Marriage Counseling Therapists in New Orleans, LA
Julee Breaux
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BACS
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70130 (Online Only)
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 19 years of experience. I graduated with a Masters of Social Work degree in 2004 from Southern University at New Orleans. I have worked in various settings providing individual, group, marriage and family therapy to individuals of all ages and populations facing a variety of challenges. I am here to help you on your journey to achieving your goals and living your best life.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 19 years of experience. I graduated with a Masters of Social Work degree in 2004 from Southern University at New Orleans. I have worked in various settings providing individual, group, marriage and family therapy to individuals of all ages and populations facing a variety of challenges. I am here to help you on your journey to achieving your goals and living your best life.
Sankofa Center, Inc
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, BACS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New Orleans, LA 70112
Specialize in Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, couples counseling, Marriage and Family Therapy, Domestic Violence Counseling, Adoption Counseling, Critical Incidence Stress Management, Employment, Divorce and Couples Mediation.
Call or Email Larry Hayes for a consultation now - Qualifications * Years in Practice: 25+ * School:Southern University at New Orleans * Year Graduated: 1986 * License No. and State: 3184 LA. Finances * Avg Cost (per session): $80 - $100 * Sliding Scale: Yes Payments : Cash, Check, Insurance Plans: Magellan Health Services, IBH, BlueCrossBlueShield, TriCare, Wellcom, United Health Care, Mental Health Network, Ullance Behavior Health Value Options, United New Directions Health Care, Medicare and Medicaid, Treating * Loss or Grief * Self Esteem * Trauma and PTSD: * Bipolar Disorder *Adoptions Personality Disorders * Gender: *Adolescents / Teenagers (14 to 19) * Adults * Cognitive Behavioral (CBT) * Family/ Marital Therapy *
Specialize in Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, couples counseling, Marriage and Family Therapy, Domestic Violence Counseling, Adoption Counseling, Critical Incidence Stress Management, Employment, Divorce and Couples Mediation.
Call or Email Larry Hayes for a consultation now - Qualifications * Years in Practice: 25+ * School:Southern University at New Orleans * Year Graduated: 1986 * License No. and State: 3184 LA. Finances * Avg Cost (per session): $80 - $100 * Sliding Scale: Yes Payments : Cash, Check, Insurance Plans: Magellan Health Services, IBH, BlueCrossBlueShield, TriCare, Wellcom, United Health Care, Mental Health Network, Ullance Behavior Health Value Options, United New Directions Health Care, Medicare and Medicaid, Treating * Loss or Grief * Self Esteem * Trauma and PTSD: * Bipolar Disorder *Adoptions Personality Disorders * Gender: *Adolescents / Teenagers (14 to 19) * Adults * Cognitive Behavioral (CBT) * Family/ Marital Therapy *
Dr. Emmanuel Paul
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Orleans, LA 70131 (Online Only)
My areas of specialization include Marital/Relationship therapy, adolescent issues, issues impacting people of color, and Career Counseling.
The ideal therapy client is an individual who actively seeks personal growth and emotional well-being. They may be grappling with various challenges, such as anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, or low self-esteem. What sets them apart is their authentic and sincere desire for change. Ultimately, the ideal client seeks a greater sense of fulfillment and balance in life. They believe in the potential for personal growth and are motivated to achieve a more meaningful existence. They understand that therapy can be a transformative journey that empowers them to lead a life aligned with their values, passions, and purpose.
My areas of specialization include Marital/Relationship therapy, adolescent issues, issues impacting people of color, and Career Counseling.
The ideal therapy client is an individual who actively seeks personal growth and emotional well-being. They may be grappling with various challenges, such as anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, or low self-esteem. What sets them apart is their authentic and sincere desire for change. Ultimately, the ideal client seeks a greater sense of fulfillment and balance in life. They believe in the potential for personal growth and are motivated to achieve a more meaningful existence. They understand that therapy can be a transformative journey that empowers them to lead a life aligned with their values, passions, and purpose.
I treat a variety of issues such as : anxiety, depression, sexual abuse/trauma, grief/loss, adjustment to college and other life transitions (pre- marital, postpartum, separation/divorce), compulsive behavior/addiction, and bi-cultural issues.
