Gottman Method Therapists in White Lake, MI

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Amanda Moar Kerbawy
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Verified Verified
White Lake, MI 48383  (Online Only)
I am a fully licensed psychologist in the State of Michigan. Working with adults, I specialize in employing concepts of cognitive and behavioral therapy and mindfulness to help individuals manage a variety of mental and emotional issues, including Anxiety Disorders, Depressive Disorders, ADHD, Anger, and Behavioral Disorders. Through our work together, my patients learn to be more aware of their thoughts, identify their negative automatic thoughts, and reframe their thoughts such that they are more realistic and positive. Over time, this change in thinking has significant implications for the daily feelings that one experiences.
I am a fully licensed psychologist in the State of Michigan. Working with adults, I specialize in employing concepts of cognitive and behavioral therapy and mindfulness to help individuals manage a variety of mental and emotional issues, including Anxiety Disorders, Depressive Disorders, ADHD, Anger, and Behavioral Disorders. Through our work together, my patients learn to be more aware of their thoughts, identify their negative automatic thoughts, and reframe their thoughts such that they are more realistic and positive. Over time, this change in thinking has significant implications for the daily feelings that one experiences.
(800) 693-1916 View (800) 693-1916
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Katie Holden Sheffler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
White Lake, MI 48383
At The Well Counseling we focus on providing a safe, caring, and a nonjudgmental environment, supporting you as you begin to address and cope with the challenges in your life. Drawing from your strengths, we will work together to develop new strategies, skills and perspectives in order that you may live a full and joyful life. We utilize creative therapies in order to compliment and deepen the healing process. We now offer academic and intelligence testing as well!
At The Well Counseling we focus on providing a safe, caring, and a nonjudgmental environment, supporting you as you begin to address and cope with the challenges in your life. Drawing from your strengths, we will work together to develop new strategies, skills and perspectives in order that you may live a full and joyful life. We utilize creative therapies in order to compliment and deepen the healing process. We now offer academic and intelligence testing as well!
(248) 256-5838 View (248) 256-5838
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The Center For Psychological Services
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
White Lake, MI 48386
i have over three decades of experience working with children, adults, couples and families on a wide variety of life problems.It is important to find a therapist that is a good fit, someone with whom you feel comfortable and who takes your concerns seriously. My approach is supportive, confidential and empathetic in helping individuals and families recognize their own needs and strengths. It's not uncommon to get stuck in unsatisfying and frustrating situations. Through our relationship you can start to become aware of the things that interfere with feeling better and use your strengths to make changes and move forward.
i have over three decades of experience working with children, adults, couples and families on a wide variety of life problems.It is important to find a therapist that is a good fit, someone with whom you feel comfortable and who takes your concerns seriously. My approach is supportive, confidential and empathetic in helping individuals and families recognize their own needs and strengths. It's not uncommon to get stuck in unsatisfying and frustrating situations. Through our relationship you can start to become aware of the things that interfere with feeling better and use your strengths to make changes and move forward.
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Ryan Powell
Counselor, MA, LLPC
Verified Verified
White Lake, MI 48386
When we feel stuck, trapped or insecure about our life, it can be hard to be motivated for change. Whether it is a relationship, a job, or simply just not knowing what to do with the thoughts that come into your head, there is empowerment within yourself for change. You may have recognized that your coping strategies have led to destructive patterns in your life. However, this is not the end for you, but a beginning to rewriting your story and your pathway to your best life. Let’s work together toward a plan with action steps that will empower you to create productive coping strategies that will accomplish your life's goals.
When we feel stuck, trapped or insecure about our life, it can be hard to be motivated for change. Whether it is a relationship, a job, or simply just not knowing what to do with the thoughts that come into your head, there is empowerment within yourself for change. You may have recognized that your coping strategies have led to destructive patterns in your life. However, this is not the end for you, but a beginning to rewriting your story and your pathway to your best life. Let’s work together toward a plan with action steps that will empower you to create productive coping strategies that will accomplish your life's goals.
(248) 509-9484 View (248) 509-9484

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Daniel Shepherd
Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Clarkston, MI 48346
 Our approach to therapy begins with the Gottman method and then morphs into a customized focus on YOUR relationship, and truly, every relationship is unique.
Something has gone wrong. Communication? You hear mixed messages like, "I hate you! Don't leave me!" Your partner is happily busy with everything and everyone except you? You find yourself thinking, "Too good to leave, too bad to stay". Relationship issues cause self-doubt, loneliness, sadness, and worry. You may feel alone, but in therapy you are not alone. You can talk with someone who listens instead of giving advice. Therapists listen without substituting their personal agenda for yours. We join your quest for health even if it means walking a difficult path. Solutions emerge as we explore problems in a safe place.
