Relational Therapists in Hastings, MN
I often work from a relational lens as I believe that our past and current interpersonal experiences have a significant influence in shaping how we see ourselves and the world, and are often at the root of a lot of our pain and distress.
My goal as a therapist is to genuinely connect with and support clients in their journey. It is a privilege to walk with others on their path towards healing and knowing themselves. I strive to make sure my clients feel seen and heard as their true selves, experience warmth and security in the counseling room, and know that I unconditionally accept them. I believe therapy should be a true partnership between myself and my client; we are a team working toward your desired healing, growth, and change. I am committed to providing a safe and inviting atmosphere for all people, identities, and needs.
I often work from a relational lens as I believe that our past and current interpersonal experiences have a significant influence in shaping how we see ourselves and the world, and are often at the root of a lot of our pain and distress.
My goal as a therapist is to genuinely connect with and support clients in their journey. It is a privilege to walk with others on their path towards healing and knowing themselves. I strive to make sure my clients feel seen and heard as their true selves, experience warmth and security in the counseling room, and know that I unconditionally accept them. I believe therapy should be a true partnership between myself and my client; we are a team working toward your desired healing, growth, and change. I am committed to providing a safe and inviting atmosphere for all people, identities, and needs.
There are things the world throws at us that can feel overwhelming and we know cookie-cutter approaches to health and wellness don't always work. And, sometimes you need extra help, and support, to learn the skills to better cope with stress you encounter in life. Our collaborative team of professionally trained, compassionate therapists are dedicated to building a trusting relationship with you on your journey to long-term wellness. Each therapist is passionate about finding a therapeutic approach that provides holistic wellness and promotes health in a warm, welcoming environment.
There are things the world throws at us that can feel overwhelming and we know cookie-cutter approaches to health and wellness don't always work. And, sometimes you need extra help, and support, to learn the skills to better cope with stress you encounter in life. Our collaborative team of professionally trained, compassionate therapists are dedicated to building a trusting relationship with you on your journey to long-term wellness. Each therapist is passionate about finding a therapeutic approach that provides holistic wellness and promotes health in a warm, welcoming environment.
There are things the world throws at us that we can’t always change, and we know cookie-cutter approaches to health and wellness don’t always work. We provide care designed to address the root cause and to sustain growth and well-being. We believe that the mind-body connection is essential to life-long health and we are committed to teaching you how to be well for a lifetime – not just for now.
There are things the world throws at us that we can’t always change, and we know cookie-cutter approaches to health and wellness don’t always work. We provide care designed to address the root cause and to sustain growth and well-being. We believe that the mind-body connection is essential to life-long health and we are committed to teaching you how to be well for a lifetime – not just for now.
Bernie Menge licensed for MFT & LPC supervision.
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, ADHD-, CCSP
Verified Verified
Hastings, MN 55033
I have a vast amount of professional and personal experience working with: Children, Teens, Young Adults, Single Parents, and Blended Families. Struggling with: Feeling Lost, Abused, Depression, Anxiety, Attention Issues, Conflicts, Moodiness, Relationships, Anger, Isolating, Argumentative, Communication, Defiance, Connecting, Anger Issues, Family Unity, Shame, Guilt, Loss, Repeated Behaviors, and Low Self Esteem. Their goals surround: (Peace) (Unity) (Balance) (Contentment) (Happiness) (Being Understood) (Trauma Healing) and (Managed lives). Looking for answers and resolution bringing healing that promotes purpose and meaning.
I have a vast amount of professional and personal experience working with: Children, Teens, Young Adults, Single Parents, and Blended Families. Struggling with: Feeling Lost, Abused, Depression, Anxiety, Attention Issues, Conflicts, Moodiness, Relationships, Anger, Isolating, Argumentative, Communication, Defiance, Connecting, Anger Issues, Family Unity, Shame, Guilt, Loss, Repeated Behaviors, and Low Self Esteem. Their goals surround: (Peace) (Unity) (Balance) (Contentment) (Happiness) (Being Understood) (Trauma Healing) and (Managed lives). Looking for answers and resolution bringing healing that promotes purpose and meaning.
