happens in DBT?

Individuals meet weekly with their therapist to discuss their experiences relating to moods, behavior, and skills. Using checklists they maintain, they review emotional experiences and positive practices they engage in. The diaries help individuals discern what led up to a specific problem encountered, this is followed by discussion of the consequences of their actions. In addition, individuals may meet in class-like small groups to learn skills such as mindfulness, emotion regulation and distress tolerance.

How long does DBT last?

Because it is intended to establish long-lasting behavioral change among those with persistent problems, DBT is designed to last six months to a year. DBT includes both weekly sessions of individual therapy and weekly skills-training sessions conducted in small groups. Studies of DBT have documented improvement within a year of treatment, particularly in controlling self-harmful behavior; nevertheless, individuals may require therapy for several years.