Emotionally Focused Therapists in Shakopee, MN

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Patti Brown
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CNTP
Verified Verified
Shakopee, MN 55379
I have training in many trauma-focused approaches including EMDR, PIT, DART, as well as a lot of couples’ work including RLT, PACT and EFT.
IN PERSON OR TELETHERAPY APPOINTMENTS AVAILABLE The times are changing and we all need resiliency to get through the current challenges. Stressors are at an all-time high level, leaving many people unprepared for the situations they are experiencing. Under stress, our behavior can fall back to our default settings that were shaped in our early childhood. These patterns may not serve us or our families well. Learning new skills can give us the tools to develop appropriate responses and forge new neuropathways that will enhance the way we connect with the people close to us. Happiness comes from secure connected relationships
I have training in many trauma-focused approaches including EMDR, PIT, DART, as well as a lot of couples’ work including RLT, PACT and EFT.
IN PERSON OR TELETHERAPY APPOINTMENTS AVAILABLE The times are changing and we all need resiliency to get through the current challenges. Stressors are at an all-time high level, leaving many people unprepared for the situations they are experiencing. Under stress, our behavior can fall back to our default settings that were shaped in our early childhood. These patterns may not serve us or our families well. Learning new skills can give us the tools to develop appropriate responses and forge new neuropathways that will enhance the way we connect with the people close to us. Happiness comes from secure connected relationships
(612) 395-4719 View (612) 395-4719
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Lisa Medin
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Shakopee, MN 55379
Waitlist for new clients
I work with individuals as they process trauma, depression, and anxiety. I find many clients may also be struggling with boundaries, self-compassion, self-care, emotional regulation, and assertiveness. It’s my hope that counseling will also offer individuals a greater sense of peace and love for themselves.
I work with individuals as they process trauma, depression, and anxiety. I find many clients may also be struggling with boundaries, self-compassion, self-care, emotional regulation, and assertiveness. It’s my hope that counseling will also offer individuals a greater sense of peace and love for themselves.
(952) 592-0659 View (952) 592-0659
Joy Hanson Fischer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Shakopee, MN 55379
I completed a Master's of Social Work degree from the University of St. Thomas and the College of St. Catherine. As part of my education, I interned at a mental health center; providing individual, family and group therapy. I was an elementary school social worker for 8 years and have been working as a therapist for 16 years. I have worked with a variety of concerns and a variety of ages. Including; adjustments, anxiety, depression, life transitions and social concerns. I utilize many modalities of therapy and techniques-all tailored to the specific needs of the client while we build a supportive therapeutic experience.
I completed a Master's of Social Work degree from the University of St. Thomas and the College of St. Catherine. As part of my education, I interned at a mental health center; providing individual, family and group therapy. I was an elementary school social worker for 8 years and have been working as a therapist for 16 years. I have worked with a variety of concerns and a variety of ages. Including; adjustments, anxiety, depression, life transitions and social concerns. I utilize many modalities of therapy and techniques-all tailored to the specific needs of the client while we build a supportive therapeutic experience.
(952) 314-6469 View (952) 314-6469
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Justine A Miller
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Shakopee, MN 55379
Are life's circumstances robbing your peace? I would like to encourage you to reclaim that integral part of yourself. I offer a safe environment where each therapy session will be an opportunity for your voice to be heard. The therapeutic process will include insight thereby working toward changing ineffective patterns hindering your "best life." I work to equip individuals, couples, families and children to communicate their story and explore resolution. I believe in holistic healing of the body, mind, and spirit. I am a faith-based therapist and Christian spirituality may be incorporated as a therapeutic intervention upon request.
Are life's circumstances robbing your peace? I would like to encourage you to reclaim that integral part of yourself. I offer a safe environment where each therapy session will be an opportunity for your voice to be heard. The therapeutic process will include insight thereby working toward changing ineffective patterns hindering your "best life." I work to equip individuals, couples, families and children to communicate their story and explore resolution. I believe in holistic healing of the body, mind, and spirit. I am a faith-based therapist and Christian spirituality may be incorporated as a therapeutic intervention upon request.
