Gottman Method Therapists in Hopkins, MN

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Dr. Jeff J. Rocker
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, PhD, NCC, LPC, LMHC, LCPC
Verified Verified
Hopkins, MN 55343
With 12 years of experience working with clients going through individual, relationship, and family issues, Celebrity Therapist Dr. Jeff Rocker has provided therapeutic services to clients nationwide. He is Licensed in 22 states and has served clients from all age groups. Over the years, Dr. Jeff has organized lectures and various events in the community, including excursions and retreats for couples to improve their communication and better understand each other. He has experience working with athletes in the NFL, NBA, and MLB. In addition, Dr. Jeff has also worked with clients in the Movie, Music, and Entertainment Industries.
With 12 years of experience working with clients going through individual, relationship, and family issues, Celebrity Therapist Dr. Jeff Rocker has provided therapeutic services to clients nationwide. He is Licensed in 22 states and has served clients from all age groups. Over the years, Dr. Jeff has organized lectures and various events in the community, including excursions and retreats for couples to improve their communication and better understand each other. He has experience working with athletes in the NFL, NBA, and MLB. In addition, Dr. Jeff has also worked with clients in the Movie, Music, and Entertainment Industries.
(612) 482-7630 View (612) 482-7630
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Mallory Wolfgramm
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MS, RN
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hopkins, MN 55343
I currently have daytime availability for new couples and individuals. Email me for a link to book or visit my website at www.themarigoldpractice.com to book a free intro call or first session. I aim to create therapy sessions that you will look forward to and that will actually feel productive. My office is located above a charming coffee shop, so grab a latte and a fresh baked scone and head up for a cozy therapy session (or meet with me virtually.) I will help you uncover why you're feeling stuck and how we can create change that will lead you to peace, connection and secure attachment with those you love most.
I currently have daytime availability for new couples and individuals. Email me for a link to book or visit my website at www.themarigoldpractice.com to book a free intro call or first session. I aim to create therapy sessions that you will look forward to and that will actually feel productive. My office is located above a charming coffee shop, so grab a latte and a fresh baked scone and head up for a cozy therapy session (or meet with me virtually.) I will help you uncover why you're feeling stuck and how we can create change that will lead you to peace, connection and secure attachment with those you love most.
(763) 634-6628 View (763) 634-6628
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Randi Beth Deal
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LADC
Verified Verified
Hopkins, MN 55343
Are you feeling stuck in patterns that hurt? Do you have a vague memory of when things were easier and life was more satisfying? Life, with it's expected and unexpected transitions can be challenging for all of us, even agonizing at times. We all need help from others on occasion...I am a strength based therapist who believes that by design you have everything you need to navigate through these times and I want to help you in recapturing something more promising. I'm ready when you are.
Are you feeling stuck in patterns that hurt? Do you have a vague memory of when things were easier and life was more satisfying? Life, with it's expected and unexpected transitions can be challenging for all of us, even agonizing at times. We all need help from others on occasion...I am a strength based therapist who believes that by design you have everything you need to navigate through these times and I want to help you in recapturing something more promising. I'm ready when you are.
(612) 986-2927 View (612) 986-2927
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Mike Skinner
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hopkins, MN 55343
It takes a lot of guts to become a therapist as a second career. But, when you are as driven, passionate, and caring as Mike, it makes sense why he did it. He’s a natural and makes his clients feel at home right from the jump.
It takes a lot of guts to become a therapist as a second career. But, when you are as driven, passionate, and caring as Mike, it makes sense why he did it. He’s a natural and makes his clients feel at home right from the jump.
(952) 522-9863 View (952) 522-9863
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Joyce White
Psychologist, PsyD, LP
Verified Verified
Hopkins, MN 55305  (Online Only)
(612) 260-4355 View (612) 260-4355
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Callie Papa
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Hopkins, MN 55343
Not accepting new clients
You don't have to feel stuck in life and in relationships - You deserve relationships that feel good! You find yourself struggling to be your authentic self in relationships with others - maybe because of past relationships, childhood trauma, or ongoing family conflict. You want to feel confident in yourself and your relationships. You’re ready to STOP the thoughts and patterns that hurt you most. You want the past to stay in the past so that you can live a more fulfilling life today and tomorrow.
You don't have to feel stuck in life and in relationships - You deserve relationships that feel good! You find yourself struggling to be your authentic self in relationships with others - maybe because of past relationships, childhood trauma, or ongoing family conflict. You want to feel confident in yourself and your relationships. You’re ready to STOP the thoughts and patterns that hurt you most. You want the past to stay in the past so that you can live a more fulfilling life today and tomorrow.
