Couples Counseling Therapists in Ada, MI

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Amanda Worst
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Ada, MI 49301
I work with adults who are experiencing anxiety, grief, relationship concerns, and life adjustments.
Sometimes life brings challenges that leave us standing in need of additional support. You may find yourself surviving anxiety, hurt in relationship, grieved by loss, or trying to find footing in a life transition. You may desire a safe space to lament, to ask questions, to learn, and to build upon your strengths. I will partner with you, as you work to understand and address the challenges before you.
I work with adults who are experiencing anxiety, grief, relationship concerns, and life adjustments.
Sometimes life brings challenges that leave us standing in need of additional support. You may find yourself surviving anxiety, hurt in relationship, grieved by loss, or trying to find footing in a life transition. You may desire a safe space to lament, to ask questions, to learn, and to build upon your strengths. I will partner with you, as you work to understand and address the challenges before you.
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Shannon Geneen Kelly
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-S, MPA, LCDC
Verified Verified
Ada, MI 49301  (Online Only)
I use techniques that have been proven to work, while also building a trusting relationship with you.
Do people believe you have it all together, or do you put on a brave face to conceal the pain? Your feelings are valid, and your healing journey is important. I specialize in healing from trauma, enhancing self-esteem, and mending relationships, employing EMDR, IFS, CPT, and DBT, alongside mindfulness, somatic work, and creative expression. Guiding you through increasing your confidence, fostering healthy relationships, and cultivating a positive self-view for lasting well-being
I use techniques that have been proven to work, while also building a trusting relationship with you.
Do people believe you have it all together, or do you put on a brave face to conceal the pain? Your feelings are valid, and your healing journey is important. I specialize in healing from trauma, enhancing self-esteem, and mending relationships, employing EMDR, IFS, CPT, and DBT, alongside mindfulness, somatic work, and creative expression. Guiding you through increasing your confidence, fostering healthy relationships, and cultivating a positive self-view for lasting well-being
(269) 225-3737 View (269) 225-3737
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Daniel K Ehnis
Psychologist, EdD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ada, MI 49301
I specialize in counseling couples in conflict, and treating adolescents and adults struggling with anxiety and depression.
I have 44 years experience in helping couples recover from affairs, manage conflict, improve communication and intimacy.
I specialize in counseling couples in conflict, and treating adolescents and adults struggling with anxiety and depression.
I have 44 years experience in helping couples recover from affairs, manage conflict, improve communication and intimacy.
(616) 377-0076 View (616) 377-0076
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Robert L Funaro
Limited Licensed Psychologist, EdD, LLP, CFellow, AAMFT, Sp Dir
Verified Verified
Ada, MI 49301
Most of my clients bring individual and marital issues. They seek on-going inner peace, the lowering of distress factors, happiness in their relationships, and/or a vision and hope. Some seek to integrate both personal development and spiritual development. Most seek to find happiness, success, and personal satisfaction. Whether anxious, depressed, or seeking career satisfaction, my clients want to expand their inner peacefulness, resolve old conflicts, and move forward into a more successful life. When a person seeks to resolve conflict with self, life- partners, spouse, friends etc., I welcome them and invite them to journey with me in therapy.
Most of my clients bring individual and marital issues. They seek on-going inner peace, the lowering of distress factors, happiness in their relationships, and/or a vision and hope. Some seek to integrate both personal development and spiritual development. Most seek to find happiness, success, and personal satisfaction. Whether anxious, depressed, or seeking career satisfaction, my clients want to expand their inner peacefulness, resolve old conflicts, and move forward into a more successful life. When a person seeks to resolve conflict with self, life- partners, spouse, friends etc., I welcome them and invite them to journey with me in therapy.
(616) 765-4156 View (616) 765-4156
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Kathleen J Cramer
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Verified Verified
Ada, MI 49301
Dr Cramer is a licensed clinical psychologist with 11 years of experience as a psychotherapist. She is also a registered nurse. She is a compassionate therapist who strives to create a close and supportive relationship with each patient. She has a strong belief in treating the whole person, utilizing psychotherapy with a focus on wellness, inner peace, spirituality and cultivating a deeper awareness with ones inner self. She has experience in the treatment of a wide range of problems, trauma and stress, relationship/marital or couple problems, issues related to chronic pain, and patients in recovery from substance abuse/addiction.
