Family Therapy in Monticello, MN

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Jacob Lukkarila
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
Monticello, MN 55362
I understand that these challenges don't exist in isolation but are deeply intertwined with one's family dynamics, social relationships, and broader life context.
Jacob treats individuals, couples and families. He has experience working with a variety of age ranges and accepts client 6+ years old, adolescents and adults. Jacob uses a systemic approach to treat a variety of different needs. He is passionate about walking alongside his clients in their highs and lows and encouraging them to go to using growing. He understands that every individual is different and has different goals they are trying to achieve! He believes that everyone can find peace and hope in the craziness of life.
I understand that these challenges don't exist in isolation but are deeply intertwined with one's family dynamics, social relationships, and broader life context.
Jacob treats individuals, couples and families. He has experience working with a variety of age ranges and accepts client 6+ years old, adolescents and adults. Jacob uses a systemic approach to treat a variety of different needs. He is passionate about walking alongside his clients in their highs and lows and encouraging them to go to using growing. He understands that every individual is different and has different goals they are trying to achieve! He believes that everyone can find peace and hope in the craziness of life.
(763) 294-9163 View (763) 294-9163
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Brett Nikula
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Monticello, MN 55362
Along with couples, I also help relationships between family members, and the relationship with yourself.
Healing hard relationships is both my passion and a privilege. No one taught you the skills you need to have a successful relationship, and it can be challenging to find support when it feels too personal to go to friends or family. Seeking professional help is the best option, and I am ready to help you heal the hurt you have experienced in your relationships. You know you need, and want more out of your relationship, and it's not too late. At Pivotal Approach Therapy, I have specialized training to help couples learn the crucial relationship and communication skills so their connection can bring happiness and last a lifetime.
Along with couples, I also help relationships between family members, and the relationship with yourself.
Healing hard relationships is both my passion and a privilege. No one taught you the skills you need to have a successful relationship, and it can be challenging to find support when it feels too personal to go to friends or family. Seeking professional help is the best option, and I am ready to help you heal the hurt you have experienced in your relationships. You know you need, and want more out of your relationship, and it's not too late. At Pivotal Approach Therapy, I have specialized training to help couples learn the crucial relationship and communication skills so their connection can bring happiness and last a lifetime.
(763) 324-9302 View (763) 324-9302
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Melissa Jennifer Sunnarborg
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Monticello, MN 55362
Melissa holds a MS degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from St.
Melissa treats children (6+), adolescents and adults within the contexts of their families and spouses. Melissa's experience includes successful work with couples therapy, parenting issues, blended families, mood disorders, child development, depression, anxiety, anger, self-esteem, grief and loss, PTSD – Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, abuse, and trauma.
Melissa holds a MS degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from St.
Melissa treats children (6+), adolescents and adults within the contexts of their families and spouses. Melissa's experience includes successful work with couples therapy, parenting issues, blended families, mood disorders, child development, depression, anxiety, anger, self-esteem, grief and loss, PTSD – Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, abuse, and trauma.
(763) 373-6893 View (763) 373-6893
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David Olmscheid
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Monticello, MN 55362
The Center for Family Counseling strives to help our clients in a respectful and trusting environment.
Where there is hurt, there is hope. This belief has fueled my passion for counseling over the last ten years. I work with my clients to empower them to resolve the stressors and hardships in their life. I also strive to help my clients achieve their goals. I have experience working through grief, depression, anxiety, anger issues, and conflict resolution with couples and individuals. I also have experience working with at-risk adolescent males and foster children.
The Center for Family Counseling strives to help our clients in a respectful and trusting environment.
Where there is hurt, there is hope. This belief has fueled my passion for counseling over the last ten years. I work with my clients to empower them to resolve the stressors and hardships in their life. I also strive to help my clients achieve their goals. I have experience working through grief, depression, anxiety, anger issues, and conflict resolution with couples and individuals. I also have experience working with at-risk adolescent males and foster children.
(844) 221-1191 View (844) 221-1191
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Mark R. Thelen
Psychologist, PsyD, LP, LMFT
Verified Verified
Monticello, MN 55362
I have spent the last 35 years working as a Family Therapist and 28 years as a doctoral level Psycholologist, being as well-prepared as possible to assess, treat, and walk along side my clients.