(952) 230-0709 View (952) 230-0709

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Kerin Logstrom
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Minnetonka, MN 55305
I am an experienced Gottman Method Couples Therapist.
I believe that the key to a successful therapeutic experience is the strength and quality of the relationship between the client and the therapist. Building trust and rapport is where we start. My experience as a psychotherapist has affirmed my belief that each of us has a great capacity to change and grow. I specialize in working with clients to process emotional pain that has resulted from different stressors that occur through the life cycle. Developing one's emotional awareness can result in more intimate, loving relationships.
I am an experienced Gottman Method Couples Therapist.
I believe that the key to a successful therapeutic experience is the strength and quality of the relationship between the client and the therapist. Building trust and rapport is where we start. My experience as a psychotherapist has affirmed my belief that each of us has a great capacity to change and grow. I specialize in working with clients to process emotional pain that has resulted from different stressors that occur through the life cycle. Developing one's emotional awareness can result in more intimate, loving relationships.
(612) 354-8932 View (612) 354-8932
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Diane Foy
Psychologist, MEd, LP
Verified Verified
Minnetonka, MN 55345
Waitlist for new clients
I have been trained in the Gottman Method, level 3, as well as the Gottman Method for Treating Affairs and Betrayal and am a certified leader for The 7 Principles of Making a Marriage Work.
I offer a strength based, caring approach to creating change. I treat each person with respect and dignity. Decades of experience and intensive trainings ground my clinical work in evidenced based practices. I work with individuals, couples and families to identify core issues, negotiate conflicts, enhance coping skills and create behavior change. My work with couples and families encourages and teaches healthy communication skills and enhances attachment. I have Gottman Method and Emotionally Focussed Couples training. I work with individuals struggling with depression, anxiety, effects of trauma and relationship issues.
I have been trained in the Gottman Method, level 3, as well as the Gottman Method for Treating Affairs and Betrayal and am a certified leader for The 7 Principles of Making a Marriage Work.
I offer a strength based, caring approach to creating change. I treat each person with respect and dignity. Decades of experience and intensive trainings ground my clinical work in evidenced based practices. I work with individuals, couples and families to identify core issues, negotiate conflicts, enhance coping skills and create behavior change. My work with couples and families encourages and teaches healthy communication skills and enhances attachment. I have Gottman Method and Emotionally Focussed Couples training. I work with individuals struggling with depression, anxiety, effects of trauma and relationship issues.
(651) 968-1983 View (651) 968-1983
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Sonja Benson
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Minnetonka, MN 55305
I specialize in marriage & family therapy using a systems approach and Gottman Method therapy including for infidelity & PTSD. I'm certified in Discernment counseling as well. Finally, I work on the entire spectrum of relationships from dating to pre-marital to transitions or divorce. I also provide parenting coaching. I am also trained as a divorce mediator and help many people with parenting plans. I provide ADHD based couples therapy and am an ADHD certified clinical services provider.
I specialize in marriage & family therapy using a systems approach and Gottman Method therapy including for infidelity & PTSD. I'm certified in Discernment counseling as well. Finally, I work on the entire spectrum of relationships from dating to pre-marital to transitions or divorce. I also provide parenting coaching. I am also trained as a divorce mediator and help many people with parenting plans. I provide ADHD based couples therapy and am an ADHD certified clinical services provider.
(952) 373-0563 View (952) 373-0563
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Lyndsey Rikard Osler
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Edina, MN 55343
I'm trained in the Gottman Method (level 3), Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (externship level) and IFS.
Are you frustrated with your marriage or committed relationship? Are you and your spouse or partner arguing frequently? Maybe you feel really disconnected from your partner and you're exhausted trying to get through to them. Or maybe you're overwhelmed parents and can't find the time for each other anymore. We all want to feel heard and respected in our marriages and partnerships. Conflict is normal, but unhealthy patterns of fighting over the same thing over and over is not. I help couples figure out a better way to get through to one another. I can help you both feel more connected.
I'm trained in the Gottman Method (level 3), Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (externship level) and IFS.
Are you frustrated with your marriage or committed relationship? Are you and your spouse or partner arguing frequently? Maybe you feel really disconnected from your partner and you're exhausted trying to get through to them. Or maybe you're overwhelmed parents and can't find the time for each other anymore. We all want to feel heard and respected in our marriages and partnerships. Conflict is normal, but unhealthy patterns of fighting over the same thing over and over is not. I help couples figure out a better way to get through to one another. I can help you both feel more connected.
(952) 260-3589 View (952) 260-3589
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Ben Snyder
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, MSW, LICSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Edina, MN 55343
I help couples using the Gottman method, a data-driven approach, to improve connection and conflict management.