Dr Cramer is a licensed clinical psychologist with 11 years of experience as a psychotherapist. She is also a registered nurse. She is a compassionate therapist who strives to create a close and supportive relationship with each patient. She has a strong belief in treating the whole person, utilizing psychotherapy with a focus on wellness, inner peace, spirituality and cultivating a deeper awareness with ones inner self. She has experience in the treatment of a wide range of problems, trauma and stress, relationship/marital or couple problems, issues related to chronic pain, and patients in recovery from substance abuse/addiction.
(616) 920-0467 View (616) 920-0467
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Susan L King
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Ada, MI 49301
If you are in a relationship that is causing you significant distress and greatly impacting your emotional, physical, or spiritual health, I would like to walk along side you as you create change.
As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I often work with clients who are suffering from anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, life transitions, esteem issues, and relationship difficulties. I take a collaborative and relational approach to counseling. I can offer a warm and safe space for exploration and growth. The populations I am best suited to work with are individuals who are motivated toward healthier intrapersonal development, clients interested in creating stronger interpersonal connections, as well as women in destructive relationships.
If you are in a relationship that is causing you significant distress and greatly impacting your emotional, physical, or spiritual health, I would like to walk along side you as you create change.
As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I often work with clients who are suffering from anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, life transitions, esteem issues, and relationship difficulties. I take a collaborative and relational approach to counseling. I can offer a warm and safe space for exploration and growth. The populations I am best suited to work with are individuals who are motivated toward healthier intrapersonal development, clients interested in creating stronger interpersonal connections, as well as women in destructive relationships.
(586) 474-5772 View (586) 474-5772
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Hiral Patel
Psychologist, PsyD, LP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Ada, MI 49301
Have you found yourself in a difficult or complicated relationship that has caused you to feel anxious, helpless, doubt decisions, or feel broken? Are you having difficulty talking to others about your struggles? Fearing that others may not understand you or judge you. I am here to help you and guide you to access your power within you to take control of your life and begin the process of healing to move forward. With a non-judgmental and compassionate presence, I will offer support needed for you to carefully work through challenges and experience healing to begin living a more satisfying life.
Have you found yourself in a difficult or complicated relationship that has caused you to feel anxious, helpless, doubt decisions, or feel broken? Are you having difficulty talking to others about your struggles? Fearing that others may not understand you or judge you. I am here to help you and guide you to access your power within you to take control of your life and begin the process of healing to move forward. With a non-judgmental and compassionate presence, I will offer support needed for you to carefully work through challenges and experience healing to begin living a more satisfying life.
(616) 965-2224 View (616) 965-2224
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Christopher Curry
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ada, MI 49301
Life can be challenging and difficult to navigate, especially without support. During the therapeutic process, I look at how our environment, life experience, and current relationships have an impact on the decisions we make. I work with adults and young adults individually and in couples from all walks of life and belief systems who experience anxiety, depression, trauma, low self-esteem, personality disorders, adjustment issues, anger management, relationship issues, and more by using evidenced-based approaches and interventions/techniques.
Life can be challenging and difficult to navigate, especially without support. During the therapeutic process, I look at how our environment, life experience, and current relationships have an impact on the decisions we make. I work with adults and young adults individually and in couples from all walks of life and belief systems who experience anxiety, depression, trauma, low self-esteem, personality disorders, adjustment issues, anger management, relationship issues, and more by using evidenced-based approaches and interventions/techniques.
(616) 421-9584 View (616) 421-9584
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Cheryl L. Cooper
Counselor, MA, LPC, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ada, MI 49301
Waitlist for new clients
When working with couples and families, I primarily use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Gottman Method Therapy.
We all face challenges, but we don't need to face them alone. When you struggle with relationship issues, depression/anxiety, or other personal crises, you may feel alone, stuck, and helpless. As your therapist, I will come alongside you and help you to move forward with a greater sense of well-being and empowerment.
When working with couples and families, I primarily use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Gottman Method Therapy.
We all face challenges, but we don't need to face them alone. When you struggle with relationship issues, depression/anxiety, or other personal crises, you may feel alone, stuck, and helpless. As your therapist, I will come alongside you and help you to move forward with a greater sense of well-being and empowerment.
