Gottman Method Therapists in Brooklyn Park, MN

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Shakara Taylor
Marriage & Family Therapist Intern
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brooklyn Park, MN 55443  (Online Only)
Let me start by saying thank you for being here today. Choosing to seek therapy can be a challenging decision but a courageous one, nonetheless. Hi, I’m Shakara, a passionate Marriage and Family Therapist Intern studying at Capella University with an expected graduation date of September 2024. As a dedicated learner and compassionate listener, I’m committed to supporting individuals, couples, and families on their journey toward healing and growth. I have vast experience working with children, adolescents, and adults across their lifespans for the last 12 years in various capacities.
Let me start by saying thank you for being here today. Choosing to seek therapy can be a challenging decision but a courageous one, nonetheless. Hi, I’m Shakara, a passionate Marriage and Family Therapist Intern studying at Capella University with an expected graduation date of September 2024. As a dedicated learner and compassionate listener, I’m committed to supporting individuals, couples, and families on their journey toward healing and growth. I have vast experience working with children, adolescents, and adults across their lifespans for the last 12 years in various capacities.
(763) 373-7032 View (763) 373-7032
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Renita Johnson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
Brooklyn Park, MN 55444  (Online Only)
As a therapist I have provided therapeutic services over the last 14+ years to clients seeking additional support, experience, and expertise surrounding issues related to intimate and family relationship dynamics. Part of my work with clients has also included understanding the impact that Acute Stress and Trauma has on our lives and exploring how our Culture and Identity inform our individual and communal decision making. In addition, clients have also sought me out to work through past unresolved issues related to foster care and adoption, and ongoing stressors related to being a Black Woman.
As a therapist I have provided therapeutic services over the last 14+ years to clients seeking additional support, experience, and expertise surrounding issues related to intimate and family relationship dynamics. Part of my work with clients has also included understanding the impact that Acute Stress and Trauma has on our lives and exploring how our Culture and Identity inform our individual and communal decision making. In addition, clients have also sought me out to work through past unresolved issues related to foster care and adoption, and ongoing stressors related to being a Black Woman.
(651) 390-6786 View (651) 390-6786
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Elizabeth Paulsen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Brooklyn Park, MN 55428  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Therapy can provide a powerful opportunity for self-understanding and balance restoration which ultimately leads to growth and emotional healing. My goal as a therapist is to create a safe and trusted space with clients to help them begin to identify problematic patterns and explore healthy, effective coping skills. My hope is this repairative process will facilitate change not just within the context of therapy but in all relationships and areas of a client's life. There are many issues we may explore in therapy: anxiety, depression, eating disorders, body image, grief/loss and life transitions among others.
Therapy can provide a powerful opportunity for self-understanding and balance restoration which ultimately leads to growth and emotional healing. My goal as a therapist is to create a safe and trusted space with clients to help them begin to identify problematic patterns and explore healthy, effective coping skills. My hope is this repairative process will facilitate change not just within the context of therapy but in all relationships and areas of a client's life. There are many issues we may explore in therapy: anxiety, depression, eating disorders, body image, grief/loss and life transitions among others.
(763) 600-7223 View (763) 600-7223
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Jan D'Ambrosio
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Brooklyn Park, MN 55428
I work with couples, families, and individuals to find their strength, helping to guide them towards healing and a better tomorrow. My work with couples and families is designed to strengthen their relationships. I also work with individuals experiencing the pain of depression, dealing with anxiety, those struggling with the weight of grief, having trouble getting past anger and much more. My passion is to help others grow relationships and become stronger individuals.
I work with couples, families, and individuals to find their strength, helping to guide them towards healing and a better tomorrow. My work with couples and families is designed to strengthen their relationships. I also work with individuals experiencing the pain of depression, dealing with anxiety, those struggling with the weight of grief, having trouble getting past anger and much more. My passion is to help others grow relationships and become stronger individuals.
(763) 401-7517 View (763) 401-7517
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Brooke Mollan
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Brooklyn Park, MN 55428
Whether you struggle with anxiety, depression, work stress, grief and loss, personal or professional identity, relationship problems, life stage transitions, or general stuckness, I will meet you where you are with compassion and approachability. Together, we'll build a safe and trusting space where you can openly explore your challenges and goals. We'll work collaboratively to understand what's holding you back and develop a plan for positive change. And yes, we'll even find moments for laughter and lightness along the way. I won't pretend to have all the answers or offer quick fixes. However, I can offer unwavering support.
