Gottman Method Therapists in Michigan
The Gottman method is utilized with couples.
Are you struggling? I passionately believe that the therapeutic relationship can promote positive long lasting changes. Change for individuals, couples and families comes through learning and practicing skills that guide them on the path towards emotionally intelligent relationships, overcoming self-defeating attitudes and discovering how exhilarating life experiences can be. My focus is to help individuals, couples and families heal, energize, and become aware of their inner strengths. I achieve this by providing a neutral, comfortable, and safe space, listening to your concerns, and customizing a treatment plan to meet your needs.
The Gottman method is utilized with couples.
Are you struggling? I passionately believe that the therapeutic relationship can promote positive long lasting changes. Change for individuals, couples and families comes through learning and practicing skills that guide them on the path towards emotionally intelligent relationships, overcoming self-defeating attitudes and discovering how exhilarating life experiences can be. My focus is to help individuals, couples and families heal, energize, and become aware of their inner strengths. I achieve this by providing a neutral, comfortable, and safe space, listening to your concerns, and customizing a treatment plan to meet your needs.
Jaclyn Cole
Marriage & Family Therapist, R-DMT, LLMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Royal Oak, MI 48073 (Online Only)
My theory of therapy blends Emotionally Focused Therapy, Solution Based Therapy, Attachment Theory and evidence from the Gottman Method.
Our relationships have an enormous impact on our lives, and having tension in our most important relationships can cause tension in all areas of our lives. I understand the importance of resolving the stress in our relationships, and the care and patience it takes to do so. Together, we can help develop the tools to create improved communication and support to work towards healthy connections in life.
My theory of therapy blends Emotionally Focused Therapy, Solution Based Therapy, Attachment Theory and evidence from the Gottman Method.
Our relationships have an enormous impact on our lives, and having tension in our most important relationships can cause tension in all areas of our lives. I understand the importance of resolving the stress in our relationships, and the care and patience it takes to do so. Together, we can help develop the tools to create improved communication and support to work towards healthy connections in life.
Jeffrey D Goodwin
Licensed Professional Counselor, MDiv, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Traverse City, MI 49686
I focus on couples counseling using the Gottman method, and I have completed the Level 3 Practicum Training in Gottman Method Couples therapy.
I love helping adolescents and their families! Sounds strange I know, but it's true. I provide a listening ear and create a non-judgmental space for youth ages 11-24 to talk about life, love, friendship, and the challenges associated with transitioning into adulthood. I also work with struggling adults, couples and stressed families, and help individuals deal with things like depression and anxiety. Life puts lots of pressure on individuals, marriages, parents, and families, and I'd love to help you find ways to cope with the pressure and go from surviving to thriving!
I focus on couples counseling using the Gottman method, and I have completed the Level 3 Practicum Training in Gottman Method Couples therapy.
I love helping adolescents and their families! Sounds strange I know, but it's true. I provide a listening ear and create a non-judgmental space for youth ages 11-24 to talk about life, love, friendship, and the challenges associated with transitioning into adulthood. I also work with struggling adults, couples and stressed families, and help individuals deal with things like depression and anxiety. Life puts lots of pressure on individuals, marriages, parents, and families, and I'd love to help you find ways to cope with the pressure and go from surviving to thriving!
Megan Spees
Limited Licensed Psychologist, LLP, CAADC, CCTSI, CSAT-c, CCPS-c
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Novi, MI 48377
I am trained in utilizing the Gottman Method for couple’s therapy, which has been proven effective for over 25 years.
Mental health is just as important as physical health to our overall well-being. I am a Limited Licensed Psychologist and a certified trauma specialist as well as a marriage counselor. I can work with you to develop a wide variety of coping skills to help you work towards your goals of living your best life. Are you noticing mental health symptoms like nightmares, flashbacks, irritability, anxiety, depression or self-harm? I utilize a humanistic, holistic, strength-based approach to help increase your level of tolerance for dealing with these complicated mental health symptoms. I also offer EMDR for the treatment of complex PTSD.
I am trained in utilizing the Gottman Method for couple’s therapy, which has been proven effective for over 25 years.
Mental health is just as important as physical health to our overall well-being. I am a Limited Licensed Psychologist and a certified trauma specialist as well as a marriage counselor. I can work with you to develop a wide variety of coping skills to help you work towards your goals of living your best life. Are you noticing mental health symptoms like nightmares, flashbacks, irritability, anxiety, depression or self-harm? I utilize a humanistic, holistic, strength-based approach to help increase your level of tolerance for dealing with these complicated mental health symptoms. I also offer EMDR for the treatment of complex PTSD.