(616) 432-2665 View (616) 432-2665
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Jerry Paredes
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Ada, MI 49301
Whether it be the relationship we have with ourselves, or with friends, partners, and family members.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, having relationship difficulties, or possibly trying to overcome an addiction? Contemplating whether or not therapy can help? Let me say, this is the moment to do something different in your life. Whether you feel that your relationship is stuck in the same repetitive pattern; or trying to overcome an addiction; or maybe having difficulties in day-to-day life due to prior traumatic experiences. I can help you gain a better understanding of not only how trauma impacts our daily functioning; but how relationships work, and how problems can be resolved in even the most challenging situations.
Whether it be the relationship we have with ourselves, or with friends, partners, and family members.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, having relationship difficulties, or possibly trying to overcome an addiction? Contemplating whether or not therapy can help? Let me say, this is the moment to do something different in your life. Whether you feel that your relationship is stuck in the same repetitive pattern; or trying to overcome an addiction; or maybe having difficulties in day-to-day life due to prior traumatic experiences. I can help you gain a better understanding of not only how trauma impacts our daily functioning; but how relationships work, and how problems can be resolved in even the most challenging situations.
(616) 512-0979 View (616) 512-0979
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Jessica Cieslak
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LLMSW
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Ada, MI 49301  (Online Only)
My name is Jess (she/her) and I specialize in creating a safe, comfortable, supportive virtual environment. I am also proudly an LGBTQIA+ ally! During our sessions, we'll explore your life experiences and learn how the brain plays a crucial role in emotional expression and regulation. Together, we'll work to improve the quality of your relationship with yourself and others while honing skills to regulate your nervous system. Feel free to reach out and schedule a consultation!
My name is Jess (she/her) and I specialize in creating a safe, comfortable, supportive virtual environment. I am also proudly an LGBTQIA+ ally! During our sessions, we'll explore your life experiences and learn how the brain plays a crucial role in emotional expression and regulation. Together, we'll work to improve the quality of your relationship with yourself and others while honing skills to regulate your nervous system. Feel free to reach out and schedule a consultation!
(616) 208-5520 View (616) 208-5520
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Timothy D. Van Antwerp
Pre-Licensed Professional, LLMSW, QIDP, ISC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ada, MI 49301  (Online Only)
Im a special needs parent, a veteran of both the US Marine Corps and the Michigan National Guard, a divorcee, grew up in a loving yet sometimes abusive home, and found myself in more than one overly dramatic relationship.
Let's get to work and get you where you want to be. I'm here to provide options, ideas, solutions, and the strategies to help get you there. I like to use the term "level up", as a description of honing the strengths you already have and broadening perception. We can redefine and refine those skills and explore new approaches and explore cognitive tools that you can incorporate in your personal development journey. I use a combination of Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), and Motivational Interviewing in a strengths-based, solution focused format. Time to level up to your best self, you got this!
Im a special needs parent, a veteran of both the US Marine Corps and the Michigan National Guard, a divorcee, grew up in a loving yet sometimes abusive home, and found myself in more than one overly dramatic relationship.
Let's get to work and get you where you want to be. I'm here to provide options, ideas, solutions, and the strategies to help get you there. I like to use the term "level up", as a description of honing the strengths you already have and broadening perception. We can redefine and refine those skills and explore new approaches and explore cognitive tools that you can incorporate in your personal development journey. I use a combination of Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), and Motivational Interviewing in a strengths-based, solution focused format. Time to level up to your best self, you got this!
(616) 947-3803 View (616) 947-3803
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Take Root Wellness
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, RYT500
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ada, MI 49301  (Online Only)
Neurodivergence and spirituality are largely misunderstood in American culture and therapy is no exception. You deserve to be seen and understood. Together we can figure out how to get from where you are to a more peaceful life with more flow. If you want to play an active role in your healing and want to engage in therapy specifically created for you that feels authentic and practical, I’m here for you. Autism, chronic pain, ADHD anxiety, (complex) trauma, religious trauma, sleep issues, relationship issues, stress, grief, parenting, and depression are a few of my focus areas. LGBTQIA+ friendly. I also specialize in attachment.