My 30+ years of experience as a psychotherapist in New Orleans, along with my own life experience, has provided me with a solid knowledge base and depth which I bring to my work with young adults and adults. I seek to develop a safe and trusting relationship with each client which I believe is the foundation needed to bring about healing and change.
I treat a variety of issues such as : anxiety, depression, sexual abuse/trauma, grief/loss, adjustment to college and other life transitions (pre- marital, postpartum, separation/divorce), compulsive behavior/addiction, and bi-cultural issues.
My 30+ years of experience as a psychotherapist in New Orleans, along with my own life experience, has provided me with a solid knowledge base and depth which I bring to my work with young adults and adults. I seek to develop a safe and trusting relationship with each client which I believe is the foundation needed to bring about healing and change.
Josie Louise White
Licensed Professional Counselor, DBH, MEd, NCC, LPC, LMFT
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70126 (Online Only)
Josie White is a Doctor of Behavioral Health, Nationally Certified Counselor, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and a Licensed Professional Counselor-Supervisor.
JW's Creative Solutions, LLC is a Counseling, Life Coaching and Consulting agency. Our mission is to provide: 1) innovative behavioral health services, 2) case management services and 2) other supportive services to individuals addressing life transitional issues. Our agency works from an eco-systemic perspective, which means that we accept a client's immediate family relationships and larger social context as being important resources in solving life's problems. Goals for therapy are always established through collaboration with the client. The overall objective for therapy is always the successful resolution of the problems that are deemed the most important through that collaborative process.
Josie White is a Doctor of Behavioral Health, Nationally Certified Counselor, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and a Licensed Professional Counselor-Supervisor.
JW's Creative Solutions, LLC is a Counseling, Life Coaching and Consulting agency. Our mission is to provide: 1) innovative behavioral health services, 2) case management services and 2) other supportive services to individuals addressing life transitional issues. Our agency works from an eco-systemic perspective, which means that we accept a client's immediate family relationships and larger social context as being important resources in solving life's problems. Goals for therapy are always established through collaboration with the client. The overall objective for therapy is always the successful resolution of the problems that are deemed the most important through that collaborative process.
I specialize in working with families, single mothers, pre- marital counseling, (certified as a S.Y.B.M.I.S. (Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts) assessor, adolescents issues, and anyone dealing with grief and loss.
I specialize in working with families, single mothers, pre- marital counseling, (certified as a S.Y.B.M.I.S. (Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts) assessor, adolescents issues, and anyone dealing with grief and loss.
Catharine Swain
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Orleans, LA 70118
I find that working in pre- marital counseling is very rewarding.
When I work with clients, my goal is to address the issues that they are currently facing, and strive to create a better atmosphere for them to live, and grow. I have helped clients through depression, and other mood disorders. I have also worked with couples from pre- marital counseling to infidelity and relationship issues. I work from a client-centered orientation, helping you become better versions of you.
I find that working in pre- marital counseling is very rewarding.
When I work with clients, my goal is to address the issues that they are currently facing, and strive to create a better atmosphere for them to live, and grow. I have helped clients through depression, and other mood disorders. I have also worked with couples from pre- marital counseling to infidelity and relationship issues. I work from a client-centered orientation, helping you become better versions of you.
CARE Institute offers various programs including FREE and low-cost teletherapy. Our clinicians approach therapy from a holistic systems perspective to assist clients with learning skills to address life challenges. Clinicians at CARE offer a wide range of expertise to assist clients. Our licensed clinicians are marriage and family therapists (LMFT/PLMFT), professional mental health counselors (LPC/PLPC), and Registered Play Therapists. Our CARE for Y'ALL teletherapy program clinicians are marriage & family therapy graduate students from nationally accredited MFT programs.
CARE Institute offers various programs including FREE and low-cost teletherapy. Our clinicians approach therapy from a holistic systems perspective to assist clients with learning skills to address life challenges. Clinicians at CARE offer a wide range of expertise to assist clients. Our licensed clinicians are marriage and family therapists (LMFT/PLMFT), professional mental health counselors (LPC/PLPC), and Registered Play Therapists. Our CARE for Y'ALL teletherapy program clinicians are marriage & family therapy graduate students from nationally accredited MFT programs.
