Emotionally Focused Therapists in Rochester, MI
Laura Milner
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, SSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, MI 48307
Waitlist for new clients
Are you a child, teen, or adult who is struggling to cope effectively with upsets (big or small) or to connect meaningfully with others? Do you struggle with self-care? Are you a parent in need of guidance to cultivate secure attachments with your child(ren) or do you struggle to establish firm behavioral expectations and discipline procedures in response to behavioral difficulties? If you are looking for a caring, nonjudgmental, optimistic and relatable clinician to help you then you have found your therapist!
Are you a child, teen, or adult who is struggling to cope effectively with upsets (big or small) or to connect meaningfully with others? Do you struggle with self-care? Are you a parent in need of guidance to cultivate secure attachments with your child(ren) or do you struggle to establish firm behavioral expectations and discipline procedures in response to behavioral difficulties? If you are looking for a caring, nonjudgmental, optimistic and relatable clinician to help you then you have found your therapist!
Ross L Flynn
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, MI 48307
I am fascinated by the process of healing. To me, deep healing can begin when we have a safe place to tell our story. A place where we won't get interrupted, where someone won't try to "fix" us with their biases, where a genuine, caring person can give us the space to hear ourselves tell our story, to empathize with us, and to affirm us. I find people make the most significant strides in their journey toward healing when they evaluate alternatives and come to a reasoned conclusion themselves, without over-concern about what others think of them.
I am fascinated by the process of healing. To me, deep healing can begin when we have a safe place to tell our story. A place where we won't get interrupted, where someone won't try to "fix" us with their biases, where a genuine, caring person can give us the space to hear ourselves tell our story, to empathize with us, and to affirm us. I find people make the most significant strides in their journey toward healing when they evaluate alternatives and come to a reasoned conclusion themselves, without over-concern about what others think of them.
I work with a variety of individuals, from ages 15 to 115, whether they come in seeking symptom relief for depression or anxiety, or they are facing challenges involving more existential issues. I believe in building a strong trusting relationship with those I work with, and with this type of foundation in place, we can explore everything from grief and loss, to issues surrounding sexuality; from how you see your place in this world, to ways that you can best integrate yourself into it. Your conception of your own self-actualization is my most important guideline.
I work with a variety of individuals, from ages 15 to 115, whether they come in seeking symptom relief for depression or anxiety, or they are facing challenges involving more existential issues. I believe in building a strong trusting relationship with those I work with, and with this type of foundation in place, we can explore everything from grief and loss, to issues surrounding sexuality; from how you see your place in this world, to ways that you can best integrate yourself into it. Your conception of your own self-actualization is my most important guideline.
Nancy M Harshfield
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW-C, CMHIMP
Verified Verified
Rochester, MI 48307
In todays climate it is not uncommon to have anxiety, depression, or even find yourself turning to substances that maybe you have not in the past. I recognize that not only adults, but our children are having to face mental health issues, that before may not have been on their radar. I recognize these mental health issues are on the rise and you just may need someone to talk to or process your world around you with all these stressors. I have worked in hospice for a decade, helping patients and families navigate the end of life process, as well as work with trauma patients from military experience and auto accidents.
In todays climate it is not uncommon to have anxiety, depression, or even find yourself turning to substances that maybe you have not in the past. I recognize that not only adults, but our children are having to face mental health issues, that before may not have been on their radar. I recognize these mental health issues are on the rise and you just may need someone to talk to or process your world around you with all these stressors. I have worked in hospice for a decade, helping patients and families navigate the end of life process, as well as work with trauma patients from military experience and auto accidents.
I offer a place where you won’t get interrupted, where a genuine, caring person will give you the space to hear yourself tell your unique story and to empathize with you. I have assisted clients with transforming their lives from crippling anxiety, life altering OCD to a life with ease and choice. I have assisted clients with overcoming familial trauma and PTSD to a life with purpose and love. Any unwanted thoughts, feelings, or behaviors you may be experiencing, I am here to help. Working together, you have the opportunity to process difficult emotions, life's uncertainties, and heal inner wounds without having to be alone.
I offer a place where you won’t get interrupted, where a genuine, caring person will give you the space to hear yourself tell your unique story and to empathize with you. I have assisted clients with transforming their lives from crippling anxiety, life altering OCD to a life with ease and choice. I have assisted clients with overcoming familial trauma and PTSD to a life with purpose and love. Any unwanted thoughts, feelings, or behaviors you may be experiencing, I am here to help. Working together, you have the opportunity to process difficult emotions, life's uncertainties, and heal inner wounds without having to be alone.
