Self-Harming Therapists in Minnetonka, MN

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Elliot Shively
Master Social Worker, MSW, LGSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Minnetonka, MN 55305
It is important to me that the client’s I work with feel seen, heard, and supported when processing difficult life experiences and feelings. I am informed and specialize in childhood trauma, adult-onset trauma, and attachment relationships. During our time together, my goal is to help you discover the root cause of difficulties, to help offer relief as well as redirect maladaptive patterns (avoidance, anger, fear, etc.) to positive changes and growth.
It is important to me that the client’s I work with feel seen, heard, and supported when processing difficult life experiences and feelings. I am informed and specialize in childhood trauma, adult-onset trauma, and attachment relationships. During our time together, my goal is to help you discover the root cause of difficulties, to help offer relief as well as redirect maladaptive patterns (avoidance, anger, fear, etc.) to positive changes and growth.
(952) 522-3537 View (952) 522-3537
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Julie De Wilde
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
Minnetonka, MN 55305  (Online Only)
Do you find yourself discouraged with the demands of life or with not finding healthy relationships? Do you feel alone with the circumstances in your life? I specialize in working with depression, anxiety, chronic health, chronic pain, grief, abuse, trauma, autism, ADHD, mental illness, marriage issues, and parenting.
Do you find yourself discouraged with the demands of life or with not finding healthy relationships? Do you feel alone with the circumstances in your life? I specialize in working with depression, anxiety, chronic health, chronic pain, grief, abuse, trauma, autism, ADHD, mental illness, marriage issues, and parenting.
(651) 439-2059 x1 View (651) 439-2059 x1
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Tracy Davis
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Minnetonka, MN 55305
We each have unique experiences, challenges, and strengths that shape how we move through the world. Whatever your daily challenges, silent struggles, and unseen battles are, I am committed to walking with you through life's journey. I am honored and humbled by the opportunity to accompany you as you move forward towards becoming your best self. I believe my role as a therapist is to work collaboratively with you to meet your unique goals. I take a systemic, emotionally focused, and attachment-based approach to therapy.
We each have unique experiences, challenges, and strengths that shape how we move through the world. Whatever your daily challenges, silent struggles, and unseen battles are, I am committed to walking with you through life's journey. I am honored and humbled by the opportunity to accompany you as you move forward towards becoming your best self. I believe my role as a therapist is to work collaboratively with you to meet your unique goals. I take a systemic, emotionally focused, and attachment-based approach to therapy.
(952) 522-4997 View (952) 522-4997
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Katie Ernst
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, PMH-C
Verified Verified
Minnetonka, MN 55345  (Online Only)
I believe in the power of therapy to transform lives. With empathy and understanding, I create a safe and supportive space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings, heal, and grow. Together, we’ll work towards a healthier, more fulfilling life. I have over 10 years of experience working with children, adolescents, and families. I have worked with clients struggling with a wide variety of issues including perinatal mental health concerns, anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship struggles, parenting related issues, difficult life transitions and general life stressors.
I believe in the power of therapy to transform lives. With empathy and understanding, I create a safe and supportive space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings, heal, and grow. Together, we’ll work towards a healthier, more fulfilling life. I have over 10 years of experience working with children, adolescents, and families. I have worked with clients struggling with a wide variety of issues including perinatal mental health concerns, anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship struggles, parenting related issues, difficult life transitions and general life stressors.
(952) 260-7884 View (952) 260-7884
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Tammie Rosenbloom
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
Minnetonka, MN 55345
Do you feel stuck? Do you want a proven way to feel better? I have years of experience working with Adolescents and Adults struggling with Anxiety, Depression, OCD, PTSD, Borderline Personality Disorder,, Impulsive Behaviors and Substance Abuse. LGBTQ Allied. See me if you like a direct straightforward approach. I will hold you accountable in a compassionate caring way. We will break down big problems into manageable parts. You will learn practical, hands-on strategies that work even if your life is messy, painful or difficult. I am enthusiastic about my work; there's always room for fun and laughter. I won't let you stay stuck!
Do you feel stuck? Do you want a proven way to feel better? I have years of experience working with Adolescents and Adults struggling with Anxiety, Depression, OCD, PTSD, Borderline Personality Disorder,, Impulsive Behaviors and Substance Abuse. LGBTQ Allied. See me if you like a direct straightforward approach. I will hold you accountable in a compassionate caring way. We will break down big problems into manageable parts. You will learn practical, hands-on strategies that work even if your life is messy, painful or difficult. I am enthusiastic about my work; there's always room for fun and laughter. I won't let you stay stuck!
(952) 260-1005 View (952) 260-1005