Monica Cazes, Full Circle Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
New Orleans, LA 70115
I offer marriage/premarital counseling and relationship therapy with a focus on navigating healthy communication, conflict resolution, infidelity and intimacy. I work with a variety of couples and individuals in a safe space where all are welcome and LGBTQ+ clients are encouraged. My approach is empathic, curious, comfortable and compassionate. I believe in meeting my clients where they are to highlight your strengths, preferences, and needs. Reaching out to find a therapist who feels like a good fit can be the hardest part of getting started. I take an active approach in fostering personal growth and self-reflection.
I offer marriage/premarital counseling and relationship therapy with a focus on navigating healthy communication, conflict resolution, infidelity and intimacy. I work with a variety of couples and individuals in a safe space where all are welcome and LGBTQ+ clients are encouraged. My approach is empathic, curious, comfortable and compassionate. I believe in meeting my clients where they are to highlight your strengths, preferences, and needs. Reaching out to find a therapist who feels like a good fit can be the hardest part of getting started. I take an active approach in fostering personal growth and self-reflection.
Dr. Brian S. Canfield, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, EdD, LPC, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Orleans, LA 70112
My practice specializes in marriage counseling and couple therapy. I also work with individuals on a wide-range of mental health, career transition, problematic sexual behaviors, substance use, and life transition issues. Effective August 1, 2024; my clinical activities will be conducted through the LSU Health Sciences Center New Orleans - either in person at the LSU Health Child and Family Counseling Center in New Orleans or through TeleHealth on Zoom to clients throughout Louisiana, Florida, and Arkansas..
My practice specializes in marriage counseling and couple therapy. I also work with individuals on a wide-range of mental health, career transition, problematic sexual behaviors, substance use, and life transition issues. Effective August 1, 2024; my clinical activities will be conducted through the LSU Health Sciences Center New Orleans - either in person at the LSU Health Child and Family Counseling Center in New Orleans or through TeleHealth on Zoom to clients throughout Louisiana, Florida, and Arkansas..
BACH Therapeutic Counseling Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DSW, LCSW, BACS
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70127
Relationship/ Marriage Problems? Do you feel like your significant other is not on the same page with you - that he or she is not hearing you? Building and maintaining a healthy relationship requires love, commitment, communication, trust and respect. BACH clinician, Dr. Michael L. Benjamin-Robinson has several years of experience assisting couples navigate through complex relationship issues. He possess the necessary facilitation skills to mediate a fair and balanced dialogue that is constructive as well as therapeutic.
Relationship/ Marriage Problems? Do you feel like your significant other is not on the same page with you - that he or she is not hearing you? Building and maintaining a healthy relationship requires love, commitment, communication, trust and respect. BACH clinician, Dr. Michael L. Benjamin-Robinson has several years of experience assisting couples navigate through complex relationship issues. He possess the necessary facilitation skills to mediate a fair and balanced dialogue that is constructive as well as therapeutic.
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Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, NCC, LPC, CCTP
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70129 (Online Only)
It is my privilege and gift to empower couples and individuals as they navigate life. My background as a school counselor, substance abuse, drug court and corrections counselor along with community behavioral health counseling and assessing lends to a full service therapeutic process with me. Considering marriage? Married and feeling stuck/frustrated? Do you have a child with behavioral/emotional challenges? Want to boost your self-esteem and become the most empowered version of self? Together we can create realistic and attainable treatment goals to unlock your desires.
It is my privilege and gift to empower couples and individuals as they navigate life. My background as a school counselor, substance abuse, drug court and corrections counselor along with community behavioral health counseling and assessing lends to a full service therapeutic process with me. Considering marriage? Married and feeling stuck/frustrated? Do you have a child with behavioral/emotional challenges? Want to boost your self-esteem and become the most empowered version of self? Together we can create realistic and attainable treatment goals to unlock your desires.
Daniela Zapata
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, MFT, LPC
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70119
As a marriage and family therapist, I am trained to assist partners to navigate and overcoming adversity.
