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Jill M. Ellingson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Saint Paul Park, MN 55071
It takes a lot of courage to come to counseling and work through life's challenges. My first priority in working with you is to build a genuine and safe relationship that encourages sharing, connection and authenticity. My combined education and background in corporate leadership and counseling psychology results in a therapeutic atmosphere that is affirming and encouraging but also holds you accountable for the changes you wish to see in your life. I look forward to walking alongside of you on this journey, encouraging you, helping you re-discover your strengths and having some fun along the way!
It takes a lot of courage to come to counseling and work through life's challenges. My first priority in working with you is to build a genuine and safe relationship that encourages sharing, connection and authenticity. My combined education and background in corporate leadership and counseling psychology results in a therapeutic atmosphere that is affirming and encouraging but also holds you accountable for the changes you wish to see in your life. I look forward to walking alongside of you on this journey, encouraging you, helping you re-discover your strengths and having some fun along the way!
(612) 293-4364 View (612) 293-4364
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Jamie Dahlberg
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Saint Paul Park, MN 55071  (Online Only)
If you’re in search of an encouraging, welcoming, and comforting space to help guide you through the challenges life brings, I look forward to partnering with you on your journey. I work with individuals (ages 13 and up) and couples. I am passionate about working with individuals and couples in all stages of their infertility journey. This is an overwhelming time that can often feel isolating, so I hope to provide support, compassion, and a space to feel recognized and heard. I also specialize in anger management and work with individuals who struggle with managing these challenging emotions.
If you’re in search of an encouraging, welcoming, and comforting space to help guide you through the challenges life brings, I look forward to partnering with you on your journey. I work with individuals (ages 13 and up) and couples. I am passionate about working with individuals and couples in all stages of their infertility journey. This is an overwhelming time that can often feel isolating, so I hope to provide support, compassion, and a space to feel recognized and heard. I also specialize in anger management and work with individuals who struggle with managing these challenging emotions.
(612) 808-5616 View (612) 808-5616

