Gottman Method Therapists in Blaine, MN

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Steven Freund
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, MFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Blaine, MN 55434  (Online Only)
I want to support you in the analysis of your, patterns, challenges and transitions. Are you unsure of your direction, your next move? Do you find yourself in familiar place, in spite of the fact that you've changed partners, jobs or the place you live? I've been there and at one particularly trying time in my life decided to go back to school and study RELATIONSHIPS. What I learned, backed by contemporary research, changed my life and set me on the path to helping others. KNOWLEDGE can help you establish a more satisfying direction and life. Start today with a free phone consultation or half hour session.
I want to support you in the analysis of your, patterns, challenges and transitions. Are you unsure of your direction, your next move? Do you find yourself in familiar place, in spite of the fact that you've changed partners, jobs or the place you live? I've been there and at one particularly trying time in my life decided to go back to school and study RELATIONSHIPS. What I learned, backed by contemporary research, changed my life and set me on the path to helping others. KNOWLEDGE can help you establish a more satisfying direction and life. Start today with a free phone consultation or half hour session.
(651) 413-6471 View (651) 413-6471
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Kat Ludwig
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Blaine, MN 55434
Waitlist for new clients
Are you tired of therapists who say that they do relationship therapy only to have you practice basic communication skills? Are you tired of the lack of progress and want to get unstuck once and for all? I specialize in making sure that time does continue to pass by while you are feeling weighed down in the status quo. I'm straightforward and honest. My clients describe me as annoyingly neutral when they try to get me to take sides against their partners. They also describe me as willing to ask the hard questions and willing to keep people accountable. I love helping people navigate every stage of coupling or uncoupling.
Are you tired of therapists who say that they do relationship therapy only to have you practice basic communication skills? Are you tired of the lack of progress and want to get unstuck once and for all? I specialize in making sure that time does continue to pass by while you are feeling weighed down in the status quo. I'm straightforward and honest. My clients describe me as annoyingly neutral when they try to get me to take sides against their partners. They also describe me as willing to ask the hard questions and willing to keep people accountable. I love helping people navigate every stage of coupling or uncoupling.
(651) 376-3575 View (651) 376-3575
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Fuller Living & Associates, LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Blaine, MN 55434
We offer counseling in Blaine, Anoka, and Roseville for individuals, couples, and families. We journey with clients through their life struggle. We provide a safe and non-judgmental environment in which we hear you through ears of empathy and understanding. We have experience working with individuals facing many issues and we believe in the power of effective and efficient care. We believe that there is always hope, that getting to your dreams is possible and that healing is attainable. We journey alongside you through your life difficulties with ears, eyes, and hearts of empathy and understanding.
We offer counseling in Blaine, Anoka, and Roseville for individuals, couples, and families. We journey with clients through their life struggle. We provide a safe and non-judgmental environment in which we hear you through ears of empathy and understanding. We have experience working with individuals facing many issues and we believe in the power of effective and efficient care. We believe that there is always hope, that getting to your dreams is possible and that healing is attainable. We journey alongside you through your life difficulties with ears, eyes, and hearts of empathy and understanding.
(763) 647-8188 View (763) 647-8188
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Joanne Harste
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Blaine, MN 55434  (Online Only)
I am committed to empowering individuals, couples and families to take charge of their lives as a means of enhancing their relationships and improving the quality of their lives. Most individuals enter therapy when how they have been doing life is no longer working. I use a variety of therapeutic approaches in my work and incorporate into each clients work those I believe will be most helpful to them and their situation. I most enjoy working with people experiencing especially challenging situations who are seeking more effective ways of coping with life stressors.
I am committed to empowering individuals, couples and families to take charge of their lives as a means of enhancing their relationships and improving the quality of their lives. Most individuals enter therapy when how they have been doing life is no longer working. I use a variety of therapeutic approaches in my work and incorporate into each clients work those I believe will be most helpful to them and their situation. I most enjoy working with people experiencing especially challenging situations who are seeking more effective ways of coping with life stressors.
(763) 575-8729 View (763) 575-8729
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Tai Miller
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Blaine, MN 55434
I have experience working with a culturally diverse population of individuals. My clients range from age 6 to age 65. Most of my experience is working with children, teens, young adults, adults, and families. I believe the greatest success is to accompany the client on their journey and to be the guide to navigate through the challenges of life. I regard the client to be the expert in their lives and it is important for them to discuss their goals and their expectations. My clients who experience the greatest success are motivated and ready to work, open-minded, flexible, introspective, honest, and trusting.
I have experience working with a culturally diverse population of individuals. My clients range from age 6 to age 65. Most of my experience is working with children, teens, young adults, adults, and families. I believe the greatest success is to accompany the client on their journey and to be the guide to navigate through the challenges of life. I regard the client to be the expert in their lives and it is important for them to discuss their goals and their expectations. My clients who experience the greatest success are motivated and ready to work, open-minded, flexible, introspective, honest, and trusting.