Congratulations! You have taken the first and most difficult step on your journey to a healthier you. As you begin, know that two things are certain. You are not the problem, and neither is your loved one. Your problem is the problem. I enjoy helping people navigate “problems” and overcoming them. I consider myself a mental health advocate but not in a traditional way. As a therapist, I advocate on behalf of the people in the room; even if I am advocating for you on behalf of yourself. I am here to destigmatize mental health illness and redirect the focus to mental health awareness.
As a marriage and family therapist, I am trained to assist partners to navigate and overcoming adversity.
Congratulations! You have taken the first and most difficult step on your journey to a healthier you. As you begin, know that two things are certain. You are not the problem, and neither is your loved one. Your problem is the problem. I enjoy helping people navigate “problems” and overcoming them. I consider myself a mental health advocate but not in a traditional way. As a therapist, I advocate on behalf of the people in the room; even if I am advocating for you on behalf of yourself. I am here to destigmatize mental health illness and redirect the focus to mental health awareness.
Bracely Williams
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPC
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70131 (Online Only)
Bracely is committed to helping you navigate through the challenges of life. She specializes in helping her clients overcome difficult issues, so that they can live purposeful and joy-filled lives. She has experience working with individuals, couples, children, adolescents, and adults dealing with emotional, spiritual, behavioral, and relationship concerns. Bracely offers individual, couple and family services. She works with a variety of presenting issues, including child behavior, grief, trauma, anxiety management, stress management, self-esteem, LGBTQ, marital conflict, occupational concerns and athletic/sports counseling.
Bracely is committed to helping you navigate through the challenges of life. She specializes in helping her clients overcome difficult issues, so that they can live purposeful and joy-filled lives. She has experience working with individuals, couples, children, adolescents, and adults dealing with emotional, spiritual, behavioral, and relationship concerns. Bracely offers individual, couple and family services. She works with a variety of presenting issues, including child behavior, grief, trauma, anxiety management, stress management, self-esteem, LGBTQ, marital conflict, occupational concerns and athletic/sports counseling.
Garry Eldridge
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPC-S, CSAT
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70121
Garry is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Licensed Professional Counselor-Supervisor, Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist, Certified Multiple Addiction Therapist, Emotionally Focused Therapy-trained, and Certified Partner Trauma Therapist.
Are you at the end of your rope? Is your partner at the end of his/her rope with you? Have you let go of the rope? Has your partner? Garry knows exactly where you are, & what a dark, helpless, panicked place that is. He has the tools and expertise to assist you on your journey to find balance, healing, & freedom. He has also been a life-long learner & student of his own life’s journey, with all of the bumps, bruises, mistakes, growth, & change that is part of the healing process. As a result, Garry is uniquely equipped to walk beside you, guide & coach you to finding your Authentic Self lost in the chaos of sexual addiction.
Garry is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Licensed Professional Counselor-Supervisor, Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist, Certified Multiple Addiction Therapist, Emotionally Focused Therapy-trained, and Certified Partner Trauma Therapist.
Are you at the end of your rope? Is your partner at the end of his/her rope with you? Have you let go of the rope? Has your partner? Garry knows exactly where you are, & what a dark, helpless, panicked place that is. He has the tools and expertise to assist you on your journey to find balance, healing, & freedom. He has also been a life-long learner & student of his own life’s journey, with all of the bumps, bruises, mistakes, growth, & change that is part of the healing process. As a result, Garry is uniquely equipped to walk beside you, guide & coach you to finding your Authentic Self lost in the chaos of sexual addiction.
Dean Sunseri
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, MEd, LPC, DMin
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Orleans, LA 70124
Seeking Professional Therapy by a Licensed Counselor? Marriage Problems, Relationship problems, depression, anxiety or substance abuse? Dean Sunseri, LPC, has been a Licensed Professional Counselor for over 17 years. He is available to help you!
"Dean guided me to a new freedom which has changed my life forever. The tools of his process are the light in my darkness & it works. If you're looking for guidance, you're in the right place." (John B.)
Seeking Professional Therapy by a Licensed Counselor? Marriage Problems, Relationship problems, depression, anxiety or substance abuse? Dean Sunseri, LPC, has been a Licensed Professional Counselor for over 17 years. He is available to help you!