Hope Tree Counseling Services Inc.
Counselor, MA, LMHC, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hastings, MN 55033
I have special interest in working with issues of terminal illness, grief loss and transition with children individuals and families. I work with children with attachment, ADHD, trauma, and behavioral issues. I work with women issues surrounding self- esteem and personal growth. I have an extensive background in theater and the arts. I incorporate nature, animals, drama, art and play into my therapies with clients. My work also focuses on treating PTSD and anxiety. I incorporate trauma informed care into my work. I believe healing is possible and I am here to walk the path with my clients to a place of growth and positive change.
I have special interest in working with issues of terminal illness, grief loss and transition with children individuals and families. I work with children with attachment, ADHD, trauma, and behavioral issues. I work with women issues surrounding self- esteem and personal growth. I have an extensive background in theater and the arts. I incorporate nature, animals, drama, art and play into my therapies with clients. My work also focuses on treating PTSD and anxiety. I incorporate trauma informed care into my work. I believe healing is possible and I am here to walk the path with my clients to a place of growth and positive change.
Emotions makes our lives matter. They convert our lives into a series of events that become our living breathing human experience. As a therapist I meet my clients where they are at. We will work together to celebrate the positive experiences in your life and identify strategies for moving through the difficult ones. I collaborate with individuals, partners, and parents to create a wholistic plan of care. You are the center of this whole process and the expert on you. We will create your best life and achieve your goals.
Emotions makes our lives matter. They convert our lives into a series of events that become our living breathing human experience. As a therapist I meet my clients where they are at. We will work together to celebrate the positive experiences in your life and identify strategies for moving through the difficult ones. I collaborate with individuals, partners, and parents to create a wholistic plan of care. You are the center of this whole process and the expert on you. We will create your best life and achieve your goals.
I have been working as a therapist with children, teens, adults, and couples since I received a Masters of Clinical Social Work from University of Saint Thomas/Saint Catherine University in 2017. I enjoy working with individuals ages 12 through adult. I believe in the importance of the therapeutic relationship with my clients, as well as their life experiences, to meet clients where they are at and encourage growth and movement through their journey.
I have been working as a therapist with children, teens, adults, and couples since I received a Masters of Clinical Social Work from University of Saint Thomas/Saint Catherine University in 2017. I enjoy working with individuals ages 12 through adult. I believe in the importance of the therapeutic relationship with my clients, as well as their life experiences, to meet clients where they are at and encourage growth and movement through their journey.
Possibilities Therapeutic Services
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAS
Verified Verified
Hastings, MN 55033
Possibilities Therapeutic Services supports your journey towards growth by exploring self defeating thoughts and feelings to open pathways for new healthier relationship and lifestyle possibilities in the future. Therapeutic services are based on the tenants and techniques from Cognitive-Behavioral and Solution-Focused Theories. Approved MN-DHS problem gambler provider-Rule 82 assessments.
Possibilities Therapeutic Services supports your journey towards growth by exploring self defeating thoughts and feelings to open pathways for new healthier relationship and lifestyle possibilities in the future. Therapeutic services are based on the tenants and techniques from Cognitive-Behavioral and Solution-Focused Theories. Approved MN-DHS problem gambler provider-Rule 82 assessments.
Jill M. Ellingson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Hastings, MN 55033
It takes a lot of courage to come to counseling and work through life's challenges. My first priority in working with you is to build a genuine and safe relationship that encourages sharing, connection and authenticity. My combined education and background in corporate leadership and counseling psychology results in a therapeutic atmosphere that is affirming and encouraging but also holds you accountable for the changes you wish to see in your life. I look forward to walking alongside of you on this journey, encouraging you, helping you re-discover your strengths and having some fun along the way!
