Relationship Issues Therapists in Lake Elmo, MN
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Whitney Wessels
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lake Elmo, MN 55042 (Online Only)
Anxiety, grief, trauma, self-doubt, or relationship issues? These are hard to navigate alone; I partner with you to sort through difficult themes to increase everyday coping. My background is with couples, individuals, children, and parents. I specialize working alongside people diagnosed with serious, life limiting illnesses (specifically cancer) and their caregivers, as well those grieving a loss. Another niche of my practice is medical professionals, residents/fellows, and those with high stress, demanding careers. Couple counseling and relational work is also a predominate area of focus in my practice.
Anxiety, grief, trauma, self-doubt, or relationship issues? These are hard to navigate alone; I partner with you to sort through difficult themes to increase everyday coping. My background is with couples, individuals, children, and parents. I specialize working alongside people diagnosed with serious, life limiting illnesses (specifically cancer) and their caregivers, as well those grieving a loss. Another niche of my practice is medical professionals, residents/fellows, and those with high stress, demanding careers. Couple counseling and relational work is also a predominate area of focus in my practice.
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Twin Cities Mental Health & Couples Center
Marriage & Family Therapist, MAT, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lake Elmo, MN 55042
My systemic, non-judgmental, holistic and integrative process integrates family structure, relationship dynamics, specific cognitive- behavioral, experiential, Internal family systems, EMDR and spirituality/mindfulness approaches.
I work collaboratively with individuals, couples, & families to help them cultivate a deeper self-awareness, discover new ways of expression, transform dysfunctional patterns, have more satisfying relationships and ensue a more meaningful life. Research has shown having purpose and meaning in life increases overall wellbeing and life satisfaction, improves mental and physical health, enhances resiliency and self-esteem, and decreases the chances of depression.
My systemic, non-judgmental, holistic and integrative process integrates family structure, relationship dynamics, specific cognitive- behavioral, experiential, Internal family systems, EMDR and spirituality/mindfulness approaches.
I work collaboratively with individuals, couples, & families to help them cultivate a deeper self-awareness, discover new ways of expression, transform dysfunctional patterns, have more satisfying relationships and ensue a more meaningful life. Research has shown having purpose and meaning in life increases overall wellbeing and life satisfaction, improves mental and physical health, enhances resiliency and self-esteem, and decreases the chances of depression.
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I welcome all sexual orientations, gender expressions, backgrounds, and relationship styles.
The world we live in today can be overwhelming and isolating. I believe seeking out support and connection through counseling takes tremendous strength and courage. During our time together, I aim to create a counseling environment where you feel safe, accepted, and empowered. My goal is to work together to identify unhelpful patterns and work towards reaching your goals, all while embracing your authentic self. You can anticipate a holistic and individualized approach to meet your unique needs. My approach is also client-led and strength-based, with a focus on the mind-body connection.
I welcome all sexual orientations, gender expressions, backgrounds, and relationship styles.
The world we live in today can be overwhelming and isolating. I believe seeking out support and connection through counseling takes tremendous strength and courage. During our time together, I aim to create a counseling environment where you feel safe, accepted, and empowered. My goal is to work together to identify unhelpful patterns and work towards reaching your goals, all while embracing your authentic self. You can anticipate a holistic and individualized approach to meet your unique needs. My approach is also client-led and strength-based, with a focus on the mind-body connection.
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Jacqueline Valek
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lake Elmo, MN 55042
Jacqueline provides individual and family psychotherapy from a compassionate, strength-based, collaborative approach that emphasizes a strong therapeutic relationship honoring your core values and life experiences.
Now Accepting -NEW- Clients! Jacqueline has extensive experience supporting individuals and families in repairing relationships, managing emotions, reducing anxiety, coping with stress, improving self care and overall wellness, building coping skills, and feeling better! Jacqueline supports clients through emotional, social, and academic/workplace concerns. Specifically, she helps clients navigate anxiety, depression, new mental health or medical diagnoses, identity, grief/loss, family change, life transitions, parenting, behaviors/dysregulation, and skill building.