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L'Toya F. Brumfield
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Orleans, LA 70119
Waitlist for new clients
My specialization is marriage and family counseling.
In life we are faced with unpredictable obstacles that are discouraging. I believe that having a willingness to work towards skillfully addressing these obstacles can be rewarding. I believe that even with the challenges of life, we can be resilient, discover a greater sense of our inner self, and improve in ways that are unimaginable. Our life journeys are unique, but meaningful and purposeful. We will work together to strengthen family communication, maneuver life transitions/conflicts within yourself and/or with family members, significant others, adolescent/adult children, and extended family.
My specialization is marriage and family counseling.
In life we are faced with unpredictable obstacles that are discouraging. I believe that having a willingness to work towards skillfully addressing these obstacles can be rewarding. I believe that even with the challenges of life, we can be resilient, discover a greater sense of our inner self, and improve in ways that are unimaginable. Our life journeys are unique, but meaningful and purposeful. We will work together to strengthen family communication, maneuver life transitions/conflicts within yourself and/or with family members, significant others, adolescent/adult children, and extended family.
Valeria Rodriguez
Pre-Licensed Professional, PLMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Orleans, LA 70130
My name is Valeria Rodriguez, and I am a Provisionally Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I graduated with a Master of Arts in Counseling from New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary in 2023 and a Bachelor of Science in Education in 2020. My practice is to provide compassionate care for individuals 15 years and older, couples, and families navigating with mood disorders, anxiety disorders, relationship misalignment, and PTSD. My therapeutic approaches include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT), and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). I am also fluent in both English and Spanish.
My name is Valeria Rodriguez, and I am a Provisionally Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I graduated with a Master of Arts in Counseling from New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary in 2023 and a Bachelor of Science in Education in 2020. My practice is to provide compassionate care for individuals 15 years and older, couples, and families navigating with mood disorders, anxiety disorders, relationship misalignment, and PTSD. My therapeutic approaches include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT), and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). I am also fluent in both English and Spanish.
Susan Falcon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70122 (Online Only)
I offer ONLINE and PHONE counseling. After 25 years in practice, I read John Gottman's best selling book "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work". I was intrigued and attended a Level One Gottman training in San Francisco. It was fortunate that this was a training with both John and Julie Gottman - I was hooked on the Gottman Method of couple counseling and embarked on the intensive 2 year training necessary to obtain certification in the Gottman method. The Gottmans are at the leading edge of thought in the field of couple counseling. Their methods are based on 40 years of research with thousands of couples.
I offer ONLINE and PHONE counseling. After 25 years in practice, I read John Gottman's best selling book "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work". I was intrigued and attended a Level One Gottman training in San Francisco. It was fortunate that this was a training with both John and Julie Gottman - I was hooked on the Gottman Method of couple counseling and embarked on the intensive 2 year training necessary to obtain certification in the Gottman method. The Gottmans are at the leading edge of thought in the field of couple counseling. Their methods are based on 40 years of research with thousands of couples.
Dr. Fatima La'Juan Muse
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, MedFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
New Orleans, LA 70115 (Online Only)
Have you found yourself struggling with life stressors such as fertility problems, chronic illness, marital discord, relationship infidelity, or even difficulty making major decisions? If so, therapy is right for you. Are you blissfully happy and seeking pre- marital counseling with a future spouse? If so, therapy is right for you too! These incentives for counseling have one common thread, a desire to pinpoint areas where you are "stuck", guard against potential threats to your relationship harmony, improve your life, improve your relationship, and become the best version of yourself.
Have you found yourself struggling with life stressors such as fertility problems, chronic illness, marital discord, relationship infidelity, or even difficulty making major decisions? If so, therapy is right for you. Are you blissfully happy and seeking pre- marital counseling with a future spouse? If so, therapy is right for you too! These incentives for counseling have one common thread, a desire to pinpoint areas where you are "stuck", guard against potential threats to your relationship harmony, improve your life, improve your relationship, and become the best version of yourself.
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Marriage Counseling Therapists
How does marriage counseling work?
Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.
How long does marriage counseling typically last?
Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.
Is marriage counseling effective?
Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.
Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?
Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.