Relationship Issues Therapists in Rochester Hills, MI
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Sonja Thayer
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Rochester Hills, MI 48307
As I work with clients, I strive to discover and explore the uniqueness of each individual. As this process unfolds, my hope is that you begin to feel comfortable to share your story with me. I work with adolescents and adults who may be experiencing issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, grief and/or loss, relationship issues, men's/women's issues, life transitions, attachment issues, diminished self-esteem, living with chronic illness, and other challenges.
As I work with clients, I strive to discover and explore the uniqueness of each individual. As this process unfolds, my hope is that you begin to feel comfortable to share your story with me. I work with adolescents and adults who may be experiencing issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, grief and/or loss, relationship issues, men's/women's issues, life transitions, attachment issues, diminished self-esteem, living with chronic illness, and other challenges.
![Photo of David Hamel, LMSW, PsyS, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/3da92e6a-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/3/320x400.jpeg)
I AM NOT CURRENTLY ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS. You're searching for a therapist to be of help to yourself or a loved one. Whether you hope to ease a problem such as anxiety, depression, relationship stress, substance abuse, or grief, or want to build a more satisfying life, finding the right professional to guide you is important. In my more than 30 years as a therapist, my clients have told me that my ability to help them develop new skills and insights, while connecting with them with compassion and humor, has helped them reach their goals.
I AM NOT CURRENTLY ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS. You're searching for a therapist to be of help to yourself or a loved one. Whether you hope to ease a problem such as anxiety, depression, relationship stress, substance abuse, or grief, or want to build a more satisfying life, finding the right professional to guide you is important. In my more than 30 years as a therapist, my clients have told me that my ability to help them develop new skills and insights, while connecting with them with compassion and humor, has helped them reach their goals.
![Photo of Liz Grazioli Talbot, LPC, LMSW, ACSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/3fb13e95-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/3/320x400.jpeg)
Liz Grazioli Talbot
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LPC, LMSW, ACSW
Verified Verified
Rochester Hills, MI 48307
The word "kairos" comes the Greek word meaning, "the opportune and decisive moment for change." I will support you through the counseling process while you search for continued joy and wellness in your life. Child and adolescent services are available to focus in on difficult attitudes, home or school behavior problems, parental divorce or separation issues. Adult counseling is needed to help in difficult life transitions, which may cause anxiety or depression. Couple counseling is available to help develop the necessary communication skills to enhance the relationship. Couples may have reached an impass due to the developmental stages of marriage.
The word "kairos" comes the Greek word meaning, "the opportune and decisive moment for change." I will support you through the counseling process while you search for continued joy and wellness in your life. Child and adolescent services are available to focus in on difficult attitudes, home or school behavior problems, parental divorce or separation issues. Adult counseling is needed to help in difficult life transitions, which may cause anxiety or depression. Couple counseling is available to help develop the necessary communication skills to enhance the relationship. Couples may have reached an impass due to the developmental stages of marriage.
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Roxanne Christensen
Psychologist, PsyD, LP
Verified Verified
Rochester Hills, MI 48309
Waitlist for new clients
My practice is founded upon a dedication to mental wellness and I work with people committed to achieving life-congruence by bringing into balance their past histories, present needs and desires, and future goals. I believe therapeutic growth is developed through an authentic relationship between patient and practitioner to address both the surface symptoms present and the underlying stuck patterns which maintain incongruence. My therapy approach involves a collaborative process with the patient as an expert in their experiencing of the world joined with my expertise in modality and method.
My practice is founded upon a dedication to mental wellness and I work with people committed to achieving life-congruence by bringing into balance their past histories, present needs and desires, and future goals. I believe therapeutic growth is developed through an authentic relationship between patient and practitioner to address both the surface symptoms present and the underlying stuck patterns which maintain incongruence. My therapy approach involves a collaborative process with the patient as an expert in their experiencing of the world joined with my expertise in modality and method.
