Gottman Method Therapists in Wayland, MI

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Christina Schug
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, PMH-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wayland, MI 49348
My goal is to create space for you to experience the freedom that comes with the challenging work of growth and healing. Whether you are a new mother in need of a place to sit with a cup of coffee and feel supported through postpartum adjustment; a parent who longs to help their child cope with trauma, or if you are ready to heal from trauma of your own, my door is open. It is my sincere honor to come alongside you as you take this courageous step toward tangible and positive life change.
My goal is to create space for you to experience the freedom that comes with the challenging work of growth and healing. Whether you are a new mother in need of a place to sit with a cup of coffee and feel supported through postpartum adjustment; a parent who longs to help their child cope with trauma, or if you are ready to heal from trauma of your own, my door is open. It is my sincere honor to come alongside you as you take this courageous step toward tangible and positive life change.
(269) 225-6802 View (269) 225-6802
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Jessica Pollman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LLMSW
Verified Verified
Wayland, MI 49348
I am a firm believer that we are not meant to do life alone. It is my hope that I can be one of the people in your life who can offer you the support you need to succeed. Whether you’re facing a major life transition, grieving the loss of a life or a relationship, dealing with family conflict, or navigating one of the many other life challenges we face as humans - my door is open to you.
I am a firm believer that we are not meant to do life alone. It is my hope that I can be one of the people in your life who can offer you the support you need to succeed. Whether you’re facing a major life transition, grieving the loss of a life or a relationship, dealing with family conflict, or navigating one of the many other life challenges we face as humans - my door is open to you.
(269) 525-4124 View (269) 525-4124
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Tyler Felty
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Wayland, MI 49348
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LMSW) with over six years of experience working with Michigan residents to improve their mental health and reach their personal goals. I am enthusiastic about assisting couples improve their relationship satisfaction, as well as working with individuals to enhance the quality of their lives. My focus in relationship-therapies relies on methods from Gottman and Emotionally Focused Therapies (EFT). I have experience in working with individuals struggling with substance use concerns, trauma, depression, anxiety, sexual identity concerns, grief, management of ADHD symptoms, and life transitions.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LMSW) with over six years of experience working with Michigan residents to improve their mental health and reach their personal goals. I am enthusiastic about assisting couples improve their relationship satisfaction, as well as working with individuals to enhance the quality of their lives. My focus in relationship-therapies relies on methods from Gottman and Emotionally Focused Therapies (EFT). I have experience in working with individuals struggling with substance use concerns, trauma, depression, anxiety, sexual identity concerns, grief, management of ADHD symptoms, and life transitions.
(269) 256-2408 View (269) 256-2408
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Melissa Bronkema
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Wayland, MI 49348
Do you want to find true happiness and have healthy relationships? I can help you get there. I work with individuals and couples who are having difficulty maneuvering through life changes to help them achieve the life they envision. Together, we work on issues surrounding anxiety, self-esteem, depression, and outside pressures from society, family, culture, media and more. Therapy is a powerful tool that has the potential to change your life in profound and lasting ways. If you don't like the road you're walking, let's pave a new one together!
Do you want to find true happiness and have healthy relationships? I can help you get there. I work with individuals and couples who are having difficulty maneuvering through life changes to help them achieve the life they envision. Together, we work on issues surrounding anxiety, self-esteem, depression, and outside pressures from society, family, culture, media and more. Therapy is a powerful tool that has the potential to change your life in profound and lasting ways. If you don't like the road you're walking, let's pave a new one together!
(269) 264-9193 View (269) 264-9193
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Nate Apel
Licensed Professional Counselor, LLPC
Verified Verified
Wayland, MI 49348
Hi, I’m Nate Apel, LLPC, a Limited Licensed Professional Counselor, and I'm currently accepting new clients, so, for the time being anyway, there's no waiting to get in to see me. I specialize in working with children, youth, adults, families, and couples, and I look forward to helping you, and those in your care, achieve a greater sense of calm and wellbeing. I completed my Master’s in Counseling, and my Bachelors in Family Life Education from Spring Arbor University, and I bring 15 years of clinical and life experience working with youth, families and adults in schools, churches, and private practice.