Whether you struggle with anxiety, depression, work stress, grief and loss, personal or professional identity, relationship problems, life stage transitions, or general stuckness, I will meet you where you are with compassion and approachability. Together, we'll build a safe and trusting space where you can openly explore your challenges and goals. We'll work collaboratively to understand what's holding you back and develop a plan for positive change. And yes, we'll even find moments for laughter and lightness along the way. I won't pretend to have all the answers or offer quick fixes. However, I can offer unwavering support.
(763) 703-1491 View (763) 703-1491
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Chris Anderson
Psychologist, PsyD, LP, SAP
Verified Verified
Brooklyn Park, MN 55445
At Innovative Psychological Consultants most clients coming are anxious and worried about being judged. They believe they are somehow different, their problems unique, and wonder if they can even be helped. After 25 years of practice, you have to work really hard to surprise us. The reality is that people are people and there problems do not differ nearly as much as they perceive. Where it's relationship problems, stress, anxiety, depression, or trauma; we have a plan to help you achieve the results you are looking for.
At Innovative Psychological Consultants most clients coming are anxious and worried about being judged. They believe they are somehow different, their problems unique, and wonder if they can even be helped. After 25 years of practice, you have to work really hard to surprise us. The reality is that people are people and there problems do not differ nearly as much as they perceive. Where it's relationship problems, stress, anxiety, depression, or trauma; we have a plan to help you achieve the results you are looking for.
(763) 401-7462 View (763) 401-7462

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Colleen Imholte
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Minneapolis, MN 55404
My approach is informed by the Gottman Method, Internal Family Systems, and Relational-Cultural Theory.
Relationships have the potential to be great sources of meaning and connection, and yet, sometimes they can be confusing and stressful. I work to support couples and individuals who are caught in cycles of high conflict in their relationships. Together we can name, process, and explore things that may keep you feeling stuck, like systemic barriers, abuse, traumatic experiences, relationship patterns, and self-limiting beliefs. I strive to provide a respectful space for curiosity and expression to help clients strengthen bonds and gain clarity around their relationship norms and expectations.
My approach is informed by the Gottman Method, Internal Family Systems, and Relational-Cultural Theory.
Relationships have the potential to be great sources of meaning and connection, and yet, sometimes they can be confusing and stressful. I work to support couples and individuals who are caught in cycles of high conflict in their relationships. Together we can name, process, and explore things that may keep you feeling stuck, like systemic barriers, abuse, traumatic experiences, relationship patterns, and self-limiting beliefs. I strive to provide a respectful space for curiosity and expression to help clients strengthen bonds and gain clarity around their relationship norms and expectations.
(651) 342-8261 View (651) 342-8261
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Emma Murphy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Minneapolis, MN 55403
Emma also has advanced training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (currently on the certification track) and is passionate about working with couples to increase relationship satisfaction and heal past hurts.
Emma is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker who primarily sees clients who are law enforcement professionals, first responders, veterans and their families. As the wife of a police officer and veteran, clients can expect to be able to work with someone who understands the culture, lifestyle, pressures, and stressors that come with such high-stress, high-stakes careers. Emma also specializes in treating anxiety, and stress management. Emma is trained in the use of Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART), a highly effective eye-movement therapy created for the treatment of trauma.
Emma also has advanced training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (currently on the certification track) and is passionate about working with couples to increase relationship satisfaction and heal past hurts.
Emma is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker who primarily sees clients who are law enforcement professionals, first responders, veterans and their families. As the wife of a police officer and veteran, clients can expect to be able to work with someone who understands the culture, lifestyle, pressures, and stressors that come with such high-stress, high-stakes careers. Emma also specializes in treating anxiety, and stress management. Emma is trained in the use of Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART), a highly effective eye-movement therapy created for the treatment of trauma.
(952) 209-2158 View (952) 209-2158
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Angela Ordyniec
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
Minneapolis, MN 55418  (Online Only)
I have training and experience in CBT, ACT, CPT as well as the Gottman Method for couples, and have over a decade of experience working with TGNC and gender expansive people and their families.
Would you like to become more self aware, accept what you are unable to control, and move toward healing? If you would like support with grief/loss, relationship dynamics/communication, life transitions, exploration of identity and sexuality, and inner discomfort including anxiety and sadness, I am here to support you. Accepting new patients for teletherapy in New York, Minnesota, South Carolina, California and New Jersey for individuals and couples therapy.
