Sex Therapists in Saint Paul, MN
I particularly enjoy working with communities such as- LGBTQIA+, sex-positive, kink, neurodivergent folks, those with trauma, couples in both traditional and non-traditional relationships, and pregnancy/infertility.
Suffering is a common part of life, and as painful as it can be, it can also be a great source of change and growth. I believe a warm, accepting, and non-judgmental space is essential in order for you to feel supported in sharing your story, emotions, and participating in a change process. I also am the type of therapist that will challenge you, ask questions, provide insight, and work with you collaboratively to address what is most important to you. I place a large emphasis on the therapeutic relationship- using an integrated approach based on the needs of each individual.
I particularly enjoy working with communities such as- LGBTQIA+, sex-positive, kink, neurodivergent folks, those with trauma, couples in both traditional and non-traditional relationships, and pregnancy/infertility.
Suffering is a common part of life, and as painful as it can be, it can also be a great source of change and growth. I believe a warm, accepting, and non-judgmental space is essential in order for you to feel supported in sharing your story, emotions, and participating in a change process. I also am the type of therapist that will challenge you, ask questions, provide insight, and work with you collaboratively to address what is most important to you. I place a large emphasis on the therapeutic relationship- using an integrated approach based on the needs of each individual.
Pakou Yang-Her
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, LAMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Saint Paul, MN 55102
Everyone is molded from their experiences, perspectives, and identities which can shaped a sense of reality. Our racial identity, social class, sexuality, and ethnic backgrounds shapes us in developing wisdom/techniques of resiliency to endure distressing moments. These same experiences can become increasingly distressing which can lead us into believing unauthentic beliefs of who we really are. For healing to take place, a requirement of safety/security need to be present in order for authenticity to be formed. Often is the case where strength and growth is developed when faced with the discomforts of the past.
Everyone is molded from their experiences, perspectives, and identities which can shaped a sense of reality. Our racial identity, social class, sexuality, and ethnic backgrounds shapes us in developing wisdom/techniques of resiliency to endure distressing moments. These same experiences can become increasingly distressing which can lead us into believing unauthentic beliefs of who we really are. For healing to take place, a requirement of safety/security need to be present in order for authenticity to be formed. Often is the case where strength and growth is developed when faced with the discomforts of the past.
Vicenta del Carmen Valero
Counselor, MA, LPCC, LADC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Saint Paul, MN 55102
Racism, oppression, gender, sexuality, class, and poverty can have a significant impact on our well-being and physical and mental health.
Trabajo con adultos de color y personas GLBTQ que buscan ayuda con identidad étnica/racial, trauma racial, trauma sexual or fisico, y salud química. El racismo, la opresión, el género, la sexualidad, el envejecimiento, la clase social, y la pobreza pueden afectar nuestro bienestar y salud fisica y mental o nos causan el desarrollar creencias de quien somos que nos impiden vivir nuestra mejor vida. Aprovechando de su conocimientos y sabiduría interna, le proporciono un espacio seguro donde el enfoque de nuestros esfuerzos se centra en la recuperación emocional y el alcanzar paz en su vida.
Racism, oppression, gender, sexuality, class, and poverty can have a significant impact on our well-being and physical and mental health.
Trabajo con adultos de color y personas GLBTQ que buscan ayuda con identidad étnica/racial, trauma racial, trauma sexual or fisico, y salud química. El racismo, la opresión, el género, la sexualidad, el envejecimiento, la clase social, y la pobreza pueden afectar nuestro bienestar y salud fisica y mental o nos causan el desarrollar creencias de quien somos que nos impiden vivir nuestra mejor vida. Aprovechando de su conocimientos y sabiduría interna, le proporciono un espacio seguro donde el enfoque de nuestros esfuerzos se centra en la recuperación emocional y el alcanzar paz en su vida.