Hi, I’m Nate Apel, LLPC, a Limited Licensed Professional Counselor, and I'm currently accepting new clients, so, for the time being anyway, there's no waiting to get in to see me. I specialize in working with children, youth, adults, families, and couples, and I look forward to helping you, and those in your care, achieve a greater sense of calm and wellbeing. I completed my Master’s in Counseling, and my Bachelors in Family Life Education from Spring Arbor University, and I bring 15 years of clinical and life experience working with youth, families and adults in schools, churches, and private practice.
(616) 504-6212 View (616) 504-6212

More Therapists Nearby

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Bambi L Stalker
Counselor
Verified Verified
Otsego, MI 49078
Many women and moms go through times in her life when she may asks herself, "Is this my life?" Where the many hats she wears seem to overwhelm her true, beautiful essence. Can you relate? To having a sense that life is taking you for a ride instead of you being the driver! When past dreams and ideals seem far away or nonexistent.
Many women and moms go through times in her life when she may asks herself, "Is this my life?" Where the many hats she wears seem to overwhelm her true, beautiful essence. Can you relate? To having a sense that life is taking you for a ride instead of you being the driver! When past dreams and ideals seem far away or nonexistent.
(616) 425-5758 View (616) 425-5758
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Becky Mills
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, JD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Middleville, MI 49333
Circumstances are building and you fear that its weight will eventually grow to crush and consume you. You have so much to manage and yet you long to just let go of it all. You’re ready for a change, but it is terrifying. To face it may cause you to crumble, nevertheless, you will yourself to get through each day. If this sounds familiar and you wish to do more than get by, it is possible to flourish again. I aim to create a safe and empowering environment built upon a trusting therapeutic relationship so you can successfully heal from anxiety, depression, trauma, and grief and work toward thriving in your daily life.
Circumstances are building and you fear that its weight will eventually grow to crush and consume you. You have so much to manage and yet you long to just let go of it all. You’re ready for a change, but it is terrifying. To face it may cause you to crumble, nevertheless, you will yourself to get through each day. If this sounds familiar and you wish to do more than get by, it is possible to flourish again. I aim to create a safe and empowering environment built upon a trusting therapeutic relationship so you can successfully heal from anxiety, depression, trauma, and grief and work toward thriving in your daily life.
(616) 537-2805 View (616) 537-2805

Online Therapists

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Andrea Hunsaker
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Grand Rapids, MI 49525
I use evidence-based counseling practices tailored to your needs that improve mental health and well-being including MBCT, ACT, DBT and Gottman Method Therapy, with a focus on self-compassion and mindfulness.
We all could use a little help sometimes with this business of being human. Anxiety, depression, and relationship conflicts can weigh us down and keep us from flourishing. I guide clients to develop healthier thinking patterns and coping strategies, increase mindful attention to your inner life, and develop the capacity to embrace the broad spectrum of human emotions to empower you to live the life you want.
I use evidence-based counseling practices tailored to your needs that improve mental health and well-being including MBCT, ACT, DBT and Gottman Method Therapy, with a focus on self-compassion and mindfulness.
We all could use a little help sometimes with this business of being human. Anxiety, depression, and relationship conflicts can weigh us down and keep us from flourishing. I guide clients to develop healthier thinking patterns and coping strategies, increase mindful attention to your inner life, and develop the capacity to embrace the broad spectrum of human emotions to empower you to live the life you want.
(616) 947-3134 View (616) 947-3134
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Alyse Lange
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, IBCLC
Verified Verified
Kalamazoo, MI 49006  (Online Only)
I am EMDR certified and have completed additional training in the Gottman method, and treating perinatal mood and anxiety disorders through PSl.
I am passionate about empowering and supporting individuals and couples as they grow. I recognize my clients as experts on their own lives, and assist them as they learn to identify and leverage their strengths to move toward a healthier place. I have experience assisting with: trauma, anxiety, depression, issues that arise throughout pregnancy and the postpartum period, infertility & loss, parenting challenges, relationship conflict, navigating life changes, grief, attachment, phobias, mood disorders, and personality disorders. I have experience working with non-binary and transgender individuals.
I am EMDR certified and have completed additional training in the Gottman method, and treating perinatal mood and anxiety disorders through PSl.
I am passionate about empowering and supporting individuals and couples as they grow. I recognize my clients as experts on their own lives, and assist them as they learn to identify and leverage their strengths to move toward a healthier place. I have experience assisting with: trauma, anxiety, depression, issues that arise throughout pregnancy and the postpartum period, infertility & loss, parenting challenges, relationship conflict, navigating life changes, grief, attachment, phobias, mood disorders, and personality disorders. I have experience working with non-binary and transgender individuals.