(763) 343-7942 View (763) 343-7942
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Fuller Living-Spring Lake Park
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Blaine, MN 55449
WHAT WE DO: Fuller Living & Associates offers counseling and therapy for individuals, couples, and families and has immediate openings every day of the week. We journey with clients through nearly any hardship.We provide a safe and non-judgmental environment in which we hear you through ears of empathy and understanding. We have experience working with individuals facing many issues and we believe in the power of effective and efficient care. We also take a faith based approach for those who desire that.
WHAT WE DO: Fuller Living & Associates offers counseling and therapy for individuals, couples, and families and has immediate openings every day of the week. We journey with clients through nearly any hardship.We provide a safe and non-judgmental environment in which we hear you through ears of empathy and understanding. We have experience working with individuals facing many issues and we believe in the power of effective and efficient care. We also take a faith based approach for those who desire that.
(763) 292-3858 View (763) 292-3858
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Shoreview Mental Health Center
Psychologist, PsyD, LP
Verified Verified
Blaine, MN 55014
(651) 504-1857 View (651) 504-1857

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Lilia Imgrund
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Anoka, MN 55303  (Online Only)
I have completed Level 2 Training in Gottman method couples therapy as well as Circle of Security Parenting, which is an attachment based parenting model.
I am currently taking new clients! I enjoy working with individuals, couples and families on a variety of issues including: anxiety, mood disorders, attachment/relational concerns, parenting skills, divorce, life transitions, and work stress. After becoming a parent myself I have really enjoyed working with mothers going through post partum and other parenting struggles. I am passionate about helping clients build and maintain a strong nuclear family.
I have completed Level 2 Training in Gottman method couples therapy as well as Circle of Security Parenting, which is an attachment based parenting model.
I am currently taking new clients! I enjoy working with individuals, couples and families on a variety of issues including: anxiety, mood disorders, attachment/relational concerns, parenting skills, divorce, life transitions, and work stress. After becoming a parent myself I have really enjoyed working with mothers going through post partum and other parenting struggles. I am passionate about helping clients build and maintain a strong nuclear family.
(763) 888-0473 View (763) 888-0473
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Jack Anderson
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Coon Rapids, MN 55433
As a Certified Prepare/Enrich Facilitator and Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level I&II provider, I bring evidence-based approaches to our sessions.
Imagine a space where you can freely explore your thoughts and feelings, build resilience against anxiety and depression, and enhance your communication skills for healthier relationships. It's all possible when we work together. I specialize in individual, family, and couples therapy for clients aged 10 and above. I'm dedicated to helping you overcome a wide range of concerns, from managing day-to-day stress, to navigating the challenges and transitions that come with raising a teen. Additionally, if faith plays a significant role in your life, I have extensive experience in faith integration within therapy.
As a Certified Prepare/Enrich Facilitator and Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level I&II provider, I bring evidence-based approaches to our sessions.
Imagine a space where you can freely explore your thoughts and feelings, build resilience against anxiety and depression, and enhance your communication skills for healthier relationships. It's all possible when we work together. I specialize in individual, family, and couples therapy for clients aged 10 and above. I'm dedicated to helping you overcome a wide range of concerns, from managing day-to-day stress, to navigating the challenges and transitions that come with raising a teen. Additionally, if faith plays a significant role in your life, I have extensive experience in faith integration within therapy.
(651) 504-1971 View (651) 504-1971
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Laura Murphy
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
Saint Paul, MN 55112
I use a variety of approaches in my work, including attachment theory, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, solution focused therapy, and mindfulness.
Currently accepting clients. Do you ever struggle to find a balance between all of the parts of your life? Maybe you focus so much on other people’s needs that it’s hard for you to express your own, or maybe you are noticing that miscommunication and resentment are getting in the way of the connection you long for. I work with people who want to build whole and healthy relationships with themselves AND with the important people in their lives. I will help you develop skills and strategies that will support you in navigating life challenges and transitions in a wholehearted, embodied, and connected way.
I use a variety of approaches in my work, including attachment theory, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, solution focused therapy, and mindfulness.
Currently accepting clients. Do you ever struggle to find a balance between all of the parts of your life? Maybe you focus so much on other people’s needs that it’s hard for you to express your own, or maybe you are noticing that miscommunication and resentment are getting in the way of the connection you long for. I work with people who want to build whole and healthy relationships with themselves AND with the important people in their lives. I will help you develop skills and strategies that will support you in navigating life challenges and transitions in a wholehearted, embodied, and connected way.