I help people overcome life’s challenges to grow and find their desired happiness. I have a long history of working with those struggling with addiction as well as concerns related to sex and intimacy. From a mental health perspective, I work with clients who have anxiety, depression, trauma, intimacy, relationship problems, and some personality disorders. I believe that our mental health, compulsive behaviors, relationships, sex, and intimacy all interact and influence one another to create who and how we show up today. I have an extensive history of working with individuals in the LGBT+ community and specialize in treating Chemsex
I help people overcome life’s challenges to grow and find their desired happiness. I have a long history of working with those struggling with addiction as well as concerns related to sex and intimacy. From a mental health perspective, I work with clients who have anxiety, depression, trauma, intimacy, relationship problems, and some personality disorders. I believe that our mental health, compulsive behaviors, relationships, sex, and intimacy all interact and influence one another to create who and how we show up today. I have an extensive history of working with individuals in the LGBT+ community and specialize in treating Chemsex
Cornerstone Therapy and Recovery
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, MFT-TL
Verified Verified
Saint Paul, MN 55104
I offer partner and family therapy in MN, WI, and MI, focusing on improving relationships and well-being. Whether dealing with trauma, relationship issues, sexless relationships, sex addiction, or anger management, I provide a safe, non-judgmental space for sharing concerns. I'm committed to fostering understanding and harmony in your relationships. With cultural humility, I bridge diverse backgrounds, including war veterans, trauma and domestic abuse survivors, immigrants, refugees, and the Muslim and South Asian communities. I provide tools, knowledge, and support for healing and growth.
I offer partner and family therapy in MN, WI, and MI, focusing on improving relationships and well-being. Whether dealing with trauma, relationship issues, sexless relationships, sex addiction, or anger management, I provide a safe, non-judgmental space for sharing concerns. I'm committed to fostering understanding and harmony in your relationships. With cultural humility, I bridge diverse backgrounds, including war veterans, trauma and domestic abuse survivors, immigrants, refugees, and the Muslim and South Asian communities. I provide tools, knowledge, and support for healing and growth.
Cornerstone Therapy and Recovery Center
Psychologist, MA, LP
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Saint Paul, MN 55104
Waitlist for new clients
Before this I worked at various clinics, correctional facilities and agencies treating addictions, domestic violence, sexual addiction, sex offenses and general mental health issues both with men.
I've been counseling men and couples for over 40 years. My specialties are men with compulsive/addictive sexual behaviors, unresolved childhood abuse/trauma/neglect, anxiety/depression, relationship problems and intimacy issues. I also do couple's therapy teaching and helping couples in good communication and conflict management and how to heal from infidelity. Cornerstone has 5 outpatient treatment groups for men with sexual addiction. We also have very skilled therapist who treat childhood trauma and neglect with very highly regarded therapeutic methods and approaches including EMDR, Sensorimotor and Pesso Psychomotor Therapy.
Before this I worked at various clinics, correctional facilities and agencies treating addictions, domestic violence, sexual addiction, sex offenses and general mental health issues both with men.
I've been counseling men and couples for over 40 years. My specialties are men with compulsive/addictive sexual behaviors, unresolved childhood abuse/trauma/neglect, anxiety/depression, relationship problems and intimacy issues. I also do couple's therapy teaching and helping couples in good communication and conflict management and how to heal from infidelity. Cornerstone has 5 outpatient treatment groups for men with sexual addiction. We also have very skilled therapist who treat childhood trauma and neglect with very highly regarded therapeutic methods and approaches including EMDR, Sensorimotor and Pesso Psychomotor Therapy.
Erin Morgan
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Saint Paul, MN 55114
Waitlist for new clients
I work with people who want better relationships with others and better relationships with themselves. Couples, families, and individuals I see are bright, curious, motivated people who find their lives disrupted somehow - by the intrusion of traumatic experiences, life transitions, or persistent struggles with mental health that don't resolve on their own. I have a deep understanding of the unique therapy needs of therapists and doctors and their partners and families, and I enjoy working with folks anywhere on the gender and sexuality spectra. I also work with torture and war trauma survivors, refugees, and asylum seekers.
I work with people who want better relationships with others and better relationships with themselves. Couples, families, and individuals I see are bright, curious, motivated people who find their lives disrupted somehow - by the intrusion of traumatic experiences, life transitions, or persistent struggles with mental health that don't resolve on their own. I have a deep understanding of the unique therapy needs of therapists and doctors and their partners and families, and I enjoy working with folks anywhere on the gender and sexuality spectra. I also work with torture and war trauma survivors, refugees, and asylum seekers.
I am passionate about providing strengths-based, sex positive, and queer affirming care.