Macomb Therapy Group, PLLC
Counselor, LMSW, LPC, LLP, CAADC, PA-C
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Clinton Township, MI 48038
Our clinicians offer a wide variety of exceptional therapeutic approaches, incorporating a spectrum of techniques, including: Marriage and Family, Person Centered, Dialectical Behavior (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), LGBTQ+, the Gottman Method, Solution Focused-Brief Therapy, Somatic, Developmental, Integrative, Multicultural, Art and Play Therapy.
We all need a friendly ear, especially in difficult times. With someone in your corner you can build the coping skills needed to handle life's challenges with confidence. Macomb Therapy Group works with adults, adolescents, families and couples. Our clinicians have experience counseling people from a range of backgrounds and ages; facing a variety of challenges: from individuals dealing with depression, anxiety, trauma, and post-traumatic stress disorder; to children and adults in crisis and families with relational problems.
Our clinicians offer a wide variety of exceptional therapeutic approaches, incorporating a spectrum of techniques, including: Marriage and Family, Person Centered, Dialectical Behavior (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), LGBTQ+, the Gottman Method, Solution Focused-Brief Therapy, Somatic, Developmental, Integrative, Multicultural, Art and Play Therapy.
We all need a friendly ear, especially in difficult times. With someone in your corner you can build the coping skills needed to handle life's challenges with confidence. Macomb Therapy Group works with adults, adolescents, families and couples. Our clinicians have experience counseling people from a range of backgrounds and ages; facing a variety of challenges: from individuals dealing with depression, anxiety, trauma, and post-traumatic stress disorder; to children and adults in crisis and families with relational problems.
Melanie Szucs
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LPC, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Grand Rapids, MI 49546
Waitlist for new clients
Depending on your particular needs and experiences, I draw from several different treatment models, including Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, and client-centered therapy.
Our lives are stories and we all want them to be stories worth telling, that give us hope. Maybe you long to rewrite the story you are living. I believe everyone has the ability to change their story. Whether you are a couple, a family, or an individual, you can have hope. I desire to walk alongside you in your struggles and help you to forge a new path. Sometimes all it takes is a listening ear; sometimes it takes long, hard work. But you have the choice-to step out in courage and to start writing a new story.
Depending on your particular needs and experiences, I draw from several different treatment models, including Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, and client-centered therapy.
Our lives are stories and we all want them to be stories worth telling, that give us hope. Maybe you long to rewrite the story you are living. I believe everyone has the ability to change their story. Whether you are a couple, a family, or an individual, you can have hope. I desire to walk alongside you in your struggles and help you to forge a new path. Sometimes all it takes is a listening ear; sometimes it takes long, hard work. But you have the choice-to step out in courage and to start writing a new story.
Hannah utilizes evidence-based approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), the Gottman Method, and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
Living in relationships with others is hard work. It’s complicated and it’s often hard to know what healthy relationships are meant to look, feel, or sound like. As a limited Marriage and Family and Professional Counselor, Hannah gets the deep complexities of human relationships and specializes in providing therapy to couples, families, and individuals. She is passionate about helping clients build stronger, healthier relationships – relationships that just work and feel better.
Hannah utilizes evidence-based approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), the Gottman Method, and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
Living in relationships with others is hard work. It’s complicated and it’s often hard to know what healthy relationships are meant to look, feel, or sound like. As a limited Marriage and Family and Professional Counselor, Hannah gets the deep complexities of human relationships and specializes in providing therapy to couples, families, and individuals. She is passionate about helping clients build stronger, healthier relationships – relationships that just work and feel better.
Karyn Skiba
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Orion, MI 48360 (Online Only)
I’m trained in Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Perinatal Mental Health (PMH), and am a Level 2 practitioner of the Gottman Method.
Hi there! I’m Karyn, a Licensed Master Social Worker with a passion for helping both individuals and couples navigate life’s challenges. Since 2015, I’ve been dedicated to guiding people towards a brighter, more fulfilling future. My journey began with kids, working through after-school programs, school social work, and in clinical settings, helping children aged 4-18. Today, I focus primarily on individuals 16+ and couples, drawing on my diverse experiences from community mental health, CPS, and private practice.