(651) 432-0123 View (651) 432-0123
Photo of Jessica Morton, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist
Jessica Morton
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Coon Rapids, MN 55433
Waitlist for new clients
I lead couples and families in finding new ways to communicate because every voice within the system has a right to be heard and valued. The therapy process is an exploration of alternative strategies to find what works for you. I don't believe any individual is broken or needs fixing. We all struggle with feeling lost after negative events. It can seem like a situation is hopeless, but I have witnessed clients courageously choosing to forgive, rebuild, and reconnect. Lighted Pathways Therapy LLC guides clients to embrace their inner resilience. Every human struggle makes you braver to face the next challenge with renewed strength.
I lead couples and families in finding new ways to communicate because every voice within the system has a right to be heard and valued. The therapy process is an exploration of alternative strategies to find what works for you. I don't believe any individual is broken or needs fixing. We all struggle with feeling lost after negative events. It can seem like a situation is hopeless, but I have witnessed clients courageously choosing to forgive, rebuild, and reconnect. Lighted Pathways Therapy LLC guides clients to embrace their inner resilience. Every human struggle makes you braver to face the next challenge with renewed strength.
(844) 393-2731 View (844) 393-2731
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Torrie Crider
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
Centerville, MN 55038
Waitlist for new clients
I enjoy working with all stressors, disorders and issues no matter how big or small. I don't have an ideal client because I really enjoy working with people of all walks of life. I want to help you establish goals and together we will achieve them. I specialize in children, adolescents and early childhood. I work with telehealth (video sessions).
I enjoy working with all stressors, disorders and issues no matter how big or small. I don't have an ideal client because I really enjoy working with people of all walks of life. I want to help you establish goals and together we will achieve them. I specialize in children, adolescents and early childhood. I work with telehealth (video sessions).
(651) 419-4907 View (651) 419-4907
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Ben Tudor
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Coon Rapids, MN 55433  (Online Only)
If there is one thing I have learned as a therapist, it is reflected in this quote by Carl Rogers: “What is most personal is most universal”. We all hurt. We are all insecure. You are not alone. Though I believe we are more alike than different, not everyone’s therapy experience should be the same. Together, we would create a personalized therapy experience that suits your conversation style, personality, needs, pace. My job is to offer reframes and counterpoints, and sometimes challenge you. Therapy can be hard, but we can also have fun. I use humor to work through hard sh-t and I use hope as the engine to move you forward.
If there is one thing I have learned as a therapist, it is reflected in this quote by Carl Rogers: “What is most personal is most universal”. We all hurt. We are all insecure. You are not alone. Though I believe we are more alike than different, not everyone’s therapy experience should be the same. Together, we would create a personalized therapy experience that suits your conversation style, personality, needs, pace. My job is to offer reframes and counterpoints, and sometimes challenge you. Therapy can be hard, but we can also have fun. I use humor to work through hard sh-t and I use hope as the engine to move you forward.
(773) 839-3303 View (773) 839-3303
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Omish Schopf
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, MA, LADC, LPCC -s
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Anoka, MN 55303  (Online Only)
I am dedicated to guiding clients through trauma and losses that obscure life's beauty. My goal is to reignite your zest, help you meet your authentic self, and navigate life's changes and challenges. Together, we'll explore your inner strength to acknowledge discrepancies and learn how to make desired changes. I combine EMDR with CBT, DBT, and holistic methods to improve your relationship with yourself, others, and the world. Through eye movements, you'll feel as if you've solved a puzzle, breaking the vicious cycle of unhealthy behaviors, shedding long-held burdens and experiencing lasting change, opening opportunities for growth.
I am dedicated to guiding clients through trauma and losses that obscure life's beauty. My goal is to reignite your zest, help you meet your authentic self, and navigate life's changes and challenges. Together, we'll explore your inner strength to acknowledge discrepancies and learn how to make desired changes. I combine EMDR with CBT, DBT, and holistic methods to improve your relationship with yourself, others, and the world. Through eye movements, you'll feel as if you've solved a puzzle, breaking the vicious cycle of unhealthy behaviors, shedding long-held burdens and experiencing lasting change, opening opportunities for growth.
(763) 298-4570 View (763) 298-4570
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Connie Wheeler
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC, LADC
Verified Verified
Coon Rapids, MN 55433
Are you feeling uncertain and stuck? When terrible events or experiences happen in our lives, trauma is the emotional response that happens in our bodies. This could be a physical trauma such as a car accident, rape, physical abuse, or a natural disaster. There is also emotional trauma can be caused by emotional abuse, humiliation, and even grief. EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. This therapy is one of the most effective ways to treat trauma as it engages both sides of the brain and allows the trauma memory to be properly processed in the body.
Are you feeling uncertain and stuck? When terrible events or experiences happen in our lives, trauma is the emotional response that happens in our bodies. This could be a physical trauma such as a car accident, rape, physical abuse, or a natural disaster. There is also emotional trauma can be caused by emotional abuse, humiliation, and even grief. EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. This therapy is one of the most effective ways to treat trauma as it engages both sides of the brain and allows the trauma memory to be properly processed in the body.