If you struggle with excessive anxiety, depression, anger, negative thoughts about yourself or others, it might time for a self tune-up and work on how you see yourself, view others and make the primary changes you want to make. There are many types of helpers out there, many good and wonderful people, but what I focus on is how you can change you and how you interact with others in the world. My focus is understanding your background and help you identify what you want to work on, change, accept, and/or do with your life. Hopefully, we can do this work in a timely and cost-efficient manner.
I have spent the last 35 years working as a Family Therapist and 28 years as a doctoral level Psycholologist, being as well-prepared as possible to assess, treat, and walk along side my clients.
If you struggle with excessive anxiety, depression, anger, negative thoughts about yourself or others, it might time for a self tune-up and work on how you see yourself, view others and make the primary changes you want to make. There are many types of helpers out there, many good and wonderful people, but what I focus on is how you can change you and how you interact with others in the world. My focus is understanding your background and help you identify what you want to work on, change, accept, and/or do with your life. Hopefully, we can do this work in a timely and cost-efficient manner.
(763) 370-0243 View (763) 370-0243
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Nick Flottmeier
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS
Verified Verified
Monticello, MN 55362
The Center for Family Counseling strives to help our clients in a respectful and trusting environment.
As a dedicated pre-licensed clinician, I am passionately committed to the field of mental health and relational well-being. I aim to help individuals and families navigate all of life's challenges including depression, anxiety, grief, and trauma. Throughout my career journey, I have actively engaged in clinical training and coursework which has helped me develop skills in assessment, diagnosis, and therapeutic intervention. Drawing from various theoretical frameworks, including family systems theory and cognitive-behavioral techniques, I tailor my approach to meet the unique needs of each client.
The Center for Family Counseling strives to help our clients in a respectful and trusting environment.
As a dedicated pre-licensed clinician, I am passionately committed to the field of mental health and relational well-being. I aim to help individuals and families navigate all of life's challenges including depression, anxiety, grief, and trauma. Throughout my career journey, I have actively engaged in clinical training and coursework which has helped me develop skills in assessment, diagnosis, and therapeutic intervention. Drawing from various theoretical frameworks, including family systems theory and cognitive-behavioral techniques, I tailor my approach to meet the unique needs of each client.
(763) 312-2762 View (763) 312-2762
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Gwen K Pedersen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Monticello, MN 55362
Internal Family Systems is a researched approach that allows the client to go inside and listen to their own feelings and needs, to find healing.
I have been a practicing therapist since 1998. I have a varied background of experiences over the last 2+ decades. My primary focus is to work with adults. My goal is to help clients find healing and build on the strengths that they already have with an approach that is best suited for them whether that be internal family systems, shame resilience, cognitive re-framing (with CBT), learning healthier relationship boundaries, emphasizing optimal lifestyle, and more. I am currently serving individual adult clients.
Internal Family Systems is a researched approach that allows the client to go inside and listen to their own feelings and needs, to find healing.
I have been a practicing therapist since 1998. I have a varied background of experiences over the last 2+ decades. My primary focus is to work with adults. My goal is to help clients find healing and build on the strengths that they already have with an approach that is best suited for them whether that be internal family systems, shame resilience, cognitive re-framing (with CBT), learning healthier relationship boundaries, emphasizing optimal lifestyle, and more. I am currently serving individual adult clients.
(320) 317-2022 View (320) 317-2022
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Deanne Shaw
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA LMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Monticello, MN 55362  (Online Only)
We live in a multi stress world and sometimes we need extra support. I provide couples, individual, and family therapy for adolescents and adults. I am a compassionate therapist who values the therapeutic connection. I am passionate about working with adolescence who have emotional/behavioral difficulties. I have years of experience assisting individuals, couples and families working through their life challenges. My experience includes (but is not limited to) mood disorders, trauma recovery, survivors of abuse, women's issues, parent-child conflict(s), marital issues, and transitional/adjustment issues.
We live in a multi stress world and sometimes we need extra support. I provide couples, individual, and family therapy for adolescents and adults. I am a compassionate therapist who values the therapeutic connection. I am passionate about working with adolescence who have emotional/behavioral difficulties. I have years of experience assisting individuals, couples and families working through their life challenges. My experience includes (but is not limited to) mood disorders, trauma recovery, survivors of abuse, women's issues, parent-child conflict(s), marital issues, and transitional/adjustment issues.