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Christine Waisner
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS
Verified Verified
Oakdale, MN 55128  (Online Only)
Using a relational and systemic approach, we will work together to address all the cultural, social, and internal influences impacting your well-being.
Note: I am only available via telehealth for Minnesota clients, but can see private pay Texas clients in person or via telehealth. Life can be unexpectedly messy. It is full of moments that can feel overwhelming and get in the way of your happiness, health, and well-being. You may have been feeling great in life, when seemingly out of nowhere something feels off or taking the next step in life seems daunting. Regardless of the situation, our attachments, experiences, cognition, and family-of-origin can impact our lives in a variety of ways that can be difficult to handle alone.
Using a relational and systemic approach, we will work together to address all the cultural, social, and internal influences impacting your well-being.
Note: I am only available via telehealth for Minnesota clients, but can see private pay Texas clients in person or via telehealth. Life can be unexpectedly messy. It is full of moments that can feel overwhelming and get in the way of your happiness, health, and well-being. You may have been feeling great in life, when seemingly out of nowhere something feels off or taking the next step in life seems daunting. Regardless of the situation, our attachments, experiences, cognition, and family-of-origin can impact our lives in a variety of ways that can be difficult to handle alone.
(430) 213-4303 View (430) 213-4303
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Lauren Colyer
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPCC, LADC
Verified Verified
Woodbury, MN 55125
I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor and Licensed Alcohol and Drug Counselor that has experience counseling adults in a variety of settings. I take a person-centered relational approach enhancing client strengths and empowering them through collaboration. I enjoy working with clients that have trauma and/or co-occurring disorders. I understand that some people may be aware that they need help processing their trauma and/or understanding why they are using substances. There are other people that are not as far along in the stages of changes. I believe therapy is a joint effort in processing through life's challenges.
I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor and Licensed Alcohol and Drug Counselor that has experience counseling adults in a variety of settings. I take a person-centered relational approach enhancing client strengths and empowering them through collaboration. I enjoy working with clients that have trauma and/or co-occurring disorders. I understand that some people may be aware that they need help processing their trauma and/or understanding why they are using substances. There are other people that are not as far along in the stages of changes. I believe therapy is a joint effort in processing through life's challenges.
(651) 615-0651 x102 View (651) 615-0651 x102
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Paul J Quie
Marriage & Family Therapist, MBA, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Woodbury, MN 55125  (Online Only)
I enjoy sharing the tools I have learned that help clients manage anxiety, depression, relational and work issues.
Hello, I would honor an opportunity of meeting with you and discussing your concerns. I have 25+ years of experience working with individuals, couples, and families. I believe each person has unique skills, talents, and abilities. I work with individuals and couples to uncover these abilities and use them in effective ways in their lives and in their relationships.
I enjoy sharing the tools I have learned that help clients manage anxiety, depression, relational and work issues.
Hello, I would honor an opportunity of meeting with you and discussing your concerns. I have 25+ years of experience working with individuals, couples, and families. I believe each person has unique skills, talents, and abilities. I work with individuals and couples to uncover these abilities and use them in effective ways in their lives and in their relationships.
(651) 321-2594 View (651) 321-2594
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Family Frameworks, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
Woodbury, MN 55125
When necessary and appropriate, I will provide family therapy to address relational problems within a family system.
I am a mental health therapist, specializing in working with youth and young adults who experience anxiety and mood disorders. I have been working as a mental health therapist in private practice for 8 years. I also have been a school social worker for 24 years, thus have experience in both the clinical and school setting. I believe in working from a strengths perspective, building on the assets my clients possess and learning resiliency skills in addressing the challenges they are faced with.
When necessary and appropriate, I will provide family therapy to address relational problems within a family system.
I am a mental health therapist, specializing in working with youth and young adults who experience anxiety and mood disorders. I have been working as a mental health therapist in private practice for 8 years. I also have been a school social worker for 24 years, thus have experience in both the clinical and school setting. I believe in working from a strengths perspective, building on the assets my clients possess and learning resiliency skills in addressing the challenges they are faced with.
(612) 260-6977 View (612) 260-6977
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Whitney Wessels
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Woodbury, MN 55125  (Online Only)
Anxiety, grief, trauma, self-doubt, or relationship issues? These are hard to navigate alone; I partner with you to sort through difficult themes to increase everyday coping. My background is with couples, individuals, children, and parents. I specialize working alongside people diagnosed with serious, life limiting illnesses (specifically cancer) and their caregivers, as well those grieving a loss. Another niche of my practice is medical professionals, residents/fellows, and those with high stress, demanding careers. Couple counseling and relational work is also a predominate area of focus in my practice.
Anxiety, grief, trauma, self-doubt, or relationship issues? These are hard to navigate alone; I partner with you to sort through difficult themes to increase everyday coping. My background is with couples, individuals, children, and parents. I specialize working alongside people diagnosed with serious, life limiting illnesses (specifically cancer) and their caregivers, as well those grieving a loss. Another niche of my practice is medical professionals, residents/fellows, and those with high stress, demanding careers. Couple counseling and relational work is also a predominate area of focus in my practice.
(612) 688-4636 View (612) 688-4636
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Heather Deveny-Leggitt
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Oakdale, MN 55128
I strive to provide a safe, supportive space for you to feel seen and heard. I believe that gaining insight and approaching oneself with compassion allows for healing. While exploring emotions and relational patterns, I integrate information about current neuro-research that helps make sense of different reactions and/or stuck patterns. Together, we will work through unresolved issues, process them, and begin to move forward.
I strive to provide a safe, supportive space for you to feel seen and heard. I believe that gaining insight and approaching oneself with compassion allows for healing. While exploring emotions and relational patterns, I integrate information about current neuro-research that helps make sense of different reactions and/or stuck patterns. Together, we will work through unresolved issues, process them, and begin to move forward.
(651) 419-5863 View (651) 419-5863
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Twin Cities Mental Health&Couples Faten Khoury
Marriage & Family Therapist, Post, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Lake Elmo, MN 55042
My approach at Twin Cities Mental Health and Couples Center is based on a collaborative, integrative, relational and specialized process tailored to your needs, it can help getting you and your family on track to leading a happier, more fulfilling and vital life.