Neurodivergence and spirituality are largely misunderstood in American culture and therapy is no exception. You deserve to be seen and understood. Together we can figure out how to get from where you are to a more peaceful life with more flow. If you want to play an active role in your healing and want to engage in therapy specifically created for you that feels authentic and practical, I’m here for you. Autism, chronic pain, ADHD anxiety, (complex) trauma, religious trauma, sleep issues, relationship issues, stress, grief, parenting, and depression are a few of my focus areas. LGBTQIA+ friendly. I also specialize in attachment.
(989) 585-0625 View (989) 585-0625
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Melissa Ann Coughlin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Ada, MI 49301  (Online Only)
I have extensive experience with individual, marital and couples counseling.
Welcome! My name is Melissa and I am a therapist with openings this week! My passion is helping and supporting individuals navigate life's challenges and achieve emotional well-being! My therapeutic approach is rooted in empathy, respect, and collaboration. I utilize a combination of evidence-based practices, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and mindfulness techniques to tailor my sessions to the unique needs of each client. Let's face it - who wants to sit in an uncomfortable waiting room? Be in the relaxed setting of your own home, surrounding by what makes you comfortable throughout your therapeutic experience.
I have extensive experience with individual, marital and couples counseling.
Welcome! My name is Melissa and I am a therapist with openings this week! My passion is helping and supporting individuals navigate life's challenges and achieve emotional well-being! My therapeutic approach is rooted in empathy, respect, and collaboration. I utilize a combination of evidence-based practices, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and mindfulness techniques to tailor my sessions to the unique needs of each client. Let's face it - who wants to sit in an uncomfortable waiting room? Be in the relaxed setting of your own home, surrounding by what makes you comfortable throughout your therapeutic experience.
(616) 585-0244 View (616) 585-0244
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Becky Mills
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, JD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ada, MI 49301
Circumstances are building and you fear that its weight will eventually grow to crush and consume you. You have so much to manage and yet you long to just let go of it all. You’re ready for a change, but it is terrifying. To face it may cause you to crumble, nevertheless, you will yourself to get through each day. If this sounds familiar and you wish to do more than get by, it is possible to flourish again. I aim to create a safe and empowering environment built upon a trusting therapeutic relationship so you can successfully heal from anxiety, depression, trauma, and grief and work toward thriving in your daily life.
Circumstances are building and you fear that its weight will eventually grow to crush and consume you. You have so much to manage and yet you long to just let go of it all. You’re ready for a change, but it is terrifying. To face it may cause you to crumble, nevertheless, you will yourself to get through each day. If this sounds familiar and you wish to do more than get by, it is possible to flourish again. I aim to create a safe and empowering environment built upon a trusting therapeutic relationship so you can successfully heal from anxiety, depression, trauma, and grief and work toward thriving in your daily life.
(616) 537-2805 View (616) 537-2805
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Turnabout Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Ada, MI 49301
I work with parents, teenagers, couples, and individuals.
Trying to save a relationship before it's too late? Is your teenager struggling with depression, anxiety, or making healthy decisions? Want a counselor who helps you decide what to do next instead of telling you what you're doing wrong? Maybe you're just tired of your current situation but not quite sure what to do to change it? I don't dwell on your past so I can explain how your parents screwed you up. I help you develop a clear idea of what changes you want and how to make those changes happen. Think coaching, not counseling.
I work with parents, teenagers, couples, and individuals.
Trying to save a relationship before it's too late? Is your teenager struggling with depression, anxiety, or making healthy decisions? Want a counselor who helps you decide what to do next instead of telling you what you're doing wrong? Maybe you're just tired of your current situation but not quite sure what to do to change it? I don't dwell on your past so I can explain how your parents screwed you up. I help you develop a clear idea of what changes you want and how to make those changes happen. Think coaching, not counseling.
(616) 227-4896 View (616) 227-4896
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Shaina McPhetridge
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, RYT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Ada, MI 49301
Life can lead us down some pretty confusing paths sometimes, leaving us feeling crazy, unsettled, and totally lost. You don't have to feel like this forever. I work with individuals, couples, and teens who need relief - from PTSD, negative beliefs, anxiety, panic and stress, relationship problems, and other unresolved issues that continue to impact your current life. Many of my clients are insightful, curious, growth-oriented people who are seeking something beyond traditional therapy. My focus is on helping you to unpack the weight you've been carrying over the years and free up whatever it is that seems to be stuck.