Currently accepting clients! Do you ever struggle to find a balance between all of the parts of your life? Maybe your focus on other people’s needs is making it hard for you to express your own, or maybe you are noticing that miscommunication and overwhelm are making it hard to find the connection and intimacy you long for. I work with people who want to build whole and healthy relationships with themselves AND with the important people in their lives. I will help you develop skills and strategies that will support you in navigating life challenges and transitions in a wholehearted, embodied, and connected way.
I am passionate about providing strengths-based, sex positive, and queer affirming care.
Currently accepting clients! Do you ever struggle to find a balance between all of the parts of your life? Maybe your focus on other people’s needs is making it hard for you to express your own, or maybe you are noticing that miscommunication and overwhelm are making it hard to find the connection and intimacy you long for. I work with people who want to build whole and healthy relationships with themselves AND with the important people in their lives. I will help you develop skills and strategies that will support you in navigating life challenges and transitions in a wholehearted, embodied, and connected way.
I currently have daytime and evening availability on Fridays. If life is feeling overwhelming, my office is a safe space to talk about what's on your mind. I offer support for folks experiencing relationship distress, conflict, and communication issues; folks navigating phase-of-life concerns and life transitions; individuals and families impacted by substance use; folks questioning their sexuality, gender, or identity; those processing grief and loss; and more. I enjoy working with couples, families, and individuals.
I currently have daytime and evening availability on Fridays. If life is feeling overwhelming, my office is a safe space to talk about what's on your mind. I offer support for folks experiencing relationship distress, conflict, and communication issues; folks navigating phase-of-life concerns and life transitions; individuals and families impacted by substance use; folks questioning their sexuality, gender, or identity; those processing grief and loss; and more. I enjoy working with couples, families, and individuals.
Amanda Stranko
Counselor, MS, LPCC
Verified Verified
Saint Paul, MN 55101 (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Since entering the field five years ago, I have worked with clients around general mental health concerns and healthy sexuality, especially the impacts this can have on a person's mental health. Our goals will be to discover healthy and appropriate coping skills to managing mental health concerns. In doing so, you will have a better understanding of yourself and the concerns that bought you to see me.
Since entering the field five years ago, I have worked with clients around general mental health concerns and healthy sexuality, especially the impacts this can have on a person's mental health. Our goals will be to discover healthy and appropriate coping skills to managing mental health concerns. In doing so, you will have a better understanding of yourself and the concerns that bought you to see me.
Julia Hutchinson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Saint Paul, MN 55104
I specialize in providing individual, couples and family therapy to young and emerging adults (18-35+ years old), though I work with adults along the age spectrum (18+). My work focuses on anxiety and stress management, communication skills, personal identity, relationship building, sexuality, life transitions, traumatic experiences, and goal setting. I bring in an understanding of the somatic (body based) experience and the relationship between the mind and body in our health and healing. I am a gender affirming, sex / sexuality positive, body positive provider who uses a variety of client centered approaches in my work.
I specialize in providing individual, couples and family therapy to young and emerging adults (18-35+ years old), though I work with adults along the age spectrum (18+). My work focuses on anxiety and stress management, communication skills, personal identity, relationship building, sexuality, life transitions, traumatic experiences, and goal setting. I bring in an understanding of the somatic (body based) experience and the relationship between the mind and body in our health and healing. I am a gender affirming, sex / sexuality positive, body positive provider who uses a variety of client centered approaches in my work.
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Erin R. Hunter
Pre-Licensed Professional, MFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Saint Paul, MN 55117 (Online Only)
Erin specializes in Diversity and inclusivity, racial trauma, adoption, addiction, sexual abuse, sexuality, first responder trauma, criminal court matters, and child protection matters.
Erin has a passion for working with all humans; inclusivity and diversity are important cornerstones of her work. She welcomes the opportunity to create connections and offer ways of working through whatever challenges are presented. Understanding each of her client’s unique stories and allowing a safe space for individual/familial reflection and growth is at the core of her work. Encouraging clients to find and cultivate their strengths and understand their emotional connections and relationships under a systemic lens is an important part of the therapeutic journey, in which Erin is committed to provide.
Erin specializes in Diversity and inclusivity, racial trauma, adoption, addiction, sexual abuse, sexuality, first responder trauma, criminal court matters, and child protection matters.