For support in managing difficulties in your personal & professional lives caused by unresolved traumas or conflict, therapy can help. I work with individuals, couples, & families to help collaboratively tackle the challenges they are facing, through creating a new insight & forming an action, solution plan. Additionally, I practice EMDR therapy, AEDP, Brainspotting and Neurofeedback and find it powerful in healing a range of psychological concerns including depression, anxiety, shame and trauma and areas where clients experience "being stuck". My practice is based on years of well-established evidence-based effective treatments.
My approach at Twin Cities Mental Health and Couples Center is based on a collaborative, integrative, relational and specialized process tailored to your needs, it can help getting you and your family on track to leading a happier, more fulfilling and vital life.
For support in managing difficulties in your personal & professional lives caused by unresolved traumas or conflict, therapy can help. I work with individuals, couples, & families to help collaboratively tackle the challenges they are facing, through creating a new insight & forming an action, solution plan. Additionally, I practice EMDR therapy, AEDP, Brainspotting and Neurofeedback and find it powerful in healing a range of psychological concerns including depression, anxiety, shame and trauma and areas where clients experience "being stuck". My practice is based on years of well-established evidence-based effective treatments.
(651) 760-5407 View (651) 760-5407
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Sarah McCauley
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Lake Elmo, MN 55042
I am passionate about working with families, couples, and individuals who are managing both physical and mental health conditions or couples/families going through various life transitions, and relational stress. We don't exist in isolation, especially when on the long journey of chronic health care. I work within an integrated and collaborative care model, viewing the problem from a holistic standpoint and alongside other members of the care team in order to best serve all areas of the client's life. What does this chapter of life look like? What is possible?
I am passionate about working with families, couples, and individuals who are managing both physical and mental health conditions or couples/families going through various life transitions, and relational stress. We don't exist in isolation, especially when on the long journey of chronic health care. I work within an integrated and collaborative care model, viewing the problem from a holistic standpoint and alongside other members of the care team in order to best serve all areas of the client's life. What does this chapter of life look like? What is possible?
(612) 712-5625 View (612) 712-5625
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Laura Koletar
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LGSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
South Saint Paul, MN 55075  (Online Only)
My focus in therapy is to build a trusting relationship which inspires self-discovery and a greater capacity for change. I tend to use a relational style with curiosity, humor, and compassion to support people in understanding and coping with mental health symptoms, learning better communication skills in relationships, and exploring identity development and life transitions. I work with adolescents, adults, and couples, and particularly enjoy working with those seeking support for anxiety, relationship issues, parenting, and identity development, including LGBTQ+ identities, as a queer person myself.
My focus in therapy is to build a trusting relationship which inspires self-discovery and a greater capacity for change. I tend to use a relational style with curiosity, humor, and compassion to support people in understanding and coping with mental health symptoms, learning better communication skills in relationships, and exploring identity development and life transitions. I work with adolescents, adults, and couples, and particularly enjoy working with those seeking support for anxiety, relationship issues, parenting, and identity development, including LGBTQ+ identities, as a queer person myself.
(763) 878-8736 View (763) 878-8736
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Alexandria Ryanne Robison
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Eagan, MN 55122
I work specifically through a relational lens, ensuring that my clients feel safe and comfortable before diving into the issues.
I have been working to build my caseload in the areas of grief, depression, anxiety, and trauma. I work well with clients that struggle with identifying purpose and goals, and need help with direction. It is important to me to engage with my clients in an empathetic, kind, and gentle way.
I work specifically through a relational lens, ensuring that my clients feel safe and comfortable before diving into the issues.
I have been working to build my caseload in the areas of grief, depression, anxiety, and trauma. I work well with clients that struggle with identifying purpose and goals, and need help with direction. It is important to me to engage with my clients in an empathetic, kind, and gentle way.
(952) 900-4184 View (952) 900-4184
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Colleen Imholte
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Eagan, MN 55122
My approach is informed by the Gottman Method, Internal Family Systems, and Relational-Cultural Theory.
Relationships have the potential to be great sources of meaning and connection, and yet, sometimes they can be confusing and stressful. I work to support couples and individuals who are caught in cycles of high conflict in their relationships. Together we can name, process, and explore things that may keep you feeling stuck, like systemic barriers, abuse, traumatic experiences, relationship patterns, and self-limiting beliefs. I strive to provide a respectful space for curiosity and expression to help clients strengthen bonds and gain clarity around their relationship norms and expectations.
My approach is informed by the Gottman Method, Internal Family Systems, and Relational-Cultural Theory.
Relationships have the potential to be great sources of meaning and connection, and yet, sometimes they can be confusing and stressful. I work to support couples and individuals who are caught in cycles of high conflict in their relationships. Together we can name, process, and explore things that may keep you feeling stuck, like systemic barriers, abuse, traumatic experiences, relationship patterns, and self-limiting beliefs. I strive to provide a respectful space for curiosity and expression to help clients strengthen bonds and gain clarity around their relationship norms and expectations.
(651) 342-8261 View (651) 342-8261
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Eric F. Boone
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Saint Paul, MN 55119
Psychotherapy is something that happens between people...you and me. It is a process that I expertly and sensitively guide, but it is something that we experience together. Relationships, past and present, may be a source of pain, frustration, or fear...but they are also the key to unlocking your full potential. Together, we will work to alleviate your most pressing problems as well as to develop a fuller understanding of the deeper, underlying issues that keep you stuck in emotional and relational patterns that limit your capacity to more fully give and receive love.
Psychotherapy is something that happens between people...you and me. It is a process that I expertly and sensitively guide, but it is something that we experience together. Relationships, past and present, may be a source of pain, frustration, or fear...but they are also the key to unlocking your full potential. Together, we will work to alleviate your most pressing problems as well as to develop a fuller understanding of the deeper, underlying issues that keep you stuck in emotional and relational patterns that limit your capacity to more fully give and receive love.
(612) 454-9798 View (612) 454-9798
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Susan Balto
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, LMSW, MPH
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Saint Paul, MN 55102
I specialize in navigating depression, stressors, relational anxiety (familial, romantic, platonic), feelings of distress related to your career, navigating the challenges presented in infertility, pregnancy, and postpartum, and familial challenges or estrangement within your family of origin.