Relationships require trust, communication, and profound awareness of each other’s worlds. I work with couples, including polyamorous, non-monogamous, kinky, etc, to build connection, trust, and intimacy in their relationships. I also help partners learn to manage relationship conflict more effectively. I help partners find ways to communicate about challenging and sensitive issues. This is important when partners struggle to connect around each other's unique sexual wants and needs. These conversations need an atmosphere of trust, acceptance, and non-judgment, as partners learn to validate and respond to each other's sexual selves.
I help couples using the Gottman method, a data-driven approach, to improve connection and conflict management.
Relationships require trust, communication, and profound awareness of each other’s worlds. I work with couples, including polyamorous, non-monogamous, kinky, etc, to build connection, trust, and intimacy in their relationships. I also help partners learn to manage relationship conflict more effectively. I help partners find ways to communicate about challenging and sensitive issues. This is important when partners struggle to connect around each other's unique sexual wants and needs. These conversations need an atmosphere of trust, acceptance, and non-judgment, as partners learn to validate and respond to each other's sexual selves.
(651) 349-6027 View (651) 349-6027
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Amy Kennedy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Edina, MN 55343
Hello! I am a trauma-informed therapist located in Inver Grove Heights and Wayzata, MN. I work with adults and adolescents (ages 12+). I have expertise treating PTSD, Complex PTSD, anxiety, depression, and helping people navigate life transitions. In both my personal and professional life, I have witnessed the ways that negative experiences impact our self-worth and how we navigate the world. My goal is to provide a calm, safe space to help you explore and process your past in order to improve your present.
Hello! I am a trauma-informed therapist located in Inver Grove Heights and Wayzata, MN. I work with adults and adolescents (ages 12+). I have expertise treating PTSD, Complex PTSD, anxiety, depression, and helping people navigate life transitions. In both my personal and professional life, I have witnessed the ways that negative experiences impact our self-worth and how we navigate the world. My goal is to provide a calm, safe space to help you explore and process your past in order to improve your present.
(763) 373-9385 View (763) 373-9385
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Claire DeBenedetto
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Minnetonka, MN 55305  (Online Only)
Hello, my name is Claire! I am a former gymnast who has a strong passion for giving back to the athletic community. I specialize in working with student athletes and their mental health symptoms that impact sports performance, self-esteem, anxiety, confidence, and mental stamina working through injuries. In addition, I enjoy working with children, adolescents, couples, parents, and families who desire to experience change and growth through insight and empowerment.
Hello, my name is Claire! I am a former gymnast who has a strong passion for giving back to the athletic community. I specialize in working with student athletes and their mental health symptoms that impact sports performance, self-esteem, anxiety, confidence, and mental stamina working through injuries. In addition, I enjoy working with children, adolescents, couples, parents, and families who desire to experience change and growth through insight and empowerment.
(952) 260-5230 View (952) 260-5230
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Marnie J Brooks Steinwand
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CCTP, C-DBT, CSTIP
Verified Verified
Minnetonka, MN 55345
Having a space where you can feel comfortable sharing about what life has asked of you and what it is offering you can be powerful. Feeling seen, heard, and understood seems rare these days. Sitting alongside client’s as they navigate seasons of their lives, reflect on past versions of themselves, live within this season and bridge to their future is a blessing.
Having a space where you can feel comfortable sharing about what life has asked of you and what it is offering you can be powerful. Feeling seen, heard, and understood seems rare these days. Sitting alongside client’s as they navigate seasons of their lives, reflect on past versions of themselves, live within this season and bridge to their future is a blessing.
(320) 345-3942 View (320) 345-3942
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Kim Pufahl
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Verified Verified
Minnetonka, MN 55345  (Online Only)
Relationships can be challenging and have many issues in families, young and old, couple relationships and marriages, new and longevity, and teenagers and parents or teenagers and peers. My passion is helping explore these relationships and how they affect our behaviors, thoughts, and feelings. You may feel stuck, unhappy, hurt, lost, or confused in your relationships or want more guidance on specific issues. We will explore together to understand and learn to love more of who you are and those relationships surrounding you.
Relationships can be challenging and have many issues in families, young and old, couple relationships and marriages, new and longevity, and teenagers and parents or teenagers and peers. My passion is helping explore these relationships and how they affect our behaviors, thoughts, and feelings. You may feel stuck, unhappy, hurt, lost, or confused in your relationships or want more guidance on specific issues. We will explore together to understand and learn to love more of who you are and those relationships surrounding you.