(612) 324-5154 View (612) 324-5154
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Northwinds Counseling Services, P.A.
LMFT, LPCC, LGSW
Verified Verified
Monticello, MN 55362
At Northwinds, we consider it a privilege to help our clients as they go through life-changing experiences. With integrity, compassion, and a deep devotion to the worth of each individual we see, we are here to help you make positive adjustments to the stressful life challenges you are facing. We offer individual, couples, and family counseling. Our primary model of treatment is Cognitive-Behavioral therapy, though we frequently draw from other treatment models as needed. LMFT: Kevin Smith, Amy Halverson, John Torkelson, and Terri Jorstad; LPCC: Jordan Leuthold, Michelle Rhea, Raven Winter & Rindie Eagle; LGSW: Allison Brockway
At Northwinds, we consider it a privilege to help our clients as they go through life-changing experiences. With integrity, compassion, and a deep devotion to the worth of each individual we see, we are here to help you make positive adjustments to the stressful life challenges you are facing. We offer individual, couples, and family counseling. Our primary model of treatment is Cognitive-Behavioral therapy, though we frequently draw from other treatment models as needed. LMFT: Kevin Smith, Amy Halverson, John Torkelson, and Terri Jorstad; LPCC: Jordan Leuthold, Michelle Rhea, Raven Winter & Rindie Eagle; LGSW: Allison Brockway
(763) 280-5780 View (763) 280-5780
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Michelle Clark
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Monticello, MN 55362
Are you wanting to live a more fulfilled life? Are you engaged in an unhealthy relationship or experiencing marital conflicts? Do you feel overwhelmed with depression, anxiety or suffer from PTSD? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then call me, Michelle Clark MA, LMFT, where help & healing begins. I am devoted to helping you live the life you have always wanted and committed to providing the highest quality care in a fun, safe, professional environment focusing on practical strategies to help you live the life you have always wanted but struggled to achieve.
Are you wanting to live a more fulfilled life? Are you engaged in an unhealthy relationship or experiencing marital conflicts? Do you feel overwhelmed with depression, anxiety or suffer from PTSD? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then call me, Michelle Clark MA, LMFT, where help & healing begins. I am devoted to helping you live the life you have always wanted and committed to providing the highest quality care in a fun, safe, professional environment focusing on practical strategies to help you live the life you have always wanted but struggled to achieve.
(763) 363-6238 View (763) 363-6238
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Barb Suick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Monticello, MN 55362
I enjoy working with individuals and couples seeking to build and sustain healthy relationships. I use a strengths-based approach that helps clients gather the resources within to work toward positive change. I believe we all need a little help now and then for life's curveballs and challenges and I am passionate about helping others feel empowered to better themselves and their quality of life. I am an EMDR trained therapist for work with trauma and pain. I work with the Veterans Resilience Project to treat veterans with PTSD. I have daytime openings for new in-person clients in Annandale, MN.
I enjoy working with individuals and couples seeking to build and sustain healthy relationships. I use a strengths-based approach that helps clients gather the resources within to work toward positive change. I believe we all need a little help now and then for life's curveballs and challenges and I am passionate about helping others feel empowered to better themselves and their quality of life. I am an EMDR trained therapist for work with trauma and pain. I work with the Veterans Resilience Project to treat veterans with PTSD. I have daytime openings for new in-person clients in Annandale, MN.
(320) 334-5111 View (320) 334-5111
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Kathleen Massmann
Counselor, LPCC, MS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Monticello, MN 55362
"A journey of a thousand miles begins with one step" Throughout the past ten years, I have been working with adolescents and adults in a variety of setting. I believe in the personal power that each individual has and their ability to make positive life changes Helping people find that power and clarity is my primary focus while working with each client.
"A journey of a thousand miles begins with one step" Throughout the past ten years, I have been working with adolescents and adults in a variety of setting. I believe in the personal power that each individual has and their ability to make positive life changes Helping people find that power and clarity is my primary focus while working with each client.
(763) 273-5847 View (763) 273-5847
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Ana Spence Alguire
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, EdS, MEd, LPCC, NCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Monticello, MN 55365
I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) and a national certified Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavior Therapist (CFCBT). I have sixteen years of experience working with adults, families, children, and teens on different issues. I am trained in to work with individuals facing struggles related to parenting skills, developmental and learning disabilities, trauma, abuse, grief, depression and anxiety. I am also a certified meditation instructor who uses mind, body and spirit techniques. If you are going through stormy moments and struggles that prevent you from living your fulfilling life, I am here to help you.