 Our approach to therapy begins with the Gottman method and then morphs into a customized focus on YOUR relationship, and truly, every relationship is unique.
Something has gone wrong. Communication? You hear mixed messages like, "I hate you! Don't leave me!" Your partner is happily busy with everything and everyone except you? You find yourself thinking, "Too good to leave, too bad to stay". Relationship issues cause self-doubt, loneliness, sadness, and worry. You may feel alone, but in therapy you are not alone. You can talk with someone who listens instead of giving advice. Therapists listen without substituting their personal agenda for yours. We join your quest for health even if it means walking a difficult path. Solutions emerge as we explore problems in a safe place.
(947) 333-8077 View (947) 333-8077
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Regina Murray
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LLMSW, CAADCDP
Verified Verified
City of the Village of Clarkston, MI 48346
I received my Master of Social Work degree from the Oakland University School of Social Work in 2023 where my focus of concentration was on substance use disorder and addiction. Since 2023 I have been working full time to help individuals, families and groups learn how to manage anxiety, depression and create better boundaries for the benefit of their mental health specializing in teens and adults, LGBTQIA+, veterans and people struggling with SUD and addiction. I conduct Gottman informed couples therapy and am working to become a Gottman Certified couples' therapist.
I received my Master of Social Work degree from the Oakland University School of Social Work in 2023 where my focus of concentration was on substance use disorder and addiction. Since 2023 I have been working full time to help individuals, families and groups learn how to manage anxiety, depression and create better boundaries for the benefit of their mental health specializing in teens and adults, LGBTQIA+, veterans and people struggling with SUD and addiction. I conduct Gottman informed couples therapy and am working to become a Gottman Certified couples' therapist.
(947) 300-5377 View (947) 300-5377
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Holly Gabanyicz
Counselor, MA, LLPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Commerce Township, MI 48390
I find fulfillment in working with clients across various life stages – from children and teens to adults. Each age brings its unique set of challenges, and I’m here to tailor my therapeutic approach to meet your specific needs. In addition to individual counseling, I specialize in working with couples and families. Relationships can be complex, and I’m here to help you navigate and strengthen these connections. Whether you’re facing individual struggles or challenges within your relationships, we’ll work together to find solutions and foster understanding.
I find fulfillment in working with clients across various life stages – from children and teens to adults. Each age brings its unique set of challenges, and I’m here to tailor my therapeutic approach to meet your specific needs. In addition to individual counseling, I specialize in working with couples and families. Relationships can be complex, and I’m here to help you navigate and strengthen these connections. Whether you’re facing individual struggles or challenges within your relationships, we’ll work together to find solutions and foster understanding.
(734) 221-0185 View (734) 221-0185
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Eva Talia Elkins
Counselor, LLC, MA, MPA, RYT-500, C-IAYT
Verified Verified
Waterford, MI 48329
I believe that everyone can bring positive change to their lives and I am eager to help individuals uncover and celebrate differences and achieve their potential.
I believe that everyone can bring positive change to their lives and I am eager to help individuals uncover and celebrate differences and achieve their potential.
(248) 573-3802 View (248) 573-3802
Photo of Claire Marion - Great Lakes Psychology Group - Livonia, MS, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist
Great Lakes Psychology Group - Livonia
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Wixom, MI 48393
Accepting new patients! Whether you are new to therapy or looking to start again, Great Lakes Psychology Group Livonia understands that starting therapy can be overwhelming. That’s why we simplified the process with Find My Therapist. Get started by telling us about yourself, your location, and your insurance. Once you find your best-fit therapist, pick a time that works for you and book an appointment instantly through their calendar. Find My Therapist aims to make your journey as stress-free as possible, so you can start feeling better sooner.
Accepting new patients! Whether you are new to therapy or looking to start again, Great Lakes Psychology Group Livonia understands that starting therapy can be overwhelming. That’s why we simplified the process with Find My Therapist. Get started by telling us about yourself, your location, and your insurance. Once you find your best-fit therapist, pick a time that works for you and book an appointment instantly through their calendar. Find My Therapist aims to make your journey as stress-free as possible, so you can start feeling better sooner.
(248) 453-6472 View (248) 453-6472
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Dynamic Life Counseling LLC
Verified Verified
Clarkston, MI 48346
Dynamic Life Counseling LLC consists of a group of therapists who share the same passion for helping others. Our mission is to deliver superior behavioral and mental health care to clients in a direct and compassionate way.
Dynamic Life Counseling LLC consists of a group of therapists who share the same passion for helping others. Our mission is to deliver superior behavioral and mental health care to clients in a direct and compassionate way.