(952) 522-4921 View (952) 522-4921
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Tamara Phillips
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Minnetonka, MN 55305
Are you or your loved one autistic, feeling misunderstood or experiencing related challenges? Do you need a therapist who understands your family and your unique situation? If you are a neurodivergent adult or parenting an autistic child and are looking for a safe place to process your feelings, address trauma, improve communication or problem solve daily challenges, I would be honored to help. As both an experienced therapist and a parent of an autistic young adult, I understand how autism, anxiety or ADHD impacts you and your family.
Are you or your loved one autistic, feeling misunderstood or experiencing related challenges? Do you need a therapist who understands your family and your unique situation? If you are a neurodivergent adult or parenting an autistic child and are looking for a safe place to process your feelings, address trauma, improve communication or problem solve daily challenges, I would be honored to help. As both an experienced therapist and a parent of an autistic young adult, I understand how autism, anxiety or ADHD impacts you and your family.
(612) 326-3157 View (612) 326-3157
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Reece Forrester
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Edina, MN 55436
Waitlist for new clients
You've been through a lot of pain in your life, but nothing has stopped you yet. You've persevered and gotten this far. Yet you keep finding yourself stuck in the same patterns. Your history doesn't define you, but you can't seem to leave it behind either. When life is just too overwhelming you find yourself self medicating, overeating, overspending, or doom scrolling through social media just to get a few moments of relief. At times you get irritable, snap at your kids or your partner, or disengage altogether. You know there's a better life waiting for you, but it's so elusive.
You've been through a lot of pain in your life, but nothing has stopped you yet. You've persevered and gotten this far. Yet you keep finding yourself stuck in the same patterns. Your history doesn't define you, but you can't seem to leave it behind either. When life is just too overwhelming you find yourself self medicating, overeating, overspending, or doom scrolling through social media just to get a few moments of relief. At times you get irritable, snap at your kids or your partner, or disengage altogether. You know there's a better life waiting for you, but it's so elusive.
(651) 370-8714 View (651) 370-8714
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Kristen Stevens
Psychologist, PsyD, LP
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Eden Prairie, MN 55343
Accepting New Clients! Vulnerability is an act of bravery. But being brave isn’t easy when you do it alone. And it’s especially difficult when your brain is telling you that you aren’t good enough, worthy, or important. Maybe your mind has convinced you that if you wash your hands, google that medical condition for hours, or stop thinking that thought, the fears and anxiety will go away. Perhaps by changing the way you eat, you can “fix it.” For some, being who you are is challenging or even not allowed, because those around you do not understand or approve.
Accepting New Clients! Vulnerability is an act of bravery. But being brave isn’t easy when you do it alone. And it’s especially difficult when your brain is telling you that you aren’t good enough, worthy, or important. Maybe your mind has convinced you that if you wash your hands, google that medical condition for hours, or stop thinking that thought, the fears and anxiety will go away. Perhaps by changing the way you eat, you can “fix it.” For some, being who you are is challenging or even not allowed, because those around you do not understand or approve.
(952) 592-6107 View (952) 592-6107
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John L Jankord
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LADC, LPCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Edina, MN 55343
Choosing a therapist who fits your specific needs, values, and methods for change can be challenging. There needs to be a comfort level and fit that will foster a positive and effective working relationship. The therapist's education, experience, competency, and certification are essential to promoting positive outcomes. I have been working with women, men, couples, and families for 26+ years and have learned much from clients regarding their concerns, hopes, dreams, and change methods. My approach is trauma-informed, Collaborative, Strengths-Based, and Solution-Focused.
Choosing a therapist who fits your specific needs, values, and methods for change can be challenging. There needs to be a comfort level and fit that will foster a positive and effective working relationship. The therapist's education, experience, competency, and certification are essential to promoting positive outcomes. I have been working with women, men, couples, and families for 26+ years and have learned much from clients regarding their concerns, hopes, dreams, and change methods. My approach is trauma-informed, Collaborative, Strengths-Based, and Solution-Focused.
(952) 856-3072 View (952) 856-3072
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Emma Nadler
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
Minnetonka, MN 55305  (Online Only)
I offer warmth, humor, authentic feedback, along with a deep respect for the people with whom I work. My focus is on hearing what people want in their lives—including their biggest dreams—and then helping them develop the skills and confidence to go for it. I create a supportive place to work through emotions, identify strengths, expand coping strategies, and find meaning in life's challenges. I also love helping people craft their own story that reflects their personal values, passions, and truth.
I offer warmth, humor, authentic feedback, along with a deep respect for the people with whom I work. My focus is on hearing what people want in their lives—including their biggest dreams—and then helping them develop the skills and confidence to go for it. I create a supportive place to work through emotions, identify strengths, expand coping strategies, and find meaning in life's challenges. I also love helping people craft their own story that reflects their personal values, passions, and truth.
(952) 260-3313 View (952) 260-3313

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Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.