Life can lead us down some pretty confusing paths sometimes, leaving us feeling crazy, unsettled, and totally lost. You don't have to feel like this forever. I work with individuals, couples, and teens who need relief - from PTSD, negative beliefs, anxiety, panic and stress, relationship problems, and other unresolved issues that continue to impact your current life. Many of my clients are insightful, curious, growth-oriented people who are seeking something beyond traditional therapy. My focus is on helping you to unpack the weight you've been carrying over the years and free up whatever it is that seems to be stuck.
(310) 935-3665 View (310) 935-3665
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Katerina Guerrero
Counselor, LLPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ada, MI 49301
I view our therapeutic relationship through a trauma-informed lens, built on trust, empathy, and respect for who you are.
Greetings, I’m Katerina, a culturally sensitive therapist dedicated to creating a safe space for you to explore your inner world. My approach is integrative and holistic, aiming to foster introspection and self-acceptance without judgment. I understand that each person’s healing journey is unique, shaped by their life experiences and how they relate to themselves and others.In our work together, I will strive to meet you where you are, and aid in guiding you to discover the answers within yourself. My commitment is to provide you with holistic care that respects your diverse identities and experiences, offering the support you need.
I view our therapeutic relationship through a trauma-informed lens, built on trust, empathy, and respect for who you are.
Greetings, I’m Katerina, a culturally sensitive therapist dedicated to creating a safe space for you to explore your inner world. My approach is integrative and holistic, aiming to foster introspection and self-acceptance without judgment. I understand that each person’s healing journey is unique, shaped by their life experiences and how they relate to themselves and others.In our work together, I will strive to meet you where you are, and aid in guiding you to discover the answers within yourself. My commitment is to provide you with holistic care that respects your diverse identities and experiences, offering the support you need.
(616) 229-2760 View (616) 229-2760
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Gary Watson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Ada, MI 49301
This is Solution Focused Counseling and it works for couples, teens, individuals, and families.
Sad, Worried, and Stubborn Teenagers; Rocky Relationships; Worried Parents; and Stressed Individuals. These are the people I help. You probably already know what the problem is and what you don’t want anymore. You don’t want to be sad, you don’t want to be in this rut, or you're tired of arguing with your teenager or spouse about the same things over and over. Trying to solve it yourself can be like trying to eat a huge pizza that hasn’t been cut into slices-- it's overwhelming and you don’t know where to start. My job is to help you break the solution into pieces so you can decide where to start and what your next steps are.
This is Solution Focused Counseling and it works for couples, teens, individuals, and families.
Sad, Worried, and Stubborn Teenagers; Rocky Relationships; Worried Parents; and Stressed Individuals. These are the people I help. You probably already know what the problem is and what you don’t want anymore. You don’t want to be sad, you don’t want to be in this rut, or you're tired of arguing with your teenager or spouse about the same things over and over. Trying to solve it yourself can be like trying to eat a huge pizza that hasn’t been cut into slices-- it's overwhelming and you don’t know where to start. My job is to help you break the solution into pieces so you can decide where to start and what your next steps are.
(616) 548-6138 View (616) 548-6138
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Thomas Richard Stewart
Limited Licensed Psychologist, MA, LLP
Verified Verified
Ada, MI 49301
I have helped couples relate to each other in more intimate and meaningful ways.
I have been a psychotherapist for the past 15+ years and really enjoy my job. I have been able to meet a lot of interesting people and help others with a variety of problems. I strive to offer opportunities for people to live more authentic and meaningful lives and have deeper more intimate relationships. I do not offer shallow advice, easy solutions, false hopes, or pat answers; only a commitment to journey with you in the most authentic and compassionate ways I know how.
I have helped couples relate to each other in more intimate and meaningful ways.
I have been a psychotherapist for the past 15+ years and really enjoy my job. I have been able to meet a lot of interesting people and help others with a variety of problems. I strive to offer opportunities for people to live more authentic and meaningful lives and have deeper more intimate relationships. I do not offer shallow advice, easy solutions, false hopes, or pat answers; only a commitment to journey with you in the most authentic and compassionate ways I know how.
(616) 520-4196 View (616) 520-4196
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Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.