Relationship Issues Therapists in Oakdale, MN
One of the most important relationships you can work on is the relationship you have with yourself. Can you envision a life where you give yourself more grace, are more fulfilled in your relationships, and that aligns more closely with your deepest values? Are you ready to recognize and overcome the thoughts, patterns, and relationships that no longer serve you? I enjoy helping clients navigate the complexities of work, life, and relationship issues and deconstructing the barriers that are holding them back from achieving their deepest dreams and goals.
One of the most important relationships you can work on is the relationship you have with yourself. Can you envision a life where you give yourself more grace, are more fulfilled in your relationships, and that aligns more closely with your deepest values? Are you ready to recognize and overcome the thoughts, patterns, and relationships that no longer serve you? I enjoy helping clients navigate the complexities of work, life, and relationship issues and deconstructing the barriers that are holding them back from achieving their deepest dreams and goals.
I welcome the opportunity to partner with my clients and families to process those experiences within a safe relationship so they can get moving with the beautiful life that awaits them.
I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist and enjoy working with families, couples, individuals, children, teens, and adults across the lifespan. I'm dedicated to helping my clients and families find, develop, and care for the hidden, underdeveloped, and wounded parts of themselves so they can live authentic lives rather than existing in the shadows. We discover ways to bring their lives into alignment with who they really are and strengthen their most meaningful relationships. I develop trusting relationships with my clients and seek to understand and respect all people within their family, community, and culture contexts.
I welcome the opportunity to partner with my clients and families to process those experiences within a safe relationship so they can get moving with the beautiful life that awaits them.
I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist and enjoy working with families, couples, individuals, children, teens, and adults across the lifespan. I'm dedicated to helping my clients and families find, develop, and care for the hidden, underdeveloped, and wounded parts of themselves so they can live authentic lives rather than existing in the shadows. We discover ways to bring their lives into alignment with who they really are and strengthen their most meaningful relationships. I develop trusting relationships with my clients and seek to understand and respect all people within their family, community, and culture contexts.
We are a team; the therapeutic relationship will be one of collaboration and respect.
I work with adults struggling with a variety of stressors and experiences, including anxiety, depression, trauma, life transitions, grief and loss, OCD, uncomfortable or unfamiliar emotions, and relationship difficulties. I am also an LGBTQIA+ identifying and affirming therapist, and love working with members of our community. Whether you're brand new to therapy or have done this before, I'm ready to meet you where you're at and be your teammate!
We are a team; the therapeutic relationship will be one of collaboration and respect.
I work with adults struggling with a variety of stressors and experiences, including anxiety, depression, trauma, life transitions, grief and loss, OCD, uncomfortable or unfamiliar emotions, and relationship difficulties. I am also an LGBTQIA+ identifying and affirming therapist, and love working with members of our community. Whether you're brand new to therapy or have done this before, I'm ready to meet you where you're at and be your teammate!
Stephanie Kalliman
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oakdale, MN 55128
I am a human first and a therapist second, which means I will meet you where you are at and I will not judge you for the things you might be judging yourself for. I'm not afraid to use humor and have a passion for helping build stronger connections in your relationships, including the relationship you have with yourself. I offer an encouraging, warm, and collaborative approach to healing and welcome couples, families, adolescents, and adults.
I am a human first and a therapist second, which means I will meet you where you are at and I will not judge you for the things you might be judging yourself for. I'm not afraid to use humor and have a passion for helping build stronger connections in your relationships, including the relationship you have with yourself. I offer an encouraging, warm, and collaborative approach to healing and welcome couples, families, adolescents, and adults.
My current work uses DBT/CBT-informed, person-centered approaches to help manage depression, anxiety, challenges faced by immigrants/refugees, life transition/adjustment issues, relationship conflict, stress management and relaxation, trauma and loss.