It takes a lot of courage to come to counseling and work through life's challenges. My first priority in working with you is to build a genuine and safe relationship that encourages sharing, connection and authenticity. My combined education and background in corporate leadership and counseling psychology results in a therapeutic atmosphere that is affirming and encouraging but also holds you accountable for the changes you wish to see in your life. I look forward to walking alongside of you on this journey, encouraging you, helping you re-discover your strengths and having some fun along the way!
Notice: I will be on maternity leave September 23rd-November 29th. Consultations begin again Dec. 2nd....You want to be seen, and wonder if you’ll ever be enough. Do better, try harder, don’t give up. The pressure of always trying to be your best is overwhelming. Annoyed, sad, and worried. You’re only human; sometimes you can’t keep up. Critical thoughts preoccupy your day. Small mistakes feel big, rejection feels inevitable, and the struggle to prove yourself exhausts you. All you want is to be seen and accepted by others. You wonder if you are the only one. Logic tells you no, but emotions seem to be stronger.
Notice: I will be on maternity leave September 23rd-November 29th. Consultations begin again Dec. 2nd....You want to be seen, and wonder if you’ll ever be enough. Do better, try harder, don’t give up. The pressure of always trying to be your best is overwhelming. Annoyed, sad, and worried. You’re only human; sometimes you can’t keep up. Critical thoughts preoccupy your day. Small mistakes feel big, rejection feels inevitable, and the struggle to prove yourself exhausts you. All you want is to be seen and accepted by others. You wonder if you are the only one. Logic tells you no, but emotions seem to be stronger.
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Family Frameworks, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
Cottage Grove, MN 55016
When necessary and appropriate, I will provide family therapy to address relational problems within a family system.
I am a mental health therapist, specializing in working with youth and young adults who experience anxiety and mood disorders. I have been working as a mental health therapist in private practice for 8 years. I also have been a school social worker for 24 years, thus have experience in both the clinical and school setting. I believe in working from a strengths perspective, building on the assets my clients possess and learning resiliency skills in addressing the challenges they are faced with.
When necessary and appropriate, I will provide family therapy to address relational problems within a family system.
I am a mental health therapist, specializing in working with youth and young adults who experience anxiety and mood disorders. I have been working as a mental health therapist in private practice for 8 years. I also have been a school social worker for 24 years, thus have experience in both the clinical and school setting. I believe in working from a strengths perspective, building on the assets my clients possess and learning resiliency skills in addressing the challenges they are faced with.
Haven Hafar
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSW, LGSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cottage Grove, MN 55016
You are constantly putting others first, and you feel alone & never good enough. It's hard for you to figure out what your own feelings and needs are & asking for help from others or setting boundaries feels impossible! Early adulthood is full of life transitions, uncertainty, new experiences, big decisions, and figuring out who we are. It's overwhelming! I have a niche for working with individuals in this stage of life, especially those also dealing with things like anxiety, depression, or complex family systems on top of it all. I work with couples too, understanding relationships impact mental health and vice versa.
You are constantly putting others first, and you feel alone & never good enough. It's hard for you to figure out what your own feelings and needs are & asking for help from others or setting boundaries feels impossible! Early adulthood is full of life transitions, uncertainty, new experiences, big decisions, and figuring out who we are. It's overwhelming! I have a niche for working with individuals in this stage of life, especially those also dealing with things like anxiety, depression, or complex family systems on top of it all. I work with couples too, understanding relationships impact mental health and vice versa.
Do you feel stuck and unsure how to move forward? We all have the ability to change our situations or the way we handle them, we just need a little hope. I love coming alongside people who are struggling and helping them to see the light at the end of the tunnel. From coloring and play therapy to exploring the past, challenging beliefs, or sitting with you in your pain--I have a passion for hurting people. I'd love to walk with you through shame and conflict in your life and help you find meaning and hope.
Do you feel stuck and unsure how to move forward? We all have the ability to change our situations or the way we handle them, we just need a little hope. I love coming alongside people who are struggling and helping them to see the light at the end of the tunnel. From coloring and play therapy to exploring the past, challenging beliefs, or sitting with you in your pain--I have a passion for hurting people. I'd love to walk with you through shame and conflict in your life and help you find meaning and hope.