North Oakland Counseling LLC
Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, MI 48307
At North Oakland Counseling our mission is to: 1-Improve your communication skills so you can deepen your connection in marriage and other relationships. 2-Provide you with tools to cope effectively with stress and experience relief from anxiety and depression. 3-Help you control & manage obsessive-compulsive behaviors. 4-Work with you through grief and emptiness so you are able to transform hopelessness and helplessness into joy and happiness. 5- Help you manage anger & recover from abuse, trauma, & addictions. 6-Increase your sense of personal integrity consciously and subconsciously so you can begin to experience more life contentment and more authentic self.
At North Oakland Counseling our mission is to: 1-Improve your communication skills so you can deepen your connection in marriage and other relationships. 2-Provide you with tools to cope effectively with stress and experience relief from anxiety and depression. 3-Help you control & manage obsessive-compulsive behaviors. 4-Work with you through grief and emptiness so you are able to transform hopelessness and helplessness into joy and happiness. 5- Help you manage anger & recover from abuse, trauma, & addictions. 6-Increase your sense of personal integrity consciously and subconsciously so you can begin to experience more life contentment and more authentic self.
I believe we all have the ability to live happy, fulfilling and purpose-driven lives. Sometimes relationship problems, grief, past trauma or just our own misconceptions about ourselves can contribute to our unhappiness. We may be compassionate with our friends and family, but not so much with ourself. I believe the role of a therapist is to help guide the client with objective and empathetic listening and non-judgmental suggestions. Sometimes you may need a reality check, and other times all you may need is a reinforcing message that you are on the right track with your thoughts, beliefs and actions.
I believe we all have the ability to live happy, fulfilling and purpose-driven lives. Sometimes relationship problems, grief, past trauma or just our own misconceptions about ourselves can contribute to our unhappiness. We may be compassionate with our friends and family, but not so much with ourself. I believe the role of a therapist is to help guide the client with objective and empathetic listening and non-judgmental suggestions. Sometimes you may need a reality check, and other times all you may need is a reinforcing message that you are on the right track with your thoughts, beliefs and actions.
Have you found yourself in a place where you have followed all of the rules, done the things that you were taught to do, and found yourself in the reality of not feeling happy or fulfilled? Have you strived for the best and achieved a family, home, job—and yet there is still something that is not good enough? You have made the decision to begin looking into these discrepancies, and that little nudge is your inner knowing that something is off. You’re ready to listen to your needs, wants, and desires but putting them into action is daunting. I believe that by getting quiet and tapping into our inner wisdom, healing and growth occur.
Have you found yourself in a place where you have followed all of the rules, done the things that you were taught to do, and found yourself in the reality of not feeling happy or fulfilled? Have you strived for the best and achieved a family, home, job—and yet there is still something that is not good enough? You have made the decision to begin looking into these discrepancies, and that little nudge is your inner knowing that something is off. You’re ready to listen to your needs, wants, and desires but putting them into action is daunting. I believe that by getting quiet and tapping into our inner wisdom, healing and growth occur.
I work with individuals, families and couples that struggle with a variety of issues (i.e. anxiety, depression, life transitions and various health conditions) providing services ranging from counseling to wellness coaching to group support and education. Areas of focus include emotional health and physical well-being, spiritual health and purpose. I integrate traditional counseling techniques with mind, body, and spirit elements to help clients better identify their strengths, desires, and tools of resilience for effectively navigating through life.
I work with individuals, families and couples that struggle with a variety of issues (i.e. anxiety, depression, life transitions and various health conditions) providing services ranging from counseling to wellness coaching to group support and education. Areas of focus include emotional health and physical well-being, spiritual health and purpose. I integrate traditional counseling techniques with mind, body, and spirit elements to help clients better identify their strengths, desires, and tools of resilience for effectively navigating through life.
Brian Cooper
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Rochester, MI 48307
When your relationship is struggling, every aspect of life feels heavier. Frequent arguments, emotional distance, and an unsatisfying sex life can leave you feeling disconnected and unsure of where to turn. You long for the closeness, intimacy, and affection that once came easily. You wonder, 'How did we end up here?' I specialize in helping couples heal emotional wounds, improve communication, and reignite the passion and intimacy they desire. Whether it's resolving past hurts or enhancing your sex life, we’ll work together to rebuild the love and connection you both deserve. Reach out today and take the first step toward healing.
When your relationship is struggling, every aspect of life feels heavier. Frequent arguments, emotional distance, and an unsatisfying sex life can leave you feeling disconnected and unsure of where to turn. You long for the closeness, intimacy, and affection that once came easily. You wonder, 'How did we end up here?' I specialize in helping couples heal emotional wounds, improve communication, and reignite the passion and intimacy they desire. Whether it's resolving past hurts or enhancing your sex life, we’ll work together to rebuild the love and connection you both deserve. Reach out today and take the first step toward healing.