(269) 247-4548 View (269) 247-4548
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Sheila D Wilkinson
Counselor, MA, LPC, FLE
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Norton Shores, MI 49441
Life can be difficult at times and often we struggle to navigate those challenging times. Marriage and trauma difficulties, in particular, can be very personal and often leave us feeling extremely confused and lonely. As a therapist I use the Gottman Method Therapy and Emotion Focused Therapy to assist couples. I work with my clients to identify a specific cycle of conflict, identify and express personal longings, increase level of intimacy, and put trust/commitment back into relationships. I also use EMDR, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to explore, educate and empower those with trauma and each person I come in contact with.
Life can be difficult at times and often we struggle to navigate those challenging times. Marriage and trauma difficulties, in particular, can be very personal and often leave us feeling extremely confused and lonely. As a therapist I use the Gottman Method Therapy and Emotion Focused Therapy to assist couples. I work with my clients to identify a specific cycle of conflict, identify and express personal longings, increase level of intimacy, and put trust/commitment back into relationships. I also use EMDR, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to explore, educate and empower those with trauma and each person I come in contact with.
(231) 597-4054 View (231) 597-4054
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Brandi Belcher
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Portage, MI 49002
She utilizes an integrative treatment approach that utilizes cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), the Gottman method, motivation interviewing, person-centered planning, and solution-focused therapy.
Brandi Belcher is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 5 years of experience working in the mental health field. She is passionate about helping adults and couples navigate struggles within their daily lives/relationships in order to face unique challenges with strength, resiliency, and purpose. Brandi specializes in depression, anxiety, coping skills, family conflict, life transitions, mental stress, relationships, self-esteem, stress, substance use, women's issues, parenting, and pregnancy/postpartum-related concerns. She completed her Master of Social Work (MSW) at Western Michigan University.
She utilizes an integrative treatment approach that utilizes cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), the Gottman method, motivation interviewing, person-centered planning, and solution-focused therapy.
Brandi Belcher is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 5 years of experience working in the mental health field. She is passionate about helping adults and couples navigate struggles within their daily lives/relationships in order to face unique challenges with strength, resiliency, and purpose. Brandi specializes in depression, anxiety, coping skills, family conflict, life transitions, mental stress, relationships, self-esteem, stress, substance use, women's issues, parenting, and pregnancy/postpartum-related concerns. She completed her Master of Social Work (MSW) at Western Michigan University.
(269) 475-9339 View (269) 475-9339
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Sara Knutson
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Midland, MI 48640  (Online Only)
I use the following therapies to inform my approach: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and The Gottman Method.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor who provides counseling services to adults (18+) and couples. I specialize in the treatment of anxiety, depression, borderline personality disorder, trauma, and marriage/relationship concerns. I focus on providing a supportive environment where you can explore your concerns, develop goals, learn skills, and discover strengths and resources as you move along your path to self-discovery. I believe that the therapeutic relationship can be a vehicle for change; therefore, I place great value on working from a place of compassion, authenticity, and collaboration.
I use the following therapies to inform my approach: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and The Gottman Method.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor who provides counseling services to adults (18+) and couples. I specialize in the treatment of anxiety, depression, borderline personality disorder, trauma, and marriage/relationship concerns. I focus on providing a supportive environment where you can explore your concerns, develop goals, learn skills, and discover strengths and resources as you move along your path to self-discovery. I believe that the therapeutic relationship can be a vehicle for change; therefore, I place great value on working from a place of compassion, authenticity, and collaboration.
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Siobhan Donnelly
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Ann Arbor, MI 48104
The Gottman Method is my go-to approach in addressing process impasses in relationships as it gets to the unexpressed emotional roots in a way that's collaborative and pragmatic.
I have 29 years’ experience helping adults to thrive, both in individual and couples therapy. My training includes Emotionally Focused Therapy (advanced) and the Gottman Method (through Level 2), both of which are evidence-based, empirically validated approaches. While at the Univ. of Mich. School of Soc. Work, I completed specialized training (including a post-grad. prog.) in the U/M Psychiatry Dept. Marital Clinic at the former Riverview Clinic. I also have 29 yrs. of training/experience treating complex trauma, including workshops with Bessel van der Kolk and at Gottman Institute in treatment of PTSD in couples work.