Jacqueline provides individual and family psychotherapy from a compassionate, strength-based, collaborative approach that emphasizes a strong therapeutic relationship honoring your core values and life experiences.
Now Accepting -NEW- Clients! Jacqueline has extensive experience supporting individuals and families in repairing relationships, managing emotions, reducing anxiety, coping with stress, improving self care and overall wellness, building coping skills, and feeling better! Jacqueline supports clients through emotional, social, and academic/workplace concerns. Specifically, she helps clients navigate anxiety, depression, new mental health or medical diagnoses, identity, grief/loss, family change, life transitions, parenting, behaviors/dysregulation, and skill building.
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Kristen Brechler
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, LAMFT, MDiv
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lake Elmo, MN 55042
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in areas of play therapy, parent/child relationship, ADHD, Developmental disorders, Special Needs, Spirituality, Grief/loss, and pre-marriage counseling.
My practice is a collaborative healing process where you can be your authentic self in a trusting, respectful environment. My priority is to build a safe, caring, validating space where you can be known and understood. It’s a privilege to build strong relationships and notice the positive effects that therapy can have on their lives. I use a systemic, collaborative, strengths-based therapeutic approach to help you through the challenges of life, connecting with your strengths to help learn new ways to live in wholeness.
I specialize in areas of play therapy, parent/child relationship, ADHD, Developmental disorders, Special Needs, Spirituality, Grief/loss, and pre-marriage counseling.
My practice is a collaborative healing process where you can be your authentic self in a trusting, respectful environment. My priority is to build a safe, caring, validating space where you can be known and understood. It’s a privilege to build strong relationships and notice the positive effects that therapy can have on their lives. I use a systemic, collaborative, strengths-based therapeutic approach to help you through the challenges of life, connecting with your strengths to help learn new ways to live in wholeness.
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I just opened up some in-person availability in my new office, and have virtual availability! Your goals are my goals. Let's work together to learn, grow, and collaborate to change the way that life feels for you - so that you can become your best self and change your relationship with the world around you. At times, my role may be a listener; at times, a guide. No matter what, I will always be a compassionate, non-judgmental, an attuned ally, to support your mosaic of healing. I work with all 13+ years old. Check out my website, WWW.AlexMaasLPCC.com for much more information. I am here for you. Please reach out with any questions!
I just opened up some in-person availability in my new office, and have virtual availability! Your goals are my goals. Let's work together to learn, grow, and collaborate to change the way that life feels for you - so that you can become your best self and change your relationship with the world around you. At times, my role may be a listener; at times, a guide. No matter what, I will always be a compassionate, non-judgmental, an attuned ally, to support your mosaic of healing. I work with all 13+ years old. Check out my website, WWW.AlexMaasLPCC.com for much more information. I am here for you. Please reach out with any questions!
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If it's one session or a long term therapeutic relationship, you don't need to navigate this chapter of life alone.
I am passionate about working with families, couples, and individuals who are managing both physical and mental health conditions or couples/families going through various life transitions, and relational stress. We don't exist in isolation, especially when on the long journey of chronic health care. I work within an integrated and collaborative care model, viewing the problem from a holistic standpoint and alongside other members of the care team in order to best serve all areas of the client's life. What does this chapter of life look like? What is possible?
If it's one session or a long term therapeutic relationship, you don't need to navigate this chapter of life alone.
I am passionate about working with families, couples, and individuals who are managing both physical and mental health conditions or couples/families going through various life transitions, and relational stress. We don't exist in isolation, especially when on the long journey of chronic health care. I work within an integrated and collaborative care model, viewing the problem from a holistic standpoint and alongside other members of the care team in order to best serve all areas of the client's life. What does this chapter of life look like? What is possible?
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I work with clients 8+ and specialize in anxiety, depression, relationship concerns, trauma/PTSD, racial identity, multicultural therapy, stress, anger management, and chronic illness.