A Compass Within Personal Consulting PLLC
Psychologist, PhD, LP, MS
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Rochester, MI 48307
At A Compass Within Personal Consulting, we believe individuals have the ability to attain self-fulfillment and the right to the highest quality of care. We provide a warm, professional atmosphere where rigorous measures are taken to maintain our clients' the privacy. Our clinicians are trained in numerous modalities and evidence-based practices that have been shown to be effective in treating a variety of presenting concerns. If you are looking for a safe, nonjudgmental atmosphere to discuss life's challenges, or you require enhanced discretion because of your unique circumstances, ACW will always strive to accommodate your needs.
At A Compass Within Personal Consulting, we believe individuals have the ability to attain self-fulfillment and the right to the highest quality of care. We provide a warm, professional atmosphere where rigorous measures are taken to maintain our clients' the privacy. Our clinicians are trained in numerous modalities and evidence-based practices that have been shown to be effective in treating a variety of presenting concerns. If you are looking for a safe, nonjudgmental atmosphere to discuss life's challenges, or you require enhanced discretion because of your unique circumstances, ACW will always strive to accommodate your needs.
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Rochester, MI 48307
from us than we can give them; we are l eft feeling spent, used and guilty.
Sometimes we just need a little help figuring out life's challenges-----help sorting out how to make some of "those" big decisions...or how to pick up the pieces after a fallout, breakup or death of a loved one. Maybe drugs and alcohol have taken over you and the lifestyle you once knew; recovery may be a frightening thing to explore. Sometimes we are caught up in someone else's mess; a loved one with a substance abuse, alcohol or gambling problem. Finances may be causing conflict with others and within ourselves.Sometimes we need help because someone /something may be needing more
from us than we can give them; we are l eft feeling spent, used and guilty.
Sometimes we just need a little help figuring out life's challenges-----help sorting out how to make some of "those" big decisions...or how to pick up the pieces after a fallout, breakup or death of a loved one. Maybe drugs and alcohol have taken over you and the lifestyle you once knew; recovery may be a frightening thing to explore. Sometimes we are caught up in someone else's mess; a loved one with a substance abuse, alcohol or gambling problem. Finances may be causing conflict with others and within ourselves.Sometimes we need help because someone /something may be needing more
Do you struggle with a difficult relationship? Can't seem to get unstuck? Or maybe you've experienced anxiety, depression and grief that impacts your self-esteem. My mission is to make my clients feel empowered to make changes, accept reality, and heal from heavy relationship issues. I use research-based techniques and my unique life experience to create a nurturing, yet solution-focused environment for growth. I am an opportunity finder, problem solver, heart healer and strength builder. This is a safe space, but we don’t hold back here. We get creative and messy, we talk about emotions, and we move forward.
Do you struggle with a difficult relationship? Can't seem to get unstuck? Or maybe you've experienced anxiety, depression and grief that impacts your self-esteem. My mission is to make my clients feel empowered to make changes, accept reality, and heal from heavy relationship issues. I use research-based techniques and my unique life experience to create a nurturing, yet solution-focused environment for growth. I am an opportunity finder, problem solver, heart healer and strength builder. This is a safe space, but we don’t hold back here. We get creative and messy, we talk about emotions, and we move forward.
Life surely isn't easy in today's ever changing world. Do you wish you had a safe, nonjudgmental person you can trust to help you regain focus, plan, problem solve, and get in touch with your true self? Together we can walk through the issues facing you. Using a client centered, creative approach combining both traditional talk therapy and experiential activities, I will help you find your own voice, access your inner strengths, and take action to create the life you want. We'll explore your personal decision making process in a way that affirms who you are, and who you want to be. Let me share what I have learned makes it better
Life surely isn't easy in today's ever changing world. Do you wish you had a safe, nonjudgmental person you can trust to help you regain focus, plan, problem solve, and get in touch with your true self? Together we can walk through the issues facing you. Using a client centered, creative approach combining both traditional talk therapy and experiential activities, I will help you find your own voice, access your inner strengths, and take action to create the life you want. We'll explore your personal decision making process in a way that affirms who you are, and who you want to be. Let me share what I have learned makes it better
Whether you are struggling with conflicts in marriage, parenting, anxiety, depression or any of the other challenges that come from being in relationships, I am ready to help you work on solutions that work for you. You can experience hope in the midst of your struggle, and work towards a healthier approach in relationships. As a mother of two grown daughters and a wife of over 30 years, I have a heart for hurting couples and families. I enjoy working with children, adolescents and teens, and I have a passion to help couples find their way back to help and healing.