I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) and a national certified Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavior Therapist (CFCBT). I have sixteen years of experience working with adults, families, children, and teens on different issues. I am trained in to work with individuals facing struggles related to parenting skills, developmental and learning disabilities, trauma, abuse, grief, depression and anxiety. I am also a certified meditation instructor who uses mind, body and spirit techniques. If you are going through stormy moments and struggles that prevent you from living your fulfilling life, I am here to help you.
(320) 342-0897 View (320) 342-0897
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Dan Schmoyer
Counselor, MEd, MA, LSC, LPCC
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Monticello, MN 55362
*** We offer online/telehealth counseling sessions! If you are looking for someone who is compassionate yet honest enough to provide direction, advice, and guidance than give us a call. We also specialize in working with teenagers/young adults as they navigate life. Women's issues are an area of passion for some of our staff too. We base our counsel on a Christian worldview and have helped people from all walks of life find meaning, hope, and restoration through their struggle. Check out our website for more information and to watch a short video about our clinic.
*** We offer online/telehealth counseling sessions! If you are looking for someone who is compassionate yet honest enough to provide direction, advice, and guidance than give us a call. We also specialize in working with teenagers/young adults as they navigate life. Women's issues are an area of passion for some of our staff too. We base our counsel on a Christian worldview and have helped people from all walks of life find meaning, hope, and restoration through their struggle. Check out our website for more information and to watch a short video about our clinic.
(763) 280-7963 View (763) 280-7963
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Nicole Otis
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
Verified Verified
Monticello, MN 55362  (Online Only)
Are you struggling with sexual compulsivity, unwanted sexual behaviors or betrayal trauma? If you or your partner are struggling with these specific issues, let me guide you and your relationship towards healing and freedom. 
I am a trained (CSAT) Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and certified Brainspotting therapist. I am passionate about helping individuals and couples affected by sex and porn compulsivity, and betrayal trauma, including sexting, prostitution, emotional affairs, and physical affairs, as well as anxiety, depression, grief and loss, and life transitions.
Are you struggling with sexual compulsivity, unwanted sexual behaviors or betrayal trauma? If you or your partner are struggling with these specific issues, let me guide you and your relationship towards healing and freedom. 
I am a trained (CSAT) Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and certified Brainspotting therapist. I am passionate about helping individuals and couples affected by sex and porn compulsivity, and betrayal trauma, including sexting, prostitution, emotional affairs, and physical affairs, as well as anxiety, depression, grief and loss, and life transitions.
(320) 446-3615 View (320) 446-3615
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Johanna Schultz
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
Monticello, MN 55561
Waitlist for new clients
Hello! I have experience and enjoy working with individuals across the lifespan. I believe in the inherent value, purpose, and dignity of each person and that through therapy, individuals can develop or re-establish this believe about themselves. I am here to actively and non-judgmentally listen to your story and work collaboratively to build upon your internal strengths and reaching your goals. I desire to create a space that is safe and supportive where you feel comfortable expressing yourself, your concerns, and aspirations.
Hello! I have experience and enjoy working with individuals across the lifespan. I believe in the inherent value, purpose, and dignity of each person and that through therapy, individuals can develop or re-establish this believe about themselves. I am here to actively and non-judgmentally listen to your story and work collaboratively to build upon your internal strengths and reaching your goals. I desire to create a space that is safe and supportive where you feel comfortable expressing yourself, your concerns, and aspirations.
(320) 322-6799 View (320) 322-6799
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Sevilla Meyers
Pre-Licensed Professional, LADC
Verified Verified
Monticello, MN 55362  (Online Only)
I feel well-equipped and prepared to help you work through issues that may be getting in the way of you living your best life. It is a big step to reach out to a therapist and to begin talking about and working through issues that may seem overwhelming. I can help you identify goals for yourself and overcome obstacles. Together, we can develop a positive course moving forward to help you meet your purpose and positive vision for your life. I provide a safe environment with grounding and centering techniques, to explore emotions that may be difficult to talk about.
I feel well-equipped and prepared to help you work through issues that may be getting in the way of you living your best life. It is a big step to reach out to a therapist and to begin talking about and working through issues that may seem overwhelming. I can help you identify goals for yourself and overcome obstacles. Together, we can develop a positive course moving forward to help you meet your purpose and positive vision for your life. I provide a safe environment with grounding and centering techniques, to explore emotions that may be difficult to talk about.