As a clinician, I believe in creating a safe and non-judgmental space for clients where they can freely express their thoughts and feelings. I use research-based treatments to help you meet your therapy goals.
I work with clients 8+ and specialize in anxiety, depression, relationship concerns, trauma/PTSD, racial identity, multicultural therapy, stress, anger management, and chronic illness.
As a clinician, I believe in creating a safe and non-judgmental space for clients where they can freely express their thoughts and feelings. I use research-based treatments to help you meet your therapy goals.
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Danielle Nelson
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lake Elmo, MN 55042 (Online Only)
I work with children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families. I have experience providing therapy to children with behavioral disorders, anxiety, depression, and trauma. I also work with individuals with Autism from childhood to adulthood. I have experience providing trauma-focused therapy with adolescents, adults, and families using a person-centered approach. Additionally, I provide support to couples/adults to help them understand their roles in relationships as well as assisting them in creating healthier boundaries for a more fulfilling relationship.
I work with children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families. I have experience providing therapy to children with behavioral disorders, anxiety, depression, and trauma. I also work with individuals with Autism from childhood to adulthood. I have experience providing trauma-focused therapy with adolescents, adults, and families using a person-centered approach. Additionally, I provide support to couples/adults to help them understand their roles in relationships as well as assisting them in creating healthier boundaries for a more fulfilling relationship.
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I have had the privilege of helping many people find hope and recovery from addictions, trauma, depression, bipolar, anxiety, anger, and so many other emotional, behavioral, relationship, and other life concerns.
I believe that growth and change are always possible, and I am here to help guide clients in their unique journey. Whether you are struggling with issues related to trauma, addiction, feelings of sadness, self-doubt, shame, guilt, or any other life/situational stress, recovery is ALWAYS possible and there is ALWAYS hope. I use science based treatments and assessments tailored to your individual needs so you can heal and learn to reclaim your life in a safe, non-judgmental, supportive therapy environment.
I have had the privilege of helping many people find hope and recovery from addictions, trauma, depression, bipolar, anxiety, anger, and so many other emotional, behavioral, relationship, and other life concerns.
I believe that growth and change are always possible, and I am here to help guide clients in their unique journey. Whether you are struggling with issues related to trauma, addiction, feelings of sadness, self-doubt, shame, guilt, or any other life/situational stress, recovery is ALWAYS possible and there is ALWAYS hope. I use science based treatments and assessments tailored to your individual needs so you can heal and learn to reclaim your life in a safe, non-judgmental, supportive therapy environment.
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Routinely, I help clients with adjustment/stress, depression/bipolar, anxiety, OCD/hoarding, parenting, relationship problems, trauma, and health psychology (addiction, TBI, women's health).
I believe life's challenges are opportunities for us to grow as human beings. Whether you or a family member are struggling with an old problem that keeps coming back or facing an entirely new problem, there is hope. I use research based assessments and treatments to help you or your family member overcome these concerns and thrive in your life.
Routinely, I help clients with adjustment/stress, depression/bipolar, anxiety, OCD/hoarding, parenting, relationship problems, trauma, and health psychology (addiction, TBI, women's health).
I believe life's challenges are opportunities for us to grow as human beings. Whether you or a family member are struggling with an old problem that keeps coming back or facing an entirely new problem, there is hope. I use research based assessments and treatments to help you or your family member overcome these concerns and thrive in your life.
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Kelli Howard
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lake Elmo, MN 55042
Waitlist for new clients
I prioritize a collaborative therapeutic relationship as the foundation of this work.
I am a Stillwater-based psychologist who provides individual therapy and psychological testing to teens and adults ages 16 and up. Using a relaxed and non-judgmental style, I help people struggling with mood concerns, relationships, work/school stress, life transitions, and trauma. I provide both traditional talk therapy and more specific trauma therapies, such as Brainspotting and EMDR. I also offer supervision and consultation for pre-licensed counselors and psychologists, as well as psychological testing for ADHD and related concerns.