(952) 314-9209 View (952) 314-9209
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Heather Petersen
Pre-Licensed Professional, BSW, CT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Shakopee, MN 55379
In the realm of mental health, my commitment is driven by my profound sense of empathy and compassion. It's my passion to support every individual in their discovery for a life enriched with fulfillment and well-being. I strive to create a space where individuals feel validated and understood. Witnessing their journey towards growth and transformation not only fuels my enthusiasm but also provides meaning in my own life. Together, we embark on a shared voyage of self-discovery, resilience, and holistic well-being, paving the way for enduring positive change.
In the realm of mental health, my commitment is driven by my profound sense of empathy and compassion. It's my passion to support every individual in their discovery for a life enriched with fulfillment and well-being. I strive to create a space where individuals feel validated and understood. Witnessing their journey towards growth and transformation not only fuels my enthusiasm but also provides meaning in my own life. Together, we embark on a shared voyage of self-discovery, resilience, and holistic well-being, paving the way for enduring positive change.
(952) 900-3460 View (952) 900-3460
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Carissa Quigley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Shakopee, MN 55379  (Online Only)
Carissa is very positive, and very relaxed. She’s not one to rush, or push. Working with her is like taking a long walk with a friend in a state park: your making movement at a chill pace. Carissa is a gifted and talented therapist and has a very calming and centering vibe about her. She is the type of person that is up for talking about, addressing, or accomplishing just about anything. She’s “go with the flow” in all the best ways. This is what makes her such a perfect fit for teens and young adults as she goes at their pace.
Carissa is very positive, and very relaxed. She’s not one to rush, or push. Working with her is like taking a long walk with a friend in a state park: your making movement at a chill pace. Carissa is a gifted and talented therapist and has a very calming and centering vibe about her. She is the type of person that is up for talking about, addressing, or accomplishing just about anything. She’s “go with the flow” in all the best ways. This is what makes her such a perfect fit for teens and young adults as she goes at their pace.
(952) 800-3234 View (952) 800-3234
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Nancy Pierson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Shakopee, MN 55379
Nancy comes to All In Therapy Clinic with 20 years experience in the field. Needless to say, she definitely knows what she is talking about. And, when clients are open and willing, they can accomplish a ton. Nancy asks her clients to dig deep, open up, be vulnerable, and allow themselves to grow. And she creates a very warm and safe environment for her clients to do so. She really earns trust and takes that very seriously.
Nancy comes to All In Therapy Clinic with 20 years experience in the field. Needless to say, she definitely knows what she is talking about. And, when clients are open and willing, they can accomplish a ton. Nancy asks her clients to dig deep, open up, be vulnerable, and allow themselves to grow. And she creates a very warm and safe environment for her clients to do so. She really earns trust and takes that very seriously.
(952) 234-7640 View (952) 234-7640
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Abby Hough
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
Shakopee, MN 55379
Not accepting new clients
Life is hard, but we don't have to go through it alone. Whatever struggles you're currently experiencing, I'm here to help. I value the uniqueness of each person and their experience, and I understand that there isn't a "one size fits all" approach to therapy. You and I will partner to develop a trusting relationship that allows for growth, reflection, and change. I'll meet you where you're at, and give you a safe space to start exploring and creating a life you find worth living.
Life is hard, but we don't have to go through it alone. Whatever struggles you're currently experiencing, I'm here to help. I value the uniqueness of each person and their experience, and I understand that there isn't a "one size fits all" approach to therapy. You and I will partner to develop a trusting relationship that allows for growth, reflection, and change. I'll meet you where you're at, and give you a safe space to start exploring and creating a life you find worth living.
(952) 900-4831 View (952) 900-4831

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Kaleidoscope Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MSEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Edina, MN 55439
I have training in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Pia Mellody's PIT model, the DIR/Floortime model and am certified in Play Therapy.
I am a passionate therapist who believes in the power of change. As a mother of two, a wife, a child development specialist and a Licensed Marriage and Family therapist, I, personally and professionally understand the highs and lows in parenting and relationships. Together, we will put the joy back into parenting, your partnership and in life! With over a decade of experience working with families, individuals and couples, I am able to help empower you, engage your children and build your relationships.