![Photo of Jean Washington, MA, LPC, NCC, MBA, Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/3d9b03ad-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/3/320x400.jpeg)
Licensed professional counselor - EMDR Certified - Specialization in couples counseling- Imago Trained Relationship Therapist - Also work with individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, grief, weight loss issues, trauma, and working through a difficult divorce.
Do you want more out of life? Do you have hopes and dreams that seem unattainable? You have come to the right place. Many people spend their lives wishing for more, but fear change. If you are ready to make positive changes in your life, contact me, lets get started. I look forward to meeting you. Openings for new clients: Tues & Fri 9-5pm only.
Licensed professional counselor - EMDR Certified - Specialization in couples counseling- Imago Trained Relationship Therapist - Also work with individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, grief, weight loss issues, trauma, and working through a difficult divorce.
Do you want more out of life? Do you have hopes and dreams that seem unattainable? You have come to the right place. Many people spend their lives wishing for more, but fear change. If you are ready to make positive changes in your life, contact me, lets get started. I look forward to meeting you. Openings for new clients: Tues & Fri 9-5pm only.
![Photo of Kristen R Qualls, MA, LPC, LMFT, NCC, Marriage & Family Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/e30f554e-a039-401a-a835-1f37b01bb74b/1/320x400.jpeg)
Kristen R Qualls
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LPC, LMFT, NCC
Verified Verified
Rochester Hills, MI 48309 (Online Only)
Fighting in circles without resolution? Struggling to communicate or feel understood? Arguing or shutting down? Feeling disconnected and sad or scared? Relationship struggles are common. Low desire, affairs, and trust violations are symptoms of deeper relationship problems. Couples therapy with a specialist can make all the difference. I like helping people get down to business so they can understand and correct problems at the core. Clients love my genuine, straightforward approach and learn a lot in sessions. They leave feeling safe, with increased hope, and tasks to work on to improve their lives and achieve their goals.
Fighting in circles without resolution? Struggling to communicate or feel understood? Arguing or shutting down? Feeling disconnected and sad or scared? Relationship struggles are common. Low desire, affairs, and trust violations are symptoms of deeper relationship problems. Couples therapy with a specialist can make all the difference. I like helping people get down to business so they can understand and correct problems at the core. Clients love my genuine, straightforward approach and learn a lot in sessions. They leave feeling safe, with increased hope, and tasks to work on to improve their lives and achieve their goals.
![Photo of Jordan Tasker, LPC, NCC, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/f014522a-f6bc-4b6b-96df-3cc7aa61b3cf/2/320x400.jpeg)
Jordan Tasker
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester Hills, MI 48309
It is important to me to provide a safe, comfortable, and confidential space where we can work together to overcome depression, anxiety, shame, relationship issues, panic attacks, and the stress of life transitions.
Whatever you are struggling with, I am here to help. Life brings many challenges and obstacles. Together we can work through and overcome those challenges. My goal is to help you optimize your personal potential by feeling heard, understood, valued, and supported.
It is important to me to provide a safe, comfortable, and confidential space where we can work together to overcome depression, anxiety, shame, relationship issues, panic attacks, and the stress of life transitions.
Whatever you are struggling with, I am here to help. Life brings many challenges and obstacles. Together we can work through and overcome those challenges. My goal is to help you optimize your personal potential by feeling heard, understood, valued, and supported.
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Carrissa Michael
Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC, ACS, LMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Rochester Hills, MI 48309
Ever feel like you are just floating through life and you have become someone you no longer recognize with a backdrop thought of "I have no clue what I am doing? Experiencing an autopilot life, ignoring your relationship with yourself & feeling complacent with your mental health and relationships can feel incredibly overwhelming. Being able to become active in your own life, strengthening relationships, working towards your goals, challenging that bully in your mind, and finding a purposeful existence is achievable. To start this path, it is important to recognize unhealthy patterns and systems and that is where counseling fits in.