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John Gunvalson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
Minnetonka, MN 55345
How many therapists did your parents have you see as a kid? Has anybody in your life commented on your "adoption issues"? How many times a day do you ask yourself where and how do I fit in? Maybe the mindset you used to help yourself survive childhood is now hindering your growth in adulthood. Why aren't there more therapists who are adoptees? These are some of many questions and issues I hope that we can work on together. I aspire, because I am an adoptee, to have you spend less time explaining what adoption was, and more time working on current issues.
How many therapists did your parents have you see as a kid? Has anybody in your life commented on your "adoption issues"? How many times a day do you ask yourself where and how do I fit in? Maybe the mindset you used to help yourself survive childhood is now hindering your growth in adulthood. Why aren't there more therapists who are adoptees? These are some of many questions and issues I hope that we can work on together. I aspire, because I am an adoptee, to have you spend less time explaining what adoption was, and more time working on current issues.
(763) 343-7531 View (763) 343-7531
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Christina Harstad
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, LAMFT
Verified Verified
Minnetonka, MN 55305
If you are here, you may be an individual with complex trauma, or someone who is struggling with post traumatic stress. These symptoms can include depression, anxiety, dissociation, flashbacks, looping self critical thoughts, a deep feeling of abandonment, and challenges within relationships with loved ones. Whether you are an individual looking to work on your own healing, or the parent of a child or teen who is struggling, I may be a good fit for your therapy needs.
If you are here, you may be an individual with complex trauma, or someone who is struggling with post traumatic stress. These symptoms can include depression, anxiety, dissociation, flashbacks, looping self critical thoughts, a deep feeling of abandonment, and challenges within relationships with loved ones. Whether you are an individual looking to work on your own healing, or the parent of a child or teen who is struggling, I may be a good fit for your therapy needs.
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Melissa A. Raatz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW, CHT, ART, CCTP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Minnetonka, MN 55305
I believe all clients hold the key to their own success and can be guided to that end in a safe, trusting, honest environment. Building relationship and skills for growth, understanding and healing are among my goals in therapy. My personal journey through adoption, trauma, abuse, raising a child with mental health concerns, spiritual enlightenment, natural mental health, divorce, and remarriage have become the gifts I share though therapy. I believe the keys essential to reaching any goal lies within each of us believing in ourselves and knowing that someone also believes in us.
I believe all clients hold the key to their own success and can be guided to that end in a safe, trusting, honest environment. Building relationship and skills for growth, understanding and healing are among my goals in therapy. My personal journey through adoption, trauma, abuse, raising a child with mental health concerns, spiritual enlightenment, natural mental health, divorce, and remarriage have become the gifts I share though therapy. I believe the keys essential to reaching any goal lies within each of us believing in ourselves and knowing that someone also believes in us.
(763) 401-7618 View (763) 401-7618
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Sonder Behavioral Health & Wellness
Psychologist
Verified Verified
Minnetonka, MN 55343
We believe emotional wellness matters (a lot), and that everyone has the right to make it a priority. Unfortunately, it’s not always that simple. So many questions can get in the way. Maybe you’ve even asked them yourself: Is this normal? Can talking to someone really help me? What is therapy all about, anyway? What would people say if they knew I was going? How do I find the right therapist? Will I be comfortable there? When will I find the time? Will my insurance pay for this? If this sounds like you, you’re not alone. And we can help. To learn more, visit www.sonderwellness.com
We believe emotional wellness matters (a lot), and that everyone has the right to make it a priority. Unfortunately, it’s not always that simple. So many questions can get in the way. Maybe you’ve even asked them yourself: Is this normal? Can talking to someone really help me? What is therapy all about, anyway? What would people say if they knew I was going? How do I find the right therapist? Will I be comfortable there? When will I find the time? Will my insurance pay for this? If this sounds like you, you’re not alone. And we can help. To learn more, visit www.sonderwellness.com
(952) 260-8673 View (952) 260-8673
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Izaak Davison-Kerwood
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Minnetonka, MN 55343
We all encounter difficult and entrenched patterns or "loops" we get stuck in, and my goal is to help you learn about and work through them. We work to explore the memories, thoughts, and emotions that maintain these patterns, using a strength and values-based approach. Often, these challenges stem from attempts to cope or problem-solve, so understanding their roots is helpful to effective treatment.
We all encounter difficult and entrenched patterns or "loops" we get stuck in, and my goal is to help you learn about and work through them. We work to explore the memories, thoughts, and emotions that maintain these patterns, using a strength and values-based approach. Often, these challenges stem from attempts to cope or problem-solve, so understanding their roots is helpful to effective treatment.