I love working with individuals who are going through life transitions and enjoy being an anchor that people can hold onto when the waves of change pull a little harder. Whether you are making meaningful career decisions or navigating unfamiliar systems as you enter new cultural experiences, I would love to assist in the process and support you as you find your way.
My current work uses DBT/CBT-informed, person-centered approaches to help manage depression, anxiety, challenges faced by immigrants/refugees, life transition/adjustment issues, relationship conflict, stress management and relaxation, trauma and loss.
I love working with individuals who are going through life transitions and enjoy being an anchor that people can hold onto when the waves of change pull a little harder. Whether you are making meaningful career decisions or navigating unfamiliar systems as you enter new cultural experiences, I would love to assist in the process and support you as you find your way.
Jacqueline Valek
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Oakdale, MN 55128
Jacqueline provides individual and family psychotherapy from a compassionate, strength-based, collaborative approach that emphasizes a strong therapeutic relationship honoring your core values and life experiences.
Now accepting -NEW- clients! Jacqueline has extensive experience supporting individuals and families in repairing relationships, managing big emotions, reducing anxiety, coping with stress, improving self care and overall wellness, building coping skills, and feeling better! Jacqueline supports clients through emotional, social, and academic/workplace concerns. Specifically, she helps clients navigate anxiety, panic, depression, new mental health or medical diagnoses, identity, grief/loss, family change, life transitions, parenting, behaviors/dysregulation, attention/focus concerns, and skill building.
Jacqueline provides individual and family psychotherapy from a compassionate, strength-based, collaborative approach that emphasizes a strong therapeutic relationship honoring your core values and life experiences.
Now accepting -NEW- clients! Jacqueline has extensive experience supporting individuals and families in repairing relationships, managing big emotions, reducing anxiety, coping with stress, improving self care and overall wellness, building coping skills, and feeling better! Jacqueline supports clients through emotional, social, and academic/workplace concerns. Specifically, she helps clients navigate anxiety, panic, depression, new mental health or medical diagnoses, identity, grief/loss, family change, life transitions, parenting, behaviors/dysregulation, attention/focus concerns, and skill building.
Together, we will discover and attend to the internal wounds that are creating barriers, as well as addressing the behaviors, thoughts, health issues, relationship patterns, and lifestyle choices that are getting in the way of your happiness and well being.
It takes great courage to live an authentic life. Vitality is not something that just happens. It is something we each create on our own, through the deliberate expression of our deepest desires, beliefs, values, and personal expressions. Every time you choose your own direction, you become the owner of your existence. Only then are you truly alive. Unfortunately, sometimes, underlying issues with attachment, trauma, family of origin, and low self-esteem keep people from living fulfilling, authentic, and happy lives.
Together, we will discover and attend to the internal wounds that are creating barriers, as well as addressing the behaviors, thoughts, health issues, relationship patterns, and lifestyle choices that are getting in the way of your happiness and well being.
It takes great courage to live an authentic life. Vitality is not something that just happens. It is something we each create on our own, through the deliberate expression of our deepest desires, beliefs, values, and personal expressions. Every time you choose your own direction, you become the owner of your existence. Only then are you truly alive. Unfortunately, sometimes, underlying issues with attachment, trauma, family of origin, and low self-esteem keep people from living fulfilling, authentic, and happy lives.
Together, we will collaborate in a therapeutic relationship that is built on empathy, curiosity, trust, honesty, and respect.
Walking through life in an increasingly challenging world can leave us feeling out of touch with ourselves, bending to who we think we “should” be, and unsure of who we want to be. I work with clients to help them embrace their natural curiosity, explore the patterns/behaviors that feel incongruous with their values, challenge the negative self-talk that holds them back, and help them to engage more fully in the joy that life can hold. I aim to help my clients develop a deeper and more compassionate relationship with themselves, to have a more fulfilling relationships and live in authentic alignment with their core personal values.
Together, we will collaborate in a therapeutic relationship that is built on empathy, curiosity, trust, honesty, and respect.