I have training in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Pia Mellody's PIT model, the DIR/Floortime model and am certified in Play Therapy.
I am a passionate therapist who believes in the power of change. As a mother of two, a wife, a child development specialist and a Licensed Marriage and Family therapist, I, personally and professionally understand the highs and lows in parenting and relationships. Together, we will put the joy back into parenting, your partnership and in life! With over a decade of experience working with families, individuals and couples, I am able to help empower you, engage your children and build your relationships.
(612) 213-2473 View (612) 213-2473
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Leah Austin
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Chanhassen, MN 55317
Some of the approaches I use are: Accelerated Resolution Therapy, Strength-based, Narrative, Cognitive Behavioral therapy, Emotionally Focused Couples therapy, Co-parenting, Parent Psychotherapy, Mindfulness, and Intergenerational therapy.
I believe that everyone has a unique story. One that includes challenges and successes. I want to get to know you, where you have been and where you hope to go. Whether you are seeking therapy as an individual, couple, or family you will be provided with a safe, non-judgmental place to explore and gain insight/skills to live your best life. I am honored to work collaboratively with you from a holistic/strengths/relationship based approach. I have a special interest in the parent-child relationship as this can be one of the most challenging relationships, but the most satisfying.
Some of the approaches I use are: Accelerated Resolution Therapy, Strength-based, Narrative, Cognitive Behavioral therapy, Emotionally Focused Couples therapy, Co-parenting, Parent Psychotherapy, Mindfulness, and Intergenerational therapy.
I believe that everyone has a unique story. One that includes challenges and successes. I want to get to know you, where you have been and where you hope to go. Whether you are seeking therapy as an individual, couple, or family you will be provided with a safe, non-judgmental place to explore and gain insight/skills to live your best life. I am honored to work collaboratively with you from a holistic/strengths/relationship based approach. I have a special interest in the parent-child relationship as this can be one of the most challenging relationships, but the most satisfying.
(952) 800-3053 View (952) 800-3053
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Lauryn Nelson
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
Edina, MN 55439
My approach is trauma-informed and I gravitate towards mindfulness, Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
My goal is to create a nonjudgmental and warm space for you to explore all parts of yourself. I aim to create a curious, affirming, and shame-free environment so that you feel welcome and safe in session. Our time together might mean exploring your family of origin stories, unraveling your relationship patterns, or diving deeper into your emotions at a pace that feels comfortable to you. I have worked with clients and couples who have experienced complex PTSD, narcissistic abuse, life transitions, low self-worth, or relationship issues.
My approach is trauma-informed and I gravitate towards mindfulness, Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
My goal is to create a nonjudgmental and warm space for you to explore all parts of yourself. I aim to create a curious, affirming, and shame-free environment so that you feel welcome and safe in session. Our time together might mean exploring your family of origin stories, unraveling your relationship patterns, or diving deeper into your emotions at a pace that feels comfortable to you. I have worked with clients and couples who have experienced complex PTSD, narcissistic abuse, life transitions, low self-worth, or relationship issues.
(952) 522-6881 View (952) 522-6881
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Samantha Iverson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Minnetonka, MN 55345
I have advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with additional training/experience in EMDR, DBT and PrepareEnrich Premarital Inventory.
I work with individuals who want to continue becoming the best version of themselves, confidently express their thoughts, feelings and emotions, and have compassion for themselves even when they've made a misstep. I also meet with individuals and couples looking to build more assurance in their ability to communicate (especially about the hard stuff), become highly skilled in handling conflict, understand how attachment impacts how we show up in relationships, and see one another with more grace, understanding and positivity. Visit my website to learn more: www.ivysagecounseling.com. Or, email me to book an intro call.
I have advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with additional training/experience in EMDR, DBT and PrepareEnrich Premarital Inventory.
I work with individuals who want to continue becoming the best version of themselves, confidently express their thoughts, feelings and emotions, and have compassion for themselves even when they've made a misstep. I also meet with individuals and couples looking to build more assurance in their ability to communicate (especially about the hard stuff), become highly skilled in handling conflict, understand how attachment impacts how we show up in relationships, and see one another with more grace, understanding and positivity. Visit my website to learn more: www.ivysagecounseling.com. Or, email me to book an intro call.