(248) 243-4271 View (248) 243-4271
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John William Poliskey
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Commerce Township, MI 48382  (Online Only)
I specialize in Depression, Anxiety, Trauma, Behavioral Issues, Addiction, Codependency and more with a systemic therapeutic approach. They are facing ongoing loneliness, sadness, and fear. Clients deserve a compassionate space in which to explore their difficulties; unconditional positive regard from me to them. I respect clients where they are in their lives and join with them to start the healing necessary to get them to where they want to be. My clients have the strengths to overcome the issues they face. They may simply need help in finding the changes and solutions they desire for themselves.
I specialize in Depression, Anxiety, Trauma, Behavioral Issues, Addiction, Codependency and more with a systemic therapeutic approach. They are facing ongoing loneliness, sadness, and fear. Clients deserve a compassionate space in which to explore their difficulties; unconditional positive regard from me to them. I respect clients where they are in their lives and join with them to start the healing necessary to get them to where they want to be. My clients have the strengths to overcome the issues they face. They may simply need help in finding the changes and solutions they desire for themselves.
(734) 428-3252 View (734) 428-3252
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Amira Doucette
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LLC
Verified Verified
Orchard Lake, MI 48324  (Online Only)
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with more than 20 years experience. I received my undergraduate and graduate degrees from University of Michigan and Oakland University, respectively. I furthered my formal education with a post-Master's specialization in mental health. In my work as a psychotherapist, I encounter many people of various nationalities and socioeconomic standing. As I help them with their concerns, I repeatedly find the single most important conduit to change is the relationship we forge in therapy. In this relationship I am without judgment. I am respectful, understanding, and completely accepting.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with more than 20 years experience. I received my undergraduate and graduate degrees from University of Michigan and Oakland University, respectively. I furthered my formal education with a post-Master's specialization in mental health. In my work as a psychotherapist, I encounter many people of various nationalities and socioeconomic standing. As I help them with their concerns, I repeatedly find the single most important conduit to change is the relationship we forge in therapy. In this relationship I am without judgment. I am respectful, understanding, and completely accepting.
(561) 816-2694 View (561) 816-2694
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Fatima Mallick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LLMSW
Verified Verified
West Bloomfield, MI 48322  (Online Only)
Hello there, and welcome! Thank you for being here. I am passionate about working with individuals experiencing depression and anxiety, issues with self-esteem, or self-advocacy. I have had the privilege of helping a wide array of clients from different backgrounds and walks of life, including immigrants, refugee populations, limited English proficiency speakers, new mothers, single parents, teenagers, adolescents, and many more. Through a compassionate approach of fostering a strong relationship and solution-based planning, I help my clients’ overcome barriers on the path to healing, happiness, and fulfillment!
Hello there, and welcome! Thank you for being here. I am passionate about working with individuals experiencing depression and anxiety, issues with self-esteem, or self-advocacy. I have had the privilege of helping a wide array of clients from different backgrounds and walks of life, including immigrants, refugee populations, limited English proficiency speakers, new mothers, single parents, teenagers, adolescents, and many more. Through a compassionate approach of fostering a strong relationship and solution-based planning, I help my clients’ overcome barriers on the path to healing, happiness, and fulfillment!
(734) 896-5926 View (734) 896-5926
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Angela Avery
Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Clarkston, MI 48346
If you have cried enough, felt like you are going crazy, or are fed up with a troubled relationship, I am here. My mission is to make my clients feel empowered to get unstuck, accept reality, and heal from heavy relationship issues. Narcissistic abuse recovery, post separation abuse, high conflict divorce, blended family issues, and grief are my niche. In addition, anxiety and depression is a passion of mine because the relationship we have with ourselves is vital!
If you have cried enough, felt like you are going crazy, or are fed up with a troubled relationship, I am here. My mission is to make my clients feel empowered to get unstuck, accept reality, and heal from heavy relationship issues. Narcissistic abuse recovery, post separation abuse, high conflict divorce, blended family issues, and grief are my niche. In addition, anxiety and depression is a passion of mine because the relationship we have with ourselves is vital!
(248) 639-4853 View (248) 639-4853
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Evolutionary Intervention LLC
Counselor, MA, LPC, CAADC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
West Bloomfield, MI 48322
When looking for a Counselor, you want a person to listen. Not judge, ridicule or humiliate. I am a Black woman, who can provide objective support and guidance. When you are the person that everyone else relies upon, who can you call?? Evolutionary Intervention, LLC. We will provide you with excellent care.
When looking for a Counselor, you want a person to listen. Not judge, ridicule or humiliate. I am a Black woman, who can provide objective support and guidance. When you are the person that everyone else relies upon, who can you call?? Evolutionary Intervention, LLC. We will provide you with excellent care.