I’m trained in Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Perinatal Mental Health (PMH), and am a Level 2 practitioner of the Gottman Method.
Hi there! I’m Karyn, a Licensed Master Social Worker with a passion for helping both individuals and couples navigate life’s challenges. Since 2015, I’ve been dedicated to guiding people towards a brighter, more fulfilling future. My journey began with kids, working through after-school programs, school social work, and in clinical settings, helping children aged 4-18. Today, I focus primarily on individuals 16+ and couples, drawing on my diverse experiences from community mental health, CPS, and private practice.
Brooke Illig Individual & Couples Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
West Branch, MI 48661
I am also skilled in assisting couples with communication and attachment issues through the use of Gottman Method Couples therapy and Emotionally Focused therapy.
Adults who have found success with my approach often come to me for help with challenges like people-pleasing, where they put others' needs before their own, and struggling to set boundaries. They may also be dealing with anxiety, body image issues, and navigating major life changes, which can leave them feeling drained and resentful. These individuals are ready to explore new approaches to break unhelpful patterns, and they're looking for a therapist who is easy to relate to and open to ongoing feedback.
I am also skilled in assisting couples with communication and attachment issues through the use of Gottman Method Couples therapy and Emotionally Focused therapy.
Adults who have found success with my approach often come to me for help with challenges like people-pleasing, where they put others' needs before their own, and struggling to set boundaries. They may also be dealing with anxiety, body image issues, and navigating major life changes, which can leave them feeling drained and resentful. These individuals are ready to explore new approaches to break unhelpful patterns, and they're looking for a therapist who is easy to relate to and open to ongoing feedback.
After the fresh passion of a new or developing relationship cools, partners in marriages and committed relationships often find they experience a distancing from one another. Often this distancing results in anger and resentment toward partners. Problems which were once minor irritants now seem to be major issues which seem to always be a source of conflict and anger, or may be avoided entirely for fear of conflict. In counseling couples and families using the Gottman method, my passion is helping my clients transform their relationships and gain a new sense of optimism in their relational pursuits.
After the fresh passion of a new or developing relationship cools, partners in marriages and committed relationships often find they experience a distancing from one another. Often this distancing results in anger and resentment toward partners. Problems which were once minor irritants now seem to be major issues which seem to always be a source of conflict and anger, or may be avoided entirely for fear of conflict. In counseling couples and families using the Gottman method, my passion is helping my clients transform their relationships and gain a new sense of optimism in their relational pursuits.
Linda Potter
Limited Licensed Psychologist, MA, LLP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Northville, MI 48167
I use Level 3 Gottman Method Couples Therapy tools to achieve success in your relationships.
When we experience trauma or severe life stressors, it may feel like our lives are unraveling and out of control. My greatest passion is helping people re-establish their balance and sense of purpose.
I use Level 3 Gottman Method Couples Therapy tools to achieve success in your relationships.
When we experience trauma or severe life stressors, it may feel like our lives are unraveling and out of control. My greatest passion is helping people re-establish their balance and sense of purpose.
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Counselor, LPC, NCC, CSAT, C-SASI, CCPS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Novi, MI 48377 (Online Only)
I am a National Board Certified Counselor (NCC); Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist (CSAT); Certified Multiple Addiction Therapist (CMAT); Certified Clinical Sexual Addiction Specialist (C-SASI); Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CCPS); Trained in The Gottman Method; Trained in PREPARE and ENRICH; Trained in EMDR.
I am a National Board-Certified Counselor who has extensive training and experience working with men, women, and couples. As a CSAT I specialize in helping individuals and couples recover from sex/pornography addiction. As a CCPS, I specialize in helping partners heal from partner betrayal trauma. As a Gottman marriage therapist, I specialize in helping couples address the issues that keep them stuck. I can help couples move past the arguments and hurts so that they can rebuild their marriage in healthy ways. I am also the author of two books, "Behind The Smile" (2024), and "A Partner’s Guide To Truth & Healing" (2021).
I am a National Board Certified Counselor (NCC); Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist (CSAT); Certified Multiple Addiction Therapist (CMAT); Certified Clinical Sexual Addiction Specialist (C-SASI); Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CCPS); Trained in The Gottman Method; Trained in PREPARE and ENRICH; Trained in EMDR.