Walking through life in an increasingly challenging world can leave us feeling out of touch with ourselves, bending to who we think we “should” be, and unsure of who we want to be. I work with clients to help them embrace their natural curiosity, explore the patterns/behaviors that feel incongruous with their values, challenge the negative self-talk that holds them back, and help them to engage more fully in the joy that life can hold. I aim to help my clients develop a deeper and more compassionate relationship with themselves, to have a more fulfilling relationships and live in authentic alignment with their core personal values.
Mallaigh McGinley
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oakdale, MN 55128
Waitlist for new clients
As a queer and trans person who lives beyond binaries, I look for creative approaches to my clients' concerns. I work with adults, teens, and children from a strengths-based and systems-focused lens. I offer both individual and family/ relationship counseling. I specialize in interpersonal communication, emotional processing (grief, anxiety, etc.), neurodivergence (Autism, ADHD, BPD, etc.), trauma/oppression, self/body connection, and identity (gender, sexuality, race, etc.).
As a queer and trans person who lives beyond binaries, I look for creative approaches to my clients' concerns. I work with adults, teens, and children from a strengths-based and systems-focused lens. I offer both individual and family/ relationship counseling. I specialize in interpersonal communication, emotional processing (grief, anxiety, etc.), neurodivergence (Autism, ADHD, BPD, etc.), trauma/oppression, self/body connection, and identity (gender, sexuality, race, etc.).
I aim to connect with you in an authentic way so you feel comfortable entering into a relationship where you can trust me.
My ideal clients are adolescents, young adults, adults and couples, who are dealing with issues associated with shifting life roles, exploration of identity, anxiety and/or depression, difficulty with relationships, caregiver stress, grief and loss, seeking more meaning and purpose to their life, and/or seeking healing from inner wounds and trauma. I enjoy working with individuals seeking creative ways to explore what is holding them back from leading a fuller life. Through a combination of dialogue, music, and art, we will collaboratively uncover new areas of awareness that lead to positive shifts in their life.
I aim to connect with you in an authentic way so you feel comfortable entering into a relationship where you can trust me.
My ideal clients are adolescents, young adults, adults and couples, who are dealing with issues associated with shifting life roles, exploration of identity, anxiety and/or depression, difficulty with relationships, caregiver stress, grief and loss, seeking more meaning and purpose to their life, and/or seeking healing from inner wounds and trauma. I enjoy working with individuals seeking creative ways to explore what is holding them back from leading a fuller life. Through a combination of dialogue, music, and art, we will collaboratively uncover new areas of awareness that lead to positive shifts in their life.
It is important to me to create a partnering relationship with parents/caregivers.
I am Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who specializes in working with children, families, teens, and young adults. I have experience working in a variety of settings that includes day treatment, in home, school based and outpatient clinics. I specialize in working with children as young as 4 through the age of 20. I have a lot of passion helping young children and their families process through, behavioral concerns, attachment issues, emotional disturbances, school concerns, parent child dynamics, divorce, self-worth, suicidal ideations, and trauma.
It is important to me to create a partnering relationship with parents/caregivers.
I am Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who specializes in working with children, families, teens, and young adults. I have experience working in a variety of settings that includes day treatment, in home, school based and outpatient clinics. I specialize in working with children as young as 4 through the age of 20. I have a lot of passion helping young children and their families process through, behavioral concerns, attachment issues, emotional disturbances, school concerns, parent child dynamics, divorce, self-worth, suicidal ideations, and trauma.
Ashley Tokuda
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MS, LPCC, LPC
Verified Verified
Oakdale, MN 55128
I specialize in working with the LGBT+ community, people who identify as neurodivergent, those with trauma and relationship issues (queer, ENM, Kink etc. I don't work with CIS, straight couples). I have a passion for supporting trans identifying clients as they advocate for their needs within the medical system, supporting clients navigating open relationships, and supporting parents who are navigating the needs of their neurodivergent children. I practice from a sex positive, health at every size, harm reduction lens. I ask my clients to show up as their authentic self and my clients can expect the same from me.