I prioritize a collaborative therapeutic relationship as the foundation of this work.
I am a Stillwater-based psychologist who provides individual therapy and psychological testing to teens and adults ages 16 and up. Using a relaxed and non-judgmental style, I help people struggling with mood concerns, relationships, work/school stress, life transitions, and trauma. I provide both traditional talk therapy and more specific trauma therapies, such as Brainspotting and EMDR. I also offer supervision and consultation for pre-licensed counselors and psychologists, as well as psychological testing for ADHD and related concerns.
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My experience includes working with individuals and families dealing with a variety of issues including life transitions, anxiety, depression, relationship concerns, self-esteem issues and loss/grief of all kinds.
Healing can take many forms in our lives and therapy is one of those places that can facilitate that process. Finding a therapist, you can trust to process some of the difficult moments in your life is foundational. As your counseling partner, I will create a safe place for you as you navigate the challenges you are facing and help you figure out what you want and need moving forward. I believe in healing and the resiliency of the human heart and soul. Out of our difficulties, something beautiful can emerge. Come as you are and we can go from there.
My experience includes working with individuals and families dealing with a variety of issues including life transitions, anxiety, depression, relationship concerns, self-esteem issues and loss/grief of all kinds.
Healing can take many forms in our lives and therapy is one of those places that can facilitate that process. Finding a therapist, you can trust to process some of the difficult moments in your life is foundational. As your counseling partner, I will create a safe place for you as you navigate the challenges you are facing and help you figure out what you want and need moving forward. I believe in healing and the resiliency of the human heart and soul. Out of our difficulties, something beautiful can emerge. Come as you are and we can go from there.
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Paul J Quie
Marriage & Family Therapist, MBA, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Lake Elmo, MN 55042 (Online Only)
Hello, I would honor an opportunity of meeting with you and discussing your concerns. I have 25+ years of experience working with individuals, couples, and families. I believe each person has unique skills, talents, and abilities. I work with individuals and couples to uncover these abilities and use them in effective ways in their lives and in their relationships.
Hello, I would honor an opportunity of meeting with you and discussing your concerns. I have 25+ years of experience working with individuals, couples, and families. I believe each person has unique skills, talents, and abilities. I work with individuals and couples to uncover these abilities and use them in effective ways in their lives and in their relationships.
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The process of finding a therapist can feel overwhelming! If you’re reading this, you have officially taken the first step in finding a therapist that is right for you. Im proud of you! The clients that I work with are ready to show up to continue their pursuit towards awareness and change through therapy. Together, we will explore the narratives that have been helpful as well the narratives that are not serving you anymore. I provide an approach that is flexible and adaptable. I recognize that you may need to be challenged and validated all in one session.
The process of finding a therapist can feel overwhelming! If you’re reading this, you have officially taken the first step in finding a therapist that is right for you. Im proud of you! The clients that I work with are ready to show up to continue their pursuit towards awareness and change through therapy. Together, we will explore the narratives that have been helpful as well the narratives that are not serving you anymore. I provide an approach that is flexible and adaptable. I recognize that you may need to be challenged and validated all in one session.
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Tabitha Soderstrom Minnesota Anxiety And Trauma Therapist
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lake Elmo, MN 55042 (Online Only)
Dealing with constant worry, anxiety, or self-doubt can feel like an uphill battle. Events from your past might be affecting your day-to-day life, causing you to carry unnecessary guilt, shame, or fear. Maybe you feel like, no matter what you do, you simply aren’t good enough. Or maybe you’ve reached the end of your rope with flashbacks, nightmares, sleep issues, or anxiety attacks. No matter if you suffer from anxiety that you can’t explain or are able to trace your challenges back to specific events in your past, I am here to help you navigate from hurt to healing. At this time, I have daytime/weekday availability!