(612) 439-7302 View (612) 439-7302
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Erica Lynne Gruidl
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Minnetonka, MN 55305  (Online Only)
Are you lacking courage in tackling the day to day tasks of life? Are you finding it difficult to manage stress? Are life issues taking you away from finding joy in your journey? I specialize in managing stress, anxiety, parenting and blended family issues, depression, substance abuse, trauma, empty nest, infertility issues, grief and loss, anger management, and abuse. In the past I have worked at as a Mental Health Therapist in a faith-based addiction treatment facility, as a family and parenting coach, as well as in private practice.
Are you lacking courage in tackling the day to day tasks of life? Are you finding it difficult to manage stress? Are life issues taking you away from finding joy in your journey? I specialize in managing stress, anxiety, parenting and blended family issues, depression, substance abuse, trauma, empty nest, infertility issues, grief and loss, anger management, and abuse. In the past I have worked at as a Mental Health Therapist in a faith-based addiction treatment facility, as a family and parenting coach, as well as in private practice.
(763) 703-1550 View (763) 703-1550
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Rebecca Tveten
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Minnetonka, MN 55305  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
The choice to invest in yourself and make changes can be a difficult decision. It takes a certain level of strength and vulnerability in deciding to start therapy. I believe that healing is a journey that begins with your individual strengths, and I am grateful to be part of that path. I provide a warm and welcoming space for you to explore your own relationships, thoughts, emotions, and beliefs to reach your best self. This is a space to be heard, understood and to find healing.
The choice to invest in yourself and make changes can be a difficult decision. It takes a certain level of strength and vulnerability in deciding to start therapy. I believe that healing is a journey that begins with your individual strengths, and I am grateful to be part of that path. I provide a warm and welcoming space for you to explore your own relationships, thoughts, emotions, and beliefs to reach your best self. This is a space to be heard, understood and to find healing.
(952) 373-5449 View (952) 373-5449
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Postpartum And Trauma Therapist Jennifer Doeden
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Minnetonka, MN 55305
Did your journey to parenthood not go as planned? Were you left feeling afraid, helpless or unsupported. Do you struggle to feel like you again? With support and healing you can live a life filled with joy, hope, and regain of sense of who you are. I offer a safe space to heal, grieve and find what’s next.
Did your journey to parenthood not go as planned? Were you left feeling afraid, helpless or unsupported. Do you struggle to feel like you again? With support and healing you can live a life filled with joy, hope, and regain of sense of who you are. I offer a safe space to heal, grieve and find what’s next.
(507) 396-6750 View (507) 396-6750
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Cathy Rupnow
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Minnetonka, MN 55305
Cathy Rupnow is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. She brings valuable experience to work with trauma, all types of abuse, and healing of past and present emotional wounds. Her non-judgmental approach helps her clients deal with family conflict, isolation, and loneliness.
Cathy Rupnow is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. She brings valuable experience to work with trauma, all types of abuse, and healing of past and present emotional wounds. Her non-judgmental approach helps her clients deal with family conflict, isolation, and loneliness.
(952) 209-8667 View (952) 209-8667
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Rachel Rippel
Psychologist, MA, LP
Verified Verified
Minnetonka, MN 55343
I AM NOT THE SMILE AND NOD THERAPIST! If you are fed up with feeling miserable I can help you get the life you want. I love helping people achieve what they didn't think they could. My clients tell me I am tough but they know I care about them. I work best with people who are sick of being unhappy and willing to DO work to make some changes. I have a great BS detector, I will call you on your stuff and we will laugh (a lot)! I am passionate about therapy and assissting people in reaching their goals. I work best with people who are ready for change and want a more active approach to therapy.
I AM NOT THE SMILE AND NOD THERAPIST! If you are fed up with feeling miserable I can help you get the life you want. I love helping people achieve what they didn't think they could. My clients tell me I am tough but they know I care about them. I work best with people who are sick of being unhappy and willing to DO work to make some changes. I have a great BS detector, I will call you on your stuff and we will laugh (a lot)! I am passionate about therapy and assissting people in reaching their goals. I work best with people who are ready for change and want a more active approach to therapy.
(952) 529-4884 View (952) 529-4884
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Laura Martha Hanley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
Minnetonka, MN 55345
Immediate Saturday mornings available. You know you have "trauma" but what does that even mean? And, can you really do anything about it: or like, don't we all just need to, like, deal with it? Well- yes and no! Trauma is a very individualized experience and understanding and although we have the option of "doing something about it" we also get to understand why it hurts so much first. My clients receive empathetic, thoughtful, and trauma-informed care rooted in self-empowerment.