I specialize in working with the LGBT+ community, people who identify as neurodivergent, those with trauma and relationship issues (queer, ENM, Kink etc. I don't work with CIS, straight couples). I have a passion for supporting trans identifying clients as they advocate for their needs within the medical system, supporting clients navigating open relationships, and supporting parents who are navigating the needs of their neurodivergent children. I practice from a sex positive, health at every size, harm reduction lens. I ask my clients to show up as their authentic self and my clients can expect the same from me.
I specialize in treating anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship concerns.
Do you struggle connecting to the present moment, or connecting with friends, family or a partner? I understand that stressful situations can get in the way of life goals, transitions and showing up in relationships the way we want to show up. My approach to therapy is offering a safe space to explore what is getting in the way, make a plan and then unpack the barriers to getting unstuck. My approach is authentic with a touch a humor. Topics people often discuss are concerns about relationships, attachment, past trauma, career development, development of gender/sexuality or concerns related to oppression in the community.
I specialize in treating anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship concerns.
Do you struggle connecting to the present moment, or connecting with friends, family or a partner? I understand that stressful situations can get in the way of life goals, transitions and showing up in relationships the way we want to show up. My approach to therapy is offering a safe space to explore what is getting in the way, make a plan and then unpack the barriers to getting unstuck. My approach is authentic with a touch a humor. Topics people often discuss are concerns about relationships, attachment, past trauma, career development, development of gender/sexuality or concerns related to oppression in the community.
I specialize in working with young children, adults, and parents struggling with depression, anxiety, trauma, self-esteem, healthy eating, life transitions, emotional regulation, and parenting concerns. My focus is to first build trust and relationship, establishing a safe space where clients can feel comfortable being vulnerable and voicing experiences. Sessions with me feel like a conversation where you are seen and heard, tailoring the approach to best fit your needs. Client’s can expect lots of humor, transparency, honesty, and compassion.
I specialize in working with young children, adults, and parents struggling with depression, anxiety, trauma, self-esteem, healthy eating, life transitions, emotional regulation, and parenting concerns. My focus is to first build trust and relationship, establishing a safe space where clients can feel comfortable being vulnerable and voicing experiences. Sessions with me feel like a conversation where you are seen and heard, tailoring the approach to best fit your needs. Client’s can expect lots of humor, transparency, honesty, and compassion.
Kevin A Johnson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LADC, CTP
Verified Verified
Oakdale, MN 55128
My specialties include addiction counseling, relationship issues, trauma recovery, anxiety, and depression.
As a dually licensed mental health professional in the state of MN, I bring a unique blend of expertise to my practice. Holding licenses as an addiction specialist and a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), I am dedicated to providing compassionate and effective therapy to individuals, couples, and families.
My specialties include addiction counseling, relationship issues, trauma recovery, anxiety, and depression.
As a dually licensed mental health professional in the state of MN, I bring a unique blend of expertise to my practice. Holding licenses as an addiction specialist and a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), I am dedicated to providing compassionate and effective therapy to individuals, couples, and families.
My ideal client is a woman who feels she has the world on her shoulders. That Woman Walking Alone. I have helped over a couple hundred women with their worries and fears, insecurities, relationship concerns, breaking free of codependency and abuse, recovery from trauma and addiction, and the infliction of self-injury. I find that no issue is too small or too large to handle. I'm here so you don't have to walk your path alone. I specialize in Trauma-informed care, PTSD Recovery, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Women Empowerment and Feminist Approach, Healthy Relationships Skills and codependency prevention.