Jolene Kirchner
Marriage & Family Therapist, RN, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cottage Grove, MN 55016
My primary focus is on relevant life issues with core content areas including: pre-marital, marriage, family (parenting/child rearing), life balance, self-care: spirit, mind, body health/wellness, spiritual growth and maturity, and addictions/chemical dependency. I have a specific passion for working with couples, families, women and young adults.
My primary focus is on relevant life issues with core content areas including: pre-marital, marriage, family (parenting/child rearing), life balance, self-care: spirit, mind, body health/wellness, spiritual growth and maturity, and addictions/chemical dependency. I have a specific passion for working with couples, families, women and young adults.
David C. Baumrucker
Counselor, MA, LPCC, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Cottage Grove, MN 55016 (Online Only)
We will all encounter challenges that shake the foundation of 'who we are.' Therapy is a space away from the world, a place to reflect on your life, and begin rebuilding yourself to be the person you want to be. You want lasting change and feel with the right support you can not only discover yourself, but your path in life well. Together, we will rediscover your strengths and awaken your motivation to begin 'building the momentum you need, to live the life you want.'
We will all encounter challenges that shake the foundation of 'who we are.' Therapy is a space away from the world, a place to reflect on your life, and begin rebuilding yourself to be the person you want to be. You want lasting change and feel with the right support you can not only discover yourself, but your path in life well. Together, we will rediscover your strengths and awaken your motivation to begin 'building the momentum you need, to live the life you want.'
Isabella Restrepo Toro, MA
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cottage Grove, MN 55016
My ideal client is someone ready for change, motivated to overcome obstacles, and committed to personal growth. They may struggle with anxiety, stress, or self-doubt and seek a deeper understanding of themselves. Their goal is to build resilience, achieve emotional balance, and develop healthier relationships. They want to move past their limitations because they value personal growth and are determined to lead a more fulfilling life. They understand that the process requires effort and are eager to work collaboratively to achieve lasting change.
My ideal client is someone ready for change, motivated to overcome obstacles, and committed to personal growth. They may struggle with anxiety, stress, or self-doubt and seek a deeper understanding of themselves. Their goal is to build resilience, achieve emotional balance, and develop healthier relationships. They want to move past their limitations because they value personal growth and are determined to lead a more fulfilling life. They understand that the process requires effort and are eager to work collaboratively to achieve lasting change.
Rachel Krieger
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Cottage Grove, MN 55016 (Online Only)
I have range of therapeutic experiences from individual mental health to working with families in a variety of contexts. I enjoy working with young adults, moms, women, and people from all backgrounds. I have a laid back, nonjudgmental approach and know that people are doing the best that they can. I recognize the importance of finding a therapist who is a good fit and will work hard to develop a safe, supportive, respectful, and productive environment for all clients. I strive to meet clients where they are at and work together. I aim to help clients identify their strengths, develop coping skills, & live a healthier life.
I have range of therapeutic experiences from individual mental health to working with families in a variety of contexts. I enjoy working with young adults, moms, women, and people from all backgrounds. I have a laid back, nonjudgmental approach and know that people are doing the best that they can. I recognize the importance of finding a therapist who is a good fit and will work hard to develop a safe, supportive, respectful, and productive environment for all clients. I strive to meet clients where they are at and work together. I aim to help clients identify their strengths, develop coping skills, & live a healthier life.
Courtney Gundrum
Counselor, PsyD, LPCC
Verified Verified
Cottage Grove, MN 55016 (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
As a therapist, I believe that authenticity and the therapeutic relationship are invaluable. I believe that therapy will not work if there is not a strong therapeutic alliance. I tend to be a laid back, compassionate clinician who values humor in session, but I am also not afraid to challenge you and be direct. I believe each individual is unique, therefore I do not believe there is one set way to do therapy. I value meeting individuals where they are at and learning about their strengths to help them in session. I work with adults ages 18+.