The Gottman Method is my go-to approach in addressing process impasses in relationships as it gets to the unexpressed emotional roots in a way that's collaborative and pragmatic.
I have 29 years’ experience helping adults to thrive, both in individual and couples therapy. My training includes Emotionally Focused Therapy (advanced) and the Gottman Method (through Level 2), both of which are evidence-based, empirically validated approaches. While at the Univ. of Mich. School of Soc. Work, I completed specialized training (including a post-grad. prog.) in the U/M Psychiatry Dept. Marital Clinic at the former Riverview Clinic. I also have 29 yrs. of training/experience treating complex trauma, including workshops with Bessel van der Kolk and at Gottman Institute in treatment of PTSD in couples work.
(734) 530-3722 View (734) 530-3722
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Brett Johnson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Dexter, MI 48130
Waitlist for new clients
I have completed level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
Hello, my name is Brett Johnson and I have worked in mental health since 2006, first providing direct care. I received my a BA degree from Albion College in 2009, and served in the Peace Corps from 2010 to 2012 as a youth development volunteer in Bulgaria. Following my Peace Corps service, I worked as a case manager for adults who receive mental health services from 2012 to 2020. I received my MSW degree from Western Michigan University in 2020 and I have worked as a clinical social worker and therapist at Peaceful Mind Counseling Services since then.
I have completed level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
Hello, my name is Brett Johnson and I have worked in mental health since 2006, first providing direct care. I received my a BA degree from Albion College in 2009, and served in the Peace Corps from 2010 to 2012 as a youth development volunteer in Bulgaria. Following my Peace Corps service, I worked as a case manager for adults who receive mental health services from 2012 to 2020. I received my MSW degree from Western Michigan University in 2020 and I have worked as a clinical social worker and therapist at Peaceful Mind Counseling Services since then.
(269) 247-5937 View (269) 247-5937
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Tim Gregory
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA, DMin
Verified Verified
Howell, MI 48855  (Online Only)
I use a CBT framework for individuals and Emotionally Focused Therapy or the Gottman Method for couples/families.
Life’s challenges can often wear us down, particularly when they affect our relationships, draining the affection and love we have for those we care about most. With over 30 years of experience, I am committed to helping others overcome the obstacles that prevent them from enjoying the life and relationships they desire. My counseling style is personal, warm, and supportive. I understand that discussing deep issues with a stranger can be intimidating, which is why I strive to create a friendly, non-judgmental space where individuals can talk openly about their lives and work on their issues.
I use a CBT framework for individuals and Emotionally Focused Therapy or the Gottman Method for couples/families.
Life’s challenges can often wear us down, particularly when they affect our relationships, draining the affection and love we have for those we care about most. With over 30 years of experience, I am committed to helping others overcome the obstacles that prevent them from enjoying the life and relationships they desire. My counseling style is personal, warm, and supportive. I understand that discussing deep issues with a stranger can be intimidating, which is why I strive to create a friendly, non-judgmental space where individuals can talk openly about their lives and work on their issues.
(517) 797-3364 View (517) 797-3364
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Caleb Charles Rudd
Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Grand Rapids, MI 49546
After the fresh passion of a new or developing relationship cools, partners in marriages and committed relationships often find they experience a distancing from one another. Often this distancing results in anger and resentment toward partners. Problems which were once minor irritants now seem to be major issues which seem to always be a source of conflict and anger, or may be avoided entirely for fear of conflict. In counseling couples and families using the Gottman method, my passion is helping my clients transform their relationships and gain a new sense of optimism in their relational pursuits.
After the fresh passion of a new or developing relationship cools, partners in marriages and committed relationships often find they experience a distancing from one another. Often this distancing results in anger and resentment toward partners. Problems which were once minor irritants now seem to be major issues which seem to always be a source of conflict and anger, or may be avoided entirely for fear of conflict. In counseling couples and families using the Gottman method, my passion is helping my clients transform their relationships and gain a new sense of optimism in their relational pursuits.
(269) 234-1686 View (269) 234-1686
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Joanne Vanderveen Counseling, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Grandville, MI 49418  (Online Only)
I have specialties in both Marriage and Family Therapy and School Social Work as well as advanced training in Couple Communication, the Gottman Method, PREPARE/ENRICH, and I am IFS-informed.