(763) 299-8289 View (763) 299-8289
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Kelly Hildre
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Monticello, MN 55362
Not accepting new clients
I offer diagnostic assessments, individual and family therapy, in person and telehealth.
I come into this work with a dozen years of experience working in mental health and social services in Central MN with people of all ages. Though my expertise is in Trauma and Neuropsychology, I'm here to support my client's through whatever reality they're facing. A self proclaimed "outside the box" therapist, I apply a variety of therapeutic approaches to meet my client's unique needs. I genuinely believe that with the right information and support, anyone can change their life - so my style often reflects a teaching style where I can translate centuries of data into practical tools that you can use to create the change you seek.
I offer diagnostic assessments, individual and family therapy, in person and telehealth.
I come into this work with a dozen years of experience working in mental health and social services in Central MN with people of all ages. Though my expertise is in Trauma and Neuropsychology, I'm here to support my client's through whatever reality they're facing. A self proclaimed "outside the box" therapist, I apply a variety of therapeutic approaches to meet my client's unique needs. I genuinely believe that with the right information and support, anyone can change their life - so my style often reflects a teaching style where I can translate centuries of data into practical tools that you can use to create the change you seek.
(763) 343-7317 View (763) 343-7317
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Vincent Miles
Psychologist, PsyD, LP
Verified Verified
Monticello, MN 55362
Not accepting new clients
I'm a clinical psychologist operating a private practice in St. Cloud and serving Central Minnesota. My training is in clinical health psychology and along with helping clients with various mental health needs, I also have a specific interest in helping individuals with medical and health-related conditions. I provide a full range of psychological services, from general counseling and therapy to testing and bariatric surgery evaluations.
I'm a clinical psychologist operating a private practice in St. Cloud and serving Central Minnesota. My training is in clinical health psychology and along with helping clients with various mental health needs, I also have a specific interest in helping individuals with medical and health-related conditions. I provide a full range of psychological services, from general counseling and therapy to testing and bariatric surgery evaluations.
(320) 262-8323 View (320) 262-8323
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Niloufer Merchant
Psychologist, EdD, LP
Verified Verified
Monticello, MN 55362
Not accepting new clients
Are you struggling with emotional and/or relationship issues and not sure how to deal with them? Seeking help is not easy and I recognize it takes courage to take that first step to reach out to a professional. For that reason, I use gentle, compassionate, and affirming methods to create a safe environment and work at a pace that is most comfortable to you. Sometimes it’s easy to talk about the issues and at other times, it feels too private or painful to reveal. When memories are too painful to share I can even work with them silently. I also incorporate many holistic approaches, honoring the mind, body and spirit connection.
Are you struggling with emotional and/or relationship issues and not sure how to deal with them? Seeking help is not easy and I recognize it takes courage to take that first step to reach out to a professional. For that reason, I use gentle, compassionate, and affirming methods to create a safe environment and work at a pace that is most comfortable to you. Sometimes it’s easy to talk about the issues and at other times, it feels too private or painful to reveal. When memories are too painful to share I can even work with them silently. I also incorporate many holistic approaches, honoring the mind, body and spirit connection.
(320) 547-4019 View (320) 547-4019

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Family Therapy

What do family therapists do?

A family therapist facilitates the process of understanding and improving how a family functions. The therapist will help family members develop empathy for one another. They’ll seek to understand existing patterns, misunderstandings, and conflicts that arise, in order to help the family arrive at a realistic, unified understanding and develop the coping skills they need to build stronger relationships.

How long does therapy for families take to work?

Therapy manifests differently in every family; a common time frame is 12 weekly sessions, but some families may see improvement after just a few weeks. Families should discuss their goals with the therapist at the beginning of the process and periodically revisit those goals to assess their progress together.

How can you encourage a family member to attend family therapy?

You can encourage family members to attend therapy by expressing with both love and concern the challenges you see and explaining how a therapist could help the family navigate those challenges together. An outside perspective can help everyone feel heard, get on the same page, and develop new skills. If family members are still hesitant, it may be helpful to emphasize that family therapy is short-term—it won’t last forever.

Is therapy for families effective?

Family therapy can significantly improve family dynamics and relationships. Research suggests that family therapy can help individuals understand their role in the family, communicate and solve problems together, reduce conflict and draw boundaries when necessary, and develop coping skills for stressors, major life changes, and mental or physical illnesses within the family.