Immediate Saturday mornings available. You know you have "trauma" but what does that even mean? And, can you really do anything about it: or like, don't we all just need to, like, deal with it? Well- yes and no! Trauma is a very individualized experience and understanding and although we have the option of "doing something about it" we also get to understand why it hurts so much first. My clients receive empathetic, thoughtful, and trauma-informed care rooted in self-empowerment.
(952) 295-4674 View (952) 295-4674
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Melissa Bolger
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Minnetonka, MN 55345
You are in the right place if you are seeking to show up more authentically in your life, sort through conflict, or improve your relationships! I will work with you to deepen your understanding of challenges you may be experiencing, learn new skills for dealing with difficulties, & ultimately find a path forward creating change and finding acceptance when needed. I am honored to work with many folks through experiences with: parenting, conflict, divorce/remarriage, life changes, & difficult family dynamics. I see adults, couples, and families. This is a safe space for ALL people, including LGBTQIA+, BIPOC, & neurodivergent folks.
You are in the right place if you are seeking to show up more authentically in your life, sort through conflict, or improve your relationships! I will work with you to deepen your understanding of challenges you may be experiencing, learn new skills for dealing with difficulties, & ultimately find a path forward creating change and finding acceptance when needed. I am honored to work with many folks through experiences with: parenting, conflict, divorce/remarriage, life changes, & difficult family dynamics. I see adults, couples, and families. This is a safe space for ALL people, including LGBTQIA+, BIPOC, & neurodivergent folks.
(612) 887-2176 View (612) 887-2176
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Cedar Mental Health
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Minnetonka, MN 55305
Cedar Mental Health has immediate openings for therapy and medication management for kids. We are dedicated to providing compassionate, tailored support for pre-teens, teens and their families. If you're noticing your teen being moody, withdrawn, or argumentative, or if you're worried about risky behaviors or anxiety, seeking professional help can be a crucial step. Adolescence is a period of significant emotional and neurological development, making it challenging to distinguish between typical growing pains and more serious concerns.
Cedar Mental Health has immediate openings for therapy and medication management for kids. We are dedicated to providing compassionate, tailored support for pre-teens, teens and their families. If you're noticing your teen being moody, withdrawn, or argumentative, or if you're worried about risky behaviors or anxiety, seeking professional help can be a crucial step. Adolescence is a period of significant emotional and neurological development, making it challenging to distinguish between typical growing pains and more serious concerns.
(952) 592-6817 View (952) 592-6817
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Bret P Schneider
Psychologist, PsyD, LP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Minnetonka, MN 55345
Are you or someone you care about going through a difficult time? Is your child/adolescent struggling at home or school with emotions, difficult behavior, or attention concerns? Whether you are looking for answers or seeking personal growth, I can help. I am a clinical psychologist who specializes in assessment and therapy with children, adolescents, and adults. My professional approach is one that encourages one's strengths, internal traits, and individual differences that contribute to personal and professional growth and an improved quality of life and understanding.
Are you or someone you care about going through a difficult time? Is your child/adolescent struggling at home or school with emotions, difficult behavior, or attention concerns? Whether you are looking for answers or seeking personal growth, I can help. I am a clinical psychologist who specializes in assessment and therapy with children, adolescents, and adults. My professional approach is one that encourages one's strengths, internal traits, and individual differences that contribute to personal and professional growth and an improved quality of life and understanding.
(952) 260-3810 View (952) 260-3810
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Know Thyself Healing & Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW, LMFT, LGSW
Verified Verified
Minnetonka, MN 55305
Know Thyself Healing and Therapy believes all clients hold the key to their own success and can be guided to that end in a safe, trusting, honest environment. Building relationships and skills for growth, understanding and healing are among our goals in therapy. We connect with our own personal journeys through life’s challenges to connect with clients at a deeper level. We believe this allows us to not only empathize with our clients, but also partner with them on their specific healing journey. We believe the keys essential to reaching any goal lies within each of us believing in ourselves and knowing that someone believes in us.
Know Thyself Healing and Therapy believes all clients hold the key to their own success and can be guided to that end in a safe, trusting, honest environment. Building relationships and skills for growth, understanding and healing are among our goals in therapy. We connect with our own personal journeys through life’s challenges to connect with clients at a deeper level. We believe this allows us to not only empathize with our clients, but also partner with them on their specific healing journey. We believe the keys essential to reaching any goal lies within each of us believing in ourselves and knowing that someone believes in us.
(952) 236-4341 View (952) 236-4341
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Self-Harming Therapists