(612) 448-3120 View (612) 448-3120
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Christine Guy
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
Eden Prairie, MN 55344
I am trained in a variety of approaches including TF-CBT, EMDR, Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART), Healing our Core Issues, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
Welcome! I have immediate openings, reach out to schedule you FREE 15min consultation today! I am here for you and whole-heartedly support your brave decision to reach out for help. You can expect me to meet you with compassion, unconditional support and a deep desire to help you achieve your goals. I believe in you! I use the power of connection, humor and highly effective treatment approaches to help you heal from within, which wilI in turn improve your quality of life and relationships. Sarge, my Certified Therapy dog, will also be there to provide comfort, peace and unconditional love.
I am trained in a variety of approaches including TF-CBT, EMDR, Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART), Healing our Core Issues, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
Welcome! I have immediate openings, reach out to schedule you FREE 15min consultation today! I am here for you and whole-heartedly support your brave decision to reach out for help. You can expect me to meet you with compassion, unconditional support and a deep desire to help you achieve your goals. I believe in you! I use the power of connection, humor and highly effective treatment approaches to help you heal from within, which wilI in turn improve your quality of life and relationships. Sarge, my Certified Therapy dog, will also be there to provide comfort, peace and unconditional love.
(952) 529-4301 View (952) 529-4301
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Serenity Behavioral Health & Wellness LLC
Psychologist, PsyD, LP
Verified Verified
Savage, MN 55378
Are you struggling to find life balance? Is your daily routine overwhelming you with anxiety, or are you down, stuck in a rut, and feel like life is a mundane hamster wheel of going through the motions? Are you sad or have you lost hope? Do you have trouble accessing your inner potential and strength? We can help you get back on track and back to feeling like the best version of yourself. When we are refreshed and well, we thrive. We feel a sense of blissful energy and open acceptance. We should all Be Free to Be Well. At Serenity, we help you take care of your mental health so you can soar in all other areas of your life…
Are you struggling to find life balance? Is your daily routine overwhelming you with anxiety, or are you down, stuck in a rut, and feel like life is a mundane hamster wheel of going through the motions? Are you sad or have you lost hope? Do you have trouble accessing your inner potential and strength? We can help you get back on track and back to feeling like the best version of yourself. When we are refreshed and well, we thrive. We feel a sense of blissful energy and open acceptance. We should all Be Free to Be Well. At Serenity, we help you take care of your mental health so you can soar in all other areas of your life…
(952) 243-5613 View (952) 243-5613
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Kristin Kelly Steady
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS
Verified Verified
Prior Lake, MN 55372
Hello! Have you become bogged down by life's challenges, slowly strayed from your path, or become stuck in a pattern that isn't serving you? I can help with life's trials that cause you to lose faith in yourself and steal your happiness, meaning, and resilience. I will act as your support by prioritizing your needs and empowering you to use your innate strengths to accomplish your goals. I provide an emotionally safe and inclusive environment to help facilitate exploration of your past, create peace in your present, and hope for your future.
Hello! Have you become bogged down by life's challenges, slowly strayed from your path, or become stuck in a pattern that isn't serving you? I can help with life's trials that cause you to lose faith in yourself and steal your happiness, meaning, and resilience. I will act as your support by prioritizing your needs and empowering you to use your innate strengths to accomplish your goals. I provide an emotionally safe and inclusive environment to help facilitate exploration of your past, create peace in your present, and hope for your future.
(952) 592-9860 View (952) 592-9860
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Hope Tree Therapy and Wellness, PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Savage, MN 55378
Feeling hopeless, disconnected, and disengaged from your life or partner? If you are seeking life-work-spirit-soul balance, want to improve relationships, and/or explore your personal growth journey, I can help you communicate better, understand yourself and your emotions more clearly, and avoid confusing and negative assumptions. My mission at Hope Tree Therapy and Wellness is to provide couples and individuals with comprehensive and person-centered therapy tailored to the client’s needs and meet the client where they are at in all aspects of wellness: Physical, Financial, Intellectual, Emotional, Social, and Spiritual.