I have training and experience in CBT, ACT, CPT as well as the Gottman Method for couples, and have over a decade of experience working with TGNC and gender expansive people and their families.
Would you like to become more self aware, accept what you are unable to control, and move toward healing? If you would like support with grief/loss, relationship dynamics/communication, life transitions, exploration of identity and sexuality, and inner discomfort including anxiety and sadness, I am here to support you. Accepting new patients for teletherapy in New York, Minnesota, South Carolina, California and New Jersey for individuals and couples therapy.
(929) 202-2588 View (929) 202-2588
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Nichole Parker
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MSP, MSMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Minneapolis, MN 55400
I really enjoy working through a variety of issues, and have a unique and comforting approach to guiding clients out of whatever they are currently sitting with. I believe the client is the expert in their own lives and they are capable of change, but sometimes need some help to figure out their path and find solutions. I don’t believe there is a one-size-fits-all approach to any issue, and use various methods such as EMDR, DBT, ACT, and solution focused, depending on your needs. I use Gottman Method Couples Therapy in my work with couples.
I really enjoy working through a variety of issues, and have a unique and comforting approach to guiding clients out of whatever they are currently sitting with. I believe the client is the expert in their own lives and they are capable of change, but sometimes need some help to figure out their path and find solutions. I don’t believe there is a one-size-fits-all approach to any issue, and use various methods such as EMDR, DBT, ACT, and solution focused, depending on your needs. I use Gottman Method Couples Therapy in my work with couples.
(727) 324-6449 View (727) 324-6449
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Kerin Logstrom
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Minnetonka, MN 55305
I am an experienced Gottman Method Couples Therapist.
I believe that the key to a successful therapeutic experience is the strength and quality of the relationship between the client and the therapist. Building trust and rapport is where we start. My experience as a psychotherapist has affirmed my belief that each of us has a great capacity to change and grow. I specialize in working with clients to process emotional pain that has resulted from different stressors that occur through the life cycle. Developing one's emotional awareness can result in more intimate, loving relationships.
I am an experienced Gottman Method Couples Therapist.
I believe that the key to a successful therapeutic experience is the strength and quality of the relationship between the client and the therapist. Building trust and rapport is where we start. My experience as a psychotherapist has affirmed my belief that each of us has a great capacity to change and grow. I specialize in working with clients to process emotional pain that has resulted from different stressors that occur through the life cycle. Developing one's emotional awareness can result in more intimate, loving relationships.
(612) 354-8932 View (612) 354-8932
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Kila Carrier
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Minneapolis, MN 55402  (Online Only)
I received a Masters degree in Social Work from University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee and am currently completing requirements for certification in the Gottman Method for couples counseling.
Are you someone who deals with excessive worry and can’t seem to find ways to manage it? Do you and your partner often engage in conflict and feel like nothing changes? If so, you have come to the right place and I am glad that you have taken this huge step towards meaningful change. I have been a licensed therapist for 7 years and use a collaborative approach to therapy. I have experience in providing therapy and crisis intervention services to those struggling with a range of mental health struggles and have spent the past four years specializing in treating anxiety in adults and helping couples overcome relationship difficulties.
I received a Masters degree in Social Work from University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee and am currently completing requirements for certification in the Gottman Method for couples counseling.
Are you someone who deals with excessive worry and can’t seem to find ways to manage it? Do you and your partner often engage in conflict and feel like nothing changes? If so, you have come to the right place and I am glad that you have taken this huge step towards meaningful change. I have been a licensed therapist for 7 years and use a collaborative approach to therapy. I have experience in providing therapy and crisis intervention services to those struggling with a range of mental health struggles and have spent the past four years specializing in treating anxiety in adults and helping couples overcome relationship difficulties.
(651) 394-0993 View (651) 394-0993
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David Berg, MA, LMFT, LADC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LADC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Saint Louis Park, MN 55416
Online Therapy and Telehealth only. Currently accepting new day clients. My passion is helping people improve their lives, relationships, and find greater fulfillment. I help people help themselves. I've had the pleasure of a career of many years practicing counseling, therapy, coaching, and social work with individuals, couples, groups, and families in multiple settings. I am a Certified Clinically Trained Gottman Method and Emotions Focused Couples Therapist.
Online Therapy and Telehealth only. Currently accepting new day clients. My passion is helping people improve their lives, relationships, and find greater fulfillment. I help people help themselves. I've had the pleasure of a career of many years practicing counseling, therapy, coaching, and social work with individuals, couples, groups, and families in multiple settings. I am a Certified Clinically Trained Gottman Method and Emotions Focused Couples Therapist.