How does therapy for self-harm work?

A person may turn to self-injury so that they can distract themselves from their stress, depression, anxiety, or upsetting circumstances. Therapy can address the cause of an individual’s suffering. A therapist can help a person understand why they may want to self-harm and help the person learn new methods of coping. A person may have poor emotion regulation, and treatment such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is helpful for breaking this behaviour. In addition, treatment such as dialectical behavior therapy can help a person manage their tolerance of distress.

Which therapies are best for self-harm?

Specific approaches used by professionals include cognitive behavioral, dialectical behavior, psychodynamic, and mentalisation-based therapies, among others. Cognitive behavioral and dialectical behavior therapies are common approaches for people who have painful thoughts and past traumas. These therapies help an individual cope with distress, regulate emotions, and manage impulsive urges.

Does the tendency to self-harm mean the person is suicidal?

Having this urge does not mean the individual suffers from suicidal ideation. People who want to self-injure look to distract or alleviate themselves from the pain they are experiencing. People with suicidal tendencies want to end life altogether. However, this does not mean a person with the intent to self-harm will not attempt suicide.

How often and how long are therapy sessions for self-harm?

As with any type of therapy, sessions depend on the individual. Clients may see improvement within 20 sessions, at an average of 50 minutes per session, while others may opt for 20 to 30 sessions over, maybe, a six-month period. People, especially those with co-occurring conditions like depression and anxiety, may need to continue therapy for up to 12 to 18 months.