As a therapist, I believe that authenticity and the therapeutic relationship are invaluable. I believe that therapy will not work if there is not a strong therapeutic alliance. I tend to be a laid back, compassionate clinician who values humor in session, but I am also not afraid to challenge you and be direct. I believe each individual is unique, therefore I do not believe there is one set way to do therapy. I value meeting individuals where they are at and learning about their strengths to help them in session. I work with adults ages 18+.
Online Therapists
Missy Parsons-Stadler
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, LPCC, LADC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Minneapolis, MN 55439 (Online Only)
If you've been affected by addiction, emotionally distant parents, or just find yourself struggling in life... I offer a safe and compassionate space for you to explore your struggles and find ways to change dysfunctional relational patterns. If you are ready to start the journey of understanding, acceptance, and work toward change where it's needed...I will hold space for you and start where you are at, with no judgment. My specialty is working with relational change, addictive patterns, and adult women with ADHD or those suspect they might. However, I also enjoy working with anyone in life transition or who are "feeling stuck".
If you've been affected by addiction, emotionally distant parents, or just find yourself struggling in life... I offer a safe and compassionate space for you to explore your struggles and find ways to change dysfunctional relational patterns. If you are ready to start the journey of understanding, acceptance, and work toward change where it's needed...I will hold space for you and start where you are at, with no judgment. My specialty is working with relational change, addictive patterns, and adult women with ADHD or those suspect they might. However, I also enjoy working with anyone in life transition or who are "feeling stuck".
Monica O'Connell
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Minneapolis, MN 55408 (Online Only)
She challenges traditional siloed models of couples therapy, substance use and body image programs, instead creatively weaving each strand of the client’s unique relational complexity into her conceptualization process.
Unsure of what's next for your relationship? Feeling like you need support due to lack of intimacy and connection? Struggling to communicate? Couples therapy is here to help during difficult relationship turning points. Whether you're unsure if you can truly heal from betrayal, have dealt with months or years of sexual disconnection or are struggling to be on the same page with your partner, consider booking a marital therapy session today. You will both acquire the tools and skills needed to not just survive this hard time but to learn how to thrive in a healthier and happier relationship.
She challenges traditional siloed models of couples therapy, substance use and body image programs, instead creatively weaving each strand of the client’s unique relational complexity into her conceptualization process.
Unsure of what's next for your relationship? Feeling like you need support due to lack of intimacy and connection? Struggling to communicate? Couples therapy is here to help during difficult relationship turning points. Whether you're unsure if you can truly heal from betrayal, have dealt with months or years of sexual disconnection or are struggling to be on the same page with your partner, consider booking a marital therapy session today. You will both acquire the tools and skills needed to not just survive this hard time but to learn how to thrive in a healthier and happier relationship.
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Relational Therapists
How does relational therapy work?
Relational therapy was developed by psychologist Jean Miller, whose ideas stressed that having strong connections with others encourages better health and well-being when compared with a lonely existence. Conversely, poor interpersonal relationships do not foster growth and learning. Relational therapy also encourages trust in others and patience with others, along with better communication and less conflict.
Is relational therapy evidence-based?
Relational therapy is not well-studied, and it may not be as effective in treating certain mental health conditions when compared with evidence-based treatments like cognitive behavioral or acceptance and commitment therapy. However, relational therapy uses techniques found in cognitive behavioral therapy as well as psychodynamic therapy, which are both well-studied with empirical research.
How long are people typically in relational therapy?
Clients may see improvement after a few weeks or months of therapy. Like cognitive behavioral therapy, relational therapy can reduce symptoms within 10 to 20 weeks, at 45 to 50 minutes once a week. But like any type of therapy, improvement depends on the person and the severity of the problem.
Does relational therapy work?
While no therapy type will work for everyone, some evidence suggests that this therapy can be effective. Relational therapy can help a person manage problematic relationships as well as the mental health conditions that accompany difficult relationships like depression or anxiety. This therapy type may offer benefits that are hard to measure but can be just as valuable—including feelings of higher self-worth or healthier connections with others.