(248) 216-1521 View (248) 216-1521
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Ellen Yashinsky Chute
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, ACSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
West Bloomfield, MI 48322  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I am a clinical therapist with 25 years of experience. I work with adults, families, couples and adolescent girls. I specialize in treating anxiety, depression, trauma, life transitions, as well as family systems issues such as parenting, abuse, divorce, military transitions, and aging family difficulties. I utilize a wide repertoire of evidenced based practices, as determined by each person's particular needs, seated in a relational foundation that creates a safe space for change.
I am a clinical therapist with 25 years of experience. I work with adults, families, couples and adolescent girls. I specialize in treating anxiety, depression, trauma, life transitions, as well as family systems issues such as parenting, abuse, divorce, military transitions, and aging family difficulties. I utilize a wide repertoire of evidenced based practices, as determined by each person's particular needs, seated in a relational foundation that creates a safe space for change.
(248) 671-6217 View (248) 671-6217
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Jodi Hutchings
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LLMSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Clarkston, MI 48346
Waitlist for new clients
I know life does not always go as planned. Sometimes we need to talk to someone. When we need help with our physical bodies, we see a medical doctor. When our mind and heart hurt and we need help untangling our thoughts and feelings, we find a therapist. I am here with you as we find sources of pain, learn skills to help, and build a life worth living.
I know life does not always go as planned. Sometimes we need to talk to someone. When we need help with our physical bodies, we see a medical doctor. When our mind and heart hurt and we need help untangling our thoughts and feelings, we find a therapist. I am here with you as we find sources of pain, learn skills to help, and build a life worth living.
(248) 963-8720 View (248) 963-8720
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Hillary Follis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
West Bloomfield, MI 48324
The transitions we experience as we try to grow a family can be laden with anxiety, grief, depression, and overwhelm. Are you having difficulty conceiving? Is pregnancy or parenthood not how you envisioned it would be? Are you experiencing sadness, worries, doubts and negative thoughts, struggling to connect with your loved ones, or just not feeling like yourself? You are not alone. Therapy can help anyone who wants to process their thoughts and feelings without shame and judgement, come to a place of self-acceptance, increase self-awareness, and live life more mindfully.
The transitions we experience as we try to grow a family can be laden with anxiety, grief, depression, and overwhelm. Are you having difficulty conceiving? Is pregnancy or parenthood not how you envisioned it would be? Are you experiencing sadness, worries, doubts and negative thoughts, struggling to connect with your loved ones, or just not feeling like yourself? You are not alone. Therapy can help anyone who wants to process their thoughts and feelings without shame and judgement, come to a place of self-acceptance, increase self-awareness, and live life more mindfully.
(248) 761-7084 View (248) 761-7084
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Dr. Amy Zelidman
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Verified Verified
West Bloomfield, MI 48322
Every person I meet is unique and requires an individualized approach. I'm eclectic in both theory and in practice, so I personally tailor my outlook based on your needs and personality to find the direction best suited for you. Right now is an exceptional time requiring all of us to make changes; to adjust to a variety of stressors we hadn't even considered a short time ago. Thought processes, behaviors, and coping techniques are different. My goal is to help you adapt, by providing support and guided direction by utilizing the tools that are already in place while adding new perspectives and suggestions. We will work as a team.
Every person I meet is unique and requires an individualized approach. I'm eclectic in both theory and in practice, so I personally tailor my outlook based on your needs and personality to find the direction best suited for you. Right now is an exceptional time requiring all of us to make changes; to adjust to a variety of stressors we hadn't even considered a short time ago. Thought processes, behaviors, and coping techniques are different. My goal is to help you adapt, by providing support and guided direction by utilizing the tools that are already in place while adding new perspectives and suggestions. We will work as a team.
(248) 665-8244 View (248) 665-8244
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Amanda Saxe
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, CCPT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Walled Lake, MI 48390
Before I became a Counselor, I was a Teacher working with children ages K-12. I have extensive experience working with children and teens. I have also worked as a School Counselor and can help navigate getting support at school for your child. Whether you are calling for yourself or for your child, I am here for you to listen non-judgmentally and to get to the root of the issue. I work with adults, children, and teens utilizing various treatment approaches including CBT behavioral approaches, play and art therapy, among others. My goal is to help clients reach their goals, and become the best version of themselves.
Before I became a Counselor, I was a Teacher working with children ages K-12. I have extensive experience working with children and teens. I have also worked as a School Counselor and can help navigate getting support at school for your child. Whether you are calling for yourself or for your child, I am here for you to listen non-judgmentally and to get to the root of the issue. I work with adults, children, and teens utilizing various treatment approaches including CBT behavioral approaches, play and art therapy, among others. My goal is to help clients reach their goals, and become the best version of themselves.
(248) 290-9957 View (248) 290-9957

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Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.