Ever feel like you are just floating through life and you have become someone you no longer recognize with a backdrop thought of "I have no clue what I am doing? Experiencing an autopilot life, ignoring your relationship with yourself & feeling complacent with your mental health and relationships can feel incredibly overwhelming. Being able to become active in your own life, strengthening relationships, working towards your goals, challenging that bully in your mind, and finding a purposeful existence is achievable. To start this path, it is important to recognize unhealthy patterns and systems and that is where counseling fits in.
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Ciara Braun - Certified Sex Therapist
Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC, CST
Verified Verified
13 Endorsed
Rochester Hills, MI 48307 (Online Only)
Open Aug slots! I specialize in relationship concerns including infidelity, intimacy, desire or sex therapy for individuals/couples with a focus on rebuilding connection, communication, and conflict skills. My treatment approach is based on Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). This includes exploring self-talk, relationships, and attachment patterns to help you better understand yourself and achieve your goals. I focus on educating the client, utilizing your strengths and providing techniques to overcome conflicts. My goal is not to diagnose you but to improve your life and your relationships to manage future concerns independently.
Open Aug slots! I specialize in relationship concerns including infidelity, intimacy, desire or sex therapy for individuals/couples with a focus on rebuilding connection, communication, and conflict skills. My treatment approach is based on Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). This includes exploring self-talk, relationships, and attachment patterns to help you better understand yourself and achieve your goals. I focus on educating the client, utilizing your strengths and providing techniques to overcome conflicts. My goal is not to diagnose you but to improve your life and your relationships to manage future concerns independently.
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Teresa Visoso-Rangel
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester Hills, MI 48307
Give yourself and your partner the gift of a sound relationship, attend a couples' workshop to enhance your relationship.
I provide services in English and Spanish. If you are currently struggling with a circumstance in your own life that is draining your energy and ability to feel hopeful, call me. Whether you want to improve your personal life, create more trust and intimacy with your partner or improve your relationships to feel happier, I can help you. I support individuals, couples and families reconnect and heal. Some of the issues you might want to work on might be depression either related to pregnancy or to other factors, anxiety, adjustment to change, family conflict, divorce and infidelity among others.
Give yourself and your partner the gift of a sound relationship, attend a couples' workshop to enhance your relationship.
I provide services in English and Spanish. If you are currently struggling with a circumstance in your own life that is draining your energy and ability to feel hopeful, call me. Whether you want to improve your personal life, create more trust and intimacy with your partner or improve your relationships to feel happier, I can help you. I support individuals, couples and families reconnect and heal. Some of the issues you might want to work on might be depression either related to pregnancy or to other factors, anxiety, adjustment to change, family conflict, divorce and infidelity among others.
![Photo of David Clark, LMSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/3c335441-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/4/320x400.jpeg)
I have 48 years of psychotherapy experience, and I am a Diplomate in cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT). In a collaborative manner, and with understanding, compassion and acceptance, I assist people in overcoming anxiety, worry, panic, low self-esteem, depression, and relationship/marital distress. I assist clients in developing the practical tools to meet life's challenges, and to learn to live the lives that they desire. I believe that people can change: they can learn new ways of thinking and new ways of behaving that allow them to be hopeful and happy.
I have 48 years of psychotherapy experience, and I am a Diplomate in cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT). In a collaborative manner, and with understanding, compassion and acceptance, I assist people in overcoming anxiety, worry, panic, low self-esteem, depression, and relationship/marital distress. I assist clients in developing the practical tools to meet life's challenges, and to learn to live the lives that they desire. I believe that people can change: they can learn new ways of thinking and new ways of behaving that allow them to be hopeful and happy.
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Whether you are seeking change for yourself or wanting to improve your relationships, you have taken the first step. I focus on client's strengths by working collaboratively with individuals, couples, and families from a variety of backgrounds. My expertise is in treating relationship issues, specializing in couple's therapy, life stressors and resolving family conflict. I address the dynamics between people that keep them from feeling emotionally and physically connected, as well as their individual concerns.
Whether you are seeking change for yourself or wanting to improve your relationships, you have taken the first step. I focus on client's strengths by working collaboratively with individuals, couples, and families from a variety of backgrounds. My expertise is in treating relationship issues, specializing in couple's therapy, life stressors and resolving family conflict. I address the dynamics between people that keep them from feeling emotionally and physically connected, as well as their individual concerns.