Dealing with constant worry, anxiety, or self-doubt can feel like an uphill battle. Events from your past might be affecting your day-to-day life, causing you to carry unnecessary guilt, shame, or fear. Maybe you feel like, no matter what you do, you simply aren’t good enough. Or maybe you’ve reached the end of your rope with flashbacks, nightmares, sleep issues, or anxiety attacks. No matter if you suffer from anxiety that you can’t explain or are able to trace your challenges back to specific events in your past, I am here to help you navigate from hurt to healing. At this time, I have daytime/weekday availability!
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Dr. Victoria Lin Peterson-Hilleque
Pre-Licensed Professional, PsyD, MFA
Verified Verified
Lake Elmo, MN 55042
Every healing journey is unique, and I am eager to help you foster wellbeing in a way that works for you. I work with teens and adults offering trauma-informed, individual therapy to address many issues including anxiety, depression, life transitions, identity development, and grief and loss. I see you as the expert in your life, and I ask questions to help you generate self-awareness and understanding. As a therapist, I want to understand the world as you do and help you cultivate the motivation needed to make changes.
Every healing journey is unique, and I am eager to help you foster wellbeing in a way that works for you. I work with teens and adults offering trauma-informed, individual therapy to address many issues including anxiety, depression, life transitions, identity development, and grief and loss. I see you as the expert in your life, and I ask questions to help you generate self-awareness and understanding. As a therapist, I want to understand the world as you do and help you cultivate the motivation needed to make changes.
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If you’re ready to improve your life, then I am the one to lead you there. Having years of experience as both a client and a clinician, I am very familiar with the process of change and I am well equipped to make it happen. I've helped guide people through issues of simple depression all the way to complex PTSD. I have extensive experience dealing with criminality, all forms of abuse, addiction, and most mental disorders. My blend of psychodynamic education and life experience have suited me well in this field.
If you’re ready to improve your life, then I am the one to lead you there. Having years of experience as both a client and a clinician, I am very familiar with the process of change and I am well equipped to make it happen. I've helped guide people through issues of simple depression all the way to complex PTSD. I have extensive experience dealing with criminality, all forms of abuse, addiction, and most mental disorders. My blend of psychodynamic education and life experience have suited me well in this field.
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I work with people experiencing a variety of symptoms and diagnoses including but not limited to anxiety, depressive, personality disorders, psychosis, life adjustments, teenage challenges and men's issues. My goal is to provide a non-judgmental space for people to process difficult situations, identify adaptive ways to address symptoms and make change to behavior that aligns with their belief systems, often resulting in increased life satisfaction. I specialize in helping people that feel stuck and helping them create a new path forward. I also do a lot of work with men's issues and general skill building.
I work with people experiencing a variety of symptoms and diagnoses including but not limited to anxiety, depressive, personality disorders, psychosis, life adjustments, teenage challenges and men's issues. My goal is to provide a non-judgmental space for people to process difficult situations, identify adaptive ways to address symptoms and make change to behavior that aligns with their belief systems, often resulting in increased life satisfaction. I specialize in helping people that feel stuck and helping them create a new path forward. I also do a lot of work with men's issues and general skill building.
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Ana Spence-Baker
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, EdS, MEd, LPCC, NCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Lake Elmo, MN 55042
I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) and a national certified Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavior Therapist (CFCBT). I have sixteen years of experience working with adults, families, children, and teens on different issues. I am trained in to work with individuals facing struggles related to parenting skills, developmental and learning disabilities, trauma, abuse, grief, depression and anxiety. I am also a certified meditation instructor who uses mind, body and spirit techniques. If you are going through stormy moments and struggles that prevent you from living your fulfilling life, I am here to help you.
I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) and a national certified Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavior Therapist (CFCBT). I have sixteen years of experience working with adults, families, children, and teens on different issues. I am trained in to work with individuals facing struggles related to parenting skills, developmental and learning disabilities, trauma, abuse, grief, depression and anxiety. I am also a certified meditation instructor who uses mind, body and spirit techniques. If you are going through stormy moments and struggles that prevent you from living your fulfilling life, I am here to help you.
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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.