(507) 412-5581 View (507) 412-5581
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Wendy Alm
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Columbia Heights, MN 55421  (Online Only)
Are you feeling stuck? Is anxiety or depression interfering with the life you want to lead? Is there a disconnect between you and your significant other? Please know that you do not have to face these challenges alone. Counseling can uncover what it is that you personally need to live your best life, and assist you in moving toward it. You don't have to stay stuck. Decide that you deserve to be happy, that you are worthy of satisfying relationships, and that you are capable of making positive changes. Come as you are, and let's get to work.
Are you feeling stuck? Is anxiety or depression interfering with the life you want to lead? Is there a disconnect between you and your significant other? Please know that you do not have to face these challenges alone. Counseling can uncover what it is that you personally need to live your best life, and assist you in moving toward it. You don't have to stay stuck. Decide that you deserve to be happy, that you are worthy of satisfying relationships, and that you are capable of making positive changes. Come as you are, and let's get to work.
(952) 592-1912 View (952) 592-1912
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Twin Cities Mental Health&Couples Faten Khoury
Marriage & Family Therapist, Post, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Fridley, MN 55421
For support in managing difficulties in your personal & professional lives caused by unresolved traumas or conflict, therapy can help. I work with individuals, couples, & families to help collaboratively tackle the challenges they are facing, through creating a new insight & forming an action, solution plan. Additionally, I practice EMDR therapy, AEDP, Brainspotting and Neurofeedback and find it powerful in healing a range of psychological concerns including depression, anxiety, shame and trauma and areas where clients experience "being stuck". My practice is based on years of well-established evidence-based effective treatments.
For support in managing difficulties in your personal & professional lives caused by unresolved traumas or conflict, therapy can help. I work with individuals, couples, & families to help collaboratively tackle the challenges they are facing, through creating a new insight & forming an action, solution plan. Additionally, I practice EMDR therapy, AEDP, Brainspotting and Neurofeedback and find it powerful in healing a range of psychological concerns including depression, anxiety, shame and trauma and areas where clients experience "being stuck". My practice is based on years of well-established evidence-based effective treatments.
(651) 760-5407 View (651) 760-5407
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Carrie Miller
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Minneapolis, MN 55421
There is hope after trauma. MEND Therapy is unique in the twin cities in that we are an in-house, all-inclusive collaboration of trauma-informed body workers and psychotherapists. The research is clear: trauma lives in the body, not just the mind. We utilize the cutting edge, most effective and always research-based methods for treating trauma. Because trauma is not just in your head and talk therapy isn't enough.
There is hope after trauma. MEND Therapy is unique in the twin cities in that we are an in-house, all-inclusive collaboration of trauma-informed body workers and psychotherapists. The research is clear: trauma lives in the body, not just the mind. We utilize the cutting edge, most effective and always research-based methods for treating trauma. Because trauma is not just in your head and talk therapy isn't enough.
(651) 409-9125 View (651) 409-9125
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Jodi Smith
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Andover, MN 55304  (Online Only)
It is difficult and very anxiety provoking to make the initial appointment, although, that is the first step towards success! I want to validate that emotional response, and to bring comfort by providing a faith driven approach enlightened with hope and strength for your personal growth and development. I assist my clients to be empowered by their self-worth, and work collaboratively to reach their ideal goal of success and progress. I provide a supportive, humorous, and safe environment where it's possible to connect on a therapeutic level.
It is difficult and very anxiety provoking to make the initial appointment, although, that is the first step towards success! I want to validate that emotional response, and to bring comfort by providing a faith driven approach enlightened with hope and strength for your personal growth and development. I assist my clients to be empowered by their self-worth, and work collaboratively to reach their ideal goal of success and progress. I provide a supportive, humorous, and safe environment where it's possible to connect on a therapeutic level.
(763) 575-8685 x164 View (763) 575-8685 x164
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Tricia Shank
Marriage & Family Therapist Intern
Verified Verified
Anoka, MN 55303
I want to help individuals and families achieve whatever solutions and life changes they may be looking for while making the therapy process an enjoyable experience. Beginning therapy can be intimidating and choosing to take that first step takes hope and courage. My goal is to help others find joy in life and be able to live their life to the fullest. I enjoy working with individuals of all ages, couples, and families. I work from a Christian perspective when desired.
I want to help individuals and families achieve whatever solutions and life changes they may be looking for while making the therapy process an enjoyable experience. Beginning therapy can be intimidating and choosing to take that first step takes hope and courage. My goal is to help others find joy in life and be able to live their life to the fullest. I enjoy working with individuals of all ages, couples, and families. I work from a Christian perspective when desired.
(763) 297-2567 View (763) 297-2567
Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.