Whether you are struggling with conflicts in marriage, parenting, anxiety, depression or any of the other challenges that come from being in relationships, I am ready to help you work on solutions that work for you. You can experience hope in the midst of your struggle, and work towards a healthier approach in relationships. As a mother of two grown daughters and a wife of over 30 years, I have a heart for hurting couples and families. I enjoy working with children, adolescents and teens, and I have a passion to help couples find their way back to help and healing.
Taking the first steps in finding a therapist can be an intimidating experience for many people. Over the past twenty years as a clinical psychologist, I have been sensitive to my client's personal process of building rapport and trust. It is crucial to provide a space in which my client feels safe to share his/her personal life challenges without judgment, shame, or embarrassment.
Taking the first steps in finding a therapist can be an intimidating experience for many people. Over the past twenty years as a clinical psychologist, I have been sensitive to my client's personal process of building rapport and trust. It is crucial to provide a space in which my client feels safe to share his/her personal life challenges without judgment, shame, or embarrassment.
Judith Persley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, MSA, CAADC, EFT
Verified Verified
Rochester, MI 48307
We are all unique, but the truth is, all of us face challenges and difficulties at different points in our lives. Some difficulties are painful and yet other difficulties seem more "chronic" and "just get in the way of us being the best we can be". Whatever the case is for you, my goal is to partner with you, listen to you, and work together to identify the best strategies and concrete tools for you, to get you where you want to be.
We are all unique, but the truth is, all of us face challenges and difficulties at different points in our lives. Some difficulties are painful and yet other difficulties seem more "chronic" and "just get in the way of us being the best we can be". Whatever the case is for you, my goal is to partner with you, listen to you, and work together to identify the best strategies and concrete tools for you, to get you where you want to be.
Are you feeling on edge, up tight and having trouble sleeping? Do you easily become irritated at the smallest things? Does your mind race and make concentrating difficult? These are symptoms of anxiety and depression. Over the past 31years,, I have been helping people experience relief from the damaging effects of anxiety, stress and depression. I work with adolescents, adults, families and couples. I provide honest feedback in a confidential, safe and non-judgmental environment for my clients to help facilitate positive change and to reach a much higher level of peace and joy in their lives.
Are you feeling on edge, up tight and having trouble sleeping? Do you easily become irritated at the smallest things? Does your mind race and make concentrating difficult? These are symptoms of anxiety and depression. Over the past 31years,, I have been helping people experience relief from the damaging effects of anxiety, stress and depression. I work with adolescents, adults, families and couples. I provide honest feedback in a confidential, safe and non-judgmental environment for my clients to help facilitate positive change and to reach a much higher level of peace and joy in their lives.
Rochester Area Counseling Services
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, CAADC, CCS-M, CCTP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, MI 48306
Making the decision to schedule an appointment with a counselor takes a great deal of courage. Our therapists recognize that and work hard to make sure that you feel comfortable from the moment you walk in the door. Understanding that individuals have different schedules in their lives, we provide a variety of options in the morning, afternoon, evening, or weekends depending on your needs. Give yourself the gift of self-care and give us a call.
Making the decision to schedule an appointment with a counselor takes a great deal of courage. Our therapists recognize that and work hard to make sure that you feel comfortable from the moment you walk in the door. Understanding that individuals have different schedules in their lives, we provide a variety of options in the morning, afternoon, evening, or weekends depending on your needs. Give yourself the gift of self-care and give us a call.
There are many factors that can impact your quality of life on a daily basis. Whether it's transitions, stress/anxiety, trauma, complex PTSD, depression, relationships, school or work - I can help. I am dedicated to the overall health and well-being of every client. I provide a safe environment where we work together to explore challenges, develop strategies for growth, and find a path that meets your needs for care while building upon your personal strengths. I work with both children and adults dealing with a variety of conditions in individual and family sessions.
There are many factors that can impact your quality of life on a daily basis. Whether it's transitions, stress/anxiety, trauma, complex PTSD, depression, relationships, school or work - I can help. I am dedicated to the overall health and well-being of every client. I provide a safe environment where we work together to explore challenges, develop strategies for growth, and find a path that meets your needs for care while building upon your personal strengths. I work with both children and adults dealing with a variety of conditions in individual and family sessions.
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Emotionally Focused Therapists
Who is emotionally focused therapy for?
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.
Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?
People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.
What happens in emotionally focused therapy?
Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.
What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?
EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.