(218) 453-7020 View (218) 453-7020
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Ben Snyder
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, MSW, LICSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Minneapolis, MN 55408
I help couples using the Gottman method, a data-driven approach, to improve connection and conflict management.
Relationships require trust, communication, and profound awareness of each other’s worlds. I work with couples, including polyamorous, non-monogamous, kinky, etc, to build connection, trust, and intimacy in their relationships. I also help partners learn to manage relationship conflict more effectively. I help partners find ways to communicate about challenging and sensitive issues. This is important when partners struggle to connect around each other's unique sexual wants and needs. These conversations need an atmosphere of trust, acceptance, and non-judgment, as partners learn to validate and respond to each other's sexual selves.
I help couples using the Gottman method, a data-driven approach, to improve connection and conflict management.
Relationships require trust, communication, and profound awareness of each other’s worlds. I work with couples, including polyamorous, non-monogamous, kinky, etc, to build connection, trust, and intimacy in their relationships. I also help partners learn to manage relationship conflict more effectively. I help partners find ways to communicate about challenging and sensitive issues. This is important when partners struggle to connect around each other's unique sexual wants and needs. These conversations need an atmosphere of trust, acceptance, and non-judgment, as partners learn to validate and respond to each other's sexual selves.
(651) 349-6027 View (651) 349-6027
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Sonja Benson
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Plymouth, MN 55441
I specialize in marriage & family therapy using a systems approach and Gottman Method therapy including for infidelity & PTSD. I'm certified in Discernment counseling as well. Finally, I work on the entire spectrum of relationships from dating to pre-marital to transitions or divorce. I also provide parenting coaching. I am also trained as a divorce mediator and help many people with parenting plans. I provide ADHD based couples therapy and am an ADHD certified clinical services provider.
I specialize in marriage & family therapy using a systems approach and Gottman Method therapy including for infidelity & PTSD. I'm certified in Discernment counseling as well. Finally, I work on the entire spectrum of relationships from dating to pre-marital to transitions or divorce. I also provide parenting coaching. I am also trained as a divorce mediator and help many people with parenting plans. I provide ADHD based couples therapy and am an ADHD certified clinical services provider.
(952) 373-0563 View (952) 373-0563
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Lisa Watson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MDiv, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Saint Louis Park, MN 55426
I have training in the Gottman Method (Level 1), Pragmatic/Experiential Therapy (PET-C), Pia Mellody’s Post Induction Therapy (PIT).
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and work primarily with adult individuals and couples in areas of anxiety, depression, parenting, trauma, medical trauma, chronic illness, grief and loss, healthcare workers, infidelity and betrayal. From a 20 year career as a hospital chaplain, I have extensive work with end of life issues, grief and loss, and cultural, religious, racial, economic and gender diversity. I believe in meeting clients where they are at and walking with them on their journey of healing and wholeness.
I have training in the Gottman Method (Level 1), Pragmatic/Experiential Therapy (PET-C), Pia Mellody’s Post Induction Therapy (PIT).
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and work primarily with adult individuals and couples in areas of anxiety, depression, parenting, trauma, medical trauma, chronic illness, grief and loss, healthcare workers, infidelity and betrayal. From a 20 year career as a hospital chaplain, I have extensive work with end of life issues, grief and loss, and cultural, religious, racial, economic and gender diversity. I believe in meeting clients where they are at and walking with them on their journey of healing and wholeness.
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Jeana Wescott
Marriage & Family Therapist, MDiv, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Golden Valley, MN 55426
I'm Level 3 trained in the Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Gottman Method to Treating Affairs, EFT Externship for Emotionally Focused Therapy, and EFIT for individual therapy.
Offering Intensive Couples Therapy Weekends using the Gottman Method Couples Therapy. I help couples find healing, repair past hurts, and learn to communicate and fight better. Connection and communication off? Recently discover your partner had an affair and now you're marriage is in crisis? Going through divorce and finding yourself single again? Like my clients, you deserve to be in a relationship you feel good about. I'm passionate about working with couples and individuals to help you understand your stuck cycles and teach you the skills to get the relationship you desire.
I'm Level 3 trained in the Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Gottman Method to Treating Affairs, EFT Externship for Emotionally Focused Therapy, and EFIT for individual therapy.