Erin has a passion for working with all humans; inclusivity and diversity are important cornerstones of her work. She welcomes the opportunity to create connections and offer ways of working through whatever challenges are presented. Understanding each of her client’s unique stories and allowing a safe space for individual/familial reflection and growth is at the core of her work. Encouraging clients to find and cultivate their strengths and understand their emotional connections and relationships under a systemic lens is an important part of the therapeutic journey, in which Erin is committed to provide.
Phoenix Process Condultants
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Saint Paul, MN 55110
I am a national speaker on topics such as sexuality, chemical dependency, adolescents, teens, families, and spirituality.
For many years I served adolescents, teens and families as a youth minister and school counselor. Since 1999 I've been helping individuals, couples and families who struggle with depression, substance abuse/addictions, relationship issues, adjusting to change, grief/loss and other concerns. I direct marriage preparation courses for engaged couples; provide marriage counseling and enrichment courses. Help adolescents, teens families, individuals, work toward wellness, growth and change. I offer a Thursday men's group focused on marriage and family relationships,
I am a national speaker on topics such as sexuality, chemical dependency, adolescents, teens, families, and spirituality.
For many years I served adolescents, teens and families as a youth minister and school counselor. Since 1999 I've been helping individuals, couples and families who struggle with depression, substance abuse/addictions, relationship issues, adjusting to change, grief/loss and other concerns. I direct marriage preparation courses for engaged couples; provide marriage counseling and enrichment courses. Help adolescents, teens families, individuals, work toward wellness, growth and change. I offer a Thursday men's group focused on marriage and family relationships,
Monica O'Connell
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Saint Paul, MN 55105 (Online Only)
With over 14+ years of professional experience, I offer couples expertise on how to connect following substance use, lessen codependency, survive an affair, transition your relationship while having kids/parenting, improve your sex life.
Unsure of what's next for your relationship? Feeling like you need support due to lack of intimacy and connection? Struggling to communicate? Couples therapy is here to help during difficult relationship turning points. Whether you're unsure if you can truly heal from betrayal, have dealt with months or years of sexual disconnection or are struggling to be on the same page with your partner, consider booking a marital therapy session today. You will both acquire the tools and skills needed to not just survive this hard time but to learn how to thrive in a healthier and happier relationship.
With over 14+ years of professional experience, I offer couples expertise on how to connect following substance use, lessen codependency, survive an affair, transition your relationship while having kids/parenting, improve your sex life.
Unsure of what's next for your relationship? Feeling like you need support due to lack of intimacy and connection? Struggling to communicate? Couples therapy is here to help during difficult relationship turning points. Whether you're unsure if you can truly heal from betrayal, have dealt with months or years of sexual disconnection or are struggling to be on the same page with your partner, consider booking a marital therapy session today. You will both acquire the tools and skills needed to not just survive this hard time but to learn how to thrive in a healthier and happier relationship.
Asel Kulmeshkenova
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Saint Paul, MN 55102
When working with couples we explore communication, healthy boundaries, values, intimacy, sex, identity, and overall wellness of not only the relationship, but the individuals themselves.
I am passionate about navigating and exploring identity, values, and relationship dynamics in a space where clients can be their unfiltered, unique selves outside of societal norms or expectations. My therapy practice incorporates humor and adapts to the needs of my clients, ranging from "saying it like it is" to nurturing and supporting you.
When working with couples we explore communication, healthy boundaries, values, intimacy, sex, identity, and overall wellness of not only the relationship, but the individuals themselves.
I am passionate about navigating and exploring identity, values, and relationship dynamics in a space where clients can be their unfiltered, unique selves outside of societal norms or expectations. My therapy practice incorporates humor and adapts to the needs of my clients, ranging from "saying it like it is" to nurturing and supporting you.
Valentine Counseling Services, LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MEd, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Saint Paul, MN 55101
We are a sex and body positive clinic.
I provide a warm and supportive atmosphere where individuals can express their feelings, communicate their problems, and feel understood. I emphasize that when a client is living in a secure state of mind, they will be able to locate solutions to any problem. I recognize and encourage each individual to understand their innate potential for change and growth. The therapeutic process can be challenging and at times uncomfortable, but I will walk this journey with you, asking the hard questions, listening intently, and exploring perspectives. I hope that you will contact me when you are ready to venture into this wonderful new place.
We are a sex and body positive clinic.