My ideal client is a woman who feels she has the world on her shoulders. That Woman Walking Alone. I have helped over a couple hundred women with their worries and fears, insecurities, relationship concerns, breaking free of codependency and abuse, recovery from trauma and addiction, and the infliction of self-injury. I find that no issue is too small or too large to handle. I'm here so you don't have to walk your path alone. I specialize in Trauma-informed care, PTSD Recovery, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Women Empowerment and Feminist Approach, Healthy Relationships Skills and codependency prevention.
As a Mental Health Practitioner with a Masters of Arts in Mental Health Counseling, I enjoy working with teenagers, adults and seniors. We work together to progress through trauma, grief, depression, OCD, and anxiety. It is important to me to build a relationship with trust in order to provide a safe place for having those challenging conversations around life experiences. I approach my sessions with a gentle, compassionate and caring method of communication with the attempt to make therapy approachable and secure enough to work through treatment goals.
As a Mental Health Practitioner with a Masters of Arts in Mental Health Counseling, I enjoy working with teenagers, adults and seniors. We work together to progress through trauma, grief, depression, OCD, and anxiety. It is important to me to build a relationship with trust in order to provide a safe place for having those challenging conversations around life experiences. I approach my sessions with a gentle, compassionate and caring method of communication with the attempt to make therapy approachable and secure enough to work through treatment goals.
Do you ever ask yourself, with a little curiosity, "What the hell is my life?" as you are pondering what you want and how to get there? Loneliness sucks. Connection is difficult. Unhealthy coping tools feel easier to use than the good ones. Together, we will work on changing the narrative, coping with the intense pressure and stress you are facing, focusing on your strengths, and allowing space to connect to compassion for yourself. I work with people who struggle with mental health and addiction, relationship issues, self-esteem, isolation and a general disconnect from life. What is creating a block for you? Let's get to work.
Do you ever ask yourself, with a little curiosity, "What the hell is my life?" as you are pondering what you want and how to get there? Loneliness sucks. Connection is difficult. Unhealthy coping tools feel easier to use than the good ones. Together, we will work on changing the narrative, coping with the intense pressure and stress you are facing, focusing on your strengths, and allowing space to connect to compassion for yourself. I work with people who struggle with mental health and addiction, relationship issues, self-esteem, isolation and a general disconnect from life. What is creating a block for you? Let's get to work.
I have worked with adults struggling with depression, anxiety, relationship concerns, and grief & loss.
I provide a supportive and encouraging environment where you are free to express frustrations, concerns, and fears you may be experiencing. I firmly believe that people should be accepted and supported for who they are regardless of what they may currently be experiencing.Through such encouragement clients have felt able to face their challenges head on and succeed. I view the therapeutic process as highly collaborative between client and therapist. I often encourage clients to set goals that we can work on together. After all, this journey is about you and I am along to guide you on your way.
I have worked with adults struggling with depression, anxiety, relationship concerns, and grief & loss.
I provide a supportive and encouraging environment where you are free to express frustrations, concerns, and fears you may be experiencing. I firmly believe that people should be accepted and supported for who they are regardless of what they may currently be experiencing.Through such encouragement clients have felt able to face their challenges head on and succeed. I view the therapeutic process as highly collaborative between client and therapist. I often encourage clients to set goals that we can work on together. After all, this journey is about you and I am along to guide you on your way.
Entering into (or even the thought of entering into) a therapeutic process takes a lot of ambition and courage. The therapy process is not an easy one, but it can be a highly successful and rewarding one when it lessens your suffering, reduces troubling symptoms, and increases your ability to cope with the stressors of life. These are all outcomes that are best achieved within a nurturing and supportive relationship with a helping professional. It would be my honor to support you in your quest towards health.
Entering into (or even the thought of entering into) a therapeutic process takes a lot of ambition and courage. The therapy process is not an easy one, but it can be a highly successful and rewarding one when it lessens your suffering, reduces troubling symptoms, and increases your ability to cope with the stressors of life. These are all outcomes that are best achieved within a nurturing and supportive relationship with a helping professional. It would be my honor to support you in your quest towards health.
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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.