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Having a good client-therapist relationship is crucial.
Tired of struggling with this problem, again? You don't need to live like this. Sometimes, despite our best efforts, we are unable to make the changes that transform our life. Having a professional look at the situation can add a fresh perspective and support you in taking the first steps toward freedom and a healthy life. I provide an environment that is safe, supportive and nonjudgmental. My clients have ranged from 10 years old to elderly.
Having a good client-therapist relationship is crucial.
Tired of struggling with this problem, again? You don't need to live like this. Sometimes, despite our best efforts, we are unable to make the changes that transform our life. Having a professional look at the situation can add a fresh perspective and support you in taking the first steps toward freedom and a healthy life. I provide an environment that is safe, supportive and nonjudgmental. My clients have ranged from 10 years old to elderly.
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Dr. Nicole Parker
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester Hills, MI 48306
Strengthening marriages is my passion and my life’s mission. I want to know what are your biggest struggles in your relationship right now, and figure out the fastest and most effective way to change them forever. I understand not being able to see past today when today feels so terrible, I totally get that. But I am also thinking about your future selves in 10, 20, 30 years from now. What changes do we have to make right now, that will set you up for that bright and happy future that I want for both of you?
Strengthening marriages is my passion and my life’s mission. I want to know what are your biggest struggles in your relationship right now, and figure out the fastest and most effective way to change them forever. I understand not being able to see past today when today feels so terrible, I totally get that. But I am also thinking about your future selves in 10, 20, 30 years from now. What changes do we have to make right now, that will set you up for that bright and happy future that I want for both of you?
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Walnut Therapy Center, PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA MLP, LMFT, EMDR-T
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester Hills, MI 48306
These areas include anxiety, trauma and post-traumatic stress, personality disorders, relationship issues, self-esteem issues, anger management, conflict resolution and many others.
I am a Master's Licensed Psychologist and Marriage & Family Therapist. My Counseling approach is Person-Centered, focusing on building a therapeutic relationship by being warm, genuine, and understanding. I also adhere to many aspects of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy - challenging and changing unhelpful cognitive distortions and behaviors, improving emotional regulation, and seeking development of personal coping strategies that target solving current problems. I am trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapy as a treatment for Post Traumatic Stress.
These areas include anxiety, trauma and post-traumatic stress, personality disorders, relationship issues, self-esteem issues, anger management, conflict resolution and many others.
I am a Master's Licensed Psychologist and Marriage & Family Therapist. My Counseling approach is Person-Centered, focusing on building a therapeutic relationship by being warm, genuine, and understanding. I also adhere to many aspects of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy - challenging and changing unhelpful cognitive distortions and behaviors, improving emotional regulation, and seeking development of personal coping strategies that target solving current problems. I am trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapy as a treatment for Post Traumatic Stress.
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Lillian Ojetta Brown
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Rochester Hills, MI 48307 (Online Only)
Has LIFE taken a toll on your mental health? Are you stressed, depressed or grieving the loss of a loved one? Have you neglected the care of your own mental health needs to take care of everyone else? Is your relationship with your spouse or significant other suffering? Do you feel overwhelmed? I can help you! I will teach you to: Master the skills of processing old wounds, trauma, betrayal, self-harm and abuse. Identify and DISARM triggers. Create and accomplish goals that calm your thoughts, soothe your emotions and direct your behavior in healthy and positive ways. Prioritize self-love with confident and assertive behavior.
Has LIFE taken a toll on your mental health? Are you stressed, depressed or grieving the loss of a loved one? Have you neglected the care of your own mental health needs to take care of everyone else? Is your relationship with your spouse or significant other suffering? Do you feel overwhelmed? I can help you! I will teach you to: Master the skills of processing old wounds, trauma, betrayal, self-harm and abuse. Identify and DISARM triggers. Create and accomplish goals that calm your thoughts, soothe your emotions and direct your behavior in healthy and positive ways. Prioritize self-love with confident and assertive behavior.