I am a National Board-Certified Counselor who has extensive training and experience working with men, women, and couples. As a CSAT I specialize in helping individuals and couples recover from sex/pornography addiction. As a CCPS, I specialize in helping partners heal from partner betrayal trauma. As a Gottman marriage therapist, I specialize in helping couples address the issues that keep them stuck. I can help couples move past the arguments and hurts so that they can rebuild their marriage in healthy ways. I am also the author of two books, "Behind The Smile" (2024), and "A Partner’s Guide To Truth & Healing" (2021).
Andrew Tomacari
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CAADC, BCD
Verified Verified
Kalamazoo, MI 49008
I have advanced training in Imago Therapy, the Gottman Method and am a certified PAIRS provider.
I have over ten years of experience providing psychological and counseling services in outpatient and residential treatment settings. I have had the privilege to work with many individuals, couples and families struggling with a variety of challenges, and have specialized training in a range of psychological treatment options. An initial phone conversation is welcomed.
I have advanced training in Imago Therapy, the Gottman Method and am a certified PAIRS provider.
I have over ten years of experience providing psychological and counseling services in outpatient and residential treatment settings. I have had the privilege to work with many individuals, couples and families struggling with a variety of challenges, and have specialized training in a range of psychological treatment options. An initial phone conversation is welcomed.
Chris Couling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LLMSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Ann Arbor, MI 48104
I have developed a bespoke, manualized approach to relationship therapy based on evidence-based treatments such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, the Gottman Method, and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy.
Whatever you're going through, we'll figure it out together.
I have developed a bespoke, manualized approach to relationship therapy based on evidence-based treatments such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, the Gottman Method, and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy.
Whatever you're going through, we'll figure it out together.
Holli Slater
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CAADC
Verified Verified
Kalamazoo, MI 49008 (Online Only)
I use client centered approaches with counseling techniques including EMDR, Person-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Gottman Method, and Psychoeducation.
Whether you are experiencing mental health issues, challenges that are overwhelming, or just need someone to talk with, I am here to support and be a person standing next to you through whatever challenges you may face by providing a safe, compassionate, and judgment-free environment. Experiencing anxiety, depression, PTSD, relationship conflict, family conflict, addiction, trauma, and mental health disorders can be hard to handle on your own. I am here to assist in creating a better understanding of yourself and accomplish the goals you want within your life and treatment.
I use client centered approaches with counseling techniques including EMDR, Person-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Gottman Method, and Psychoeducation.
Whether you are experiencing mental health issues, challenges that are overwhelming, or just need someone to talk with, I am here to support and be a person standing next to you through whatever challenges you may face by providing a safe, compassionate, and judgment-free environment. Experiencing anxiety, depression, PTSD, relationship conflict, family conflict, addiction, trauma, and mental health disorders can be hard to handle on your own. I am here to assist in creating a better understanding of yourself and accomplish the goals you want within your life and treatment.
Joseph Anthony Martinez
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Grand Rapids, MI 49506
Are you feeling weighed down by anxiety, depression, or the challenges of life’s transitions? Whether you’re dealing with trauma, navigating relationship issues, or facing the unique stresses of military life, I’m here to support you. I specialize in working with veterans, those experiencing mood disorders, and individuals struggling with self-esteem, marital issues, and PTSD. Together, we can work through the obstacles holding you back. As a Licensed Professional Counselor trained in trauma, anxiety, and couples therapy ( Gottman Method), I provide a collaborative, non-judgmental space for healing. In our sessions, you’ll find supp
Are you feeling weighed down by anxiety, depression, or the challenges of life’s transitions? Whether you’re dealing with trauma, navigating relationship issues, or facing the unique stresses of military life, I’m here to support you. I specialize in working with veterans, those experiencing mood disorders, and individuals struggling with self-esteem, marital issues, and PTSD. Together, we can work through the obstacles holding you back. As a Licensed Professional Counselor trained in trauma, anxiety, and couples therapy ( Gottman Method), I provide a collaborative, non-judgmental space for healing. In our sessions, you’ll find supp
Rebecca Arends
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ann Arbor, MI 48105
By integrating the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy, I help couples enhance communication, deepen emotional connection, and resolve conflict more effectively.