Feeling hopeless, disconnected, and disengaged from your life or partner? If you are seeking life-work-spirit-soul balance, want to improve relationships, and/or explore your personal growth journey, I can help you communicate better, understand yourself and your emotions more clearly, and avoid confusing and negative assumptions. My mission at Hope Tree Therapy and Wellness is to provide couples and individuals with comprehensive and person-centered therapy tailored to the client’s needs and meet the client where they are at in all aspects of wellness: Physical, Financial, Intellectual, Emotional, Social, and Spiritual.
(952) 977-8175 View (952) 977-8175
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Forward Bound Counseling PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Jordan, MN 55352
LMFT and board approved clinical supervisor. I have an interest in working with individuals and families who have experienced trauma. I have received training in EMDR as well as Internal Family Systems (IFS). I am creative in my combination of EMDR, IFS and polyvagal theory in treating trauma, understanding and repairing nervous system functioning. I also enjoy working with individuals and families struggling with anxiety, depression, marital issues, life stress, self-esteem, abuse, identity, and life purpose exploration. I also love working with couples who want to strengthen or evaluate the health of their relationship.
LMFT and board approved clinical supervisor. I have an interest in working with individuals and families who have experienced trauma. I have received training in EMDR as well as Internal Family Systems (IFS). I am creative in my combination of EMDR, IFS and polyvagal theory in treating trauma, understanding and repairing nervous system functioning. I also enjoy working with individuals and families struggling with anxiety, depression, marital issues, life stress, self-esteem, abuse, identity, and life purpose exploration. I also love working with couples who want to strengthen or evaluate the health of their relationship.
(507) 225-1522 View (507) 225-1522
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Tania A Beck
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LGSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Jordan, MN 55352
Are you feeling overwhelmed by the pressures of everyday life? Would you like to get beyond your past and/or resolve current struggles? I acknowledge that it takes a lot of courage to pursue therapy, and to take that first step. I would like to come alongside you and support your healing journey, and the path to rediscovering yourself. My therapeutic style is to hold space for a collaborative conversation, and approach each session with curiosity.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by the pressures of everyday life? Would you like to get beyond your past and/or resolve current struggles? I acknowledge that it takes a lot of courage to pursue therapy, and to take that first step. I would like to come alongside you and support your healing journey, and the path to rediscovering yourself. My therapeutic style is to hold space for a collaborative conversation, and approach each session with curiosity.
(952) 234-6303 View (952) 234-6303
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River Valley Behavioral Health & Wellness Center
Psychologist, PsyD, LP, LMFT
Verified Verified
Savage, MN 55378
Highly trained child/adolescent & adult psychiatric providers along with nurse practitioners offering individual, group, couples & family therapy, psychological assessment and medication management. Experienced professionals committed to helping you reach your goals in a confidential & comfortable setting. Assessment & treatment for ADHD, learning/developmental disabilities, veterans, PTSD, anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, psychotic disorders, substance abuse, relationships, life changes, divorce, stress & coping, anger, autism, & borderline personality disorder
Highly trained child/adolescent & adult psychiatric providers along with nurse practitioners offering individual, group, couples & family therapy, psychological assessment and medication management. Experienced professionals committed to helping you reach your goals in a confidential & comfortable setting. Assessment & treatment for ADHD, learning/developmental disabilities, veterans, PTSD, anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, psychotic disorders, substance abuse, relationships, life changes, divorce, stress & coping, anger, autism, & borderline personality disorder
(952) 479-4846 View (952) 479-4846
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Sheila J. Marker
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Savage, MN 55378
My passion is to come along side of you in your struggles, offering hope and encouragement that you can find healing and wholeness in your life. My commitment is to provide an environment that is supportive and safe. We will journey together to find the pathway to a new life; a life filled with meaning, purpose and fulfillment.
My passion is to come along side of you in your struggles, offering hope and encouragement that you can find healing and wholeness in your life. My commitment is to provide an environment that is supportive and safe. We will journey together to find the pathway to a new life; a life filled with meaning, purpose and fulfillment.
(952) 260-5239 View (952) 260-5239

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Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.