I provide a warm and supportive atmosphere where individuals can express their feelings, communicate their problems, and feel understood. I emphasize that when a client is living in a secure state of mind, they will be able to locate solutions to any problem. I recognize and encourage each individual to understand their innate potential for change and growth. The therapeutic process can be challenging and at times uncomfortable, but I will walk this journey with you, asking the hard questions, listening intently, and exploring perspectives. I hope that you will contact me when you are ready to venture into this wonderful new place.
Anna Goldsmith
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Saint Paul, MN 55101
Waitlist for new clients
With couples I am trained in sex therapy modalities to guide couples in communication around intimacy.
I am passionate about helping adults & couples navigate mental health concerns and life stressors including family dynamics, trauma, co-parenting, sexual health, intimacy, self-worth, and attachment. I work with couples to build communication skills and bring true intentions to light and with individuals seeking to learn more about their pasts and future.
With couples I am trained in sex therapy modalities to guide couples in communication around intimacy.
I am passionate about helping adults & couples navigate mental health concerns and life stressors including family dynamics, trauma, co-parenting, sexual health, intimacy, self-worth, and attachment. I work with couples to build communication skills and bring true intentions to light and with individuals seeking to learn more about their pasts and future.
I love working with identity exploration ( sexuality, gender, life transitions) and trauma.
"I have found, through painful experience, that the most important step a person can take is always the next one.” -Brandon Sanderson Let me help you take the next step. I enjoy providing therapy for queer folx, chronic illness, nerds, adolescents, young adults, college students, and families. I have special interests in all things nerdy, sex, trauma, and exploring identities (gender, sexuality). I primarily work from a feminist, anti-capitalist, and strength-based perspective. My ideal client wants a strong therapeutic relationship with an affirming and relatable therapist.
I love working with identity exploration ( sexuality, gender, life transitions) and trauma.
"I have found, through painful experience, that the most important step a person can take is always the next one.” -Brandon Sanderson Let me help you take the next step. I enjoy providing therapy for queer folx, chronic illness, nerds, adolescents, young adults, college students, and families. I have special interests in all things nerdy, sex, trauma, and exploring identities (gender, sexuality). I primarily work from a feminist, anti-capitalist, and strength-based perspective. My ideal client wants a strong therapeutic relationship with an affirming and relatable therapist.
Elliot C Nuckols
Licensed Professional Counselor, MPS, LADC
Verified Verified
Saint Paul, MN 55107
Waitlist for new clients
Much of my work is centered around gender – from issues surrounding identity exploration, to social/medical transition, to gender dysphoria, to gender-identity-related interpersonal challenges. Some of my favorite work is in helping to bridge the communication gaps between teens and their families after a teen has come out as trans/gender nonconforming! I also have experience with depression, anxiety, substance use, military families, sexuality and sexual health, emetophobia (phobia of vomit), phase-of-life challenges, uncertainty/anxiety about the future, kink/BDSM, and partner conflict/miscommunication.
Much of my work is centered around gender – from issues surrounding identity exploration, to social/medical transition, to gender dysphoria, to gender-identity-related interpersonal challenges. Some of my favorite work is in helping to bridge the communication gaps between teens and their families after a teen has come out as trans/gender nonconforming! I also have experience with depression, anxiety, substance use, military families, sexuality and sexual health, emetophobia (phobia of vomit), phase-of-life challenges, uncertainty/anxiety about the future, kink/BDSM, and partner conflict/miscommunication.
Olivia Schwendinger
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, LAMFT
Verified Verified
Saint Paul, MN 55114 (Online Only)
I work with individuals and couples experiencing issues related to sex, traditional gender roles, desire, grief, and self image to support you in building the life you want. Couples/partners may struggle with communication related to sex, desire discrepancy, or unhelpful relationship dynamics. Individuals may wish to explore their sexual identity, process grief and loss, unpack past traumas or family patterns that cause distress in present relationships, create new expressions of masculinity or femininity, or learn how to prioritize pleasure.
I work with individuals and couples experiencing issues related to sex, traditional gender roles, desire, grief, and self image to support you in building the life you want. Couples/partners may struggle with communication related to sex, desire discrepancy, or unhelpful relationship dynamics. Individuals may wish to explore their sexual identity, process grief and loss, unpack past traumas or family patterns that cause distress in present relationships, create new expressions of masculinity or femininity, or learn how to prioritize pleasure.
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