I specialize in helping individuals navigate symptoms of anxiety, depression, and relationship concerns. Even if your current situation feels challenging, I am here to support you as we uncover clarity, strength, and hope beneath discomfort. My therapeutic approach is directive and engaged, working together to co-create clear and defined goals. I believe in empowering clients with practical tools and relevant resources to foster their growth between sessions. Whether you're looking to make more informed decisions or heal from past experiences, I am committed to working with you every step of the way toward clarity and peace.
By integrating the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy, I help couples enhance communication, deepen emotional connection, and resolve conflict more effectively.
I specialize in helping individuals navigate symptoms of anxiety, depression, and relationship concerns. Even if your current situation feels challenging, I am here to support you as we uncover clarity, strength, and hope beneath discomfort. My therapeutic approach is directive and engaged, working together to co-create clear and defined goals. I believe in empowering clients with practical tools and relevant resources to foster their growth between sessions. Whether you're looking to make more informed decisions or heal from past experiences, I am committed to working with you every step of the way toward clarity and peace.
Annalyse Ellis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CAADC
Verified Verified
Kalamazoo, MI 49006 (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I am trained in Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Gottman Method.
Hello! My name is Annalyse, and I am a clinical social worker practicing at Rinehart Institute. I believe that therapy is a healing space to explore your thoughts, emotions, hopes, fears, and goals. I recognize that going to therapy can be a vulnerable experience, and so I strive to make sessions feel safe and caring. I specialize in working with adults, teens, and children, as well as with couples and families.
I am trained in Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Gottman Method.
Hello! My name is Annalyse, and I am a clinical social worker practicing at Rinehart Institute. I believe that therapy is a healing space to explore your thoughts, emotions, hopes, fears, and goals. I recognize that going to therapy can be a vulnerable experience, and so I strive to make sessions feel safe and caring. I specialize in working with adults, teens, and children, as well as with couples and families.
Amanda Walker
Limited Licensed Psychologist, MA, LLP, CAADC
Verified Verified
Grand Rapids, MI 49544 (Online Only)
I utilize an integrated approach of therapeutic models, including Cognitive Behavioral therapy (CBT), Solution Focused Therapy (SFT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), and Gottman Method Couples; Therapy.
I view therapy as a collaborate space where it is safe to share life’s difficulties. I find joy in working together to learn to cope with stressors and develop healthy habits for better managing relationships, mental health concerns, and whatever situation might be important in that moment. I enjoy working with adults and couples. My primary areas of expertise include treating mood disorders such as depression and anxiety, as well as working with adjustment disorders and substance use disorders. Therapy is about helping people through situational life stressors or relationship conflicts.
I utilize an integrated approach of therapeutic models, including Cognitive Behavioral therapy (CBT), Solution Focused Therapy (SFT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), and Gottman Method Couples; Therapy.
I view therapy as a collaborate space where it is safe to share life’s difficulties. I find joy in working together to learn to cope with stressors and develop healthy habits for better managing relationships, mental health concerns, and whatever situation might be important in that moment. I enjoy working with adults and couples. My primary areas of expertise include treating mood disorders such as depression and anxiety, as well as working with adjustment disorders and substance use disorders. Therapy is about helping people through situational life stressors or relationship conflicts.
Using the research-based Gottman method, I will guide you on how to use conflict to your advantage, to feel truly connected, and to redefine your shared values and goals.
Whether you seek emotional relief, better relationships, personal growth, or healing, I can help you unlock your full potential and lead a more satisfying life. Clients often want to understand themselves better, develop coping skills, and build confidence. Every couple faces challenges. Do you want to be seen and struggle to get your partner’s attention? Are you tired of going around in circles when you argue or avoiding arguments or tough topics? Has the passion and romance fizzled? Do you feel exhausted and overwhelmed by trying to live up to someone else’s standards?
Using the research-based Gottman method, I will guide you on how to use conflict to your advantage, to feel truly connected, and to redefine your shared values and goals.
Whether you seek emotional relief, better relationships, personal growth, or healing, I can help you unlock your full potential and lead a more satisfying life. Clients often want to understand themselves better, develop coping skills, and build confidence. Every couple faces challenges. Do you want to be seen and struggle to get your partner’s attention? Are you tired of going around in circles when you argue or avoiding arguments or tough topics? Has the passion and romance fizzled? Do you feel exhausted and overwhelmed by trying to live up to someone else’s standards?
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Gottman Method Therapists
How does the Gottman method work?
One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.
Is the Gottman method evidence-based?
Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.
How long does the Gottman method take?
The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.
Is the Gottman method effective?
Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.