Providing psychotherapy in both Minnesota and Michigan. Your reasoning for seeking therapy is specific and unique. In my practice, we begin by getting to know each other to develop a relationship and build trust. We move at the pace most comfortable for you. Together, we will find new ways to listen deeply to your roots and you may have outgrown. I believe that therapy is a learned skill that we will refine together to come up with a course of therapy that suits your personal values, preferences, and needs. Many people have out-of-network insurance benefits to cover my services and I can walk you through it!
I specialize in navigating depression, stressors, relational anxiety (familial, romantic, platonic), feelings of distress related to your career, navigating the challenges presented in infertility, pregnancy, and postpartum, and familial challenges or estrangement within your family of origin.
Providing psychotherapy in both Minnesota and Michigan. Your reasoning for seeking therapy is specific and unique. In my practice, we begin by getting to know each other to develop a relationship and build trust. We move at the pace most comfortable for you. Together, we will find new ways to listen deeply to your roots and you may have outgrown. I believe that therapy is a learned skill that we will refine together to come up with a course of therapy that suits your personal values, preferences, and needs. Many people have out-of-network insurance benefits to cover my services and I can walk you through it!
(651) 360-2031 View (651) 360-2031
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Michelle Pahl
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Eagan, MN 55123  (Online Only)
Immediate openings available! Hello, my name is Michelle, and I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. In my practice, I utilize a solution-focused, person-centered, and relational model of therapy. I focus on helping clients identify their goals and develop strategies to achieve them. I aim to create a collaborative and non-judgmental space where clients can feel safe, heard, and validated. I believe that each individual has the capacity to find their voice and make positive changes in their lives. I believe in cultivating the mind-body connection for healing and empowering relationships with self and others.
Immediate openings available! Hello, my name is Michelle, and I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. In my practice, I utilize a solution-focused, person-centered, and relational model of therapy. I focus on helping clients identify their goals and develop strategies to achieve them. I aim to create a collaborative and non-judgmental space where clients can feel safe, heard, and validated. I believe that each individual has the capacity to find their voice and make positive changes in their lives. I believe in cultivating the mind-body connection for healing and empowering relationships with self and others.
(952) 800-7262 View (952) 800-7262
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Sean Myhre
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MHP
Verified Verified
Eagan, MN 55122
I'm here to support clients tackle mental health challenges like anxiety and depression stemming from past experiences or current pressures. They seek a safe, supportive space for self-exploration and empowerment. Goals typically revolve around self-discovery, improved relationships, and resilience. My goal is to tailor therapy to each client's needs using modalities like Adlerian, Relational, and CBT, fostering self-awareness and providing practical tools for navigating life's complexities.
I'm here to support clients tackle mental health challenges like anxiety and depression stemming from past experiences or current pressures. They seek a safe, supportive space for self-exploration and empowerment. Goals typically revolve around self-discovery, improved relationships, and resilience. My goal is to tailor therapy to each client's needs using modalities like Adlerian, Relational, and CBT, fostering self-awareness and providing practical tools for navigating life's complexities.
(952) 592-7551 View (952) 592-7551
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Sheila Lee Salo-Seifert
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LAMFT, MA
Verified Verified
Eagan, MN 55121
Waitlist for new clients
I am Prepare & Enrich certified as a therapist and a trainer for other therapist who wish to become certified and focus on relational strengths.
My formal education and clinical training happened later in life. But my experience in youth and individual counseling began over 12 years ago. My position as a mother, grandmother and wife gives me a perspective of over 32 years of life experience and empathy. My natural inclination to simply embrace, enjoy, and accept people without judgment, has prepared and enabled me to open of avenues of connection with a diverse client base. I believe that every client has the skill to heal and just needs some guidance and support. I am experienced in working with Individuals, Family, Couples and teens.
I am Prepare & Enrich certified as a therapist and a trainer for other therapist who wish to become certified and focus on relational strengths.
My formal education and clinical training happened later in life. But my experience in youth and individual counseling began over 12 years ago. My position as a mother, grandmother and wife gives me a perspective of over 32 years of life experience and empathy. My natural inclination to simply embrace, enjoy, and accept people without judgment, has prepared and enabled me to open of avenues of connection with a diverse client base. I believe that every client has the skill to heal and just needs some guidance and support. I am experienced in working with Individuals, Family, Couples and teens.
(952) 209-9556 View (952) 209-9556
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ANEW Health and Wellness Clinic
Counselor, MA, LPCC, LADC
Verified Verified
Saint Paul, MN 55106
I'm trained in Accelerated Resolution Therapy as well as utilize dialectical behavior therapy, relational-cultural therapy, and interpersonal effectiveness in my therapeutic approach.
“We believe that women can start their lives anew!” Our team of professionals have extensive knowledge in providing trauma-responsive and chemical health outpatient individual and group therapy. ANEW Chemical Health Services is proud to be serving women, children and their families! Although we specialize in serving women and children, we'd love to help any individual looking for help. Our brand new, inviting and calming, beautiful space is a great place to start ANEW!
I'm trained in Accelerated Resolution Therapy as well as utilize dialectical behavior therapy, relational-cultural therapy, and interpersonal effectiveness in my therapeutic approach.
“We believe that women can start their lives anew!” Our team of professionals have extensive knowledge in providing trauma-responsive and chemical health outpatient individual and group therapy. ANEW Chemical Health Services is proud to be serving women, children and their families! Although we specialize in serving women and children, we'd love to help any individual looking for help. Our brand new, inviting and calming, beautiful space is a great place to start ANEW!
(651) 401-6185 View (651) 401-6185
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Briana Bauleke
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Eagan, MN 55122
I take a systemic, relational, and emotional approach when working with you to help you deepen connections with family, friends, and with yourself to ease some of your pain.
Do you feel stuck in the same pattern of conflict and wish for better communication with the important people in your life? Do you want to deepen connection with yourself and others? Do you need to find ways to set boundaries with those around you? A supportive, collaborative, and safe therapeutic relationship can help you work through all of the above, and more.
I take a systemic, relational, and emotional approach when working with you to help you deepen connections with family, friends, and with yourself to ease some of your pain.
Do you feel stuck in the same pattern of conflict and wish for better communication with the important people in your life? Do you want to deepen connection with yourself and others? Do you need to find ways to set boundaries with those around you? A supportive, collaborative, and safe therapeutic relationship can help you work through all of the above, and more.
(651) 564-8021 View (651) 564-8021