![Photo of Tyler White, LMSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/048e68dd-3179-4d46-8e83-7a10720b9450/4/320x400.jpeg)
Even though one of my passions is working with college aged individuals, my ideal client is any adult looking to work on and better themselves. When you are open and honest about needing help and playing an active role in your mental health journey that is when real progress can occur. Anxiety, depression, life transitions and relationship issues are my areas of specialty. Anyone dealing with these issues can feel very alone and misunderstood. But they don't have to, because that is where therapy comes into play. Being validated, heard, and supported through these difficult times can make the biggest impact they may need.
Even though one of my passions is working with college aged individuals, my ideal client is any adult looking to work on and better themselves. When you are open and honest about needing help and playing an active role in your mental health journey that is when real progress can occur. Anxiety, depression, life transitions and relationship issues are my areas of specialty. Anyone dealing with these issues can feel very alone and misunderstood. But they don't have to, because that is where therapy comes into play. Being validated, heard, and supported through these difficult times can make the biggest impact they may need.
![Photo of Katie Hofstad, LPC, NCC, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/2f8c7228-ad74-4e59-8dc7-58c4b19132e5/1/320x400.jpeg)
I am currently taking new clients for in-person and virtual services! My experience in the mental health field so far has allowed me to help people struggling with anxiety, depression, mood disorders, low self-esteem/self-worth, body issues, gender and sexuality, anger management, family conflicts, and relationship issues. My passion for this field has helped improve my commitment, focus, inclusivity, and empathy to best help those seeking therapy services.
I am currently taking new clients for in-person and virtual services! My experience in the mental health field so far has allowed me to help people struggling with anxiety, depression, mood disorders, low self-esteem/self-worth, body issues, gender and sexuality, anger management, family conflicts, and relationship issues. My passion for this field has helped improve my commitment, focus, inclusivity, and empathy to best help those seeking therapy services.
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Other areas include anxiety, stress, childhood trauma, grief and loss, LGBTQ+ issues, depression and relationship conflicts.
Someone to listen. Someone with compassion. Someone who sees you as you are today, but can envision you as you are meant to be. If you are facing challenges and seeking support, let me be this person for you. For adults, teens, children and families - true healing arises when each individual is guided toward increased self-awareness and self-acceptance. Let me accompany you on your journey to find healing and release, to ask new questions and discover your own trusted answers. As your therapist, I will honor your life's journey in its entirety, and encourage you to do the same.
Other areas include anxiety, stress, childhood trauma, grief and loss, LGBTQ+ issues, depression and relationship conflicts.
Someone to listen. Someone with compassion. Someone who sees you as you are today, but can envision you as you are meant to be. If you are facing challenges and seeking support, let me be this person for you. For adults, teens, children and families - true healing arises when each individual is guided toward increased self-awareness and self-acceptance. Let me accompany you on your journey to find healing and release, to ask new questions and discover your own trusted answers. As your therapist, I will honor your life's journey in its entirety, and encourage you to do the same.
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Colleen A Mott
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC2295
Verified Verified
Rochester Hills, MI 48309
We are sometimes confronted with obstacles that keep us from living our best lives. If you are ready to confront these obstacles and take the first step to a better life, I am ready to help you get there. As a licensed professional counselor with over 20 years of experience, I have successfully worked with clients with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, grief and loss, self-esteem, work conflicts, and relationship issues. In addition, I have more than 25 years of experience in law enforcement, and so I am well-qualified to assist with the unique needs of first responder and law enforcement professionals.
We are sometimes confronted with obstacles that keep us from living our best lives. If you are ready to confront these obstacles and take the first step to a better life, I am ready to help you get there. As a licensed professional counselor with over 20 years of experience, I have successfully worked with clients with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, grief and loss, self-esteem, work conflicts, and relationship issues. In addition, I have more than 25 years of experience in law enforcement, and so I am well-qualified to assist with the unique needs of first responder and law enforcement professionals.
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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.