Offering Intensive Couples Therapy Weekends using the Gottman Method Couples Therapy. I help couples find healing, repair past hurts, and learn to communicate and fight better. Connection and communication off? Recently discover your partner had an affair and now you're marriage is in crisis? Going through divorce and finding yourself single again? Like my clients, you deserve to be in a relationship you feel good about. I'm passionate about working with couples and individuals to help you understand your stuck cycles and teach you the skills to get the relationship you desire.
(763) 710-6435 View (763) 710-6435
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Diane Foy
Psychologist, MEd, LP
Verified Verified
Plymouth, MN 55447
Waitlist for new clients
I have been trained in the Gottman Method, level 3, as well as the Gottman Method for Treating Affairs and Betrayal and am a certified leader for The 7 Principles of Making a Marriage Work.
I offer a strength based, caring approach to creating change. I treat each person with respect and dignity. Decades of experience and intensive trainings ground my clinical work in evidenced based practices. I work with individuals, couples and families to identify core issues, negotiate conflicts, enhance coping skills and create behavior change. My work with couples and families encourages and teaches healthy communication skills and enhances attachment. I have Gottman Method and Emotionally Focussed Couples training. I work with individuals struggling with depression, anxiety, effects of trauma and relationship issues.
I have been trained in the Gottman Method, level 3, as well as the Gottman Method for Treating Affairs and Betrayal and am a certified leader for The 7 Principles of Making a Marriage Work.
I offer a strength based, caring approach to creating change. I treat each person with respect and dignity. Decades of experience and intensive trainings ground my clinical work in evidenced based practices. I work with individuals, couples and families to identify core issues, negotiate conflicts, enhance coping skills and create behavior change. My work with couples and families encourages and teaches healthy communication skills and enhances attachment. I have Gottman Method and Emotionally Focussed Couples training. I work with individuals struggling with depression, anxiety, effects of trauma and relationship issues.
(651) 968-1983 View (651) 968-1983
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Breana Foley
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Saint Louis Park, MN 55426
I am trained in Polyvagal, Tapping, Brainspotting, Healing our Core Issues, The Gottman Method, and Pragmatic/Experiential Therapy.
Are you feeling overwhelmed with the process of selecting a therapist? It's completely normal to feel that way. Please take advantage of the free consultation that I offer to determine if I am the right fit. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), I specialize in working with adults, children, and couples who are dealing with issues of anxiety, pre-marital counseling, parenting, trauma, chronic illness, anger management, grief, and loss. I have experience working with individuals of all ages who have various disabilities. Additionally, I have volunteered with hospice, which has given me unique insights into grief.
I am trained in Polyvagal, Tapping, Brainspotting, Healing our Core Issues, The Gottman Method, and Pragmatic/Experiential Therapy.
Are you feeling overwhelmed with the process of selecting a therapist? It's completely normal to feel that way. Please take advantage of the free consultation that I offer to determine if I am the right fit. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), I specialize in working with adults, children, and couples who are dealing with issues of anxiety, pre-marital counseling, parenting, trauma, chronic illness, anger management, grief, and loss. I have experience working with individuals of all ages who have various disabilities. Additionally, I have volunteered with hospice, which has given me unique insights into grief.
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Daniel Anear
ACA
Verified Verified
Roseville, MN 55113
Using tools like personality typology and the Gottman Method, I’ll help you understand yourself and your partner in deeper ways.
I have immediate availability! Your relationship is stuck and it's wearing you out. You feel like you are going around in circles and the pain and hurt is piling up. You try to communicate but you don’t feel seen or heard. The exhaustion is growing, constantly trying to fix things and getting nowhere. “I didn’t think it you would be this way” you tell yourself. When you met, there was a spark. You felt so attracted to this unique person but now those differences are grating and cause you pain. It’s like you’re speaking different languages, and you just wish your partner could see things your way.
Using tools like personality typology and the Gottman Method, I’ll help you understand yourself and your partner in deeper ways.
I have immediate availability! Your relationship is stuck and it's wearing you out. You feel like you are going around in circles and the pain and hurt is piling up. You try to communicate but you don’t feel seen or heard. The exhaustion is growing, constantly trying to fix things and getting nowhere. “I didn’t think it you would be this way” you tell yourself. When you met, there was a spark. You felt so attracted to this unique person but now those differences are grating and cause you pain. It’s like you’re speaking different languages, and you just wish your partner could see things your way.
(952) 900-5319 View (952) 900-5319

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Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.