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Relational Therapists

How does relational therapy work?

Relational therapy was developed by psychologist Jean Miller, whose ideas stressed that having strong connections with others encourages better health and well-being when compared with a lonely existence. Conversely, poor interpersonal relationships do not foster growth and learning. Relational therapy also encourages trust in others and patience with others, along with better communication and less conflict.

Is relational therapy evidence-based?

Relational therapy is not well-studied, and it may not be as effective in treating certain mental health conditions when compared with evidence-based treatments like cognitive behavioral or acceptance and commitment therapy. However, relational therapy uses techniques found in cognitive behavioral therapy as well as psychodynamic therapy, which are both well-studied with empirical research.

How long are people typically in relational therapy?

Clients may see improvement after a few weeks or months of therapy. Like cognitive behavioral therapy, relational therapy can reduce symptoms within 10 to 20 weeks, at 45 to 50 minutes once a week. But like any type of therapy, improvement depends on the person and the severity of the problem.

Does relational therapy work?

While no therapy type will work for everyone, some evidence suggests that this therapy can be effective. Relational therapy can help a person manage problematic relationships as well as the mental health conditions that accompany difficult relationships like depression or anxiety. This therapy type may offer benefits that are hard to measure but can be just as valuable—including feelings of higher self-worth or healthier connections with others.