Do you feel anxious, sad, or stressed out from trying to navigate life on your own? Do you feel misunderstood, disconnected from loved ones, or stuck in patterns you feel powerless to change? Are you questioning aspects of your identity, striving to find a purpose, or deconstructing from beliefs which cause you internal conflict? If so, you have come to the right place. I believe that no question is inappropriate to ask, no issue is too challenging to face, and everyone deserves to be treated with dignity and respect. My goal is to create a safe space where thoughts and feelings can be shared without fear of judgment or shame.
I have specialties in both Marriage and Family Therapy and School Social Work as well as advanced training in Couple Communication, the Gottman Method, PREPARE/ENRICH, and I am IFS-informed.
Do you feel anxious, sad, or stressed out from trying to navigate life on your own? Do you feel misunderstood, disconnected from loved ones, or stuck in patterns you feel powerless to change? Are you questioning aspects of your identity, striving to find a purpose, or deconstructing from beliefs which cause you internal conflict? If so, you have come to the right place. I believe that no question is inappropriate to ask, no issue is too challenging to face, and everyone deserves to be treated with dignity and respect. My goal is to create a safe space where thoughts and feelings can be shared without fear of judgment or shame.
(616) 404-3987 View (616) 404-3987
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Hannah Cook
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LLMFT, LLPC
Verified Verified
Buchanan, MI 49107
Hannah utilizes evidence-based approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), the Gottman Method, and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
Living in relationships with others is hard work. It’s complicated and it’s often hard to know what healthy relationships are meant to look, feel, or sound like. As a limited Marriage and Family and Professional Counselor, Hannah gets the deep complexities of human relationships and specializes in providing therapy to couples, families, and individuals. She is passionate about helping clients build stronger, healthier relationships – relationships that just work and feel better.
Hannah utilizes evidence-based approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), the Gottman Method, and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
Living in relationships with others is hard work. It’s complicated and it’s often hard to know what healthy relationships are meant to look, feel, or sound like. As a limited Marriage and Family and Professional Counselor, Hannah gets the deep complexities of human relationships and specializes in providing therapy to couples, families, and individuals. She is passionate about helping clients build stronger, healthier relationships – relationships that just work and feel better.
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Charlene Cloutier-Spiewla
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
South Lyon, MI 48178  (Online Only)
Treatment Approaches: Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT), Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Trauma Focused, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness, Attachment-based, Culturally-Sensitive, Family Systems, Interpersonal, Psychodynamic, .
Change is possible. Every person deserves the right to a fulfilling life. A life in which their needs are met, they feel safe, secure, and they are able to work towards meeting their full potential. I believe that the foundation of successful therapy is a safe and trusting environment. This is facilitated by creating a relationship built on trust, compassion and communication. My approach to therapy is eclectic, client centered, emotion focused, strength based and evidence based.
Treatment Approaches: Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT), Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Trauma Focused, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness, Attachment-based, Culturally-Sensitive, Family Systems, Interpersonal, Psychodynamic, .
Change is possible. Every person deserves the right to a fulfilling life. A life in which their needs are met, they feel safe, secure, and they are able to work towards meeting their full potential. I believe that the foundation of successful therapy is a safe and trusting environment. This is facilitated by creating a relationship built on trust, compassion and communication. My approach to therapy is eclectic, client centered, emotion focused, strength based and evidence based.
(248) 617-2099 View (248) 617-2099
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Melanie Szucs
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LPC, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Grand Rapids, MI 49546
Waitlist for new clients
Depending on your particular needs and experiences, I draw from several different treatment models, including Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, and client-centered therapy.
Our lives are stories and we all want them to be stories worth telling, that give us hope. Maybe you long to rewrite the story you are living. I believe everyone has the ability to change their story. Whether you are a couple, a family, or an individual, you can have hope. I desire to walk alongside you in your struggles and help you to forge a new path. Sometimes all it takes is a listening ear; sometimes it takes long, hard work. But you have the choice-to step out in courage and to start writing a new story.
Depending on your particular needs and experiences, I draw from several different treatment models, including Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, and client-centered therapy.
Our lives are stories and we all want them to be stories worth telling, that give us hope. Maybe you long to rewrite the story you are living. I believe everyone has the ability to change their story. Whether you are a couple, a family, or an individual, you can have hope. I desire to walk alongside you in your struggles and help you to forge a new path. Sometimes all it takes is a listening ear; sometimes it takes long, hard work. But you have the choice-to step out in courage and to start writing a new story.
(616) 965-2816 View (616) 965-2816

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Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.